Why She Shuts Down Around You (And What You're Doing to Cause It)

She used to bring you everything. Now she barely brings you anything. And you can feel it, even if you can't name what changed.

In this episode, Andrew makes a case that most men aren't going to want to hear: the way she's showing up emotionally right now is largely a response to how safe you've made it for her to feel around you.

Not because you're a bad person. Because you were never taught that emotions make sense, and so you've been, mostly unconsciously, telling her that only some of hers are acceptable to you. And she learned.

What's covered:

Why every emotion she feels is a 100% accurate response to something, and why the flaw is in your timeline, not in her feelings
How trying to shut down the emotions you don't like also kills the desire, warmth, and openness you actually want from her
The way men unconsciously teach the women they love to stop feeling openly, and what that costs both of them
Where emotional repression comes from, and why it almost certainly started long before your relationship did
What happens to her, to you, and to the desire between you when you start letting her feel again

This one is primarily for men, but if you're a woman who has felt yourself getting smaller around your partner, or who has stopped bringing him the full weight of what you feel, it's for you too.

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