EXPANDED Podcast by To Be Magnetic™

Ep. 378 – How to Manifest Love, Career Growth, and Abundance: TBM Expander Stories
Date: October 24, 2025
Host: Jessica Gill (with contributions from community members and commentary)

Overview

In this special episode of the Expanded Podcast, host Jessica Gill shares inspiring “expander” stories from TBM community members who have transformed their lives using TBM’s neural manifestation methodology. From manifesting aligned relationships and dream careers, to achieving financial breakthroughs and authentic self-acceptance, this episode is a deep dive into how real people use TBM’s subconscious reprogramming techniques to create more love, abundance, and fulfillment. Blending heartfelt member testimonials and rich commentary, the episode highlights the tangible impact of expansion, community support, and self-worth in the manifestation process.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. The Power of Expansion and Community

• Jessica Gill sets the tone by emphasizing the transformative power of hearing real stories:
  "Even if you don't relate to their circumstance...something about each of these stories is cracking open more and more possibility of what is true and possible for you as well." (00:00)
• The importance of regular TBM practices, accountability buddies, and shared challenges as catalysts for deep expansion.

2. Expander Stories: Manifesting Dream Outcomes

A. Selling a Business & Family Abundance

Story from Belle, Australia (05:54–08:43)

• Belle overcame adversity stemming from a surprise divorce and single parenthood. She wanted to sell her business but didn’t have any personal expanders or role models.
• She used the Abundant Life and Worst Case Scenario DIs and found expansion through meeting another woman who had sold her business:
  "It just showed me that if she can do it, I can do it.” (06:36)
• Manifested the sale of her business at her ideal asking price and took her children on a dream European summer trip—fulfilling her “authentic code.”
• Highlight: The importance of finding expanders and accountability:
  "My biggest takeaways would be finding that expander was just key to making the manifestation come to fruition. And also having accountability buddies..." (08:36)

Jessica’s Response (08:43):

• Clarifies that the stripping away of what no longer serves is a sign to focus on authentic purpose over ego and societal “shoulds.”
• Suggests clarity of desire and asking the universe for expanders can accelerate manifestation.

B. Healing Relationship Patterns & Manifesting Love

Six-Year TBM Member’s Story (10:52–13:47)

• Grew up with controlling parents and repeated that dynamic in adult relationships.
• Left an outwardly “perfect” but restrictive partnership to honor her true dreams, despite fear and self-doubt:
  "[I] had to choose between my dreams or this relationship...I did it. I believed in myself and TBMs taught me to come back to myself." (11:40)
• Has since produced two comedy shows, bought her dream house on the Portuguese coast, and manifested her ideal partner “down to every detail.”
• Self-worth and intuition are now “off the charts.”

Jessica’s Response (13:47):

• Validates the common cycle of repeating parental dynamics and notes the importance of not sacrificing authentic dreams for relationships, careers, or friendships.
• Encourages listeners to evaluate whether they must give up parts of themselves to keep something, and whether that is truly aligned.

C. Artistic Expansion & Courage to Be Seen

Sophie, Painter in Paris (16:56–19:00)

• Faced fears and limiting beliefs around being “seen” and feeling misunderstood as an artist.
• Used TBM work to unblock shame and heal her inner child, resulting in an offer to exhibit in London, art sales, and the readiness to relocate to her dream city.
• Manifested financial abundance during the TBM Money Challenge:
  "I manifested more than 10k to get me out of debt and start saving money to be able to go to London more." (18:13)
• Now feels, “so much more grounded and peaceful,” in dialogue with source, and excited about the future.

Jessica’s Response (19:00):

• Discusses the underrated block of “fear of being misunderstood,” especially for creatives.
• When you follow pings from the universe, synchronistic breadcrumbs and rapid forward momentum result.
• “I would not be surprised if this person manifests their dream romantic partner in this city." (20:05)

D. Money, Love, and Shame: Breaking Financial Barriers

Community Member’s Money Challenge Story (24:31–28:37)

• Battled with chronic financial instability and shame for years, which strained an otherwise loving partnership.
• Realized that up-leveling quickly in love can prompt a “rock bottom” in money, pressing for growth on both fronts:
  "The universe isn't telling me I'm not manifesting money because I'm in the wrong relationship. It's saying you up leveled so quickly in this relationship. Please, for the love of God, up level your fucking money." (26:14)
• Faced financial reality using TBM’s rock bottom workshop and instituted “weekly money dates."
• Manifested a salaried role and a $1,000/month raise, allowing debt repayment, savings, and fun money.

Jessica’s Response (28:37):

• Emphasizes the subconscious connection between love and money; both root in safety and worthiness.
• Facing avoided areas (eg, regular “money dates”) signals to the subconscious that you’re capable and deserving.

E. Redefining Safety, Abundance, and Legacy

Money & Family Healing Story (33:20–35:01)

• Ties money beliefs to childhood loss (mother's passing) and resulting hyper-responsibility.
• After further loss, realized that true abundance is found through self-trust, alignment, and not over-controlling.
• “The work reminded me that clarity is currency, that visibility doesn't equal threat, and that my freedom actually feeds my family more than my sacrifice ever could.” (34:01)
• Now builds a life focused on rhythm, reverence, and release.

Jessica’s Response (35:01):

• Details how ingrained money patterns form in childhood trauma, and how spiritual and generational healing happens when we transform these patterns.

F. The Ultimate Manifestation: Self-Acceptance

Austin’s Story of Authenticity (41:11–43:53)

• After nearly a year in Pathway and therapy, realized her greatest manifestation was finally being her authentic self—a creative “weirdo” and artist who no longer needs to people-please:
  "I manifested a relationship with myself. I finally trust myself to receive good things, to be who I am and not have to apologize for it." (42:14)
• Credits her supportive husband and the TBM Method for this transformation into self-acceptance and freedom.

Jessica’s Response (43:53):

• Celebrates this as the “best of the best” manifestations, stressing the journey is about reclaiming true self—not just external results.
• Encourages listeners not to discount their internal growth:
  "Every story is impactful, every manifestation is impactful. Everyone is an expander." (46:10)

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• Jessica (open and throughout):
  "Expansion is such a huge part of this process...taking in these stories is making a difference in your life and in your expansion." (00:00)
• Belle:
  "If she can do it, I can do it." (06:36)
• Six-Year Member:
  "I had to choose between my dreams or this relationship." (11:40)
  "Thank God for TBM because it's given me this outstanding relationship with my intuition and my trust for myself." (12:41)
• Sophie:
  "I needed to unblock a lot of shame around being seen and healing my inner child who was scared to be misunderstood." (17:24)
• Money Challenge Member:
  "My life has changed in a year and in the past six months." (28:30)
• Anonymous (Money Beliefs):
  "My freedom actually feeds my family more than my sacrifice ever could." (34:27)
• Austin (Authenticity):
  "I manifested myself...I finally trust myself to receive good things, to be who I am and not have to apologize for it." (42:14)
• Jessica (reflecting):
  "The biggest manifestation of all is that truer connection to you." (46:37)

Timestamps for Important Segments

• 00:00 – Opening remarks and episode framing (Jessica Gill)
• 05:54 – Belle’s story: From single mother/divorce to business sale and family travel
• 08:43 – Jessica on expansion, ego, and finding authentic purpose
• 10:52 – Six-year member: Healing relationship cycles and manifesting love and career
• 13:47 – Jessica on recognizing repeating patterns and honoring self
• 16:56 – Sophie: From artistic block and shame to exhibiting in London, financial flow, and synchronicity
• 19:00 – Jessica on fear of being misunderstood and dancing with the universe
• 24:31 – Money Challenge story: Overcoming avoidance and manifesting financial overflow
• 28:37 – Jessica on love-money connection and the power of conscious financial practices
• 33:20 – Family/legacy story: Redefining abundance after loss
• 35:01 – Jessica on healing childhood patterns through money work
• 41:11 – Austin’s realization: The ultimate manifestation is self-acceptance
• 43:53 – Jessica: Internal growth is the core of real manifestation

Episode Tone and Takeaway

The stories are candid, inspirational, and deeply relatable, delivered in the TBM community’s signature warm, supportive, and empowering voice. Jessica’s commentary is grounded, practical, and expansive, rooting mystical themes in psychological and real-world terms. The overarching message: dramatic transformation is possible for everyone—internal shifts are often the “biggest” wins, and community storytelling powerfully rewires what’s possible.

For new and seasoned listeners alike, this episode offers hope, practical insight, and proof that expansion and authentic manifestation are possible, no matter your starting point.