Let us pray w/ Violet

Summary

Emergency Intercom – "Let us pray w/ Violet"

iHeartPodcasts | Nov 14, 2025
Hosts: Enya Umanzor & Drew Phillips
Special Guest: Violet

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Main Theme / Purpose

This episode of Emergency Intercom features Drew, Enya (Sophia Donner in transcript), and special guest Violet in a characteristically chaotic, comedic, and warm conversation filled with inside jokes, dark humor, and moments of unexpected vulnerability. The episode loosely oscillates between candid discussions about mental health, drugs, social media habits, cultural observations, personal histories (including stories of eviction), and playful philosophical debates. As always, the tone is irreverent but honest, mixing absurdity with sincerity.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Kicking Off with "Prayer" and Group Banter

• The episode starts with Violet leading the group in a mock-serious prayer for "nutrients" from the podcast and over their friend Kai, who’s humorously described as having a “terminal illness.”

  “I just want to thank God that we're here today … only give us the nutrients of this podcast.” – Violet (04:16)

• Drew jokingly asks for a "gay man" instead of "Amen."

  “Can I get a gay man?” – Drew (05:06)

• Segues into a discussion about Palm Springs Pride and the idea that gay people should retire there.

  “I realized gay starts at being 58.” – Drew (05:19)

2. Internet Fads, Area 51, and Drug Humor

• References to the “rush” on Area 51 and clowns scare era.

  “Area 51…if we all just—is essentially what they did January 6th. They did it first, like, the test trial.” – Sophia (06:21)

• Wild banter about meeting at Area 51 “high on crack,” mocking the idea of “trip sitters” for hard drugs.
• Satirical “crack is good for you” takes vs. vulnerability on mushrooms:

  “Crack makes you the best version of yourself. Everyone should do crack. Whereas, like, mushrooms makes you very vulnerable.” – Drew (07:53)

3. Prayer, Spirituality, and Absurdity

• Drew admits Violet’s food prayers “genuinely infected my brain.”

  “I took that prayer very serious, even though I was laughing the whole time.” – Drew (08:24)

• The discussion veers into sexual humor about "praying before eating ass" and gut bacteria.

4. Chasing Virality, Consumer Trends, and Boredom

• Talk about trending "Labubus" internet cups and “bear mugs.”

  “It is reselling for $285...They need to sell it now before it tanks, ‘cause girl, imma get bored.” – Violet (10:46)

• Sophia’s loneliness and boredom: “I wake up every day at 6am desolate iPhone. Like I’m living in...”

5. Art, Instagram, and the Grotesque

• Critique of thirst-trap black-and-white photos by gay men (“as tried as Tate Langdon skull makeup for Halloween”).
• Drew shocks Sophia by showing a full-frontal nude scene from an actor she once found attractive, inciting regret and obsessive memory.

6. Over-sharing, Boundaries, and Phone Habits

• Debates about sharing location indefinitely with new crushes vs. the horror of turning sharing back off.

  “Imagine taking it off, like, turning it off me. Like, my bad.” – Sophia (15:51)

• iPhones as “pro-cheating” devices.

7. Screen Time and Modern Rot

• Exposing average screen times.

  “Everyone brings their rot in one room.” – Sophia (24:15)

• Violet’s Overwatch addiction.

8. Mental Health & Self-Critique

• Drew shares a story of self-loathing after seeing a photo during a sad walk, leading to an emotional breakdown.

  “It just made me think about how mean I am to myself...I was just going through and realized I hated myself, and that’s what made me cry.” – Drew (26:29)

• Discussion about crying, medication, and the stigma of Wellbutrin (“Y’all are drug addicts. I would never get on a pill. Wow.” – Drew, sarcastically, 28:23).

9. Drug Culture, High School Antics, and Quaaludes

• Violet recalls taking 80mg of Vyvanse in high school (given to her as a Secret Santa gift) and the terrifying experience.

  “I thought I was gonna crawl out of my skin… it was so scary.” – Violet (35:26)

• Sophia and Violet lament lost childhood photos due to changing devices and digital loss.

10. Growing Up, Evictions, and Family Trauma

• Moving stories of both Sophia and Violet’s families being evicted during and after the recession, and their parents’ coping strategies.
• Sophia recounts destroying her father’s prized home improvements as her family was evicted:

  “We all grabbed [his weights] and all over the house… smashed all of the tiles.” – Sophia (40:25)

11. Conspiracies & Traffic Agents

• Satirical talk of Illuminati; Drew teases a first-hand story from a “very powerful person” (but withholds details).

  “I got told stories from someone that is a very, very powerful person that literally made me, like, actually believe [in the Illuminati].” – Drew (49:26)

• Violet’s conspiracy: “Traffic is not fucking real. … There are fucking traffic agents that are up in there... They might be Reptilians.” (50:24)

12. Fuck/Marry/Kill: Magic, Silliness, Peace (54:05)

• Violet’s favorite FMK question:
  • Drew: Marry silliness, fuck peace, kill magic—argues for the necessity of conflict.
  • Sophia: Fuck magic, marry peace, kill silliness—sees peace as something unfamiliar and valuable.
  • Violet: Marry magic (“to me, magic is like everything that’s God…the universe…”), fuck silliness, kill peace.

13. Road Rage and Wishing Revenge

• Intense, comic discussions of collective road rage and magical thinking:

  “Don’t piss me off because I will wish that you get hit by a car and I’m very powerful in that sense, so like, it’s probably going to happen.” – Violet (58:51)

14. Witchcraft, Capitalism & Spiritual Scams

• Experiences with Etsy spells, House of Hoodoo candles, and the pitfalls of mixing spirituality with capitalism.

15. Surviving New York & California Love

• Violet details her love/hate relationship with three years living in New York, ultimately preferring California.

  “If you're somebody who's like, a bit more slow...like introverted...I'm a Cali girl for life, honestly.” – Violet (61:18)

16. Small Claims Court Woes & Medical Neglect

• Violet’s unresolved medical negligence and inability to sue due to the statute of limitations.

17. Media Recommendations (65:59)

• Violet: “Cece Natalie” music, Overwatch cinematics, Push (Dakota Fanning/Chris Evans), Enter the Void.
• Drew: Underworld, “Dark and Long,” The Beach Boys, Moby, CocoRosie, “Old Man” (Neil Young), upcoming “Sentimental Value.”
• Sophia: Worst Person in the World (their “top four on Letterboxd”).

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• Violet’s prayer for the podcast:

  “God bless this podcast, only give us the nutrients…” (04:16)

• On Palm Springs Pride:

  “Gay starts at being 58.” – Drew (05:19)

• On trip sitters for drugs:

  “Like having a trip sitter for crack is like, what? I already see you do that on a daily basis.” – Violet (07:40)

• On vulnerability and masculinity:

  “When men are vulnerable, it's really bad. It's really gross.” – Drew (07:53)

• On praying before sex:

  “What, Drew’s been praying before he eats my ass. Because it's food. That's the joke...” – Drew (08:53)

• On phone overuse and hypocrisy:

  “If I’m in a group...everyone is on, I am intentionally not on my phone because I am better than all of you...” – Drew (17:29)

• On self-loathing and vulnerability:

  “It just made me think about, like, how mean I am to myself...I was just, like, realizing I hated myself, and that's what made me cry. But I woke up today and I feel amazing, and I'm like, wait, I'm so awesome and cool.” – Drew (27:03)

• Fuck/Marry/Kill wisdom:

  “To me, silliness is completely benevolent....I want to marry something that is funny.” – Drew (53:22)
  “Marry magic…magic to me is everything that’s God…the universe…the things we can’t explain.” – Violet (55:42)
  “Silliness to me is like humor…I don’t think everyone’s meant to be funny.” – Sophia (54:06)

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Timestamps for Key Segments

• 03:11 – The Halloween (mis)theme and Violet’s appearance
• 04:16 – Violet’s signature “prayer” and group roasting
• 06:21 – Area 51 raid recap, early internet viral events
• 07:53 – Seriousness/humor about drugs and vulnerability
• 08:24 – The spirituality of “praying over food”
• 10:42 – Viral mugs, consumer fads, and reselling culture
• 12:16 – Instagram art, thirst traps, and disgust
• 15:30 – On sharing locations, boundaries, and iPhone features
• 16:57 – Avoiding phone dependency in public
• 24:23 – Rotting at home, Overwatch addiction
• 25:54 – Drew’s story of crying after seeing a sad selfie
• 27:03 – Self-acceptance post-cry
• 28:21 – Wellbutrin, stigma, and supplements for men
• 35:26 – Violet’s teenage Vyvanse overdose story
• 40:25 – Sophia’s family destroys the house during eviction
• 49:26 – Drew dangles an Illuminati story
• 50:24 – Violet’s “traffic is not real” conspiracy rant
• 54:05 – FMK: Magic, Silliness, Peace
• 58:51 – Magical thinking for road rage revenge
• 60:42 – Etsy spells and spiritual capitalism gone wrong
• 61:18 – Violet’s New York experience and California identity
• 64:28 – Violet's story of medical neglect
• 65:59 – Media picks: music, movies, Letterboxd loves

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Overall Tone & Takeaways

• The episode is wildly tangential, blending humor with flashes of genuine personal reflection.
• No topic is too taboo: the hosts move from prayers to drugs, screen time to existentialism, eviction trauma to magical thinking, with ease.
• Listeners get a front-row seat to the affectionate, brutally honest dynamic between Drew, Sophia, and Violet.
• Memorable takeaway: The show embodies a “laugh so you don’t cry” attitude but makes space for both, offering catharsis (and chaos) in 70 minutes of unfiltered conversation.

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“A laughter is joy. God wants us to be joyous.”
– Violet (08:44)

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For fans old and new, this episode is a crash course in the Emergency Intercom ethos: nothing is off-limits, everyone is the butt of the joke (including themselves), and honest emotion has just as much a place as fever-dream humor.

Transcript

[Sophia Donner]

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[Drew]

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[Violet]

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[Sophia Donner]

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[Violet]

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[Drew]

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[Violet]

Babe, Halloween's over.

[Drew]

It's not Halloween.

[Violet]

Wait, is it Halloween?

[Drew]

No, it's Halloween today.

[Sophia Donner]

Stop. Because I'm not kidding. Like, I. I'm so.

[Drew]

Why do you think I got an orange phone?

[Violet]

Because you're so festive.

[Drew]

Exactly. Guys, we have a very special guest today. Violet, like, so excited.

[Sophia Donner]

I feel like. Have you been on, like, the end of an episode, or am I tripping?

[Violet]

Last time I came for my birthday, I think I made, like, a little cameo and prayed over the podcast.

[Drew]

Oh, wait, let's pray again. Let's pray again.

[Sophia Donner]

Yeah, let's start off with a prayer.

[Violet]

Yes, let's hold hands.

[Drew]

Okay, I'll do it. Spiritually.

[Sophia Donner]

He picked his phone back up with his free hand, by the way.

[Violet]

So he said spiritually.

[Sophia Donner]

He reached out to us and then dropped his phone.

[Drew]

I'm creating a new note. He is also thinks technology is God.

[Violet]

We could.

[Drew]

We could go into that.

[Sophia Donner]

Let's pray about that.

[Violet]

Let's pray over him.

[Sophia Donner]

Let's actually pray for him.

[Violet]

No, we do need to pray for God because the other day. Yeah.

[Sophia Donner]

Oh, I guess. Yeah. Valid. Valid. It's a good prayer. Yeah.

[Violet]

Right. Okay. I don't know if I'm allowed. Can I tell. Tell the people I need to pray over you. Anyway, so I just want to thank God that, you know, we're here today in this room sharing space and being gorgeous and beautiful and perfect together. And God bless this podcast only give us the nutrients of this podcast. Like, you know, like, take what resonates you guys. And I want to pray over Kai because, you know, he has a. I don't know, like, terminal illness or something. Like, something's going on with him and he needs help. So please, God, thank you, May. May we help him and bless His. His soul and heart and, you know, make sure that he's okay.

[Sophia Donner]

And.

[Drew]

Yeah.

[Violet]

And. Yeah. Amen. Thank you so much.

[Drew]

Amen.

[Sophia Donner]

Thank you.

[Drew]

Can I get a gay man?

[Violet]

A what?

[Sophia Donner]

A gay man.

[Drew]

Hey.

[Sophia Donner]

Oh, you're so sweet.

[Violet]

That's what RuPaul said. Wait, isn't it Pride somewhere right now?

[Drew]

Oh, yeah, in Palm Springs. They just did Palm Springs.

[Sophia Donner]

In Palm Springs.

[Drew]

They also. I saw, like, a tweet where it was, like, going to Palm Springs Pride was, like, life changing for me because I realized gay starts at being 58. Because it's like, gay guys, like, go rage in Palm Springs. They, like, retire in Palm Springs. And they were at Palm Springs Pride.

[Sophia Donner]

Oh, that sounds like such a vibe.

[Drew]

Palm Springs has its own pride that's disconnected from the other, but you get.

[Sophia Donner]

Two so that now there's technically two prides if you live in Palm Springs. So it's a. It's a bogo deal if you move to Palm Springs for your.

[Violet]

So basically, if you're gay, you should move there.

[Sophia Donner]

Yeah. Like, I'm thinking of, like, you know, all the videos of people rushing, like, Area 51. Like, what?

[Drew]

Yeah, yeah, that. Like, trains.

[Violet]

Is that.

[Drew]

No, no, like, years ago.

[Sophia Donner]

Years ago. It's, like, kind of during the era of, like, the clowns are going to kill us. Like, you remember when people were scared of clowns.

[Drew]

It was also. It was early pandemic because they all had fucking masks on. Yeah.

[Violet]

Like, was this when the purge came out?

[Sophia Donner]

It was after.

[Drew]

After.

[Sophia Donner]

But basically a bunch of people were like, we found the address of area 51. Let's all meet up and rush it, because if we all just. Is essentially what they did January 6th. They did it first, like, the test trial. The test trial was Area 51. It was a bunch of random white people in the desert.

[Violet]

Did they find anything out?

[Drew]

No, they. No one ran. Like, no one even, like, got. Was brave enough to run. Like, it was in it. It was.

[Violet]

It was huge.

[Drew]

It was huge online. Like, it was. It had, like, movement online, which was, like, really, really crazy. But only, like, 12 people showed up. And it, like, was in my head.

[Sophia Donner]

Wow. In my head. I've rewritten that whole Area 51 thing, I guess, if you don't know about it, maybe it was really a small case, but I just thought it was so entertaining that I was, like, really upset.

[Drew]

That's how me and Drew met. We met at the Area 51. Yeah, we were both high on crack, too.

[Violet]

That's really fire.

[Sophia Donner]

Did you guys have somebody, like, taking care of You. Or were you guys both alone on crack?

[Drew]

We had a crack trip sitter. Yeah. Yeah.

[Sophia Donner]

Is that a thing?

[Drew]

It was Jordan Firstman.

[Sophia Donner]

Wait, do people for real not like, have like trip sitters for like crazy drugs like that? Are people seriously just doing like, crack alone? I guess it's not necessarily like, girl, I want to do crack so bad. Can you watch me?

[Drew]

Can you watch me?

[Sophia Donner]

Sure. I don't like, tweet too crazy.

[Drew]

Can you watch me jump out of my window crack?

[Violet]

Like. Like having a trip sitter for crack is like, what? Yeah, okay, but like, like I'm gonna watch you tweak out. Like, I already see you do that on a daily basis.

[Drew]

Be so respective.

[Violet]

I know.

[Sophia Donner]

I guess that is like kind of a threat. There's no world where that would happen.

[Drew]

Feel like you don't need a trip sitter cuz crack makes you the best version of yourself. Yeah, everyone should do crack. Whereas, like, mushrooms makes you very vulnerable. And like the worst version of yourself. The worst version. When men are vulnerable, it's really bad. It's really gross. And I don't want to see that.

[Violet]

Me on shrooms is a scary sight. I don't think anybody needs to see that, dude.

[Sophia Donner]

All their stories about it are literally the funniest.

[Violet]

They always remind don't do drugs.

[Drew]

Like.

[Sophia Donner]

Like, you know when Squidward gets lost in the like, infinite and he's curled up.

[Violet]

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Drew]

Also, wait, I need to say before we completely move on, like, you praying over food, like, has genuinely infected my brain in a way that I. I take it very serious when you pray. I'm not even kidding. I'm like, there. This is a spiritual being. Like, this is something that's very important to me right now. And I took that prayer very serious, even though I was laughing the whole time.

[Violet]

Amen. No, it's okay. Like a laughter is jo joy. Like. Yes. Like God wants us to be joyous.

[Drew]

Exactly.

[Violet]

You know, God is like, take this dick, honey.

[Drew]

Like, what Drew's been praying before he eats my ass. Because it's food. That's the joke is it's eating. What?

[Violet]

Yeah. You're like praying over this busy.

[Drew]

Well, no, I'm praying because I'm about to tear that up.

[Violet]

Yeah, Only give me the nutrients.

[Drew]

Only the nutrients. Only the good pirates.

[Violet]

What is. What is. Like.

[Drew]

What is.

[Violet]

What does poop give you? Like Ebola?

[Sophia Donner]

No, no. E. Coli.

[Violet]

Oh, my bad. Yeah, so you gotta make sure you only get the nutrients.

[Drew]

Not.

[Violet]

Not the Ebola.

[Drew]

E Coli.

[Sophia Donner]

It's so.

[Drew]

Wait Wait, have y' all heard of these, like, new things called Labubus? They're like making waves on the Internet right now.

[Sophia Donner]

Hasn't something already replaced that? I feel like, oh, like. But I feel like there's a new Starbucks sauce saying and telling everybody to go and poop.

[Drew]

Okay. In the last episode, go get Starbucks workers. Not the workers. Not the workers. Customers.

[Sophia Donner]

The Starbucks in Target. Get a coffee and then poop. Like in the aisles. Or we said some stupid.

[Drew]

See, that's the nutrients of emergency intercom. That's the good parts. You were referencing ghost instead.

[Sophia Donner]

Anyways, they saw that and they released a bear mug. So Labubus are out and the bear.

[Drew]

Mugs are in and are literally brawling for that.

[Sophia Donner]

That, yes. People are fighting in broad daylight.

[Drew]

You know, like honey. Like honey bears.

[Sophia Donner]

I've seen the damn cup even.

[Drew]

It's like that. But like, like. And like glass. It's a glass mug, which is just so crazy.

[Sophia Donner]

Something you would see.

[Drew]

Like, here, I'll show you.

[Sophia Donner]

If we went into a Ross right now and before we walked in, we smoked and walked in. It's something you would see when you first walk in and you're like, I need this. But by the time you get to the counter, you're like, why the did I pick this up? Like, that's what it is.

[Drew]

It is reselling for $285.

[Violet]

They need to sell it now before it tanks. Because, girl, imma get bored.

[Drew]

I'm bored quick.

[Sophia Donner]

Ew. It's actually mad ugly.

[Drew]

It reminds me of the graffiti guy you were telling me about. Like, that's what I imagined because I said it was he.

[Violet]

That's like what he looks like.

[Sophia Donner]

I just need somebody, buddy, to treat me like. I seriously am so bored. The only person who texts my phone is my manager. I wake up every day at 6am desolate iPhone. Like I'm living in.

[Drew]

Like, that's not true. I'll text you photos of me playing Fortnite.

[Sophia Donner]

Okay, that is like.

[Violet]

I thought you were about to say something completely different.

[Drew]

Well, that too. Well, unsolicited.

[Violet]

No, I don't.

[Sophia Donner]

Well, no, that's different because he doesn't. He won't. He won't text that kind of stuff. But he sends it from a random email. But you know it's him because on the photo he leaves, you can literally see his watermark. No, he. He puts a watermark.

[Drew]

It's my signature. He puts an.

[Sophia Donner]

At a watermark. There's a. A pin number.

[Drew]

It's crazy that y' all are laughing at his art. Like, that's art.

[Sophia Donner]

The thing is, somebody could literally sell that as art. Like, seriously.

[Drew]

Remember the Instagram account we were looking at last night? Yeah, busted ass. I am.

[Sophia Donner]

I mean, I. I do. People see my stuff and that's exactly how they feel. Like, any time I go to say some slick, like, why the is so and so here, I'm instantly met with the. Instantly met with the reality that that exact thought and sentence is not only being had right now, but will be replied. Like, will be a replied to someone seeing me all the time.

[Drew]

Like, but, yeah, we were going through an Instagram account, and it kind of spurred a thought for me. I really need gay guys to stop taking black and white photos of, hands down, boxers. Like, it is so tried. It is as tried as Tate Langdon skull makeup for Halloween. Like, it really. It's really getting to that point.

[Sophia Donner]

Well, I would argue, like, my only argument is one, I live in a world where I could go the rest of my life without seeing any sort of provocation. Provocative image of a man. Especially when I. Oh, my God.

[Drew]

Remember what I showed you last night?

[Sophia Donner]

That.

[Drew]

That was diabolical of me. It ruined.

[Sophia Donner]

Drew showed me, like, there's someone who I rarely do. I find random men attractive. I always found this man attractive. And he showed me, like, a borderline naked photo of this person.

[Drew]

No, he was butt, ass, naked. Wiener out.

[Sophia Donner]

Is it from a movie?

[Drew]

Yeah, it's from a movie.

[Sophia Donner]

It's from a movie. And it literally, like, it disgusted me. And also, I literally think I have Cam Jansen photographic memory because of my ocd. Because I'm not kidding, I can remember the full framing of where the phone was in my framing. Like, if I had a Vyvans and a few hours, I could draw out the whole scene of, like, seeing this person I once found attractive naked. And it literally is disgusting.

[Drew]

It's Josh o'. Connor.

[Violet]

Huh?

[Drew]

Is that door closed?

[Sophia Donner]

No, it's cracked open.

[Drew]

But it's Josh o'. Connor. And the. Thank you. Dick and balls are out in a crazy way. And it's made me more in love with him. I think he's one of the most fine shit. Fine shit. It was Josh o'. Connor. Yeah. Whoa. And he's, like, kind of hung.

[Sophia Donner]

Oh, that's probably a pack.

[Violet]

I'm like, I want to see.

[Drew]

Let me see if I can find it again.

[Violet]

I'm like, I don't know why. That just made me think of what's his name, something Radcliffe. The guy. Harry Potter.

[Drew]

Oh, Daniel Radcliffe.

[Violet]

Yes. And it's like him naked on a horse.

[Drew]

Oh, yeah.

[Sophia Donner]

That's why.

[Drew]

That was, like, a while ago, right?

[Sophia Donner]

I love it. I don't know.

[Violet]

I love him. I'm so bad with names, but thank you so much for showing me that. Thank you so much for showing me that, because that is like, I love him. I really do.

[Drew]

In a very major way.

[Violet]

I'm like him or the other one in the movie. Him.

[Drew]

Yeah. Oh, of course. Like him, hands down. Challengers.

[Violet]

Challengers.

[Sophia Donner]

That's all of them at the same time.

[Drew]

This isn't Challengers. We're just saying, oh, oh, Patrick. Or Art from Challengers. It's Patrick. Everything.

[Violet]

Patrick, if you're watching this.

[Sophia Donner]

Yeah, of course.

[Drew]

I thought you said art.

[Sophia Donner]

No, it was art. I used to be really attracted to Art because he's just, like, more effeminate. I'm like, oh, my God, cunty. But first of all, in the movie, Patrick is hotter. Like, by the end of the movie, it's like, need that. Hashtag need that.

[Drew]

And, you know.

[Sophia Donner]

Second of all, I saw an interview with the actor from. I don't know his real name, but I saw him talking in an interview, and it actually annoyed the out of me. So I was Patrick. No, no, the blondes won.

[Drew]

Oh, yeah.

[Violet]

He's like, I don't know. He's cute, but I'm just like, bitch, you're a loser.

[Drew]

It was the Met Gala.

[Violet]

He's like. It's like. It's like, okay, Munch. Like, Munch. You know?

[Sophia Donner]

But the other one is like, no, the other one. I'm gonna send texts at, like, 11pm that aren't even flirtatious and then feel really insecure and put that thread on mute and, like, take a melatonin and go to bed.

[Violet]

Oh, no, I'm sending a pussy pic. Like, what?

[Sophia Donner]

Full send.

[Violet]

I'm like, baby, I want you. Come here. Did you know that I'm like, address shares, location, indefinitely indefinite. Just so you always know where I'm at. I give you no.

[Sophia Donner]

Getting someone's number to be sending it and just be like, oh, my God, my phone does that to everyone whose number I saved.

[Violet]

It's on automatic.

[Sophia Donner]

Like, I'm gonna start doing that because, like, what? I kind of. No, actually. Oh, my God. I just thought about, like, somebody who I, like, randomly want attention from, who I could possibly lose interest in in a matter a matter of seconds, having my, like, location. Because then imagine taking it off, like, turning it off me. Like, my bad.

[Drew]

I take it off. Actually, never.

[Sophia Donner]

Oh, my God. My phone turned off my location because I hate that it shows in thread. Does it still do that?

[Drew]

Yeah, it shows, like, unshared their location.

[Sophia Donner]

That's so, like, girl, that's odd behavior.

[Violet]

I'm like, I hate when don't want me to know where they're at. Like, why are you so.

[Drew]

No, we've talked about this with my friends.

[Sophia Donner]

I'm just like, yeah, I. I'm already being tracked by everything, bro. Like, at least my friends can know, like, if I'm being for real moved around.

[Drew]

Also, iPhones literally, like, promote cheating. They're like, pro cheating. Like, every. Every feature on an iPhone is like, pro cheater. And I'm like, yeah, because it keeps you coming back.

[Violet]

I mean, they want you addicted.

[Drew]

Addicted. Addicted.

[Sophia Donner]

We were talking about this yesterday at the pool, but I literally am the annoying person I think I've talked about on the podcast before, but I am so self conscious about somebody ever seeing me alone in public and seeing me on my phone and thinking that I'm dependent on my phone. So I will go out in public and, like, whether I'm eating or doing an errand, like, I'll. I'll. I always have music in my, like, ears. But I will forbid myself from looking at my phone unless I'm carrying out, like, a text conversation. But I will literally just not look.

[Drew]

At it because I'm like, I'm the same way. I'm literally, like, if. If I'm in a group of people, like, like, and everyone is on their. I am intentionally not on my phone because I am better. I am better than all of you. Like, if it's like, friends, friends, like, oh, girl, I'll be on my phone. But if it's strangers, like, at a party, like, no, I'm literally better than all of y'. All. And, like, I actually live in the moment. Meanwhile, my screen time is 14 hours.

[Sophia Donner]

Like, actually, like, no, if I go outside, I just am not. I'm actually not on my phone because I also like, what? I'm leaving the house to get off of it.

[Drew]

So my friends text. Let's do a quick little weekend getaway. Super chill, right? Famous last words. Suddenly, someone's buying a bonfire outfit. The Airbnb costs more than my car, and apparently there's a boat now, literally, when did this turn into Coachella? That's when I pull out my Klarna card. Swipe, done. And if I want it off my plate now, I can pay in full or I can pay later. And there's no group chat. Math to figure it out. Oh, also, my budget's still breathing. No IOUs, no stress. Because the Klarna card isn't just a card, it's how you survive. Friends, super chill plans, dinners, outfits, random trips you didn't plan for covered plus no credit impact when you apply. So next time the plans spiral. Stay in control. Learn more about klarna [e-mail] debit flex card pay later plans issued by web bank Deposits in your balance account are held at WebBank. Member FDIC anywhere visa is accepted. Certain merchant product good and service restrictions apply. Some merchants do not accept virtual cards. Physical card only included with a paid.

[Sophia Donner]

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[Drew]

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[Sophia Donner]

This is Sophia Donner from OK Storytime.

[Violet]

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[Sophia Donner]

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[Violet]

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[Sophia Donner]

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[Violet]

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[Sophia Donner]

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[Violet]

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[Sophia Donner]

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[Violet]

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[Sophia Donner]

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[Drew]

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[Sophia Donner]

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[Drew]

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[Sophia Donner]

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[Violet]

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[Drew]

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[Sophia Donner]

All I know is what I've been told and that to have truth is a whole lie. For almost a decade, the murder of an 18 year old girl from a small town in Graves County, Kentucky went unsolved until a local homemaker, a journalist and a handful of girls came forward with a story.

[Violet]

I'm telling you, we know Quincy killed her.

[Sophia Donner]

We know a story that law enforcement.

[Drew]

Used to convict six people and that.

[Sophia Donner]

Got the citizen investigator on national tv.

[Violet]

Through sheer persistence and nerve, this Kentucky.

[Sophia Donner]

Housewife helped give justice to Jessica Curran. My name is Maggie Freeling. I'm a Pulitzer Prize winning journalist producer and I wouldn't be here if the truth were that easy to find.

[Drew]

I did not know her and I.

[Violet]

Did not kill her or rape or.

[Drew]

Burn or any of that other stuff that y' all said.

[Sophia Donner]

They literally made me say that I took a match and struck and threw it on her. They made me say that I poured gas on her from lava for good. This is Graves County, a show about just how far our legal system will go go in order to find someone to blame.

[Drew]

America, y' all better wake the hell up. Bad things happens to good people and small towns.

[Sophia Donner]

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[Drew]

What's your screen time having?

[Violet]

Where's my phone?

[Sophia Donner]

Yeah, all that being said, I have the craziest screen time.

[Violet]

Mine was definitely really bad at a point. I don't know. I mean, since I've been here. Actually, no, I be like rotting a.

[Drew]

Few a couple of the days.

[Sophia Donner]

I think that's necessary though.

[Drew]

Like, you don't have to be doing something always. Like you can be on your phone.

[Sophia Donner]

Also, we like, I feel like we all very similar that will like spend like anywhere from four to like seven hours outside of the house and then come back and all just separate and like raw.

[Drew]

You need that.

[Sophia Donner]

And then we recollect and do like a recollection. Rot. Everyone brings their rot in one room. And then you.

[Drew]

That's not bad.

[Violet]

Six hour average.

[Sophia Donner]

Yeah, that's not bad at all.

[Violet]

That's terrible. But I feel like that's just because I'm here. Though.

[Drew]

It's probably lower though, because your Overwatch watch addiction.

[Violet]

Oh, my God. My Overwatch addiction. I know. I'm actually having.

[Sophia Donner]

I really can't even imagine what that game looks like. I. Or like, I. I can't think of it. Can I see? Can someone show me on your phone so I can see? My phone's dead. I would look it up, but like, what does it look like?

[Violet]

Like, does it look like a firstperson shooter? But it's like, I wouldn't say cartoony. Like, I don't know what people would consider it. Like.

[Drew]

It'S like it is in the same vein as Fortnite. Like, not the art style, but just like the colors.

[Sophia Donner]

Oh, okay. I have seen this.

[Violet]

None of them are showing, like.

[Sophia Donner]

Is that from that?

[Drew]

Yeah.

[Sophia Donner]

What?

[Drew]

Nerf Bastion.

[Sophia Donner]

I don't know what that is.

[Violet]

Nerfing is like, you know, like when you get nerfed.

[Drew]

I am nerfed right now, y'. All. Literally. I. I don't think I told y' all this, but when I left to go on that two and a half hour walk, I was like the most sad I've been in a very long time. And I was like walking home probably like an hour and 30 into it, and I was like, I wonder what I look like right now. I probably look like a psychopath just like walking up and down the street. So I took a picture of myself and that's what triggered me to sob for an hour straight. I saw me and I will literally not show the picture because if I Look at it. I might start crying again.

[Sophia Donner]

Why would you keep that? Dude, I'm not kidding. I am so quick. If I take a picture of myself, where I see a picture of myself that like. Like, I am at a point where I see so much content in myself. I see myself look ugly kind of often, but. Oh, that's not bad.

[Violet]

Come on.

[Drew]

No, this is. This is me. This is after I saw it. This is me crying.

[Sophia Donner]

I want to see the, like, the picture that started.

[Drew]

No, I really. It's. It's really traumatic for me. I'm not even kidding.

[Sophia Donner]

It literally, I'm so quick to delete and. And it's getting out of my recently deleted.

[Drew]

It was making.

[Sophia Donner]

I'm doing boom, boom.

[Drew]

It wasn't even. Because I was like, oh, I look ugly in this. Like, it was partially.

[Sophia Donner]

Know if you look.

[Drew]

No, I just wanted to know if I looked like a serial killer, like, walking up and down the street over and over again, like, literally with my hood on. Like, I looked like the killer. But what it spurred is I was like, oh, my. It just made me think about, like, how mean I am to myself. I. I can't even get into it, but, like, I'll start crying, but I'm like, literally so mean to myself. And, like, I literally, like, was just, like, going through. And I was, like, kind of realizing that I hated myself, and then that's what made me cry. But I woke up today and I feel amazing, and I'm like, wait, I'm so awesome and cool.

[Violet]

I think that's skin tea. Like, it's like post cry. Like, it's like the average. The tears make you glow, but, like.

[Drew]

Better the tears make you glow.

[Violet]

No. Yeah, I was just crying in my mom's arms.

[Drew]

I was just about to ask pretty recently when the last time you cried.

[Violet]

Was in my mom's arms. Yeah, before she left to Brazil. I was just like, girl, like, I'm losing it.

[Sophia Donner]

Like, I'm losing it.

[Violet]

And she just held me and was like, you know, obviously, like, trying to be a mom and like, whatever, that's cute. But, like, you know, like, nobody could say anything. Like, in the moment, like, you could tell me that you love me so much that you're gonna, like, I don't know, give me a million dollars. Actually, actually, no, hold on, hold on. But, like, you know what I mean? Yeah, I was just, like, just crying. And then my dad's like, is she crying? Is she crying? And she's like, yeah, like, she's sad right now, but, yeah, then I Haven't cried since. And, like. But, like, I cry. I was crying so much that, like, I think, like, I'm like, okay, I'm on a break.

[Sophia Donner]

Yeah, that makes sense.

[Drew]

You're on a tolerance break.

[Violet]

But laughing till we cry, though.

[Drew]

No, that's different. Love that.

[Sophia Donner]

That I do. Often. Yeah, I cry kind of often. I cry a lot.

[Drew]

So, like, you're a crybaby, but in a good way. Yeah, like, unironically.

[Sophia Donner]

I think the second I feel it, I just let it run.

[Drew]

When was the last time you cried, Kai? I actually cried recently. Really? Yeah. Because I got on Wellbutrin, and it kind of unlocked something in me.

[Violet]

Okay. Wellbutrin.

[Drew]

Yeah.

[Violet]

Zach here. Yes.

[Sophia Donner]

High five.

[Drew]

Y' all are drug addicts. What? I would never get on a pill. Wow. Like, I would never get on that pill.

[Sophia Donner]

Like, what?

[Violet]

You got his ass. You got his ass.

[Drew]

I'm on thin and Minoxidil. If I don't take it, I'll be ball. Actually, no, I don't. I think I would get away with it. I think I would get away with it. No, I would have, like, dense hair for the rest of my life.

[Violet]

Are you really taking it? No, but it's prevented.

[Sophia Donner]

Yeah, he's literally. His crazy ass has been taking that. That's for so long.

[Drew]

It's like, I think every man, the second they turn 25, 24, should pop on minoxidil and Finn, just because, like, the side effects are so rare. Yeah, well, that's what I'm taking daily.

[Sophia Donner]

Yeah. Okay. You're microdosing fentanyl?

[Violet]

Yes.

[Sophia Donner]

Yeah.

[Drew]

No, no, no. Macro.

[Sophia Donner]

Oh, okay.

[Drew]

No, my tolerance is crazy. All, like. You know the. The vial they show in that one ad where it's like, three grains of fentanyl? This is enough to overdose, like, 100 people or whatever I'm taking for myself right now. 12 grains multiple times a day.

[Sophia Donner]

I haven't seen the thing you're even talking about. So I'm like. Like, my, like, drug like, knowledge is so limited that the most I know Jack or Nurse Jackie and, like, even that, I'm like, what did it look like? I'm like.

[Violet]

I'm like, they need to bring back quaalus. I want to try that.

[Drew]

I know. I want to.

[Violet]

Like, what does that feel like?

[Sophia Donner]

What did they say about, like, imagine.

[Drew]

It's like Xanax when you get into.

[Sophia Donner]

A really good, like, zone of being crossfaded. That's what I imagine. A quail.

[Drew]

Y' all know what quail?

[Violet]

I don't Want it to be like, Xanax.

[Drew]

It's. It's giving. I think it's giving like, a Xanax adjacent.

[Sophia Donner]

But.

[Drew]

But y' all know what they. Y' all know what they were made for, right? I'm not joking. It was like housewives in that era, like, they would just be anxious and bored all day. And, like, it wasn't. That's not what they were made for. But that's what they were prescribed. Yeah, it was like. And then it switched to Xanax once they got banned. But you can get them in Africa. I'm not even kidding. Like, you Quaaludes.

[Sophia Donner]

You know, that's actually why Shapiro wrote that one big song. No, because she went to Africa to get Quaaludes, and she loved it so much. She recorded the song that people.

[Violet]

The Lie Challenge. Like.

[Sophia Donner]

I love that. That seems, like, reasonable.

[Violet]

I mean, I would probably believe that.

[Drew]

I missed.

[Sophia Donner]

The celebrities were, like, kind of open about what they were up to. Do you know what I mean? Like, in terms of drugs, like. Like, I guess no. No one. No one's ever been open. Everybody. But journalists used to be so much more.

[Drew]

That's the difference. The closest thing.

[Violet]

Okay, so it's kind of fire, then. I've never had ghb is like. No, I'm not condoning it. Please, guys.

[Sophia Donner]

Yeah, I will say this is coming from three people who literally do not partake in literally anything, even though people genuinely on top of the oic now there's like.

[Drew]

Like, well, that's real coke.

[Sophia Donner]

Well, yeah, that's different. But now there's, like, a lot of coke allegations, which I literally need to make it clear I've done coke. I am just not that person, though. Like, I. I want to make it clear because people keep saying that to me, and I'm like, guys, I am not. Like, I'm seriously different in the sense that doing coke feels like if somebody. I was running. And then, you know the latest Mr. Beast video when he's shooting giraffe with vaccines from his helicopter, it feels like doing coke to me. Feels like if I'm running and then somebody shot me with a Vans and it worked immediate.

[Violet]

Shot you with.

[Sophia Donner]

And I'm like, fuck, I need to go.

[Drew]

Like, I'm normal. I'm baseline.

[Sophia Donner]

Like, I literally.

[Drew]

Like, the last time I did it, I literally wanted to crawl out of my skin. It was, like, literally so horrible. I was like, y' all do this.

[Violet]

Coke is just, like. It just, like, makes your, like, thoughts, like, rapid. Like, literally. And then you're like, okay, like, I need, like, nicotine. Literally.

[Sophia Donner]

Like, that's why it reminds me of, like, Adderall and Vyvans. What it does to people who. Who don't need it. Who take it. Like, because, like, I would never. If I wanted to have a good day, I would avoid, like, Adderall and Vyvanse with all my might, because all that's gonna do is, like, make me, like, want to lock into things that aren't fun. Like, it's.

[Violet]

Vyvans are scary as fuck. I will never forget. So it was because I went to two different high schools, but it was the first high school that I went to. It was my freshman year. I was, like, in a group with, like, all the. I'm not gonna say crackheads. Like, we. But, like, you know, we. Apparently they call this the tweakers. I didn't. I was just like. When somebody said that, I was like, bitch, we smoke weed. Like, what? Like.

[Drew]

Like, I'm just like.

[Violet]

I'm like, okay, so the tweakers. Okay, cool. But, like, my first high school was so cliquey. Like, it was just like. It was like high school movie. Like, literally, it was in the bay. Mm. And okay, so then we played Secret Santa, and I got like. Like, I don't even know what to call. Oh, we. I think I could say this. Yeah. We used to call him Pookie and, you know, like, the pookie pipe.

[Sophia Donner]

No.

[Violet]

Oh, yeah, the pookie pipe. So, like, he was pooky, cuz. He was like. Oh. And, like, I felt bad because, like, low key. They were bullying him. Like, you know what I mean? They'd be like.

[Drew]

They'd be like, climb the tree and.

[Violet]

Like, jump off, like.

[Sophia Donner]

You know what I mean?

[Violet]

And he would do it, and he would do it like, girl. Anyway. Anyway, that's. That's.

[Drew]

People eat the sandwich full of.

[Violet]

And so, of course, first Pookie, like, this is so, like, me, like, tea. Like, Pookie got me for Secret Santa. And so he gave me 100 milligrams of Vince because he had ADHD. So, like, he was prescribed that. So he gave me 100 milligrams.

[Sophia Donner]

That makes it more. That makes it more sense that you could tell him to do anything, because we also had a kid with really crazy ADHD who every day at lunch, you could give him a dollar to eat anything. Literally anything. And I mean anything. And then if it was, like, crazy, he'd ask for, like, nah, he's not. Like. He's not Disgust. He's not an animal.

[Drew]

Well, then it's not any.

[Sophia Donner]

He's a magician, not an animal.

[Violet]

But wait, so then. So then. Oh. So 100 milligrams of Ivans and movie tickets, Literally, that's what he gave me. And I'm like, okay. Like, thanks, I guess. Like, I don't know, like, whatever. And. And so I have these Vyvans, and I'm just like. I think we had, like, tests coming up or some shit. And I was like, okay, like, I'm gonna do my homework. I'm, like, notorious for never doing homework. And so, mind you, so it's like five separate pills. It's like, what, 20?

[Sophia Donner]

Me?

[Violet]

I can't do math.

[Sophia Donner]

20 each? Yeah, you did, right?

[Violet]

And he was like, yeah, you could just take all of them.

[Drew]

100 milligrams.

[Violet]

He's like, yeah. He's like, you could. He's like, I take, like, more than that or something like that. Like, he's like, I don't know.

[Drew]

Anyway, wait, that's full on, like, stimul addiction.

[Sophia Donner]

That's so scary. One time I accidentally took one of my 20s and I contemplated making myself throw up for, like, 10 minutes. Like, I was like, oh, no, I don't want it in me. Like.

[Violet]

Luckily I gave one away because my friend was just like. He's like, oh, I'm about to go to work. And, like, I have to work. Like, okay, so whatever. So, like.

[Sophia Donner]

So.

[Violet]

Yeah, so like an easy 80. I get home, I pop all of them. I thought I was gonna crawl out of my skin. Like, actually, like, it was so scary. And mind you, I didn't do any fucking homework. I spent, like, all this time, like, fucking drawing some shit, like, digitally. Like, and I. And I don't even have the drawing to show for it anymore. Like, I don't know what happened to Photo Bucket, but I. I don't know. My shit was like churro with, like, three O's or something. I can't log in. Like, I can't figure it out. And like, Yahoo also deletes your fucking email if you don't touch it for, like, six months.

[Sophia Donner]

Oh, I know. Yeah, I lost so many of my old accounts, like, from when I was a kid from losing my Yahoo account.

[Violet]

Yeah, I lost my. My first Facebook ever. And this is when I wanted to be a photographer, so.

[Sophia Donner]

Oh, that's sad, because I bet there's.

[Violet]

Like, so, so much good. Like, all of my, like, middle school years is just gone completely.

[Sophia Donner]

Do your parents. I mean, I feel that. Cuz since we had to, like, we. We were able to get, like, devices, but like, we were passing devices down. So, like, every time a new kid in the house needed a device or something and you had to pass it down, you had to wipe it or give it to someone in Honduras. So I have, like, once shit became digital, I'm like, bye. Like, I literally just don't exist. Unless it's from the really scary perspective of my parents Android cameras. And looking at those photos makes me feel like I'm in a liminal space. Like, it's so sad.

[Drew]

I just did that with Madeline the other day. We went through like, a bunch of like, family videos that she took on her first phone. And it was so scary, but it also made me sob. Like, I saw my mom. There's this video of my mom that is one of the cutest things I've ever seen.

[Sophia Donner]

Oh, I love that.

[Drew]

And I was like, oh, my God. It was just so candid. And she had no idea she was being recorded. And like, Meline like, played this, like, remix in the car. And my mom, like, started tearing up at the lyrics and was just like, the way she was looking at Meline was so cute. It was so cute. Maybe I added, that's sweet. Maybe it's just for me.

[Sophia Donner]

Do you think there's any world where you have like an SD somewhere?

[Violet]

And then also on top of that, like, I was so, like, I hated being in pictures. Like, anytime there was anything family, like, you will not find me in the picture. Or I'm like, you know, in the fucking corner, just like, being stupid. But I was gonna say I want to get. Is it a VR vcr? Vcr, yeah, the one with like, the tapes or whatever, because there's so many recordings from that, but.

[Sophia Donner]

Oh, really?

[Drew]

Yeah, that would be amazing.

[Violet]

We have like a bunch. There's this one specific one that I really.

[Drew]

Wait, do we have one that you could borrow?

[Sophia Donner]

I think maybe. But I also, for some reason, I have a bunch of tapes and stuff I don't think I've ever played owned a VCR player. Like, I always just like, bought tapes because I'm like, ah. Like, I grew up watching tapes. Oh my God.

[Violet]

And it's funny because my mom's like a notorious hoarder. And then the one thing that we don't have anymore.

[Drew]

Your mom's a hoard order. Like, like, to what level?

[Violet]

I don't know. In the sense that, like, I don't know. She just like, has so much. Like, basically she was telling me the other day because we have a basement, right? But there's hella in the basement. Like there's so much. I think we're also like holding stuff for family too. But she's like, yeah, I have all these like linens and like all this stuff for like when I finally moved to Brazil. I'm like, girl, you're gonna be 70. Like, what? Like, I'm like, why wouldn't you just use them now if they're like, nice, nice. I'm just like, you know, I'm just like.

[Sophia Donner]

I mean, my dude, I think it might just be FOB mentality too. Cuz my dad is like that. Like when we got evicted from our first place, he had a bunch of furniture that like was nice cuz he could afford it at the time. And instead of bringing it to the house we got evicted in also like, or the house we moved into, that house was much smaller and like, but he just felt like the furniture shouldn't be in there. Like that furniture needed to be saved for when he goes back to Honduras. Of like that furniture is to go there.

[Violet]

Like, so why we got the bad in the house and then all the good is hiding.

[Sophia Donner]

Like, girl, like there's like mad nice like mirrors. I remember in our old house and like all this and it just got thrown into the story.

[Drew]

Actually. No, I'll never forget the story actually. I don't know, like when y' all first got evicted and y' all destroyed the bathroom that your dad fixed out.

[Violet]

I mean, we got evicted too.

[Sophia Donner]

But yeah, what Drew's mentioning is I don't think I've talked about it on.

[Drew]

The podcast, but like, you don't have to also. I just. I thought we talked about it before.

[Sophia Donner]

No, it's okay. I think I've written about it in like a zine or something when I was younger. Like it's literally not that deep. Like people get evicted. That's like this country. Hashtag loves it. I love it, I love it, I love it. But when I was like 15, I. We knew we were gonna get evicted because was like obviously post recession bad. So it was always looming. And then when I was like 14, 15, I was standing on the front porch, sitting on the front porch, and this lady came up and literally just handed me papers and asked me why.

[Drew]

You're literally like 12 years old.

[Sophia Donner]

Yeah, I literally like I was 14 or so. Like, yeah, 13 or 14. She asked me how old I was and then asked if anybody else was home. And my mom was home, but my mom can't speak English. So then basically I had to translate to my mom that we were being evicted. And I was like. And then she just turned around. But that house was, like, my dad's pride and joy. He had, like, done it up. It was so fucking nice. And before we left, we got all of his weights. Like, he had these huge, like, metal weights, and we all grabbed them and all over the house. Wherever he put nice, like, marble tiling, we all went and, like, smashed all of the tiles. And then in his bathroom, he had the walls all done up, too. And we just, like, went in and, like, he literally broke everything. And then we.

[Drew]

So sick.

[Sophia Donner]

Yeah, we just, like, destroyed so much shit in the house.

[Drew]

It was like, all the stuff y' all did or he did.

[Sophia Donner]

Yeah, all of, like, any, like, nice things he did, we, like, destroyed it. Like, we were, like, breaking windows because he had just. He had gotten, like, nice windows that were expensive.

[Violet]

Them people, like, literally.

[Drew]

So, my friends text, let's do a quick little weekend getaway. Super chill, right? Famous last words. Suddenly someone's buying a bonfire outfit. The Airbnb costs more than my car. And apparently there's a boat now. Literally. When did this turn into Coachella? That's when I pull out my Klarna card. Swipe done. And if I want it off my plate now, I can pay in full or I can pay later. And there's no group chat math to figure it out. Oh, also, my budget's still breathing. No IOUs, no stress. Because the Klarna card isn't just a card. It's how you survive. Friends, super chill. Plans, dinners, outfits, random trips you didn't plan for covered. Plus no credit impact when you apply. So next time, the plan spiral. Stay in control. Learn more About [e-mail] Debit Flex Card Pay later plans issued by Webbank. Deposits in your balance account are held at Webbank member FDIC anywhere Visa is accepted. Certain merchant product good and service restrictions apply. Some merchants do not accept virtual cards. Physical card only included with a paid Klarna membership plan.

[Sophia Donner]

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[Violet]

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[Sophia Donner]

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[Violet]

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[Sophia Donner]

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[Drew]

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[Sophia Donner]

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[Violet]

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[Sophia Donner]

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[Violet]

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[Sophia Donner]

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[Violet]

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[Sophia Donner]

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[Violet]

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[Sophia Donner]

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[Drew]

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[Sophia Donner]

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[Violet]

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[Drew]

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[Sophia Donner]

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[Violet]

A half truth is a whole lie.

[Sophia Donner]

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[Drew]

Used to convict six people and that.

[Sophia Donner]

Got the citizen investigator on national tv.

[Violet]

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[Sophia Donner]

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[Drew]

I did not know her and I.

[Violet]

Did not kill her or rape or.

[Drew]

Burn or any of that other stuff that y' all said.

[Sophia Donner]

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[Drew]

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[Sophia Donner]

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[Drew]

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[Violet]

Story of the buildup and birth of the US housing market back in 2008.

[Drew]

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[Violet]

People who saw the real estate market for the black hole it would become.

[Drew]

And eventually made billions of dollars from that perception. It was like feeding the monster, said Eisman. We fed the monster until it blew up.

[Violet]

The monster was exploding.

[Drew]

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[Violet]

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[Drew]

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[Violet]

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[Drew]

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[Violet]

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[Sophia Donner]

Yeah, but, yeah, a eviction.

[Violet]

Eviction. I know for us it was because of the recession or whatever, and also because my family had immigrated and they were living in, like, the bottom section of our house. But when they immigrated, well, my aunt and my uncle were like, already there. And then their kids came, but then the oldest brother got caught up with immigration and they were like, well, we're not gonna live here without our son, you know, so then they move back and they're doing great, so it's fine. But yeah, and then also because of that, like, and the recession, my parents just couldn't afford it, so we had to move out or we got evicted.

[Sophia Donner]

But yeah, yeah, dude, it is insane. Like, I mean, we're about to, like, watch another recession fully, like, hit the US and it's already happening. So it's so insane to think about because it is so crazy how quickly shit crumbled. Like, right after that, I was like, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

[Violet]

I'm like, it's all literally too late. Much like, I'm just like. And then it's like, it's not even just that. It's like a million other things happening at the same time. And I'm like.

[Sophia Donner]

Well, the prayer that you've sent out, like, it's already. I already feel the miracles of it working in not only my soul, but the soul of, like, everybody in our proximity. And then when we put this into the.

[Violet]

The data, it's going to go into the ether. And I'm like, technology and nature can be mixed together.

[Drew]

Yeah, in a beautiful way.

[Violet]

In a beautiful Way.

[Drew]

In a very beautiful way. Speaking of.

[Violet]

I was just gonna say no. I always, like, like, because, you know, I grew up doing, like, psychedelics and, like, being all, like, spiritual. I literally have a 17 tattooed on my. I don't know why we're pink and promising. It's fine.

[Drew]

It's a promise.

[Violet]

It's a promise to be beautiful and gorgeous in nature. Just, like, hashtag. Hashtag nature. But, no, I used to always just be like, oh, like, I wish we would have, like, grew up in a society where we, like, got, like, nature and technology intertwined rather than, like, I don't know. Using fossil fuels is, like, the best.

[Drew]

Example that I can think of.

[Violet]

Yeah. I'm like, if y' all wouldn't have killed Nikola Tesla.

[Drew]

I love how, like. Like, we consume the same shit.

[Sophia Donner]

Like, we.

[Drew]

We, like.

[Sophia Donner]

Y' all are on, like, conspiracy.

[Drew]

What's your favorite conspiracy?

[Violet]

I mean, I love the Illuminati shows.

[Drew]

Yeah.

[Violet]

So much.

[Drew]

Oh, my God. The story I told you.

[Sophia Donner]

You.

[Violet]

Yeah.

[Drew]

Is it. Am I ready to talk about that on here?

[Sophia Donner]

You should, like, hold out.

[Violet]

Yeah, but you should bring it up at some point, because that is really good. But basically it has to do with the.

[Drew]

Yeah, no, I'll give. I'll just give a little clarity, and then once the dust settles, I'll be able to talk about it a little bit. But. But basically, I got told stories from someone that is a very, very powerful person that literally made me, like, actually believe, because I was always like, the Illuminati is, like, literally not real. Like, y' all are psychopaths, but, like, it's not the Illuminati in the way that we are told or the way you're, like, imagining there is just some sinister shit you're talking about, like, the.

[Violet]

Evil in the world, and you're saying they. Like, that's basically what you're saying. Like, I feel like I say Illuminati, but, like, the Illuminati is, like, the government also. Like, you know what I mean? It's like they're in control of everything. Like, you know, like, they're controlling me. Like, you know.

[Drew]

You know what else? They're controlling the traffic.

[Violet]

The. The traffic, y'.

[Drew]

All.

[Violet]

There are fucking traffic agents that are up in there. I don't know. They're not real. They might be Reptilians. Like, I don't know what the fuck it is, but traffic is not fucking real. I'm sure y' all have seen tiktoks of people talking about it. Traffic is not real. I've not.

[Sophia Donner]

And they're everywhere.

[Violet]

They're everywh.

[Sophia Donner]

And we hit traffic and violent for the back seats was like. She goes, I'm so annoying of the fucking traffic agents.

[Drew]

Like blocking. And we were like, what? What are you saying?

[Violet]

Like, what do you mean what am I saying? I'm saying exactly what I just.

[Drew]

After you said it, I believe it. I'm like, there's.

[Violet]

And they're everywhere. They're in my Overwatch games making me lose too bitch.

[Drew]

Like they are coming for me.

[Violet]

They could tap into Kai at any fucking moment.

[Sophia Donner]

I mean they lowkey do very.

[Violet]

Look, he's on his fucking phone.

[Sophia Donner]

Always.

[Drew]

Yeah, I was like, famously, I was looking at porn. You got me.

[Violet]

Honestly. What, what did I say the other day? I was like, I'll just send porn to the group chats. You'll get a response.

[Drew]

Well, we were talking about group chat and that Lucas always sends like poop dick to the group chat and it always gets a rise. Like also another thing that we need to talk about completely derailing that conversation.

[Violet]

Wait, please. What is it?

[Drew]

Fuck Mary, kill. Okay, Violet has the gray greatest marry kill of all time. And we've already answered it, but we'll go through it again.

[Violet]

I should be the first person to respond to it. And then. But you have to give us why.

[Drew]

And it be very serious.

[Violet]

Yes. Like, and everyone in the comments should.

[Drew]

Talk about it too.

[Violet]

Yeah, yeah, like actually, because I love this question so much, I don't know who told me the question because obviously I learned it from somebody else. But I'm gonna take credit because I'm putting everybody on.

[Drew]

Because you're a genius.

[Violet]

What?

[Drew]

Because you're a genius.

[Violet]

Yes.

[Drew]

Bitch.

[Violet]

My brain is so fucking big. Like huge. Anyway, so fuck, marry, kill, magic, silliness and peace and like whatever that means to you. Like you don't like whatever the description is for you, then that's what it is.

[Drew]

I would marry silliness. I would fuck peace and I would kill magic.

[Violet]

And why did you choose those things? Share with the class.

[Drew]

Well, magic to me is a little bit scary and it can be used for severe evil. Like we've seen what Voldemort did. That was pretty bad. You said Voldemort? Yeah, he wasn't real. That wasn't a documentary. Girl. No. Harry Potter was not a documentary. That wasn't a seven part documentary, was it? I don't know.

[Sophia Donner]

It was a reality show.

[Drew]

I thought that was real. And then silliness to me is completely benevolent. Like silliness. I Guess can be malicious in some ways, but. But it feels pretty hard to make that a bad thing. And I think that I just really value funniness. I value people being funny. And to me, I think that that, that's. That's exemplary of a higher consciousness is people that can be funny. And I want to marry something. Something that is funny.

[Violet]

That's beautiful.

[Drew]

And then what was the last one? Peace. Peace.

[Sophia Donner]

You were gonna fuck peace?

[Drew]

I was gonna. I was gonna bounce on peace or I was gonna fuck.

[Sophia Donner]

And why that?

[Drew]

Because it's good. But silliness involves some conflict. But it's not bad conflict. And I think that humans do crave conflict and that conflict is inevitable. And to have, like a true conflict for good. Yeah. If you have a truly intimate relationship that's long lasting, you need. There needs to be conflict in the world.

[Violet]

You can't have love without hate.

[Drew]

Exactly, Exactly.

[Violet]

We live in duality, not singularity.

[Drew]

Yeah. Did I get the answer right?

[Sophia Donner]

It's subjective, bitch.

[Violet]

But, like, it says a lot about you. And actually, I think you're one of the first people to say it in that.

[Sophia Donner]

Yeah, I haven't heard anyone.

[Drew]

What was yours?

[Sophia Donner]

Mine was I'm gonna fuck magic, marry peace, kill silliness. And mine was because I think silliness to me is, like, humor. And I don't think everyone's meant to be funny. And I think I'm blessed enough that, like, I can find humor in so many things. I don't need silliness to be like.

[Violet]

You'Re not gonna have none, but to me, silly.

[Sophia Donner]

Like, okay, Actually, me and Josh. Josh would be perfect for this because me and Josh came to a conclusion that we both define. Like, there's being funny and then there's being silly. And to me, those are completely different things. Like, to me, that's like, yeah, like.

[Drew]

Like, that's okay. Well, if that's silliness, then maybe I.

[Sophia Donner]

How you, like, see it, but, like, that's just how I perceived it when I got asked it. And then peace. I would marry peace. Because in my head I'm like, I don't know peace. Like, I kind of know it in myself, but, like, in my surroundings, like, rarely. I just. I want to know peace. I want peace at my side. And I'm fudgeing magic because I got the magic in me. Like, why I love magic. I literally think magic could, like, show me something mystic and, like, mythical. Because when I think of magic, I think of, like, to me, like, meeting y' all is magic. Like, that is magical.

[Drew]

To me, like, my thought on magic is literally like, this universe is magic. Like the. The empty space between Adams, but this wall and Mike are solid. Like, that is magical to me. Like.

[Sophia Donner]

Yeah, right, because. Did y' all had the same answer?

[Violet]

Yeah, I think we had this.

[Drew]

We had the exact same. What was yours?

[Violet]

So it was marry magic. Because. Yeah, magic to me is like everything that's like God, like the universe. Like, yeah, like the things that we can't explain. And like, who would you want to say? Like my. Like, because, like, that's just bomb as fuck. Like, I want to marry that, you know? And then fuck silliness. Because I'm like, girl, I'm trying to.

[Drew]

Laugh while I have sex. Yeah.

[Violet]

Like, it's gonna be hella fun. Like, it's gonna be one for the book.

[Drew]

Exactly.

[Violet]

And then kill peace. Because I'm like, nothing's fucking peaceful. Like, you know what I mean? Like, everything is so chaotic. I mean, on my drive here, I got pulled. Like, that's so fudgeing annoying.

[Drew]

And a parking ticket.

[Violet]

Yeah.

[Sophia Donner]

Yeah.

[Violet]

And then because I'm crazy, bitch. I wish that him and his whole family died after.

[Drew]

Well, yeah, of course.

[Sophia Donner]

Well, because you will.

[Drew]

That conversation was so funny because I literally fully agree. Like, if someone like, like, okay, yesterday when we were driving home from the gym and that dude, like, oh, that pissed me off so bad. He got over and then like, I was getting over at the same time.

[Sophia Donner]

He was basically riding your ass. And then you were moving out of his way, but was like you didn't even realize he was riding your ass. But y' all had the same thought to move. But Drew, you hit your blinker.

[Drew]

Yeah, I had my blinker on. He didn't have his blinker on. And then he sped up and tried to go around me instead of letting me in. And like, he was in my blind spot. So I, like, started merging into him. And he was in the wrong. And he knew he was in the wrong.

[Violet]

The karma that would get if he killed three pretty in a car. Like, oh, it's over for you and whoever the comes after you, so be careful.

[Sophia Donner]

Oh, my God. Also, I'm just like some of y', all. I. I feel like in that moment, what should happen instead of tickets is we should all get out and it's 3v1 now it's 3v1.

[Drew]

It's literally.

[Sophia Donner]

And it's hands on. Like, you won't get a ticket. I won't snitch on you and like, call the police. Cuz I have a photographic Memory. And I could very easily remembered your license plate, wrote it down or took a picture. But no, we should just fight.

[Violet]

You're getting. Yeah, you're getting. Yeah.

[Sophia Donner]

So basically, and if we implement that, we would be helping environmentally because more often than not, everyone would be scared and be like, oh, I should carpool just in case I accidentally cut someone off. I don't want to, like, have to fight alone slash get jumped.

[Drew]

But they don't want you to do that because they want traffic. Yeah, well.

[Sophia Donner]

Yeah, well, then the agents have to.

[Violet]

Get the age because I have like, really bad road rage. Like, I mean, not like, okay, I don't like chase anybody or like, try and cause accidents, but like, I feel like I chase.

[Sophia Donner]

At the idea of you chain smoking and like, chasing.

[Violet]

I literally, I feel like I scream so loud that they hear me in the car. Like, you know what I mean? But anyway, I was gonna say that, like, I used to always think I'm like, bitch, I wish you could send messages to other cars. Like, cars should be a phone so I could call you and be like, hey, yo, bitch.

[Drew]

Like, it's like, I'm like, I'm about.

[Violet]

To revoke your fucking license.

[Drew]

Call of duty law.

[Violet]

You better fucking stop driving like a dumbass before I come over there into that car and I don't fucking know, blow up your fucking car because, bitch, like, you're pissing me the fuck off up your and all.

[Sophia Donner]

You're getting in the car and then blowing it up.

[Violet]

I'm invincible. I don't know, like, pretty people don't die. Like, what?

[Sophia Donner]

Anyway, so that is actually really true.

[Violet]

All I'm going to say is, don't piss me off because I will wish that you get hit by a car. And I'm very powerful in that sense. So, like, it's probably going to happen. Just be careful.

[Drew]

Just be careful.

[Sophia Donner]

I'm the same kind of crazy where like, when people.

[Drew]

That's not crazy. That's.

[Sophia Donner]

People cross me in a way that really infuriates me. I'm like, I'm like, you just wrong.

[Violet]

You just yourself coming. I'm like my lineage. You don't know about that. You don't know about that. I'm like, my ancestors don't play about me.

[Sophia Donner]

No, literally, oh my God. I kind of want to dabble into, like, Etsy spells.

[Drew]

What did I say the other day? Well, I have four Etsy spells, basically.

[Sophia Donner]

I know I say that, but.

[Drew]

House of Hoodoo candles. I literally like, bought these. These at what I thought was my lowest Point. And then I was like, actually, like, I don't need the burning. Yeah, it can only get worse from here. And then yesterday or two days ago, I was like, oh, wait, I think I'm finally ready. I think I'm at my lowest point. And so I think I'm gonna start burning these candles. But it's like, it's a very, like, vicious regimen. It's like 3am every night. You have to be awake for an hour and you have to call upon. Like, I'd have to be like, hey, Sam. Or like, can you give me my creativity back? And it's like, girl, like, what? But I don't trust this brand anymore. If you heard me say the name, I'm not going to say it again. Don't go to them. Because the woman that started it was ousted by her husband.

[Sophia Donner]

By the Pharaoh.

[Drew]

By the Pharaoh was literally ousted. And, like, he took over the business and it shut down for a bit and then he reopened it under the same name, but she without it, and it was horrible. So, like, it's not like she got.

[Sophia Donner]

Pushed out of her own business.

[Drew]

So it's like bad juju, bad vibes.

[Sophia Donner]

I feel like that's a kind of classic tale within the spiritual realm when it starts to partake with capitalism. And I'm not even saying that to be like, annoying.

[Drew]

Violet, you lived in New York for how long?

[Violet]

Three years.

[Drew]

What was that experience like for you?

[Violet]

It was, you know, I'm like, like, we were just saying, like, duality. Like, it was beautiful, but it was also fucking awful at the same time, you know, I mean, granted, like, obviously I met you guys and like, when we went to Japan, like, Japan was just such a vibe, like, anyway. But yeah, it was fab until it wasn't fab. And like, yeah, I feel like that's just life sometimes. Like, whatever, you know?

[Drew]

Yeah.

[Sophia Donner]

I mean, you. You being able to live there for three years alone is crazy because I genuinely don't. I never moved there because I just. As much as I liked it, I was like, whoa.

[Violet]

It's a lot. It's really a lot. Like, I don't know, I don't think, like, people. I mean, a lot of people thrive, you know, But I'm like, at the same time time, like, if you're somebody who's like, a bit more slow, not like, not mentally, but like, you know what I mean? Like, like introverted. Yeah, I'm just like, girl. I'm a Cali girl for life, honestly.

[Sophia Donner]

Yeah.

[Violet]

You know, like, I do have, like, that edge to me, but I'm just kind of like. Like, I just want to be in a car smoking all day. Like, I don't really care. Or in bed. I don't know. Yeah, that's what you're saying.

[Drew]

I missed your car.

[Sophia Donner]

I, like.

[Violet]

Oh, yeah, I did miss my car.

[Sophia Donner]

Well, I can't imagine you going from like, driving that often to just. Just, like. No.

[Violet]

Yeah. I mean, it's just like. I mean, I feel like in California in general, but, like, in the bay, I'm like, I need to drive. Like. Yeah, there's no way. Like, where am I gonna. Like, well, I'm gonna get on the bus for two hours. Like, what?

[Drew]

Like, add four hours.

[Violet]

I feel like New York is, like, the only place where it's, like, taking public transportation, like, makes the most sense.

[Sophia Donner]

Yeah, it's one of the most efficient.

[Violet]

I would actually never want to have a car in New York. It's fucking awful.

[Drew]

Like, it's literally a bumper car. Yeah.

[Violet]

And, like, when I moved there, like, I remember I got in Ubers, and I was, like, getting sick, like, all the time because I'm like, girl, like, I'm getting nauseous.

[Sophia Donner]

I know.

[Violet]

And then I got used to it, obviously.

[Sophia Donner]

But, yeah, I. I mean, I never lived there, so I, like, never got used to it anytime I've been in an Uber there. No matter, like, the car also just, like, seriously, I want to go back to New York only for the case scenario that I land, and for some reason, there is an illegal phantom firework works in, like, Bushwick. In Bushwick, and it's right next to the Revel charging station where all those Teslas are charging at night, and I would put all the fireworks in them and blow that up. That's the only reason I would go back to New York is literally. I think it should be illegal for Teslas to be, like, Ubers and taxis. And because that car is made.

[Drew]

Austin make you throw. They're making them waymos. And I had a friend get in one, and it went 30 minutes in the wrong direction. And he knew it, and he was calling support and was trying so hard to get help. And the support agent literally couldn't do anything about it. And he was like, oh, I'm sorry this is happening to you. There's, like, literally nothing I can do right now. So it just, like, recalculated.

[Violet]

I would literally lose it. I'm like, I'm gonna open the doors or get in the driver's seat and start driving this damn car.

[Sophia Donner]

I'm gonna Start chewing on the seat.

[Violet]

And y' all are getting sued.

[Sophia Donner]

Claim score, small claims core, small claims court. Like, is he gonna do anything about that? Because he should. I've been very of, like, by the grace of God. I haven't had any experiences that would push me to go to small claims court. I've been close.

[Violet]

I was gonna say I was like, listen, if y' all are able to sue, like, not obviously, like, not like, oh, my God, and you, like, touched me last night. I'm gonna sue her.

[Sophia Donner]

Like, you know what I mean?

[Violet]

But, like, you know, like, I was, like, medically neglected, and, like, I really wish that. I don't know, I was, like, more well equipped or somebody, like, pushed me to, like, actually go sue them. But by the time I went to sue them, like, it was past the statute of limitation.

[Drew]

Wait, I don't know this.

[Violet]

Yeah. Like, basically, I used to have, like, the. The nexiplanon bar in my arm. And, like, I don't know. I think I was, like, having an allergic reaction to the glue that they used to, like, close up the thing.

[Drew]

Yeah, okay.

[Violet]

Yeah. Basically resulted in me having, like, a staph infection for a year. Like, I swear I'm not dirty. I am a clean person, you guys. It's just, like, they just neglected me. And then by the time it was, like, too late, it was too late. Like, and then they were like, yeah, well, go figure it out yourself and go to a dermatologist. Like, and the dermatologist was, like, the first person to be real with me and being like, oh, baby. Like, she. She literally said, oh, baby, you have a bacterial infection. And she was like. And she's like, I think there's something in there. Yeah. And now I have, like, a nasty scar from it. And I actually need to go to a dermatologist because, like, I keep on getting, like, random, like, itchy bumps on it. And I'm like, I'm so scared. I have, like, trauma. I have trauma from.

[Sophia Donner]

I mean, that makes sense, dude. It's also just so common to, like, be at the doctors. It's like we were talking about yesterday because I. We didn't grow up going to the doctors often, and especially as often as I maybe should have. So even as an adult, I. So easily, like, I can't tell when something's right or wrong because I'm like. I. Quite literally, I'm like, well, to me, going to the doctors feels like if I, for some reason, had to go to a police station, I'm like, I guess I'm just going in here, like, I hope. Hope this works out. So then when things go wrong, I'm just like, okay, like, oh, my gosh. Wait, should we do media? Do you want to share any songs or movies or anything that's, like, that means a lot to you right now?

[Violet]

I feel like, literally, with music, I'm like, anytime anybody asks me anything, I'm like, cece, Natalie. Like, I love her so much. I'm sure some of y' all know who she is. She is just like this young girl making her own. And it's incredibly fun.

[Sophia Donner]

Yeah, it is good. I was listening to it because of you.

[Violet]

And movies.

[Sophia Donner]

Well, yes.

[Violet]

I literally don't watch anything. Oh, my God. The Overwatch cinematics are really good.

[Sophia Donner]

Or those, like, the cut scenes.

[Violet]

Yeah, they. I mean, they don't, like, do it anymore. I think they might bring it back because.

[Drew]

Is it kind of like the Fortnite, like.

[Violet]

Yeah, it's like, you know, when they have, like, a new season, you'll see whatever. But I don't think it was, like, specifically that. Like, they just, like, made a bunch.

[Drew]

What's your favorite movie? Movie?

[Violet]

My favorite. I have a whole list other than.

[Drew]

Climax because, yeah, you and I both. That's one of our favorite movies.

[Violet]

Sorry. Let me look at my. Let me look at my list.

[Drew]

I'll read my media while you find yours. Mine is Underworld, Dark and Long. Let's go away for a while. The Beach Boys, Moby Memory, Goth Gospel, Coco, Rosie, Noah's Ark. And then. Oh, my God, this song. Neil Young, old man. Hey, man, look. Look at my life. I look a lot like, oh, my God, that song makes you cry. Makes me sob. And it's because my. When my dad would, like, be mean to me, my mom would just say, start singing that song. And he will completely switch up. And I would sing that song around him, and he would completely switch up for, like, a week. And it worked. It worked. I'm gonna go see Begonia this week, and I'm gonna go see Worst Person in the World. Director, new movie.

[Sophia Donner]

Like, oh, Sentimental Value. I want to see that so bad.

[Violet]

I like the worst person in the World. I mean, I went to the movie theaters and, like, try to watch it, but then I was like, do you want.

[Sophia Donner]

Yes, yes, I need to go see that.

[Violet]

But then I rewatched it on a plane one day, and it was really.

[Sophia Donner]

Oh, my God, that movie. Like, that is, like, in my top four on letterbox because I'm just. It's just. It's literally so distressful but it's one of those movies that, to me, it. Like, the. The way you described you felt after your walk to yesterday, like, your day. Yesterday is how I would package that movie.

[Drew]

Yeah, that's. That's. Someone. The other day was like, oh, it's like a comedy, right? And I was like, no, we're about to go be, like, absolutely destroyed by this movie. Like, what are you talking about? It's like.

[Violet]

I mean, it does have comedic moments. Yeah, it.

[Sophia Donner]

There's definitely humor to it. But, like, I. I've seen it, like, a few times. I remember one time I was seeing someone, and I told. I was like, yeah, this is my favorite movie. And this was, like, the second time in a row I, like, sat down with her to watch a movie, and we watched that together, and I was like, why the. Like, yeah, this is why I literally get no play. Because, like, that's my vibe. I'm like, yeah, come over.

[Drew]

Let's watch Worst Person on Fire and Worst Person in the World.

[Sophia Donner]

Like, oh, no. Worst Person in the World is so good. But it is so just like.

[Violet]

And I hate having to read subtitles. But, no, my favorite movie or one of my favorite movies is Push. Have you guys watched Push? So good. It's like, Dakota Fanning's in it, and who's the guy that played Captain America?

[Drew]

Oh, Chris Evans.

[Violet]

Yeah. Chris Evans. Yeah. Such a good.

[Drew]

We were talking about. Wait, that's.

[Sophia Donner]

I haven't heard of that.

[Drew]

Can you do that? So I don't enter the Void, which is the Void.

[Violet]

Oh, my God. Pasta. Loreta, if you're watching this, I love you. She. She follows me on Instagram, so.

[Drew]

Wow.

[Violet]

Which was like, a. Not, like, a dream come true. Like, but, you know, like, I feel like everyone's always, like, they want, like, Beyonce to follow them or something. Girl, I have, like, the most, like, randomness, like, whatever. But anyway, if you guys can look into her story. Love her so much, and she's a great actress.

[Sophia Donner]

But, yeah, that's how I felt when Rosalia followed me back. But, like, that was so long ago. I don't think she knows she follows me. Do you know what I mean?

[Drew]

Like, that was like, she follows you.

[Sophia Donner]

Yes, but it's from, like, 2018. It was from when I used to make it, like, all my playlist videos, and I was, like, right there and, like, got my foot in the door of, like, now all these, like, huge artists. So, like, some of them I thankfully became friends with. But she's.

[Violet]

Girl, what the fuck?

[Drew]

She follows me, too. Yeah, I did not know that.

[Violet]

Jump scare bitch. Media.

[Drew]

That's the media. I like that picture.

[Violet]

Oh, I had sex with any. I was just like, can you please make me a coffee queen? And then she said, yeah, yes. And I sent a picture looking crazy like, why do I have geographic?

[Drew]

And we're putting it in the episode. No, please do text it to me.

[Sophia Donner]

I want to use that as a sticker. Oh, can somebody edit that? You know the like, emoji that's like the blown out face that's like pushing through the screen. Can somebody do like, drumoji, but with Violet's picture and that so I can have it?

[Drew]

Drew Moji coming soon, y'.

[Sophia Donner]

All. Shut the up.

[Drew]

Fool's dropping soon, y'. All.

[Sophia Donner]

What? Well, thank you guys for freaking listening.

[Violet]

And thank you for everyone.

[Drew]

A key in a very major way. This was amazing.

[Violet]

I know. That was really fun. Cigarette time.

[Sophia Donner]

Bye.

[Drew]

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[Sophia Donner]

The show was ahead of its time to represent a black family in ways that television hadn't shown before. Exactly. Exactly. It's Thelma Hopkins, also known as Aunt Rachel. And I'm Kelly Williams or Laura Winslow. On our podcast welcome to the Family with Telma and Kelly. We're rewatching every episode of Family Matters. We'll share behind the scenes stories about making the show. Yeah, we'll even bring in some special guests to spill some tea. Listen to welcome to the Family with.

[Drew]

Telma and Kelly on the iHeartRadio app.

[Violet]

Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

[Drew]

Hey, I'm Kyle McLaughlin. You might know me as that guy from Twin Peaks, Sex and the City, or just the Internet stand. I have a new podcast called what Are We Even Doing? Where I embark on a noble quest to understand the brilliant chaos of youth culture. Each week I invite someone fascinating to join me to talk about navigating this high speed roller coaster we call reality. Join me and my delightful guests every Thursday and let's get weird together in a good way. Listen to what are We Even doing on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. A man with down syndrome tries the.

[Sophia Donner]

Impossible, the grand slam in turkey hunting. 4:53 hits. We're legal, shooting light.

[Drew]

And he gives us this one last Ow.

[Sophia Donner]

And he pitches off. And when he pitches off, he flies.

[Violet]

Right into the gun barrel.

[Sophia Donner]

I said to the cameraman, do you have him? He said, shoot him. I said, justin, shoot.

[Drew]

You can download this episode and others from lines of and tines with Spencer.

[Sophia Donner]

Graves on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts.

[Drew]

Or wherever you get your podcasts.

[Violet]

Hey, I'm Nora Jones and I love.

[Sophia Donner]

Playing music with people so much that.

[Violet]

My podcast called Playing along is Back.

[Drew]

I sit down with musicians from all.

[Violet]

Musical styles to play songs together in an intimate setting.

[Drew]

Over the past two seasons, I've had.

[Violet]

Special guests like Dave Grohl, Levey, Rufus Wainwright, Mavis Staples. Really too many to name, and there's.

[Drew]

Still so much more to come in this new season.

[Violet]

Listen to Norah Jones is playing along on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

[Drew]

This is an iHeart podcast.