Encouraging Mom to Laugh

Summary

Podcast Summary: Focus on the Family with Jim Daly

Episode Title: Encouraging Mom to Laugh
Release Date: May 9, 2025
Host/Author: Focus on the Family
Guest: Pastor Ted Cunningham, Lead Pastor at Woodland Hills Family Church, Branson, Missouri
Book Referenced: A Love that Laughs by Ted Cunningham

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Introduction

In this heartfelt episode of Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, Pastor Ted Cunningham joins host Jim Daly and co-host John Pulley to discuss the profound role of laughter in the lives of Christian families, particularly focusing on mothers. Drawing from his book, A Love that Laughs, Ted delivers an engaging and uplifting message aimed at helping busy parents find joy and strength through laughter.

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Main Topics Discussed

1. Finding True Sources of Strength

Ted begins by addressing a common misconception among parents: relying solely on their children as their primary source of joy and fulfillment. He emphasizes that "only God can truly fill our hearts" (02:03) and encourages listeners to seek their strength and confidence from God rather than their children or external circumstances.

2. Laughter as a Tool for De-Stressing Parenting

Understanding the immense pressures of parenting, Ted advocates for incorporating laughter into daily life as a means to alleviate stress. He highlights that laughter not only brings joy but also serves as a "barometer of strength" (09:41), helping parents gauge their emotional and mental well-being.

3. Distinguishing Essentials from Non-Essentials

Ted urges parents, especially mothers, to focus on the essentials of parenting based on biblical principles:

• Love the Lord: "Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and strength" (02:02).
• Impress Commandments on Children: "Bring your children up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord" (05:18).

He cautions against becoming overly fixated on non-essentials, such as rigid adherence to parenting methods or societal expectations, which can lead to unnecessary stress and burnout.

4. Practical Examples of Letting Go of Non-Essentials

Through personal anecdotes, Ted illustrates the challenges parents face when societal standards interfere with their parenting choices. For instance, he recounts an incident involving formula feeding during a small group meeting, underscoring the importance of trust in one's parenting decisions over external judgments (08:33).

5. Comprehensive Benefits of Laughter

Ted delves deep into the numerous benefits of laughter, outlining 15 key advantages rooted in both scientific research and biblical teachings:

1. Therapeutic Benefits: "Laughter is therapy" (16:27).
2. Enhances Learning and Hope: Facilitates better absorption of truths.
3. Coping Mechanism: "A person without a sense of humor is like a wagon without springs" (16:27).
4. Cost-Free: "Laughter is free" (16:46).
5. Promotes Deep Breathing: Increases oxygen intake (16:51).
6. Calorie-Burning Activity: "Laughing burns calories" (16:51).
7. Reduces Physical Tension: "Laughter reduces tension throughout your entire body" (17:02).
8. Fosters Genuine Connections: "Humor grows two people closer together" (19:35).
9. Diffuses Social Tension: "Laughter diffuses social tension and awkwardness" (20:28).
10. Enhances Attractiveness: "Big laughter makes you more attractive" (21:05).
11. Humanizes Individuals: "Laughter humanizes me" (21:47).
12. Pleasant to God: "Laughter is explicitly biblical and pleasing to God" (22:36).
13. Mirrors Heavenly Joy: Suggests that laughter is a precursor to the joy experienced in heaven (23:53).

Each benefit is supported by real-life examples, biblical references, and scientific insights, making a compelling case for integrating more laughter into daily life.

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Notable Quotes

• Ted Cunningham (00:22): "Nothing sucks the life out of you faster than a child."
• Ted Cunningham (02:03): "Only God can truly fill our hearts."
• Ted Cunningham (05:18): "Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes... It should be the inner beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit."
• Ted Cunningham (16:27): "Laughter is therapy."
• Ted Cunningham (19:16): "You don't need the looks of Brad Pitt, you don't need the body of The Rock, and you don't need the confidence of Tony Stark. You need a paycheck and a couple of jokes."
• Ted Cunningham (21:05): "Big laughter makes you more attractive than online dating sites are trying to figure out how to get this into the algorithm."

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Conclusion and Takeaways

Ted Cunningham wraps up his message by reinforcing the idea that laughter is not just a frivolous activity but a vital component of a thriving, resilient family dynamic. He encourages parents to "lighten up" and prioritize joy, trust in God, and the essentials of raising children within a faith-based framework. By doing so, parents can combat stress, build stronger familial bonds, and foster an environment where both children and parents can flourish spiritually and emotionally.

As the episode concludes, Jim Daly and John Pulley extend heartfelt wishes to all mothers in honor of Mother's Day, reiterating the significance of laughter and joy in nurturing strong, faith-filled families.

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Final Thoughts

This episode serves as a valuable resource for Christian parents seeking to balance the demands of parenting with personal well-being. Through Pastor Ted Cunningham's insightful and humorous approach, listeners are reminded of the power of laughter to transform daily challenges into moments of joy and strength.

For those interested in delving deeper, Ted Cunningham's book, A Love that Laughs, is available through Focus on the Family, with proceeds supporting their ministry efforts.

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Stay tuned for upcoming episodes where topics like managing busyness to avoid burnout will be explored, continuing to provide practical and biblically grounded advice for modern Christian families.

Transcript

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[Ted Cunningham]

Your children are not your source of life. Don't bind your strength from them. You're like, oh, no, my kids. Fill me up. Yeah, give it a while. You will find out. Nothing sucks the life out of you faster than a child.

[Jim Daly]

Pastor Ted Cunningham has some hope, encouragement and laughter for busy parents today on Focus on the Family with your host, Jim Daly. Thanks for joining us. I'm John Pulley.

[John Pulley]

Well, John, we all love our kids, right? But if we expect them to be our source of joy and our reason for living, we're bound to be disappointed. Only God can truly fill our hearts that way. And that's the message Ted Cunningham wants to share with you today, especially if you're getting stressed out by all the details involved in parenting a child. Ted is going to encourage you to de stress with laughter. And I know you'll get a kick out of his presentation. It's based on his book A Love that Laughs, published by Focus on the Family.

[Jim Daly]

Right. And you can get a copy of that book from us. The proceeds go right back into the ministry. When you do, look for A Love that [e-mail] well, Ted really is a favorite on this broadcast. He's so entertaining and he's a comedian at heart. You can hear that. He's also a pastor at heart. He's the lead pastor at Woodland Hills Family Church in Branson, Missouri. With that, here's Ted Cunningham speaking at a Sparkle women's conference at River Valley Church in Minneapolis on FOCUS on the family.

[Ted Cunningham]

It is great to be here.

[Audience Member]

There have been a lot of moments.

[Ted Cunningham]

Where we've been told to turn to our neighbor and say, and I really haven't been comfortable with any of them. I gotta be honest with you.

[Audience Member]

Turn to your neighbor and say, you.

[Ted Cunningham]

Know what she's feeling.

[Audience Member]

Yeah, I don't.

[Ted Cunningham]

I don't really know what's going on.

[Audience Member]

Love, y' all.

[Ted Cunningham]

It's so good to be. I'm like, what am I doing at a women's conference? And then it hit me. This theme is, I'm gonna focus on the last part. And she laughs without fear of the future. And we just heard that the sixth love language is working out wrong. No, I'M just. That's. I get it. It's. My wife's love language is working out long walks. She walks me and the dog every night right before sunset. She wants me to live till 90. And I believe the sixth love language could also be laughter, the way we give and receive love. I just finished a book on laughter called A Love that Laughs. And we studied laughter for the last year, and I've been watching it in my wife. And my wife has a silent, patriotic. Laugh is what I call her laugh. When she finds something funny, she places her hand over her heart, leans forward.

[Audience Member]

And nothing comes out. So, ladies, I'm glad you're laughing. Sometimes I go to churches that aren't used to laughter. That's why I love coming to River Valley.

[Ted Cunningham]

Y' all love to laugh.

[Audience Member]

But I go to some churches, they don't laugh at all. And I'm like, ladies, let the laughter out. You hold it in. It turns the cellulite.

[Ted Cunningham]

I need you to let that laughter out.

[Audience Member]

Don't hold it in.

[Ted Cunningham]

I believe the reason I am here today, I want to tell you who your source is and where you find your strength. But I also want to encourage you to lighten up. So as you start at the first part of Proverbs 31:25, which is where. When I got this verse and I got this theme, my heart leapt. I was so excited I started to pencil some things down and just. I've been meditating on it for the past few months and asking the question, where does a woman find her strength, her hope, her confidence? She Psalm 118 and verse 14 says, My power and strength come from the Lord, and he has saved me. Psalm 28:7 says, the Lord is my strength and my shield. My heart trusts in him, and he helps me. My heart leaps for joy, and with my song I praise him. I wanted to tell you he is your source of life. Today. He's your source of life. And be careful what you do with people, places, or things. Be very careful not to turn people, places, or things into your source of life. We say it around our home often, my source of life is Jesus, not you. I receive from him and pour out to you. What you receive from me should be the overflow of my relationship with the Lord. Your strength, your hope, your confidence. It's not an outward appearance. First Peter 3, verses 3 and 4. Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Is this prohibitive of that?

[Audience Member]

No, it's Saying, don't let that be.

[Ted Cunningham]

Your source, but it can be overflow. Don't let it be your source. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit which is of great worth in God's sight. Wear nice clothes, wear makeup. That's not at all what this is teaching. It's saying it just shouldn't be your source of life. It's not money. First Timothy 6, 17. Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant, nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment. We lose strength and lack confidence when we turn the blessings of God into our source of life and we start worshiping the blessings rather than the one who blessed us. Where is your source today? I want to talk to you in the time that we have remaining just about laughter as a barometer of strength. Laughter as a barometer of strength. Not perfection, but strength. Two other areas that you should never find yourself looking to as your source. Your source is not in your children. They're not your source of life. And some of you right now, your children have become an extension and you find your value in them. Vanity. Parenting uses the child's attributes and accomplishments to try to impress other people. Let your strength, let your confidence, let your hope, let your beauty come from that inner beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit. I have to talk to the moms for just a second because everything I do is marriage and parenting and I can't get away from it. Mom, you're stressing out over the non essentials in parenting and you need to know what the essentials are. And the essentials are, hear, O Israel, the Lord our God, the Lord is one. Love the Lord your God with all of your heart, soul and strength and impress these. These commandments are to be upon your heart. Impress them upon your children. Bring your children up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. That's the essentials that we're going after. But I see parents today stressing over the non essentials. Why Mom's stressing over the non essentials because the children have become the source. Your family's not perfect and you're gonna do okay. I'm gonna show you a few things, just give you an example of what I see parents stressing out over today. How about this one right here? Formula. Passionate people. You gotta nurse. You gotta nurse as long as you can. Nursing didn't work for us with Corrine. She's like, thanks for sharing that with all the women of Minnesota, Dad.

[Audience Member]

But it didn't.

[Ted Cunningham]

I'll never forget it. Six weeks, her six week appointment. We went into the doctor, and I'm sitting by Amy and he comes in, he's going over all of her charts, starts looking at her head. Head's good, length good. Gets to the weight chart. His back is turned to us. He's one of these doctors that doesn't have great bedside manner. And I'll never forget him saying these words, good night. What are you doing?

[Audience Member]

Starving this baby.

[Ted Cunningham]

I look over at Amy, the tears start flowing. This is why it's so important.

[Audience Member]

If you're not in a life group.

[Ted Cunningham]

A home group, a small group, if you don't have community, get in community. Because that night we had home group, that night we had home group, and we're new parents trying to figure it out, and we ain't doing that well. And we're an emotional wreck. We're not sleeping well. Corinne's never slept a night, you know, in those first six weeks. And we're exhausted. We start telling all our struggles. And one older lady in our group gets up and she walks over to the kitchen. And I follow her. I said, excuse me, said, what are you doing? She reaches up in the cabinet, she grabs that formula they give you free at the hospital. She puts it down and she starts making a bottle. And I go, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. Hey, what are you doing? Because I've read all the books, right? I know what the books say. And there's somebody in here right now real passionate about it. Oh, I hope he's not giving a message that formula's okay. That's the whole point I'm trying to make. And I got really all up in arms with this lady. I go, you can't give her formula. She goes, you give me one good reason why I can't give Corinne formula right now.

[Audience Member]

I said, well, first of all, I.

[Ted Cunningham]

Don'T want her going to community college. That's where I'll start with the whole thing.

[Audience Member]

That usually gets about 75% lap.

[Ted Cunningham]

And I'll explain to you why 25% are super right now. You're stressed. I think your kids are gonna be fine. Lighten up, Mom. Focus on the essentials. Let go of the non essentials a little bit. Your children are not your source of life. Don't find your strength from them. You're like, oh, no, my kids. Fill me up. Yeah, give it a while. You will find out nothing sucks the life out of you. Faster than a. How about this one? Oh, let's keep going there since we're having so much fun.

[Audience Member]

Oh, a binky.

[Ted Cunningham]

No, you did not give your daughter a binky. We did till she was two and a half. Sure, she can't pronounce her S's, but she has nailed the other 20, 25 letters. I need you to know that she's got them down. Let's keep going. How about this?

[Audience Member]

The family bed. I hear people get online debating everything. Oh, you shouldn't do this. I'm for eradicating the kids centered home.

[Ted Cunningham]

But I want to explain something right now to every mom in here, and this is serious. This is not a punchline right here. You are under no obligation to explain or defend your parenting choices.

[Audience Member]

None.

[Ted Cunningham]

I'm over there.

[Audience Member]

I hate all my Facebook friends. I hate them all. They're all of their father, the devil and children of darkness. I can't stand them. Do you have the family bed? And somebody goes, oh, it's got. Now look at all those kids. The dog, the cat. I have no idea how they had so many kids.

[Ted Cunningham]

But.

[Audience Member]

If that's your choice, no one's.

[Ted Cunningham]

Here to tell you otherwise. Oh, then this one stresses parents out the school picture, right? What school?

[Audience Member]

Public? Private home?

[Ted Cunningham]

Christian, you're under no obligation to explain or defend your choices. The bus. I'm seeing parents today stress over the bus.

[Audience Member]

Do we send our kids on the bus? I grew up on the bus. How many of you grew up on a bus? Those of you stressing about this decision.

[Ted Cunningham]

Right now, I want you to look around. I do. Because I'm gonna ask this question you're.

[Audience Member]

Gonna be shocked at.

[Ted Cunningham]

How many hands go up? How many of you remember back in the day, bus drivers kicking unruly kids off the bus in the middle of the route? I'm in Minnesota now.

[Audience Member]

It's 10 below zero. Get off the bus. We did, though. If you met, listen, the bus driver would drop you off a mile and a half from home. I grew up in the cornfields of Illinois. I remember getting dropped off, and you'd see our line going through the corn fields to get home. So long as you stayed out in front of the combine, you were fine.

[Ted Cunningham]

But we all survived.

[Jim Daly]

This is Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, and we're listening to Pastor Ted Cunningham. And you can find more ways to look for the humor in life with his book A Love that Lighten up, cut loose, and enjoy life together. We'll send that book to you for a monthly pledge or one time gift of any amount to support the ministry. Donate and request the [e-mail] Broadcast or donate over the phone when you call 800, the letter A in the Word family. 800-232-6459. When you're online, look for the Focus on the Family comedy collection. Three hours of free audio downloads, including this message from Ted. Let's return now to more from Ted Cunningham.

[Audience Member]

How many of you remember when your mom couldn't figure out which of your siblings was at fault so she just.

[Ted Cunningham]

Spanked all of you?

[Audience Member]

How many of you remember that? Yeah, those were good days. How many of you remember when your mom sent you upstairs to wait for your spanking that was worse than the spanking? How many remember when mom sent you upstairs to wait for your spanking, then forgot she sent you upstairs to wait for your spanking? You and your brother are like, do we tell her? Do we need to remind her what we're doing up here? I had a brother, four years old, and me totally stubborn. He'd sit on his side of the bed, oh, dad ain't gonna break me. Mom ain't gonna break me. I'm like, are you kidding?

[Ted Cunningham]

I'm screaming on the backswing.

[Audience Member]

See how quick we can do this?

[Ted Cunningham]

But we've already enjoyed laughter again, understanding that laughter is a barometer of strength.

[Audience Member]

Have you ever gotten to the end.

[Ted Cunningham]

Of the day and you're like, I haven't laughed once today. Is it a sign I need to find a way to laugh or do I need to take a deeper look? What's going on that I'm so stressed, that I'm so focused on all of these, what I'm going to say non essentials, that I need to get back to it. And so I want to just share. I know this seems like a lot, but I think we got time to plow through it. I have a chapter in the book called 38 Benefits of Laughter, and I want to give you 42 of them before we go to lunch. No, I ain't keeping you from lunch, but I'd like to give you 15 of them because Proverbs 17:22 says, A cheerful heart is good medicine. We've been taking that medicine since. Since this day began. I've been laughing since I walked through the doors at 8. I gotta tell you something. Laughter is a great way to know, where am I right now? With strength, with confidence, with hope. It's a great barometer. Number one, laughter is therapy. It's therapy. We've been taking some of this today Pastor Chuck Swindoll says, laugh out loud. It helps flush out the nervous system. Laughter is the most beautiful and beneficial therapy God ever granted humanity. Laugh number two Humor helps us learn and hope opens us up for the truth. I always love telling people, yes, laughter is a medicine, but it also helps other medicines go down. And sometimes I get criticized. You use too much laughter, too much humor when you preach. I said, yeah, but if you just would pay attention while you're laughing, I'm cramming truth down your throat. And I do it Sunday after Sunday.

[Audience Member]

3.

[Ted Cunningham]

Humor helps us cope. A person without a sense of humor is like a wagon without springs. It is jolted by every pebble in the road. Good humor makes all things tolerable. Henry Ward Beecher I love the fourth one. Laughter is free.

[Audience Member]

No memberships, no subscriptions. Number five when we laugh, we breathe.

[Ted Cunningham]

In oxygen rich air. Dr. Sophie Scott, neuroscientist. I've been studying her for the last couple of years. I've been studying her research. That sounded really weird, the way that came out. Laughter is a deep breath, figuratively and literally. When you laugh, your ribcage expands and contracts more rapidly than it does when you breathe or talk. And that leads to the sixth one. Laughing burns calories. I did, just to make a point. When Julia started talking, I looked at my calorie count. By the end of her talk, this is. I was sitting there. We were sitting there. I burned 43 calories during her talk. According to Vanderbilt University, you can shed 40 calories with 10 to 15 minutes of laughter. So laugh and put away the jogging suit. That's what I say. Put away the jogging suit. Number seven. Laughter reduces tension throughout your entire body. Laughter reduces tension throughout your entire body. I love, I do date night comedy events around the country. And I just. My favorite comment to hear when people walk out is, my face hurts or my side hurts. I can't remember the last time we laughed. Three to five laughs per minute and you really are exhausted at the end of the time. If you ever watch comedy specials, that's why they only go an hour and five or an hour and ten minutes. You'll rarely see a comedy show go to an hour and 15 or an hour and 20 because you just don't have any more laughs in you. You're exhausted. That's a good thing, to exhaust yourself with laughter. Here's my favorite one. Number A. Your body can't tell the difference between fake and real laughter. Your mind can, but your body can't.

[Audience Member]

So if you're not feeling it, fake it.

[Ted Cunningham]

So that's an important lesson for wives. Okay.

[Audience Member]

I don't know where your mind just went with that.

[Ted Cunningham]

But I'm talking about laughter.

[Audience Member]

The next time your husband tells a joke that ain't funny, fake it.

[Ted Cunningham]

Go home from this.

[Audience Member]

He says something funny or does something funny, your body is reaping the benefits of that laughter. Let it go.

[Ted Cunningham]

9. Humor grows two people closer together. I heard somebody tell me, I think it was last year. I think live events are on their way out. And I went, what?

[Audience Member]

I said, I don't think because you know what you've been doing, you've been laughing together. You can't when you're in a.

[Ted Cunningham]

You can laugh at something when it's.

[Audience Member]

Just you, but it's not nearly as.

[Ted Cunningham]

Much fun as this and as contagious as this. Like, watch this. I want to show you something. Tickle yourself right now. See if you can make yourself laugh.

[Audience Member]

Yeah, you can't do it. You cannot tickle yourself to make yourself laugh. Now turn to your neighbor. No, don't turn to your neighbor. I knew. No. Hey, ick, ick, ick.

[Ted Cunningham]

Do not turn to your neighbor. I don't even know this woman, but she's with another church. Laughing says, I'm with you. It says, I'm on the same page. I get it. 10. Laughter diffuses social tension and awkwardness. Humor is a great tool to break the ice with strangers and new friends. It's an indicator. It immediately helps us identify other people that get us. This is a big one.

[Audience Member]

11.

[Ted Cunningham]

Big laughter makes you more attractive that online dating sites are trying to figure out how to get this into the algorithm. Besides just the question, do you have a sense of humor? Do you want somebody with a sense of humor? And again, tell the guys in our church, you don't need the looks of Brad Pitt, you don't need the body of the rock, and you don't need the confidence of Tony Stark. Okay, you need a paycheck and a couple of jokes.

[Audience Member]

A paycheck.

[Ted Cunningham]

And laughter is great for relationship and chemistry.

[Audience Member]

12.

[Ted Cunningham]

Laughter humanizes me. Laughter is a shake of the head, acknowledging, I can't believe I just said that. I can't believe I just did that. Ethel Barrymore said, you grow up the day you have your first real laugh at yourself. Pastor Mark Patterson says that the happiest and healthiest people in the world are the people who laugh at themselves the most. You've got to take God seriously, but you can't take yourself seriously. Honestly, I think we are grossly underestimating God's sense of humor. I believe the chief end of man is to glorify God and enjoy him forever. We tend to ignore the second half. Maybe we need to take fun more seriously. 3 more 13 laughter pleases God Randy Alcorn says laughter is not only human, it's explicitly biblical and pleasing to God. It's therefore inconceivable to think that Jesus didn't laugh. Laughter ministers to others. The best way to cheer yourself is to try to cheer someone else up. Mark Twain and it's one of the things I love to do when I go into a hospital. I've visited folks from our church in hospice care and their spouse says, ted, we're so glad you're here. You need to make him laugh. Let's just have fun together. And there have been plenty of people in their final days where we just stood around, we sat around, we told stories and we laughed, enjoying the fellowship of one another. The last one Laughter reminds us of the hope of heaven. I like what Randy Alcorn says. Jesus says, blessed are those who weep now for you shall laugh. In context, he's talking about people having great reward in heaven. In other words, he's saying, you will laugh in heaven. Surely Jesus will join in in the laughter and be a source of much of it. And when Jesus laughs, it's always the laughter of both God and man. One of the criticisms our church receives in Branson and one of the reasons people will say they stay away from our church is because there's too many people and too much laughter. To which we say, you're probably not going to like heaven. Heaven's going to be a pretty rough place for you. Martin Luther actually put it this way. If they don't allow laughter in heaven, then I don't want to go there. If the earth is fit for laughter, then surely heaven is filled with it. Heaven is the birthplace of laughter. If I can just encourage you with this last image. It's on my phone. It's my alarm. Section 3:40 was to get to Minnesota, but 5:22 in military time, 17:22, which is a reminder of Proverbs 17:22. Let that alarm go off and just ask yourself the question, did I even laugh today? How much laughter? What was my conflict to laughter ratio? AW Tozer said, the people of God ought to be the happiest people in all the wide world. The Christian owes it to the world to be supernaturally joyful. Philippians 4:4. Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again, rejoice. Thank you, Sparkle, for allowing me to share a little bit with you this morning. Love you all very much.

[Jim Daly]

Ted Cunningham on today's episode of Focus on the Family. With Mother's Day coming up on Sunday, I'd say this message was well timed, don't you think? Jim?

[John Pulley]

That is great timing and we want to wish all the moms in our audience a happy and blessed Mother's Day. Moms, you really are special. And you know, I have a lot of great memories of my mom, even though I lost her when I was only nine. And I especially remember her great sense of humor. She really loved to laugh and it just lifted the entire family. It makes me smile just thinking about that. And as Ted pointed out, laughter is something that we all need in our lives. And I'd encourage you to get a copy of his book A Love that Laughs, published by Focus on the Family. When you request a copy through us, rest assured that the proceeds are going into ministry, not the pockets of shareholders. And please consider supporting us with a monthly gift. Gene and I do that with the ministry. It doesn't have to be a big amount. It's the consistency that really helps us. Month to month, join us as we provide resources to strengthen marriages, empower parents and protect preborn children. And when you make a monthly pledge of any amount, we'll send you a copy of A Love that Laughs as our way of saying thank you. And if you can't make a monthly commitment right now, we understand we can also send you the book for a one time gift of any amount. Simply get in touch with us today.

[Jim Daly]

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[Dr. Gregory Jantz]

Burnout and we won't do it perfectly. But we're going to keep growing and we're going to keep going forward and we're going to live with that passion and purpose that God has given us. And we can do that without being burned out.

[Jim Daly]

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