Podcast Summary: Dumb Blonde – “The Trophy Wife That Built An Empire: Coco Austin”

Release Date: November 9, 2025
Host: Bunnie XO (Dumb Blonde Productions)
Guest: Coco Austin

Episode Overview

This episode features the iconic Coco Austin—model, actress, entrepreneur, and the legendary partner to Ice-T—on an unfiltered, deeply personal, and hilarious journey through her life in the spotlight. Host Bunnie XO dives into Coco’s trailblazing career, family life, motherhood, the pressures of social media, being an “OG” influencer, and the secrets behind her enduring relationship, all laced with candid stories and memorable banter.

Key Discussion Points and Insights

1. Coco’s Origins as the Original “Curvy Girl” Influencer

• Started modeling in 1997, making her a veteran with 30 years in the industry (04:05).

• Paved the way for the curvy, confident style mainstreamed by current celebrities:

  “There was a bunch of people that started the whole curvy scene way before the Kardashians... I was happy to say I was one of them.” (04:46 - Coco)

• Early adopter of building a personal brand and website before “influencer” was a thing:

  “I was one of the first models to have a website... to spend 15, $20,000 for a website was, like, unheard of for a model.” (26:55 - Coco)

2. Surviving and Thriving Through Changing Times

• Reflects on club and rave life in the 90s and compares it to today’s “cancel culture”:

  “Now everybody wants to just cancel everybody for no reason…Before we were, like, equal and we weren’t, like, judging people because they sin differently.” (06:09 - Bunnie XO)

• Discusses the impact of online negativity and cyberbullying, especially for the next generation:

  “Now they can bully each other behind electronics… We didn’t have that.” (06:43 - Coco) “I always say, the internet shouldn’t be free… You’d be better stewards of your time if you actually had to pay an internet bill to leave a bad comment.” (06:56 - Bunnie XO)

3. Motherhood and Family Values

• Coco’s devotion to raising her daughter, Chanel, hands-on without nannies:

  “I didn’t want to give her to nannies ... I’m very much a hands-on mother.” (11:09 - Coco)

• Challenges and joys of raising a mini-celebrity:

  “She’s nine, but going on 20. Right? Because when you’re talking to her, it’s like you’re talking to an adult.” (11:57 - Coco) “She doesn’t understand why she can’t go to the club when we do really go to the club.” (12:37 - Coco) “Breastfed for a very long time… I became obsessed.” (10:24, 13:01 - Coco)

• Addresses backlash about extended breastfeeding and defends mother-daughter bonding:

  “The whole concept of breastfeeding...it was more of a bonding experience … I was the only one speaking about it.” (90:02 - 91:31 - Coco)

4. Career Shifts, Branding, and Internet Fame

• On her evolution from risqué model shots to OnlyFans:

  “I just took what I was doing on Instagram and uploaded the pictures there because I think it was getting a little too saucy on Instagram.” (32:00 - Coco)

• Balancing sexy branding and motherhood, and not giving into public pressure:

  “I want to be a wholesome mother...I want her to be happy or proud. I don’t want it to ever bug her.” (32:31 - Coco)

• On being called the “OG” and influencing a generation of women to own their image and sexuality:

  “You inspired a whole generation...of being able to be proud of showing our bodies and being like, you know what? We are marketing ourselves. We’re becoming the brand and being independent, and nobody else can take that from us.” (28:50 - 29:28 - Bunnie XO)

5. Enduring Love Story with Ice-T

• Together almost 25 years—one of Hollywood’s longest-standing couples.

• On compatibility and letting each other shine:

  “If I was a guy, I’d be Ice...We compliment each other because we’re kind of the same person, and we know that. And we also let each other shine.” (63:09 - Coco)

• Old-fashioned romance with a modern twist:

  “We have an old-fashioned relationship...He goes, he does his job, works hard for his money. My place is to keep the house right...we know each other’s places.” (78:27 - Coco)

• On being a “submissive” partner out of love, not weakness:

  “I’m very much a power woman. Right. But I am very submissive, you know, I just bring it down for him. A man wants to be a man. Why can’t a woman be a woman?” (79:32 - 79:44 - Coco)

6. Body, Beauty, and Self-Care

• Addresses persistent rumors about cosmetic surgery (natural vs. enhanced):

  “Everybody thought I had implants in my butt...I had to go and actually do an ultrasound to prove it...” (84:20 - Coco) "If you get your waist small, the smaller you get your waist, the more ass will look big... I have naturally muscular genes." (84:47 - Coco)

• On aging, confidence, and breaking taboos:

  “People ask, don’t you think you’re too old? No. What is that exactly?...We’re setting the tone...I think women nowadays, we’re aging more gracefully.” (36:29, 37:04 - Coco & Bunnie XO)

• Confesses to being “ridiculous” about cleanliness and organization—her OCD as both a strength and a challenge:

  “Everything has to be perfect. Me, my hair, my nails, everything. My health, my family. Everything in my life, I feel like, has to be in order.” (60:47 - Coco)

Notable Quotes and Memorable Moments

• On Being an OG Curvy Model:

  “I was before the Kardashians...I was happy to say I was one of them.” (04:46 - Coco)

• On Internet Hate:

  "If people had to pay for it to...leave a bad comment, you’d have to pay for that. I like that. They would be out of money." (06:56 - Bunnie XO & 07:13 - Coco)

• On Motherhood:

  “I became obsessed…It’s amazing how something can consume you.” (10:26 - Coco)

• On Relationship Dynamics:

  "We have an old-fashioned relationship...You wouldn’t see us having an old-fashioned relationship, but we know each other’s places." (78:27 - Coco)

• On Public Perceptions and Rumors:

  “Everybody thought I had implants in my butt...I had to go and actually do an ultrasound to prove it.” (84:20 - Coco)

• On Confidence and Longevity:

  “When you have confidence, you’re able to get further because you’re not hiding in the shadows...There’s only one Coco. I’m not going to tone down now. Why would I tone down now?” (93:15 - Coco)

Timestamps of Key Segments

• [03:18] – Coco’s introduction, 30 years in modeling
• [04:46] – Curvy scene before Kardashians
• [10:02-11:17] – Motherhood and hands-on parenting
• [13:01] – Breastfeeding, bonding, and personal choices
• [26:55] – Coco as an internet pioneer, early website
• [32:00] – OnlyFans, evolving branding as a mom
• [63:09] – How Coco and Ice-T make their relationship last
• [78:27] – Relationship roles, old-fashioned romance
• [84:20] – Butt implant rumors and addressing body image
• [93:15] – Teaching confidence & staying true to herself

Wrap-Up

This episode pulls back the curtain on Coco Austin’s life—her groundbreaking influence on body positivity, her approach to parenting in the digital age, the balancing act of personal branding and motherhood, and the real story behind her decades-long relationship with Ice-T. With humor and heart, Coco and Bunnie XO confront taboos, celebrate resilience, and challenge stereotypes, reminding listeners to embrace their individuality, own their narrative, and never apologize for evolving—or for aging confidently.

Follow Coco Austin:

• Instagram: @Coco
• Facebook: Coco
• X (formerly Twitter): @CocosWorld
• OnlyFans: Just “Coco”

Final Word:

“I’m going to be a great mother, but a sexy great mother...There’s only one Coco. I’m not going to tone down now. Why would I tone down now?” (92:49, 93:52 - Coco)

For anyone who hasn’t listened, this lively and heartfelt conversation is essential for understanding the journey and impact of one of entertainment’s most influential—and unapologetic—figures.