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SAVE $100 OFF OUR PROFILE TO FIRST DATE WORKSHOP + WORKBOOK I'm joined by Mariana Caldas, the cofounder of EnhanceMe, to unpack why so many incredible people struggle with online dating, and why it's not what you may think. In this episode we talk: why dating apps feel more exhausting the difference between trying to impress people vs. helping people understand you the biggest mistakes men AND women make on the apps why generic profiles don't create attraction the surprising profile edit that creates chemistry research behind authenticity and attraction how to create trust before the first date how building your dating profile can become one of the best self-awareness exercises you do If you've ever thought, "There are no good people left on the apps", this episode may shift your perspective. Share with a single friend who wants to meet their person! Ready to go from Profile to First Date? Mariana and I have partnered together to help you create a dating profile that actually reflects who you are and attracts the people you are genuinely compatible with and excited about. Inside this experience, you'll receive: a 90-Minute Live Profile to First Date Workshop with Lydia the EnhanceMe Dating Workbook personalized guidance on your profile We're running a special promo for the pilot of this at $197 until July 16th (Save $100). Limited spots. Sign up here: July 17th Workshop (4 - 5:30pm PT): https://book.stripe.com/8x23cve9K5w3fle6HVeUU0f?prefilled_promo_code=JULY17P July 18th Workshop (10am - 11:30am PT): https://book.stripe.com/8x23cve9K5w3fle6HVeUU0f?prefilled_promo_code=JULY18P Connect with Mariana https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariana-caldas-souza/ https://www.instagram.com/enhanceme.consulting/ Connect with Lydia https://www.instagram.com/lydiathedatingcoach https://www.instagram.com/theflirtingwithlifepodcast/

MEET MEN IN THE WILD 2-Week IRL Flirting Activation Have you ever noticed that you feel lighter, friendlier, and more excited when you're travelling? Whether you're hoping to meet someone in the wild or simply want to flirt with life a little more, this episode will challenge you to stop treating where you live like a doomsday for your dating life, and start seeing it through fresh eyes. In this episode, we cover: why you naturally attract more people when you're travelling "vacation aura" the #1 thing that makes you instantly more magnetic why your inner child is your best flirting coach a fun IRL flirting experiement to try at home simple ways to feel more approachable Loved this episode? Share it with a friend! If you're ready to become the woman who naturally gets approached and feels confident flirting, check out Meet Men in the Wild with Lydia - a 2-week flirting activation for women who want to find love offline. Connect with Lydia @lydiathedatingcoach @theflirtingwithlifepodcast flirtingwithlifepodcast@gmail.com

This is for my entrepreneurial + human design pals! Your marketing feels hard because you're following someone else's playbook. I sat down with Human Design + Email Marketing Expert, Breanna Owen, for a conversation about authentic marketing, magnetic branding, and human design as the key to creating content that actually feels juicy and flirty. In this episode we talk about: why Breanna wants to throw traditional email marketing rulebook into the fire the biggest mistake entrepreneurs make when trying to market themselves how Human Design can influence your messaging, branding, and content strategy the difference between your personal Human Design and your business' Human Design why authentic marketing converts better than copying someone else's strategy marketing tips for generators, manifesting generators, projectors, manifestors, and reflectors how to identity when you're operating out of alignment in your business the role of intuition, trust, and enegetic alignment in business growth the Human Design chart of Lydia's busness the future of marketing Connect with Breanna Get the Energy Type Email Playbook: http://www.owenyourmark.com/energy-type-email-playbook Breanna's IG: https://www.instagram.com/owenyourmark/ Connect with Lydia @lydiathedatingcoach @thefirtingwithlifepodcast

In Part 3 (of 3) of this Hot Girl Summer Series, Lydia sits down with money strategist, CFO, and founder of the Money Storyteller Method, Katherine Pomerantz for a juicy conversations about money!! Together they explore why wealth is often simpler than we make it, how our money stories shape our financial reality, and why treating money like a teammate can change everything. If you've felt overwhelmed, avoidant, or emotionally activated by money, this episode invites you to explore a more empowered relationship. We cover: why the habits that support your health are the same habits that build your wealth how wealth is more about consistent behaviours than luck understanding your personal money story and how it influences your decisions the different between your money story, money map, and money system the role of nervous system regulation in financial decision making navigating money conversations in dating and relationships building financial resiliency during uncertain times flirting with money Connect with Katherine Get Your Money Storyteller Score: https://go.moneystoryteller.com/money-storyteller-score LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/katherinepomerantz/ Connect with Lydia @lydiathedatingcoach @theflirtingwithlifepodcast

1:1 ROMANCE RESET SPOTS ARE NOW OPEN: Learn more and apply here: https://forms.gle/mKHYjK4WsFr1fyW36 In Part 2 (of 3) of this Hot Girl Summer Series, Lydia invites you to take a compassionate, but honest look at your dating life. Using her signature Delicious Dating Method, Lydia walks you through a three-part dating audit designed to help you release the past, rewrite limiting beliefs, and return to dating with confidence, playfulness, and possibility. In this episode: why Hot Girl Summer is about becoming unavailable for dating dynamics that drain you the first question you need to ask yourself before changing your dating life how past heartbreak, situationships, and resentment are bleeding into your dating aura the power of forgiveness and emotional recalibration after a breakup how to identiy the patterns you've been repeating in dating the difference between surface-level dating struggles and deeper limiting beliefs common stories and narratives that keep women stuck in dating why flirting is both an energy and a skill practical Hot Girl Summer challenges to help you meet more people in real life Work with Lydia Ready to stop overthinking dating and start attracting healthy, delicious love? Lydia's signature 1:1 coaching program, The Romance Reset, helps high-achieving, hopeless romantic women release old patterns, rewire limiting belifs, and condifently attract meaningful relationships. Learn more and apply here: https://forms.gle/mKHYjK4WsFr1fyW36 Vancouver Listeners I'm hosting monthly Flirting With Life Pizza Picnics this summer. Reach out to @lydiathedatingcoach if you want to join one! If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend, leave a review and tune into Part 3 of the Hot Girl Summer Series on Money!

MEET MEN IN THE WILD: 2 WEEK DATING ACTIVATION https://calendly.com/healwithlydia/meetmeninthewild In Part 1 of this 3-part Hot Girl Summer series, I walk you through a powerful mindset audit designed to help you uncover where you're holding yourself back and what it would look like to fully step into your most magnetic, condident self this summer. In this episode: what a hot girl summer actually means (and what it doesn't) the surprising common thread behind my favourite summers how to create your own hot girl summer desire list the 4 places you might be hiding from right now the questions that will reveal what's really holding you back why your teenage dream summer still holds clues for you today how to make this summer unforgettable Connect with Lydia @lydiathedatingcoach @theflirtingwithlifepodcast flirtingwithlifepodcast@gmail.com If you loved this episode, be sure to subscribe, leave a review and share with a friend.

SUBSCRIBE TO MY NEW SUBSTACK & JOIN THE CLUB: https://flirtingwithlifeclub.substack.com/ In today's very chatty, personal life update, I'm catching you up on some major shifts behind the scenes. I share: why my boyfriend and I are officially moving in together after a year and a half what it feels like to live with a partner for the first time at 32 how I'm redefining independence while still feeling deeply like myself why "giving single energy" in a relationship might actually be a good thing the evolution of my dating coaching business stepping into local matchmaking the story behind a viral new type of singles event I'm hosting starting on Substack Connect with me: @lydiathedatingcoach @theflirtingwithlifepodcast flirtingwithlifepodcast@gmail.com

TRIGGER WARNING (Mentions of Suicide Ideation) In this deeply vulnerable and healing conversation, I sit down with energy healer and functional health pracitioner, Kristin Sitek, to explore the connection between energy, trauma, burnout, self-worth, and healing. We talk about the subconscious stories we inherit as children, how scarcity and hyper-independence can quietly shape our adult lives and why so many high-achieving women struggle to truly feel safe enough to rest. We cover: how childhood experiences create energetic patterns why burnout is often deeper than stress the link between trauma, self-worth & nervous system dysregulation what energy healing actually looks like how to reconnect with your heart and intuition crystals, chakras, boundaries, and protecting your energy why healing isn't linear If you are in distress or worried about someone else, call the Suicide Hotline: 1-800-784-2433 Mental Health Resources: https://www.heretohelp.bc.ca/resource-library Get Kristin's FREE Reclaim Your Energy Guide: https://www.kristinsitek.com/reclaim-your-energy-1 Connect with Kristin: https://www.instagram.com/kristin.sitek/ Connect with Lydia: https://www.instagram.com/lydiathedatingcoach/ https://www.instagram.com/theflirtingwithlifepodcast/ flirtingwithlifepodcast@gmail.com

I'm joined by the amazing Kelly Chase from Season 1 of Love is Blind for a powerful conversation on visibility, reinvention, money, and dating in your 40s. We talk about the version of her the world met on reality TV versus who she has become today: a coach, speaker, podcast host, and entrepreneur. We cover: the dark side of virality Kelly's experience after Love is Blind moving through judgement, trolls, and the fear of being seen pivoting your brand when you've outgrown an old identity money mindset, entrepreneurship, and nervous system safety why your "why" has to be bigger than other people's opinions what emotional safety looks like in dating Kelly's podcast, book, and what she's flirting with next Connect with Kelly: ChaseLife with Kelly Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chaselife-with-kelly/id1546951055 https://www.instagram.com/chaselifewithkelly/ Connect with Lydia: https://www.instagram.com/lydiathedatingcoach https://www.instagram.com/theflirtingwithlifepodcast/ flirtingwithlifepodcast@gmail.com Meet Men in the Wild: 2 Week Dating IRL Activation: $197! Learn more here: https://calendly.com/healwithlydia/meetmeninthewild Get my Free Delicious Dating Playbook: https://mailchi.mp/5762ffea568a/delicious-dating-playbook

What happens when you've been taught your whole life to stay quiet, and then realize your voice is the key to everything you want? Lydia sits down with Mafe Salazar (podcast manager, traveler, storyteller), to unpack the journey of unlearning the "good girl" conditioning, reclaiming your voice, navigating dating, identity, and self-expression as a Latina woman. This conversation goes deep into: why not speaking your truth costs you relationships the fear of losing someone when you express your needs how people pleasing shows up in dating what it actually feels like in your body to speak your truth the difference between grounded vs reactive communication why your non-negotiables will filter people out how podcasting became a tool for self expression and healing the reality behind a digital nomad life what it means to be a local in your own life again Get Mafe's Free Podcast Launch Template! Connect with Mafe on IG: https://www.instagram.com/mafesalazar/ Connect with Lydia @lydiathedatingcoach @theflirtingwithlifepodcast flirtingwithlifepodcast@gmail.com