Podcast
Do You F*cking Mind?
Hosted by Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset Coach · EN
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.
On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak. And on Fridays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions!
Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions.
Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change at https://bit.ly/44xwszR
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427. Breaking out of your phone addiction and learning what rat park can teach you about it.
Jun 29, 202500:32:20Tap to summarizeWelcome to today's episode! I am so pumped about this episode, I talk all about breaking social media addiction and that constant phone scroll. I’ll also share the learnings of the Rat Park study by Dr. Bruce Alexander and what it teaches us about how our environment and connections impact addiction. I’ll give you some practical tips to cut down on social media and start creating your own ‘Rat Park’ - a life full of connection and limit compulsive behaviours. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here. Download the app today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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426. Navigating attachment styles, long distance relationships & breakups. (Headnoise)
Jun 26, 202500:31:44Tap to summarizeBeans! Today's episode is a head noise episode. We've got questions about breaking up a long distance, moving versus not moving, avoidant attachment style & breakups! If you would like to send in a question email please email: info@dyfmpod.com or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here. Download the app today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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425. How to write the most effective to do list EVER so you can feel great after (and other focus tips)
Jun 22, 202500:33:17Tap to summarizeI’m sharing how I tackle that overwhelming feeling of “I have so much to do but nothing’s getting done.” I walk you through how I create my to-do lists in a way that actually works. With a breakdown of soft vs. hard actions, how to tell what needs deep focus vs quick wins and how I use time-blocking to stay on track without burning out. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here. Download the app today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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424. Friendship Red Flags, Jealousy & Feeling Like a Fraud. (Headnoise)
Jun 19, 202500:40:13Tap to summarizeIt's Headnoise Friday, where I answer questions you sent in. From confronting the idea that your bestie might be a gold digger, to navigating jealousy in relationships and the sting of a lost friendship. I give you tips & practical advice on how to handle the situations. If you would like to send in a question email please email: info@dyfmpod.com or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here. Download the app today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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423. How to f*ck up a good thing by looking for something else only to lose it all
Jun 15, 202500:43:41Tap to summarizeIn this episode, I am talking about that all too familiar feeling of second guessing the good things in our lives like wondering if there's something better out there. Whether it's your relationship, job, or even a personal goal. I discuss the difference between knowing when to walk away and when you’re just not seeing the value in what you already have. I share some super practical tips and easy exercises to help you figure out what’s really going on. If you’ve ever found yourself sabotaging something good for the sake of “what if,” this one’s for you. I have also created a worksheet for you to take notes on here. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here. Download the app today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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422. Thriving Solo & Choosing Yourself First. (Headnoise)
Jun 12, 202500:32:29Tap to summarizeGuys welcome to a Headnoise episode where I answer your questions! Thank you for sending in your Listener Questions, to send in your question, send an email to info@dyfmpod.com. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here. Download the app today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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421. Live Show Questions - Imposter syndrome, big decisions, Tips for improving memory and more
Jun 10, 202500:38:15Tap to summarizeGuys, I after the live show I had SO MANY questions come through that I never had the chance to answer so I thought it would be good to go through some of them here on the pod. (still thousands more to go LOL) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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420. Outgrowing Friendship Patterns: Reality Checks and Emotional Shifts . (Headnoise)
Jun 5, 202500:34:12Tap to summarizeIn this episode, I answer listener questions on friendships, moving homes, reality TV's impact on our brains & navigating dating as a single parent. We’re talking red flags, boundaries, growth & how to protect your peace while still showing up for the people you care about. Thank you for sending in your Listener Questions, to send in your question, send an email to info@dyfmpod.com. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here. Download the app today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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419. Don't get rejected by the same person twice
Jun 1, 202500:46:00Tap to summarizeIn today's episode, I talk about the topic of rejection and how to avoid being rejected by the same person or situation twice. I chat about building your self-worth, picking up on red flags early & protecting your energy from relationships that aren’t good for you. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here. Download the app today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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418. Tools for dealing with painful in-laws. (Headnoise)
May 29, 202500:30:10Tap to summarizeIn todays Headnoise episode, I cover the topic of In-Laws (one of my most requested topics). From the self-appointed family CEO to navigating living with controlling parents I answer your questions! Thank you for sending in your Listener Questions, to send in your question, send an email to info@dyfmpod.com. Join the DYFM Facebook Group Follow @doyoufkingmind on IG Follow @dyfmpodcast on TT Follow @alexisfernandezpreiksa on IG Follow @alexispredez on TT Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on IG Follow @mindsetrecreationclub on TT Order your Brain Journal here. Download the app today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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