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Jesse Tyler Ferguson
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Hi, it's Jesse.
Today on the show.
You know him from films. I saw the TV Glow, Detective Pikachu and the HBO Max series Generation. His latest film is now youw See Me, now youw Don't. It's Justice Smith. Have you gone to any high school reunions?
Justice Smith
Yes, I just went to my tenure.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Oh, my God. Tell me about that.
Justice Smith
I literally went just to rub my success in everybody's face.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Thank you. I'm so glad you said that. Thank you. This is Dinner's on Me, and I'm.
Your host, Jesse Tyler Ferguson.
I became a fan of Justice's when I started watching the TV show Generation. I had seen him on his previous show, the Lowdown, which I also loved, and I just, I was really taken by him. I think he's such an interesting actor.
And also he's a really good Instagram follow.
His looks on the red carpet are kind of iconic, so I'm really excited to meet him as he's doing press for his new film, now youw See Me, now youw don't, which I'm a big fan of that. That franchise as well. Today I'm at Destroyer in Culver City. I have been dying to feature it ever since I saw a critic say that it was strange, beautiful, and tasted like nothing else in town. How's that for a review? Destroyer is tucked into the Hayden tract of Culver City. It's got that artsy, slightly industrial edge. It's the kind of spot where the food looks like art but doesn't take itself too seriously. What makes Destroyer special is how it bridges worlds. The fine dining imagination of chef Jordan Khan, who many foodies know from Vespertine.
With a lunch and brunch model that.
Keeps it exciting, accessible. You can order something like their famous avocado confit or chicken schnitzel, which I'm pretty sure all I'm gonna end up getting and still walk out without breaking 30 bucks. I thought Destroyer would be the perfect spot to bring my guest Justice. Smith, like this place, he's someone who lives between worlds. Thoughtful but playful. Polished but never too serious.
Whether he's in a massive blockbuster or.
A quirky A24 film, he shows up with that same curiosity and openness that makes his work so magnetic.
All right, let's get to the conversation.
You just had a big birthday.
Justice Smith
I did. 30. 30.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
A few months ago, right?
Justice Smith
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
I'm born in 75, so I have a 50th coming in, like, next week.
Justice Smith
Oh, wow.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
And my husband is. Thank you. 10 years younger than me. He just celebrated 40. And how do you feel about turning 30?
Justice Smith
I feel young again.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Oh, that's interesting.
Justice Smith
29. I felt really old. Why? I don't know. It's just 29 is older than 30, I think. Is it because it's the oldest of the 20s?
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Okay.
Justice Smith
But 30, you're the youngest of the 30s. Okay. All my friends who are in their 30s, I'm like, still a baby. Whereas if I hang out with, like, when I was 29, I was hanging out with, like, 25 year olds. I was like, oh, I'm the wise one.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Yeah.
Justice Smith
Hi.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Hello.
Restaurant Server
How are you doing? Great. Are we ready for drinks?
Justice Smith
I think.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Do you know what you want to eat?
Justice Smith
Yeah, I think we're ready for everything. All right.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
I am going to start with this yuzu ginger tonic.
Justice Smith
Perfect.
Restaurant Server
Juicy ginger.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
And I think I'm gonna do the chicken schnitzel.
Justice Smith
Perfect.
Restaurant Server
1 chicken schnitzel ginger tonic.
Justice Smith
What's that? What is a yuzu ginger tonic?
Restaurant Server
Juicy ginger tonic. We make a syrup out of juicy and fresh ginger. Jusu is like a Japanese citrus. And then we serve that with sparkling water.
Justice Smith
Okay.
Restaurant Server
It's a version.
Justice Smith
I'll try that too. Awesome. And then I wanted to get the loaded avocado confit. That's like, what, an avocado toast?
Restaurant Server
Yeah, it's our version of a avocado toast which is served deconstructed. So it's avocado topped with burnt onion powder puffed that. We serve it with a lot of goodies on the side.
Justice Smith
Can I get it without arugula? Yeah, of course.
Restaurant Server
Would you want to do a Kelly instead or just no greens?
Justice Smith
No greens.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
All right, cool.
Restaurant Server
All right, I'll get that started for you guys.
Justice Smith
Okay. Thank you. My sister, who's, like two years older than me.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Huh.
Justice Smith
She would. She told me a lot. Like, being 30 is like, you finally, like, don't give a fuck anymore about, like, depressing people.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
That is true.
Justice Smith
Like, a lot of being in your 20s is, like, well, thinking that, like, there's something wrong with you and you have to, like, grow and, like, bridge the gap between you and other people. And, like, 30 is, like, a real acceptance of, like, oh, no, this is me. Yeah. And I actually just want to surround.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Figure out who you are in your 20s.
Yeah.
Justice Smith
Yeah.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
You have a lot of siblings, right?
Justice Smith
Yeah.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Where do you sit in. In that line of siblings?
Justice Smith
I'm the exact middle. I have four older and four younger.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
How old's your oldest sibling?
Justice Smith
The oldest is. She's 45, I think.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Okay.
Justice Smith
46, I want to say. Yeah. And the youngest is 16.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Oh, my God.
Justice Smith
Yeah. My dad is a whore. My dad gets around.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
He's. Wait, your dad and mom have been together for. Are they still together?
Justice Smith
No.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
No, they're not.
Okay.
Justice Smith
So all my siblings are from my dad. Got it. I only have one sibling who's, like, my full sibling. Got it from both my parents.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Got it.
Is anyone else in the industry, like, older singers?
Justice Smith
One of my older sister. She was a dancer and a choreographer a long time.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Okay.
Justice Smith
For a long time. She was, like, a backup dancer for Janet Jackson. And then both my parents were singers, so they were in the arts.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
How did your parents meet in Japan?
Justice Smith
They. My dad was out there, I think, singing and bars and stuff, I think. And then she met my dad in a club or a bar or something, and they dated for a little bit. And then she's like, all right, I'm over this guy. And then, like, a month or two later, she had to renew her visa in Korea in order to work in Japan. She goes to Korea, and at the renewal office or whatever, she runs into my dad again, who's renewing his visa. And it just so happened that they were both staying at the same hotel in Korea. So it was literally, like, fate that they, like, met up again in a completely different country totally at the exact same time. And then from there, they just, like, came back to America together.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
And then you moved to Orange County?
Justice Smith
Yeah. So after my parents divorced, they were, like, living in Sylmar for some time. That's where I was born. And then my mom moved to Orange County.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
What did they do in Orange county, my mom?
Justice Smith
So at the time, karaoke was more of, like. Which they had learned in Japan was more of, like, a culture. And there was, like, they would hire someone to host a karaoke show and. But then also, like, perform in between, like, other people, like, drunk people coming up and singing or whatever. Right. And so my mom did that at, like, like, five different venues or whatever. Like, when I say my parents are singers, like, I mean by, like, vocation, not, like, like, that's how they made their living. Or they would do, like, singing competitions, and then they would, like, place first and second and then, like, just, like, take the money or, like, they would go in as a duet and, like, just, like, they played together as well.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Did they drum music?
Justice Smith
My dad did. My dad wrote some music, but, yeah, nothing that really took off so interesting. But yeah, they. They supported us mostly through, like, performing at bars and lounges.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
And so you really grew up around, like, artists.
Justice Smith
Yeah, I never, like, had pressure to, like, pursue a normal career. A quote unquote, normal career. I never had pressure to go to college because none of my parents went to college. Yeah, they were, like, artists through and through. Struggling artists at that. And so I think they had, like, a. They always, like, instilled with me in me like this, like, never give up, give up on your dreams kind of mentality, you know?
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Now for a quick break, but don't go away. When we come back, justice opens up about being bullied in high school, and we dive into his dating life. Okay, be right back. You know, it's that time of the year. Yep. When your routine starts to unravel a little. The travel, the late nights, the. Let's just grab something quick. Meals. Yeah, yeah, it's here. That time of the year is here. That's honestly why I started drinking AG1, the daily health drink that combines your multivitamin, pre and probiotics, superfoods and antioxidants all in one simple green scoop. It's one of the easiest things you could do to support your body every day. For me, AG1 has become a small but steady anchor. In my mornings, I mix it up first thing, usually while I'm making coffee or getting ready to take the dogs out. And it just helps me feel like I've done one solid thing for myself before the day takes over. 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So you went to performing arts high school, right?
Justice Smith
I did, yeah. Yeah.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
But before that you were in a public school.
Justice Smith
Yeah, and I was, like, taking drama classes. I was doing community theater and same. I was just, like, doing whatever I could to, like, act and be on stage.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
What was that community like in Orange County?
I just feel like everything close to.
La, there must be, like, some sort of vibrancy to it because it's so close to an entertainment capital. But I know that Orange county is culturally and politically so far away from la.
Justice Smith
Yeah, it's a red county.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Yeah. Yeah.
Justice Smith
In the art scene, like in the community theater scene, I didn't necessarily feel the weight of it being a red county. It was just a bunch of, like, girls and gay boys, like, you know, singing songs. Yeah. And like, and I, if anything, I was just like, oh, yeah, this is. These are my kind of people.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Yeah. That looks so good.
Thank you. Oh, my God, this is so beautiful.
It's the most beautiful avocado toast I think I've ever seen.
Justice Smith
Almost like, wish I got the chicken schnitzel now. Gorgeous. That looks amazing. I'll say. I didn't start feeling the weight of what it meant to kind of grow up in like, a conservative area until I went to that performing high school. It was an independent charter school. And so it was like, a lot of it was donation based and there was a lot of, like, white kids from Irvine that were like, coming to this school. And I started to like, receive a lot of messaging, I think from their conservative parents.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Right.
Justice Smith
Like now being parroted by them onto me about, like, my race and my sexuality. And high school was really tough for me because I was like one of like 17 black kids in like, the whole school. It was difficult. Well, I did experience some discrimination on my sexuality. Most of the kids at the school were gay. Like, it's like, you know, and like all the popular kids were gay. And so I grew up in a little bit of bubble of a bubble in terms of that. Right. In terms of sexuality. And I learned like, a lot of like, radical liberal things at that school that I didn't realize the world was so behind on until after I graduated. But I think it being so homogenous in like, like it being majority white.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Yeah.
Justice Smith
I think that didn't allow for like, these kids to like, reflect on race and like, understand like, how they were treating me and like, what was, you know, like really, like be immersed in like, and appreciate someone's differences because they, they weren't exposed to that. You know, it was like mostly people who look like them and then me. So, like, they could only be so liberal, you know, they could only be so understanding. Yeah.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Did you feel like you had.
Justice Smith
A.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Safe enough environment to be yourself, like, sexually? Like, you were open about your being queer and that was something that you never had to really hide and not really.
Justice Smith
I didn't really have to hide that. Yeah.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
So different from when I grew up. My God.
Justice Smith
I imagine. Yeah.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
That's so interesting. And did you have relationships as a kid?
Justice Smith
I mean, in high school? No. So. So, like, all the popular kids were gay or girls. Like the girl to guy ratio was like 11 to 1. Like it was mo. The school was mostly girls and gays.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
It's my dream school.
Justice Smith
But they also were like mean gays. Like they were all bitchy and mean. Like before I came out, which I also have issues with the whole coming out. I understand it now, but like I came out. When I figured it out. I came out junior year of high school. I remember like sophomore year. There was this older girl who was such a bully. Like this girl would like cut girls ponytails off. Oh my God, she was a horrible, horrible person. I hate her.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Jesus.
Justice Smith
Anyways, most of my bullies growing up were girls. Girls can be really vicious. Anyways, there was this improv exercise we were doing in one of our classes where it was like a game where someone leaves the room. The rest of the class like creates a party, some sort of event. The person comes in, everyone is improvising and has to guess what the party is. Has to like from how everyone's behaving. Right? Yeah. So I left the room, I come in. This girl had made everybody act as if it's my coming out party before I even like knew what my sexuality was.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
And so like she had made that decision for you.
Justice Smith
She. And she told the whole class to like get in on it.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
And like, so what, what, like, what did it look like when you walked.
Back in the room?
Justice Smith
So like there was like two people like these two. Her and like one of her fucking friends were like pretending to be my parents. And like one of them pretending my dad. And like being disapproving of me and like, you're not my son. And like. And then like one of the like popular gay boys was like pretending to be like my lover. And then, and then like I'm slowly realizing what it is. And then I just like, like to end the game you have to like raise your hand and say what it is. And I'm just like, it's my coming out party. And like I'm like so, like. And then everyone laughs. It was so fucked up. It was so mean.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
That is really fucked up.
Justice Smith
It's so mean.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
I think the part that really fucked up for me is like them deciding that how your parents were going to be feeling about that. Yeah, Just choosing and choosing the version that feels like the norm for them that this would be something that they'd be disapproving of. That's what, that's shocking.
Justice Smith
Well, I also don't know what was going on in their house. You know, like maybe they were experiencing a lot of shame and guilt about being, well, obvious.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
I think, obviously, to that point. Yes, they were. But to then, you know, superimpose that upon you is just. It's. It's. It's a very surprise.
That's a.
That's a bit traumatizing.
Justice Smith
It was mean. Yeah, it was really mean. Wow.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
But shortly after high school, you. I mean, you started working.
Justice Smith
Mm.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
That must have been. I mean, do you. First of all, have you gone to any high school reunions?
Justice Smith
Yes, I just went to my tenure.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Oh, my God. Tell me about that.
Justice Smith
I literally went just to rub my success in everybody's face.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Thank you.
I'm so glad you said that. Thank you.
Justice Smith
Because. But then I went, and nobody who bullied me was there. No, it was all the kids who.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Were nice to me.
They all know.
They all know. They all know that you've done. You've done so much in 10 years. Like, you've done more than any actor I've known. They all know, Believe me.
Justice Smith
But I also, like, think that some of the people who bullied me in high school, like, I don't even think they really knew that they were bullying me because I. I had, like, a desperate need to be liked. So a lot of times when I was, like, being bullied, I would, like, act like it was funny and, like, it was okay. I'd be like, right. No. Like pain.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Just make them feel comfortable. Yeah, Yeah.
Justice Smith
I also. It's like, I felt like I spent most of my 20s, like, unpacking, like, the trauma, like, high school. And, like, only recently, I've gotten to a place where I'm like, okay. I think I'm.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Yeah. It's so interesting because, I mean, if you look at. You really have done so much in 10 years. Like, you graduated high school and, like, really started, you know, working steadily as an actor. And when I was just looking at your body of work in 30 years, I mean, it's really impressive, not only in the fact that you've done so many things, but you've done so many different things. And you've also. There was like a. There was, I don't know. I don't want to say blind eye given to your sexuality, but, like, you were given the opportunity to do so many roles that did not bring your sexuality into the. The storyline at all. I mean, it was just like a. It was something that was not.
Justice Smith
Why would audition for them and I wouldn't get them?
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Every time it was a gay part, I would audition. Yeah, you wouldn't get it. Yeah. But I mean, you were kind of like a romantic lead for a little while as well. I mean.
Justice Smith
Yep.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
How did you.
Was that a tricky.
Thing for you to navigate?
To sort of be having this, this break and having this moment and having these jobs given to you where you were, you know, put into romantic relationships with, with women and like things that maybe you didn't have it necessarily a, a personal connection to, but you were obviously so listen, I think actors can play everything and you did it brilliantly. But you know, it's just interesting that, you know, your opportunities came with such a. It was, you were, it was so separate from like the, the reality. You lived in high school.
Justice Smith
Yeah, I think so. I think the missing piece here is that I dated a couple girls in high school. There you go.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
There it is.
Justice Smith
And then also after high school. Okay, okay. I was dating, I was dating everybody. Okay. For a second.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Were you fluid for a little while or was it.
Justice Smith
Yeah, I was. Jesse. I like to call myself technically bisexual.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Uh huh.
Justice Smith
I will never date a woman again. We'll never date a woman again. Not because I'm not attracted to them, but because I don't like the feeling of like having to be the man in the relationship. I really don't like that feeling. What I like about same sex relationships is that we both can kind of switch off on what parts of ourselves we're showing. And when I was dating women it was like I just felt like I was always, like I always had to be the proverbial big spoon. And I'm like also like I, I'm not really like a half, half, half bisexual. Like I very much am more attracted to men than I am attracted to women. But having those experiences with women is helpful when you're like playing all these roles where you're like supposed to be, you know, like I, I know. And even if I didn't have reference for that in my like personal life, I feel like to be marginalized person is to like study the dominant culture, you know, Like I know what straightness looks like. I know how to perform straightness like most gay people do. Right. Because like that is how we.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Because we're in protection mode society.
Justice Smith
Yeah, we know what like it's like our level of code switching. Like we know how to like deepen our voice and like masculine masculinize our posture and like do all those things. So it's like when it comes to like playing straight roles, like, I understand what is required of me, you know.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
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Jesse Tyler Ferguson
And we're back with more dinners on me.
Was there something. Because I know your roles before Generation. I mean, it was, you know, you had an incredible role in the get down that Baz Luhrmann did. Yo, I love it. Such a great show, Great show. And you know, you did several other things so different from the character you played in generation. Was there, was there for you anything that felt like liberating to be able to embrace that part of yourself?
Justice Smith
Yeah, it was the most fun, liberating thing. Like, I remember after the show got canceled, I was very like, I was heartbroken because I was like, I was so. I felt like I had unlocked a side of myself that I didn't even know that I had. That, like, was now like forever a part of me that I was like, I want to like, inhabit that even more and not just in sense of like my sexuality, but like Chester's like, freeness. Like, he is just like so unapologetically himself. And I gave him more of like a feminine lilt and like, like the way he like, walks through a space and the clothes he wears, like how like the way he likes to peacock. I just, I. I had so much fun, like, crafting that character. And like anytime, like, I play a character who's like, where I give him a little vocal something or I give him a little, you know, where it feels like a real kind of character. Yeah, I like to stay in it, you know, and so like being on Set with all these, like, kids and just, like, feeling, like, how I wanted to feel in high school.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Yeah.
Justice Smith
You know? Yeah. Just, like, so free and feminine, and it just was. Yeah, it was very healing, I think. And what's crazy is it the show was set in Orange county, right?
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Orange county, yeah. Yeah, yeah.
Justice Smith
In Anaheim. The exact city I grew up in.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
That's wild.
Justice Smith
I know.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
It was like, did you film any stuff there?
Justice Smith
No, we didn't. No, we filmed in Pasadena. I wanted to, but it was really healing. But I often find, like, every project that I do has a weird parallel to, like, what's going on in my real life. Like, it's like. And not always in, like, the obvious way, but, like, just, like, weird connections start to line up where I'm, like, in my relationship with the flying spaghetti monster in the sky. I'm like, oh, I see why I'm here now. I see why you've put me as a part of this project, because I'm learning something about myself, and I'm, like, healing a part of myself that I needed to heal.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
That's cool. It makes you feel like you're doing the right thing and you're in the right place at the right time.
Justice Smith
I feel so aligned, Pattico.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
With the universe and.
Justice Smith
Yes. Yeah, exactly. Yeah.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Because I know you. I think I read that you were, like, a big fan of Pokemon, and then you were in the Pokemon movie.
Justice Smith
Yeah, as a kid, I was a huge fan of Pokemon. Yeah.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Yeah. That's gonna be wild.
Justice Smith
Or, like. Because the first movie I did was this YA movie called Paper Towns. And in that movie, there was, like, a moment where we're, like, singing in the car or we're singing somewhere, like, to not be scared or whatever. And it was originally supposed to be, like, Party in the USA by Miley Cyrus, but Pitch Perfect had just did that. Right. So we were like, she said she loves Pitch Perfect. They had just did that. So we were all on set trying to figure out what we should sing, and I suggested we sing the Pokemon theme song. And then it ended up in the movie. And then years later, I ended up doing the Pokemon movies, and I was just, like, weird, like, connections like that that I'm always, like, paying attention to. Yeah. It just makes me feel like I'm aligned and I'm going in the right direction.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
I know right now you're doing. You're doing a promotion for now. Now you see me.
Justice Smith
Yeah.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Now you don't.
Justice Smith
Yes.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
It's interesting because you've done. This isn't the first franchise you've been a part of. You've done drastic films as well. I mean, I love now youw See Me, the first one. I thought it was such a romp. It's such a, you know, a good time. And I. I just thought there was so, first of all, so well cast. Jesse Eisenberg is so talented. So much Woody Harrelson. I love him so much. Dave Franco.
Justice Smith
Yes.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
I mean, it's an incredible, incredible cast. And, you know, then this third film, like Rosamund pike, who I adore, and Mark Ruffalo, I mean, it's just the.
Casting is so insane.
I mean, what was it like? You know, first of all, so many incredible legends. Like, what was it like just being in a massive film with them? I mean, this is not a low budget indie thing. This is massive.
Justice Smith
It is the. It was one of the best experiences I've ever had on a film. And I, like, I don't say that lightly. Like, I. I wanted to do the film because I wanted to work with these actors. And also the director, I met with him and I really liked him and he felt like he, like he was going to be a really good shepherd for this kind of project. And it was like, non stop fun. Not only because then the us, like, new cast, the new cast of magicians, me and Dominic Sessa and Ariana Greenblatt, we got along so well and, like, we would, like, do escape rooms around Budapest and like, watch horror movies and like, hang out all the time. But the existing Horsemen were so welcoming to us. Like, I remember the first day I got on set. Jesse, when he met me, he was just like, oh, like, come have lunch with me in my trailer. Like the first, like on the first day, like, and just like get to know me and ask me questions and like, they really don't have to do that. Right. They went out of their way to invite us into the clique, which was. It just was. Yeah, it was everything. I'm really blessed to know these people now and, like, I'm really excited to do another one.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Is there going to be another one?
Justice Smith
Yeah, they already announced it.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
That's incredible.
Justice Smith
They already announced it, right? Yeah. Okay, good.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
You know, did you learn to do any. Any magic with it? I mean, I did. Is it.
Justice Smith
We had magic lessons. We had like a whole magic training school thing for like a month.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Oh, my God. I mean, the. The magic in the first two films is pretty astonishing. I mean, obviously it's a film. Like, you know, there's editing is involved, but like, just the way that you know, they. In the story that they would play out some of these.
These tricks.
It was. It was so. I know there's such a performative element to a really great magic show. I mean, it was. It felt very big, and it felt very exciting, and, like, it was just, you know, it's.
It was a romp.
It was just a lot of fun. So I'm really excited to see it.
Justice Smith
Yeah, I think this one is a lot of fun, too. Ruben, the director, made a point of making sure that all of our magic tricks were practical. Like, they were. Could all, like, really be done by magician, which I. I'm a big fan of practical effects. So we, like, trained, like, I, like, learned all of these different, like, card tricks and card flourishes. And that was before, like, the script was really set and, like, what magic tricks? I was going to be doing the movie, and then we got, like. Like the most updated draft, and it turned out I wasn't doing any card.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Tricks in the movie. Oh, really?
Justice Smith
I, like, learned all these card tricks.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
For, like, no reason.
Justice Smith
But then I like.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
It's like when you, like, learn how to do a stunt, and then on the day you stunt doubles on. On set, like, and he's gonna do it, you're like, well, I want to do it.
Justice Smith
Yeah. I trained.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
I trained.
Justice Smith
Did all this work. Yeah. And the thing is, also, I need to start retraining. Like, I need to, like, refresh my. All my card tricks, too, because I know that people during this press junket are going to ask me to do magic tricks.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Wait, let's guess. Let's guess all the. Because I love. On a press junket where it's like, you get the same questions over and over. For Modern Family, it would always be like, so what makes a modern family modern? And so for as a cast, we would, like, turn it into this game. And I think one time we sat down as a group for an interview, and we're like, like, if one of your questions is what makes a modern family bond? And we're walking out and, like, literally, you saw the person, like, go to the next car, because that's what's, like, literally the first question.
Justice Smith
I just imagine the interviewer at home just being like, this is gonna be.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
They're gonna love this question. Like, I get it nine, 100 times.
Justice Smith
A day, I've had people in interviews. Yeah. Like, the way they, like, ask a question that's been asked before, they ask it, like, I bet.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Yeah.
Justice Smith
No one else.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Yeah.
Justice Smith
Yeah.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
And I'm like, you'd be Surprised? Yeah. Yeah. I am a very big fan of the one song of yours that I found on Spotify.
Justice Smith
Oh, my God.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
First of all, you're a great singer. Did you write that song?
Justice Smith
Thank you. I did.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Oh, my God.
Justice Smith
Justice.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
It's so good.
Justice Smith
Thanks. That's crazy.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Yeah.
Justice Smith
I feel like you read my diary. I feel like that's what you're telling me right now. I found.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
And I also found your diary.
Justice Smith
Questions.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
But first of all, when did you record that? And second of all, are you. Is that something you would do more of? Because you're a great songwriter.
Justice Smith
Thank you. Yeah, I'm working. I've been working on an EP for, like, I don't even know how long I recorded that. I wrote that in 20. 2017. I recorded it, and it was about my ex girlfriend, and I recorded it in 2019 after we broke up. Yeah, that's right.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
That relationship created a very good song.
Justice Smith
Yeah, I like that song too.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
It's really good.
Justice Smith
Thanks. Yeah. I mean, you're a singer, right? You do musicals?
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
I did musicals, but I don't consider myself. You have a much better voice than I ever did or will.
Justice Smith
I doubt that.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
No, you do. Believe me. We'll listen to this recording of spelling bee and you'll see that I'm right.
Justice Smith
Wait, are you in spelling?
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
I was the original leaf. Coney Bear. Yeah.
Justice Smith
I love Punter Pie Zombie. Yo. I never saw it, though. I only listened to the soundtrack.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Yeah, I'm not that smart.
I'm not. That's smart.
That's me. You didn't know that?
No.
Justice Smith
That's funny. I would sing that song all the time. Really? Yes. I would like. Cause I would like. I want to audition for the school musical. I want to. And I would prepare that song, and then I would never audition.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
That's so funny.
Justice Smith
But I prepared that song over and over and over again to, like, build the courage to audition. So. I've heard your voice so many times, I didn't even realize it.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
That's hilarious. Oh, my God.
Yeah.
That's like a pretty popular song for kids to audition with. It's a great character song.
Justice Smith
It is a great character or something.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
I remember when William Finn was writing it for me, and he's like, one of my idols. He's recently passed away. The guy wrote spelling Bee, William Fenn, and he. We were workshopping the show together, and I was so excited I was gonna hear this song for the first time. And he could stand at the piano, and he wasn't a very good pianist, and an even worse singer. But, like, he was a great songwriter.
Justice Smith
Right, right, right.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
And he sits down at the piano. He's like this big guy, crazy voice. He's like, okay, so here's your song. And he just starts pounding on the piano. He's like, I'm not that smart. People have been telling me that for years. And I'm like, oh, my God. No, no.
Justice Smith
This is.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
My idol's writing me a song, and this is shit. It's terrible. And then, you know, you take it and you own it and you develop it, and, like, it became what it was.
Justice Smith
It's an iconic song. Yeah.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
No, thank you.
Justice Smith
Sweet. Yo, that's crazy. I'm, like, having so many flashbacks to me in my bedroom.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Like, that's so funny.
Justice Smith
Pushing the rewind button, like, back, back, back, back, over and over and over again.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
That's crazy.
Justice Smith
That's you.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Yeah. They're reviving it on Broadway. Not Broadway. They're reviving In New York. Off Broadway.
Justice Smith
Oh, really?
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
I'm gonna go to the opening of it.
Justice Smith
You know who the cast is?
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Yeah, some of me. It's a. The guy who's playing my part is this kid named Justin Cooley who was nominated for a Tony Award.
Justice Smith
Love, Justin. Yeah.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
For Kimberly Akimbo.
Justice Smith
Yeah, I met him once. He's really sweet. He's really great. Yeah, yeah, he's very talented. Yeah. When you see. Have you ever seen someone play a role that you originated before?
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
I saw kids, I've gone to school productions of Spelling Bee, so I've seen people do that.
Justice Smith
That's not how I would do it.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Oh, it makes me so happy. It, like, moves me to tears every time.
Even if they're not. Listen, you're missing the arc of the character.
Justice Smith
Listen, kid.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
No, no, you're getting leafall wrong. No, no, no. You're playing him for laughs. You're playing him for laughs. I'm really glad you said yes to this. It's really nice to meet you. I've really, truly been a fan for such a long time, and I didn't even realize.
Justice Smith
I miss you. I didn't even realize I was a fan of yours.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Well, now you know. Now you know.
Justice Smith
I mean, I knew I was. Wait, hold up. That sounds weird. I knew I was a fan of yours. I didn't realize.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
I get what you meant.
Justice Smith
Yeah.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
You're an og.
Justice Smith
Yes. It was a lot of fun. And also, the food was great.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
Oh, well, thank you. Listen, I got this one. Dinner's on me. Don't worry about it.
Justice Smith
Hey, that's the name of the thing, right? Hey.
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
This episode of Dinner's On Me was recorded at Destroyer in Culver City, California. Next week on Dinner's On Me. You know him as Peeta in the Hunger Games franchise and as Mike in Five Nights at Freddy' and more recently as Rachel Sinnett's boyfriend in the HBO series I Love L A. It's Josh Hutcherson. We'll get into how he started in Hollywood, calling up acting agents as a child and learning how to deal with rejection later in his career, which for him was at age 24, and what it's like to split your time between Madrid and Los Angeles. I don't know. It sounds romantic to me. And if you don't want to wait until next week to listen, you can download that episode right now by subscribing to to Dinners On Me. Plus, as a subscriber, not only do you get access to new episodes one week early, you'll also be able to listen completely ad free. Just click Try free at the top.
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Date: December 2, 2025
Location: Destroyer, Culver City, CA
In this episode, Jesse Tyler Ferguson shares a meal with acclaimed actor Justice Smith. Over inventive dishes at LA restaurant Destroyer, they dig into the confusion of your twenties, the confidence that comes at thirty, growing up in a family of artists, surviving bullying at a predominantly white arts high school, navigating queerness, and the joy (and awkwardness) of high school reunions. Justice reflects on his acting journey—spanning everything from Generation to Pokémon and his latest blockbuster, Now You See Me, Now You Don’t. The conversation is candid, funny, raw, and, at times, deeply moving.
A Big, Unconventional Family
Artistic Roots
Transition to Performing Arts School
Navigating Sexuality and Bullying
Returning as a Star
Lingering Effects of Bullying
On Generation (HBO Max) and Chester
On Pokémon and ‘Signs’
Inside Baseball on Press Tours
Justice’s Hidden Talent—Songwriting
On Turning 30:
“Being 30 is like, you finally, like, don’t give a fuck anymore about, like, depressing people.”
—Justice Smith, 07:36
On Identity & Bullying:
“Some of the people who bullied me in high school, I don’t even think they really knew that they were bullying me because I had, like, a desperate need to be liked.”
—Justice Smith, 25:11
On Acting While Queer:
“To be a marginalized person is to study the dominant culture, you know? Like, I know what straightness looks like. I know how to perform straightness like most gay people do … It's like our level of code switching.”
—Justice Smith, 28:56
On Playing Chester in Generation:
“I felt like I had unlocked a side of myself I didn’t even know that I had … so unapologetically himself.”
—Justice Smith, 33:42
On High School Reunion:
“I literally went just to rub my success in everybody’s face. But then … nobody who bullied me was there.”
—Justice Smith, 24:49
On Movie Magic:
“We had magic lessons … I like learned all these card tricks and then … I wasn’t doing any card tricks in the movie.”
—Justice Smith, 40:56
On Finding Out Jesse Originated 'I’m Not That Smart':
“That’s you? I would sing that song all the time … I prepared that song over and over to … build the courage to audition.”
—Justice Smith, 44:01
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