Podcast Summary: "Your Love Is My Drug w/ Bridget Phetasy" | First Date with Lauren Compton
Episode Information:
- Title: Your Love Is My Drug w/ Bridget Phetasy
- Host: YMH Studios
- Description: Comedian and viral content creator Bridget Phetasy joins Lauren Compton for a candid conversation about love, recovery, parenthood, and personal growth. They delve into Bridget's journey from struggling with addiction to finding love and navigating motherhood, all with humor and honesty.
Introduction
The episode kicks off with Lauren Compton expressing her excitement to meet Bridget Phetasy for their "First Date." Despite some initial hiccups with name pronunciation, the hosts ease into a relaxed and humorous conversation about their backgrounds and personal journeys.
Bridget's Transition to Austin
Lauren Compton discusses her move to Austin almost two years prior, sharing her fondness for the city.
"[00:31] Bridget Phetasy: When did you get into Austin?"
"[01:31] Unknown Comedian: We got here almost two years ago. I love it."
She reminisces about her past life in LA, mentioning her aspirations of moving to Austin and starting a band during her drinking days, which she has since outgrown.
"[01:48] Unknown Comedian: I had a weird feeling I would end up here... just hammered."
Creative Ventures: Poetry and Merchandising
Bridget opens up about her creative pursuits, including writing a book of poetry. She humorously recounts her failed attempt to sell 500 copies at the Venice Beach boardwalk, resulting in only one sale.
"[02:37] Bridget Phetasy: I ended up selling one copy to a skateboarding kid."
The comedian shares her own entrepreneurial misadventures with a greeting card business and T-shirt sales, highlighting the challenges of starting a business without a plan and eventually declaring bankruptcy.
"[04:00] Unknown Comedian: I started a greeting card company... went bankrupt."
Both hosts laugh over their shared experiences of overestimating their market and the struggles of selling merchandise directly.
Journey Through Recovery and Finding Love
A significant portion of the conversation focuses on the comedian's path to recovery and meeting her husband in a 12-step program. She reveals they met while both were actively recovering from substance abuse.
"[06:48] Unknown Comedian: I am married..."
"[07:09] Unknown Comedian: We met in recovery... I gave up heroin at 20."
Bridget applauds her commitment to sobriety, mentioning her twelve-year streak without relapse. They discuss the importance of personal transformation and mutual support in maintaining a healthy relationship.
"[11:10] Unknown Comedian: 11 years in October."
"[11:13] Bridget Phetasy: Congratulations."
The comedian shares how her husband, a marriage and family therapist, contributes to their excellent communication and relationship stability.
"[17:26] Unknown Comedian: He's a therapist... excellent communicator."
Marriage and Daily Life
The hosts delve into their married life dynamics. Bridget describes her husband's unique proposal, blending romance with their daily routine of coffee-making.
"[14:11] Bridget Phetasy: How did he propose?"
"[14:15] Unknown Comedian: He brings me coffee and a ring, gets down on one knee."
They discuss their dating habits during the COVID-19 lockdowns, emphasizing activities like walks, beach outings, and attending 12-step meetings. The comedian highlights her busy work schedule and how it influenced their date choices.
"[15:14] Unknown Comedian: We would go on walks, go out to dinner in Malibu."
Reflections on Past Relationships and Personal Growth
The comedian candidly reflects on her past relationships, admitting to dating "emotionally unavailable" and "fun guys," which hindered her ability to form lasting connections.
"[19:13] Unknown Comedian: I was just a wild slut... really was."
She discusses her therapist's insights, revealing that her own unavailability and busy lifestyle contributed to unhealthy relationships.
"[21:47] Bridget Phetasy: Actually unavailable."
"[22:22] Bridget Phetasy: Yeah. That's usually step one of therapy."
Lauren commends her honesty, noting the commonality of such challenges among individuals striving for personal improvement.
Embracing Motherhood
The conversation shifts to motherhood, with Bridget sharing her excitement and challenges of expecting her first child. They humorously discuss physical changes during pregnancy and the realities of breastfeeding.
"[24:35] Bridget Phetasy: ...havent even been able to take Botox until I'm done breastfeeding."
"[37:25] Unknown Comedian: ...breastfed until she was two and a half."
They explore the emotional and physical transformation that comes with motherhood, emphasizing the deep bond and unconditional love for their children.
"[32:17] Bridget Phetasy: And that's why I feel like I'm just sucked dry."
"[33:35] Bridget Phetasy: Where can people find you?"
Parenting Philosophies and Challenges
Bridget and Lauren discuss their approaches to parenting, including the importance of fostering a close parent-child relationship without relying heavily on external babysitters. Bridget recounts her traumatic daycare experiences, reinforcing her preference for hands-on parenting.
"[34:07] Unknown Comedian: Why not?"
"[34:08] Bridget Phetasy: Well, it might, but did you have babysitters?"
They also touch upon the societal pressures and stigmas surrounding single parenting and the challenges of balancing personal identity with motherhood.
Closing Thoughts and Future Plans
As the episode winds down, Bridget and Lauren share light-hearted banter about their future plans post-pregnancy. Bridget hints at returning to the podcast scene after her child arrives, while Lauren contemplates pivoting her content to cater to a broader audience.
"[45:56] Unknown Comedian: We'll take a vote."
"[45:57] Bridget Phetasy: We'll take a vote. Thank you guys for tuning in..."
They conclude with mutual support and anticipation for future collaborations, leaving listeners with a sense of camaraderie and hope.
Notable Quotes
- "I just can't pronounce names." — Bridget Phetasy [00:48]
- "I've had mom brain my whole life." — Unknown Comedian [01:16]
- "We're not doing this, Bridget." — Unknown Comedian [18:24]
- "I was just a wild slut... really was." — Unknown Comedian [19:13]
- "It's exhausting, but it's worth every part of it." — Unknown Comedian [33:35]
Conclusion
"Your Love Is My Drug" offers an intimate glimpse into Bridget Phetasy's life, blending humor with heartfelt discussions about love, recovery, and parenting. Through shared stories and laughter, Bridget and Lauren create a relatable narrative for listeners navigating similar life transitions.
Connect with Bridget Phetasy:
- Website: fetishee.com
- YouTube: Bridget Fantasy X
- Instagram: @bridgetfantasix
Support Bridget by purchasing her merchandise and following her on social media for more updates and content.