Pastor Tony Liuzzo (Lead Pastor) - Ephesians 4 & 5 (Ephesians 4:25-26, 29 & 31-32; 5:19-20 & 25; Matthew 6:6; 9:36; 1 Peter 3:7; Hebrews 10:24; Romans 10:17; Proverbs 18:21)

Did you know every couple fights? Yes—even the ones who go to church and seem to have the “perfect” marriage. If you’ve been in a relationship for any length of time, you already know: you won’t always get along.

The real question isn’t if you’ll fight—it’s why. Why do small things suddenly turn into big conflicts? Why can everything seem fine one moment, then escalate so quickly the next?

Conflict is inevitable—but constant, unresolved conflict doesn’t have to be. Let’s get honest about marriage. Let’s uncover not just why we fight, but how to fight the right way—and more importantly, how to heal, grow, and move forward.

Because God didn’t design marriage to be endured…He designed it to be good.

Series description:

Let’s be honest—most marriages aren’t nearly as strong as they look. Behind the smiles, many relationships are slowly falling apart. Not overnight, but little by little. Communication breaks down. Attention fades. The compliments stop. The flirting disappears. What once felt exciting and full of life becomes routine, distant, and cold.

And eventually, people begin saying what they never thought they would: “I love them… but I’m not in love anymore.”

That’s not where it started—but it’s where many end up.

This series is about getting real. No pretending. No sugarcoating. We’re going back to “The Best Day Ever”—the wedding day—and walking through what actually happens next. The highs, the lows, the struggles, and the seasons no one prepares you for.

Because real marriage is hard. It takes work. It takes humility. It takes God.

But here’s the truth—your marriage doesn’t have to stay broken, distant, or empty. With God’s help, what feels dead can live again.

Real Marriage God's Design - Imperfect People - Lasting Love The First Fight Avoiding conflict by meeting needs: 1. We need to be seen 2. We need to be heard A. hearing builds connection B. words give life 3. We need to be forgiven A. be honest B. address it quickly C. respond with grace D. forgive Illustration #1: Pastor Tony & Logan Liuzzo at Monster Truck Rally in Columbus, OH Illustration #2: Pastor Tony Liuzzo in front of BigFoot Monster Truck during honeymoon in Orlando, Fl. Illustration #3: Pastor Tony Liuzzo in front of BigFoot Monster Truck during honeymoon in Orlando, Fl.

The First Fight (Real Marriage)