Holly Furtick (5:03)
I remain in the body. Convinced of this, I know that I will remain. Tell your neighbor you're going to make it. Convinced of this, I know that I will remain. And I will continue with all of you for your progress and joy in the faith, so that through my being with you again, your boasting in Christ Jesus will abound on account of me. I know you've been standing for a long time, but stay on your feet. One more moment. The Lord told me to give you an instruction today that will be very specific for you. It goes like this. Look forward, not far. I've been distracted, overwhelmed. Feel like you're kind of going crazy sometimes, coming from every direction. The Lord said, look forward, not far. Tell your neighbor, look forward, not far. Now on your way to your seat, tell your neighbor one thing you're looking forward to this week. Just go ahead and tell them real quick one thing you're looking forward to this week. I'm looking forward to Pastor Steven finishing this sermon so I can go to Chipotle. I know how y'all are. I'm looking forward to this sermon that the man of God is about to preach. I'm looking forward to put it in the comments, too. I'm going to read a few from online. Somebody shout out something appropriate that you're looking forward to this week. Real quick in the room. Looking forward to it. Looking forward to it. Everybody in the chat put, I'm looking forward to it. Then tell me one thing you're looking forward to. Forward, not far. It really helped me because when I walk out to preach, it's always a little unpredictable. I never really know how it's going to go. So I do a little trick, and this is a little bit squeamish for me to tell you about. You might roll your eyes, and Abbey is going to cringe on the front row because she hates when I say romantic things in front of thousands of people about her mother. But I always squeeze Holly's hand before I go back to get ready to preach. If she's not, like, deep in rapturous worship, if she's in the Shekinah glory, I just walk out and let her have her moment with Jesus. I don't want to cut in, but if she's halfway aware, I'll just squeeze her hand. It's my reminder that in a few minutes, however long it takes me to preach this sermon, in about three and a half hours, no matter what happens up here, I'm going home with her. Here's what that's called. Psychologically anticipatory pleasure. I don't mean what you think I mean by that. Chances are all we're going to do is eat, take a nap. If there's something we're watching, we might watch it. We'd probably fall asleep trying to watch it, but something to look forward to after it's over. It somehow fortifies me for what I need to do up here, reminding myself that in. In a role as Preacher or pastor does not exist. The entire definition of who I am as a person, it takes the performance anxiety off because whether you love it or hate it, I'm going home with her. She never told me I preached a bad sermon. I know she probably thought it, but she never said it out loud. On the chat right now, there are all kinds of people saying, I'm looking forward to. To the Chiefs winning today. I'm looking forward to seek him more this week. See, you have spirit and flesh, spirit and flesh, all in the comments. I'm looking forward to teach my students. Well, that's cool. I thought that was cool. Just when I read it, I thought, well, that's not you looking forward to somebody doing something for you. It's you doing something for somebody. What a cool way to think. I don't know if you're telling the truth or not, but might as well frame it that way. Looking forward to closing a door. Looking forward to a few days off work. Looking forward to my. I won't say that out loud. Looking forward to feeling better. I'm looking forward to, yeah, it's going too fast. I don't know how to slow it down. I think it's important always in your life to have something to look forward to. It's real dangerous if you ever get in a place where you can't look forward to anything and feel joy. You need to talk to somebody. That's a dangerous place for you to stay. I don't just mean for a moment where you're tired or overwhelmed and you just want everybody to leave you alone. But if you ever get to a place where there is a prolonged sense of the postponement of joy. Do you know what I mean by postponing joy? Where you're like, well, I might be happy one day, but I can't see anything in my immediate future that I look forward to. That is a dangerous way to live. It doesn't mean that everything you do every day has to be something you enjoy, Snowflake. But it does mean there ought to be something, even within the most challenging seasons of your life, that you can go, I look forward to that. That's why I want every married couple doing date nights. I want you to do it so you can look forward to that time. You can understand that even if we've been busy all week, it doesn't have to be an expensive date night. Make a sandwich. But set aside a. A time that you can look forward to, that you can know. Especially if you have kids or little kids or Something like that. Set it up where you know. Okay. We are so busy managing this corporation called Our Kids, this terrorist organization called Our Kids, we need a time set aside that I can look forward to connecting with my girlfriend, my boyfriend, the one I used to spend hours on the phone with. I think that's really important that you put something you can look forward to, even if it's a little thing. That's why I have the fridge stocked with Fair Life shakes. Because after I've done all my squats and all my curls, I know there is the taste of artificial sweetener awaiting me. Just something to trigger my tongue, to let me know, you did good today. Well done, thou good and faithful servant. Again, I'm taking a moment to set this up because if I don't set it up practically, if we jump straight to what Paul said from prison, you will think this message only applies when you're going through the hardest situation in your life. I saw a principle this week that was so practical that it reminded me about something Brennan Manning said in one of his books. When a man went to visit Mother Teresa at the house of the dying in Calcutta, this brilliant ethicist, John Cavanaugh, went to see her for three months. On the first day he met Mother Teresa, the report goes, he was trying to figure out what to do with the rest of his life, and he felt foggy about it. Now stop right here. You might feel the same way today. You might not be going to see Mother Teresa, but you came to Elevation Church. Or you clicked on the link and you're feeling like, what do I do with the rest of my life? Or what do I do in this next week? Or what do I even do for my next step? Well, Mother Teresa, upon meeting the man said, what can I do for you? He said, I would love for you to pray for me. She said, what would you like for me to pray for you? He said, pray that God will give me clarity. That God will give me clarity. She said, I won't do it. I won't do it. I've never had clarity. He said, but you always seem to have clarity. Mother Teresa said, I've never had clarity. What I've had is trust. So I will pray that you will trust in God. The apostle Paul, writing to the church that he founded, which was the first church in Europe, incidentally, was founded when he was in prison another time is now riding to span 800 miles from Rome, where he is sitting awaiting a verdict of his current imprisonment for preaching the gospel to the church he loves and he's worried about them and burdened for them. Eudia and Syntyche are arguing. There seems to be within the Philippian church a sense that when the teacher left class, we can do whatever we want. He checks in to let them know, I'm proud of you, but you need to keep making progress in doing that. He shares with them an update about his situation as well. As we are expecting Paul to give the exact details of whether or not he will be released to continue to preach the gospel, or whether he will continue to be restrained by his chains, he does something very interesting and different. He begins to share with them not about the conclusion of his trial, but about the courage God has given him to face it. Y'all missed your chance to say amen. I've been pastoring this church almost 20 years, and y'all still don't know when I said something good. I don't have to get loud for it to be good. I said, sometimes God won't give you the conclusion. He will just give you courage. The people like Mother Teresa and the Apostle Paul who are really confident, it's not because they have so much clarity. It's not because they always know what to do next. It's just that they're always focused on what God has called them to do. Now, this is a great distinction for all of us who are overwhelmed. From a man who had every right to be depressed and despondent, for a man who had every right to feel and communicate his sense of total, utter despair comes a book like Philippians where he says, yes, I will continue to rejoice. Why are you rejoicing, Paul? Did you just get good news that.