Ask, Tell, Confess: Did I Really Make $100,000 In One Night?

Summary

Dumb Blonde Podcast: Ask, Tell, Confess – Did I Really Make $100,000 In One Night?

Host: Bunnie XO
Guests: Jaime & Haley
Episode Date: April 3, 2026
Episode Theme:
A candid Q&A session where Bunnie XO, joined by friends Jaime and Haley, answers listener questions about her past trauma, her book, controversies about her former sex work earnings, family estrangements, and the healing journey. The episode is a blend of humor, vulnerability, and honest conversation about personal growth, relationships, and resilience.

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Main Discussion Themes

1. Neurodiversity and Memory (03:46–09:00)

• Dyslexia & Comprehension: Jaime shares her experiences with dyslexia, explaining how it impacts comprehension of movies, music, and reading (“I have to read something like four or five times to fully understand it. And they said it's the same thing with movies.” – Jaime, 04:09–04:50).
• Autism and Retention: Bunny and Haley discuss retention of information, how neurodiversity shapes their experience with quoting movies, learning, and processing trauma.
• Notable Quote:
  • “I just thought dyslexia was reading only. And I didn't know it had to do with like music and everything like that.” – Jaime (04:47)
• Relating to Religion and School: Bunny reveals her struggles retaining biblical readings in traditional forms but absorbs sermons and teachings she enjoys (09:00–10:12).

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2. Addressing the $100,000 Night & Sex Work Controversy (11:17–16:58)

• Clearing up Misconceptions: Bunny responds to skepticism about her claims of making $100,000 in one night, clarifying context and frequency (“I need to clarify to you guys, I didn't make that every night. Right.” – Bunny, 12:16).
• Industry Reality: She explains the dynamics of high-earning clients and the prevalence of addiction among wealthy men.
• Authenticity & Consistency: Bunny emphasizes her storytelling has always stayed the same, with public witnesses ready to vouch for her (“If I was going to make up stuff about my life, it would have been way fucking cooler because I don't think my story is that cool, you know?” – Bunny, 12:50).
• How Friends Found Out: Jaime and Haley recount discovering Bunny’s former career through her podcast, showing how stigma and secrecy shaped their early friendship with her.
• Transition to Podcasting: Sex work provided Bunny’s online following, forming the initial platform for her podcast.

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3. Overcoming Addiction & Major Life Changes (17:18–19:49)

• Cold Turkey Approach: Bunny describes quitting Xanax overnight, a testament to her “all-or-nothing” personality (“If I don't want to do something anymore, I will literally flip a switch like that and it is done.” – Bunny, 17:48).
• Not Recommended: She warns listeners about the dangers of detoxing without medical help and credits her determination, not downplaying the difficulty.
• Parallel with Career Changes: Bunny draws parallels with how she abruptly changed her content and public persona when she wanted to shift her life trajectory.
• Memorable Moment:
  • “I literally looked at my husband... and I said, I don't want this stuff in my bloodstream anymore... and he was like, Bunnie, you're not going to be able to not take Xanax. ...Okay, watch me.” (18:04–19:03)

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4. The Book: Questions, Editing, and Audience (19:52–25:05)

• Editing Reality: Bunnie and Jaime discuss the editing process, with much content removed by editors, not by Bunny herself.
• Book’s Intended Audience: Bunny clarifies she wrote her memoir for anyone who’s survived trauma they didn’t choose, hoping to offer hope and agency (“We're not responsible for the trauma that's inflicted on us, but we are responsible with how we deal with it.” – Bunny, 23:21).
• Notable Quote:
  • “You can change so many versions of yourself throughout life. Look at Madonna.” – Bunny (24:10)
• Relief in Catharsis: Writing was sometimes re-traumatizing, especially chapters about her father, but overall cathartic.

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5. Family, Boundaries, and Estrangement (21:16–31:50)

• No Desire for Reconciliation: Bunny remains firm about not reconnecting with family members who were sources of trauma.
• Internet Dynamic: Some family members engage online in negative ways, underlining her stance.
• Setting Boundaries: She emphasizes the difficulty but necessity of establishing and adhering to boundaries, even after decades (“I give 30 years for my older sister. 30 fucking years. I gave her so many fucking chances.” – Bunny, 31:50).

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6. Processing Trauma, Therapy, and Moving Forward (32:15–36:13)

• Coping Differences: Each host shares unique ways of handling trauma – from avoidance, humor, and compartmentalization, to feeling everything intensely (Jaime: “I feel everything. And keep it all inside until it all blows up one day.” – 35:13).
• Therapy Experience: Bunny explains why therapy felt necessary yet draining and why she now prefers to focus on the present:
  • “I don't see the purpose in feeling sorry for Myself. I can't change it. ...But what can I do? I can't control the past, but I can control my future, and that's really all I focus on.” (33:11)

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7. Relationships and Healing After Betrayal (37:03–38:33)

• Marriage After Infidelity: Bunny touches on how her marriage survived infidelity, noting the layers of their history, second chances, and how both partners had to learn healthier relationship patterns.
• Notable Quote:
  • “In love, I'm very strict when it comes to shit like, you can hurt me once, shame on you. Hurt me twice, shame on me, you know, and it's like, as a woman, you have to really know what you're willing to put up with and what your hard boundaries are.” (38:33)

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8. Podcast Growth, Content Evolution, and Community (39:27–41:38)

• Podcast Evolution: Bunny reminisces about the podcast’s origins in sex worker advocacy and how it’s matured into covering broader topics and attracting more diverse guests.
• Knowing When to Pivot: The team discusses the importance of evolving, not staying stuck on old topics ("We know when to get in and to get out, and we don't stay there. We don't stay long enough to overstay our welcome." – Bunny, 42:04).
• Memorable Moment:
  • Recounting the infamous “Whore Olympics” and how the show reflected Bunny’s personal growth.

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9. Audience Questions, Book Signing, and Community Events (42:28–44:31)

• Pop-up Book Signings: Discussion about surprise local book signings and a potential scavenger hunt to engage the community.
• Engagement with Listeners: Bunny encourages continued listener interaction for future Q&A episodes.

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Standout Quotes & Moments

• On Criticism About Her Story:
  • “If I was going to make up stuff about my life, it would have been way fucking cooler because I don't think my story is that cool, you know?” (12:50)
• On Boundaries:
  • “Once I'm finally reached that point with people, that's it.” (31:50)
• On Trauma and Healing:
  • “We're not responsible for the trauma that's inflicted on us, but we are responsible with how we deal with it.” (23:21)
• On Second Chances:
  • “I just truly believe in second chances. And my husband really stepped up to the plate...” (38:51)

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Notable Timestamps

• [03:46] Dyslexia in daily life: Jaime explains comprehension struggles
• [11:17] Addressing $100,000 night rumor and sex work authenticity
• [17:18] Bunny discussing addiction, quitting Xanax cold turkey
• [20:10] Book editing and Bunny’s honesty about contents
• [23:21] Who Bunny’s book is for; handling trauma responsibly
• [24:10] On personal evolution: “Look at Madonna.”
• [29:46] Estranged family relationships and setting boundaries
• [32:26] Living in the present after trauma
• [35:13] Jaime: “I feel everything. And keep it all inside...”
• [38:33] Setting hard boundaries after betrayal
• [42:04] Evolving podcast content and audience approach
• [42:28] Book signing plans and engaging listeners

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Episode Tone & Style

• Language: Direct, unfiltered, often humorous, yet heartfelt and honest.
• Vibe: Candid girl talk with moments of introspection, self-accountability, and audience connection.
• Speaker Dynamics: Bunny leads with authenticity and openness; Jaime and Haley balance with humor, lived experience, and supportive rapport.

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For Listeners New to the Show

This episode offers a window into Bunnie XO’s uncompromising honesty, her philosophy on resilience and change, and her commitment to sharing not just past struggles, but the ongoing journey of healing. If you’re navigating your own hard stories or seeking proof that transformation is possible, this Q&A is both entertaining and genuinely inspiring.

Transcript

[Bunny]

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[Bunny]

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[Bunny]

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[Bunny]

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[Bunny]

ask.

[Jaime]

Confess. I asked to confess. I can't read. I'm just kidding.

[Haley]

I'm dyslexic. It looked right.

[Jaime]

It looked great to me. You know, I learned something the other day about dyslexia because I never understood why I can't remember. Like. Like, I admire the fact that both of you guys can quote movies and I can't quote movies. Like, I.

[Bunny]

Isn't that add, though?

[Jaime]

No. So, like, it's a natural comprehension. It's just you comprehending something that you enjoyed. And I didn't know that in dyslexia you can't actually fully comprehend things without watching it, like, multiple times. And I was never a kid to, like, watch a movie four or five times. And they said that. That was like, I never knew that. I just thought I was someone that just couldn't remember. And they said, no, that's actually, like, you would have to comprehend that by watching it. Like. Like how I. How I read things, you know, I'll have to read something like four or five times to fully understand it. And they said it's the same thing with movies. I just thought dyslexia was reading only. And I didn't know it had to do with, like, music and everything like that.

[Bunny]

Oh, but you listen. You love music, though, don't you?

[Jaime]

Like, I love you, but I don't understand music. Oh, yeah. So like, just the other day, you guys, this is gonna sound so stupid, but, like, I don't hear words in music. It's more of, like, it's a collective thing. So I don't know what songs are about. I have to listen to it so many times to even be able to tell you what the song is about. I just learned the other day that Don't Rock the Jukebox was literally about don't put rock and roll on the jukebox.

[Haley]

See, I don't listen to songs for the lyrics, like, how people are. Like, your lyrics change my life. I. I don't sing a full song

[Jaime]

and not couldn't even tell you what it's about.

[Bunny]

Yeah, so my weird thing about music is I will love the out of a song and, like, the lyrics and the melody and all that stuff. I'm a lyric person, but I won't know who the singer is. Like, I couldn't tell you who the lead singer of Breaking Benjamin is. You know, like, yeah,

[Jaime]

exactly.

[Bunny]

You know, like, I just never know.

[Jaime]

I always thought that was really cool because, like, you will listen to a new song and you're like, oh, that lyric. And I'm like, I didn't even hear that lyric. I don't even know what you're talking about. But you. You listen to words so well. Your comprehension of words is wild to me.

[Bunny]

It's my autism. Are we ever gonna get an autism person on here?

[Jaime]

Yeah, there's a guy that wants to come on now that we're back, like, and settled here. Our schedule t aligned in the beginning of the year, but he's like a local that, like, really loves your podcast too.

[Bunny]

Love that. Hello, friends. We have been recording this entire time. Welcome back to another episode. Jason, leave it all in of Ask Tale Confess.

[Jaime]

Short and sweet.

[Haley]

Chicago.

[Jaime]

What? Staccato? I thought that was a wine.

[Bunny]

Staccato. I thought staccato meant like, it's stacked short.

[Haley]

No, it's just a good short note. I like that I was in band.

[Bunny]

Is it allegro that I'm thinking of

[Haley]

that makes it like, I don't know that one. I just remember staccato.

[Bunny]

Like it. So, yeah, Mimi was just giving us a lesson on dyslexia that you guys heard about.

[Jaime]

It's crazy idea. I didn't know how many things it like, I, I to this day, I didn't even know I had dyslexia for the longest time because I assumed the way that they described dyslexia was that you actually saw jumbled up letters or

[Bunny]

backwards like that every time I think about like dyslexia. I think about people who read backwards.

[Jaime]

Yeah. That's a mitt. They're like. Yeah, maybe like 5% actually.

[Bunny]

Wow.

[Jaime]

Yeah. That's like. That's such the word.

[Haley]

You just in your head say it wrong.

[Jaime]

So it's the comprehension. Yeah.

[Bunny]

So it's like retaining.

[Jaime]

Yeah.

[Bunny]

Information.

[Jaime]

It's the retention of like what you're trying to consume. But even then. Yeah. There are many words like what I'm frustrating. Oh, it's so fresh.

[Bunny]

Isn't that like a. Wouldn't that be. Wouldn't just. Then people don't come for me. This is a genuine question. Wouldn't that dyslexia be a form of dementia because you're not being able to retain information in your brain.

[Jaime]

No. So I can retain. But I retain it differently.

[Bunny]

Okay.

[Jaime]

So I can retain it really well in other ways and not like it's how you retain it. So like me, if someone physically is showing me how to do it, I'm going to retain it so well versus like how I retain like a paragraph or like and I learned songs like, or movies and stuff like that is like I don't retain the movie the same way you would. Like you or you would like you would watch that movie and you would enjoy it and like you would remember a line from the movie. I remember a form of it but I don't remember it. Like you would. Cuz like I don't know if you've ever noticed if I say a. A movie quote wrong, she under her breath will like say it correctly.

[Bunny]

I like as her autism.

[Haley]

Because like it has to be the same pitch and the same like.

[Jaime]

Yeah.

[Haley]

I remember everything. Like I've been quoting movies since I was little. Me and my brother do that. I got that from my dad. Like I will quote it but it has to be the exact same tone, pitch, like breaths in between. Like I don't know.

[Bunny]

Yeah.

[Haley]

Bothers me if you do.

[Bunny]

I'm like that when I read the Bible. I have the hardest time retaining information when it comes to the Bible or if I'm in school, put me in a classroom environment, I won't learn anything.

[Haley]

Yeah.

[Bunny]

If I don't enjoy it, I do not soak it up. Like I can't soak it up. So I wonder if that's a form of.

[Haley]

Have you seen the interpretations of the Bible? Like you can get like a, like they have one that's in like girl code and stuff or like Gen Z Bible.

[Jaime]

I would do great with that. I would get it shorthand.

[Haley]

Anytime I listen to, like, my pastor preaching the Bible, I'm lost. I don't know what. I don't know what you're saying.

[Bunny]

Yeah, the King James Version. I'm. I'm trying to figure it out. Although I do love a good psalm. I'm still in the beginning chapters. I haven't graduated into the depths of psalm because I can't get through it. Psalms. But I literally, anytime I try to, like, listen to the Bible, it's like spiritual warfare in my head. I just cannot retain it. But I can listen to Joyce Meyers or like, our girl Pastor Kim preach all day long and retain it. Listen to one of our sermons this morning when I was doing my faster cardio, you know, so.

[Jaime]

Yeah, it's how you retain. Yeah, that's cool. Yeah, I feel like it just takes what works best for you.

[Bunny]

Well, guys, we are back in action, and there was a post that I had put on Facebook a couple of weeks ago where you guys had, like, a bunch of questions about the book. So we're going to spend the remainder of this ask how confess answering all of your questions for the book. And then are we going to drop the pod with Bill? I need to edit it a little bit more. I was so nervous interviewing my dad. And this is back in the day when I was not as great at interviewing as I am now. And I really, I watched that podcast and I just cringe because I'm like, God, I blew an opportunity of a lifetime interviewing my own father. And I just.

[Jaime]

Well, didn't you say also, like, you. You didn't want to, like, like, wrestle any feathers too?

[Bunny]

Yeah, because we fight all the time. So it's like, if I wrestle any feathers and I wouldn't hear from my dad for a year, you know, so it's like I had to really walk on eggshells in that podcast. But we're going to release it, right? We should release it sometime this week after this ass talking festival.

[Jaime]

That would be great.

[Bunny]

Yeah. Yeah. So do you guys want to look at. Look, look at the post and we'll start asking some questions. All right, cool. I do know that there, there was a post that had happened that somebody had posted about how much money I made a night. And there was a lot of people who were like, I don't believe that she got paid a hundred thousand dollars. Somebody said, you know, she openly admits that she was an addict, and

[Jaime]

why

[Bunny]

would anybody pay that amount of money for an addict? And I was like, what a strange thing to say. I Was like, first of all, if you're in that industry and you're a millionaire times, whatever, most of those men are addicts themselves. You don't realize how many men that are CEOs are addicts. And I need to clarify to you guys, I didn't make that every night. Right.

[Jaime]

You were asked the question, what was the most amount that you had made in one night? And that's what you answered.

[Haley]

One night, not every night.

[Bunny]

Exactly. And I actually kind of like held back because technically, if you think about it, if I had a sugar daddy that gave me $300,000 in a span of like a year, and I only spent the night at his house one time, that is me making 300 grand in one night. Technically. I mean, there's just so many technicalities. But like the, the people who are like, oh, her story is fabricated, or she's embellished her story. I literally have witnesses for every part of my life that are very vocal online. One being an ex husband who knows everything about me, who has literally corroborated all of my stories because he saw how much money I fudgeing made. He's. He was running scams on sugar daddies with me. You know, I wish I could make. If I was going to make up stuff about my life, it would have been way fucking cooler because I don't think my story is that cool, you know? You know, and I. And I'm not saying. But I'm not saying that because I want people to be like, yes, your story's so cool. Like, I genuinely feel like one. There are people who have been through way worse trauma than I ever have, you know, And I also feel like there are people who have been through way worse life experiences than I have. I just simply told my story the only way I know how. And I've been telling these same exact stories for years. If you listen to the podcast, nothing has ever changed. Yeah, it's always been the same. So I don't know what to tell you.

[Haley]

It's just new people.

[Jaime]

Yeah, it is. Yeah.

[Haley]

Not knowing that you've already said this

[Bunny]

five plus years ago, literally, like, I have always said the same. I think I did a podcast that was my fifth episode called I Was a High Priced Call Girl. And I literally tell some of you

[Jaime]

that's how I found out that you were a cultural.

[Haley]

What?

[Bunny]

What?

[Jaime]

I've been doing your hair. I didn't know what you did.

[Haley]

I honestly, I don't think I knew what you did either. When I first did your makeup. I don't know when I found out.

[Bunny]

I never.

[Jaime]

Two phones.

[Bunny]

I got two phones, one for the plug.

[Jaime]

You would sit in my chair and you just said two phones. I just assumed you two phones. No, I think it was. I dead ass. I almost 100% found out when you dropped that podcast. And I think I was talking to like Fifi and she's like, did you watch the new podcast? And I was like, no, I hadn't. She was like, oh, she talks about being a call girl. And I was like, she's a what?

[Bunny]

That's funny. That was when I knew.

[Jaime]

That was a year after I had met you.

[Bunny]

That is so funny. Well, I mean, you know, it's not something you go around. I. Unless somebody says, what do you do for a living? I never would tell anybody.

[Haley]

I think I just thought you were a model. Oh, on the same. On Instagram, because that was my first seeing of you was on that red car on the red Mustang. That was my first time seeing you. And I was like, I want to do her makeup.

[Jaime]

She's hot. Wait.

[Bunny]

Oh, yes.

[Haley]

But yeah, I saw it on his Instagram story. So just imagine if I wouldn't have watched his story that day, though.

[Bunny]

That's crazy. I know. Yeah, it's just crazy. It's all serendipitous, but that's hilarious.

[Jaime]

Yeah.

[Bunny]

I never know. We. We didn't talk about that. That's so crazy.

[Jaime]

There was like. We just. We just became friends and it was like you would come sit in my chair every few weeks and then I. I literally thought you were just a model.

[Bunny]

That's hilarious.

[Jaime]

Yeah.

[Bunny]

That is so funny. Well, yeah, I know I didn't go around announcing it, but if somebody asked me what I did for a living, I was always very honest with them. Like, if anybody was like, what do you do for a living? I'd be like, well, I. Yeah. Your dad do your dad. I do dad for a living. No, I didn't say that. But you know, I was just very honest about it. Like, hey, I have sugar daddies and I'm a webcam girl or you know, like, I do a lot of online stuff because I did. That's how I booked my clients was online. So I just always kept it honest.

[Jaime]

That's crazy. You know, thinking back now, it makes sense. It makes sense. Yeah. All right.

[Haley]

Yeah, same. Our first photo shoot should have clicked for.

[Bunny]

Yeah, I meant I'm naked in lingerie,

[Jaime]

but I just thought he did.

[Haley]

I had always done porn stars makeup, so like that. It wasn't anything like out of the ordinary for me. I've done everyone. Everyone's makeup, so it didn't, like, shock me.

[Bunny]

Yeah.

[Haley]

You know, I just, like, didn't know that's what you did.

[Jaime]

Yeah.

[Bunny]

Well. And here we are.

[Haley]

Here we are.

[Bunny]

Look at where the hoot got us.

[Haley]

Yeah.

[Bunny]

Not. Not really our hard work got us here, but sex work got my online following and then built the beginning of the podcast.

[Jaime]

And then, yeah, I remember the turning point. And you said, I'm gonna stop posting my ass as much.

[Bunny]

And I did.

[Jaime]

All right. And you did you really, like. It was quick.

[Bunny]

Yeah. You know, that's another thing somebody said. I don't believe that she just woke up one day and stopped taking Xanax. I don't believe that she was really addicted. My personality is, if I don't want to do something anymore, I will literally flip a switch like that and it is done.

[Jaime]

And it's with anything.

[Bunny]

It's with anything.

[Jaime]

If you're done, you're done.

[Bunny]

That's a perfect example of whenever I was like, you know what? I'm gonna stop taking sexy photo shoots, and I'm just gonna change my content up. I literally.

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You can see it.

[Bunny]

If you go all the way back in my Instagram, you can see literally where it's like, naked pictures, naked pictures, naked pictures, clothes, content, and it just changes. And that's literally a testament to who I am as a person with everything that I do. And I did quit Xanax cold turkey. Do I recommend it? Absolutely not. Was it the worst thing I ever had to go through? Absolutely no. I've actually gone through a lot of stuff. Was it very hard to go through? Absolutely. I literally used to live in hospital rooms. The only way that I got through that, the Xanax withdrawal, was with children's Benadryl. Do not listen to me. Do not take doctorate advice from me. I'm just telling you exactly what I had to do to get through it. Stopping Xanax can make you have seizures. It can do a ton of stuff to you. I am thankful and lucky that I was not one of those people that that happened to. But, yeah, I literally looked at my husband. We were on the Yellow Wolf trial by Fire tour, and I looked at my husband. I said, I don't want this stuff in my bloodstream anymore. And he was like, benny, you're not going to be able to not take Xanax. Because he saw what a bundle of nerves I was. And I was like, okay, watch me. Like, if anytime my husband says, I can't do something. Oh, it is my favorite thing to do. Like, I love to give him. Just make him eat his words. And I don't know why, because we don't have that type of relationship. But it's like. It's almost like, oh, you don't believe in me. Okay, cool. I got this.

[Jaime]

Yeah, because he said the same thing about podcasting. He's like, we'll see how long you stick to it. And you said, yeah.

[Bunny]

I was like, bet. I got you. Yeah. Because he was just like, you're not going to stick with podcasting. And I was just like, we'll see. Here we are.

[Jaime]

Look at me now.

[Bunny]

Look at me now, buddy. Now you're telling me. Do you want me to retire? Like, just because you want to retire doesn't mean I want to fudgeing retirement.

[Jaime]

All right, that's enough.

[Bunny]

All right, who wants to ask the first question?

[Jaime]

I want to ask the first question because this got asked multiple times. They want to know if you and I know that this is kind of like a weird way to question it, but did you cut anything out of the book that you didn't want in there? Because I know once it got sent to the editing side of things, that's where that changed.

[Bunny]

Yeah, no, I don't think I cut anything out of the book. I put so much into the book that I could have probably had an. I could probably write another book about, like, situations in my life. So, no, I didn't cut anything, but the editors did. The editors cut so much. Like, there's. I have to ask you. I text you. I'm like, hey, did this make the book? Because I can't even remember.

[Jaime]

Like, you read so many versions of it that you almost forget what. Or you. And, like, things that you've lived through and that sort of thing that I even sometimes have to be like, wait, let me go search the final copy. Because, like, even in my phone, I have, like, seven copies of the book. And then you have to go to the final and be like, did that even make it that. Yeah, you just did that the other day. You're like, yeah, did that part make it into the book? And I'm like, no, it actually didn't.

[Bunny]

Yeah. Yeah. So, no, I didn't cut anything. But, you know, the editors did. They. And listen, they did a great job because people are still buying the book, so 100%.

[Jaime]

Yeah.

[Bunny]

Car's amazing.

[Haley]

Yeah.

[Bunny]

We find out tomorrow we're still number one. Five weeks on New York best time seller list. And then we find out Tomorrow, if we made it to the sixth. Who's got a question? Go ahead, Haley got one. Okay.

[Haley]

Has anyone from your past reach out to you and apologize? When's the last time you spoke to baby sis?

[Bunny]

That's crazy. She's actually been texting me this week, and I won't reply to her. I just have. No, I really meant it when I said everything that's in that book I'm leaving behind, and I did. Like, I don't want to revisit it. I don't want to talk about it once we're done. Once it's done, you know, doing its thing. Thing. I just don't want to associate with any of the. Any negativity from that book now. People from my past. Yeah. Mateo has reached out to me. He said he read it. He loved it. He's always been so supportive. I love that dude. Paulie is fucking one of my biggest fans. I love him to death. Paulie wants to come on the podcast so bad, guys.

[Jaime]

It was great.

[Bunny]

He wants to come on the podcast so bad. So if you guys want Polly on the podcast so you can actually hear real stories of, you know, shit that we used to do together, let me know. We might consider it.

[Haley]

But anyone apologized?

[Bunny]

Has anyone apologized? No. I mean, why would they? They would have to admit wrongdoing, and they would have to feel guilt if they ever did. And I didn't write the book for people to have to reach out to me and apologize. I'm fine with not getting the apology that I deserved because I've literally done everything I've wanted to do in life. And if it wasn't for the hurt and the pain that I went through, I wouldn't have forged through everything that I did. So I'm thankful for all the lessons that were sent to me, and I don't need the apologies. Jaime, you got one?

[Meme Reader]

Yeah, I have one that I read earlier. It was really good.

[Bunny]

Okay,

[Meme Reader]

so you wrote the book for you. What's the. Like, who's this book for? People always ask you, like, why'd you write the book? Yada, yada, yada. But, like, if you were to paint the picture of the avatar for this person to read, like, who's this book for?

[Bunny]

This book is for anybody who's ever had trauma inflicted on them that they didn't ask for. And I know a lot of people get stuck in victim mentality, and it's very easy to do. I've caught myself doing it a few times, and instead of. I've said it before, and we're not responsible for the trauma that's inflicted on us, but we are responsible with how we deal with it. And I truly hope that this book can show people, like, it doesn't matter how many people told you that you're never going to amount to anything. It doesn't matter if your parents didn't love you properly. It doesn't matter if, you know, you got beat up by a boyfriend, which, you know, nobody should ever have to go through domestic violence. But it doesn't mean that you have to still be that person that was in any of those situations. You can change so many versions of yourself throughout life. Look at Madonna. She's literally reinvented herself, and she's fucking, like, 70 now, right?

[Jaime]

Yeah.

[Bunny]

With a face. How many fucking facelifts has Madonna had? I need to know, because fuck, like, I. I would love to sit down with Madonna. Jay Shetty just did. And I was. That was the first podcast that I was just so jealous of. I was like, damn, I wanted that one. But, yeah, that you can change all the versions of yourself to become who you want to be. And it doesn't matter if you want to change yourself every year to evolve and to grow and to be the human that you want to be. That's who this book is for, is for people who need that extra push and that extra reassurance of knowing that they're going to be okay. And that shit happens. Life happens. But that doesn't mean that you have to let it, you know, make you a sour person.

[Meme Reader]

Like that.

[Bunny]

Yeah.

[Jaime]

Great one.

[Bunny]

You got any more memes?

[Jaime]

Oh, yeah.

[Bunny]

Oh, go ahead. Let's see. I'll read some, too. Somebody said you don't need a facelift. Well, too late.

[Haley]

It was the first comment I saw.

[Jaime]

So was any of it too painful to go through? And what about it was, like, the most traumatic you feel like reliving in this book? Because I know that there were times that you would write and then just kind of have to put your phone down.

[Bunny]

Yeah. I don't know if it was, like, traumatic, but it was just like, I'm so over everything that I've been through, and I don't want to keep. I don't want to live there, you know? And it's like, writing the book was very cathartic, but there was times where I was just like, golly, like, you know, I think the hardest chapter for me to write was my dad's. That was, like, my hardest chapter because I'm still not over Bill's death.

[Jaime]

Yeah.

[Bunny]

Like, I just.

[Jaime]

Like a force processing that you weren't ready for.

[Bunny]

Oh, I was robbed, you know, I was robbed of my dad's last moments. And I just feel like the people who are around him the minute he died didn't deserve to be there. I feel like my dad left this earth probably more scared than he's ever been, and nobody was there to comfort him. And I think, you know, just that chapter was really hard to write, but everything else, it was more of, like, exhausted from telling the story, because I've been telling these stories forever. And I think it was more of just like, ready to just get it over with, you know? And when you're writing chapters of a book, you get so consumed in it, and you're just. And I was writing this on my notes pad, too. So trying to write and do voice text on my notes pad was like. It just got exhausting. And there was times that I just needed a break because I don't like tapping into anything emotional. I'm very. I'm a very cold individual. I'm. I'm very cold. When it comes to past trauma, I guess you could say I'm very warm and loving.

[Jaime]

Yeah.

[Bunny]

To the people in my life.

[Jaime]

Such a loving person, homie.

[Haley]

Gosh.

[Jaime]

Okay, my guy.

[Bunny]

I'm very warm and loving to the people in my life, but when it comes to, like, my old past life, I'm just very cold about it. And just like, matter of fact, like, this is what happened, you know? And so, yeah, there was the chapter of my dad, but everything else, I just wanted to get it out.

[Jaime]

I do feel like with writing this also, and this is unlike other books, because when you're writing autobiography, it's. It has to be very technical because you knew that this book was going to be under a microscope. People are going to want to find flaws in it. They. They're going to want to find discrepancies in it. And like you, I appreciate how particular you were with your wording even. It was like, I can't say it that way because people could assume it meant this, and that's not what I meant. And so you would go in and you would rewrite these things so that it came across exactly how you meant it to be.

[Bunny]

Yes. And I do want to. There is one discrepancy in the book that didn't get changed, that I had asked to get changed was when I. The first version got written, I was talking about Whataburger in Texas. And Julia, my ghost writer, is from New York, so they have White Castle. And for some reason she thought I said White Castle when I was talking about something and they kept White Castle in the book. And I'm like, no, like, change that. I asked like three times for it to be changed and that.

[Jaime]

Remember that?

[Bunny]

Yeah, that just slipped. But other than that, everything else was.

[Jaime]

That's crazy.

[Bunny]

Yeah. Somebody wrote in and they said, would you ever want to have a relationship with your sisters? And the answer is, no, I don't. I have tried numerous times. If you guys have not listened to the podcast where we talk about Large Marge, that's my oldest sister, who literally is on Tick Tock right now, which she's not talking, thank God. Well, she was talking under my. One of my ex husband's posts and I caught that. And that was. I cut her off after I paid $10,000 for her to have emergency surgery, bought her every thing for her brand new apartment because I was so happy. She got her own apartment, paid her rent multiple times. She went and talked shit about me again under one of my exes. It was like my birthday and she's like, oh, I forgot on purpose. And it was just like, bitch, I. You know, like, what the fuck?

[Jaime]

Yeah, come on, come on.

[Bunny]

Like, what more can I do for you? Do you want my fucking. You want to cut my skin off and wear it? You know, like. But on her. Her TikTok bio right now, it says here, I'll read it to you verbatim, what it says, actually, so I'm not misquoted.

[Jaime]

Oh, God, I haven't seen this.

[Bunny]

You haven't seen it? Oh, yes, I'm Marge. This is in her pot. Her Tick Tock bio. Yes. I'm marge from Bunny XO's podcast.

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The villain in her story, the big

[Bunny]

bad Christina, her very much estranged, entitled big sister who is toxic.

[Jaime]

Okay, all right.

[Bunny]

Yeah, so that's okay. Absolutely not. I do not want a relationship with her. I have tried for 30 something years to just have that girl. I've only met this woman twice in my life and have done so much for her. And I don't. When I say that I've done stuff for people, it's not to throw around the monetary face value of it. It's to say, like, what more can I do for you to make you happy and to make you love me properly? You know, so. And as far as my little sister, no, I don't want a relationship with her. I love her. If anybody, no human in the world can make me laugh the way that she laughs. She's so funny.

[Jaime]

Man.

[Bunny]

But she is just. It's. I gotta choose my words wisely here. She is just. I just feel like our soul contracts are fulfilled. And I feel like I came here to be her big sister, and she came here to be my little sister. And we both taught each other lessons that family isn't always blood. I'm not a victim with my sister, with my little sister at all. I don't want to seem like that, but she just. She's not easy to get along with. She's very all over the place, and I just. I don't have time for that. Inconsistency in my life doesn't serve a purpose. No, I just don't have time for it. Dude, I'm old as shit. Last thing I want to do is walk on eggshells around people. I don't have to like. No, thank you.

[Jaime]

Yeah, I love. I've always respected your boundaries. When you're like, you know what? This doesn't serve me. I don't need it.

[Bunny]

Yeah. No. And it takes a lot.

[Jaime]

Yeah.

[Bunny]

I give 30 years for my older sister. 30 fucking years. I gave her so many fucking chances. And it's like, once I'm finally reached that point with people, that's it. So my little sister has texted me, like, three times, and I just will not reply to her. She's like, I love you. Please unblock me. And I'm just like, you're not blocked, but I have nothing to say to you. We have nothing to talk about. Anybody else got any more questions?

[Jaime]

One.

[Bunny]

Okay, go ahead.

[Haley]

Okay. Someone said, how did you get over surviving the trauma to living in the present without the triggers?

[Jaime]

That's a great question.

[Bunny]

It's a really good question. I don't think I'm wired like a normal human being. No, No, I don't. I don't look back and be like, oh, my God.

[Jaime]

I.

[Bunny]

You know, I don't know. I just. When I'm going through trauma, I just know I have to get through it. And that's. I literally only just forge ahead. That's all I know how to do, is to just keep going. I never stop and try to feel or try to. You know, when I did in 2022, when I did all that therapy, that's when I had to stop and feel everything. And that's why I haven't done therapy since. Because it was a year of having to cry, having to feel things, having to just hurt. And I just don't see the purpose. I don't see the purpose in feeling sorry for Myself. I can't change it.

[Haley]

Yeah, so what.

[Bunny]

But what can I do? I can't control the past, but I can control my future, and I can control the outcome of how my life is, and that's really all I focus on.

[Jaime]

That's incredible.

[Haley]

It's kind of like. I feel like your past profession has kind of, like, helped you with that, too, because, like, you don't give the men feelings, and you're just through it. So I feel like that. I don't know if it helped.

[Jaime]

It was good practice.

[Haley]

Yeah.

[Bunny]

Yeah. I think that came from having to not have emotions with my parents, though. I was always able to have separate church from state when it came. And I also think it's probably, you know, like, when you are traumatized and anybody ever. We've all been through trauma in this room, you know? How do you respond to trauma?

[Jaime]

It's a great question. I'm not actually sure.

[Bunny]

How do you respond?

[Haley]

I'm like, you. I. I won't talk about it. I, like. I don't like to relive it. I don't. Like.

[Bunny]

I cut it off.

[Haley]

I think that's a tourist act.

[Jaime]

Like, it doesn't take things off, and I don't.

[Bunny]

Which is not healthy. We're not saying that this is healthy, guys.

[Haley]

My whole family is like that, though. Like, we won't. We don't talk about things.

[Jaime]

Yeah. Like, it's very.

[Haley]

Like, even, like, when we had two deaths last year, like, we still. Like, we won't talk about it the next time we're all together. Like, my family's constant, like, laughter because that makes you forget about traumas. And I think that's why I'm very, like, the comedic relief is because I don't have to feel drama or anything sad.

[Jaime]

Yeah.

[Bunny]

I was always my dad's comedic relief, too. I was always, like, trying to even

[Jaime]

see that in your. In, like, the relationship. Later on in life, you still. When he wasn't feeling good, you'd crack jokes and, like, you were. You were laughing before. He was like. It was just, like, you were constantly trying to make him feel good.

[Bunny]

Yeah, I just wanted to make him forget where he was, and I think that's how you are, too, Jaime. How do you deal with trauma?

[Meme Reader]

Not in a healthy way.

[Bunny]

You're a cancer. You're a cancer, though. So you feel all the emotions.

[Meme Reader]

Feel it. I feel everything. And keep it all inside until it all blows up one day.

[Bunny]

You're a serial killer type.

[Jaime]

Yeah.

[Bunny]

He's like, one of these days, I'm Gonna hook Brooke up on some steaks. And she's in the basement right now as we speak.

[Meme Reader]

Yeah, I gotta check on her, but, yeah, not in a very. I also sweat a lot in my. When I'm going through something, I notice it. Like, I'll sweat and then I'll. Like. I'm also weirdly calm in very chaotic situation.

[Bunny]

Like, that's trauma.

[Meme Reader]

That's what I Like car accidents or like any. Anything major happening. Like, I'm surprisingly not freaking out.

[Bunny]

Yeah.

[Meme Reader]

Every car accident I've ever been in, I've always been super calm. Can have a clear conversation. My voice doesn't break up. I'm clear. I'm almost, like, clearer than I am now when I'm in. Trauma response is weird.

[Jaime]

Yeah, no, same. I. I feel like big traumas. I'm more calm than small things. Like, I feel like I'm more expressive in a small situation and like, an inconvenience than I am in something major.

[Haley]

Yeah.

[Jaime]

Like a major situation. I'm like, no, this is how we're gonna fix it. And I'm like, super calm. It's weird.

[Haley]

I freak out of everything.

[Bunny]

Yeah. Yeah. Haley's burning the house down. Yeah. She don't care. Would love to hear about how Mindy and Andy are groveling since you've blown up and that you got to actually have closure with both of these bitches. Andy died. If you read the book, you would know that. Andy died from a fentanyl overdose. She actually died when we were on tour. And then Mindy, I haven't spoken to. So Mindy has way too much pride to ever reach out. Which that could be why baby sis is reaching out. You never know. Never know. But I. I'd like to just not like. We don't need to rehash anything. Like, why now? Now you want to come out of the woodwork?

[Jaime]

The book's out.

[Bunny]

Yeah, like, I'm good. I don't think there's anything we really have left to talk about. Even though Jay cheated, did you recognize that it was more about his self sabotage than it was you? It was. There's so many layers to that affair story. I only got to tell my perspective. But, you know, my husband has a crazy fucking story, and I really hope one day he tells it because you guys would really know what we've been having to deal with behind the scenes all these years. And, like, people trying to extort us for money, people trying to kill him. There's just. There's a lot of crazy that has happened, and it's not my story to tell. But when he does write a book, I promise you guys, I'm going to make him tell the truth. Like, he has got to tell everybody. And I don't know if he will because my husband's not wired that way. But I don't know, now that he saw how good this book did, he might want to. They're all trying to jump on the bandwagon now and they said, no, we should write. Yeah, like, you know what, you little.

[Jaime]

That was funny.

[Bunny]

There's so many layers. And yes, one of them was his self sabotage. And also, dude, it's like I say in the book, we didn't know how to have healthy relationships. We didn't know what a healthy love was. We still don't know what a healthy love was. We live our version of a healthy love. But I think everybody learns from their

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parents what love is.

[Bunny]

And then you have to figure it out along the way what your version of love is. And that was just figuring out life. And, dude, second chances is great. Third chances don't happen, Although I've given my family so many fucking chances. But in love, I'm very strict when it comes to shit like, you can hurt me one, hurt me once, shame on you. Hurt me twice, shame on me, you know, and it's like, as a woman, you have to really know what you're willing to put up with and what your hard boundaries are. And every woman is different. Some people are like, I'm out the first fuck if I think you're cheating on me. And great for them. I wish I could be that strong, but I cannot. And, you know, I just truly believe in second chances. And my husband really stepped up to the plate and he's just an amazing human. I love him to death. He's just a little happy teddy bear. Oh, somebody said, when's the next tour Olympics?

[Jaime]

What a great question.

[Bunny]

I love that you've been around so, so long that you even know about the Horror Olympics. I was actually just telling our girl Sam, who's here sitting in from Elite customs. They're the ones who design all my cars. We never, never.

[Jaime]

Unfortunately, there was a one time.

[Bunny]

Didn't we do it twice? I thought you tried to.

[Haley]

And then you had to go home for emergency. And that's when we stayed in the Haunted Mansion.

[Bunny]

Yep, yep, yep. I remember that. To call the cops.

[Jaime]

Oh, my God.

[Bunny]

We had to plan everything.

[Jaime]

That's crazy.

[Bunny]

I think what people need to realize is, and literally we're just having this conversation is when I Started this podcast. It was all about sex workers. And I. That's the lifestyle I was in. And I wanted to let everybody know that just because you were in sex work didn't mean that you didn't have a brain and that you weren't a businesswoman. And also, we were having fun with the podcast. You know, the Olympics was a wild fudgeing time. And shout out to fucking Lydia, Carissa, all those girls who.

[Jaime]

What's the Daisy chick?

[Haley]

Daisy.

[Bunny]

She. She's hilarious. She's still the funny.

[Jaime]

Yes. She's still back in prison.

[Bunny]

No, she's back. She's out now.

[Jaime]

Oh, she's out?

[Bunny]

Yeah. She's. No, I love her. She was amazing. Like, I met some of the coolest women who I still have relationships with. But the podcast has grown, and it's become something different. And, I mean, even how I used to interview, I've said crazy. I've done crazy, but I have always corrected my behavior and always tried to become a better person and a better person at my craft when it comes to this podcast. So it's just. You guys have literally seen me go through seasons, and that's. I think, what life is all about is just being able to evolve.

[Jaime]

I think what's really cool about you is, like, you'll start out, you know, with, like, the sex works and stuff like that, and then you'll reach the capacity of it. You're like, okay, I completed that check.

[Bunny]

Yeah.

[Jaime]

What's next? You know, and it's not so much that, like, you're, like, giving up on that part of it. It was like, no, I. I did all the big porn stars. Like, we did the whore. Oly. Like, you literally, like, did it all and then was like, what's my next?

[Bunny]

Tiktokers. We went to Tiktokers, and then you

[Jaime]

went into, like, the.

[Bunny]

Now I won't have Tiktokers on the podcast because they're nothing but drama. The whole app is nothing but fucking drama. And then we moved on to just elevating guests and just keep getting higher and higher and higher. So it's like, you know, it's. I think the biggest thing when it comes to this podcast is we never beat a dead horse. You. We know when to get in and to get out, and we don't stay there. We don't stay long enough to overstay our welcome.

[Jaime]

Yeah.

[Bunny]

And we're always constantly trying to figure out new things and different angles, which is what you have to do, so. All right, guys. Well, that was a fun little Chat. Love you guys and thank you guys so much for the question. There's so many more. So if you guys want us to keep answering questions, just let me know in the comments. And, I mean, we can make another episode of this, but we're moving on to Ask, Tell, Confess now from.

[Jaime]

Wait, are you gonna sign? You're gonna do any more pop up signings for books after you literally wiped out Walmart in an hour? What the hell, bro?

[Bunny]

I know. It was crazy. I think so. Maybe we can run around. Should we go do something after this? I have a bunch of books. We can go somewhere. I don't care. Haley's over it. She's ready to go home. Anything we can run?

[Jaime]

I feel like a pop up bookstore. Like, what's the one?

[Haley]

I don't know any.

[Bunny]

I don't know of any.

[Jaime]

Like, I thought there was, like, a downhill one here. Bookstores that we'll call.

[Bunny]

We'll figure it out. But if not Thursday, I'm gonna be in Murfreesboro. We can do something in Murfreesboro.

[Jaime]

Everyone also begging. Murfreesboro?

[Bunny]

Really?

[Jaime]

You're in Murphy's world. Okay, I need a.

[Bunny]

Can we do a face on Thursday right before doctor. You guys all want to go to Dr. Torola's too?

[Jaime]

Let's do it.

[Bunny]

Mo's getting a facelift. Yeah. All right, well, I'll go to Dr. Charles and then we'll just make a day of it. Yeah, we'll go do it this weekend. So we'll do it on Thursday.

[Jaime]

I wanted a consultation with him, so I feel like that's.

[Haley]

Can we all get all good consultations?

[Bunny]

I'm gonna go in there and just be like, hey, we're all here for consultations. Including me. Fat transfer. He's gonna Love it, though. Dr. Torolo loves us.

[Jaime]

Yeah, I love his facility.

[Bunny]

All right, cool. Yeah, so Thursday we'll go sign a bunch of books and we'll let you guys know where it is. I had an. Where I wanted to do, like, a scavenger hunt. I love that.

[Jaime]

Can we please do it in Murphy's, bro?

[Bunny]

They have like, 10 books at home that I can sign that we can hide in different places.

[Jaime]

Let's do it. Let's do it with local businesses and we can support their businesses.

[Haley]

Yeah.

[Jaime]

And go drop off books that, like, so people that would never have thought to go to, like, a local coffee shop or something can go to, like,

[Haley]

little coffee shops are cute. Yeah.

[Jaime]

I think that'd be like, all local owned.

[Bunny]

They have to buy a coffee and ask and give them a code.

[Jaime]

Code word.

[Bunny]

Exo.

[Jaime]

Yeah.

[Bunny]

Yeah, I love it. We'll figure it out. We'll figure something out. But Thursday we will do it. So this will be out the neck the day after, right?

[Haley]

Yeah. So they gotta go find it.

[Bunny]

Well, we're probably gonna announce it on social media.

[Jaime]

Yeah, it'll be on Instagram, Facebook, something like that.

[Haley]

Well, if they didn't see it, we'll figure it out.

[Bunny]

Well, hopefully by the time you guys hear this, there's still some books left. All right, thank you guys for tuning in.

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See you later.

[Bunny]

Bye.

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