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Jay Schwedelson
What up? Welcome to do this not that, the podcast for marketers. I'm Jay Schwedelson. Let's dig into some tips and some randomness. We are back for do this not that podcast presented by Marigold. And we have such a cool guest today. We have Lee King, who's Lee. Lee is the director of special projects and events at the Council of Fashion Designers of America.
Lee King
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Jay Schwedelson
Ooh, I should have worn something nice today. I didn't do that. So what does that actually even mean? So in addition to the CFDA Fashion Awards that they host, they also organize the fashion calendar. Okay. For the official New York Fashion Week schedule, I'm going to walk the Runway. I'm talking this into fruition. That's happening. But Lee King, she, like puts on all this stuff, all the events, digital stuff, in person stuff. It's amazing. We're going to dig into her career path because I think for a lot of people, they want to hear, how does somebody wind up doing something so cool? I want to do that. So, Lee, welcome to the podcast.
Lee King
Thank you. Thank you for having me. I'm so excited to be here.
Jay Schwedelson
I really should have stepped up my outfit game, but don't judge me. All right, so before we get into your career path and all the different twists and turns, what do you actually do?
Lee King
That's a good question. So like you said, I'm the director of special projects and events at the cfda, the Council of Fashion Designers of America. We are a membership based organization for the American fashion industry and our members are all American designers. So you know, some, some bigger names you might know, like Ralph Lauren, Michael Kors, Tory Burch are all on our board. And our chairman is Tom Brown, who's just an incredible American designer. We really work to support designers throughout their entire designer life cycle. So from a student who's just graduating from fashion school all the way up to an iconic designer like Tom Ford. So I oversee all of our events, and that can be something very small, from a board meeting all the way up to the CFDA Awards, which is our biggest event of the year. It's a big fundraiser. The last few years, we've done it at the Museum of Natural History in New York City. We have roughly about 500 people on a yearly basis, and it's a very big night in fashion that we're proud of.
Jay Schwedelson
So in your heart, are you an event professional? Are you a. What would you. If somebody says you, what are you like, what industry are you actually in? In your brain?
Lee King
Very much in the Fashion industry, like fashion with a capital F. That's what we like to say. So very, very much within that, however, we work with like creative people. And although we serve, you know, designers specifically, we really serve the entire industry. So that's everyone from like retailers, stylists, models, fashion influencers, tech companies. So, you know, fashion is an insular sort of company type, but it has a huge scope and a huge reach.
Jay Schwedelson
So a lot of people listening out there are like, oh, that's cool. That's so much better than my business to business plumbing supply company that I'm doing the marketing and events for. I always wanted to be in fashion. So was it just super easy? You finished school, you're like, hi, I want to be in fashion. You got the job out of the gate. Like, was it that simple or did you have to hustle your way in? Like, how did you break in? Like, tell us from the beginning how it all happened.
Lee King
All right, that's a good question. Long. I'll go to the long. But the short answer is no, it's not easy. It was a lot of hustling, years of hustling, and I'm still hustling every day, which is why I've had my job for so long, I think, and have been able to grow. But taking it way back, I have always wanted to work in fashion. I went to school for fashion. I went to fit them in California, and I also went to LIM in New York, which really focuses on the business of fashion. So, you know, I feel lucky that I always knew I couldn't be a designer because unfortunately my brain just doesn't work like that. However, I was always interested in working in the industry and I had some knowledge that other jobs besides being a designer existed. Originally, I went to school for fashion merchandising because I thought I'd be a buyer. Very quickly learned I would be a terrible buyer. I'm really not good at math and buying is very math focused. So I. Although I finished my degree in that, I don't think I actually did much work in that sort of area while I was in school. We were pushed to do a lot of internships and get on hand on the job experience because we were told, you will never get a job in fashion unless you have fashion internship experience, which I can say is very, very true. It's very hard to break into the industry at the time. When I was in college, Etsy, the sort of like crafting platform had become really popular and I created a fashion blog because this was a hundred years ago when fashion blogs were, like, just getting started, and it was about, like, all the best fashion on Etsy. And so I'd like, like, just spend hours and hours scrolling Etsy, like, several times a week and create posts of, like, all these outfit ideas that I put together were things I found on Etsy. And sometimes I'd bring in, like, other sort of designer pieces to pair with that. So I did one time post about, like, Tory Burch. And randomly enough, I think it her role probably at the time was like, marketing director at Tory Burch. And she found my blog and she emailed me and was just like, oh, that was cool. Like, thank you for the mention. And I was just like, didn't know what to do with myself. I didn't even know that, like, anybody read it, let alone someone that actually worked in fashion. So I took it upon myself to reach out to her and try to, like, introduce myself. I had a project coming up where I had to interview someone, so I asked if it could be her, and she said yes. And she said if I was ever, you know, looking for an internship in New York, she couldn't make any promises. But to reach out, years and years later, I sold my blog. I saw an internship posting online for Teen Vogue in their web department. And this was when literally, like, Teen Vogue had just created a website. So it was very, very new, and they were hiring interns to help with that. So I brought printouts, I think, from my blog as my writing samples and somehow just connected with this amazing woman and got the internship. I truly have no idea why she chose me or thought I was capable of that, but I was so grateful that someone took a chance because that's really all I needed, was just someone to give me one big chance. So I get my foot on the door. And I ended up staying there for a year, interning at Conde Nast with the Teen Vogue team. It was incredible. We were, like, based in Times Square at the time. I just felt like we were at the pinnacle of fashion. It was, like, such an amazing time for fashion publishing as well. So it was super exciting, and I learned a lot. I did have to get another internship. My school was like, okay, you did great, but get something else. So I used the opportunity to then reach out to the woman from Tory Burch, and she didn't have anything in her department, but the visual merchandising department was hiring, and they wanted me to be their intern. So I stuck around with them for a really long time. I helped them open the Tory Burch store in Madison Avenue, which was incredible and just a great experience. Um, I got to work really closely with Tori and. And worked with her stylist a bit. And through all of this experience, I kept hearing about this company. I didn't really know about them, but it was called the cfda and it seemed really cool. And I had no idea what they did, but I just felt like they were kind of a big deal because I kept hearing about them at all of my jobs. So during my last semester in college, I ended up seeing a post for an internship at CFDA in the communications department. And again, I applied, I interviewed. Luckily enough, I did get that internship. It was really great because it was actually a full time internship. So I really got, like, very immersed within the company, which at the time I think was nine people, which is incredibly small for the amount of work that goes on there. And when I graduated, I was really heartbroken because they didn't have a job for me and I had to leave, which was devastating because I just had grown to love CFDA and grown to love our work so much and was really bonded with everybody and proud of everything that I had done. But there was a designer that was the CFDA member that was looking for an assistant. That designer is Zac Posen. And I went and worked with Zac Posen as his assistant. That was my first official job in fashion, My first big girl job. Like I say, I have never learned so much in such a short amount of time. It was really like a masterclass of, like, working with a designer and what it meant to be a designer and create a collection and, you know, market to the industry and work within the industry and have shows and have events and have partnerships. And at the time, he was also a judge on Project Runway. So I got this, like, really incredible, well rounded experience working with him that I'm so, so grateful for, and also grateful that he's still a good friend of mine and his new role as, like, head of everything at Everything Creative at Gap and Old Navy and Banana Republic. From there, I went and worked at J. Crew. I kind of tried my hand in the merchandising and planning world because I had gone to school for that, and I thought I got a little bit of experience like that working from Zach. Didn't love the role. Loved J. Crew a lot. It was a great company. And I was there in the heyday of Mickey Drexler and Jen Alliance. And Mickey would get on the speaker and talk to everybody and have people call him, and people would be running around picking up Phones calling, Nikki, running to his office. It was like super exciting. And then finally, finally a job became available at CFDA and they were starting a new department which was going to be called the Events and Special Projects department. And the woman that I had previously interned for was going to be in charge of this department. And apparently she said there's only one person I want to work with and that was me. So I was very, very lucky. I didn't, I shouldn't probably say this, but I didn't have an official interview. I talked to Stephen Kolb on the phone, who's the CEO, and he kind of said, well, you know, Sophie said she'll only do this department if she can hire you. So I guess if you're in, I'm in. And obviously I was in and the rest is history. And I've been there for about 10 and a half years now, working my way up in the Events and Special projects department from a coordinator, assistant role to director and head of the department now.
Jay Schwedelson
That's an amazing journey. It really is. And what I love about it and what I think everybody out there that's listening is you. You did something. You didn't just go and go on, you know, indeed, or ZipRecruiter or LinkedIn, say apply, apply, apply for whatever. But you were a self starter and you're creating this blog and you are connecting with people and networking and you're manufacturing, you know, your own luck, you know, and that is, I don't care what industry anybody's in, especially a super competitive one. I would guess that if you didn't do any of that and you just were hitting apply, apply, apply. Especially in today's day and age, would it be almost impossible to just break through and get those types of internships?
Lee King
I think it's hard. I think it's so hard. And it was hard for me to get an internship and like I said, I was just like totally amazed that someone would take a chance on me. And I know that I try to do that for other people. I do try to like take a chance on people even if, you know, they don't have tons of internship experience available. Because I think if you meet someone, you can tell really quickly if they're going to be the right person and the right fit. So I do like to try to pay it forward. But yeah, I mean, it is very hard to break into fashion in any role as a designer, as an event person, as an influencer, whatever you're doing, you know, there's facets of the industry that are gatekeepy and that are do feel exclusive, but once you get in, you kind of realize those things are like, not necessarily true. But sometimes it's just hard to get your foot in the door. And you have to be super assertive and network and meet people and DM people on Instagram. I always tell people to DM on Instagram because I've met so many people just by literally messaging them. And I think it's a great tool.
Jay Schwedelson
I couldn't agree with you more. If people out there think they're going to move their career forward just by playing the regular game and not being assertive, even if it's out of your comfort zone and DMing people or messaging them on LinkedIn or doing 17 different things, doing smoke signals, you're not going to get those opportunities. You have to create it for yourself. I'm curious about something, though. Such a cool path, right? Meet all these cool people. And now you don't just do all the stuff with the designers and stuff, but you're putting on, like, big events and you're dealing with not always the fun stuff you're dealing with. How many tables should we have? Do we have the right lighting? Does the microphone work? How are people gonna do this? That whatever. Not. I mean, it sounds amazing, like the most fun thing ever. But just so everybody has like a little sobriety here, like, you deal with a lot of non just designery type stuff. And that's the case for any job, right?
Lee King
Totally. That's a great point. And whenever I do meet new people or talk about events, because my job does sound like it's this super glamorous thing and I get to go to all these events and fashion shows and really it's 95%, like Excel sheets and table charts and colors of linen or flowers, and 5% glamorous at the 5% I will say, is like quite glamorous. And I feel really lucky about that. But I also am not mistaken in that I am not a guest. I am there to work. And I expect everyone on my team to sort of operate in that same way. But yeah, it's. It's not, you know, it's a lot of smoke and mirrors.
Jay Schwedelson
Yeah, no, you're working hard. Okay, so I have a couple of very random questions before we run out of time here. If I was your friend, and now we're friends, but if I was your regular friend in real life, I would be like, oh, I'm gonna hit Lee up. Maybe she can get me into blah, blah, blah, or maybe she get me backstage to blah, blah, blah, because she knows everybody. Do you just get people hitting you up for, like, hookups all the time? And do you have, like, a standard line that, like, keeps everybody at arm's length?
Lee King
Honestly, I will say most of my friends work in fashion, so they kind of, like, understand. But I will say in general, CFDA probably does get, like, hit up for things like that all of the time. Or, you know, just someone is really interested in attending Fashion Week. But the thing to understand is, like, while the industry is. Is working to make Fashion Week more democratic, it is an industry facing thing. And, and it's meant for. For buyers and stylists and editors to see the collections. It's not necessarily meant for consumers first and foremost. So that's always the way I sort of phrase it is. Like, there's limited seats at a fashion show. Like, why are you taking. What. What makes you want, like, ownership of one of those seats? And even for us, like, I'm, I'm. I try to, you know, always be really cognizant of, like, am I taking the seat from somebody else? Someone else that could maybe do something other than what I can do for the designer?
Jay Schwedelson
That was very smooth. That was good. I would feel bad then if I asked you, and then you'd be like, okay, well, I don't want to take the seat. All right. The most random question that you'll ever be asked. So. Love Zach Posen. I love Jenna Lyons. As you know Jenna Lyons, Real Housewives of New York. Okay. Do you. Did you. Do you watch the Real House of New York? Are you like, whatever? Because I love genes.
Lee King
I love Jenna Lyons. Jenna, if you're watching this, you know how much I love you. Every time I see her, I tell her I love her. And she's my fashion icon forever. And working at J. Crew while Jenna was there is like seeing a big celebrity every day. But I will say Jenna is, like, incredibly kind, down to earth. Cool, awesome fashion girl.
Jay Schwedelson
Oh, my God. I'm not going to get into Real Housewives. But she's the only cast member they should keep because the rest of it was a hot mess.
Lee King
But, well, now New York got the cut.
Jay Schwedelson
No, I just read yesterday. This is updated. Literally. I'm on a Bravo blog. So as you know, because you're going to be out of Fantastic. Speaking. Andy Cohen is speaking from Bravo, but as of yesterday, they said no New York Housewives is coming back, but at least almost a whole new cast. If not, some members might say, but it's coming back.
Lee King
Okay, T. I did not know that.
Jay Schwedelson
There you go. Very important information here. All right. You're amazing. Where should people, you know, find you? Do you want people connecting with you, following you, whatever? Where should people find you if they want to, like, follow your world?
Lee King
Find me on Instagram, because apparently I don't LinkedIn or update my LinkedIn very well, but on Instagram, I'm Lee Elise. And feel free to find me and follow me and DM me if you really want to pitch yourself.
Jay Schwedelson
There you go. Be brave. We're gonna put it all in the show notes. This was amazing. I loved every second of it. Thanks for being here, Lee.
Lee King
Thank you so much.
Jay Schwedelson
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Podcast Summary: "Do This, NOT That: Marketing Tips with Jay Schwedelson | Episode 344"
Episode Title: MY PATH: New York Fashion Week [CFDA] Event Lead ➡️ Leigh King
Release Date: May 30, 2025
Host: Jay Schwedelson
Guest: Lee King, Director of Special Projects and Events at the Council of Fashion Designers of America (CFDA)
In Episode 344 of "Do This, NOT That!" hosted by Jay Schwedelson, marketing enthusiast and event professional Lee King shares her inspiring journey into the high-paced world of fashion events. As the Director of Special Projects and Events at the CFDA, Lee offers invaluable insights into breaking into the competitive fashion industry, the importance of networking, and the realities behind orchestrating glamorous events like New York Fashion Week.
Overview of Position and Responsibilities
Lee King serves as the Director of Special Projects and Events at the CFDA, a prestigious membership-based organization supporting American fashion designers. She oversees a wide range of events, from intimate board meetings to the highly anticipated CFDA Awards.
Lee King [02:27]: "We really work to support designers throughout their entire designer life cycle. So from a student who's just graduating from fashion school all the way up to an iconic designer like Tom Ford."
The CFDA Awards, CFDA's flagship event, is a major fundraiser held annually at venues like the Museum of Natural History in New York City, attracting around 500 attendees each year.
Educational Background and Early Aspirations
Lee's passion for fashion led her to pursue studies in fashion merchandising at FIT in California and later at LIM in New York, focusing on the business side of fashion rather than design.
Lee King [03:41]: "Originally, I went to school for fashion merchandising because I thought I'd be a buyer. Very quickly learned I would be a terrible buyer."
Initial Forays into the Industry
Understanding the necessity of hands-on experience, Lee began by creating a fashion blog centered around the burgeoning Etsy marketplace. Her proactive approach led to unexpected opportunities:
Lee King [05:10]: "I did one time post about, like, Tory Burch. And randomly enough, I think it her role probably at the time was like, marketing director at Tory Burch. And she found my blog and emailed me."
This connection resulted in an internship at Teen Vogue's newly launched website, marking her first substantial entry into the fashion world.
Leveraging Connections and Seizing Opportunities
After her stint at Teen Vogue, Lee capitalized on her network by securing an internship in Tory Burch's visual merchandising department. Her hands-on experience included assisting in opening the Tory Burch store on Madison Avenue.
Lee King [10:00]: "I helped them open the Tory Burch store in Madison Avenue, which was incredible and just a great experience."
Transition to CFDA
Despite a brief tenure at J. Crew exploring merchandising and planning, Lee's persistent efforts and networking skills eventually led her back to the CFDA. A pivotal moment occurred when Stephen Kolb, CFDA's CEO, chose to hire her based on a strong recommendation, bypassing the traditional interview process.
Lee King [12:15]: "I didn't have an official interview. I talked to Stephen Kolb on the phone, and he kind of said, well, you know, Sophie said she'll only do this department if she can hire you."
Over a decade at CFDA has seen Lee rise from a coordinator to the director, demonstrating her dedication and adaptability within the organization.
Creating Your Own Opportunities
Jay commends Lee for her proactive approach, emphasizing the necessity of self-initiative in breaking into competitive fields.
Jay Schwedelson [12:15]: "You were a self-starter and you're creating this blog and you are connecting with people and networking and you're manufacturing, you know, your own luck."
Advice for Aspiring Professionals
Lee echoes the sentiment, highlighting the challenges of entering the fashion industry and the critical role of assertive networking.
Lee King [13:00]: "You have to be super assertive and network and meet people and DM people on Instagram. I always tell people to DM on Instagram because I've met so many people just by literally messaging them."
Balancing Glamour with Groundwork
While the fashion industry exudes glamour, Lee emphasizes that event management is predominantly about meticulous planning and detail-oriented tasks.
Lee King [15:04]: "It's 95% like Excel sheets and table charts and colors of linen or flowers, and 5% glamorous."
Expectations vs. Reality
She maintains a professional stance, ensuring that her team understands the importance of hard work behind the scenes.
Lee King [15:51]: "I am not a guest. I am there to work. And I expect everyone on my team to sort of operate in that same way."
Handling Inquiries and Requests
Lee addresses the frequent requests for backstage access or exclusive opportunities, stressing the importance of prioritizing industry professionals over general consumers.
Lee King [16:20]: "There's limited seats at a fashion show. Like, why are you taking... What makes you want, like, ownership of one of those seats?"
Maintaining Integrity
She is cautious not to displace industry insiders who could better serve the designers and the CFDA's mission.
Lee King [17:21]: "Am I taking the seat from somebody else? Someone else that could maybe do something other than what I can do for the designer?"
Fashion Icons and Pop Culture
The conversation shifts to lighter topics, with Jay inquiring about Lee's personal interests, such as her admiration for Jenna Lyons from "Real Housewives of New York."
Lee King [17:47]: "I love Jenna Lyons. Jenna, if you're watching this, you know how much I love you. Every time I see her, I tell her I love her."
Industry Updates
Jay shares recent news about the revival of "Real Housewives of New York," adding a humorous touch to the discussion.
Jay Schwedelson [18:18]: "As of yesterday, they said no New York Housewives is coming back, but at least almost a whole new cast."
Social Media Presence
Lee encourages listeners to connect with her on Instagram, emphasizing its importance for networking and professional opportunities.
Lee King [18:58]: "Find me on Instagram, because apparently I don't LinkedIn or update my LinkedIn very well, but on Instagram, I'm Lee Elise."
Jay wraps up the episode by highlighting the key takeaways from Lee King's journey: the significance of proactive networking, the blend of glamour and hard work in event management, and the importance of maintaining professional integrity. Listeners are encouraged to follow Lee on Instagram for further insights and networking opportunities.
Jay Schwedelson [19:12]: "Be brave. We're gonna put it all in the show notes. This was amazing. I loved every second of it. Thanks for being here, Lee."
Connect with Lee King:
Instagram: @LeeElise
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