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Welcome to do this not that, the podcast from Marketers. We share quick tips, things you can do right now, and then we add a little bit of chaos at the end of every episode. We also keep it short like this intro. Let's check it out. We are back for the do this not that podcast. And this is it. This is the most special episode we've done, over 600 episodes and easily this is the most special episode that we've done. I'm going to tell you who we have here, but it's not about his background or his resume. It's about something else entirely. So let me first tell you who we got. So we got Jed Fish. Coach Jed Fish. He is the head coach of the Washington Huskies. It is one of the most high profile programs in the entire country and he's been part of this massive transition into the Big Ten and he's coming off of a great year. Okay. The program did awesome. They went 9 and 4. They beat Boise State in the LA Bowl. And before that though, he engineered one of the most dramatic turnarounds in recent college football history, taking the Arizona Wildcats from 111 to a 10 win season, top 25 national ranking. And his football resume is. It's ridiculous. He's coached under Steve Spurrier, Mike Shanahan, Pete Carroll, Sean McVay, Jim Harbaugh, Bill Belichick, everybody. But that's not why he's important. Maybe he thinks he's important because of that, but that's not it. Here's the real reason this is the most special episode. Jed and I. Jed has been one of my best friends on the planet for over 30 years. I met this dude when I was 18 years old. He was the best man at my wedding. We've been through every ridiculous nonsense thing together. So I'm excited to have him on here. We're going to talk about adversity and life and all the things this is really weird to say, but Jed, welcome to the show.
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Thank you. What an introduction, Jay. That was. That was awesome. And it is special. It's special for me too. Though I will say I have been trying to get on this show for a while now. Starting on episode 17, I. I've made it at 601. It sounds like there's been 600 prior and it is great to be on here with you and be able to share some cool stories.
A
Oh my God, this is so strange for everybody out there who's like, you know, that's a super tight friend and then you bring them into your work world. It's really weird. It's not a normal experience, but. Okay, I want to take everybody back for a second because we're talking about adversity, and it's not just like, oh, Jed lost the game, and he came back at halftime and he won a game. This dude has been through stuff that honestly, literally would have killed most people, but also would have killed almost every career. So I want to take us back to something that happened super early on in your career and you had the ultimate health scare disaster. Take everybody through what happened, and then I want to layer in some. Some things that I saw happen.
B
Sure. So I think you're referring to the health scare of an aortic aneurysm that I had in 2003, not the broken hand I had in a swim meet back in 87.
A
Yeah.
B
So in 2003, I was 26 years old. Yeah, 26. Getting to. And Amber and I, who was my girlfriend at the time, wife. Now we're out jogging in Houston, and I felt like this massive knife went right in the middle of my back. And I couldn't understand what it was. I wound up kind of going down, getting back up, and thought that my back just went into really bad spasm. And that was on a Saturday morning run. And that throughout that day, the back never felt any better. And, you know, I went into a hot tub, which wasn't very smart. I found out later Sunday I was waiting all day and just thought it was getting. Watching the final or a grade 8 or whatever it was. Watch the Gators play. And then Monday at about 5pm I realized, like, I was having a hard time breathing. So the back spasm is a little more significant than I thought. And I called a buddy of mine in Houston, and I said, hey, I need you to bring me the emergency room. I was on the phone with our team doctor, and without being in the NFL at that time, I was dead. There's no question about it, because you don't have the type of concierge medicine back then as we have, and now more people get it. But he was. He was following it all the way throughout. And he said, jed, you need to come in. And about six hours later, it was like 12:30, one o' clock in the morning. They allowed me to stay in the hospital. They didn't want me to. And I. I called my girl. I called up Amber, and I said, hey, I think I'm having a heart attack, but don't call my mom, okay? That was the big one.
A
Remember that? You called, you called me at 5:30 in the morning.
B
Yeah.
A
And you said, tell all the boys I love them.
B
Yeah, well, yeah, I think it was. It got a little scary at that point between like the 1am to 5am shift, 2am where they brought in a. A surgeon came in and you know this, you know my mom, you know my dad very well. My mom asked for a second opinion. Not the move to make when you're having emergency surgery. So they said, no, this is the only opinion and we're going in to get operated on. And I think the operation started probably 10 minutes after I called you. And it wasn't a very safe operation. It wasn't one in which, you know, my aorta dissected all the way really throughout my. By my heart and then all the way straight down. That I had to do. They called a type 1 dissection. The doctor, Dr. Caselli, was world renowned heart surgeon. He used the example that if it was hanging on by a string, the string was as thin as dental floss to be able to survive the surgery. And had to have two of those as, you know, six days later, had to go back in for the second one. I think you, I don't know if you. Did you make it into Houston right after the second one?
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Right after it, yeah.
B
And. But it was wild. It was a. The first five days I was in icu, so it wasn't worth coming in and, but very grateful. I do remember lying in bed and asking Dom Capers if I still had a job. And I think he said, I think he said, we'll worry about that later. Let's just survived this moment.
A
So. And for everybody out there, imagine you're starting your career because this was really Jed starting his career. He had just finished being a grad assistant with the football program at the University of Florida. Really the lowest level you could possibly be in a football program. I mean, he was barely in the program and then he gets his first opportunity with the Houston Texans, which was a new franchise. I mean, it was literally, there was no team really. Right. And so, and Jed, within the Houston Texans was the lowest man on the totem pole. Like, people probably didn't even know he worked there at the time. And then this all happens and now imagine you're in your career and this is happening to you. It would take almost everybody else off course. I mean, Jen almost literally like died. Like he died multiple times on, on that table. But coming out of it, the thing that always struck me was, first of all, I came to see you. You were a Disaster. I. I mean, the guy was, like, in rigamortis. He looked like a mummy. He was walking around like a cane. It wasn't the guy that I knew from college that, you know, we could crush a few beers together. Right. But you. You maintain, like, a positive mindset. You maintain, like, I want to get back to work. You, like, do you just read, like, you know, Tony Robbins stuff every minute you wake up? How did you not let yourself go down a slippery slope?
B
Yeah, I'd say the biggest thing, Jay, was the people around me. Like, you know, I actually did a podcast with David Carr last week, and we were talking about this, and he, like, he was the first player to come visit me. And, you know, you're 26, and my. You know, we'll get into it a little bit about how I even got involved in coaching, but, like, you feel like you're hanging on for dear life anyway, right? And now you're like, oh, my God, this is, like, a real problem. Like, if I can't make it back or if I'm not 100%, I have no chance. But David and Kylie Wong and Dom Capers and those guys that were, like, visiting, it made you feel like you did matter, even though you knew you were on the bottom of the bottom. You were recognized and you were known, and the players cared. And that was probably the inspiration, was how much people cared about you. And I think anybody, you know, you don't realize it until you go through something traumatic about how many people are willing to check on you and see how you're doing. And that was my biggest inspiration. That, like, wow, if these guys actually do know who I am and do care how I'm doing, then I have to get back and I have to do a great job.
A
It is really amazing. I don't think people realize enough. I'm learning it more. I wish I realized it more early in my career. People are willing to help you if you ask for help. You know, people. People will help you in your career. And so just to finish up that story, one piece of it, which I also always took something away from, was that. So maybe like a month or two after the surgery, I was getting married. Okay. And long before Jed had his medical disaster, I'd asked Jed to be the best man in my wedding. And I. And. And. And I was like, well, Jed's not coming to my wedding. I was in Florida. He was in Texas. And I didn't expect him to, because that'd be ridiculous. The guy literally couldn't, you know, stand up and get to his couch. And so I remember I called you up. I'm like, jed, yeah, don't worry about it. I. You're my guy. But don't even think about coming. He goes, no, I'll be there. I'm like, what do you mean you're gonna be there? You can't. You can't be anywhere. You're not physically able to be anywhere. And the d. And. And it's about showing up for your friends. It's about being there for each other. It was a lesson that I learned that stuck with me the rest of my life, is that, you know, when you have friends like that that will show up. And he. So he got his ass on a plane. Whatever was left of his ass, he got it. Ass on a plane. And he showed up and he gave just about the best best man speech anybody ever gave, because everyone's like, I'm listening to a guy who's half dead. I got to pay attention. So. So thank you for showing up.
B
Yeah, well, yeah, thank you for not cutting me out and making. Giving somebody else a job. I know there was. Few of our buddies were probably trying to lobby for that spot.
A
They're idiots.
B
Yes. But it was. Yeah, I guess I got out of the ICU April 22nd or 23rd, and I believe that your wedding was in June, right?
A
Yeah, that's right.
B
So, yeah, it was a little tight turnaround. We'll call it a tight turnaround. But, you know, you do everything you can, man. You do for the people that, you know, do everything they can for you. And I remember, you know, just the visits from the. You know, in the hospital, and I. I can't imagine, like, some of the crazy videos people sent. And like, I mean, you know, sometimes you didn't want to laugh because it hurts so bad, you know, like, you're all, like, wired and you're laughing and you shouldn't be laughing. But the best thing about our friendship, our friends, our friend group, I mean, everyone makes everyone laugh, whether they make fun of people or make funny things happen. At least I will tell you, the joy is what kept me going.
A
Yeah. And it's so great because also, a lot of times, you know, Jed will be on tv, coach in the game, and we'll just make a screenshot of Jed and we'll text it to each other. Like, look at what he's wearing. He looks like an idiot right now. You know, it's like, no matter what, any. It doesn't matter where everybody gets in life. We're all still the same doofuses, which is. Which is amazing.
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All right.
A
But I want to go back a little bit, though, for everybody that maybe feels imposter syndrome, because a lot of people right now, they're not in the football world and sports world or any of that stuff, but in their careers, they're like, well, I want to break in. I want to be the head of social media over here. I want to. I want to start this business over here, but I don't know how to do that. I don't know anybody in that field. I know my parents weren't in that business. I don't know how to do that. So. So your crazy, wild other story is that Jed's now the head coach of this major Big Ten college football program, one of the biggest programs in the country. The dude never played football. He's not like some former linebacker that did whatever. Okay? And he didn't have. It wasn't like he had a mom or dad that was on the ring of honor at some football stadium. Zero Burger. So how do you break in? How do you feel the confidence to break in? How did you break in to the world of football?
B
Yeah, it's just what I wanted to do. I. I don't even know if there's a better way to describe it. It's like, I had this mission, and I was like, I'm going to Florida. My dad's a lawyer. Right. You know that? My dad said to me, well, if you're going to go to Florida, like, what do you want to do for a living? I said, I want to coach football. He said, that is a weird answer, But I said, that's what I want to do. And he goes, okay, well, where do you want to do it at? And I said, I don't know. The best place where they have the best football coach. And he suggested. He goes, well, who do you think that is? And I said, steve Spurrier in Florida. And I'm from New Jersey and applied to Florida. And he's like, okay. And I tried to get every job. Equipment manager, you know, a student assistant, worked in the training room. I tried every job that they let me do. I got none of them. I got turned down for every single job at Florida. As you know, I still went to school there. I said, all right, I'll try the fraternity route where we met. Yeah. And. But at that point, I'm not going to quit. I'm going to figure out a way. I didn't come to Florida to just be in a frat and Just whatever, you know, go to law school or whatever it might have been. So I started leaving notes on Coach Burriers windshield, day in and day out. And I just kept saying, you know what? There's got to be a way. I went and I asked for a meeting. They said, no meeting. I went and asked for another meeting. They said, no meeting. I said, all right, I'll just keep leaving notes until there's a meeting. And I would show up there, and I would leave something ridiculous, and I'd do a lot of work, and I'd leave, like, an idea. And then I would send a note saying, this is how I think I could help. And finally, man, you live. You lived it. I mean, it was like a year and a half later, you know, I was coaching at P.K. young High School. I took a high school coaching job. I ran into Dwayne Dixon and Buddy Tins. And Coach Dixon's like, well, you can come and, like, work in my office when no one's there. And you could, like, you know, find. Take a TV game of a football game and then take another VCR tape, and you could put a play on a tape and then a play on a tape. And that's what I did. And then I became, like, the Turn the lights off coach. Then I became, you know, the Make a photocopy coach. And then Coach Spurrier. I think he got my name right last year. So, you know, I mean, I was Jeb, I. I was Jebby. I was. You name it. But it just. I'm like, this is what I'm gonna do, and I'm not gonna quit until I get a chance.
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You see, I love that attitude. And that's what everybody needs to realize. You don't. You just have to keep pushing you, and things will happen. It may not even be exactly what you want or who knows? But it will happen. And the funniest part about Coach Spurrier, you know, Jed had to break in. Coach Spurrier wouldn't give him the time of day. Whatever. Then you fast forward. I'm at Jed's wedding, okay? Years later. And Jay goes, I. I need you to. Will you drive Coach Spurger to the wedding from the hotel? I'm like, great. I want to hang out with Coach Spurrier. So I drive to the wedding, and then I'm at the wedding. It's like the cocktail party or whatever. I'm at one end of, like, the cocktail party, and all of a sudden I hear this voice going, jay, Jay, come over. Hang out over here. I look over. I'm like, that is Coach Spurrier yelling for me to come on over and hang out. And it went from Jed leaving notes on this guy's car. He probably thought he was a psycho. To spur. You're, like, wanting to do, like, the Macarena at the wedding. I mean, it's amazing. It was amazing.
B
You know what's amazing now is, like, you could never get away with that. Like, if someone was leaving notes day in and day out, you'd be like, full on stock. Full on. You know? Yeah. Up police department everywhere.
A
Right.
B
You know, back then, it was just like partial stalker. But no one knew what the word stalker meant, so it was like, oh, this is just a weird guy, you know, versus full on stalker. So, like, when people ask me, how do I break in? I'm like, not my way. Do not do it my way.
A
Right.
B
Chances are not in your favor. Find a different route. But in the end, the number one route is don't quit. I don't care what the route is. Just don't quit.
A
Well, speaking of quitting, I'm curious about totally different route here. So before you at a Husky, right. You were the head coach at the university. University of Arizona. And I could say this, you can't. It was a hot mess when you got there. All right, one in 11 situation, and you turn that thing around. I mean, turn around to a top 15 program in the country, win the Alamo bowl, the whole thing. But for everybody else that's out there also, they may walk into a business situation where a company's not doing well, a department's not doing well. And now they have to convince everybody this new plan that they got is going to be the thing that really gets us going. So you're walking into this room with this group of guys that were 111. You guys are. You know, nobody thinks you guys can do anything. How do you get everybody on the same page buying into a plan when historically, whatever plan they've been doing was just not working at Arizona? How did you get that turnaround to happen so fast?
B
Yeah, that was an interesting one.
A
The.
B
The thing that I thought was the best part about it. So we go in there. The last game they played before they hired me, they lost 70 to 7 to Arizona State. Right. And I got a call the next day, got offered the job. A week or two later. I was coaching in New England. I went there, and I kind of took this philosophy of, like, you can't tell me what you were doing was working. So we're going to try something brand New. We're going to have a different approach. We're going to. The messaging on the walls are going to be completely different. The everything's going to look and feel new. We're going to have to, we're not going to, we're going to change. The first thing we're doing is going to change the offices because we are not going to sit in offices that didn't have a winning record. We're not going to sit in offices that just went at a 12 game losing streak. We're just not doing it. And then we go 1 and 11. So now the program is 1 in 23 over a 2 and a half year Spanish. And they're looking at me and they're like, you came in here and changed everything and you got one win. You know, and I said, no, I changed everything for the future. You know, we're just working through it right now. And you. We just didn't change our philosophy. We just stuck to it. We stuck to it. And we had 20 so kids that just bought into what we were saying. And that recruiting class, tmac, who's number eighth overall pick? Noah Fafida, Jonah Coleman. You know, you just start naming them, right? Anthony Ward, Isaiah Ward. You start naming all these guys, Price, Sock and dicario Davis. They all bought in and they all just said, you know what, we believe in what your, your mission is. And I told the, I told our staff we are not going to sell anything because we have nothing to sell. We're just going to tell them what we're going to do for them and we're going to build a relationship and we're going to make it totally transformational and not transactional at all. And we went 5 and 7 that year and then we went 10 and 3 and finished 11th in the country the next year. And it was all about just relationships and belief.
A
Were there, were there things along the way though that like you had to motivate yourself because you're always motivating other people. Like, how do you wake up in the morning and be like, I'm assuming not every day you wake up and like, yeah, every hooray. Another amazing day. How do you self motivate? Especially when you hit like a bump in the road, you lose a big game, you lose a player, you lose your recruit you. How do you self motivate?
B
Yeah, the hardest challenge for sure was, you know, showing up thinking you're going to flip a program and going 111, right? Like and staying positive and trying to make sure and realize that it's not if, like, whatever I come in with, you know, when you're the boss, whatever your personality of the day is or mood of the day is, the. It. It filters through the whole building, right? Your whole office, your whole company. Well, same with us. Like, if I came in down, we had no chance because then everybody would be down. And if I came in ultra positive, we had a chance. So I just got into my car every day and I just told myself, like, the only chance I have to live my dream is to make every. Bring everybody along with me until. Until I could start serving them one day. But right now, I gotta just bring them with me. I gotta just bring them with me and just continuing to make everybody feel like, hey, this is gonna happen. And when it does happen, I used to say there's going to be a 30 for 30 written about this one. And that was our messaging. And you go through ups and downs and ups and downs, and I think coaches are at their best, you know, I think the best coaches are at their best after losses. You know, after a win, it's not that hard, right? You got to be able to stay on top and keep them getting better and better and better. But how do you handle adversity? How do you handle defeat? And how do you not let the same team beat you twice? And that was our big message always.
A
Yeah, I think that's. That positive attitude really is something, because everyone does feed off whoever is leading that department, that company, you know, that. Whatever. So. All right, before we wrap up, though, I. I am curious about something because something I'm impressed at by you is you. You're very. You're still. You're very accessible. You have a lot going on. Okay? You definitely have a lot going and a lot of people a lot going on. But you in particular have a lot going on. And you. You seem to make. You always make time for your friends, for your family. You seem to kind of be like, there's like four jets. He's kind of like all over the place in a good way. And is that. Are you intentional about carving out time for things like that? You say, listen, I got. I got to make sure I touch base with my buddies. I got to make sure I do this, that or whatever. Is that an intentional thing or you just rapid fire all day now?
B
You know, I saw this saying a while back that says, like, you could be on a really long journey, but it comes to a very fast end and you don't never know, right? You could be going, going, going, going, Boom. And it's over. And what happened to me, obviously, in 2003, like, that does still stick with you. And, like, I would sooner. And my dad passed away at 63. My brother passed away at 53. So, like, you know, we're 49, about to turn 50, and you realize, like, when they. When they were this age, our age, they felt like we feel.
A
Yeah.
B
You know, they felt healthy and great and ready to take on the world, and then something happens, and it gets taken, and then they don't have the next day. And I think that I just try to feel like if I don't spend time with my buddies and then I don't get to spend time with my buddies anymore, that would suck. And if I don't spend time at work, committing to trying to make this amazing, and then we don't make it amazing, that would suck. And so. And then, of course, with Amber and the girls, like, if I'm not a great dad or a great husband, then why does any of it matter? Right? Like, so trying to balance it all. And then I believe that the program needs to be marketed constantly. I am, like, I believe that our only opportunity to truly take it to. You know, we're in the big ten, and we're new there. We're far in the country. Right. We're not close. We're not in the middle of the country. We're not in the southeast. We're far northwest. And, like, you got to stay relevant. You got to make people still understand what's going on, and you got to have people see you, and, you know, the W's got to flash. And, you know, I was in the Caribbean a couple weeks ago, and I'm walking down the street, and I got a. There's a dude in a W hat. And it's just cool to see people constantly. So you. We. We always are trying to be everywhere, and, you know, it's probably wears myself down sometimes, but I think it's the most important thing.
A
Well, this was awesome. I don't want to say thank you because screw off, but this was. We have to do a round two. There's. There's just so much more nonsense we could talk about. And listen, man, you're my guy. I appreciate you. Go Huskies. Any parting words for the. The marketing world that's out there?
B
I'm a little confused why you're not in costume. Some of these I've seen. You've been in costume?
A
Yeah, I do.
B
I did have hot dogs available for a hot dog eating competition. If he jumped On. Thank you. I. But I do say this, Jay, you have done an unreal job, you know, changing the game in terms of social media, in terms of, you know, the media marketing that you do, in terms of being able to get yourself out there. The TED Talks are phenomenal. I do enjoy those. I really do. I can't wait for your book.
A
Oh, yeah.
B
Where is your book?
A
Right here. I got a fresh copy. It's not out yet. April. Stupid. I know you wanted a lot of copies.
B
Amber's like, hey, Ali called. Jay wrote a book. So I bought three dozen. I go, what? How much does this thing cost?
A
Thank you.
B
So I'm fired up about all of that. You know what? Stupider People have done it. Is that the title?
A
That's it. You nailed it.
B
Yeah. Well, I appreciate you, man. And you guys have definitely nailed it. And I would just tell everybody, man, it's, My dad wrote this in my yearbook in high school. It is better to try and fail than fail to try and suffer the inestimable loss of what might have been. And that's how we live our life every day. Great.
A
Jeff Fish, man. A legend. A legend. And Jed is a legend. All right, my guy. Appreciate you. We'll do it again soon.
B
Thanks, pal. See?
A
All right, wait. The party is not over. Go to jweddelson.com because I want to do stuff with you. I want to partner with you.
B
We.
A
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Do This, NOT That: Marketing Tips with Jay Schwedelson
Episode 489: "BEST MAN from MY WEDDING! & Head Coach Washington Huskies! BREAKTHROUGH in your Career! w/ JEDD FISCH"
Date: April 9, 2026
Host: Jay Schwedelson
Guest: Jedd Fisch (Head Coach, Washington Huskies)
This very special episode features not only a renowned college football coach but also Jay Schwedelson's best friend of over 30 years, Jedd Fisch, now Head Coach of the Washington Huskies. The conversation dives deep into themes of adversity, career breakthrough, unorthodox success pathways, resilience, and the power of relationships—without losing the playful banter of two lifelong friends. The episode provides both actionable career lessons and personal inspiration relevant to marketers, leaders, and anyone facing setbacks.
Timestamps: [03:02] – [11:50]
Jedd’s Aortic Aneurysm Experience:
At age 26, Fisch survived a near-fatal aortic dissection while just starting his coaching career with the Houston Texans:
"In 2003, I was 26 years old...I felt like this massive knife went right in the middle of my back. And I couldn't understand what it was." – Jedd Fisch [03:14]
Crucial Support and Positivity:
He credits the support from friends, colleagues, and even players as being critical to his recovery and motivation to return to work:
"David [Carr] and Kylie Wong and Dom Capers...made you feel like you did matter, even though you knew you were on the bottom of the bottom." – Jedd Fisch [08:08]
Key Takeaway:
Adversity can shape your perspective and trajectory if you let your support system help and you maintain a positive mindset.
Timestamps: [09:22] – [11:50]
A Best Man Despite the Odds:
Despite only recently surviving surgery, Jedd insisted on attending Jay’s wedding as his best man:
"It’s about showing up for your friends. It was a lesson that I learned that stuck with me the rest of my life." – Jay Schwedelson [10:38]
Humor and Friendship as Recovery Tools:
The pair share how laughter, group texts, and being the butt of jokes (even on TV) keep them grounded:
"No matter where everybody gets in life, we're all still the same doofuses, which is amazing." – Jay Schwedelson [11:50]
Timestamps: [12:09] – [17:38]
The Unlikely Path to Coaching:
Jedd never played college football, had no family connections, and got rejected for every football program job at the University of Florida. His relentless persistence paid off:
"I just kept saying, you know what? There's got to be a way... I would leave an idea, send a note saying, this is how I think I could help." – Jedd Fisch [13:07]
Advice for Aspiring Career-Changers:
"Do not do it my way... Chances are not in your favor. Find a different route. But...don't quit." – Jedd Fisch [17:10]
Timestamps: [17:38] – [22:43]
Transforming Failing Teams and Organizations:
Taking over Arizona after a 1–11 season and a demoralizing 70–7 loss, Jedd focused on fresh messaging, environment changes, and culture:
"You can't tell me what you were doing was working. So we're going to try something brand new. The messaging on the walls are going to be completely different." – Jedd Fisch [18:39] "We are not going to sell anything because we have nothing to sell. We're just going to tell them what we're going to do for them and...make it totally transformational and not transactional at all." [19:55]
The Power of Consistent Positivity:
A leader’s attitude permeates the organization:
"If I came in down, we had no chance because then everybody would be down. And if I came in ultra positive, we had a chance." – Jedd Fisch [21:14]
Timestamps: [21:14] – [22:43]
"I think coaches are at their best...after losses...how do you handle adversity? How do you not let the same team beat you twice? That was always our big message." – Jedd Fisch [22:05]
Timestamps: [23:40] – [25:46]
Making Time for People Despite a Demanding Career:
Jedd reflects on the fragility of life and why he remains present and available for family, friends, and his coaching role:
“If I don't spend time with my buddies and then I don't get to spend time with my buddies anymore, that would suck. … If I'm not a great dad or a great husband, then why does any of it matter?” – Jedd Fisch [24:16]
The Necessity of Always Marketing Yourself or Your Program:
"I believe our only opportunity…is to truly take it to [the next level]…you got to stay relevant." – Jedd Fisch [25:18]
On Survival and Perspective:
“Without being in the NFL at that time, I was dead. There’s no question about it…” – Jedd Fisch [04:00]
"You need to ask for help. People will help you in your career." – Jay Schwedelson [09:22]
On Unconventional Persistence:
"I was Jeb, I was Jebby, I was… you name it. But it just… I'm like, this is what I'm gonna do, and I'm not gonna quit until I get a chance." – Jedd Fisch [15:36]
On Leading Through Adversity:
"It's not if... whatever I come in with, when you’re the boss… it filters through the whole building." – Jedd Fisch [21:14]
On What Matters Most:
"If I’m not a great dad or a great husband, then why does any of it matter? Right?" – Jedd Fisch [24:16]
On the Podcast and Their Friendship:
"No matter where everybody gets in life, we're all still the same doofuses." – Jay Schwedelson [11:50]
On Legacy and Trying:
“My dad wrote this in my yearbook in high school: ‘It is better to try and fail than fail to try and suffer the inestimable loss of what might have been.’ And that’s how we live our life every day.” – Jedd Fisch [27:03]
Jay and Jedd’s conversation offers an uplifting, candid blend of career advice, heartfelt storytelling, and comic relief. Whether you’re after marketing mastery or just a burst of inspiration, these insights on adversity, persistence, leadership, and true friendship are relatable and actionable for any listener.
Standout Quote
“It is better to try and fail than fail to try and suffer the inestimable loss of what might have been.”
— Jedd Fisch quoting his father [27:03]