Ask, Tell, Confess: Should Hailee Date Pauly Shore?

Summary

Podcast Summary: Dumb Blonde – Episode: "Ask, Tell, Confess: Should Hailee Date Pauly Shore?"

Release Date: May 2, 2025

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Introduction

In this engaging episode of the Dumb Blonde podcast, hosted by Bunnie XO, the team dives deep into real-life dilemmas, relationships, and the often complicated world of online dating. The episode titled "Ask, Tell, Confess: Should Hailee Date Pauly Shore?" explores a listener's troubling experience with deceptive behavior in the online dating scene, prompting a candid and humorous discussion about trust, authenticity, and safety in modern relationships.

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Ask, Tell, Confess Segment

Timestamp: 04:52 – 24:25

Listener's Confession: The episode's centerpiece revolves around a listener's alarming encounter with a deceptive individual on Facebook Dating. Mimi shares a direct message she received from a woman seeking advice after suspecting that the man she was communicating with might be the same deceptive individual previously discussed on the podcast.

• Mimi:

  "I got a DM from a girl who says, hey, I don't know how else to contact you guys, but I think what you guys talked about on the podcast the other day was a guy I was talking to, and after he told me about some medical history, he ghosted me. And I don't know how to go about this."
  [05:52]

Group Analysis: The hosts, Mimi, Jason, and Bunny, delve into the details of the situation, piecing together the deceptive actions of the individual in question. They uncover inconsistencies in the man's stories, such as discrepancies in his occupation and the use of fake names, painting a picture of a potential serial catfish.

• Jason:

  "He gave her a fake name and now said he bartends, which he told me he does construction."
  [07:40]

• Bunny:

  "He might want to cut your skin off and wear it to his birthday."
  [07:56]

The discussion intensifies as they consider the possibility that this individual may be involved with multiple women, exploiting them emotionally and possibly engaging in manipulative or harmful behavior.

Ethical and Emotional Implications: The conversation shifts to the emotional toll such experiences have on individuals, emphasizing the importance of recognizing red flags and prioritizing personal safety in online interactions.

• Bunny:

  "Your feelings are valid. If you need to go talk to a therapist to work through it, do it. But the first thing you need to do is drop that dude."
  [23:15]

Conclusion and Takeaways: The hosts collectively underscore the necessity of vigilance in online dating, advocating for open communication and self-validation when dealing with suspicious or abusive behavior. They encourage listeners to support one another and create safe spaces for sharing and healing.

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Additional Discussions

Timestamp: 19:07 – 22:29

Beyond the main confession, the episode touches on various relatable topics that resonate with the audience:

1. Meet and Greets:

   • Jason:

     "Are you guys going to be doing a meet and greet?"
     [17:51]
     The hosts discuss the challenges and energy demands of meet and greets, ultimately deciding to limit such interactions to maintain personal well-being.

2. Comfort TV Shows:

   • Mimi:

     "Comfort TV shows, you know, the ones you've watched every episode at least twice."
     [19:10]
     They share their favorite comfort shows, revealing personal preferences that highlight their diverse interests:

     • Mimi loves "The Office."
     • Jason enjoys "SpongeBob" and "Gossip Girl."
     • Bunny prefers classic movies like "Beaches."

3. Abusive Relationships:

   • A poignant segment where an anonymous listener shares her experience of being accused unjustly by her husband, reflecting on the psychological impact of abuse.
     • Mimi:

       "That's abuse."
       [23:16]

     • Bunny:

       "He’s projecting it onto you. Somebody said something to him, something happened to him."
       [23:15]
       The hosts offer compassionate advice, emphasizing the listener's need to leave the abusive relationship and seek support.

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Notable Quotes

• Bunny on Deceptive Behavior:

  "He's either like on that level of crazy and not have a girlfriend or somebody else in your life. You're a psychopath."
  [07:54]

• Jason on Online Safety:

  "He's too much of a psychopath."
  [08:58]

• Mimi on Emotional Support:

  "You deserve to feel the way that you do. You are right in every way that you feel. Your feelings are valid."
  [23:15]

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Insights and Conclusions

This episode of Dumb Blonde serves as a valuable discourse on the perils of online dating, the importance of authenticity in relationships, and the psychological ramifications of abusive behavior. Through shared personal experiences and collective wisdom, Bunny XO and her team foster a supportive environment for listeners to reflect, laugh, and heal.

Key takeaways include:

• Vigilance in Online Interactions: Always verify the authenticity of individuals met online to safeguard against deceit and manipulation.

• Emotional Validation: Acknowledge and validate your feelings when confronting abusive or harmful situations.

• Support Systems: Leverage community support, whether through Patreon members or trusted platforms, to navigate personal challenges.

• Personal Boundaries: Understand the significance of setting boundaries to maintain mental and emotional well-being.

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Conclusion

"Ask, Tell, Confess: Should Hailee Date Pauly Shore?" is a compelling episode that intertwines humor with serious discussions about relationships and personal experiences. Bunnie XO and her co-hosts offer a blend of laughter, empathy, and practical advice, making the Dumb Blonde podcast a go-to destination for anyone seeking to laugh, relate, and embrace their inner healing.

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Transcript

[Bunny]

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[Haley]

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[Bunny]

Hey guys, I need to ask you a question. I want to know why in the hell are you not on Patreon? I don't think you guys even realize how much content we have on Patreon. Let me break it down for you. We have the Bunny XO show. We have Meet the D Fords. We have propaganda. We have more shows that we're adding. And not to mention we have the visuals of the podcast. Head over to www.patreon.com backslash Dumblon podcast. Ask Tell Confess. Ask Tell Confess. Ask Tell Confess. Hello, friends. Welcome to Ask Tell. Chachi said Confessed. You guys couldn't hear him though.

[Mimi]

It was great. I heard it.

[Jason]

I heard it. Yeah.

[Bunny]

How is everybody doing?

[Mimi]

Oh, it was a good week.

[Jason]

All right.

[Bunny]

Oh, been a long time, my loves. Long time since I've seen you. So who wants to kick off today's Ask, Tell Confess that all of our sweet Patreon members, you guys send in so much stuff.

[Mimi]

Oh, there's some.

[Jason]

Good, good.

[Bunny]

I had people on my Snapchat. If you're not following me on Snapchat, please go follow me on Snapchat. It's oh, hey, it's Bunny. Had a bunch of people. I did a Q A over there and a bunch of people Asked me how to send in Ask how confessors.

[Mimi]

Yes. I get that in the comments all the time. I'm like, bro, you got to be a Patreon. That's the only people.

[Bunny]

Even a five dollar sub. You're good.

[Mimi]

You all Patreon members get to be a part of this.

[Bunny]

Yeah, totally. So who's going to kick it off?

[Mimi]

I feel like we need a little update because something unraveled.

[Bunny]

Oh, Jesus.

[Jason]

Give a quick update real quick from Facebook dating guy.

[Mimi]

Give it a quick little update. I got to.

[Jason]

Actually, Mimi got a dm.

[Mimi]

I got the dm. I didn't. I don't think I told you that. I got a DM from a girl who says, hey, I don't know how else to contact you guys, but I think that what you guys talked about on the podcast the other day was a guy I was talking to, and after he told me about some medical history, he ghosted me. And I don't know how to go about this.

[Bunny]

I'm sat ready.

[Mimi]

I.

[Jason]

She messaged me, sending it to her, and I was like, oh, I have a message number two. It says, I just listened to the podcast. The episode where he talked about Facebook dating. The guy who I had match with on Facebook dating, he bartends in Nashville, also lives in Virginia. You remember me telling you guys that he was visiting family in Virginia?

[Bunny]

Yes.

[Jason]

Okay. Also completely ghosted me too. So I had to reach out and see if this is the same guy. I'm in Georgia, though, and match with him. She said, I would really hope it's not the same guy, but it sounded like him. And if it was the same guy, we both dodged a bullet because he is HSV2 positive. I said, awesome. Do you have a picture of him.

[Bunny]

Not shaming anybody who has that?

[Jason]

No.

[Mimi]

But, yeah, that's something you should have been upfront about.

[Bunny]

Absolutely.

[Mimi]

When you were talking and potentially wanting to have said relationship with someone, it's.

[Bunny]

Just crazy to me. Like, what, did he just offer up this information to her but not you in three days?

[Jason]

They only talked for three days.

[Mimi]

That's what I'm talking about. Like, you chose her to give the information but not Haley.

[Bunny]

So they were obviously having more sexual conversations.

[Jason]

Probably. I definitely wasn't. Mine was more dumb.

[Bunny]

Yeah.

[Jason]

But also, he gave her a fake name. She was like, no wonder I couldn't find him because I was looking up a different name. So he gave her a fake name and now said he bartends, which he told me he does construction.

[Bunny]

Oh, so this dude is definitely in A relationship with somebody trying to hide his identity.

[Mimi]

Yes.

[Bunny]

Yeah.

[Jason]

He's just lying to everyone.

[Bunny]

I feel bad for his girl, man.

[Mimi]

Yeah.

[Bunny]

I feel like this.

[Jason]

If he has one. I don't know. He's too.

[Bunny]

I think he does have a. Oh. To keep lying and changing your name and your audience.

[Jason]

I feel like he has multiple.

[Bunny]

That or he fudgeing. Just has fudgeing meat suits in his fucking basement. That seems sewing together from each girl that he fudgeing makes a new victim. You know, like he's either like to be on that level of crazy and not have a girlfriend or somebody else in your life. You're a fudgeing psychopath.

[Mimi]

Yeah.

[Bunny]

You kill people for a living.

[Mimi]

Yeah.

[Jason]

Yeah. I've never heard my name to someone.

[Bunny]

Yeah. That's so weird. I mean like stage names when we're pranking someone. Yeah, but stage names like Bunny are like my stage that I've gone with.

[Mimi]

You're creating a whole different personality.

[Bunny]

Like I. That's my brand. That's a difference.

[Jason]

Actual catfish. The show.

[Bunny]

No. Yeah, it's. I wonder if we should call Neve and get him involved. Oh, I feel like whoever he's with needs to know what kind of piece of he is.

[Mimi]

Yes.

[Bunny]

Yes. Like he's really aggressive.

[Jason]

I run into him. I hope I run into him.

[Mimi]

Me. If he's.

[Bunny]

I hope you don't. He sounds like a psychopath.

[Mimi]

That's true. You kind of don't want to be a part.

[Jason]

Maybe not.

[Bunny]

He might want to cut your skin off and wear it to his birthday.

[Jason]

Oh, okay.

[Bunny]

Yeah.

[Mimi]

I said yeah.

[Bunny]

Yeah. He sounds crazy, right?

[Chachi]

Yeah. The first thing that came to mind was. Damn. He took it that far. I remember him showing. Or you showed us. He had a picture of him and his niece. I think that's his daughter.

[Mimi]

Could have been married.

[Bunny]

He might be married.

[Mimi]

Oh, wow.

[Chachi]

Yeah, I think he is full blown. Just having a whole secret life.

[Bunny]

That's disgusting. Why bring your kids into your lies? Like, that's weird.

[Mimi]

Weird thing.

[Bunny]

Even though we are speculating, I know.

[Mimi]

We just created an entire scenario and this guy could just be innocently like.

[Bunny]

Obviously we're not that far off though. If this lady reached out and has the same story. So we're definitely on to something crazy.

[Mimi]

Yeah, I hope.

[Jason]

I hope more reach out.

[Mimi]

Much needed update. She dropped like a little sizzle on Tik Tok and people were immediately blowing her phone up. Tell me now, dude.

[Bunny]

Not only that, but we gotta update with Monica too. But I'm gonna wait till Monica comes back a Girl reached out to Monica that. Yep.

[Mimi]

So it's crazy how much we talk about on here and, like, the reach that we have because these people are coming out of the woodwork, coming through.

[Bunny]

Your storage to out these disgusting humans.

[Mimi]

And I'm glad we're creating a safe space. It's a coven that, like, that should be a new.

[Jason]

A new show we have exposed.

[Bunny]

We need to find out what the legal repercussions can be. I mean, I would like to out dudes all day. Hire us. We'll do it.

[Mimi]

Have you seen the girl on Tick Tock who does them live?

[Bunny]

Yeah.

[Jason]

Cash at me this and I'll text them right now.

[Mimi]

Yep.

[Bunny]

Yeah. And. But she shows their fudgeing profile pictures and everything.

[Mimi]

Doxy like, though. Like, can't you get banned for that?

[Bunny]

I don't know. I think if you have enough money, people can come after you for whatever they want. Yeah. Look at the whole thing that's circulating with the ova.

[Mimi]

Poor Theo Vaughn. That is my favorite.

[Jason]

What happened?

[Bunny]

So you. Hi. The hitchhiker. Smash. Smash. Smash. That's Kai the hitchhiker. He said that Theo illegally used a clip of him, and he asked Theo to take the clip down, and Theo responded to him in a Theo way, but he called it bullying and didn't take the clip down. So dude was like, okay, you. I'm gonna take you to court. And tried to sue him for $30 million.

[Mimi]

Yeah.

[Jason]

What is up with 30 million? It's always, like, 30.

[Bunny]

Well, because what happens is they go really, really high, and then you end up settling for really, really low. So that's why all these lawsuits you hear that are, like, astronomical. Nobody ever really pays that because you end up settling for, like, $60,000 in court or something like that. Like, it's it. Unless they have, like, a really hardcore case. But anyways. Yeah, so. And then he was, like, defending some girl, too, saying that Theo was, like, a bully and, like, was her, like, you know, harassing some girl on his podcast, but then also knowing that Theo's a comedian. Like, that's all Theo does joke around, you know, like, leave Theo.

[Jason]

Don't ever go to a comedy show.

[Bunny]

Like, leave Theo alone. You're literally famous for fudgeing. Didn't he kill somebody? Isn't Kai the hitchhiker, the guy that's in jail? Hold on. We gotta Google this.

[Mimi]

Give this a go.

[Bunny]

Yeah, because that dude, if it's the one I'm thinking about, he's actually in prison, right, for killing somebody. So is he trying to sue Theo from prison. Spring is in Full bloom on DraftKings casino. New offers and promos are sprouting up daily. Right now, new players can play five bucks on anything and get 350 casino spins instantly on a featured slot game. Download the app and sign up with Code Bunny B U N N I the featured slot for a spin and explore thousands of others in the DraftKings game library. Check back daily to claim the hottest offers and promos on DraftKings Casino. The crown is yours. Gambling Problem Call 1-800- gambler in Connecticut. Help is available for problem gambling. Call 888-789-7777 or visit ccpg.org Please play responsibly. 21/ physically present in Michigan, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, West Virginia only void in Connecticut and Ontario. Eligibility New customers only. Non withdrawable Casino spins valid for featured game only and expire in 168 hours. See [e-mail] promos ends June 15, 2025 at 11:59pm Eastern Time I've always had a complicated relationship with push up bras. Either they dug in, gapped weirdly, or gave that way too obvious boost. That didn't feel like me. The support was never quite right. It felt like I was either sacrificing comfort or shape. And honestly, I was over it. Then I tried Skims Ultimate Push Up Bra and I was actually surprised the first time I put it on. It didn't feel like a typical push up. It hugged my body so smoothly and gave a lift that looked natural, not over the top. The support? Unreal. It actually held me in place all day without feeling like a harness. The Ultimate Teardrop Push up Bra is my favorite from the line. I love that it doesn't just do one thing well. It gives shape, lifts comfort and feels seamless under the clothes. It's flattering in a way that still feels like me. Confident but not trying too hard. Honestly, wearing it makes me feel put together, even if I'm just in leggings and an oversized tee. It's the first push up bra I reach for because I don't feel like I'm wearing a push up bra. It just feels right. Shop the Skims Ultimate Bra Collection and [e-mail] after you place your order. Be sure to let them know that we sent you select podcast in the Survey Pick Dumb one podcast in the drop down menu that follows. Anyways, I heard that he witnessed the crime. Oh oh he witnessed it. He didn't do it like he wouldn't.

[Mimi]

My favorite Part of that clip.

[Jason]

Oh, no, wait.

[Mimi]

He had a hatchet ranger.

[Bunny]

That's what I thought. Because he's a smash. Smash. Smash. And he like smashed some dude.

[Jason]

Yeah, he. He went viral for taking down a man who attacked an innocent civilian.

[Mimi]

Oh, so self defense.

[Bunny]

But he's still. Isn't he in jail still or. No, I heard it got dropped though.

[Jason]

He was convicted and sentenced in 2018, he was found guilty and sentenced to 57 years in prison.

[Bunny]

Yeah, so he's in prison right now.

[Mimi]

So it's whoever owns.

[Jason]

Yeah, he's currently incarcerated at New Jersey State Prison.

[Bunny]

So it's trying to Sue Theo for 30 million. Who is his lawyer?

[Mimi]

I mean, it's whoever owns like his ownership of like product and stuff.

[Jason]

Because you wouldn't killed an attorney.

[Mimi]

Yeah. You wouldn't be able to keep the money in there. So, you know, it's like when they make new Michael Jackson stuff, it's like it goes to the estate. So it's whatever his estate is that dude does.

[Bunny]

Not an estate. He was homeless.

[Mimi]

I know, but like someone could have swooped in. Some like person was like, oh, I can monetize off this person. Sign me over all your rights maybe.

[Bunny]

We would need to definitely research that because all I've read is that it's Kai that's doing it.

[Mimi]

That's crazy.

[Bunny]

So I don't know, but he. Kai even said that you need. We need to stop supporting people like this. And it's like Theo's the most harmless human in the world. He gives us the most banger sound bites too. Like, leave Theo the alone.

[Mimi]

One of the funniest comedians. Like, Theo is my exact comedy type. I could obsessively watch him because he is just good hearted and so funny.

[Bunny]

Sweet boy too. When you meet him in person, like, he's just so sweet, so courteous and like so humble. Like Theo, like, what did he say in the club is that I drive a Ford Ranger.

[Mimi]

Yeah. I'm like, what am I supposed to do?

[Jason]

Yes, I have seen that. Yeah, yeah.

[Mimi]

It's like a Ford. Right.

[Bunny]

The way that he was so upset in the call, like you could really see how upset he was.

[Mimi]

My favorite moment with him is we were back stage at the. Were you with me? The LA show with Theo?

[Bunny]

I was.

[Jason]

I was with Paul.

[Mimi]

Oh. Oh, yeah. You.

[Chachi]

I think it was me.

[Bunny]

Oh, I was trying to get you to hook up with Polly Shore.

[Mimi]

Yes. And Theo's backstage. He's like, how the hell do I get out of this place? I was like, oh, I'll walk you to the docks. And then he stops midway of our walk and goes, you think Jelly's gonna be okay if I leave? Jelly's performing at this moment. And I was like, theo, I'm pretty sure he's gonna be okay. And he's like, all right, let's go.

[Bunny]

I. I still think you and Polly Shore would be the cutest couple. Haley. He's the sweetest man, and he's sweetest. That's the Weasel. Like, bro, he is an idol.

[Mimi]

The greatest part is Haley has no idea who he was.

[Bunny]

I know.

[Mimi]

At all.

[Bunny]

I know. It's like we do. And we're like, paulie, we're hanging out with him.

[Mimi]

We get home and I'm like, haley, we just hung out with Paul. Sure. And she goes, never seen a movie? I said, we need a son in law right now.

[Bunny]

When we travel, let's have a poly Polly Shore night. You fall in love with young Paulie.

[Jason]

I thought he was cute when he was young.

[Bunny]

Yeah, yeah. Young Polly is a legend, dude. I mean, old Polly is a legend too, but like, young Polly was.

[Mimi]

His new comedy stuff is so good. I love him.

[Bunny]

Yeah.

[Mimi]

Such a sweet soul.

[Bunny]

For sure. All right, who's going to kick this off? Cuz I need to go home and snuggle with my.

[Jason]

Okay, you go.

[Bunny]

No, mine are depressing. None of them are.

[Jason]

I got a quick ask.

[Mimi]

All right, go ahead.

[Bunny]

Go ahead.

[Jason]

Okay. Lexi wants to know if I have a ticket to Stagecoach. Are you guys going to be doing a meet and greet?

[Mimi]

No. Yet. No, we can't do. That's not our shows answer that from the business side of things.

[Jason]

No meet and greets.

[Mimi]

No. There's like nothing like that when it comes to Stagecoach. We can't. We might see it like that, but yeah, we'll wave. Yeah, you'll probably see us in the passings. Yeah, you will normally always pull her out on stage. Stuff like that.

[Jason]

There was another question about meet and greets at post show and we don't know.

[Mimi]

Yeah, yeah.

[Bunny]

Somebody asked me that on Snapchat last night and I just told them that I'm not doing meet and greets ever again. Not that I don't want to meet people. It's just so much energy and I. I want to be able to pour myself into each person, you know, like, and if we do meet and greets, it's going to be a different way.

[Mimi]

Yeah. I was gonna say for the book tour and things like that, when it comes to like your podcast, book touring type stuff, we are going to give you guys a very VIP experience. Yeah, yeah.

[Bunny]

Patreon members for sure.

[Mimi]

Yeah. That's all going to be in that kind of. Yeah, but that's a bunny thing. When we go on to do these things when it's like a Post Malone tour or Stagecoach and music festivals, we can't facilitate stuff like that.

[Bunny]

I can't do it. All right, go ahead, Memes.

[Mimi]

This is an ask. What are Yalls? Comfort TV shows. You know, the ones you have watched every episode at least twice. The ones you have on in the background kind of shows. So I will go first. Give it the Office.

[Bunny]

Really?

[Mimi]

Yeah, yeah, that's my, like, background girl. Are you too young?

[Bunny]

You know, not an office girl.

[Jason]

Not my type of.

[Mimi]

You would appreciate the humor now. Yeah, you have to be in a certain part of your life to appreciate the Office.

[Bunny]

So I don't watch anything twice. That's like a rule I have. Unless a movie. Like really Beaches or like, you know, like a. A nostalgic movie. But I refuse to watch anything twice. I can't do it. My ADD can't handle it unless I watched it and just didn't comprehend it, then I can watch it again. But if I watch it and I know the ins and the outs of it, I don't see the point. Like, my brain gets really bored and I can't watch it. So I watch literally anything. True crime. So 48 hour. Like 48 hours.

[Jason]

Rewatch them?

[Bunny]

No, I just let them play on a loop.

[Jason]

Do you have a comfort movie?

[Bunny]

Comfort movie would probably be like the movies, like the 80s movies. Beaches. What was that movie you had? Magnolias.

[Jason]

I still haven't watched that.

[Mimi]

You had us watch with the little girl.

[Bunny]

Beaches.

[Mimi]

That's Beaches.

[Bunny]

The best friends.

[Jason]

When we watched at. At the Beach.

[Bunny]

Yeah.

[Jason]

Yeah, I like that movie a lot.

[Mimi]

So cute.

[Bunny]

Yeah. Like, I love like old movies like that. So, yeah, comfort movies would be like the old movies from back in the day.

[Mimi]

I love that Disney has put like a lot of the old Disney movies on. I know, like it takes two. Yeah, that movie.

[Jason]

Good movie.

[Bunny]

Yeah.

[Mimi]

What's yours?

[Jason]

Two ends of the spectrum. SpongeBob and Gossip Girl.

[Bunny]

Yeah, I love Family Guy. I'll watch Family Guy all the time too. Or American dad.

[Mimi]

Spongebob's just running in my house all the time.

[Jason]

I just. I quote that on the daily too.

[Bunny]

Yeah.

[Mimi]

Yeah.

[Chachi]

What's your assignment gonna have to be? New Girl.

[Jason]

You ever watch that one?

[Chachi]

Yeah.

[Bunny]

No, we've never watched that.

[Chachi]

You've never watched New Girl?

[Haley]

No.

[Jason]

No.

[Mimi]

You know what? I've watched the first season. The Girl who Moves into the Apartment.

[Chachi]

Yeah. With Zoe Deschanel.

[Mimi]

Yeah. That. That gives highway vibes. I get it.

[Jason]

Yeah.

[Bunny]

Okay.

[Chachi]

It's a comedy.

[Mimi]

Very much easy watch.

[Chachi]

Easy watch show. It's my comfort show. Brooke hates it, but I love it.

[Bunny]

Was a girl in another life. Because he's also in tune with his feminine side. And I don't mean that like, disrespectful, because he's not, like, he's very manly, but he's very sensitive.

[Mimi]

There's something said about men who were raised by single moms.

[Haley]

Yeah.

[Chachi]

That's what it was.

[Mimi]

Jason was raised by a single mom. There is something, and I'm telling you, like, there is a special sparkle in people. Yeah. Yeah.

[Jason]

If you think about it, the past 12 years. Yeah.

[Mimi]

Is. Yes. If there's something. And I love all these.

[Jason]

He's masculine, but he's very.

[Mimi]

They're. They have such a sensitive side and open and acceptance of just like the world and. And women. It's beautiful. I love it. Or ones that have sisters.

[Chachi]

Yes, I had both of those.

[Mimi]

I know. A sister and a single mom.

[Jason]

Yeah.

[Mimi]

There's something about the boys that are just so special.

[Bunny]

I love it. All right, moving on. I would like to be anonymous. Three years into my marriage, my husband started accusing me of being born a man because I'm tall, Scottish to broadly shoulders. And what the ever made him think this? Even though I have children from a previous relationship and he knew me while pregnant, he would not leave me. He would not leave me alone about it so much that I had to do a 23andMe. I was obsessed to prove it to him. So obsessed that I lost myself for a long time. Not that I'm being a victim. I'm still married to him going on nine years total. Yes, he did finally drop the subject. But I will never be the same mentally. First of all, ma'am, that's not a victim mentality. What your husband did to you was abusive.

[Mimi]

That's abuse.

[Bunny]

That's abuse. That man literally has a skeleton in his closet. Something triggered that, and he's projecting it onto you. Somebody said something to him, something happened to him. Something triggered him abusing you like that. And if I were you, I would have left him a long time.

[Mimi]

Why are we still together?

[Bunny]

Why? He's probably gonna do that to your.

[Mimi]

Kids, and he's gonna do something about.

[Jason]

What he's saying behind your back.

[Mimi]

Yeah. He's saying that to your face.

[Bunny]

Yeah.

[Mimi]

No, there's. That's not going to end right there. Like, that is going to resurface in another way. It may have nothing to do with that subject. He is going to abuse you again in another subject.

[Bunny]

I mean, he's your vagina. Like, how is he gonna say that you're. That you were a man? Dude, like, that was. He was literally bullying you.

[Mimi]

Yes. Bullying. Is that what I was saying?

[Bunny]

Yeah.

[Mimi]

Yes.

[Bunny]

And you deserve to feel the way that you do. You are right in every way that you feel. Your feelings are valid. If you need to go talk to a therapist to kind of work through it, do it. But the first thing you need to do is drop that dud. Yeah, yeah.

[Mimi]

That dude, man. That guy.

[Bunny]

That guy. All right, well, we're gonna end it there. I love you guys. See you next week. Bye.

[Mimi]

Bye.

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