A Husband and Wife Do Life. Danielle's FIRST recording with David Dellen. - Don't Cut Your Own Bangs

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Danielle Ireland (0:00)

Just a quick side note, for any listeners that might have little ones around, these are conversations that are targeted for adults. They're happening between adults. There is some potential for adult subject matter or adult language. Keep that in mind. This is hardly an R rated podcast, so please don't feel like you have to go down into your basement and hide under a blanket to listen. But it might be something you want to be mindful of if you've got a little one in a car seat. Hello, this is Danielle Ireland with Don't Cut yout Own Bank. And we made it. We did it. We have crossed the finish line. This is the concluding episode, the final episode of season one. We did it.

David Dellen (0:44)

We made it. We're here.

Danielle Ireland (0:47)

I am floored. I'm amazed. I'm beyond words, and that's maybe troubling considering that this is a podcast and it's all audio, so I should probably find some words. But needless to say, my heart is just bursting with just joy and gratitude that this is a thing. We made a thing. And the fact that you're listening, you've helped me create this thing and share.

David Dellen (1:11)

It with the world.

Danielle Ireland (1:12)

And I just cannot be more appreciative and also incredibly proud to share this special episode. So before I introduce the guest, I'd like to share why I decided to include this episode. This is the very, very first recording I ever did, ever. My first attempt at an interview. So it's rough. We were also drinking wine, which I've come to find is probably not the best practice when you're trying to have a meaningful conversation, at least on if you want it to be cogent and coherent and all those other great adjectives. But, yeah, that's what it was. And you might call this my Act 2, Scene 1, because it's the very, very, very, very beginning of my messy middle and figuring my way through this whole podcast journey. But it also happens to be with my favorite person on the planet, my husband, David Dellen. Not only is he an incredibly gifted and talented businessman, he has a philanthropic heart, a generous spirit, and he's also, he's been told he's an old soul. I think sometimes that's just code for sometimes he gets a little serious. But in this episode, you get to see, I think, some of the best of him when he's just lighthearted and joyful and silly and playful. And that's definitely, definitely what he was here. He's an incredible guest and I want to interview him again to really highlight him properly, because he was doing more of you might even say he was interviewing me more than I was interviewing him. Probably because he could tell that I was nervous and he was trying to help me out. But you get a great taste of who he is as a human and you also probably get a more intimate look at what my life is like on a day to day because there's a lot of husbandly and wifely banter. You also hear there is a mistake that I make in the episode. I can't remember where it is exactly. So this will be a fun little Easter egg for you to find. There is a mistake where I say that I said one thing, he corrects me. I told him that he heard it wrong and it turns out he was correct. So what a great way to live your life, folks. This is my advice to all married couples. Record every conversation. That way you have evidence when someone's wrong. Just a little nugget of final pearl of wisdom from me to you. Just record every conversation you ever have and then you always have evidence. We'll just call this exhibit A that I was wrong.

Summary

Podcast Summary: "Don't Cut Your Own Bangs"

Episode: A Husband and Wife Do Life
Host: Danielle Ireland
Guest: David Dellen
Release Date: February 13, 2023

In the inaugural episode of "Don't Cut Your Own Bangs," host Danielle Ireland steps into her first recording alongside her husband, David Dellen. This intimate and candid conversation sets the tone for the podcast’s mission to bridge the gap between where listeners are and where they aspire to be, all while embracing the messy middle with humor and heartfelt insights.

1. Celebrating the Beginning

Danielle opens the episode with heartfelt gratitude, expressing her amazement and joy at launching the podcast. She introduces David not only as her husband but also as a talented businessman with a philanthropic spirit. Their chemistry is palpable as they laugh over the imperfections of their first recording session, highlighting the authentic and relatable nature of the show.

Danielle Ireland [00:44]: "We made a thing. And the fact that you're listening, you've helped me create this thing and share."

2. The Origin of "Don't Cut Your Own Bangs"

The duo delves into the inspiration behind the podcast's unique name. Danielle shares a personal story about her childhood struggles with her hair, symbolizing the broader theme of accepting and embracing one's true self.

David Dellen [06:13]: "The podcast name was honestly inspired by just my friend Lindsay and I were laughing about like embarrassing childhood moments."

3. Embracing Mistakes and Learning

Both Danielle and David recount personal anecdotes where mistakes led to growth. Danielle describes her embarrassing moment singing the national anthem at a high school basketball game, while David shares Tyler’s (possibly Danielle’s middle name or nickname) experience of forgetting lyrics during a college performance. These stories underscore the podcast’s focus on making big feelings and failures feel less daunting.

Danielle Ireland [07:14]: "I really tried to model hairstyles based off of people that had maybe a third of the amount of hair I did. Naturally, it was always disastrous."

Tyler [28:45]: "I was so pissed. It was all right. I mean, it's one of those things for like a solid couple years..."

4. Defining Success Amid External Pressures

The conversation shifts to the challenges of defining personal success, especially in the context of business and societal expectations. Tyler (Danielle) articulates the struggle of balancing customer satisfaction, stockholder demands, and personal well-being.

Tyler [36:04]: "One feeling like I'm a success at all... it's feeling like a success is a tough thing for me to define for myself."

David Dellen [44:02]: "The people that around you feeling happy and having their needs met... that really does circle around."

5. Mentoring and Impacting Youth

Danielle highlights her involvement in the Big Brother program, emphasizing the importance of positive role models for youth. She shares touching moments of mentoring and the reciprocal joy of connecting with younger generations.

Tyler [45:20]: "Even being able to show them what they're able to, what they can learn from a positive influence..."

David Dellen [45:27]: "We do a lot of singing together... he's getting older."

6. Navigating Technology in Work and Life

The hosts discuss the dual nature of technology—its ability to connect and its potential to create stress. Tyler expresses a love-hate relationship with technological demands in business, balancing the benefits of connectivity with the pressures of constant availability.

Tyler [48:23]: "The amount of interaction with people lessens your... it's even becoming a generational gap for millennials and younger..."

David Dellen [49:42]: "That's affecting our marriage customers."

7. Light-Hearted Banter and Future Plans

As the episode progresses, Danielle and David engage in playful banter, discussing hypothetical scenarios like being animals and the challenges of podcasting together. Their humorous exchanges reinforce the podcast’s promise to blend personal growth with laughter.

Tyler [51:48]: "If you could be any animal, what would it be and why?"

David Dellen [55:56]: "If anyone is still listening at this point. You are heroic. You are wonderful. You're majestic."

Conclusion

The episode wraps up with reflections on their dynamic as co-hosts and the enduring support they offer each other. Danielle and David express excitement for future episodes, promising more life lessons, shenanigans, and genuine conversations.

David Dellen [66:10]: "You keep doing this let the record show thing."

Tyler [67:29]: "Bye."

Notable Quotes:

Danielle Ireland [07:14]: "It was always disastrous."
David Dellen [36:28]: "We find ways to be of service."
Tyler [38:29]: "Success is a tough thing for me to define for myself."
Tyler [44:02]: "Success is feeling happy and having people like the work that you do."
David Dellen [55:35]: "This has been a delight."

This first episode of "Don't Cut Your Own Bangs" offers listeners a sincere and humorous glimpse into Danielle and David’s lives, setting the foundation for a podcast dedicated to navigating the complexities of personal and professional growth together.