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What do you mean spending it right now?
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It is Christopher Buckle day. Welcome. Welcome to Fat Mascara. Okay, if you've listened to Fat Mascara for the past 10 years, you know that Christopher Buckle has a very special place in fat mascara canon. He is our 3.5, 2.5 as of today, 3.5 timer. He was on for two full episodes and then he made a cameo on our five year anniversary or something. I don't know. He dropped into this dude. Okay, why have we had this man on so much? Okay. We don't really have a lot of repeat guests. Cause he is hysterical. Hysterical. And he also has a heart of gold. I find him to be so delightful, but also very generous with his information. If you don't know who he. I feel like. Did I say he's makeup artist? I don't know. I'm just like, just so excited that he's come back in the studio. He is a makeup artist for Mariah Carey. Is his like star client. They are. They are together. If you say Mariah, Christopher Buckle's often uttered in the same sentence. If we're talking about beauty. Deeply loyal to Mariah. He's worked with her for a long time. He'll tell you more about that. Also works with Blake Lively. Also works with Lindsay Lohan. She's looking incredible. Obviously, she has a whole team, but her makeup is stunning lately. That's Christopher. Works with Kelly Ripa. He has such a singular point of view with makeup. It is always done. It is fresh. It is perfect. It is glamorous. It is very fierce. It is. But it's not too much. It's mm. Mm. And when I look in the mirror and I get ready, I've always had something he says in the back of my mind over my shoulder, without blush, you look like a thumb. So I've been banging on that brush. I've been banging on that blush since he said that. He changed my whole point before this whole blush craze, blush blindness, all of that for, like, the past eight years or so, maybe more. I have been going hard on my blush ever since then. Too much is never enough. So enough of me. Let's get Chris into the virtual Stude.
Christopher Buckle
I need a witchy vibe. Like, I. I can't. Okay. Also, these things look terrible.
Jessica
You know, there's nothing we can do about them.
Christopher Buckle
They're just stupid.
Jessica
They don't go with your aesthetic.
Christopher Buckle
No. There's not a white thing in this house other than me. It's like, no.
Jessica
All right, okay. So, Christopher, I thought I just jammed out of Soho to get home to record with you. And I was like, oh, maybe I should just pop by Christopher's and record the podcast there. Somehow I didn't know you moved to Long Island. You went home.
Christopher Buckle
I moved to Long Island. I'm back here. I was in on Broome street for years, and I had this huge loft with 20 foot ceilings, and it was very grand. And I was like, during the pandemic shutdown, I was like, why do I work so much? Why do I work so hard? I'm like, oh, I have a mortgage on a $2.2 million home. I have to work, and I don't even use this space. It's like, what am I doing?
Jessica
Never home. You were never home.
Christopher Buckle
I. I'm not throwing parties. And so I was like, you know what? The city has changed so much. Also, it's not what it used to be. All the reasons why I moved there don't really exist anymore. So I was like, you know what? I'm going to spend half the amount of money every month and have more. So that's what I did.
Jessica
Yeah.
Christopher Buckle
So here I am. I'm close to friends and Family.
Jessica
And you're. And you're very close to your family, right? You're very close with your sister, your mom. Right. I must be so happy to have you back.
Christopher Buckle
They're 20 minutes away and yeah, they're happy. Yeah, it's good.
Jessica
And you brought all of your accoutrements because I was like, oh, he's home in his cave. You know, it looks like Interview with the Vampire back there.
Christopher Buckle
This is my living room. Part of it anyway. But it's. Yeah, my aesthetic. This house is really my aesthetic. It's taken me a few years. I'm just finishing up on another bedroom. But it's very saturated color, lots of gold leaf, and it's quite something. It's very theatrical.
Jessica
It's romantic. It's really romantic.
Christopher Buckle
Well, I would say, yeah, it's like an old school vibe, but it's definitely has gothic overtones, but it's all very deep, rich, beautiful colors in each room.
Jessica
So, yeah, you know, I dabble in home. Where do you get. You can't tell from my background with my Barbie Dream House and tchotchkes, but where do you get a lot of your stuff?
Christopher Buckle
Oh, well, you know, I have antiques, things and stuff like that, and secondhand stuff that I buy. But I gotta tell you, if you really scour the Internet and you like, I bought beds from the 1800s from Cherry, that, that website, and it's all secondhand furniture and you can get great deals. I go on Amazon and I find things, but then I'll repaint them. If they're a good design, I'll repaint them, gold leaf them and kind of upgrade them. But I also go to Home Goods. Christian Siriano's Halloween collection. Martha Stewart Halloween collection.
Jessica
Wait, they do private label for home goods?
Christopher Buckle
No, I think that they're just liquidating whatever didn't sell that season or whatever. But they're really great quality things from both of them. And I will find these gorgeous. They're not like hokey Halloween things. They're like gothic mirrors and with bats integrated into the frame and stuff in a very cool set designer kind of way.
Jessica
This is the second name check of HomeGoods on fat mascara in like a month and a half.
Christopher Buckle
You gotta be consistent and you've gotta just go. And you just have to keep scouring and looking. And then all of a sudden, there you go, you got a winner.
Jessica
You know who also has really good home stuff that's like in like the gothic vein? Anthropology. They're doing a lot of good stuff. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Baz Luhrmann's wife.
Christopher Buckle
Mm. She's sweetie pie.
Jessica
Yeah. She did a collection for anthropology. I don't know if it's still there.
Christopher Buckle
Oh, I'm gonna have to look at that.
Jessica
Katherine Martin.
Christopher Buckle
Martin.
Jessica
Yes.
Christopher Buckle
I'm gonna have to look at that.
Jessica
I'll send you some information after. So you're back in Long Island. Last time we had you on the show, you are a triple 2.5 fmer. You came on for, like, a little, like, a T. Yes. We've had you on for two interviews before. People have requested you back on the show so much because you give such great information.
Christopher Buckle
I love that. I love that.
Jessica
I listened to the last episode with you, so I didn't repeat anything. As if anyone's gonna remember. Six years. But I'm listening to the episode. I'm like, it has been six years since I spoke to you. Wow. And it was. I know you were in your airy apartment in the city and you were hunkered down. We were, like, talking about the pandemic and toilet paper and all this stuff. It was toilet paper hoarding and all this stuff. But since then, so much has happened. I would say, what have you been up to? But what's been going on lately? What have you been doing? You moved to Long Island.
Christopher Buckle
Okay. So moved to Long Island. I've been decorating gold leafing. I do everything pretty much myself. So it's been a lot of work. But work wise, yeah. I mean, I've been working with Mariah, of course, and I just came back from Orlando because we were celebrating her children's 15th birthday. And then just before that, we were in Anguilla.
Jessica
They're twins, right?
Christopher Buckle
They're twins. Rock and roll. And then before that, we were celebrating Mariah's anniversary because she doesn't celebrate birthdays.
Jessica
She doesn't celebrate birthdays.
Christopher Buckle
No. She celebrates her anniversary of life.
Jessica
Oh.
Christopher Buckle
Time is something that we don't acknowledge.
Jessica
Okay.
Christopher Buckle
Yeah.
Jessica
So anniversary of life. Okay.
Christopher Buckle
Yeah. And so I did that, and then the Met Ball just happened. And I did Blake for that.
Jessica
She looked very ethereal. She had all of my favorite colors going on. The pinks, the lavenders, the peachy colors. Butterfly colors. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Christopher Buckle
It was a very sorbet kind of a world. And that was a Versace. An older piece, I think, archival piece of Versace. Yeah, it was beautiful. And I just kept the makeup very kind of simple, really, because she just wanted to kind of. She wanted to just be comfortable and feel pretty.
Jessica
Do you guys know what you're gonna do before you're going in? Like, are there calls and face charts and all of that, or is it just you show up that afternoon and rock and roll?
Christopher Buckle
A few weeks before, she sent me photographs of the dress, and I gave it some thought, and I was gonna. I was going into it thinking I was going to do a very opaque pastel cloud of colors, like a wash across the eyes, very watercolory of the lavenders, buttery colors, and those peachy tones, and then, like, just merge it right into the blush and do this whole, like, dreamy kind of a thing. Because the. Because the Met Ball is a good place for that kind of a thing. But she was like, just, let's do our thing. Just keep it simple.
Jessica
Keep it pretty. Okay, I get it. And then let's talk about you for a little bit. In the past year, you've been public about this, you also had a little bit of a makeover, a little refresher.
Christopher Buckle
It's called a facelift. I got a deep plane.
Jessica
It's good to see her blinking.
Christopher Buckle
Oh, I can blink at least. Yes.
Jessica
Yeah.
Christopher Buckle
Something else moves every time I blink. It's weird. No, I had a deep plane, neck lift, lower facelift. I had a brow lift and upper bleph and a chin implant and a full monty. Oh, my God.
Jessica
Did you need a chin implant or did he do that? Because he did all this other stuff. Like, was it to rebalance?
Christopher Buckle
Dr. David Rosenberg did my surgeries. And when we were talking about everything, I was like, and what do you think about a chin implant? Because I've always felt like I could be a relative to Kermit the Frog. There was just a lack of profile. There was something muppety about my lower face. And he goes, no, that would be good. It would increase the projection you suggested.
Jessica
And he was like, yeah, sure. He tacked it off like a waitress.
Christopher Buckle
He's like, well, do you want to consult Miss Piggy before you make these decisions? No. But it was. He's really masterful, and he. The work that he does in Hollywood. He works in New York, but he works on many Hollywood people. You would not know that they've done anything. They just look amazing. He does great work, and I don't have scars, and my recovery was so fast, and it was not painful, and it was just amazing. It was such a great experience, and I kind of feel like I have, like, a second chance at something I took for granted.
Jessica
Well, what did you take for granted? What do you mean by that?
Christopher Buckle
Well, I always. People like oh, you're handsome. You're handsome. And I believed them. And then time went on. I was like, oh, wait a minute. It went away. It went away. I could see evidence of this kind of escaping me. And then I started talking about surgery. And then after I got it, I realized I'm like, oh, you know what? Now I can appreciate it because I was so busy and just living life and working and climbing and doing all those things that now I can just enjoy the fact that my skin's a bit tighter and my skin on my neck isn't pooling on my shoulders. Because I was like, do I need a circumcision on my neck? I need a moil, not a surgeon.
Jessica
I guess it's. You know when people say youth is wasted on the young? Is that you mean a little bit like you didn't realize sort of how good you look? You were working on your career and you were working on. Not that you're staring in the mirror every day looking. Look at how gorgeous I look. But you're sort of taking a moment for yourself.
Christopher Buckle
Well, yeah, definitely. And it just. I was kind of like, let's do this. Like, I'm 57. So, like, I did it when I was 56. It's almost a year since I've done it. So I was kind of like, if I'm going to do it, let's maintain youth and just have to grab a little bit back then have to really rein it in, and then you're never going to find what it was originally again, quite the same way. So it's better to do these things before it's like, completely a disaster.
Jessica
Do you feel that I'm saying we. That was like a subconscious thing. Do you get thip. Like, pictures? We, the royal. We have to look young in beauty.
Christopher Buckle
No, because you know what? I gotta tell you something. I wasn't worried about looking younger because I feel like I looked youthful for my age anyway, earlier than my years. But to me, it's not about looking younger because I tell everyone how old I am anyway. It's about everything just being pleasing to the eye. I don't want to look younger, but I also don't want skin hanging or draping or getting in the way of
Jessica
the way you say it. So still appetizing hanging.
Christopher Buckle
But that. Because that's how we talk to ourselves. No matter what we say publicly, when you look in the mirror, you're like, oh, this thing and that. So I just keep it real with that stuff. You know what I mean? But speaking of looking at yourself in the mirror. I saw this ad because I'm such a sucker for every little ad on Instagram and stuff, I see this ad for the real mirror or the real. Yeah, I think it's called the true mirror. It's called the true mirror. And so it's a mirror that. Because traditionally. Traditionally, when you look in a mirror, it flips. It flips the image so you're not really. So this mirror flips it back so that you are seeing yourself the way other people see you. And they have. I don't need that now. They have videos of people looking in this mirror for the first time and seeing themselves truly for the first time and having these spiritual, emotional moments. And so I get this thing. It's like $300. Oh, it showed up yesterday. Okay. So I was like, okay, it's quieter now. Let me just have this spiritual moment by myself. And I unpacked it very carefully, and I laid it down, and I made sure that it was a good height, and I looked into this thing, and I have to tell you.
Jessica
What were you wearing?
Christopher Buckle
I don't think I should leave the house because if what I saw is what everyone is seeing right now, I am a Picasso. I am asymmetrical. One eye's here, one eye's here. One eye's little. One eye's giant. After looking in this true mirror, I honestly was like, I should be in a bell tower pulling a rope. It was disappointing. I have been delusional in my mind.
Jessica
I, I. That that's. I don't like when people take pictures and you're, like, off to the side, or you're just standing, or you're, like, looking and listening. You know, when people take a picture, it's like a group picture, and you see how you look in the group
Christopher Buckle
or if you're on the outside frame of the photo.
Jessica
Yeah, that's what I mean.
Christopher Buckle
It stretches your face like this. And I'm like, that's great. I'm always taking selfies with Mariah's fans and stuff when they ask. And so they'll always hold the camera like. Or it's like, down here. I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa. And I'm, like, constantly pulling everyone's hands. Like, up here. You're like, honey, I don't care if it looks crazy, as long as it looks good.
Jessica
Do Mariah's fans follow you? Are you sort of like the friend of. And I mean that in the most flattering way, complimentary way.
Christopher Buckle
Like, you know, it's like I am part.
Jessica
You're part of the world.
Christopher Buckle
I am definitely part of Mariah's world and the machine of Mariah and the history of Mariah. I've. We're going on in July. It'll be 30 years.
Jessica
I don't believe in time. Anniversaries. Anniversaries, exactly.
Christopher Buckle
And if she ever hears this podcast, she would be like, zip it, Christopher, with those numbers. So she's like, we don't do numbers. So the fans are definitely. You know, I'm a bridge to Mariah in a way, for the fans. So when she. Trust me, if she's in the room, they'll step on my neck to get to her, so.
Jessica
But you offer something different than her. Sorry, I'm cutting you off, but, yeah, no, it's okay.
Christopher Buckle
But they want her, and so I am a substitute D Lister in her place.
Jessica
No, I would never say that. You're your own thing, so you have your own base.
Christopher Buckle
I've been around for a long time with the. With her and her fans, and it's always a great interaction. It's always fun, and I always try to keep it. I also know that it's exciting for them to meet us and stuff, so I always try to keep it exciting and fun.
Jessica
Definitely. Yeah. All right, we got to talk about makeup, because we've been talking about a lot of other stuff, and I didn't get to what people want to know. All right, so your makeup aesthetic, when I was listening to. I mean, I can. I know a Christopher Buckle look when I see it. It's so singular, it's so specific. But as I was listening to the last time you were on the show, it's just listening for tips and not want to be redundant. You gave me a freebie. You said my makeup aesthetic is meticulous. I love that word, meticulous.
Christopher Buckle
I believe everyone's different. And look, there's lots of different types of artists, but the way I look at it is there's many details, and the more perfect you can make each detail collectively, you're going to be as meticulous as possible. The end result will be very clean. It'll be as good as you can make it if each little detail as you go is as perfect as you can do it.
Jessica
So what's a rush job for you? How long does that take?
Christopher Buckle
Four hours. No, I'm kidding. No, the truth is, I don't like spending a lot of time doing makeup. It drives me nuts because I don't have a lot of patience, and so I'm also an empath. So I'm feeling for the person sitting there trying to. My client who's, like, trying to look up, look down, look over here, be still trying to look at their phone while their hair is getting pulled on. So I want to get it done. So I am a very fast makeup artist. Ultimately, a fast makeup I could do in 20 minutes. I could do the same. Like, I've gotten Mariah ready for a stage in 20 minutes. Full, full, full makeup.
Jessica
Okay. Okay.
Christopher Buckle
But I normally would like to have 45 minutes to get someone.
Hannah
Hannah, I just Venmo'd you for dinner.
Jessica
Obsessed.
Hannah
I'm spending it right now in the lip gloss that's been sitting in my cart.
Jessica
What do you mean, spending it right now?
Hannah
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Jessica
Stop. Say more.
Hannah
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Christopher Buckle
Oh, yes, yes.
Jessica
I've got a lot of lid.
Christopher Buckle
You've got a Jessica Chastain aesthetic. Of course, you're your own person, but the spacing and the proportions could be very similar to Jessica.
Jessica
I feel like you just scanned my face. You just gave me a Christopher Buckle scan.
Christopher Buckle
I scanned it, yeah.
Jessica
Yeah. I have, like, I could handle a lot of makeup, but when I try to do it, if I'm doing, you know, let's do it, let's really go glam. It's too much. It looks a bit silly. It looks a little bit heavy handed. When really I just want to have that meticulous, polished look. So I want to know what can people do to. They might not have your hand or like, skill level, but what are those little things that we can do to just make things look a little bit more polished? Or maybe it's about easing up. What can we do so it doesn't look slobby, Bobby?
Christopher Buckle
Well, I think a lot of times people are not doing their makeup mindfully. They're just instead of analyzing and looking at themselves critically and deciding what needs to happen and why it needs to happen, they're just kind of following a roadmap of, oh, well, you do this, you do this, this step and this step and this step. But those are guidelines. But you really have to look in the mirror and see where the darkness is, where the shadows are, which eyebrow is maybe higher than the other. Really look at each feature individually and see what is really needed. So then you just correct the brow that's a little bit lower and then start with that one to make it higher. You know what I mean? You can't make the other one lower. So start with that and then go to the next brow and then you can just fill in maybe somewhere where it might need it. Then you look under your eyes and you decide where the darkness is. You neutralize that concealer or whatever and you kind of go through your face like that.
Jessica
It's a little bit out of body. It's a little bit like taking yourself, taking the emotion and the judgment out of it.
Christopher Buckle
Right. And it's kind of like if you have a dress that has a couple stains on it, okay. And it's dry clean, only you don't have time to maybe wash the whole dress and do that. You have to spot clean. So you want to look at where the problem is or the issue or whatever the thing that you want to change and or make better, and you just dissect those things one by one. And you just concentrate on those. And that will give you a concise look without being theatrical about it.
Jessica
Yeah, that's the theatrical that I need to be a little wary of sometimes.
Christopher Buckle
But also when it comes to. For instance, I see people. A common mistake I'll see is people will do eye makeup, but then after they do their eye makeup, you need to go in with, like, a tight liner, like a wedge brush, lining brush, or whatever. And you need to get in between your lashes with the waterproof gel liner to bridge the shadow into the lash line. So this is. It's just like making sure those little details are kind of dealt with, because that makes a big difference in the way things end up looking.
Jessica
So that you don't see the tight liner things, that you don't see the little tiny white spots right in between. Okay.
Christopher Buckle
Yeah. So even if you're doing very little, just do very little in a very strategic, precise way.
Jessica
Do you ever think of writing a book?
Christopher Buckle
I have been asked to write a book, and I don't know if I should do a makeup book, per se, but I think that the stories of my career are very entertaining. And I've worked with so many people through different genres and through, like, I've worked with everyone from Twiggy to Cher to Madonna to, like, Britney, Mariah, Christina, all of those people. All the actresses like Ann, Margaret, Catherine Denerven, all. Everyone of current day. So I. I just think that that would be an entertaining thing. I just am not going to trash people. And so I know that.
Jessica
No, that's not you.
Christopher Buckle
It's just not. I don't. I don't. I wouldn't even know where to begin to do that. So I. I just know that publishers would probably want, like, a tell all kind of a thing, and I just would not do that at all because I have such good, funny stories of.
Jessica
You have funny stories. But I think it's also like the sort of the makeup manual of it all, because what you do does require technical skill. It's hard. I don't know. I know obviously there's a million billion tutorials, but some of what you do, I think, just kind of can't. Obviously, you can do videos to promote it, but. Anyway, we can talk about this later. Okay, let's go. Let's go more towards something else. I've been thinking about now, a lot of your clients, like, some of your star clients, they're over 40. Blake lively, she's 38. Okay. If the Internet is correct. But over 35, over 40. Things do happen to your complexion, your face, your skin tone starts changing. The color in your skin, it's not as vibrant. Your brows start to thin, your lips start to thin a little bit. Things happen.
Christopher Buckle
It sounds amazing.
Jessica
It sounds, it's really, it's a really great experience. I would love some of the baby fat that I had in my face from my 20s. Give us some tips for helping restore that vitality. Because your clients, they look better. Anyone would kill to look like them. And it has nothing to do with, you know, to steal a Mariah ism. Like age. What, what age? Like, I don't know her.
Christopher Buckle
So tell us when it comes to trying to make yourself look a little bit more vivacious, healthy, to me, I always look at it like healthy looking really vibrant and healthy. And that will always go with youth. But I think a good place to start is with the complexion. People are so afraid of concealer and as they get older, because they're afraid of texture. But that's if you're using really dry products. Like there's such great concealers out there now and there's so many different kinds. And what I find is if you use the right color concealer that has neutralizing tones to it, you don't have to use as much of it, but correcting all the shadows, any discoloration, things like that. Yes, Cream blush, very important. Brows, of course, darker eyebrow will always make. Give it kind of a feeling of youth and laminate them. If you've got thin eyebrows that are kind of very narrow, you can always have them laminated and colored. That will instantly give you a wider eyebrow visually. And then you can just fill in where you're sparse. Trying to think tight, lining the upper lid. Like, if you like. I always do that on myself. And keep everything on top. Like, don't go under your eyes, don't put liners under your eyes or any of that.
Jessica
Keep everything, nothing under the eyes, everything
Christopher Buckle
lifted, conceal under the eyes, get rid of the shadows. But then you put some shadow, you put tight liner on your upper lash line and then mascara, lash, whatever, but keep everything upwards and that will always be good. And with lips, of course, use a natural colored lip liner. And people get really scared of over drawing their lips. But if you kind of keep them, because a lot of times as we get older, the space between your nose and your upper lip gets wider. So bringing your lip fuller in the middle of your lip, that will be helpful because it'll avoid the Lucille Ball theatrical lip that people are afraid of. But I want to tell you about some products that I have discovered recently that I really like, especially for mature skin.
Jessica
Okay, hit me.
Christopher Buckle
And it's. It. Cosmetics do it all. They're these cream. They're very moisturizing pots of makeup, and they've got lots of colors for the complexion. They have bronzing tones, they've got blush tones. And I've been doing it on myself because I got you just. It's just. Use fluffy brushes and just slam it on, and it's like, really quick and easy, and the texture is really beautiful. It's moisturizing.
Jessica
Oh, perfect. Any product I can just slam on is like.
Christopher Buckle
You want to slam?
Jessica
Winner. Yeah. Precision is not my thing, so. Yeah, go on. What else is good?
Christopher Buckle
Let's see. Eighth Day skin care. Have you tried that?
Jessica
Yes, yes, yes, I have. Yeah. I like their serum and their moisturizer.
Christopher Buckle
Yeah. There's the. I don't know what the hell it is, but it's some sort of acid thing that. It's like a toner acid, but.
Jessica
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Like a tonic.
Christopher Buckle
It's no joke. It really is. Like, three days later, you're doing your baby. You're like, oh, my God, what is that? It's my face.
Jessica
Ah.
Christopher Buckle
And then you're like, oh, it's very good. It's like a really good retexturizer and all of that. Trying to think of what else. May Lindstrom. Mae Lindstrom is someone who. I know she's a groomer and in the business, but she came out with a line, and it's all natural oils and all that. It's like a delicious, yummy line. I love all of those things. Like, to sleep with all those oils on your face.
Jessica
It's, like, very cocooning.
Christopher Buckle
Enriching. Yes. Also, I bought one of these masks that you see on Instagram, and it's like a pink tube, and it's a clear mask that peels off. But you put all your skincare on. You put all your slop. You put all your juices and things on your face, and then you coat your face with this polyurethane of a mask.
Jessica
What is this slop mask?
Christopher Buckle
You can put it in the notes, but I'll have to look and text you, but it's like you just slap it on, coat it all over your face and neck, and then you let it dry in 10 minutes. And then in the morning.
Jessica
Stop it, Christopher.
Christopher Buckle
You peel it off.
Jessica
Okay.
Christopher Buckle
It's created this humid environment for all of your skincare to seep in and really sit and not go on your pillow and.
Jessica
Okay. And you're doing this at night.
Christopher Buckle
I do. I'm single.
Jessica
I love to know that somewhere in Long Island, Christopher is going to Home Goods. He's getting his stuff. He's coming home. He's doing his slop mask.
Christopher Buckle
I'm looking like I'm backstage at a Pat McGrath moment glossy.
Jessica
And he's scrolling on Instagram looking for his next hit.
Christopher Buckle
Exactly, exactly. Just looking for another product to wait for in the mail. But I have to say, you know that pink gel mask that everyone sleeps with, and then it's like a collagen mask, and then in the morning, it turns clear and you take it off.
Jessica
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Christopher Buckle
Well, it's great. It's really great, but I can't keep it on my face. It takes four hours to dry. I'm not gonna lay in one position. I only get three hours of sleep, so.
Jessica
Oh, my God.
Christopher Buckle
Anyway, I. This is good because it just dries in 10 minutes. I can sleep throughout the night. All the skincare is working. And then take it off in the morning. And then you've got a face of an embryo that.
Jessica
Well, that's what we're looking for. That's what we're trying. All right, so you are a New York guy. Like you were saying, you used to live in New York. You grew up in Long island, but then you spent your whole career in New York. You've always. You post a lot of things about you downtown. In the 90s, you're working. It's so interesting to me. A lot of it was around the whole love story, Carolyn Bessette, JFK Jr thing. But how people are really excited about New York in the 90s. That was really your time when you came up as an artist. Why do you think you were so excited and really inspired and curious about that time right now?
Christopher Buckle
Well, I started going out in the mid-80s, and then in the early 90s, I was working at the nightclubs and stuff. So I did the door of Webster Hall. I did the VIP rope at Limelight. I worked at Palladium years before that in the 80s. So it's just always been a world that I was very tuned into. And the 90s were kind of. I mean, they're. They were the last time where fashion and trends were really strong. And you had Madonna's Blonde Ambition. You had D Lite rivers in the heart, a whole 60s mod retro flashback, and women started wearing wigs and hair bands and go go boots and poochie and plastic daisy earrings. So I think that it's exciting to people because it's one of the last times before telephones, the cell phones and everything that we were really connected to just the human interaction without a lot of the distractions. And things were happening very organically on the street with trends and stuff like that. And they were an investment and they weren't just like a flash in the pan kind of thing.
Jessica
It wasn't just whip through, scroll through.
Christopher Buckle
No, you cultivated. You cultivated these things.
Jessica
I like what you said. Investing. I think that is so key. It's. You would buy the magazine, you would buy the album, you would have to spend time waiting online for the ticket. You would sit through the show.
Christopher Buckle
Yes.
Jessica
This may be a stretch, I don't know, but no. Fast fashion. It was. It's just a very different time. And I've asked this question to a couple of people and it feels like I'm fixated on this topic, but I'm so interested in why this is. Love Story was a good show, but it can't be. That's the only reason why people are interested in this time period.
Christopher Buckle
It's not that I think it's the last time, like I said, where we can at all remember, we had a complete freedom. Like, if you weren't home, your answering machine, you'd have to wait to go home and listen to your answering machine if somebody called you or whatever. So you were invested in the moment. You were invested where you were sitting, eating, and with who you were eating with, because there was only that. And so if you went to the movies, you were invested in watching the movie because you were sitting in a movie theater and there were no telephones to look at or to distract you or to even take you mentally out of it. Like, ooh, did anyone text me? Or did I get that email? So, yeah, I think that there's a romance and a longing for that.
Jessica
A longing. We were not meant for that. For this.
Christopher Buckle
I think that we are all feeling a bit enslaved to this device.
Jessica
I remember always feeling like the next. And part of that's just being young. But the next exciting thing was right around the corner, just, like, anticipation. And I think that's probably a huge part of that is being young. So I'm aware, but it was. I couldn't order it up. I couldn't predict it. It was just sort of spontaneity, I guess.
Christopher Buckle
Yes. And it was exciting, too. If you were, like, walking down the street and you saw somebody that was inspiring in some way or where did they get those? Or where they get a shoe. I remember walking down St. Mark's Place and Lady Ms. Keir, who was a neighbor of mine from D Light, she was walking in front of me and she had on the John Fluvag monster heels. The big flared out Louis XIV heel with a square toe and a buckle. I was just like, what are those? What planet did those come from?
Jessica
I couldn't reverse Google image search those.
Christopher Buckle
No, you had to like hit the streets. You needed to just start investigating, asking around and find them very cool. Recently, I think that there's a longing for nightlife also, which is very depleted, I think, in general because people don't dance anymore. I've been to places where the younger people literally just hold their phones up pointed at the dj. I'm like, no, that's not how this works. You're supposed to be moving to the music. Okay? But no one will dance because they're afraid someone with their phone is gonna film them dancing. Terribly. So anyway, I think there's a longing for nightlife. And I recently saw this thing. It was a. Do you remember Twilo? It was a nightclub in the 90s and they did a reunion weekend. And so it was the original location in Chelsea and it was packed and I went. Cause I was like, this might be my last.
Jessica
Who was it packed with? Like what? Like, who was there?
Christopher Buckle
It was packed with mostly people my age.
Jessica
That's what I mean. Was it mostly people who remember, like anniversary kind of thing?
Christopher Buckle
Yeah, it was definitely like a older crowd, but they were definitely a mix. But I think that it was packed and it was fun and everyone was dancing and everybody was like hungry for that moment. I went because I was like, this might be my last chance to ever dance in a real nightclub with good music and enthusiastic people. But it was a good time.
Jessica
I think you nailed it. Alright, we're gonna take a quick break and we'll do a quick fat mascara 5.
Hannah
Hannah, I just Venmo'd you for dinner.
Jessica
Obsessed.
Hannah
I'm spending it right now in the lip gloss that's been sitting in my cart.
Jessica
What do you mean spending it right now?
Hannah
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Jessica
Stop. Say more.
Hannah
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Jessica
We're doing a fat five with Christopher. You are a very creative person. I can tell from your set design behind you and from your various looks over the years, you must have opinions about the artists you work with. I need to know if you were to collaborate with another artist. I'll pick a couple. Let's say Mariah. What song would you want to sing on her with?
Christopher Buckle
Oh, I would be singing with her.
Jessica
Oh, yeah. Or you could be dancing or you could be rapping like ODB style.
Christopher Buckle
Okay. Sing with her. Thank God I found you.
Jessica
Okay.
Christopher Buckle
How come it's the first thing that came to mind? I probably couldn't sing it. Thank God I found you. I don't know. It's out of my range.
Jessica
You got a good voice.
Christopher Buckle
I had a career back then.
Hannah
I know.
Jessica
That was good. Actress.
Christopher Buckle
Actress. Jessica Chastain.
Jessica
Drama.
Christopher Buckle
It would be. Yeah, it would be one of those. What do they call them? Thrillers.
Jessica
Oh, I like it. I like it. Okay. What is a song? You know those songs that's like, oh, my God, if this comes up, this is gonna be embarrassing. How often I listen to the song. What song is it for you?
Christopher Buckle
It's John Denver.
Jessica
Oh, you told us this. Is this the one?
Christopher Buckle
Sunshine On My Shoulders.
Jessica
I know you love that song. You said that before.
Christopher Buckle
I know, but I do. You have a good memory. I listen to a lot of older music so I can get on like a. On a thing about a song and just play it. And then I'm like, oh, my God, now I can never listen to it again because it's just too much. Oh, God. Let me think of another one for you.
Jessica
Well, why do you like John Denver? Like, he makes me sad. I don't mean that in a bad way.
Christopher Buckle
I mean, I'm sad. No, I mean, I just, like. I just like the mellowness. The song Sunshine on My Shoulders. If you listen to John Denver's version, it's a very quiet song. It's very humble, but if you listen to it, the song grows like a sunrise. And to me, there's just something poetic about the whole thing. And it's simple and it's a melancholy kind of song, but it's actually very optimistic. Sunshine on My Shoulders makes me happy. It's a simple things. Just keeping it simple, Enjoying and appreciating the simple things. Things. I'm also playing it at my funeral.
Jessica
There's something about the sweetness and the tenderness of John Denver. You know how some people make you, like, happy, sad.
Christopher Buckle
Yeah.
Jessica
That's what John Denver does to me. There's like, a feeling that it's a very tender, precious feeling that not a lot of people hit. And when I think of John Denver, just because everything about him.
Christopher Buckle
It's also. What you're probably reacting to is the honesty. You're probably reacting to the honesty of where the song came from and how it was written and its source. Because energy is everything.
Jessica
It's almost like you're a musician, songwriter, artist. Christopher.
Christopher Buckle
I've done a lot of things.
Jessica
I know. Okay, wait, what was the other song that was getting a lot of airtime?
Christopher Buckle
Oh, gosh. Okay. Oh, well, this one is really embarrassing, especially after getting a neck and facelift. It's called Forever Young. It's from the 80s. Rob Stewart, Alphaville. Alphaville. Oh, forever young I want to be
Jessica
forever young Isn't that song about war?
Christopher Buckle
Well, yes, it is.
Jessica
That's a beautiful song, though.
Christopher Buckle
But I do like. I mean, the. You know, the lyrics can be misconstrued as being.
Jessica
No, that's a great. That's a beautiful song, though. The melody of that one is absolutely
Christopher Buckle
gorgeous and very, very high to sing. So there's only so high I can go.
Jessica
That's a beautiful song, too. You need to make a playlist I need a fat mascara playlist. That's on the to do list. Okay. That'd be fun. You mentioned that you're like a pilgrim to me, not a techie. Today.
Christopher Buckle
I said that to you?
Jessica
Yes, yes, yes. We were nervous that this podcast would
Christopher Buckle
not happen because of my lack of abilities to push buttons and to log on and to connect and to wi fi and to bluetoot.
Jessica
I think it's because your apartment's too dark. I think that you can't find the outlets. What is the most lo fi thing about you? Would you use, like, a paper address book?
Christopher Buckle
Oh, I literally. People make fun of me all the time because I have a week at a glance book, and I must have the book. I have the calendar on whatever that is on your phone. The Google calendar. That's how my agency communicates with me. But I must write it down into my ledger, my calendar, because I think that once I write something, and whatever that motion is of eye and hand, I then have photographic memory of it and I can remember my entire schedule and keep it together.
Jessica
That is how people learn. That is how people learn more. Right. When you write something down. That's proven. It's proven. And finally, it's 12 noon on a Saturday. You don't have travel, you don't have work. No one's blowing up your phone. What are you doing?
Christopher Buckle
I'm probably painting or baking or hanging out with a friend, eating. People think that I live some sort of a fabulous lifestyle, but the truth is I'm very basic, and I really like to do the most simple things. I like cooking with my friends, having some wine with my friends and laughing. And I'm tooling around here and painting and doing things and gold leafing and. Yeah, I just. And gardening in my yard. So I keep it very basic, and I think that's the balance to the extreme opposite of what I do for a living, which is a lot of artifice and a lot of illusion and a lot of smiling through tiredness and playing the game of business. But getting your hands dirty in the yard and paint on your hands and keeps it real, Reconnecting, it's a balance.
Jessica
Yeah, it's a balance. Thank you so much, Christopher. This was really fun.
Christopher Buckle
You're the best.
Jessica
Thanks, Christopher. I hope that you enjoyed the chat. I hope you found that conversation delightful. Chris, you are welcome back in the studio at any time. Lots of tips and tricks. Now I'm going to hand the mic over to our listener, Diane. Longtime listener Diane. You have a razor wand for us. Thank you. She emailed me at jessatmascara Personal. I love it. Jessatmascara. You can send your Razor wands to JessatMascara or infoatmascara.com she said, Dear Jess, I've been meaning to raise a wand to these podcasts. She's very excited about the return of Fat Mascara. Please, if you're being shy, don't just email me. It doesn't have to be fancy. You don't even have to write like an intro. Just say I'm loving this and then tell us why. Okay. She said that she's been using Curelle Hydrotherapy in Shower Lotion Wet Skin Moisturizer. They never make these titles like they, you know, it's always a whole story. Curel Hydrotherapy in Shower Lotion Wet Skin Moisturizer. Every time she showers, she uses it after she cleanses with Curelle Itch Defense Calming Daily Cleanser Body Wash Soap Free formula. And they're very affordable. She's pretty fair and her skin has always leaned toward dry. I don't know why I'm changing from first person to like third person, but I also have a few squall scars in my midsection from a long ago medical procedure and they've always had itchy flare ups from time to time. By the way, I totally get that. Totally. I have the same thing. My doctor recommended these Curelle products to me. They do the trick to keep the itching and dry skin feeling at bay. And they're very affordable. You can get them at the Curelle store on Amazon or other spots online. That is such a real thing. If you have scars or like some kind of procedure, it just itches there after a while. So you don't have to go for the fanciest products in the world. The ones that do the trick do the trick. So I agree. Curelle. I think my mom always had Curelle next to her bedside too for like itchy legs and stuff. I'm sure she'll really appreciate me sharing that anecdote. But yes, appreciate the recommendation. The Razor wand Diane. Agree. Cure all. Cure all. Cure all. Send your razor wands my way. We will see you next Wednesday. Have a great week. Thank you for listening to Fat Mascara. If you like the show, consider giving us a rating and review on itunes, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. This helps other people find the show. Follow us on social at Fat Mascara and email me at Infoat Mascara. I would love to use hear from you and to shop the products grown on the episode Check out Fat Mascara on Shop My Shelf. This show is produced by Red Rock Music. I'll see you next time.
Hannah
Hannah. I just Venmoed you for dinner.
Jessica
Obsessed.
Hannah
I'm spending it right now in the lip gloss that's been sitting in my cart.
Jessica
What do you mean spending it right now?
Hannah
You can instantly spend your balance with the Venmo debit card. Or when you pay with Venmo at checkout.
Jessica
Stop. Say more.
Hannah
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Christopher Buckle
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Episode Title: Makeup Artist Kristofer Buckle on the Best 40-Plus Makeup Tips, His Genius Deep Plane Facelift, the Best Instagram Beauty Products, and More
Host: Jessica Matlin
Guest: Kristofer Buckle (Celebrity Makeup Artist)
Release Date: May 20, 2026
In this lively and candid episode, veteran beauty journalist Jessica Matlin sits down with beloved makeup artist Kristofer Buckle. A longstanding friend of Fat Mascara, Kristofer shares his signature approach to beauty, essential tips for mature makeup, the honest truth about his recent deep plane facelift, and a roundup of the best beauty products he's discovered on Instagram. The conversation also veers into nostalgia for 1990s New York City nightlife and a reflection on simplicity and authenticity—both in life and in beauty.
[01:32–08:51]
Quote:
"My aesthetic. This house is really my aesthetic. It's taken me a few years... very saturated color, lots of gold leaf, and it's quite something. It's very theatrical."
— Kristofer Buckle [05:38]
[08:51–10:47]
Quote:
"She just wanted to kind of—to just be comfortable and feel pretty."
— Kristofer Buckle on Blake Lively's Met Gala look [09:48]
[11:00–14:28]
Quote:
"Now I can appreciate it because I was so busy and just living life and working and climbing and doing all those things that now I can just enjoy the fact that my skin's a bit tighter."
— Kristofer Buckle [12:44]
Quote:
"After looking in this true mirror, I honestly was like, I should be in a bell tower pulling a rope. It was disappointing. I have been delusional in my mind."
— Kristofer Buckle [16:19]
[17:01–18:46]
Quote:
"I'm a bridge to Mariah in a way, for the fans... but if she's in the room, they'll step on my neck to get to her."
— Kristofer Buckle [17:40]
[18:46–25:57]
Quote:
"You have to look in the mirror and see where the darkness is, where the shadows are, which eyebrow is maybe higher than the other. Really look at each feature individually and see what is really needed."
— Kristofer Buckle [23:29]
[27:45–30:22]
Quote:
"To me, I always look at it—healthy looking, really vibrant and healthy. And that will always go with youth."
— Kristofer Buckle [28:08]
[30:22–33:08]
Quote:
"Use fluffy brushes and just slam it on, and it's like, really quick and easy, and the texture is really beautiful. It's moisturizing."
— Kristofer Buckle on IT Cosmetics pots [30:23]
[33:52–39:37]
Quote:
"I think that there's a romance and a longing for that [era]... You were invested in the moment. You were invested where you were sitting, eating, and with who you were eating with, because there was only that."
— Kristofer Buckle [36:17]
[41:42–47:52]
Quote:
"I really like to do the most simple things... I think that's the balance to the extreme opposite of what I do for a living, which is a lot of artifice and a lot of illusion and a lot of smiling through tiredness and playing the game of business."
— Kristofer Buckle [46:53]
| Segment | Time | |----------------------------|-------------| | Kristofer’s Introduction & Home Décor | 01:32–08:17 | | Move to Long Island & Family | 04:14–05:29 | | Celebrity Clients & Met Gala | 08:51–10:47 | | Deep Plane Facelift Story | 11:00–14:28 | | "True Mirror" Anecdote | 15:00–16:50 | | On Working with Mariah Carey & Fan Interactions | 17:01–18:46 | | Kristofer’s Makeup Philosophy | 18:46–25:57 | | 40-Plus Makeup Tips | 27:45–30:22 | | Best Products & Instagram Finds | 30:22–33:08 | | NY 90s Nightlife & Nostalgia | 33:52–39:37 | | Fat Mascara Five | 41:42–47:52 |