Podcast Summary: First Date with Lauren Compton

Episode Title: Waist-High Wisdom w/ Brad Williams
Release Date: May 6, 2025
Host: Lauren Compton
Guest: Brad Williams

Introduction

In the "Waist-High Wisdom" episode of "First Date with Lauren Compton," comedian and viral content creator Brad Williams joins host Lauren Compton for an engaging and humorous conversation about the intricacies of dating as a little person. The episode delves into Brad's personal experiences, his marriage, comedic career, and his perspectives on dating red flags.

Height and Dating Dynamics

Brad opens up about the challenges and humorous situations that arise from his height in the dating world. He discusses his attempts to navigate physical interactions gracefully to avoid awkwardness.

• Brad Williams [02:02]: "I really wish I was gay because, man, I. I would just be killing it. I'd be doing great. I got small hands. Like, everything looks bigger. Gay men typically love me."

Lauren and Brad humorously debate the nuances of physical interactions, such as hugging, emphasizing the unique dynamics when both partners are little people.

• Brad Williams [01:16]: "I try not to. I try to be aware of the fact that, like. Like today, when I met you for the first time, I gave a little, like, side hug to try to be."

• Lauren Compton [01:29]: "Like, okay, because you would motorboat me, I think, if we gave each other a full frontal hug."

Personal Life and Marriage

Brad shares heartfelt insights into his married life with a fellow little person. He reflects on how their relationship has flourished despite societal challenges and personal insecurities.

• Brad Williams [13:32]: "I'm married. Seven years with my wife for nine."

He recounts the story of how he met his wife through a unique radio show game and the unconventional proposal that ultimately led to their lasting relationship.

• Brad Williams [39:41]: "I was playing a game on the radio show called Tinder or Grindr... And through that game, I ended up going on a date with my wife."

Lauren expresses admiration for Brad's relationship, highlighting the importance of finding a genuine connection.

Comedy and Career

Brad delves into his experiences as a comedian, discussing the highs and lows of performing live, handling hecklers, and the impact of his stature on his comedic style.

• Brad Williams [31:20]: "That's ego. I'm a comedian. I want it to be about me. My job is I go on stage and I expect a room full of 1200 people to be absolutely quiet and let me talk."

He shares amusing anecdotes about dealing with unexpected heckles and maintaining composure on stage.

• Brad Williams [32:34]: "I've been comedian for 20 years. B, dwarf, you get some heckles."

Brad's commitment to his craft shines through as he explains his strategic approach to engaging with his audience and overcoming challenges.

Dating Preferences and Red Flags

A significant portion of the conversation revolves around what Brad considers red flags in dating. He emphasizes the importance of how one treats service staff as a primary indicator of character.

• Brad Williams [27:10]: "How they treat the wait staff."

Lauren concurs, acknowledging that this is a common red flag among listeners.

Brad elaborates on his stance, citing personal encounters where disregarding service staff led to his disinterest in potential partners.

• Brad Williams [27:24]: "If someone calls me a midget in a hateful way, it offends me. But it's all about the context."

He also touches on other personality red flags, such as chronic negativity and the inability to find joy in everyday situations.

• Brad Williams [29:26]: "Their life's very negative. I've met people that are never happy."

Anecdotes and Stories

Throughout the episode, Brad shares a series of humorous and relatable stories that shed light on his dating life and career.

• Proposing on Air: Brad narrates his initial plan to propose to his wife on a radio show, a concept that was met with skepticism by her father. Ultimately, he opted for a more personal and heartfelt proposal, which successfully secured his wife's "yes."

  • Brad Williams [39:41]: "She came home from work one day and she had moved in, and I had rose petals leading out to about. To a balcony. There was candles all around. I was in a suit... And then I proposed. And she said yes, thankfully."

• Comedy at an Orgy: Brad discusses a hypothetical scenario where he was booked to perform comedy at an unexpected orgy, highlighting his discomfort and the chaotic environment.

  • Brad Williams [37:27]: "I've never been to an orgy, but if I did I would never want to do comedy at it."

• Encounter with Ron Jeremy: An amusing tale about meeting adult film star Ron Jeremy, Brad humorously describes his anxiety over potential STDs.

  • Brad Williams [35:30]: "He looks like the carrier of all STDs. It looks like the STDs are having a convention in Ron Jeremy's body."

Handling Hecklers

Brad provides valuable insights into managing hecklers during his performances. He shares techniques such as staying quiet to let the heckler's voice be heard, often leading them to retreat and allowing him to regain control of the stage.

• Brad Williams [32:52]: "If someone heckles you, just let them talk. They'll end up saying something stupid and then you can jump on it."

His approach emphasizes patience and strategic responses, ensuring that humor remains at the forefront of his performances.

Conclusion

The "Waist-High Wisdom" episode offers a blend of humor, personal anecdotes, and insightful discussions on dating dynamics for little people. Brad Williams' candid conversations with Lauren Compton highlight the unique challenges and joys of his personal life and comedic career. The episode underscores the importance of genuine connections, respectful behavior, and the resilience required to navigate the dating world successfully.

Notable Quotes:

• Brad Williams [27:10]: "How they treat the wait staff."
• Brad Williams [13:32]: "I'm married. Seven years with my wife for nine."
• Brad Williams [31:20]: "That's ego. I'm a comedian."
• Brad Williams [39:41]: "I had rose petals leading out to about. To a balcony... And then I proposed. And she said yes, thankfully."

This episode serves as a humorous yet heartfelt exploration of Brad Williams' journey through dating, marriage, and stand-up comedy, providing listeners with both laughs and meaningful insights.