Podcast Summary: Everything is Fine - Episode "Give me a Procedural!"
Release Date: February 17, 2025
Hosts: Jennifer Romolini and Kim France
Chic and Change: Jen's New Haircut and Personal Style
The episode kicks off with Jen Romolini sharing her recent impulsive decision to chop off 8 to 10 inches of her hair, opting for a blunt bob. At [01:47], Jen describes the transformation:
"It's making me like my clothes better. It's making me excited about clothes and trying new things. I feel lighter."
Kim France praises Jen's bold move, highlighting how short hair can refresh one's wardrobe and overall style. They discuss the societal expectation for women to maintain long hair and how short hairstyles can feel liberating, especially as one ages.
Skincare and Self-Care: Tackling Aging Signs
The conversation shifts to skincare, particularly focusing on neck care and combating signs of aging. Jen opens up about noticing changes in her neck's skin texture:
"The crepiness has started to go away. Just in a couple of days, really." ([04:00])
Jen shares her experience using a light salon LED red light therapy device, which has shown promising results in improving skin texture. She emphasizes that while sagging is inevitable, improving skin texture through serums and light therapy can make a significant difference.
Kim concurs, stressing the importance of accepting and acclimating to one's evolving appearance:
"The more you look at that face and acclimate yourself to that face, the better." ([04:56])
Vacation Tales: Kim's Riviera Maya Experience
Kim France recounts her recent vacation to Riviera Maya (Cancun), detailing both the highs and lows. Starting at [07:22], she describes the serene mornings with cappuccinos and sunrises:
"It was really nice to sit and watch the sunrise. It made me realize why people take beachy winter vacations."
However, the trip was marred by disappointing dining experiences. Kim criticizes the overcomplicated and unappetizing meals served during dinner, contrasting them with enjoyable breakfasts and lunches. Despite the food woes, Kim appreciates the overall environment and the beautiful accommodations, concluding that the experience has rekindled her desire to take meaningful vacations annually.
Aging and Invisibility: Representation in Media
The hosts delve into the theme of aging and the societal invisibility that often accompanies it. Kim reflects on an experience at a funeral where introductions to others highlighted aging:
"Nobody said that they're not gonna say that you're 60. It's different, but...it was just weird." ([05:59])
They discuss how media representations, like the upcoming new Matlock with Kathy Bates, use the concept of invisibility to empower older women, contrasting it with shows like "Grace and Frankie," where older women use their perceived invisibility for humorous escapades.
Movie Spotlight: "Baby Girl" and Demi Moore's Performance
Jen passionately reviews the film "Baby Girl," praising Demi Moore's nuanced and brave performance. At [13:51], Jen shares her admiration:
"It's a really interesting and nuanced part. It's handled so well. It's shot beautifully."
She highlights the film's exploration of an older woman’s relationship with a younger man, emphasizing the emotional connection and authenticity depicted. Jen advocates for greater recognition of such performances, expressing surprise that Moore hasn't received more accolades for her role.
Kim acknowledges Jen's praise, adding her thoughts on award nominations, though she hasn't seen the movie yet.
TV Show Discussions: Procedurals and Current TV Trends
The hosts transition to discussing current television trends, focusing on procedural dramas. Jen shares her experience with "The Pit," noting both strengths and initial hesitations:
"The casting of the show is incredible. Something I've really noticed... Noah Wiley, hotter than ever." ([18:35])
They compare it to long-running shows like "Grey's Anatomy," praising "The Pit" for its fresh casting and engaging format. Additionally, they touch upon other shows such as "Paradise," "Severance," "Lost," "Yellowjackets," and the return of "The White Lotus," discussing their complexities, plot structures, and personal preferences.
Jen expresses a nostalgic appreciation for traditional procedural formats and the comforting predictability they offer amidst more convoluted narratives in contemporary TV.
Fitness Journey: Overcoming Gym Anxiety
Jen and Kim open up about their fitness routines, addressing the common anxiety associated with going to the gym. Jen recounts her initial shyness and gradual progress:
"I was shy and I just did the elliptical in a corner... Now I'm just committed." ([23:24])
Kim shares her plans to either join a gym or invest in a treadmill, inspired by Jen's perseverance. They discuss strategies to make gym-going less intimidating, such as choosing a low-key gym environment and setting achievable fitness goals. The conversation underscores the importance of physical activity for mental well-being and self-esteem.
Personal Grooming: Facial Hair and Neck Care
The topic shifts to personal grooming challenges, specifically dealing with facial hair and neck care as one ages. Jen describes her struggle with a thick, thin mustache and transparent-looking hair on her jawline:
"I'm just like, what am I going to do?...I could wax it but then it comes back in a second." ([39:30])
Kim shares her solution using the Gillette Venus Mini facial hair remover:
"It definitely gets rid of it." ([39:43])
They exchange tips on managing fine, aging facial hair, emphasizing the balance between maintaining natural protection and achieving a desired aesthetic.
Listener Questions: Skincare Tips and Tech Etiquette
Skincare Inquiries:
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Why Are Our Necks So Damn Itchy?
- Jen suggests it's due to the lack of oil glands in the neck's skin, leading to dryness.
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Primer and Setting Spray: Are They Necessary?
- Jen criticizes primers for drying out her skin and disrupting makeup, favoring setting sprays for a dewy finish.
"I don't like primers. I don't think they do what I want them to do." ([45:25])
Tech Etiquette Queries:
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Speed of Response on Texts:
- Kim prefers quick responses and feels personally slighted by delays.
- Jen admits to struggling with timely replies due to distractions and being overwhelmed by technology.
"I just have to... I don't have my phone... I'm just too scattered." ([49:27])
They discuss the challenges of maintaining friendships in the digital age, balancing prompt communication with personal bandwidth.
Closing Thoughts: Intentional Living and Embracing Change
As the episode nears its end, Jen and Kim reflect on the importance of intentionality in life. They emphasize creating a life filled with activities and relationships that bring joy, rather than succumbing to obligations and complacency.
Jen shares her renewed excitement for personal projects and style:
"I'm now... excited about my wardrobe again and about trying new things." ([55:04])
Kim echoes the sentiment, highlighting her vacation as a catalyst for embracing change and seeking out fulfilling experiences.
They conclude by encouraging listeners to remain curious and proactive in shaping their lives, despite the challenges that come with aging and life transitions.
Notable Quotes:
- Jen Romolini at [04:00]: "The crepiness has started to go away. Just in a couple of days, really."
- Kim France at [05:59]: "Nobody said that they're not gonna say that you're 60. It's different, but...it was just weird."
- Jen Romolini at [13:51]: "It's handled so well. It's shot beautifully."
- Jen Romolini at [18:35]: "Noah Wiley, hotter than ever."
- Jen Romolini at [39:43]: "I could wax it but then it comes back in a second."
- Jen Romolini at [45:25]: "I don't like primers. I don't think they do what I want them to do."
- Jen Romolini at [55:04]: "I'm now... excited about my wardrobe again and about trying new things."
Conclusion
In this episode of "Everything is Fine," Jen Romolini and Kim France navigate the complexities of aging with humor, authenticity, and insightful discussions. From personal style transformations and skincare routines to the challenges of modern communication and media representation, the hosts offer relatable experiences and practical advice for women over 40. Their candid conversations encourage listeners to embrace change, prioritize self-care, and seek joy in everyday moments.