Dumb Blonde Podcast

Episode: TBT: Jelly's Romantic Surprise
Host: Bunnie XO
Date: August 21, 2025

Main Theme & Overview

This fun, freewheeling episode kicks off Season 9 of Dumb Blonde with Bunnie XO and her friends reflecting on their recent Hawaii adventure—most notably, a surprise romantic trip organized by her husband, Jelly Roll (Jay). The women share deep laughs, swap farm animal updates, dish out relationship advice, and deliver honest talk about lifestyle changes and healing. The tone is irreverent but heartfelt, with plenty of comic moments and surprising vulnerability.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Podcast Glow-up & Openness on Camera

[04:38–05:13]

• Bunnie celebrates the group’s comfort on camera and their “glow up.”
  • Originally, guests hid from video, often masking faces with emojis.
  • Now, there’s pride in showing up authentically—even on no-makeup days.
• “It’s just been really cool to watch you guys glow up in front of the camera now.” – Bunnie XO [04:56]

2. Influencer Talk & Niche Pressure

[06:29–07:26]

• The group debates the 'influencer' label.
  • Some feel it’s an odd term and resist being pigeonholed.
  • “Like, I hate the term influencer. I think it’s the weirdest thing ever.” – Bunnie XO [06:30]
• Discussion shifts to homey skills like baking bread and gardening, sparking envy and admiration.

3. Food Opinions & Dietary Differences

[08:39–10:25]

• Gluten-free vs. regular bread feud: Bunnie loves gluten-free; Jason (her husband) hates it.
• Amusing anecdote: Jason is "traumatized" after being served gluten-free bread, now refuses Bunnie’s sandwich orders.
  • “To this day, he’s like, I will not let Bunny order me a sandwich.” – Friend [09:23]

4. The Hawaii Trip: Why It Mattered

[10:25–19:08]

• How Hawaii Became the Destination:
  • Multiple failed plans—initially England, then Bahamas, then Puerto Rico—each plan foiled by logistics and passports.
  • “The last place I want to go is another cold place on my birthday.” – Bunnie XO [11:41]
• Jelly’s Romantic Surprise:
  • After Bunnie gets frustrated and gives up on trip planning, Jay takes over in secret.
  • He organizes everything: private jet, luxury hotels, birthday decorations at every stop.
    • “When I tell you this man...went all out, bro.” – Bunnie XO [17:24]
  • For the first time in nearly a decade together, Jelly truly leans into romance and celebration for Bunnie.

5. Why the Surprise Was So Meaningful

[18:07–19:08]

• Jay is “not a romantic,” so the planning and attention to detail deeply touched Bunnie.
• “We've been together almost a decade, and I've never seen that side of him.” – Bunnie XO [24:47]
• Experience gives her new appreciation of “princess treatment.”
  • “Ladies who have been doing the princess treatment, you motherfuckers have been doing it right.” – Bunnie XO [25:11]

6. Hawaii Memories: Adventure & Healing

[23:17–33:47]

• Activities: Swimming with manta rays at night (“monster soup”), ATV mudding, waterfalls, paddle-boarding, and hugging cows.
• Facing Fears:
  • Bunnie and friends challenge their fears—ocean at night, cliff diving, breaking OCD tendencies.
    • “We were all conquering fears. My OCD...I threw it out the window.” – Bunnie XO [34:40]
  • “It was so spiritual, though...to watch these animals come up. They have this face that smiles at you and a vagina.” – Bunnie XO [28:26]
• Romance and Teamwork:
  • The trip changes dynamics for many, including Tasha, who gets a fun vacation romance with “boat boy.”

7. Farm Life Beginnings & Bonding with Animals

[41:05–54:58]

• Both Bunnie and her friend have rapidly acquired farm animals (donkeys, cows, pigs, etc.).
• Each animal has a personality: emo donkey (a Pisces!), feisty pigs, drama-queen cows.
  • “I want to rename him, though, because Donkey does not fit him. Donkey is like a rambunctious, happy, active donkey. This is Eeyore.” – Bunnie XO [46:06]
• Discussion on emotional intelligence in animals; building trust and friendship is heartwarming and at times hilarious.

8. Lifestyle, Inspirations, and Shout-outs

[55:07–58:49]

• Inspiration from homesteader friends and admiration for country wives.
• Shout-out to Trisha Paytas for her resilience and her upcoming multi-city “ERAS” tour.
  • “She’s really a true testament of happily ever after.” – Bunnie XO [58:11]

9. Hot Takes on Air Travel & Airlines

[58:53–66:35]

• Hot topic: Spirit Airlines bans ‘scantily clad’ passengers and those with certain tattoos.
  • “Spirit Airline...No, I will never fly Spirit Airline.” – Bunnie XO [59:21]
• Rant on airline mark-ups and industry changes. Astrological warning that the airline industry is due for a shake-up.
  • “My astrologist...said that the industry of the airplane, of aircrafts is going to change drastically.” – Bunnie XO [60:48]
• Chilling discussion of recent plane and helicopter crashes and near misses; group shares their anxieties and brushes with fate.
  • “My heart goes out to their families. Just seriously, I’m so scared to fly now.” – Bunnie XO [66:19]

10. Local Nashville & Podcast News

[66:37–69:38]

• Announcing the opening of Goodnight Nashville bar—inviting fans to meet the “bottle bunnies” (follow on TikTok: @BottledBunnies).
• Merch drops (Bunny XO hoodies, sweats, new T-shirts).
• Previewing what’s coming in Season 9: more personal group chats, deep dives with musicians, and Bunnie’s soon-to-release memoir.

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On Jelly’s Romantic Surprise Trip:
  • “This is the first time my husband went all out for me...I could get used to this. I understand now why girls like the princess treatment.” – Bunnie XO [24:47]
• On Facing Fears Together:
  • “We were all conquering fears. My OCD...I threw it out the window. I made a vow to myself that I was just going to let it fucking roll, dude. And it felt so good.” – Bunnie XO [34:40]
• On Animals’ Emotional Lives:
  • “I've never...I didn't realize how animals like, are so emotional.” – Bunnie XO [46:18]
• On Airline Hot Mess:
  • “Spirit Airlines. Get your shit together...there’s going to be that overzealous airline worker who’s going to be like, you have this type of tattoo you’re showing...it’s like people on power trips.” – Bunnie XO [62:05]
• Farm Life Reflection:
  • “I now understand why when people have farms, they don't want to leave.” – Bunnie XO [53:34]
• On Personal Growth:
  • “We’re so thankful for our Patreon community...you guys, man, really funded this podcast when we had nothing.” – Bunnie XO [71:30]

Timestamps for Key Segments

• [04:38] – Season 9 Launch; Guests’ podcast evolution/glow-up
• [06:29] – Influencer identity and societal pressures
• [10:25] – Hawaii trip backstory and why it was needed
• [17:00] – Jelly's surprise: planning, secrecy, and execution
• [23:17] – Arrival in Kona, Four Seasons experience
• [25:29] – Swimming with manta rays: awe, comedy, and fears
• [33:49] – ATV mudding and waterfall adventure
• [41:05] – Animal updates, farm life antics, emotional bonds
• [55:07] – Homesteading aspirations; shout-outs to inspiring women
• [58:53] – Trisha Paytas appreciation
• [58:59] – Spirit Airlines controversy, airline rant
• [66:37] – Goodnight Nashville bar opening & Bottled Bunnies promo
• [69:38] – Previewing musical guests, book release news, Patreon thanks

Podcast Vibe

Irreverent, wildly funny, and at times deeply sweet, this episode balances hilarious stories (animal antics, vacation mishaps, airline rants) with honest talk about healing, growth, and embracing real relationships. The chemistry between Bunnie and her friends is magnetic, blending sass, vulnerability, and authentic sisterhood.

For New Listeners

If you haven't listened, this episode is a perfect mix of heart, humor, and relatable struggles—offering a behind-the-scenes look at Bunnie XO’s evolving life, an epic birthday surprise, and friendship in full bloom. Expect to laugh, sigh, and maybe get a little inspired to go on an adventure of your own, romantic or otherwise.