Disgraceful with Grace O'Malley
Episode: Daniela Mora: GRWM to Get Broken Up With
Date: November 20, 2025
Host: Grace O'Malley
Guest: Daniela Mora
Overview
In this laugh-out-loud, ultra-chaotic episode of Disgraceful, Grace O’Malley welcomes her close friend—and fellow comedian with a viral following—Daniela Mora. Fresh off a breakup (and a viral TikTok documenting it), Daniela shares the absurdity of modern dating, stories from the road as a touring comic, crowd work mishaps, and the digital bit-driven friendship she and Grace enjoy. The conversation veers from heartbreak to hilarity, exploring how internet fame mixes with real life, the weirdness of standup gigs, and their mutual gift for roasting themselves and each other.
Main theme: Friendship, heartbreak, viral fame, and the ridiculousness of dating and comedy in 2025.
Key Topics & Insights
1. Friendship, Bits, & Digital Catch-Ups
- Grace and Daniela banter about how busy they've been, essentially only catching up via social media and podcast segments (06:12).
- They joke about being each other’s “reply guys” online, with both getting top comments on each other's posts thanks to relentless bit-quoting (07:31).
"I'm your reply guy. More than you're mine... Looks like a bot account." – Daniela (07:41)
- Astrology Bits: The duo riff briefly on their star signs (Grace: Scorpio, Daniela: Leo), poking fun at astrology stereotypes (03:34).
2. Daniela’s Viral Breakup & Digital Oversharing
- Daniela recounts her short-lived romance with a younger "child" (her playful term for a guy two years younger)—raising the idea of prematurely calling something a relationship (09:10).
- The breakup was unexpectedly honest, with her ex saying he just wasn’t "elated" to date her, leading Daniela to, in true creator fashion, make a viral "Get Ready With Me to Get Broken Up With" TikTok before the actual breakup happened (12:13, 15:06).
"I edited, had posted it. Then he walked in the door and I said, I'm going viral. I don't really need you." – Daniela (15:47)
- Daniela and Grace discuss the art (and ethics) of blasting exes online, with Daniela noting she always tries to make herself the butt of the joke even when exposing guys (13:59).
3. The Stand-Up Life: Odd Shows, Naples, and Crowd Work Chaos
- Weirdest gigs: Daniela shares tales of being flown to perform for strangers in a Georgia Airbnb, doing stand-up in subways, thrift stores, and even delis (21:11, 27:35).
- Tour talk: Both share love/hate for random nights in new cities—Daniela’s Chicago show on a Tuesday was sold out, Naples (FL) brought older, less impressed crowds (28:04, 29:09).
"Naples is... The majority of it is elders and they're affluent elders, so they don't like jokes to begin with." – Grace (29:09)
- Seafood Adventures: Both discuss risky food choices on tour—with Daniela copping to eating 7-Eleven sushi and Grace chowing down on tuna at a suspicious seafood restaurant (29:56).
4. Audience Interactions Gone Wild
- Daniela’s first angry DM: A woman in Naples, offended at being called "old" and jokingly paired with a younger man during crowd work, sends a "nicest mean" Instagram message (32:23).
"She was like, 'Not only did you call me old, but you suggested that I get with the guy and then said that I would be his mother, which is just creepy. Like, you're bad.'" – Daniela (32:37)
- Grace’s heckler story: A drunk female audience member ends up flashing the crowd, leading to post-show DMs blaming Grace for how she handled it (34:59).
5. Listener Voicemails: Breakup Horror Stories
A segment features listeners sharing their worst breakup stories, with Daniela and Grace reacting:
- Stalker Ex: Listener recounts an ex flying across the country to confront her on a beach, then sending a suspicious box of 100 chocolate bars (39:02).
- Serial Cheater: Another listener discovers her boyfriend had a whole other girlfriend for three months (42:01).
- Drama King: One caller speaks about an ex who faked seizures and suicide attempts for attention during breakups (43:38).
"How do you fake a seizure? You must do a little method to be doing all that." – Daniela (44:00)
- Self-aware Breakup: A caller admits breaking up with a great guy because her own mental health struggles were affecting the relationship (46:09).
6. Dating App Woes & New Characters
- Daniela details her post-breakup foray into dating: Dates with fans vs "normals," messages gone awry, mutual friends playing matchmaker, and a disastrous first date snafu where her date goes to the restaurant on the wrong day (57:12–64:56).
- Both commiserate about the weirdness of people knowing your business (and TikToks) before even meeting.
7. Disgraceful Receipts: The Roast/Photo Segment
- Grace and producer Nora ambush Daniela with a series of “receipts”: old social posts, embarrassing photos, and memories, including high school parties and missing teeth, leading to energetic storytelling and good-natured self-roasting (69:15+).
- Daniela jokes about her Leo roots and childhood confidence.
8. Gameplay: Headbands – The Scream Edition
- The episode closes with rounds of their favorite game, Headbands, adapted with custom cards and classic chaotic energy. Both get ultra-competitive and loud, in classic bit-centric style (82:59+).
9. Notable Quotes & Segments
On Posting About the Breakup
- “I edited, had posted it. Then he walked in the door and I said, I'm going viral. I don't really need you.” – Daniela (15:47)
On Naples Comedy Crowds
- “Naples is... The majority of it is elders and they're affluent elders, so they don't like jokes to begin with.” – Grace (29:09)
On Roasting Exes Online
- "I think it's totally fair, and I think you should be allowed to do that...You do it in just, like, such a funny, great way, and you go mega viral for it." – Grace (13:39)
On Dating App Propositions
- "So now people are, you know, coming forth more than in a normal rate. Like, I guess they're coming with propositions." – Daniela (57:12)
Key Timestamps
- 06:12–07:57 – Friendship, digital bits, reply guy culture
- 09:00–14:51 – Daniela’s relationship with the “child,” breakup story, and going viral
- 15:06–16:37 – Behind the scenes of “GRWM to Get Broken Up With” TikTok
- 19:00–27:32 – Stand-Up in bizarre venues; Georgia Airbnb gig
- 28:04–30:16 – Touring, Naples show, elderly audiences
- 32:23–34:00 – Crowd work horror stories, Naples DM
- 34:59–36:16 – Grace’s audience interaction and post-show DM
- 39:02–47:17 – Listener voicemails: wild breakup stories (+ Grace/Daniela commentary)
- 57:12–65:19 – Daniela’s dating in NYC update, the notorious date fail
- 69:04–81:13 – Disgraceful Receipts segment: old posts, photos, self-roasting
- 82:59–89:52 – Headbands: ultra-competitive, chaotic gameplay
Memorable Moments in Direct Quotes
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On viral sharing:
"Obviously made like a video about him... I was like, love you, but I can't love you." – Daniela (68:43)
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On bit-driven friendship:
"I'm your reply guy. More than you're mine... Looks like a bot account." – Daniela (07:41)
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On stand-up in strange places:
"I've also done a show, like, in a subway. Not on the train, but, like, in a..." – Daniela (21:44)
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On hecklers:
"Let's maybe tuck your clit away... she was really drunk." – Grace (35:01)
Closing
The episode wraps with both Grace and Daniela reflecting on how much fun they have riffing together—promising more collaborations—and plugging Daniela's upcoming shows. They celebrate the oddities of their lives as comedians, their unique (and sometimes disastrous) adventures in dating, the joy of putting it all online, and the catharsis of a perfect roast or viral TikTok.
Where to Find Daniela:
- Instagram/TikTok/YouTube: @danielamora
For fans of confessional comedy, caustic friendship, and social media chaos—this is Disgraceful in peak form.