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Dildo Whisperer
Hosted by Romaine Patterson · EN
The Dildo Whisperer is where people go to get the sex education that their schools refused to give them and their parents were too embarrassed to discuss. This is sex education that is inclusive, inspiring and transformative! Listeners have the opportunity to ask questions, hear sex toy reviews and get insight from some of the top sexperts in the country. Hosted by Romaine Patterson and produced by DNR Studios.
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Mastering Pleasure: Parker Woods & The Great BateWorld BateOff
1w ago00:48:21Tap to summarizeMay is Masturbation Month, and we're celebrating by diving headfirst into the world of self-pleasure, stigma, and sexual self-discovery. This week on The Dildo Whisperer, we're joined by Parker Woods—the reigning "Master Bator" turned host of the hit reality series The Great BateWorld BateOff on BateWorld. Parker takes us behind the scenes of Season 5, where five contestants compete in inventive (and sometimes surprising) challenges like "Hands Free" and "Mirror Bate," all in pursuit of the ultimate title. But this conversation goes beyond the show—exploring how masturbation intersects with confidence, shame, body awareness, and sexual health. We unpack why self-pleasure is still taboo, how communities like BateWorld are changing the narrative, and what people can learn from embracing their own pleasure without guilt. Whether you're curious, cautious, or already celebrating Masturbation Month in full force, this episode is equal parts fun, informative, and affirming. New episodes of The Great BateWorld BateOff premiere every Friday at 12 AM ET, exclusively on BateWorld.com.
Transcribe →When Regular Porn Stops Doing It for You — Escalation, Extreme Kinks, and Dopamine Chasing
2w ago00:48:59Tap to summarizeHave you ever noticed that the porn you used to watch doesn't excite you anymore — and you start looking for more extreme or unusual content just to feel turned on? In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we talk about porn tolerance, dopamine, escalation, and why the brain starts chasing novelty. From niche fetishes to taboo fantasies, we explore why this happens, when it becomes a problem, and how to find balance without shame. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
Transcribe →Cuckolding — Fantasy, Fetish, and the Psychology Behind It
3w ago01:04:11Tap to summarizeCuckolding is one of the most misunderstood fantasies in modern sexuality. Is it about humiliation? Power? Trust? Jealousy? In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we break down what cuckolding actually is, why some people are turned on by it, and how consent, communication, and emotional safety make the difference between a healthy kink and a harmful situation. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
Transcribe →Types: Are the People We're Attracted To Based on Preference… or Prejudice?
Apr 2900:52:05Tap to summarizeWe all say we have a "type" — but where does that type come from? In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we explore the difference between personal preference and social prejudice when it comes to attraction. Are we drawn to certain people because of chemistry, comfort, culture, or conditioning? And how can having a rigid type impact who we choose to date — for better or worse? This episode dives into psychology, bias, dating patterns, and how understanding your attraction can lead to healthier relationships. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
Transcribe →Breasts, Beer, and Body Image: Hooters, Twin Peaks, and the Sexualization Debate
Apr 2200:47:45Tap to summarizeIn this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we talk about Hooters, Twin Peaks, and other "breastaurant" style restaurants — and the bigger conversation they raise about body image, sexualization, and cultural expectations for women. Are these places harmless fun for adults, or do they reinforce unrealistic beauty standards that affect how women see themselves? We explore the difference between sexual expression and objectification, the impact on young women, and how to talk about these issues without shaming the people who work in these environments. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
Transcribe →Getting Comfortable: What Happens When We "Let Ourselves Go" in Relationships?
Apr 1501:01:31Tap to summarizeWhat does it really mean when people say someone has "let themselves go" in a relationship? In this episode, we unpack the complicated mix of comfort, attraction, body changes, and effort that comes with long-term partnerships. Is getting comfortable a sign of emotional safety—or relationship complacency? We explore the pros and cons of settling in, how cultural expectations shape our views on attraction, and how couples can maintain desire without unrealistic pressure. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
Transcribe →Sexual History & Dating — Does Your Number of Previous Partners Matter?
Apr 801:02:23Tap to summarizeDoes your number of previous partners matter when it comes to dating? In this episode of the Dildo Whisperer, we talk about body count, sexual history, double standards, insecurity, and how past experiences can (and can't) impact relationships. We explore why people care, when it's relevant, and how to talk about your sexual past without shame, pressure, or judgment. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
Transcribe →Music To Bang To- ENCORE
Apr 100:36:11Tap to summarizeIn this encore episode- One of our listeners sent in a topic idea and this week the Dildo Whisperer and Ajay discuss how music can enhance the sexual experience. Find out what makes a great sex playlist and how to make one! Plus, learn about why music is such an important tool in your sex tool box. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
Transcribe →Finding Pleasure in Pain – Part 6 Aftercare: Physical and Emotional Care After Pain Play
Mar 2500:39:35Tap to summarizeAftercare is not optional—it's part of the play. In Part 5 of the Finding Pleasure in Pain series, we're talking about aftercare: the physical and emotional support that helps bodies and minds recover after pain play. From hydration, warmth, and first aid basics to reassurance, emotional presence, and post-scene check-ins, this episode explores why aftercare is essential—not extra. We'll unpack common post-scene experiences like sub-drop and Dom-drop, how to negotiate aftercare before a scene, what to do when aftercare is missed or mismatched, and why self-aftercare matters too. Whether you're new to pain play or deep into kink, this episode centers consent, care, and connection as foundations of pleasure. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
Transcribe →Finding Pleasure in Pain: Part 5- What It Means Emotionally
Mar 1800:57:16Tap to summarizePain doesn't just live in the body—it can move emotions, unlock release, and create powerful moments of connection. In this episode of Finding Pleasure in Pain, we explore what it means emotionally to find pleasure in pain and why this experience is so meaningful for many people. We talk about emotional release, control and surrender, grounding, trust, and intimacy, as well as how power exchange and consent shape these experiences. This conversation also gently addresses the complexity of pain, trauma, and choice—without assuming that kink is about being "broken" or needing to be fixed. Whether pain helps you feel present, connected, cared for, or simply alive, this episode invites curiosity, compassion, and reflection around the emotional layers of pain-based pleasure. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
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