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Dildo Whisperer
Hosted by Romaine Patterson · EN
The Dildo Whisperer is where people go to get the sex education that their schools refused to give them and their parents were too embarrassed to discuss. This is sex education that is inclusive, inspiring and transformative! Listeners have the opportunity to ask questions, hear sex toy reviews and get insight from some of the top sexperts in the country. Hosted by Romaine Patterson and produced by DNR Studios.
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Too Fast, Too Furious: Understanding Premature Ejaculation
2w ago01:03:11Tap to summarizeHow long is sex supposed to last, anyway? And what exactly counts as premature ejaculation? In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we're tackling one of the most common—and most misunderstood—sexual concerns: premature ejaculation (PE). Whether you've experienced it yourself, have a partner who has, or you're simply curious about the science behind it, we're separating fact from fiction and taking the shame out of the conversation. We'll explore what premature ejaculation actually is, why it happens, and how anxiety, stress, biology, and unrealistic expectations can all play a role. You'll learn practical techniques that may help improve control, discover treatment options, and hear why lasting longer isn't necessarily the key to better sex. Plus, we answer listener questions about masturbation habits, edging, condoms, performance anxiety, and whether PE can develop later in life. If you've ever worried about finishing too quickly, this episode is for you. Remember: great sex isn't measured with a stopwatch. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer—helping you have smarter, healthier, and more satisfying conversations about sex. The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios
Transcribe →Dear Dildo Whisperer- Your Questions Answered
3w ago00:53:29Tap to summarizePack your bags — and maybe your carry-on toy cleaner — because this week on The Dildo Whisperer, we're diving into your listener questions! We're talking about the dos and don'ts of traveling with sex toys, how to navigate airport security without dying of embarrassment, and what you should know before packing chastity devices or prostate toys for your next adventure. We also explore the fascinating — and surprisingly controversial — medical history of the vibrator, including how these devices were once marketed as respectable wellness tools long before they became symbols of sexual empowerment. Along the way, we answer your questions about safety, pleasure, stigma, discretion, and why sexual curiosity has always found a way to travel through history. Whether you're a frequent flyer, a toy collector, or just love weird sex history, this episode has something buzzing for everyone. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios
Transcribe →Harder Better Faster Longer?
4w ago00:47:24Tap to summarizeErectile dysfunction medications like Viagra and Cialis are more common than ever — but how much do we really know about them? This week on The Dildo Whisperer, we dive deep into the world of ED medications: how they work, why people use them recreationally, the pressures surrounding sexual performance, and the very real health risks that can come with misuse. We also tackle one of the most important harm reduction conversations in queer nightlife and hookup culture: the dangerous combination of ED drugs and poppers. Why is this mix so common, and why can it become medically dangerous so quickly? Along the way, we unpack shame, masculinity, aging, anxiety, porn culture, and the myth that erections define sexual worth. Because great sex isn't about perfection — it's about communication, pleasure, connection, and safety. Come for the hard truths. Stay for the safer sex education. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios
Transcribe →Is It Cheating If They're Only in Your Head?
Jun 1001:21:59Tap to summarizeThis week on The Dildo Whisperer, we're diving into one of the messiest modern relationship questions: Is it cheating if it only happens in your head? Is fantasizing about an ex during masturbation crossing a line? What about during sex with your current partner? We explore the emotional grey areas of relationships, including emotional affairs, online flirting, secret texting, social media behavior, and the complicated space between fantasy and betrayal. Cheating isn't always physical anymore — and every relationship defines boundaries differently. This episode unpacks why these topics trigger such strong reactions, how secrecy changes the equation, and why communication may matter more than the fantasy itself. Honest, uncomfortable, funny, and deeply relatable — this is a conversation almost everyone has thought about… but few people openly admit. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios
Transcribe →Close Encounters of the Sexy Kind: Alien Sex Fantasies
Jun 300:58:25Tap to summarizeThis week on The Dildo Whisperer, we're blasting off into the strange, sexy, and surprisingly common world of alien sex fantasies. From alien impregnation storylines and futuristic pleasure devices to tentacles, abduction roleplay, and sci-fi seduction, we explore why the unknown can be such a powerful turn-on. What do these fantasies reveal about curiosity, transformation, power, and human desire? Why do so many people find freedom in imagining sex beyond the limits of humanity? And how has pop culture shaped our fascination with extraterrestrial intimacy? Join us for a fun, open-minded conversation about one of sexuality's most imaginative frontiers. Because when it comes to fantasy… humans are definitely not staying on this planet. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios
Transcribe →Late Bloomers: Coming Out Later in Life
May 2700:45:23Tap to summarizeComing out isn't just for teenagers—it happens every day, at every age. In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we explore what it means to come out later in life: the fear, the freedom, the grief, and the sexual awakening that can follow. Whether you're navigating this journey yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode offers compassion, real talk, and a reminder that it's never too late to live your truth. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
Transcribe →Mastering Pleasure: Parker Woods & The Great BateWorld BateOff
May 2000:48:21Tap to summarizeMay is Masturbation Month, and we're celebrating by diving headfirst into the world of self-pleasure, stigma, and sexual self-discovery. This week on The Dildo Whisperer, we're joined by Parker Woods—the reigning "Master Bator" turned host of the hit reality series The Great BateWorld BateOff on BateWorld. Parker takes us behind the scenes of Season 5, where five contestants compete in inventive (and sometimes surprising) challenges like "Hands Free" and "Mirror Bate," all in pursuit of the ultimate title. But this conversation goes beyond the show—exploring how masturbation intersects with confidence, shame, body awareness, and sexual health. We unpack why self-pleasure is still taboo, how communities like BateWorld are changing the narrative, and what people can learn from embracing their own pleasure without guilt. Whether you're curious, cautious, or already celebrating Masturbation Month in full force, this episode is equal parts fun, informative, and affirming. New episodes of The Great BateWorld BateOff premiere every Friday at 12 AM ET, exclusively on BateWorld.com.
Transcribe →When Regular Porn Stops Doing It for You — Escalation, Extreme Kinks, and Dopamine Chasing
May 1300:48:59Tap to summarizeHave you ever noticed that the porn you used to watch doesn't excite you anymore — and you start looking for more extreme or unusual content just to feel turned on? In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we talk about porn tolerance, dopamine, escalation, and why the brain starts chasing novelty. From niche fetishes to taboo fantasies, we explore why this happens, when it becomes a problem, and how to find balance without shame. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
Transcribe →Cuckolding — Fantasy, Fetish, and the Psychology Behind It
May 601:04:11Tap to summarizeCuckolding is one of the most misunderstood fantasies in modern sexuality. Is it about humiliation? Power? Trust? Jealousy? In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we break down what cuckolding actually is, why some people are turned on by it, and how consent, communication, and emotional safety make the difference between a healthy kink and a harmful situation. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
Transcribe →Types: Are the People We're Attracted To Based on Preference… or Prejudice?
Apr 2900:52:05Tap to summarizeWe all say we have a "type" — but where does that type come from? In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we explore the difference between personal preference and social prejudice when it comes to attraction. Are we drawn to certain people because of chemistry, comfort, culture, or conditioning? And how can having a rigid type impact who we choose to date — for better or worse? This episode dives into psychology, bias, dating patterns, and how understanding your attraction can lead to healthier relationships. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com
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