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Dorothy and the Dealer Podcast
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Dorothy and the Dealer
What’s the meaning of life? Why do we think the way we do? Is our perception of reality real? What influence do our thoughts and actions really have over our reality?
If life was one big game and you were handed the ultimate cheat sheet, would you use it to win? Or, would you take a chance on the roll of a dice?
Dorothy and the Dealer take you on a joy-ride down life’s many rabbit holes. Discover what makes you and the universe tick. Get inspired by fresh takes on how to win at life: in relationships, career, finances, and overall health and wellbeing. Hear from the greatest minds and leading experts in human development and relationship psychology, neuroscience and neurobiology, quantum physics and ancient mysticism.
Hosted by Mitch Behan and Emilia Tomeo, self-proclaimed life hack junkies, human development specialists to everyone else.
"We’re serious about human development, but we don’t take ourselves to seriously"
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224: Why your “healing” isn’t working: what is a REAL breakthrough?
Dec 800:40:28Tap to summarizeIn this episode, Mitch and Mills get real about what a TRUE breakthrough is — what it is, what it isn’t, and why most people spend their whole lives circling their stuff instead of shifting it. They unpack: - What a breakthrough really means (beyond the pop-culture fluff) - Processing vs coping vs actually transforming - Therapy vs Breakthrough - The 7 unconscious ways we create our reality - Trauma as the body’s attempt to return to balance - How to leap when you’re right on the edge - The “take your highest self to dinner” exercise Plus, a classic tangent — this time on music stars, fame, and all the chaos behind it. This episode calls you out of victimhood and into destiny. As Paul Bailey said, “Life invites a greater legacy from you than just getting to your deathbed safely.” If you’re ready for the breakthrough you’ve been avoiding… this one will wake something up in you. Sam’s podcast mentioned: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1QeGMPHsu0
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223: Navigating Life’s Transitions: From Mid-Life Crisis to Clarity
Aug 2800:23:51Tap to summarizeLife transitions can feel messy. Whether it’s quarter-life confusion, a “mid-life crisis”, or simply that quiet voice asking, “Is this it?” In this episode of Dorothy and the Dealer, Mitch and Mills dive into what it really takes to move through those seasons with purpose. We’ll explore how to: Find clarity when the old roadmap stops making sense Align with your partner so you’re building a life together, not drifting apart Ask better questions: What do I truly love? Who do I want to spend my time with? Where do I want to travel? How do I want to contribute? Reimagine your future by getting curious about the one thing that lights you up—and learning how to build your life around it This is your reminder that a “crisis” is really just a calling to look deeper. If you’ve ever felt stuck, lost, or ready for something more, this conversation will help you turn uncertainty into direction, and direction into a life you actually love.
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222: How to show up when you have nothing left to give, values and work-life balance
Aug 700:28:02Tap to summarizeIn this Q&A-style episode, Mitch and Mills answer some of the big (and super relatable) questions sent in by listeners and our coaches. From doing the things you need to do, even when you’ve got zero energy, to figuring out if you're really following your vision - or just stuck on autopilot—they cover it all with their usual mix of honesty, heart, and a bit of humour. They also unpack the fine line between understanding someone’s behaviour... and making excuses for it. And when it comes to those big emotions—anger, jealousy, sadness—they flip the script: it’s not about fixing your feelings, it’s about loving them. With a few tangents into work-life balance, showing up for yourself, and what it really means to lead with awareness, this episode is full of real-life tools and perspective shifts you’ll actually use. Let's connect! Instagram: instagram.com/mjbseminars/ Facebook: facebook.com/mjbseminars/ Dorothy and the Dealer Podcast: youtube.com/c/DorothyandtheDealer
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221: NPC’s Part 2: Herd Mentality vs Inner Knowing
Jul 3100:26:00Tap to summarizeIn Part 2 of their deep dive on Non-Playing Characters (NPCs), Mitch and Mills pick up where they left off—unpacking what happens when people stop thinking for themselves and start living on autopilot. They explore the difference between sourcing your truth from the outside world versus tuning into your inner voice, and how herd mentality can disconnect us from our intuition, values, and authentic power. It’s a real look at the tension between trusting the external versus trusting yourself. The duo also dig into the question everyone’s asking: “How do I help someone in this state?”—without pushing, preaching, or getting pulled into the same loop. If you’ve ever felt like you're waking up in a world of people still asleep, this one’s for you. Thought-provoking, real, and full of gold for anyone learning to stand strong in their own truth. Let's connect! Instagram: instagram.com/mjbseminars/ Facebook: facebook.com/mjbseminars/ Dorothy and the Dealer Podcast: youtube.com/c/Dorothyandt
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220: The Search for Resilience: Sonja Pototzki-Raymond
Jul 1000:54:37Tap to summarizeIn this episode, Mitch and Mills chat with Sonja Pototzki-Raymond—aka Sonja the Search Queen. A best-selling author, CEO, fertility advocate, and marketing powerhouse, Sonja shares her journey from building a top Australian digital agency to navigating a gruelling four-year fertility battle that inspired her book The Search for Resilience. They unpack what it means to hold your vision through heartbreak, lead with heart and strategy, and find strength in your toughest seasons. With 20 years in global marketing and over $700M in client sales, Sonja’s story proves what’s possible when you lead with purpose. Whether you’re growing a business or craving real talk in a hard season, this one will inspire you. 🎧 Grab Sonja’s book, The Search for Resilience, on Amazon https://www.amazon.com.au/Search-Resilience-Awaken-Warrior-Business/dp/1925452964 📲 Follow her on Instagram: @sonjathesearchqueen 🌐 Learn more at: sonjathesearchqueen.com
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219: Non-Playing Characters (NPC’S) Part 1
Jun 2600:36:24Tap to summarizeA deep and thought-provoking chat about being a Non-Playing Character in your own life and witnessing others doing the same. In this episode, Mitch and Mills get into a bit of a debate about the idea that there are just some people who will never “get it”. It’s one of those episodes that might leave you confused, or pondering life’s bigger questions. Mills poses a good question: Are these people just ignorant to the fact that they can be more than a pawn in someone else's game. Stay tuned for part 2. Let's connect! Instagram: instagram.com/mjbseminars/ Facebook: facebook.com/mjbseminars/ Dorothy and the Dealer Podcast: youtube.com/c/DorothyandtheDealer
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218: From Rock Bottom to Realignment: Property, Perseverance & Letting Go with MATTHEW GUSCOTT
Jun 1201:07:01Tap to summarizeIn this episode, things get real—and a little rowdy—as Mitch and his best mate, Matthew Guscott, sit down for a brutally honest (and at times hilarious) chat about life, business, and starting over. Mills jokes it’s like listening to two 12-year-old boys half the time, but underneath the banter is a seriously powerful story of resilience. Matt opens up about building a construction company, facing liquidation and bankruptcy, walking away from his marriage with kids in tow, and learning to let go of the life he had to create the one he truly wanted. He also talks about his new partner, Brooke, and how her mission to run around Australia for mental health helped him open his heart and shift gears completely. Brooke’s website for donations and supporting the cause: https://brookemcintosh.com.au/
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217: EVERY FUCKERS A COACH! Skipping the steps, REAL coaches, AI’s influence on the industry
Jun 300:29:27Tap to summarizeWhat kicks off as a fun yarn about 80s rave culture and how music connects us all quickly turns into a deep (and surprisingly honest) chat about the battle scars it takes to become someone worth listening to. Mitch and Mills dive into: ⚡ How AI’s changing the coaching game 👀 Why you need to be picky about who you take advice from 🤔 What actually qualifies someone to coach others 🎶 Plus, a reminder that music really is the universal language It’s real, it’s raw, it’s a bloody good listen. Hit play and get amongst it. Instagram: instagram.com/mjbseminars/ Facebook: facebook.com/mjbseminars/ Dorothy and the Dealer Podcast: youtube.com/c/DorothyandtheDealer
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216: Letting Go to Hold On: Amelia’s Story of Adoption, Loss & Self Love
May 15, 202500:50:19Tap to summarizeIn this deeply moving episode, Mitch and Mills sit down with their client and now colleague, Amelia Gow, to share a moment that shaped her life forever. At just 16 years old, Amelia found out she was pregnant—and made the heartbreaking decision to place her son for adoption. She opens up about what life was like back then, her mother’s reaction, the moment she let him go, and the turbulance that followed. Together, they explore the emotional weight of a system that offered little care or communication, and the decades-long ripple effects of that experience. Now, 20 years later, Amelia reflects on meeting her son’s parents, reconnecting with her past, and how that journey became a catalyst for her own transformation. This episode is about grief, courage, identity—and the power of choosing healing when life gives you no clear roadmap. Raw. Brave. Unforgettable. Thank-you Amelia for sharing your journey.
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215: Ep. 215: From the Horse’s Mouth: Life Lessons w/ Mitch & Mills
May 2, 202500:33:54Tap to summarizeIn this episode, Mitch and Mills get real, raw, and unfiltered, sharing the biggest life lessons they’ve learned along the way. Kicking things off with a game of 2 Truths 1 Lie, they put each other (and you) to the test before diving into the experiences that shaped them. They cover: 🎭 Lessons Along the Way – The highs, the lows, and the unexpected turning points 🌊 Experiencing Emotions – Why feeling it all is the key to true growth 🌀 Letting the Magic Happen – How surrendering to the process leads to breakthroughs This one is packed with real talk, hard truths, and a few surprises—get ready!
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