← EXPANDED Podcast by To Be Magnetic™
EXPANDED Podcast by To Be Magnetic™
Ep. 378 - How to Manifest Love, Career Growth, and Abundance: TBM Expander Stories
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What if it all works out? What if what you desire is closer than you think? In this powerful episode, you’ll hear inspiring stories from TBM members—real people in our community who’ve used the work to manifest everything from aligned partners and dream careers to a deeper sense of grounding and abundance. This episode is a reminder that the life you desire is possible. The magic of the universe, and the magic within you, belongs to you. These stories come from people doing the work just like you, who’ve tapped into their magnetism in profound ways. We hope you feel inspired, empowered, and excited by what’s possible. This is what we call expansion. And as a cherry on top, we’re celebrating the ultimate manifestation: How to Manifest, the new TBM book. This long-awaited tool can be accessed by anyone, and we can’t wait to hear what it unlocks for you. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast
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Expansion is such a huge part of this process. Actually hearing and taking in these stories is making a difference in your life and in your expansion. I just want you guys to really take in how these people have transformed their life and how this is possible for you. What if it all works out? What if you finally commit to yourself? You finally commit to showing up, to nurturing yourself, to attuning to your dreams and desires. You finally step through those fears. You're finally accountable to all the things you want in life, and then you align with it. In today's podcast episode you are going to hear from TBM members who have been doing this work and manifesting this exact experience. People just like you, who have been in challenging situations, who have been in times of transformation, times of change, times of unknown, and have showed up for themselves, put this work into place and created such a beautiful aligned life on the other side. I love these episodes because just hearing the energy of these people's stories is starting to expand you in this moment. Even if you don't relate to their circumstance or the place that they're in, something about each of these stories is cracking open more and more possibility of what is true and possible for you as well. I'm so excited to dive in. This is gonna be a really potent one and I just wanna throw out for anyone out there who wants to connect with us this season to take this work deeper. We just launched the how to Manifest book this past week. It is officially available in storefronts and book markets everywhere. You can listen to the audiobook Ralesi and I Narrate which was so huge, such an honor. And this weekend, Saturday, October 25th, we are kicking off our how to Manifest Speaking tour where we're going to be connecting with you in person and really getting some clarity on what is our purpose in this next season of life. What clues has the universe been giving to us? How are things being stripped from our life and what does it all mean? How can we put the patterns together? To see a bit of a guide, post a road roadmap towards our highest version of self. Then we're going to have the how to Manifest Book Club that's kicking off on November 5th. We're going to go through all the sections in the How To Manifest Formula. You can follow along with the book or the how to Manifest Workshop if you're a pathway member and really start to craft our list from that place of alignment, from that place of purpose, from that place of real, true magic and mission led. And then come December, we are kicking off our end of year challenge where we are going to integrate all parts of self. We are going to reclaim our magic, we are going to rewire our neural pathways to really feel safe with ourselves and to come home to self in such a big way. So come with us on this journey. Whether you're coming to the speaking tour, you're joining our book club, or or you're coming to join the end of your challenge, we can't wait to guide you through this season. There is so much potency in this moment and I'm so excited to share it with you guys. Okay, let's get into some of these amazing expander stories. And now a word from our partners. You know that feeling when your entire body just exhales? That is exactly, exactly what I feel every time I use the Bon Charge Infrared PEMF mat. It feels like plugging yourself back into nature's power source. And major bonus points, when I lay on this mat and do a deep imagining. PEMF stands for pulsed electromagnetic field therapy. It's designed to match the same gentle frequency of the earth and one that helps your body relax, recover and restore. It has grounding magnetic frequency, soothing heat, and skin energizing light all in one luxurious wellness mat. It emits soothing far infrared heat that melts the tension in your muscles. Red and near infrared light to boost circulation, help your skin glow and speed up recovery. And it is layered with grounding crystals like amethyst, tourmaline and selenite to help your body completely recalibrate. I've been using my PEM mat first thing in the morning when I roll out of bed. I'm still feeling a little chilly. I'll put on the heat. I'll put on the eight frequency hertz that is Sherman's resonance, the same frequency as the earth. And I'll put a di on behind my head and just rest, feel into my body, reconnect, wake everything back up in a really gentle, nourishing way. Even 10 minutes on the mat, I can feel a huge shift. If you've been craving a way to unwind, recharge and actually feel something working, the Bon Charge infrared PEM mat is way to go for your favorite at home luxury ritual. And you can get 15% off with code magnetic all caps M A G N e T I IC at checkout. Again, that's magnetic M A G N e T I C All caps for 15% off any bond charge purchase. You can check the link in, show notes or go to bond charge dot com. And now Onto the episode.
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B
Hey there, TBM family. My name's Belle. My TBM bestie and accountability buddy just pinged me and said, okay, it's your time to shine because it's been on my manifestation list to be on the TBN podcast. So here we go. So I've been a single mom for about 10 years now. I went through a surprise divorce after I found out my husband was cheating. And from that point on, I then purchased a big property, starting business here in Adelaide, Australia, and have been running that for about 10 years. When I decided I wanted to sell the business, that was last year. But I didn't know anyone who'd ever sold a business, didn't know any women who'd sold their business, certainly didn't know any single parents who sold their business. But I knew that that was part of my authentic code. I wanted to be more present with my kids and it was on my list, but I didn't know how to go about it. So I started doing the Abundant Life and also definitely the worst case scenario Di's. I managed to call in and expand it. This woman who sold her business, we actually met through doing the spiritual investor course. That was a game changer for me. It just showed me that if she can do it, I can do it. I had a pretty lofty amount that I wanted to a sale price that I wanted to sell my business for. And I'd been through the process with a broker and lawyers and accountants and it was crazy how as soon as I became laser focused on the TBM work, it all started to flow. And incredibly, I'm so happy to let you know that my business settled and sold at end of financial year in June. And on my list was to take my kids overseas and for us to have this amazing European summer. So in July of this year, we headed off and we went to Greece and England. We ate snails in France, not that successfully. And we went to Spain in Majorca and just had the best time making these amazing memories, which is a huge part of what I'm about. My authentic code is to create memories with my family and we achieved that. So I just feel so grateful to tbm. My biggest takeaways would be finding that expander was just key to making the manifestation come to fruition. And also having accountability buddies, especially through the challenge, is a big one. So we just look through each other and we're constantly chatting each week with what's coming up for us, what DI's are working at the time and what manifestations have come through can't wait for the end of your challenge. Bring it on.
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Oh, my gosh, I love this one. And this also really speaks to some of the energetics going on right now. So on the speaking tour, at the speaking tour, as you guys will hear, if you're coming to New York or Austin or la, and we'll even talk about this a little bit in the book club. But this energy of purpose, so much stripping has happened this year where we're really being called to look at what actually matters, what moves the needle, what speaks to us, what is important for us to lean into in this season of life and not letting our ego take the show. And ego doesn't necessarily mean boastful. Right? So many times you can think of ego as wanting to be seen, external validation. Sometimes it's holding on to the shoulds. The ego could be the people pleaser, the part of us that wants to be liked by others by doing what we think we should do in society. So for this person to say, I really am starting a fresh chapter post this divorce and I want to release this business, this no longer is it in the energy of. Of where I'm at right now. And I want to be with my family to take those steps, to go and run towards that. Even though you may have had the business for a really long time and that is what you've known, you've outgrown that shell. And so listening to those really small whispers of how can you make that dream possible to create those family memories with your kids, I think this is massive. And just any notes for anyone who's like, wow, like, I am getting pings about this stuff. Where do I start? Or how do I connect with those expand expanders. My first inkling is getting clarity on what you're wanting from a soul's alignment perspective and then writing out your list of what you want in the expander. We'll talk about this more in the how to manifest book club. But having clarity on I need expansion in these areas. Almost a rendering to the universe. Universe. Show me examples of the path there. It can expedite the process. Congratulations.
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Hello, my sweet darling TBM community. I'm so excited to come on here and talk to you guys because I have a major manifestation that's finally come through after six years of doing tbm. I am a recovering control freak. I came from a very restrictive household and a controlling parental upbringing. It feels like it's part of my genetic makeup. I've had to do a lot of unwinding in order to get where I am today. And TBM has not only been like the tool of all tools to live my life and follow my dreams, but it's also just been such a great lesson in seeing emotions objectively and see learning that life is for me. Six years ago I was coming out of a just really gnarly breakup which was, surprise, surprise, super controlling. I didn't know who I was. I had to jump off the cliff and break up with him. Even though it was everything I could have possibly wanted. You know, travel the world, professional athlete. You live this movie star, rock star life with the contingency of just not having your dreams. And I had to choose between my dreams or this relationship. And it was really hard because everything on the surface looked perfect and I had to jump off the cliff and believe in myself. Which was hard because I was young and I was scared and I didn't have much passion and I was unsure about my own self worth and I did it. I believed in myself and TBMs taught me to come back to myself. And it's been such a beautiful lesson. So from going from a controlling relationship dynamic and not having my career sorted, I've filmed two comedy shows since then. I have now after six years, manifested my absolute dream partner. Down to where he's from, down to the shape of his eyes, down to the shape of his smile, down to how he makes me feel, down to everything. It blows my mind. Thank God for TBM because it's given me this outstanding relationship with my intuition and my trust for myself and my self worth is off the charts. It's insane. I am now living in Portugal in my dream house that I bought for myself on the ocean. And all through tbm, like even, even before I closed on my house here I was, I had a test of a house come through in the States and like it just wasn't aligned and I had to regulate and do DI's and I got clarity on it and then boom, this one came through and it's because of tbm. So thank you.
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I love this because I was just listening back to the how to Manifest audiobook and we have so many examples in of people who repeat their parents relationship dynamics or relationships that they had to their parents in their adult relationships. And oftentimes we don't even realize those patterns are repeating because the partner can be so different. But once you spot it, you can't unsee it. And then you kind of have to ask yourself because I know many people have also asked this as well. But if I Realize that I am repeating this cycle and this pattern with my partner. Does that mean we need to break up? And in some cases, the answer is yes. In some cases, that means that this is not the person for you. There was maybe some settling there, even some trauma bonding, maybe even just a familiarity to that dynamic you had in childhood. And in some cases, if both people are aware and conscious of the pattern that you're playing out, you can work together to heal it, to correct it. But it sounds like in this person's case, they were like, this is repeating this cycle and in that space, and this is also how you know that it's definitely a test relationship and you want to exit. She couldn't be her fully authentic self. She couldn't step into her dream career in this relationship. Now, whether that was the other person took up so much space and was so big in their thing and that they didn't have time and space to really attune to her needs. But whatever it was, she knew for herself that that was not correct. And so it's really something scary to go on the journey of saying, wow, I'm getting so many needs met in this relationship of getting to travel and all of these things, but I'm missing these major things. And I think one question to ask yourself if you feel like you're in that push pull or that tug of war between self is what you are giving up. And this doesn't even have to be about a relationship. This could be about a career, this could be about a friendship. This could be about any sort of dynamic in your life. But in order to keep that thing that you want in your life, what parts of yourself are you giving up? And can you live never connecting back to those selves? Would you be devastated to learn that you never actually honored those parts of yourself? And truly, in any really supportive, loving relationship, you shouldn't have to give up parts of self. You should be safely excavating them back, awakening them back, right? So I just want to plant that seed for anyone out there to start to notice the places and spaces where they. They don't feel safe to not wear the mask, or they don't feel safe to let their fullest expression out. And how can you start to either set boundaries, have conversations, or maybe even exit those relationships. I am so excited for this member and I feel like I know who this person is. And I'm just. It's so beautiful to see someone step into their power and step into their voice and be able to reconnect with their self. Worth that was truly beneath the surface the entire time. So excited for you.
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Hi Jessica. Hi Lacy and all the TBM team. I'm Sophie. I'm a painter based in Paris and during the summer of 2024 I was feeling a lot of blocks around my work money. I was fearful and I didn't know how to trust the unknown. I started manifesting my biggest dream at the time, but also the scariest one which was exhibiting in London and feel more connected to the city. I was at a point in my career where I needed to carry my work more and not be afraid of being seen. But I needed to unblock a lot of shame around being seen and healing my inner child who was scared to be misunderstood. I think it was in November 2024 that I received an email from a gallery in London who wanted me to be part of a Group show in January 2025. So I went to London in January for the opening and I met amazing people and artists and I really started to understand how inspired and aligned I fel in London and how it was my responsibility to keep the promise to come back more for my inner child, myself and also my teenage self who have always been in love with this place. My paintings got sold, by the way, and I also met a major test in relationship that was for me, the universe telling me that my partner is not in France. So yeah, big time. Also during the summer of this year, during the Money Challenge, I manifested more than 10k to get me out of debt and start saving money to be able to go to London more. Which is something I'm currently doing because for 2026, I'm taking a big leap of faith and I ended my lease in my flat in Paris to really give myself the chance to live in London. With the TBM work, I really managed to rebuild my relationship with myself and the universe. I feel so much more grounded and peaceful. I get pings regularly and beautiful moments of synchronicity. I feel in constant dialogue with source and this is priceless. So thank you so much for everything that you do. I'm more than grateful to have found this work and I am so excited about the future.
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This just makes me so happy. Okay, so many things came through. So one misunderstood. That is an underrated block. Feeling safe to be misunderstood. So many times feeling misunderstood can feel like rejection, isolation, not getting the things we want. But if you are someone who has to put yourself out there, whether you are an artist or a public speaker or an author, or you are the face of a company, whatever it is you put yourself in the court of public opinion and there is the fear of being misunderstood, of people not understanding your genius, your craft. And so one of the beauties of this work is getting to go in and sit with the part of you that feels really unsafe. This is actually one of the blocks that I've been working on recently with being misunderstood, that it is okay if I am not understood. I will be understood by the people who are meant to be understood by me and I can let it go. Everything else and really working through those fears in a big way. The worst case scenario, DI is great for that one. The competency DI is great for that one. And our end of year challenge is going to be amazing for that to go through all of these different phases. The other thing I'll say here is it did not surprise me that she said that she was getting so many pings, she so many synchronicities and she just felt this dance and flow with the universe. When you are dancing, we say this a lot. We say this in the book. When you're dancing with the universe, that is what it will feel like. It's like these little breadcrumbs that are kind of guiding you and that light you up and bring you joy. Her breadcrumbs are pointing her to London. Not only was the opportunity there, she had a romantic relationship test there. And then just feeling like she wanted to honor her inner child, her inner teenager by going and doing that. When you can step through the fear and follow through with those pings, even if they're big life changes, just accepting I don't actually have to live where I live forever. What I've always dreamed of doing was doing this. And sometimes we can put it as a pipe dream and we say, yeah, one day, one day. Today's the day, like we're ready to take the action now. Time is speeding up. There is more momentum than ever. And I really truly feel like the universe is nudging us even further towards what's aligned for us. I would not be surprised if this person manifests their dream romantic partner in this city. I would not be surprised if they manifest incredible opportunities in career and continue. Because she's following through the fear, she's stepping through the fear and actually making those changes. 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Hi TBMers, I am so excited to share about the things that have come through this money challenge. It came at the perfect time. I'm just so excited to see the foundation that has been laid through this challenge continue to grow. So I want to talk to you about the drastic before and after. For three years I was somewhat self employed, mostly unemployed, making a little bit of side income really trying to manifest a job for two of those years. I had no idea how I was going to pay my rent each month. It was a constant struggle. I was not making enough money each month to meet my needs. I was operating at about a $200 deficit every month because I had a ton of high interest credit card debt. I live in an expensive area, and so even with income, I still was not making enough. And I really hit a rock bottom moment and in March. And I had been avoiding doing the rock bottom workshop for a while because I manifested an amazing partner through this work. And we live together. Our relationship is so great. But it was really getting strained by my messed up relationship to my finances. I was just afraid that if I did the rock bottom workshop that I would realize that, oh, this relationship isn't for me because I'm not manifesting money as well, because we talk about the love money connection. But when I started that workshop, I went back and, and I read what Lacy actually said about the love money connection. And something really stuck out to me that I hadn't noticed before. But she said that sometimes when you manifest and you uplevel so quickly in one area, the universe will rock bottom you in the other because it needs you to uplevel just as quickly. And I went from being single for 10 years and having horrible relationship patterns to really healing that and manifesting an incredible partner that I love so deeply. And I was like, whoa, okay, the universe isn't telling me I'm not manifesting money because I'm in the wrong relationship. It's saying you up leveled so quickly in this relationship. Please, for the love of God, up level your fucking money. So I started the rock bottom workshop. I really took it seriously. I also, at the beginning of this year, started doing a weekly money date, which is something that I had avoided for a really long time because I felt so much shame. I felt so overwhelmed. It was just easier to not look at my money. And doing that weekly money date is really what made me realize that I'm totally in a financial rock bottom. In April, I actually was able to negotiate a small raise for part of my work that at least enabled me to have a little bit extra each month after my bare necessity expenses were paid. So that was huge. It enabled me to have a little bit of wiggle room. And then I started to get excited about, okay, how can I manage my money better? And then the money challenge came in the summer. And I took this so seriously. I had my accountability buddy. I was determined to make it through the whole challenge and to do the best that I could at being consistent with it. It's been amazing. One of the practices that I've kept with me through the Money Challenge is that I now do the safe with money di before my money date each week, which that has just been such a game changer in feeling grounded, confident and calm and empowered when I look at my money and start to make decisions from it. So that's been huge.
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But I am super excited to say that in the past month I was given a salary for my role that has become full time where that was not the case before. And with the salary, I ended up taking home an extra thousand dollars a month. That's enabling me to pay off my debt quicker, which is something that I'm trying to manifest. It's enabled me to start saving an emergency fund and still have fun with my money. And that came a month after the Money Challenge ended. And I'm so excited to see what continues to manifest from this challenge. But I just wanted to say thank you and to anyone out there in a dire situation, you can do it. My life has changed in a year and in the past six months.
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Ah, I love this so much, especially because there is so much shame and fear wrapped up both in the love and the money connection. So what she's talking about, if you guys haven't heard us talk about this before, is the connection between love and money. Both of them root down to our sense of safety and security in the world. So where we are projecting out looping patterns in one area, we're often looping them in the other. Now, some people might say, well, I have a great relationship, but my money situation is not good, it's in a bad state, or vice versa. My can't find the partner. I'm not manifesting in that area. I'm attracting all the people I don't want to be around, but my money's great. So there is usually a tie between the two, meaning you can have one, but you can't have the other. A limiting belief. There's a. So it's really important to look at and we dive into all of this inside of our Money Challenge, which is still available, by the way, in case anyone's interested, that one's becoming a permanent workshop in the pathway because so many people requested it. So in this case, and I'm so proud of you for actually going in and facing this, just because you have one area that's not good, it doesn't mean that there's something necessarily wrong. In the other, yes, there is the nuance that if you up level super fast in one, it may be asking you to up level. It could also mean that you might have a great relationship, but there might be ways that you're hiding or avoiding or not expressing in one that you could step into even further. And you're using your relationship almost as your expander to try to step into that energetic. So with money, it sounds like this person was avoiding, they were living beyond their means. They were kind of putting their head in the sand. They weren't looking at everything. The perfect aligned action to take if you were someone like that is to set a money date, to actually show up, to look at the numbers and to be accountable to what is going on. That is how you start to take your power back bit by bit. Continuing to avoid it will be continuing to build up a problem. So you have to actually bring it into awareness and say, okay, I'm going to uncover this ghost. I'm going to uncover this challenge and see what is here on the other side. Just that act alone is telling your subconscious that you are worth looking at this and that you will survive even if you are not at a good place with money right now because you know that you can get there on the other side. I love that this person went all in on themselves. And if you are someone who is feeling stuck in one of these two areas, really understanding what patterns, fears, stories are you bringing to the table here, Just even understanding what dynamics and limiting beliefs are playing out and starting to regulate your relationship to them is going to change everything. Doing the safe with money Di it's a short, sweet, regulating nervous system regulating deep imagining before any financial moment is huge. That is literally what we designed it for. So before looking at your finances, when those big purchases come in, if you have a bill that came out of nowhere, if something happened in your career, anything that makes you feel destabilized with money or income, that is what that DI was crafted for. So you can first regulate. Be like, whoa, oh, okay, hold on. I'm okay. Now let's approach the situation from a more logical place instead of all the emotional stories that are tied up in it. The other thing I want to point out in this story is because you had set up the foundation, doing your money check in weekly, being able to understand what you wanted to do with the money, what your even financial goals were, to have that emergency fund that opened up this space in your subconscious of what to do with it when the money comes through. So many times people are manifesting more money, but they actually don't know where that money is going to go. They just know they need more of it. And every time that I have sat down and said, okay, if more comes through, where is it going? What is it doing? How is it helping my life? Do I actually need this amount? What amount would help me in this? It's almost like it cracks open your subconscious. I did this as well. During the Money Challenge road. I was manifesting a certain amount out and I said to myself, okay, if that comes in monthly, that breaks down to this. And if that happened, then where would I put this to achieve my bigger goals, My bigger investing goals, my bigger savings goals, my bigger, you know, future family planning goals. And I knew exactly where that money would go. And at the end of the money Challenge, I wound up manifesting that exact amount. So having the awareness of what you're going to do with it can really expand you in a message. Congratulations.
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My relationship with money has always been tied to loss and rebuilding. My mom was the person who taught me about money. She was smart, grounded, and intentional. Losing her at 15 left me with this deep belief that safety came from control and responsibility. I carried that energy for years, striving, surviving, and holding it all together for everyone around me. Before my dad passed away, I was in a season of overflow. Leading teams, earning abundantly and feeling so confident and open. Then in what felt like an instant, I lost my dad, I lost my job, and I inherited my parents property. I went from abundance to survival, Managing grief, finances, and family dynamics that overwhelmingly reshaped my sense of worth. When I joined the TBM Money Challenge, something in me knew was time to do things differently. As a cancer sun, Leo moon and Virgo rising, and as a 5:1 projector with emotional authority, I've always felt things deeply and needed space to process before acting. This challenge gave me that space. It helped me slow down, face avoidance and rebuild trust with myself. I realized money wasn't about getting more. It was about feeling safe enough to expand. The work reminded me that clarity is currency, that visibility doesn't equal threat, and that my freedom actually feeds my family more than my sacrifice ever could. The Money Challenge helped me remember that I don't have to chase abundance. I attract it when I'm aligned. I'm now building a life that feels like art, anchored in rhythm, reverence, and release. That's what abundance means to me.
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A
I mean, this is an art piece. That was incredible. Thank you so much for sharing that. I really want to call out a Few things in there. First off, my heart goes out to you going through that dynamic. And you can see, you know, we talk so much about how our money patterns start in childhood. So many of our limiting beliefs start in childhood right from 0 to 14. Our brain isn't even fully developed until 26. But those early formative years have such a strong impact on those stories. Stories and any major trauma point in our life will also implant limiting beliefs, fears and all those stories again, oftentimes somewhat rooting back down to childhood themes and patterns as well. So it makes total sense that learning that there had to be this control with money and then you have this horrific situation where you're in abundance and then suddenly the rug feels ripped out under you, you feel out of control and out goes the money. And I think it's so beautiful how you were able to pick yourself back up and start relating to money and abundance from a place of truth and authenticity. I would be curious when you felt like you were your most abundant or when you felt abundant in that career prior to your dad passing. How much stress and burden and hustle. Because this is how you think you have to make money. That control piece again was at play versus true abundance, true ease, having your needs met, but also not on this hamster wheel of over giving. Sometimes when we have horrific things happen like a death or a passing or a loss of any kind, it rattles us. It. It shakes us to our core where it allows us to examine everything in our life from a new lens, a new perspective and really analyze if that was the most aligned, authentic way and route for doing so. And it sounds like that tragedy also allowed you the space to redefine what abundance actually looks like. To claim it for yourself instead of taking your parents narrative from it. So such an amazing story and congratulations for this connection. And just know when you are healing these patterns in your family, you are healing all the generations prior and all of the generations ahead. This relationship is no joke and honestly a very spiritual one. So I'm so proud of you for diving in and showing up for yourself in such a beautiful way. You've heard us talk about our pathway membership, but what actually is it? It is an all access membership where you can get every single workshop that we've ever created. All of our deep imaginings, which are our reprogramming audio to help you manifest. You can access it on the desktop or in the TBM app on your phone directly. We of course have our foundational workshop such as our how to Manifest workshop which takes you Step by step through this neural manifestation process to actually unblock, expand and take align action to connect with your manifestations. Our how to be Magnetic workshop, our inner child and shadow workshops. And then of course we have a workshop. If you are in a rut, if you're in a rock bottom, if you're an up level, perhaps you need to set boundaries. Maybe you want to focus specifically on the block of money or love. It is all in there. And then twice a year as a community, we gather for our challenges. Our challenges are one of the most effective parts of the process because you get accountability. It is really a handheld experience in how to work through whatever the theme of that year's challenge is. And now to my absolute favorite part of our membership, which I think in and of itself would be worth the entire weight of the membership if we just had this alone. Our Deep Imagining library. This library encompasses over over 60 neural reprogramming audio tracks. They're self hypnosis tracks that will really support you in any step of this journey. If you're needing calming nervous system regulation, unblocking with a specific test or trigger, going through a difficult time processing a big emotion, or maybe you just want reinforcing how to reinforce those neural pathways of confidence, abundance, self worth, deservingness and connection with your dream life. And not only that, if you go to the app, we just launched Deep Imagining playlists where we're grouping different themes of DI's together. So no matter what you're going through, you have something for you. And we're constantly dropping new playlists as well as brand new Deep Imaginings. And if you need more support in your process, you can go to our brand new video series, Channelings with Lacy, where she touches on the exact energetics that are going on right now in manifestation and how it may apply to your your life. So obviously I am a huge fan of this membership. The peace of mind I get from being able to have all the tools I need at my disposal. No matter where I'm at with my life, if shit's hitting the fan, if I'm feeling dysregulated, if I'm needing to come back to my center, if I'm needing to brainstorm or daydream or connect with what my vision for my future is, every single tool is in there to support me. And don't just take my word for it. We have thousands of testimonials of people who have had incredible success stories with these tools. So take the guesswork out of your manifestation process and get real tools that are going to give you real results. For podcast listeners only, you can use code expanded all caps E x P A N D e D for 20% off your first month of the pathway. Join now and have your best year yet.
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Hi, Lacey and Jessica, this is Austin. I actually didn't feel like I had anything to share. And then yesterday I restarted the Authenticity Challenge and I was going on a walk and I was listening to the authentic self di. I realized for kind of the first time ever, I have been living exactly what I wanted to do in this world, which is to be a. A writer, a creator, an actress since I was really like 5 years old. It was quite the realization. And the reason I didn't feel like I had anything to share with you guys is I've been doing this work for almost a year and I didn't feel like I had anything significant to share as far as, like what I've manifested. And it hit me yesterday that I manifested myself. I manifested a connection with who I authentically am and who I was supposed to be in this world. Now that I've gotten through all of the blocks and all of the programming and the shame and the pain that was given to me by people who didn't understand me and no hard feelings to them, I understand that I am a person that is not for everybody and everybody is not for me. And that is totally okay. And for the first time in my life, I'm like, like fine with that. And I'm not going to try to like chase after them and make them like me. I'm like, no, that's cool. I'm not for everybody because I know I'm a weirdo and I'm an artist and I'm very expressive and very emotional. So I manifested a relationship with myself. I finally trust myself to receive good things, to be who I am and not have to apologize for it. And my husband is a huge part of that because. Because he's really accepted me from like day one. He was my best friend before we ever started dating. And he loves how weird I am. He thinks it's amazing. And I can finally trust that too. I can finally trust myself in my marriage and in my career to be exactly who I am and exactly who I'm supposed to be. And I've been using the Pathway as kind of therapy alongside an actual therapist for, like I said, almost a year. And it has by far been the most life changing year of my entire life. I don't feel like I have to people please anymore. I feel a sense of freedom and a sense of trust in myself that I've honestly never experienced before. So I cannot thank you guys enough. Thank you so much.
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Oh, this is what it's all about, guys. Truly, truly, truly. This is what it's all about. I think so many times in manifestation it gets a bad rap because people think it's about achieving panic, fancy things and putting things on a pedestal. And even the concept of self worth around manifestation, unless you really see it for energetically what it is, it might feel this sense of lack, like oh, I have to change my self worth so I can match this thing. But actually what we're truly saying is you have to remove the scaffolding that you've built up around your self worth that you actually already have have, so you can remember that you can have whatever you authentically dream. And I think one of the blessings of this work is the fact that in this journey to reconnecting with self, reconnecting to your authenticity from making choices from that place, being able to reclaim all parts of you, even if you aren't accepted by everyone or loved by everyone, that that actually doesn't really matter, that you can have your most purpose filled, joyous filled life if you trust in you and your unique expression, your unique authenticity. I think that is probably the best of the best manifestations out there, is reclaiming yourself. It's so interesting because listening back to all of the submissions, a I just want you guys to really take in how these people have transformed their life and how this is possible for you. Hearing these people who have been in places that I'm sure we've all been in before, questioning ourselves at low, low points, feeling self conscious, not in a good relationship with money, feeling in lack, feeling lost and they were able to go in to show up for themselves, use the tools to transform it and connect, connect on the other side. Expansion is such a huge part of this process. But actually hearing and taking in these stories is making a difference in your life and in your expansion. No matter what level you're at in manifestation, no matter how long you've been doing the work, taking in these stories are literally helping to rewire what you can see as possible for you. The other thing I love about this person's submission is that so many times we second guess, well, I didn't manifest that big shiny material thing. The biggest manifestation of all is that truer connection to you. So actually you manifested the thing that everyone truly is hoping for is that deeper, truer, authentic relationship with self, that true confidence, that true Magnetism, them. For anyone out there who feels like they haven't manifested something, or they're afraid to think that they did enough, or oh, is my story is, you know, glossy and all these other people. Every story is impactful, Every manifestation is impactful. Everyone is an expander. If you are showing up for yourself, if you are on this journey of growth, I just don't want anyone to discount how much growth that you've actually done, regardless of whatever physical manifestations. Because this internal aspect is actually what everything's all about. We only want the external things to motivate us to move towards them. But really what we're doing is connecting with the true self. And from that place of alignment, from that place of really believing in ourselves, literally anything is possible. It doesn't matter the physical thing you can trust it'll come, but it is really deepening that connection from self. And that is where everything begins to shift. I just want to leave you guys with this. It's a big season of change. We felt it in the past few years. I'm sure you felt it on an internal level, on a personal level, your relationships, career, all of the things. And I just want you to know that what you want is closer than you might imagine, it may be more easeful than you might imagine. And that the universe, us, tbm, the community, we are rooting for you. We know that you just have to see your own light. That's really what this is. It's being able to, to see your own unique light, your own unique essence. And so I just hope in this journey with the work, whether you're reading the how to Manifest book, whether you're in our pathway membership, whether you're just getting little, little tiny breadcrumbs from the podcast, that you just have this, the way I'm like feeling it right now is like this just warm, loving heart space of hope that it is so possible for you, no matter how heavy the burden has felt in the past, that you can transform literally at any time. And this end of year, we're holding your hand through it all. So come with us on the how to Manifest book tour speaking tour. If you can meet us in person in New York and Austin and la, if you're unable to come, we're going to do the how to Manifest in book club. It's a virtual three part series. We're going to go through all the steps of how to manifest what so many of the members today have talked about, putting those things into process. Then in December, the first week of December, we're kicking off our end of year challenge. This is where the magic, the reclamation, the attunement, I don't want to give too much away, but the attunement, back to self. This is where it all comes together. And we're going to do a 15 day challenge with the community to really integrate all of these parts of self, to reclaim all of our magic, all of our joy, and really come back to us. So join us any way you can, any way that calls to you, and just know that you could be our next transformation story, helping to expand so many others. All right, we'll see you guys next week.
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Sam.