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Welcome to a new special series called the Bathroom break. That extra 10 minutes you either have to listen to marketing tips or use the bathroom. Or both. But I don't recommend both. But that's your choice.
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This collab is going to be super fun. We have Daniel Murray from the Marketing Millennials and me, Jay Schwedelson from the do this not that podcast and subjectline.com each episode in the series we are going to go over quick tips about different marketing top topics and if you want to be in the bathroom, fine, just don't tell us about it. Thanks for checking it out.
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We are back with another episode of the Bathroom Break. I'm here with the J. Schwedelson of do this, not that Podcast and guru and eventtastic. And it goes on and on. And I want to get started with what is what do you do in the month of December? Like what are you a holiday person? Are you a vacation person? Are you a leave Florida? You stay Florida. What does your December look like?
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So I always really try to carve out a week where my two kids, they're both teenagers, we always do some trip together and I encourage travel even if it's like something local like you can't, you don't want to spend a lot of money, but something where you maybe it's just you and your partner or you and your kids. I think once a year, at least for a week, you lock in and you go do something. So we do that every single year and it's good because if not, I would lose my mind. I, I didn't want to do it but my wife forced me to do it years ago and I'm very happy because I look back now and I have a lot of, you know, memories and crap and whatever, but I go full force work mode until that last week of the year and then New Year's I try to stay home and avoid everybody I know. What, what is your vibe in December?
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Pretty much the same. I. It's just it's hard being married to a person in E Com because this is like the peak year for E Comm and then it's not the peak time for B2B except like close out the rest of the year type vibe. It's not big sales websites breaking stuff like that. It's more like figuring out what went right, what did and preparing for 2026. So but usually like we like to the the Christmas new year time go on a trip just not this year because baby time, baby. Yeah, you can't really do much. You can't do much. But I like it. It's fun. We'll figure out we're going to start traditions with the baby and I think that's going to be fun, which the.
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Baby won't remember for a solid five years. So get that started. But so let's talk about what worked in email. We're going to talk about the five things this year that we learned in email heading in 2026 that matter that you should be thinking about for your email marketing, whether you're a business marketer, consumer marketer. So Daniel, what's something that hit you this year about email that kind of was a game changer?
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Yeah, I think the one thing that I been trying to do very hard is always incorporating something to get someone to reply to me in email.
So I always add CTAs in the top of the email, the bottom of the email in the middle of the email. I want people to have conversations. I also think that I don't make it too deep. I make it like an easy thing to reply to. Like what is your favorite holiday cookie or what restaurants do you normally go to or what's your tradition for this? Like I want a low lift response, but I want people to respond to my emails. I want to build that a relationship with my audience. And I also think it helps my email list grow, get more opens. And I've seen like open rates stay consistent this way. I've seen deliverability stay consistent this way. So that's something that I think needs to be continued. Especially in the age of AI of adding personalized CTAs for replies.
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Yeah, I think for us, what I've come to realize is that nobody should have their best day and time to send out an email. I think that is out the window and it's a misleading statistic. Oh, our best day is Tuesday at 8am I think that's absolutely garbage. And what everybody should be thinking about, what we're, what we look at is what is our weekly aggregate unique number of humans that are opening and clicking and interacting with our emails and why we look at it that way is you can send out an email on Tuesday morning 8am, you can send out the same email or different email on Thursday at 4:00pm you send again Sunday at 11:00am and, and it's not a matter of which one had the highest opens, clicks, whatever. It's that at those different times you're hitting different populations of people that are interacting with your email that like it at that time. So I think this idea of having your best day and time is absolute garbage. And the metric though you should be thinking about is what is the unique number of people that you are going to interact with your content and send out more sends so you can get to more people but send them out at different times.
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Yeah, I added something along this lines that we've been doing in 2025 and continue to do 26 is we do verified subscriber and open rates. Click awaits and verified meaning we know who they are, they are in our ICP and compare that to the list so we have a verified subscriber metrics versus not so verified of people in ICP that click the emails that open the emails. Because we want to know truly in ICP what they like and what they don't like and separ it. We don't mind having a bigger email list, but we also want to know like who are the perfect ICP that are opening the email, clicking the email, liking our content look, going back through and seeing what topics they're opening, what topics are clicking through and having a verified subscriber versus like a whole list metric. So we've been separating out those two metrics with our email metrics these these days.
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I love that. And I'll tell you another thing that we're doing, which I think everybody should do. Whether you're a nonprofit business consumer marketer, which is running DOM main frequency reports, one of the probably most biggest missed things is looking at your data this way. What I mean by that is take your database and run a report by domain, right? So@ford.com or@comcast.net or whatever and run it in descending order. And what you'll see is of course you might see like a boatload of Gmail, right? A boatload of big ones like that. But you'll be fine. You'll be shocked. You're going to see a boatload of people at, you know, Baptist Health.com a boatload of people at AOL. And the reason you want to do that is this can be a boat anchor in your email deliverability, which is bad because all of a sudden you have a thousand people at Baptist Health and when you try to send out your database, it's causing a bottleneck for deliverability. So that's one problem, but or aol, those are dead addresses. Get them out of there. But the opportunity side is you might say, oh my God, we have 60 people at Ford Motor Company. We've been trying to work with them. I didn't realize that many people are getting our emails by running a domain frequency report on your email database it will uncover a lot of issues and opportunities. I don't think enough companies are doing that.
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I'll add like because we are in the age of AI and all that stuff. I would say something that I think should happen more but do it with heavy editing is repurposing long form piece of content for email marketing. Like repurpose that talk you gave repurpose that webinar you did repurpose that podcast you did and break down the tactics. It's easy. It's an easy way to add an extra send to your database. It's helpful and I now you could put that transcript into AI help find the key takeaways for for your audience just by prompting correctly and using that as one of your sends that you send to your email list. It's valuable and also could direct back to those channels. So if you have a podcast you could get takeaways direct back to the podcast webinar recordings ways to get people to like interact with things but use AI as a way to repurpose your all your content into email.
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Yeah, I guess the last one for me is that don't believe the garbage that's out there about certain metrics mattering or not mattering or whatever. So open rates still matter. I don't care what anybody says. I don't care about bots, I don't care about Apple. Open rates matter. Anybody that says otherwise is a dork. Pre headers still matter. People started saying the beginning of the year because Apple's like stripping out the pre header in their new iOS update that pre headers the second, you know, subject line, that gray text. They don't matter matter. That is absolute garbage. Whenever people say things don't matter, they do matter and they're losers and they have no life.
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I think people just say that to rage bait people and get click. Yeah, it's like emails dead. Don't do this. Don't care about open rates. These things matter to the extent that you should care about it over something else. Maybe not. But like operates are leading indicators. Click through rates are leading indicators. Like all these are metrics that you should be looking at and that's what the platform gives you. So you should be caring about them. And yeah, that's why we get rid of subscribers all the time. So because we care about that metric.
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When in doubt, kick them out.
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Exactly.
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So speaking of December, now you're a Floridian. Okay. Do you ever and you're from Africa. You are. I don't know why I always like that. You're from Africa. It makes me laugh. And you lived on the west coast in warm weather. Have you ever seen snow? Are you still like. I've never seen snow.
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I did go to the University of Cincinnati, so. So I went to Ohio, and it was freezing there, so I did live in a snowy place, and I have seen so. But I don't think I. I don't know. But you live from New York. But I. I didn't. I don't know about your kids, but I didn't, like, touch my, like, first piece of snow till I was, like, 8 or 9 years old. Like, it was like magic to me to see snow from being from California. So I remember my first time. I think we went to, like, Lake Tahoe, and I'm like, wait, snow. Like, what is this? So, yeah, I didn't touch snow until I was, like, 9 or 10, which is a weird concept to some people.
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You ever made a snowman?
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Yeah, I've done that. I mean, now I'm.
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It's.
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Take it probably like 15 years old. But I didn't get the snow tradition.
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We.
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It's more sandcastles when you're from, like, a beach city than snowman. So.
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By the way, for everyone around the country doesn't know since south Florida, it's so pathetic. They'll do get, like, you know, some community thing at a park. They'll bring in snow. They'll, like, blow ice into, like, a little mountain, whatever, and they let kids, like, play on the snow. And it's really, really embarrassing and weird. And I've gone, oh.
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We used to do that at schools in Cal. They used to, like, spray, like, the whole, like, grass and that. I remember that. That was, like, the only version. And it would melt in five minutes. But it's. You still got it.
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I love how everybody around the country is listening. It's like, hey, clown you. It's. It's freaking three feet of snow here, and you guys are talking about you've never seen snow. Yeah. Daniel, by the way, you could dm. He loves shoveling snow. He will come to your home and he will shovel out your. Your sidewalk.
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Yeah. I would love to, like, travel to, like, Wisconsin right now in Minnesota. Like, I'm really. I'm really in need of heavy snowstorms right now, so.
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All right, well, now you can sing. Do you want to make a snowman or. We'll skip that. We'll do that on the next episode.
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All right.
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Frozen Part 3 on the next episode. Daniel, we'll see you there, man.
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See you.
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Daniel. Come on, man. I got to get back to work. Get out of there. All right, while he's still in there. This is Jay. Check out my podcast, do this, not that, for marketers. Each week we share really quick tips on stuff that can improve your marketing and hope you give it a try. Oh, here's Daniel. He's finally out.
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Back from my bathroom break. This is Daniel. Go follow the Mark and Millennials podcast but also tune into this series. It's once a week, the bathroom Break. We talk about marking tips that we just spew out and it could be anything from email subject line to any marketing tips in the world. We'll talk about it. Just give us a shout on LinkedIn and tell us what you want to hear. Peace out.
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Later.
Podcast: Do This, NOT That: Marketing Tips with Jay Schwedelson
Host: Guru Media Hub
Guests: Jay Schwedelson (Do This, NOT That) & Daniel Murray (The Marketing Millennials)
Date: December 8, 2025
This “Bathroom Break” special series episode is a fun, rapid-fire collaboration between Jay Schwedelson (of the Do This, NOT That podcast) and Daniel Murray (of The Marketing Millennials), focusing on debunking popular email marketing myths (“hot takes”) and sharing actionable, up-to-date strategies for 2026. In an informal, conversational style, the hosts each bring their most important lessons learned from the past year in email marketing, mixing in personal banter and practical tips that are meaningful regardless of your marketing niche.
Daniel on conversation CTAs:
“I want people to have conversations. I also think it helps my email list grow, get more opens… deliverability stay consistent. Especially in the age of AI.” (03:18)
Jay on myths:
“The idea of having your best day and time is absolute garbage… Send them out at different times.” (04:07)
Jay on data hygiene:
“Get them out of there. But the opportunity side is... We have 60 people at Ford Motor Company… run a domain frequency report, it will uncover a lot of issues and opportunities.” (06:07)
Jay’s hallmark bluntness:
“Whenever people say things don’t matter, they do matter and they’re losers and they have no life.” (08:23)
The episode is brisk, practical, and lighthearted—full of banter, a touch of sarcasm (“anyone who says open rates don’t matter is a dork”), and a no-nonsense refusal to follow superficial marketing trends.
For listeners and doers:
Expect quick, tangible tips you can implement—even if you’re listening while on a bathroom break. The banter between Jay and Daniel ensures even technical insights are delivered with a smile.