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Rosabelle
Hi, David.
David Farrier
Hi, Rosabelle. How are you?
Rosabelle
I'm good.
Rob
How are you?
David Farrier
I'm good. Look, I know we're both a little bit stretched for time right now, so I'm going to cut straight to the chase. Today's episode looks into the American boy band. And I'm just wondering, growing up in New Zealand, did you ever have a boy band that you particularly gravitated towards?
Rosabelle
Backstreet Boys? Five.
David Farrier
Five. I remember five.
Rosabelle
I think five were from the UK maybe.
David Farrier
I think they were, actually. That's okay.
Rosabelle
But then Backstreet Boys. Nick Carter had a little brother called Aaron Carter and he had songs as well.
David Farrier
I might be wrong, but there was an American drama that was Christian based and I feel like he played one of the Christian sons.
Rosabelle
Oh, okay.
David Farrier
Which is a side dish. Were you attracted to the music or were you like a little bit horny for the people?
Rosabelle
Yeah, of course horny. Musically attracted, physically attracted. It's the whole package.
David Farrier
Did you have any posters on your wall?
Rosabelle
Of course I did. You know, it's quite weird for like the music industry to target 10 year old girls.
David Farrier
Yeah. Because they're not. I mean, they call them boy bands, but they are. They're not boys. They're men. Right.
Rosabelle
They're fully grown men.
David Farrier
Yeah.
Rosabelle
And then it must be so strange for those men to go do a little gig and there's 10 year old girls being horny for them.
David Farrier
Yeah. That is weird, actually. I hadn't really thought about it like that, but that is really. It's really odd. Okay. Thanks, Rosabelle.
Rosabelle
You're welcome.
David Farrier
I'm David Farrier, a New Zealander accidentally marooned in America, and I want to figure out what makes this country tick. Now, back in October of last year, a new American boy band arrived on the scene called Boy Throbbing. Now, whether you're deeply aware of Boy Throb or have never heard of them before, I like to think this episode will have something for you. Because the idea of boy bands is just inherently kind of fascinating. And because the members of Boy Throb have all been chasing fame for some time. From auditioning on American Idol to creating huge social media followings on their own for their singing and dancing. And the story of Boythrob is also a story close to my heart. Because while three members are Americans, they. Their fourth member, Darshan, is in India. And ever since the formation of the group, they have been heavily campaigning to get Darshan an O1 visa so he can join his bandmates in the United States of America to get an O1 visa. You have to prove you are an alien of extraordinary ability. That's the actual term. Which basically means you need to get famous enough for the US government to let you in. So while Boy Throb want to get famous for all the usual reasons, they also want to get famous to get Darshan an American visa. Recently, as part of this journey, they played their first ever live show at an iconic music venue in New York City. So of course I had to go. So prepare to become a throbber and join the Throb mob, because this is the Boy Throb episode.
Rosabelle
Flagless. Flagless Flagless Bird Touchdown in America.
Rob
I'm a flagless.
David Farrier
Now, I'm deeply aware that this is a very specific topic.
Rob
Yeah.
David Farrier
But I think boy bands in general are kind of interesting.
Rob
Yeah.
David Farrier
And very American, too.
Rob
Very American. At one point, I feel like other cultures. I mean, K pop is a little adjacent to that and totally.
David Farrier
And have taken the popularity away.
Rob
Yeah.
David Farrier
Cause we haven't had. I guess that's part of the thing about Boy Throb that's kind of fascinating is it's a boy band. And since I guess One Direction in my mind was like the last big boy band. Boy band. I guess.
Rob
Yeah.
David Farrier
Maybe.
Rob
I mean, what. What constitutes a boy band? It's multiple males, multiple boys harmonizing.
David Farrier
Yes. They have to have. Share different parts and then do crossovers.
Rob
And it's. They're not playing instruments, they're just singing.
David Farrier
That's a good point. It's all vocal cords and dance moves.
Rob
Almost like a. Extension of an acapella group, kind of. With tracks. Maybe sometimes a live band, depending on what size.
David Farrier
Yeah. And I think some real legitimate bangers. And I also feel like in a boy, like, because they all have their own skills, I feel one of them is always going to rise to the top and maybe be more talented than the others.
Rob
So the Justin Timberlakes, the Harry Styles.
David Farrier
Although a fascinating thing has happened with Timberlake where. I don't know, he was amazing for quite a while. I remember him being a good dancer and a great singer and charismatic. I feel since that DUI he got where he was pulled over. His current tour is a train wreck. It's popping up on my feeds and he's just kind of lost the ability to be what he was. Sloppy.
Rob
The shows you're seeing.
David Farrier
Yeah. He's dancing, but it's like if I was trying to dance. It's really. For some reason, Timberlake side dish has really gone south.
Rob
I mean, he's also getting older, so he's getting older. The expectations of how he can dance on stage, this is true, maybe need to be lowered. But I will say, if it's as awful as you're saying, it's pretty tragic. Maybe someone should have flagged it to him. They need to during rehearsals.
David Farrier
That they need to.
Rob
That's not the route to go.
David Farrier
As a side dish to this. I just thought I'd mention because I was thinking growing up, if I was into any boy bands, Boys to Men were weird. That's a boy band. I weirdly was really into them, like very Souley and very. I know for whatever reason they captured my attention. Other than that, it was mostly Christian boy bands like the Newsboys. And as a side dish. Is that a boy band? They're playing instruments. Maybe it's not a boy band.
Rob
I mean, you had NSYNC and Backstreet
David Farrier
Boys and we had all of them in New Zealand. I just wasn't actively a fan of.
Rob
Are you sure?
David Farrier
I'd admit it if I was.
Rob
Okay.
David Farrier
But as a side dish with the Newsboys, we did that Christian Chaos episode about how the Newsboys were falling into disreputability because of their singer. Yeah, Just wanted to leave a note. They are suing the out of everyone at the moment. This is an article from Ministry Watch, which is a Christian website. And if you remember, in that episode, Christian Chaos, we talked about their manager, Wes Campbell, who we described as the devil. He's like this very ginger nightmare looking man. So this is from Ministry Watch. Wes Campbell and the musicians of the Christian band News Boys have filed a federal lawsuit against World Vision, the Royce Report, who broke the story, and concert promoters for an orchestrated campaign to drive Campbell and Newsboys out of the Christian concertma. So Newsboys have gone full batshit insane.
Rob
They've gone nuclear.
David Farrier
They've gone nuclear. Anyway, they were probably the boys that I loved the most as a kid and they have really fallen.
Rob
There was LFO also, and new kids on the block and 98 degrees.
David Farrier
I don't know. 98 degrees.
Rob
Oh, 98 degrees.
David Farrier
It's very hot.
Rob
Hot, hot. Great.
David Farrier
I really like that name.
Rob
That was Nick Lachey.
David Farrier
Okay. I don't know who that is. I feel like this is a whole other world probably that I should delve into.
Rob
Yeah, there were lots of boy bands and then there were the girl bands too, which are. Can you say girl bands? Women bands.
David Farrier
I think girl. Yeah. I mean, I think of the first single I ever bought on tape as a kid was tlc, Waterfalls. And I feel that Was like an iconic girl group, obviously, that went on to certain members. Went on to do what? I'm. Amazing things.
Rob
Are they. Should we call them women? Because. Yeah, it depends on the age, but I also feel totally fine. And girl bands calling NSYNC a boy.
David Farrier
They're definitely. And that's the other thing. Boy. They're not men, you know, they're sort of boyish.
Rob
Well, I think they were probably men at that time.
David Farrier
I mean, they were technically men. But it's this thing of like, they're innocent in a way. They're presentable to all ages. It's not like boy bands are never. They're not out having a lot of promiscuous, crazy times that time. Right. That's part of the deal.
Rob
Yeah, yeah.
David Farrier
And that's so kids can hang the posters up on the wall. Remember those books used to get those teen magazines? And we have posters of all the latest people you could put on the wall.
Rob
No, I had. I had Sports Illustrated. So it was.
David Farrier
Oh, wow.
Rob
I mean, instead it was it man dunking or.
David Farrier
Yeah.
Rob
Hitting a baseball.
David Farrier
Wow. Another thing I was thinking about while thinking about boy bands, I know this technically doesn't count, but Michael Jackson, who was a big star.
Rob
Well, he was in a boy band, the Jackson 5. Oh, my God. Okay.
David Farrier
You're completely right. This is very valid. Michael Jackson watching the reaction to him. We've talked a bit about this.
Rob
Yeah.
David Farrier
But his. The fact that the movie Michael has come out and people are flooding to it and loving it. It's really funny. Well, not funny. Strange. Watching this generation basically forgive him. And the estate has done this. The Daily did a really fascinating deep dive on this. And essentially Michael Jackson towards the end of his career was obviously not doing well. He was hooked on a bunch of drugs. The pedophilia allegations were everywhere. He was dangling babies off the roof. That was a particularly horrific thing to watch. But the estate, when Michael was alive, they had a really hard time because he was just out being a maniac. With him dead, the estate has done this really amazing thing where they've rehabilitated his image because he isn't around to constantly be saying and doing crazy shit. And it's worked.
Rob
Yeah.
David Farrier
Like, there's a whole bunch of people out there that are kind of like, maybe he wasn't a pedophile, you know, and that's a real thing now. And that just blows my mind.
Rob
Yeah. I mean, that's the age old we're living through now of separating the art from the artist. And at this point if him being gone changes your ability to appreciate. Because the doc is more about him as a musician and an artist.
David Farrier
It is. I haven't watched it. I think it cuts off way before the allegations even start. There was a whole other cut of the film where they wrote in the allegations and actually essentially shut those down within the film. So allegations are made against him and they reference those in the film, but then they're about to release it and they found out that. That that victim had given an interview previously. And part of that deal was they weren't allowed to disparate. Like the network wasn't allowed to disparage that victim.
Rob
Ah, yeah.
David Farrier
And they built that into the film. And then they went, oh, God, we signed this contract ages ago. We're not allowed to clap back against these allegations. And so they basically redid the whole thing, which is mad. The backstory to that Michael movie is crazy.
Rob
Yeah, yeah.
David Farrier
But I think he's different because you're not just separating the artist from the artist. I think there's a bunch of people out there that have just don't think he did anything wrong again. It's like they've erased that part of the story, which is mad to me.
Rob
Yeah. The whole denying thing is another interesting aspect to all of it.
David Farrier
You can't get the Neverland documentary that was on hbo. You can't get it anymore. It's dropped off the map. Like the estate has taken it offline.
Rob
It's crazy. All right. Well, not.
David Farrier
Yeah. Not an awful boy band story is boy throb.
Rob
This seems like a story crafted by you.
David Farrier
Yeah, it feels. This is built for me in a way.
Rob
Yeah. Because when. When did they come onto the scene? This has to be like. This has to be a newly being fueled by the current politics.
David Farrier
So New October is when they first popped up. I can't remember if it was Instagram or TikTok, but what struck me is that these. The whole setup is so riveting because you've got these three boys, these three Americans who are. I think they're in their early, sort of mid-20s, late-20s. They are all very talented on their own, but they're also not the picture perfect kind of image that you expect. So they're all a little bit. I don't know, it's hard. They're just not as polished as you would expect. And that's really fascinating.
Rob
They're not in sync.
David Farrier
They're not in sync. They're not perfect, but they're very, very likable. And they're like they're amaz with their own specific skills. Like, one of them's a great dancer, one of them's a great singer.
Rob
But then, of course, only one of them is a good singer.
David Farrier
Just one.
Rob
Okay.
David Farrier
No, they're all good. Few of them have particular points where they're particularly better, I think.
Rob
And what is their history like? Because with. With NSync, you had Justin Timberlake coming from the Mickey Mouse Club, Everyone kind of had storied backgrounds and origin and origins. Yes. And then, I mean, I think a lot of the. I wouldn't say controversy, but controversy of boy bands, too, was that it felt like a label just placing these people together and it. And.
David Farrier
Yeah.
Rob
Manufacturing this friendship.
David Farrier
And I think that's something that you've hit on with boy bands that is unique to them is that they don't form organically. They're not friends jamming or. They don't have this love of music that bring them. That brings them together. It's someone going, hey, meet this person. You should do something.
Rob
Or. We auditioned all of these people, and we're gonna pick these five to go together. Yeah. We have these writers and these producers that are gonna make all the music.
David Farrier
Yes.
Rob
There was a band, O Town.
David Farrier
Oh. And that was part of the story of them, kind of.
Rob
I. I think the peak of this. I think they did it publicly on making the band on mtv. They created O Town. And it. Okay, was this band that came out of that, Right.
David Farrier
And they were big ish.
Rob
They were big ish. I mean. Yeah, I found some history. O Town were the first boy band created and launched by a reality TV show.
David Farrier
Oh, holy shit. So this is pre Idol and all this stuff.
Rob
In 1999, ABC produced a musical reality show called Making the Band. So not. Not mtv, huh? So it was with Lou Perlman, who created Backstreet Boys and nsync.
David Farrier
Okay.
Rob
They had a thousand people audition to be in the band, which is a
David Farrier
lot, but probably by today's standard isn't that many.
Rob
So the series actually goes through the audition process and. Okay, all of that.
David Farrier
Do you remember how old were you in. 99.
Rob
I was 11, yeah.
David Farrier
So you were aware of this, like, being a thing?
Rob
I was aware. Yeah.
David Farrier
I don't.
Rob
I don't know that I watched it,
David Farrier
but I was aware of it.
Rob
There were apparently legal battles between Lou Perlman, who was convicted of embezzling over $300 million, which.
David Farrier
300. Jesus Christ.
Rob
Which I think eventually killed the band.
David Farrier
I feel like, with so many. Like, another thing common with boy bands is the drama.
Rob
Yes.
David Farrier
Because you've got these. Because you've got someone pulling the strings. There's these people come in excited to be famous, but a lot of them are getting like fucked over from the beginning.
Rob
Well, I think you also have this thing where the drive for it is to be famous. They. It was not this. This thing where they're trying to make music for the pure sake of expressing themselves. They're doing.
David Farrier
No, there's no message. Besides, we are hot and we are
Rob
famous and you have the egos of. I mean, front. Front. People in any band have to have somewhat of an ego.
David Farrier
Yeah.
Rob
To think that you are good enough to go on stage and lead.
David Farrier
Yeah. To have that confidence.
Rob
Right. Yes. So when you put four to five of them together.
David Farrier
Yeah.
Rob
There's gonna be. Everyone probably thinks that they are the lead completely. And unless you have people that are comfortable settling because it'll Naturally. Someone rises as.
David Farrier
Yeah.
Rob
The favorite completely.
David Farrier
Someone is. Just has that extra X factor or a better voice or better talent or whatever.
Rob
Yeah.
David Farrier
But you're right. That's the other thing with boy band. There's no specific focus. All of them in the beginning are meant to be. Same with the girl band. Like, they're meant to be. You pick which one you like.
Rob
Yeah. Spice Girls are the same. You had your favorite Spice Girl that you liked.
David Farrier
Oh, my God, I remember how much my granddad, who's very, very British. He's dead now, but he fucking loved the Spice Girls so much.
Rob
I wonder why.
David Farrier
And he's just like. No, I don't think. If you're insinuating that Grandpa Phil was horny pervert. No, he wasn't. No, he wasn't a pervert. That's the thing. He was straight lace. But something about the Spice Girls just bought this very repression. She's got excited by like, Baby Spice and shit and spots and sposh posh sposh. The mem. We don't know about. It's. He got so excited. And that's what it's about. It's about becoming a fan of your favorite member. So that does relate to Boythrob, because the one thing that we know about Boy Throb is that some of the members have auditioned on American Idol. So these are kids that have wanted to be successful for a long time. They largely haven't been. They haven't won Idol. You know, they've been on there. They got rejected and they've. Somehow these three guys have found each other and they're trying to make it. We don't know how they got bought together. There's like a big theory. Like that's like one of the big things is like who is behind Boythrob? Like, what is this? Exactly. And then the other main element, which is. It depends what way you look at it. Like it's incredibly heartwarming and it's also incredibly sort of entertaining. Is this idea that there's another influencer in India, the Shah member. There's a fourth member.
Rob
Fourth member of a band.
David Farrier
That and a message. No, it's kind of wild. And.
Rob
Yeah.
David Farrier
And his whole thing, which is clearly gimmicky. Right?
Rob
Yeah. I'm feeling a little skeptical, like.
David Farrier
And he. Dashan has made his career from singing. He has an incredibly high pitched beautiful voice. And his whole thing on TikTok and he's a star in India. He's got his own thing going on.
Rob
He's already. He's already established in India.
David Farrier
Yeah.
Rob
Okay.
David Farrier
And his whole thing is covering huge pop songs. Like I know Rose or something. He'll cover one of her songs but in the most high pitched voice sort of imaginable. And he harmonizes with these three Americans. And so in all of Boy Throb's Instagram and TikToks, Dashan is just like on a green screen and kind of his face just appears as he sings and. But following the journey of this band, trying to get him in 01 for me. Because every three years. I mean, I just emailed you the other day. Can you please fill in a form to help me get my new O1 visa? I do this every three years.
Rob
Yeah, I'm aware.
David Farrier
Because you have to fill in all this fucking paperwork.
Rob
The third one.
David Farrier
But it's just watching this band try and, you know, so you're kind of rooting for them not just because you like them as people and you kind of want them to do well. You want this guy to get a visa.
Rob
That's what I meant by it being just perfect political thing to be happening right now because that's also.
David Farrier
Oh, it's getting harder to do.
Rob
Yeah.
David Farrier
No, I mean I'm looking at the list of things they're checking off on O1s now that they never used to. You know. For instance, I now have to go back to New Zealand to. To apply for an O1. I used to just have to leave the country, but I didn't have to go all the way back to New Zealand.
Rob
Yeah.
David Farrier
The social media checks now with the green card trump's added on that you can no longer apply for A green card within the United States. You've got to leave and go back to your country of origin. It's getting harder and harder for a non American to come here. And so it wasn't this intense when they started this in October. But as this campaign's gone on, obviously, politically, it's gotten crazier and crazier, which has made it more and more riveting to watch.
Rob
Yeah. More and more relevant. Yeah.
David Farrier
But look, I went to see them in New York. I'm going to play this documentary for you, you who only knows about Boy Throb through me occasionally ranting to you about them.
Rob
Yes.
David Farrier
I'm deeply curious just to know what you make of them. After experiencing what I experienced in New York city. It's about 5pm and I'm in Washington Square Park. I'm here because Boy Throb have announced on social media they're doing a fan meetup a few days before their first ever live performance. I've been wandering around the park for about 10 minutes, trying to spot where this thing is happening. It's a public park, so there are buskers. There are some protests going on as well. And then I see a throng of about 50 people, some of them wearing the pink merch of Boy Throb. As I head towards them, I see a large cardboard cutout of Deshan, the member of the band who can't be here because he's in India. Do you know what's going on up here?
Rosabelle
No idea.
David Farrier
No idea. Do you know what's happening? You have no idea at all? You're just here.
Rosabelle
No idea.
David Farrier
You came here for this today?
Rosabelle
Oh, absolutely not. No.
David Farrier
You just stumbled into it.
Rosabelle
I stumbled into it, but my partner and I both love them. And so I'm about to call him
David Farrier
and tell him, can you explain what's happening here?
Rosabelle
These gentlemen here are a new boy band called Boy Throb. There's four members in the band. They've got a guy called Darshan who's in India and he's trying to get a US Visa.
David Farrier
Are you going to the show tomorrow?
Rosabelle
Unfortunately, I did not get a ticket and I also have to fly back to Dublin, but that's why I'm here.
David Farrier
One thing that strikes me about the fans here is how invested they are not just in the music of Boy Throb, but in the story of Boy Throb. This is a independent boy band called Boy Throb.
Rosabelle
They all met each other on the
David Farrier
Internet, specifically through Instagram. Their first post was like, we're like
Rosabelle
a new boy band and like we're gonna win a Grammy.
David Farrier
They have a very infectious energy and
Rosabelle
they have a fourth member that's in India right now, Darshan, and they're working hard to try to get his visa to be in America and be a
David Farrier
four person boy band. I got more information from Jonathan and Mel. Between them, they could only secure one ticket for the show in a few days time. The tickets went that fast.
Rosabelle
So right now there is this new band, boy throb. They are hosting Throbchella. It's like their first big concert that they're doing. They are from California. There's actually four people in the band. It is Ethan, Zach, Darshan and Anthony. So Darshan is unfortunately in India. So they're currently doing all of this actually to get him a visa to come here. Unfortunately at the start of their career, a lot of people thought of it as like a satirical band when they're actually a real band trying to get popular. So they're doing this in order to not only perform and be a band, but to show the government and get proof that this is a real band. He should really be allowed to come here on a performance visa. Of course. This is like the meetup before the concert, which is on Tuesday at 7.
David Farrier
Are you guys going tomorrow? I wish I tried.
Rob
I didn't get tickets.
David Farrier
Tickets have gone. You've got a ticket?
Rosabelle
I got a ticket. But he didn't get one.
Rob
Yeah, we signed up. It just, it wasn't in the cards.
Rosabelle
Didn't happen.
David Farrier
But we're gonna stage door so we're gonna try and it's nice regardless that one of you gets to go. That's good.
Rosabelle
Exactly. And he has work until 7. And the concert starts at 7. So, you know,
David Farrier
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Rosabelle
Various 18.
David Farrier
One thing I was curious about was how these fans found out about Boythrob in the first place. A band that only formed last year. A band that doesn't appear to have a label or any major backing. Where did you hear about them originally? How did it come to you?
Rosabelle
On TikTok? Yeah, we found them on TikTok.
David Farrier
I saw clips of Anthony on American Idol five years ago or something.
Rob
Before I knew Boy Throttle was a
David Farrier
thing I knew about Zach's dancing videos. I was like, this is incredible. I'm enthralled.
Rosabelle
I'm here. So.
David Farrier
But they're great artists, they're very fun.
Rob
It's very wholesome good time.
David Farrier
You know, we need wholesome right now.
Rosabelle
Yeah, I agree. Yeah.
David Farrier
It's at this moment that I start to hear screams. Walking through the park in their distinctive pink velvet tracksuits and yellow shoes are 3/4 of boy throbbing. Evan, Zach and Anthony. They joined Darshan's life size cardboard cutout on a small podium in front of the crowd, saying how grateful they are before meeting fans and signing their stuff. Ashlyn was beaming. You just met Boythrob.
Rosabelle
Yes, I did.
David Farrier
What was the experience like?
Rosabelle
It was really awesome. They all signed my juggling balls. Super sweet people. Really grateful for their fan base. Awesome time.
David Farrier
Now, Jonathan and Mel referred to this earlier, but because certain elements of Boy Throb are just quite funny. I mean, just the name Boy Throb, how seriously are we meant to take them? Which for the record is sort of a weird question in the first place, because are we meant to take any boy band seriously? But I think because this band was born on the Internet and we live in a sort of post truth world, people are trying to figure out if there's something else going on here. How legit is it versus elaborate Nathan Fielder esque gag?
Rosabelle
Right. Well, a lot of people link them with Nathan Fielder, right. So if there is some sort of prank going on and if it's some sort of gag, I believe these three dudes legitimately want to do this as well. I think there's a little bit of both. There's no denying, like, the stuff is hilarious. I look at these three guys and I'm like, two of them off American Idol didn't get through all of that stuff. And Darshan obviously is the big gimmick or whatever, but these three guys are serious. I don't know about the rest of the whole charade. But these three guys are legit.
David Farrier
I think there's a lot of people that think it's satire because their first posts have a lot of elements of comedy in it. But they're really passionate about music and dance and they're really good at singing
Rob
and dancing and songwriting.
David Farrier
They only have three songs out now.
Rosabelle
They're each getting better than the last.
David Farrier
At first I was like, yeah, sure, I'll give this a follow on Instagram. I'm starting to really like these guys.
Rosabelle
But it originally started as a joke of can we do this? So I think they actually can. But it's been a journey to get there. And that's part of why they've become so likable, because the question of what are they actually capable of? And they do seem very talented.
David Farrier
After about an hour, the meet and greet is done. The fans disperse to do whatever New Yorkers do after 6pm on a Sunday, and Boy Throb wander off into the park. The Day After Tomorrow is their first ever live show. Throb Challor the first thing I notice as I approach the Bowery Ballroom is the line. There's a really long line. I follow it around the block, around the corner, around another corner and then another. It goes around the entire block. It's 6:30 on a Tuesday night and doors open at 7. The Bowery Ballroom is a pretty amazing place to play. Paddy Smith, Coldplay, Kanye West, Radiohead, Metallica, Amy Winehouse, the Strokes, Frank Ocean, Lady Gaga, they've all played here. And shortly, Boy Throb. Inside, downstairs by the bar, people are buzzing. We are at Boy Throb's first ever live concert. Are you excited about this?
Rosabelle
I don't even have words to describe it. I'm so thrilled to be here. I thought I wasn't going to get in. I thought there was already too many people. When I got in line, that line was crazy. I heard it wrapped around the whole block. Boy Throb is, you know, the new band of our generation. So I'm excited to be here. I hope you are too.
David Farrier
For Lisa, she feels personally invested in this whole thing.
Rosabelle
I saw them on TikTok and as an immigrant, I really saw Darshan's issues with immigration and it really resonated with me. And they just seem like a group of really nice people. So I'm kind of obsessed. Well, it's Boy Throb, you know, There is social media sensation trying to get Darshan a visa to bring him over
David Farrier
to the US Talking to Max and Tessa, I realize I'm not the only press in the room should tell you,
Rosabelle
since you're making the podcast, we are press as well.
David Farrier
The Washington Post is here, and so is a local Fox News affiliate.
Rosabelle
Honestly, I have to say, the more research I've done, I've listened to these guys in a couple of other podcasts and interviews, and the more that I listen to them, the more that I am convinced that they actually love it and they want the success in music. Since they had such explosive viral success so quickly, that is what gives a lot of people pause and thinking, you know, could this possibly be legit? But just because they have a goofy, campy, seemingly very authentic presentation doesn't necessarily mean that an inside job or that they're being propped up. So I have the same questions as you, my friend. We shall see. This is just a testament to how much they care about immigration rights as well, because this is a person that they care about and is integral to their sound and their group. And they want him here as fast as possible. And they'll do anything to prove that it's legit. Did you see the line? It was all the way around the block. I'm. I'm not talking around the corner. It was around the four corners.
David Farrier
Upstairs, a DJ is hyping the crowd up. Big, big hits. And the room is packed. And just before 8pm, Boy Throb's manager, Gino takes to the stage. Ladies and gentlemen,
Rosabelle
please remove your hats
David Farrier
from the national anthem
Rosabelle
presented by Visa.
David Farrier
Visa.
Rosabelle
Visa.
David Farrier
Visa.
Rosabelle
Visa. Visa.
David Farrier
Okay, okay. For the first chant. To be about a visa is amazing to me. And Gino, who fans know from the band's social media, goes into more details. Apparently their first application for Darshan's 01 was turned down. Essentially the US government not convinced all this was legit. That Boy Throb was a real band. Which is sort of an interesting thing to think about, considering said band is about to play to a room packed full of fans. We're here because the US Government sent us an rfe, which means they have a request for further evidence. They think because of how big of stars the boys are online.
Rosabelle
I know.
David Farrier
Because of how good they are just being themselves and effortlessly marketing themselves. Cause they're just so funny and great and talented.
Rosabelle
The government.
David Farrier
I know, I know. The government thinks that they're just like a viral. Oh, well, it's just like a viral. And we're like, nah, nah, nah, fuck that.
Rosabelle
We're a real band.
David Farrier
Not only a real band. It's the hottest boy band in the world right now. I mean, we're here for our boy to show. We're here to show the government.
Rosabelle
Yes,
David Farrier
we're here to show the government that this is a real goddamn band. And not only a real band, but they're stars and we need our boys. We need our full grow here. Then just before 8pm, boy throb come on stage. It's like the excitement from the park two days ago, but times a thousand. Things go quiet as Boy Throb open their set with the national anthem. What follows is a tight hour long show, which is quite a feat when you realize they only have three singles so far. It's one of the most high energy concerts I've ever been to. The crowd was loud, like my ears were ringing afterwards. What did they play? Well, there were quieter acoustic versions of song.
Rosabelle
The players are gonna to let them take off my crown. Am I ever going to let them
David Farrier
hear there's no sound? Later they do the song again, but on full blast.
Rob
My.
David Farrier
There are also covers, but inserting Dashan into the narrative. And then about halfway through, they brought out a laptop on stage and zoomed Daran live. People went nuts. Yes, I can hear you guys. It was pretty surreal having that fourth member on the big screen from India. He even got to sing a solo in the show. And as if to further prove the legitimacy of all this, the show ended on a power move playing a new Boy Throb remix from Kesha. A giant, giant star. I mean that has to count towards the next Visa attempt, right? We spill out onto the street. Throbbers still buzzing from what just happened. Their favorite Internet band suddenly real and fully formed in front of them. So a question. Cause this is like not a visual medium. How would you describe the crowd? Like who are the fans?
Rosabelle
Millennials. More adult than I anticipated, older than I thought. Which as a 35 year old and a mother of three, I totally support that. As a 24 year old, I was expecting. I was expecting teeny boppers, 8 to 17 year olds and more men. More men than I anticipated as well, which I love. Boy Throb's for everyone. And I think that's what's so nice, is that it's literally for everyone.
David Farrier
Do you have a good time in there?
Rosabelle
I did.
David Farrier
I'm actually with the Washington Post, so I'm. I'm here working as well. No, no. What do you make of it? Like as a member of the press, obviously you're here with a bunch of fans that love them for a variety of reasons. What do you make of it you'll have to read tomorrow.
Rosabelle
But I loved it. Yeah, it was great.
David Farrier
What's your name? David.
Rosabelle
David Shane.
Rob
Nice to meet you.
David Farrier
Nice to meet you.
Rosabelle
It was amazing. Better than I thought it was going to be. So honestly, highlight for you the acoustic version of Finger. Honestly, it was really genuine, really raw. I very much enjoyed that. And also just finding out that KE do's on the new song was fantastic. That was so fucking cool. Sorry, should I curse? I would have absolutely paid. A lot of people did pay for like resell of the tickets. A lot of people paid for the black market for tickets. I know someone paid like, like $75 for like one of the resold tickets. Did they get in? I hope so. Well, that was a religious experience for me. That was the one real coolest thing I've ever done in my life. Genuinely like it was purely like you can just feel the joy from everybody that it was, it was amazing the energy that they bring and like the genuine likeness that they actually, you can tell they genuinely love to do what they do, you know. Endearing.
Rob
Yeah.
Rosabelle
You can't help but root for them. You can't because you could tell that this is like a dream for them and that we're like helping make it happen. In a way it was really special and seeing like from what like we've seen of Evan and Anthony and how they all like you know, started as influencers or on you know, American Idol or whatever it was and now to see, now to see them here. I love it. I'm so proud of them.
David Farrier
Most fans drift off into the night to do whatever New yorkers do. At 9pm on a Tuesday night, some of us head to the after party howled at a bar a 15 minute walk away. Inside we're greeted by a small boy throbbi sculpture, some drinks and some fried chicken. This whole night has felt like a bit of a blur. And at some point during the afterparty I bump into the boys themselves, Evan, Zach and Anthony. They're in good spirits but also look utterly dishevelled and exhausted.
Rob
Yeah.
Rosabelle
Oh, I love your accent.
David Farrier
Thank you. I'm from New Zealand. Did you have expectations of what tonight would be and was this what you expected or was it different? I think there was a little bit of. We just didn't know it could have been a sold out show or maybe had 20 people. We really didn't know this was really
Rob
the first test run to see do
David Farrier
we have fans that would show up for a show and boy did they.
Rosabelle
Wow.
Rob
So thrilling.
David Farrier
So Exciting. Like, my adrenaline is high. Most surprising thing for you tonight. Was there something that jumped out at you that you didn't expect?
Rosabelle
I would say the amount of people there. Honestly, I am such a pessimist sometimes. And I never know how many people are gonna show up to stuff and who did they show. And the line. The line outside is insane.
David Farrier
Most annoying question you've had so far in all this press that you've done tonight.
Rosabelle
All tonight or in all of life?
David Farrier
In all of your career in Boythrob, maybe. When people are always asking us, you know, are we organic or not? That gets old. It's like, look, what you see is what you get. Hope you like it. If you don't, oh, well.
Rosabelle
Oh, if you're a gag or not, that annoys the fuck out of me. Like, if you're a joke, I'm so done with that shit. What else do we need to prove to people to tell you that we're not a gag? We just sold out the Bowery and got a line outside the fucking door.
David Farrier
I say good night, but before I go, there's one last person I want to talk to. A woman who's quietly sitting in the corner of the after party, a giant grin plastered on her face. She's Wendy, Evan's mum.
Rosabelle
Oh, I am a beyond proud mother, and you're gonna make me cry again. I already cried two or three times during the show.
David Farrier
How was snaila? Did you know what to expect?
Rosabelle
You know what? This was beyond anything I could have imagined. I mean, his. Just the reception from the crowd and the meaning and the love that was in that room was off the charts. I've been to so many concerts, I've never seen anything like that.
David Farrier
Highlight of your night tonight, the elation
Rosabelle
is seeing my son, who's been doing this since he was three. Evan has been doing this since he
Rob
was three years old.
Rosabelle
I was so proud of him and he stuck to his dreams. Nothing has deterred him. If you want to achieve something, you can it if you set your mind to it. And he's done that. This is, like, for me, it's, you know, it's not my dream come true that I wanted him to do this, but that his dream came true.
Rob
For any mother, that is, like, what
Rosabelle
you're all about, you know?
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David Farrier
So I took my New Zealand friend George to that show who had never heard of Boy Throb. Yeah, and we were breaking it down afterwards and just reflecting on how it was a fucking amazing show. The energy that was packed into a small space. My ears were still ringing the next day because it was just so loud.
Rob
Yeah, and there's something so that says
David Farrier
something completely just people's screams and I went there kind of with the attitude of how I'd watched a lot of their online stuff, which is like, this is a bit funny and very self aware.
Rob
Yeah.
David Farrier
But then when I was in that room, I kind of realized, holy shit, people are really into this. Everyone in that room was on the same page. They're really fucking likable. And they have some bangers of songs. The songs are good.
Rob
Yeah.
David Farrier
What did you make of it as an outsider who loves. You don't love this type of music, but you've been to a lot of shows. And the Bowery, as I said, like Radiohead had played there.
Rob
Yeah. I've seen shows, I've seen as tall lions at Bowery Ballroom. It's an iconic old venue. I'm still skeptical. Yes. You interviewed them and they said that's not a gag.
David Farrier
Yeah.
Rob
Or a joke.
David Farrier
Yeah. So adamantly. And I think. What do I think about them?
Rob
I just think it's so perfect that whether or not they're. I don't know how to say it. Whether or not they're doing it with pure intentions, there is a gimmick to it.
David Farrier
Absolutely. The fact a member is in India trying to get a visa is inherently gimmicky.
Rob
Yeah. And the fact that a manager is introducing. I haven't seen a manager introduce a band before on stage.
David Farrier
Now I think about it, I imagine radio. Before radio comes on, their manager comes out.
Rob
Character of the band is the manager, which though, like leans into the storied past of boy bands in a fun way, I guess. I guess whether or not it started as a gimmick or a gag almost doesn't matter.
David Farrier
That's the exact feeling I took away. I think they're incredibly self aware of what's going on and they are riffing on so many different things that make boy bands interesting in a really funny way.
Rob
And in its satirical way it feels. But then really blurring the lines of that. Like, they have to be aware of some of these cliches and things that they're leaning into.
David Farrier
Which again, does that trippy thing where, like, what separates it from any boy band ever? Because every boy band leans into cliches.
Rob
Which is then, though, what makes it even more brilliant as a whole. Because what they're being criticized for doing is exactly what a boy band is.
David Farrier
What Harry Styles has done.
Rob
Yes. And every. Every incarnation of them in the past.
David Farrier
Yeah. Was the feeling I got from them afterwards because I just kind of turned up very late notice. They had a bunch of interviews lined up and there's press with them all over the place now. Like, Pace Magazine had them, Fox had them, Washington Post had them. Even though that reviewer wouldn't tell me what that review was.
Rob
I did. I did like that. It. He implied that you were gonna take
David Farrier
his story
Rob
and release it a month later on a podcast.
David Farrier
Very funny. But so I was right at the end and I sort of slipped in and I think whatever is going on, I think they genuinely love what they do and they're making something they believe in. And I think for them constantly getting a question of are you just a joke kind of negates the fact that they are talented and they have really catchy songs and they have really good moves and they love their art. So even if this whole thing was a gag, right? Say the whole thing is a gag. Say Nathan Fielder has invented the whole thing, which is a big theory on many Reddits. Even if he had, I think these guys are realizing that we love what we do and we wish people would just appreciate what we do instead of the gag, which on that night in the Bowery Ballroom, everyone was on board.
Rob
Yeah.
David Farrier
And I think afterwards, to have a bunch of press come to them and say, oh, so you're just Nathan Field a joke, they're kind of like, no, fuck you. Like, we love this and we're really good at it, and can't you just appreciate that? And as I am rambling onto you about this, I think that's what made that room so magic, is that for one night, everyone fucking was on the same page. No one was like, they bought into the story and it was really magnetic and hypnotic. And if you're watching the video for this on YouTube or Spotify or whatever, you can see that in the room. It's just packed and so thrilled. And the guys are grinning their heads off. They're loving it.
Rob
Well, I guess, like, even to play devil's advocate, say this was all concocted by Nathan Fielder for the new season of rehearsal.
David Farrier
Rehearsal. Yeah.
Rob
It doesn't change much.
David Farrier
No. Yeah. What would it change, really?
Rob
It wouldn't change.
David Farrier
That's still.
Rob
It's a band marketing themselves. And whichever way that they can get it out to people and would with whatever gimmicks they're doing, which is every
David Farrier
band ever in the history of music, there's always something there to get you across to people.
Rob
And the, like, record label auditioning process, like, all of that of any other boy band, like, if that's how they were drawn up, doesn't change it either. Doesn't change Yeah.
David Farrier
I think if you. If you're listening to this and you are on the fence, I think they're their single finger, which is inherently just, as I say, a very funny name. But the whole. The whole line is like, if you're pointing a finger at someone accusing them of something, you're pointing three fingers back at yourself. That's the message of the song. It's a certified banger. Yes. It's very funny that it's called Finger. Just like Boy Throb. They're very. Is it just me or are they quite sort of. They have some slight sexual connotations to Throb and. Right.
Rob
Yeah.
David Farrier
It's not me being dirty.
Rob
No, no, those are.
David Farrier
Yeah. Again, that's like a very self aware element of them. And so they also probably have to get used to people going, are you for real? Because Throb.
Rob
Well, I'm sure everybody, every boy band was getting that question too.
David Farrier
Completely 100 sure.
Rob
They had to answer the same.
David Farrier
I think, I think even bands like I think of My Chemical Romance, like Peak Emo, whatever, at the time I remember thinking like, are you like, are you serious? Is this just like a bit of bullshit?
Rob
This is back to that conversation we had on Geese.
David Farrier
Yeah.
Rob
The band Geese. It is how people thought Geese.
Rosabelle
Real.
Rob
They real thing really went back to Birds aren't real of like this. They were part of this big marketing.
David Farrier
Yeah.
Rob
Campaign.
David Farrier
And does that, does that change anything? Even if they are. As we wrap up, Rob, I want you to do one thing for me and listeners. You can play along. Just turn up Finger in the car really loud. I want Natalie in the car with you. I want the kids and I just want you to see how you feel that song. And whether you like it or not, I'm pretty confident that finger is gonna be in your brain for the rest of the year.
Rob
Were you the manager that went on stage?
David Farrier
I'm Gino. That's my alter ego. Okay, very quickly, a little bit of feedback. Tom, who wrote in his email name is Tom Pinball. He was involved in our Pinball episode a while ago. How will the new rules affect you in the show when it comes to time to renew your visa and or green card? He's writing in in regards to the Trump's new things about green card rules. It won't affect me at all because I'm not going for a green card, so that's good. It's always the case with me that I've had to leave the country to apply for an O1. Been that way for the last year. So nothing too crazy. Corey. It's an unusual name. C O R, R I E. Have
Rosabelle
you heard that before?
Rob
Not spelled like that, but Corey.
David Farrier
I've heard Corey, just not. Oh, I guess maybe this is Corey. Yeah, I'm reading as Corey.
Rob
It's Corey. It's just spelled in a unique way. Long time. You just said the two same. Two of the same names. Were you?
David Farrier
In my head they sounded very different. Okay. Just believe me.
Rob
Long.
David Farrier
Timeless now. Pretty much my favorite pod. First time. Email. Email it from Canada with the focus on Wisconsin in your recent episode. There is something going on there that is far more important than cheese or supper clubs. The beagles at Ridgeland Farms.
Rob
I have heard about these beagles. Have you heard about these beagles?
David Farrier
I haven't even read this email yet.
Rob
Wow. All right, buckle up.
David Farrier
As someone who has been vegan or vegetarian for many years and always tries to purchase cruelty free products, sometimes I don't because of price, convenience, or some other dumb reason. I've just the videos of the dogs being rescued from this horrible place. Okay. I assume it's some kind of puppy farming mill. Some behind the scenes footage of the facility and really putting a face to animal testing. Animal testing. My heart breaks for the dogs. And I'm angry that people who go there every day to work who probably have a pet dog at home. I'm angry at the companies who still use animals for testing. Okay. So obviously there's some kind of animal testing on beagles at Ridgeland Farms. I'm remembering a headline where someone went to prison for this for a long time maybe. Or maybe that's another story. And they recently got out. But I feel like something around animal testing is certainly worth an episode because that is something that people aren't aware of.
Rob
It's a breeding and research facility that has roughly 2,000 beagles. 2,000 beagles that they use for scientific and medical research.
David Farrier
See, this is a minefield to get into because it's funny how we think about animals in general. I feel like people are kind of okay with them testing shampoo on mice. A beagle takes it to a different level because we know what a pet dog is. But is there a difference?
Rob
Yeah.
David Farrier
Has this recently come out in headlines?
Rob
Yeah. And there were a bunch of protests happening there where they were. I think they were all gonna storm this facility and break all the dogs out.
David Farrier
So many dogs.
Rob
Yeah.
David Farrier
So beagles, they're just like one of the cutest dogs imaginable. Like, how could this not turn on that company at some point.
Rob
Do you want to do a story on this or do you want me to give you some of the simple things?
David Farrier
Oh, do I feel like it's a story? Okay, if you're listening to this now and you have info on these specific beagles or animal testing in general, Flightless BirdchatMail.com would love to hear from you.
Rob
Yeah, that'd be a good episode.
David Farrier
Nat Rodin saying, hi, guys, listening to your Anna Conkle episode and the chat about Waymo food delivery services and thought you'd enjoy this video. I'm in Melbourne and for the last two years we've had an automated flying drone food delivery service in my area.
Rob
Whoa. Flying drone.
David Farrier
That's fucking cool. I'm going to be in Melbourne in a month. I'm going to see if I can get something flowing in. That's cool. I feel. I've seen videos of this. Maybe in America. Anyway, Amazon dropped shit off.
Rob
Yeah, I think they were testing that. It's. I mean, there's only certain, I think parts of the country. You could do flying drones. You can't have flying drones in a city.
David Farrier
I don't want. I feel like in la, drones willy nilly would be a nightmare. Yeah, they'd explode. The fucking LAPD police chopper that's always flying over my house, It'd be a disaster. Okay, I'm gonna do one more. Megan says, hi, Rob. Hi, David. I've been a listener since beginning a few times now. I've heard some feedback and wanted to write in, but I mostly listen in the car and by the time I get on my phone, thought of this, out of my head this time, I had to pause and send this. Okay, so Megan has been listening. She's pulled over the car, she's typed out this email. Thank you, Megan, for your for doing this. I'm in the middle of the Anaconko Pen 15 episode and you're discussing the American traveling circus. The town I grew up in is known as the cradle of the American circus. Hatchaliah Bailey purchased an elephant named Old Bet and toured her around the region in the 1800s. He's not the Bailey of Barnum and Bailey, which I also don't want the fact that it is, by the way,
Rob
Barnum and Bailey is like a iconic circus.
David Farrier
Okay, so a separate thing, but he's a relative of those people. The center of town features the Elephant Hotel, an old hotel that now houses the town offices. There's a statue with an elephant at the top in honor of Old Bet. Growing up, there were rumors that old Bet was buried under the statue. But there's probably no truth.
Rob
Only one way to find out.
David Farrier
Okay. I think it's. I mean, I think the history of circuses is a fascinating thing and especially because they still sort of exist in some areas, but with animal rights now, they're much less prominent.
Rob
Yeah. I do think you should head there and dig under the statue and see if there's an elephant.
David Farrier
I have something else that someone wrote in about and I made a mental note of this. Rob, it's been a pleasure. You remember what you have to do this week. You have to listen to a song called Fingers Finger Finger Single Finger by a new boy band called Boy Throb.
Rob
Okay.
David Farrier
And we will discuss at a later date.
Rob
Yeah. We'll put our review over on patreon patreon.com Flightlessbird where we have a bonus
David Farrier
episode for you this week. And also if you have any feedback, as always, flightless bird chat gmail.com. we'd love to hear from you. Have a really wonderful week and we'll see you in exactly seven days.
Rob
One week. Bye.
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In this episode, David Farrier dives into the uniquely American phenomenon of the boy band, focusing on the rise of "Boy Throb," a new group gaining viral traction for both their music and their ongoing campaign to secure an American visa for their Indian member, Darshan. The episode unpacks the quirks of boy band culture, explores the blurred lines between authenticity and satire in the modern internet age, and follows David’s experience attending Boy Throb’s first live concert in New York City—a pivotal event both for the band and their devoted, unexpectedly diverse fanbase.
“You have to prove you are an alien of extraordinary ability. That's the actual term. Which basically means you need to get famous enough for the US government to let you in.” – David, [02:44]
Pre-show Meetup in Washington Square Park ([21:46] – [23:59])
The Show at Bowery Ballroom ([30:17] – [41:39])
“It was a religious experience for me. That was the one real coolest thing I've ever done in my life. Genuinely like you can just feel the joy from everybody.” – Fan, [40:13]
Press swarms the band, questioning if Boy Throb is a legitimate project or “just a gag.”
Emotional moment with Evan’s mum, underscoring real stakes:
Throughout the episode, David and Rob maintain their signature irreverent yet affectionate tone. The episode offers both a primer on the boy band phenomenon and a case study in modern fame—and the blurring of sincerity, irony, meme culture, and earnest artistry that defines Gen Z pop culture.
Listeners come away understanding Boy Throb’s meteoric, strange, and surprisingly endearing journey—and, more broadly, why Americans remain fascinated by boy bands as a cultural institution.
"Boy Throb" isn't just a story about a meme-turned-music group—it’s an exploration of American myth-making, fandom, and the irresistible, eternal charm of the boy band. David Farrier documents a modern pop anomaly with affection and curiosity, leaving listeners asking whether authenticity, sincerity, and self-parody can all share the same stage—and, ultimately, whether it matters if you’re having a great time.