Podcast Summary: Distractible – "King of the Friend Zone"
Release Date: November 21, 2025
Hosts: Mark Fischbach (Mark), Wade Barnes (Wade), Bob Muyskens (Bob)
Overview
In this lighthearted and competitive episode, Bob hosts "King of the Friend Zone," challenging Mark and Wade to develop new, unconventional greeting cards for awkward or underrepresented life moments. The conversation, steeped in the trio’s signature blend of sarcasm and genuine friendship, includes plenty of side stories: from winter struggles, home lab building, and bitcoin mining, to reflections on adulting, friend-zoning, and their perpetually shifting competitive score system. The episode’s energy is kept high with elaborate bits, silly competitions, conversational detours, and their ever-complicated point-and-wheel system.
Key Topics & Discussion Points
1. Point System Shenanigans and Coin Flips
Timestamps: 03:37 – 06:00
- Bob opens by awarding points for who listens and responds first, leading to a debate about fair point allocation.
- Wade contests the fairness, initiating the first coin flip of the episode to decide point distribution, leading to Mark’s “double fair” win.
- Notable quote:
“Well, now that that is made doubly fair, Mark has received his extra super fair double fair points for listening like a good boy.” (A/Bob, 05:44)
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2. Winter Woes and Life Chores
Timestamps: 06:04 – 07:22
- All three discuss the sudden onset of winter: unexpected snow, un-shoveled leaves, and the struggle of dog-walking in the cold.
- They're united in their griping about Ohio's unpredictably bad weather.
- Quote:
“Literally this past week... Oh, fuck. The yard's all fucked with leaves. All right now... And then it fucking snowed.” (A/Bob, 06:24)
- Quote:
3. Tech Tangents: Render Farms & Home Labs
Timestamps: 07:24 – 12:12
- Mark shares a lengthy update on his render farm, including a passionate rant about error correcting RAM and server optimization.
- Bob expresses excitement for building his own home lab, while Wade is confused about the term “home lab”.
- Quote:
“I'm going to home lab, guys. I'm going to do home lab... and probably compromise the security of my entire home network... But it's always fun.” (A/Bob, 11:36) - Bob on elaborate home labs:
“He went in there like, 'Yeah, this is where I check the weather...’ but... it was like this room, but full of server racks, like bigger than my render farm.” (B/Mark, 12:33)
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4. Bitcoin Mining and Meta-Mineshafts
Timestamps: 13:08 – 15:52
- Bob describes a “lottery” style bitcoin mining gadget—fun but useless.
- Wade and Mark riff on the idea of mining cryptocurrency in actual mineshafts, referencing the Ghost Town Living YouTube channel in Cerro Gordo.
- Quote:
“That dude is definitely hosting like terabytes of P2P, like movie downloads... He's doing something where he's like, let's not talk about that.” (A/Bob, 12:55)
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5. Card Game Segment: Greeting Cards for Unusual Occasions
Timestamps: 17:30 – 35:38
A. Midlife Crisis Card
- Mark: “Not so bald” on front, open to find a spring-loaded bag of hair—plus a Spongebob soundbite (“my eyes!”).
- Wade: “So you’re having a midlife crisis...” with art of a crashed Corvette and “expectations vs reality.”
- Memorable moment: Wade’s suggestion is both hilarious and dark, prompting the group to embrace cards that “give a person pause.”
B. Breakup (Deleting Ex's Streaming Profile)
- Wade creates a card based on the distracted boyfriend meme, with customizable name tags and an account deletion punchline.
- Mark: “Netflix and pills, which you now have to take, and Netflix and thrills, which you’ll never have again. Congrats.”
- Quote:
“Netflix and lost your will to live.” (C/Wade, 25:19)
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C. Post House Arrest Card
- Mark: Congratulations card with a hidden air tag chirp device to evoke paranoia.
- Wade: Card locked by a magnetic handcuff, which ‘breaks’ as you open it, revealing “but you paid the price. Congrats on freedom.”
- Quote:
“Congrats on finally being free... now no one is watching you, but you hear that little air tag chirp...” (B/Mark, 27:40)
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D. Friend Zone-iversary Card
- Wade: “Chastity belt” card with nonfunctional keys—“You tried. Denied.” This idea brings the house down.
- Mark, after floundering: A card with a line of people leading across a globe—“I know you’d wait in line forever for me. Thanks for being my friend.”
- Quote:
“I just had a great idea and I had to share it... Ultimate friend zone.” (C/Wade, 32:44)
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6. Bits, Banter, and Wheel of Fate
Timestamps: 35:38 – 43:00
- Bob hands out points based on participation, ideas, and how hard each bit lands.
- Wheel spins (the show’s comedic reward mechanic) determine final points, bringing tension as scores bounce.
- Wade clinches a win by a hair due to a late-game wheel spin, after the fairness is amplified and Mark’s early lead crumbles.
7. Reflections on Tracking and Relationships
Timestamps: 29:29 – 31:01
- The trio discusses the practice of sharing phone locations with their spouses for convenience and safety, noting changing attitudes about privacy and tech in relationships.
- Mark: “My location has been shared constantly for years... it's always been a no brainer because if I'm coming back from somewhere, you can see if I suddenly stop...”
Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments
- “This is just not my season. It’s just not my season.” – Wade (05:35)
- “Home lab’s going to be garbage. It’s never going to work.” – Bob (11:53)
- “Netflix and lost your will to live.” – Wade (25:19)
- “You tried. Denied.” – Wade’s ultimate friend zone card (32:34)
- “It's so painfully fair.” – Bob (36:26)
- “Congrats on finally being free... now no one is watching you, but you hear that little air tag chirp…” – Mark (27:40)
- “You guys do this? Actually, total sidebar. A real distractible moment here. You guys share your locations constantly with your spouses?” – Mark (29:29)
Final Scores & Winner
- Wade: 9 points
- Mark: 8 points
After a series of wheel spins, fairness amplifiers, and convoluted coin flips, Wade ultimately wins the episode, earning the right to host the next one. Mark delivers a gracious (and mildly salty) loser’s speech, and Bob signs off with appreciation and anticipation for the chaos sure to follow.
Timestamps for Key Segments
| Segment | Timestamp | |-----------------------------------------------|--------------| | Snow, Weather & Winter Talk | 06:04–07:22 | | Render Farm / Home Lab Discussions | 07:24–12:12 | | Bitcoin Mining & Ghost Town Living | 13:08–15:52 | | Card Game Begins (Midlife Crisis Card) | 19:48–22:40 | | Breakup / Ex’s Netflix Card | 22:54–25:44 | | House Arrest Card | 27:10–29:29 | | Friend Zone-iversary Card | 32:16–34:39 | | Wheel Spins, Point Wrangling, Winner Declared | 35:38–43:40 |
Tone and Style
The tone is irreverent, self-deprecating, and full of playful competitiveness. The episode is peppered with bits, callbacks to previous inside jokes, and genuine moments of friendship and creative banter. The hosts maintain a relaxed, sometimes absurd, conversation that feels as much like a private hangout as a podcast recording.
In Summary
“King of the Friend Zone” is a prime example of Distractible’s appeal: three friends trading absurd life stories, inventing silly games, and refusing to take themselves (or their invented competitive structure) seriously. The episode’s greatest strengths are in the team’s quick wit, willingness to run with any bit, and ability to balance roasting each other with palpable camaraderie.
Not to be missed:
- The best greeting card ideas you’ll never find in a store.
- Wade’s “chastity belt” card pitch.
- Mark’s commitment to being “so painfully fair”.
- Bob’s struggle to keep the group (and the point system) on track.
For listeners who missed it:
This episode is perfect for fans of offbeat humor, creative improv, and the peculiar everyday lives of three online friends. No need to have followed earlier episodes to jump right in and enjoy the chaos!