How to Answer Challenges to Your Faith (Part 1 of 2)

Summary

Podcast Summary: Focus on the Family with Jim Daly

Episode: How to Answer Challenges to Your Faith (Part 1 of 2)

Date: March 17, 2026

Host: Jim Daly (with John Fuller)
Guest: Greg Koukl

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Overview

In this episode, Jim Daly and John Fuller welcome guest Greg Koukl, Christian apologist and founder of Stand to Reason. They explore why many believers struggle to share their faith, the importance of equipping oneself with knowledge and a gracious approach, and the practical power of asking questions—modeled on Jesus and the fictional detective Columbo—to effectively engage others in faith conversations. Koukl shares both philosophical fundamentals and real-life stories, encouraging listeners to step into "the garden" of spiritual conversation, focusing on sowing seeds rather than always seeking to reap immediate conversion.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. The Challenge of Sharing Faith

• Many Christians feel uncomfortable or ill-equipped to discuss their faith, especially in a culture increasingly hostile to Christian beliefs.
• Greg Koukl empathizes with this discomfort but emphasizes that "we have the message that saves the world" ([02:49]).
• The focus shouldn't be on “winning” an argument but on graciously presenting evidence and letting God handle the outcomes ([04:30]).

2. The Biblical Model—Training and Trust

• Jesus, when sending out His disciples, prepared them for opposition and fear, training them before entrusting them to the power of the Holy Spirit ([04:49]).
• Effective sharing requires both reliance on God and personal preparation.

3. The Value of Christianity Being Falsifiable

• Koukl points out, “There are a lot of ways to show that Christianity is false… and that's a good thing," because it makes Christianity open to verification ([06:12]).
• Faith is not blind: biblical faith is trust based on evidence, such as the Gospel of John's recording of miracles and the purpose behind them ([07:53]).

4. Sowing vs. Reaping—Redefining Success

• “In 30 years, you’ve never led someone to Christ?”—Koukl explains he considers himself a “gardener” (sowing and nurturing) rather than a “harvester” (leading to conversion) ([09:33]).
• He cites John 4 where Jesus distinguishes between those who sow and those who reap, arguing that most Christians are “gardeners”: “That’s where the work is done for harvest to take place” ([10:46]).
• The standard “closing the deal” approach often paralyzes Christians from engaging at all ([11:58]).

5. The Power of Asking Questions

• Model taken from “Columbo,” the TV detective: asking simple, sincere questions to clarify others’ beliefs and gently challenge inconsistencies ([12:31]).
• Questions keep the conversation in the “shallow end of the pool” and lower the risk of confrontation or defensiveness ([13:46]).
• “Questions keep you safe. And they are powerful for use by God to make an impact in people's lives.” ([13:46])

6. Jesus’ Method—Respond to the Person, Not a Script

• Jesus and Paul rarely “closed the deal” in conversations; instead, they responded to the unique needs and situations of each individual ([14:45]).
• Christians should do the same: “Conduct yourselves with wisdom toward outsiders… so that you know how to respond to each person” ([14:53] – referencing Colossians 4).

7. Practical Example: Waitress in Seattle

• Even when not in the mood, Koukl defaulted to asking clarifying questions (e.g., "Why is that great?" when the waitress said it was great he was preaching).
• Through gentle questioning (“Is the universe a person?”), he helped her reflect on her views: “No one has ever asked me questions about my view before, and it got me thinking” ([18:25]).
• Koukl’s takeaway: “I just want to put a stone in their shoe. I just want to get them thinking.” ([19:42])

8. Lies, Deception, and the Spiritual Dimension

• The real challenge lies in spiritual deception: “Our battle is not against flesh and blood… but forces of wickedness in heavenly places” ([20:22]).
• Satan blinds people through lies, such as “there is no truth,” which self-destructs upon examination ([21:40]).
• Christians should be aware “there are schemes going on and lies we see everywhere,” and counter them with gracious questioning.

9. Combatting Feelings of Defeat

• It's common for Christians to feel defeated after deep conversations, but God can use even “mustard seeds” ([24:02]).
• The key is to get a bit more education and practice, and to trust the process: “If Christians want to make a bigger impact, they need to get a little bit more education… and about some method… and when they do that, they… won’t feel so defeated…” ([24:40])

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• Greg Koukl:

  • "We have the message that saves the world. The only message. I mean, that's a pretty good start, right?" ([02:49])
  • "The winning of the battle is on God's side of the equation. It's not on ours." ([04:30])
  • "If a view is falsifiable, it's verifiable." ([06:45])
  • "I haven't prayed with someone to receive Christ in at least 30 years. …I’ve never been more effective for the cause of Christ than I have in the last 30 years." ([09:33])
  • "Questions keep you safe. …They are powerful for use by God to make an impact in people's lives." ([13:46])
  • "You almost never see [Jesus or Paul] trying to close the deal. …You’re listening to them talk. You're getting to know that individual, and that's powerful in people's lives." ([15:53])
  • "[To the waitress:] No one has ever asked me questions about my view before, and it got me thinking." ([18:25])
  • "I just want to put a stone in their shoe. I just want to get them thinking." ([19:42])
  • "Our job then is to go in graciously… maneuver graciously with questions." ([22:30])
  • "If you don’t do it, it don’t work." ([25:07])

• Jim Daly:

  • "It's normal." (on discomfort in faith conversations, [03:14])
  • "There's a preponderance of evidence that Jesus is who he said he was." ([09:13])
  • "How do we get away from that scoreboard mentality and just trust that God will use what you've done?... Your little mustard seed is sufficient?" ([24:02])

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Important Timestamps

| Time | Segment/Topic | |:-----|:-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------| | 02:49| The challenge and calling to share faith | | 04:30| Reframing “winning” in faith conversations; reliance on God | | 06:12| Christianity’s ability to be questioned and its falsifiability | | 07:53| Faith and evidence—biblical support for faith grounded in reason | | 09:33| Sowing, reaping, and the role of “gardeners” in evangelism | | 12:31| The “Columbo Tactic”—progressing conversations with questions | | 14:45| Jesus’ and Paul’s example: tailored responses, not canned messages | | 16:12| Waitress story: practicing the questioning approach in a real-life setting | | 20:22| The role of lies and spiritual blindness in cultural resistance to Christianity | | 24:02| Overcoming a defeatist mentality and the importance of regular practice and education |

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Tone and Language

The conversation is approachable, compassionate, gently humorous, and encouraging—sensitive to both the evangelistic responsibility and the emotional challenges Christians face in sharing their faith. Greg Koukl offers practical steps and relatable anecdotes, maintaining a friendly and non-confrontational tone throughout.

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Conclusion & Next Steps

The episode concludes with encouragement for listeners to see themselves as active “gardeners” in spiritual conversations, equipping themselves with wise questions and a steady trust in God’s ultimate role in the process. In the next episode, the discussion will continue with a focus on specific cultural topics and practical dialogues—including abortion—to further equip Christians for real-world conversations.

Listeners are encouraged to:

• Get a copy of Greg Koukl’s “Street Smarts” for practical help.
• Start practicing asking questions in daily faith interactions.
• Trust that every small conversation can be used by God, even if it doesn’t lead immediately to conversion.

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Transcript

[Greg Koukl]

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[John Fuller]

That's Greg Koukl, and he's our guest today on Focus on Family with Jim Daly. Thanks for joining us. I'm John Fuller.

[Jim Daly]

John as believers, we're called to share the message of Christ. That's the great commission, to go and tell people about Jesus. And some people struggle with that because maybe their temperament isn't built in such a way that they're easily engaging people. You might say extrovert, introvert. I don't know that that always applies. But it's just some of the wiring that we have. We're either comfortable or we're not comfortable in talking to people who don't know the Lord. We call it being a witness. There's going to be non Christians listening. So that just really means to profess our faith in Christ to people who don't know about Christ. And it's that simple. The key is being prepared. And I'm excited to talk to our guests today because I think this will really help equip, especially those that may be floundering a little bit when it comes to sharing their faith. They don't feel equipped enough or confident enough to do it. And the best thing about our guest, Greg Koukl is doing it with a good heart. And I love that emphasis that he has.

[John Fuller]

Yeah, he's really eager to share faith, but not in a way that is overwhelming. And you'll hear more from Greg here in just a moment. He's an apologist. He's the founder of the ministry called Stand to Reason. He hosts a radio show and podcast. He's written a number of books, and he has a new one out called Street Smarts, using questions to answer Christianity's toughest Challenges.

[Jim Daly]

Greg, welcome back.

[Greg Koukl]

Hey, it's good to be with you gentlemen. It's always a treat for me.

[Jim Daly]

It's good to see you.

[Greg Koukl]

Thank you.

[Jim Daly]

Let's start with that opening idea. You know, there is that hesitation or the lack of comfortableness in doing this, talking to someone else about the faith. Why is it important for us to do this?

[Greg Koukl]

Well, we have the message that saves the world. The only message. I mean, that's a pretty good start, right? But I am very sympathetic to people who are reluctant to engage. You mentioned a moment ago that some are foundering a little bit. I think most Christians find engaging on controversial issues a bit discomforting. And I'm the same way.

[Jim Daly]

It's normal.

[Greg Koukl]

It's very normal. And in street smarts, I start out with this concept. Even someone like myself finds it difficult to engage. And so this is why finding ways to do so effectively is so important, even for a guy like me. Because the message that we have is so important. And I have never seen a time when the culture was so aggressively against virtually everything Christian. Every piece of the story of reality, the Christian worldview is being opposed in every sector right now, which means Christians are pretty hard pressed and they need a way to engage productively and graciously, get off the bench and get into pleasant conversations that matter.

[Jim Daly]

You know, oftentimes when I'm in conversations with folks, they'll mention that engagement piece, the idea that, you know, it can be uncomfortable because people are so aggressive. You know, they really hate what we have to share, coach that person. I think sometimes we go into those engagements thinking this is some kind of a battle that we have to win. And you really have to mentally prepare yourself and emotionally prepare yourself to say, this isn't a battle we need to win. We just need to put the evidence out there.

[Greg Koukl]

Yeah, that's a great distinction. The winning of the battle is on God's side of the equation. It's not an art. But think about Matthew 10, when Jesus sent the apostles out in their short term mission kind of enterprise. There are three times within about seven sentences where Jesus says, fear not, fear not, fear not. Now why did he say that?

[Jim Daly]

Because we were fearful.

[Greg Koukl]

Well, not only were they fearful, but there was something to fear. He goes on to tell them, you know, it's going to be rough out there, you know, and you're going to get persecuted for the truth, okay? But he told them that to prepare them, okay? And then he said, you got an ally in the Holy Spirit, okay, He's going to help you. But notice he didn't say that at the beginning of his training. Well, you got the Holy Spirit. That's all you need. At the beginning of this training, he said, I will make you fishers of men. And then after a year or so of working with them and training them so they had what they needed to face the challenges, then he began sending them out saying, trust in the Holy Spirit. So it's the Holy Spirit doing the Holy Spirit's work with the things that we have been able to learn as followers of Christ about the culture, about the issues, and that combination is what's going to make the difference. And this is why I wrote Street Smarts, to give that information, to do the training, so to speak, so people can take the message out.

[Jim Daly]

Yeah. And Greg, that's what I'm excited about, because the rest of this program and next time we're going to cover that and you are going to help to begin that equipping. And then hopefully folks will get a copy of the book and dig deeper into the content. Let's get into it. I was struck by the fact that you say it's a good thing that Christianity can be questioned and even considered to be unreliable. At first I was going, what? What are you saying, Greg? But I get it. Explain it.

[Greg Koukl]

Yeah. Well, I tell audiences that the fact is there are a lot of ways to show that Christianity is false. Now, they don't expect me to say that, obviously, but when you think about it, our story starts in the beginning. God. If there's no God, there's no story. We're Christians. We're followers of Jesus. If Jesus didn't exist and there's a big movement to try to say that nowadays, well, then we don't get off the ground either. Or if he's not the person that the texts, the gospels say he is, then we're in trouble. If there is no soul, there's nothing to survive the death of the body, no heaven or hell. You know, Paul said that if Jesus didn't rise from the dead, people should pity us. So the point is, in principle, there are lots of ways that Christianity is actually falsifiable. Now, this isn't a bad thing, it's a good thing. Because if a view is falsifiable, it's verifiable. In other words, it can be shown to be true if it can be shown to be false. And of course, this is what people like I do, apologists, and you've had a number of them on recently. We give the reasons why God exists. Jesus existed and he was the person recorded in the Gospels. We talk about existence of the soul, we talk about the resurrection. We give all of those rationales to give evidence that God and the world is the way the Scriptures describe.

[Jim Daly]

You know, Greg, one thing that I've encountered is this idea that God built this on faith. He wants faith to be the demonstration that you believe. So I think it's very purposeful that you're not going to find this concreteness. It's not going to be like gravity, because he himself wants to see that you have faith in Him.

[Greg Koukl]

Okay, let me speak to this because it's really important. Sometimes we can get the faith thing separated from the content or the evidence. I want you to. And the two actually scripturally go together. So if you think about the end of the Gospel of John, John tells us why he wrote the Gospel. He said, many other signs and wonders God has performed or Jesus performed that are not written in this book. Seven miracles there in the Gospel of John, he said, but these have been included in order that you would know that Jesus is the Messiah, the Son of God, and have faith in him, get eternal life through that. So in other words, he's connecting faith in Christ and eternal life with the evidence that's being given. So there is not a leap of faith the way a lot of the atheists claim. Right now there is a step of trust based on good reason. Okay. Now it can all be gainsayed. People can find all kinds of problems with it and say, no, that didn't happen. Here's the reasons why. So there is room for doubt. But there's plenty and plenty of evidence. Many convincing proofs is the way Luke put it in the beginning of Acts.

[Jim Daly]

Well, and in a court of law, the preponderance of evidence in some of the cases are what is required to meet the test. And I would say that's what Christianity,

[Greg Koukl]

way over the top with Christianity.

[Jim Daly]

There's a preponderance of evidence that Jesus is who he said he was.

[Greg Koukl]

That's right.

[Jim Daly]

And they captured only a few of the miracles that he did and give us that insight.

[Greg Koukl]

John said the whole books of the world couldn't hold all that Jesus did.

[Jim Daly]

Right, Right. Let me move to another kind of what kind of question, which is in 30 years, you've never actually been the one to lead someone to Christ.

[Greg Koukl]

Yeah, that's another one that shocks audiences. But I haven't prayed with someone to receive Christ in at least 30 years.

[Jim Daly]

So you're the tiller and the waterer.

[Greg Koukl]

Well, yeah.

[Jim Daly]

Not the reaper, the harvester.

[Greg Koukl]

That's right. And so this is to shock people into considering another concept, because I also tell them that I've never been more effective for the cause of Christ than I have in the last 30 years. And that's because of a concept that I laid hold of that is thoroughly biblical, and that is that there's a difference between harvesting and. And what I call gardening. Jesus talks about those who sow and those who reap. It's in John 4. And he tells the disciples, you're about to reap where you did not sow. This is after his conversation with the woman at the well. Right. In other words, somebody else did the heavy lifting and they get the easy pickings. But Jesus identifies there one field sychar. But he also identifies two seasons, sowing and reaping, gardening and harvesting, the way I put it. And two kinds of workers, gardeners and harvesters, sowers and reapers. And the problem, what I discovered is as I looked at my life, I'm actually not a reaper, I'm not a harvester, I'm a gardener. And the things that I do and the writing, the books and when I'm on campus, spoken to more than 80 university campuses around the country. And what am I doing? I'm gardening, gardening, gardening. And then I'm trusting God to bring the harvest in when it's ready. Here's my not only do I think I'm a gardener, but I also think most Christians are gardeners because that's where the work is done for harvest to take place. But the methods that we have for evangelism are always harvesting methods. There it is, the last page. Do you want to pray to receive Christ? Sign on the dotted line, that kind of thing. And when people, Christians consider that motif in a hostile environment, they stay on the bench. They're not going to get engaged. Okay? So what I'm trying to do is provide a means, a toolkit, so to speak, of gardening effectively and let God worry about the harvest when the harvest comes in.

[Jim Daly]

It's good to know you're bent in that regard. I think I saw a statistic based on research where it's 12 harvesting touches before a person accepts Christ. Now, I don't know how they did the research, but that proves your point.

[Greg Koukl]

But it makes preaching.

[Jim Daly]

It's like a 12 to 1 ratio.

[Greg Koukl]

Absolutely. And maybe even more than that in the culture now.

[Jim Daly]

And that certainly was true of me, my Christian football coaches in high school, that made an impression on me. I wasn't there in the immediate moment, it took time for me to be harvested, if I could say it that way. So I totally get that. And I'm sure that's true of everybody's experience in coming to Christ. Your method of debating someone with opposing views is to ask questions. Now, again, people are saying, well, yeah, I've read the scripture. That's what Jesus did, too. Explain that methodology.

[Greg Koukl]

Well, I took my cue from an old TV guy named Columbo, and a lot of folks remember him, Lieutenant Columbo, because he.

[Jim Daly]

The detective.

[Greg Koukl]

The detective, right. He would come in kind of under the radar, scratching his head, kind of feeling like, you think he doesn't know what he's doing. Right. But he's stupid like a fox, because he's got a plan. And his plan is to ask these questions. And the questions that he asks are inconsequential at first. He's just kind of generally gathering information. But what he's doing is he building a case. Little by little by little, this information, okay? And I found that this to be the absolutely hands down most effective way to move forward in a conversation, be effective for the cause of Christ, and still stay safe yourself. My comment is there's a chapter in the book called questions keep you safe. You're in the. For a number of reasons, but you're in the shallow end of the pool. What am I trying to do? I'm trying to get Christians off the bench and into the garden so they can do some gardening with a very simple but powerful technique, which is all explained in the book, of course. But that's the key there. Questions. Questions keep you safe. And they are powerful for use by God to make an impact in people's lives.

[Jim Daly]

How, if you're a closer, if I could use that example, if you're the closer mentality, you actually could do some damage. If the fruit's not ripe, you're picking the fruit too early. So how do you. If that is who you are and again, know who you are, how do you back up a bit and say, okay, it's not futile to ask questions? Because I think that personality type is like, why would I waste time asking questions? The only question that counts is, do you know Jesus?

[Greg Koukl]

Do you want to receive him? Or something like that? But that isn't the way Jesus approached it. Okay? And so when I look at the Gospels, I see Jesus doing something entirely different than a lot of us do in our culture right now. We jump in with the good news and we explain the good news and we say something about sin. Occasionally and then we invite people to receive Christ. But Jesus didn't get to the good news very often at all. A lot of times he spent time with the bad news. Look at the Sermon on the Mount, you know, I mean, there's a lot of bad news. In that first chapter.

[Jim Daly]

There is the woman at the well. I'm smiling because he was like, woman, I'm in front of you.

[Greg Koukl]

It's me. Yes, but notice that after he had talked to her about the whole life. You've had five husbands and the one you're living with now, this doesn't mean we got to jump right in on top of people and talk about sin. The point is, what Jesus was doing, and we saw with Paul, is you almost never see them trying to close the deal, inviting people to receive Christ, having an altar call. Those aren't in the New Testament. What do you see them doing? Responding to the need of the moment and the individual circumstance with the person. Paul said in Colossians 4, Conduct yourselves with wisdom toward outsiders, making the most of the opportunity. Let your words be with grace, seasoned, as it were, with salt. I mean, that's pretty cool, right? And then he says, so that you know how to respond to each person. And this is the key with a tactical approach using questions. It allows you to focus right on the individual. You're not just bringing a generalized cookie cutter thing and dumping it on them. You're listening to them talk. You're getting to know that individual, and that's powerful in people's lives.

[Jim Daly]

Greg, we've talked about the theoretical here. Now let's get down to some practical examples that you have. One is with a waitress in Seattle. I love that. You know, oftentimes I've been with people and I've done this a couple times. You know, we're about to pray over our meal. Can we pray for something for you? That's a nice way to get that out there. But what happened with this waitress in Seattle? Okay.

[Greg Koukl]

One of the advantages of asking questions is it gets you going in a simple way. And what a lot of people don't realize is just asking simple questions is going to also make an impact, even though not preaching the gospel. So here I am in Seattle. I did apologetics event on Friday night and all day Saturday. I wasn't the only speaker, but I worked really hard that Sunday morning. I had to preach in a church. And so I'm dragging my roller bag out of the hotel into the cafe on my way out. I'm just going to get some coffee to wake Up. And the subtext here is, I'm not a morning person, all right? I quit before my first cup of coffee. I'm an atheist, right? So I do, honest to goodness, I do not want to talk to anybody about Jesus.

[Jim Daly]

I kind of know that feeling from time to time.

[Greg Koukl]

I don't want to talk about God. I don't want to talk, okay? And this waitress comes up to the table, and she is way too energetic for that time of the day for me. Hi, good morning. And doing all. What are you doing here in Seattle? Oh, goodness. So I figured I'd get rid of her. I'm going to preach in a church in two hours. Oh, I thought she'd be scurrying then. Oh, that's great. And I think, why is that great? I said, are you a Christian? And she said, no, I used to be a Christian, but I'm not, by the way. Notice that I'm asking a question. I'm confused by her response. So I just ask a question, all right? And that's the Colombo tactic. And the first question is, what do you mean by that? That's the general question. And here I am asking, why is that great? Which is Colombo. I'm not trying to witness. I'm just trying to figure out what she's talking about. And she said, no, I'm no longer a Christian. Now the universe takes care of me. And I'm thinking, huh, you know, what does that mean? So I asked her, how could the universe take care of me? Is the universe a person? She goes, no, it's not a person. Well, then how can I take care of you? And that made her think. And then she says, well, God takes care of me. Oh, okay, that makes sense. Then she says, God is the universe. And I'm thinking, huh, you know, kind of. But I didn't say that. I'm being polite to her, and I'm trying to figure out what she means. Now, notice I am not trying to witness, Right? I don't want to witness.

[Jim Daly]

You're trying to figure it out.

[Greg Koukl]

It's my inner Columbo that's just coming out, you know, with simple questions of clarification and try to figure out what she's talking about. So I asked her some more questions. I didn't have the slightest impact, or so it seemed, on her frame of mind. She was completely comfortable with. With her New Age thing. And then she trots off and brings my order. And then when she brings my check, and this is the key, she says to me, no one has ever asked me questions about my view before, and it got me thinking, which is exactly what the Colombo tactic is meant to do. And I said, well, if I had more time, you know, I could ask you more questions and you could do more thinking. You know, I was kidding with her. It turned out I did have a copy of the story Reality in my bag, which we've talked about here. And so I gave her the copy. So I left something behind for her. But here's the takeaway. I didn't want to witness. I didn't want to get involved in a conversation. I didn't want to talk at all. But I couldn't help myself in this conversation, just asking a couple of clarification questions. And it turned out God used that in her life to get her thinking about her own view. And, of course, that's all I want to do. That's my goal. It isn't to close the deal. I'm not swinging for the fences. I just want to put a stone in their shoe. I just want to get them thinking. And that's all the time I had

[Jim Daly]

for, no, that's really good.

[Greg Koukl]

And now she's in God's hands.

[Jim Daly]

Let me ask you, this Colombo approach. I love it. And we've mentioned that before, you and I, because I fell into it talking to people in D.C. i kind of use that same approach. I'm not an attorney. I could meet with Supreme Court justices and others and go, you know, I don't know much about this, but where do these rights derive from? And then they are very professoral or fatherly, even with me to say, well, Jim, this is how it happens. Which is great, giving me a little tutorial. But you also, in the book, mention how lies and deception play into all this. And I'm not talking about DC Directly, not being linked those two, but generally, how do lies and deception play into these conversations?

[Greg Koukl]

Well, this is more backstory for us as followers of Christ. Okay. And I talk about the spiritual battle in the street. As Paul says in Ephesians 6, our battle is not against flesh and blood. I mean, those are the points of contact and confrontation. But the real battle is in the spiritual arena of forces of wickedness in heavenly places. And when you look at the Scriptures and it talks about the Devil, it says over and over again, the whole world lies in the power of the evil one. He's blind in the eyes of the unbelieving. You know, they can't see Christ because of the blinding that he's done. And so what the Devil does is he blinds People from the truth by telling them lies. Okay? And Jesus said, the devil is the father of lies. He lies from his nature. So we take this insight then, and we go to the culture and it helps inform us that there are schemes going on and lies we see everywhere. And we see them and they're obvious. A person says there is no truth. I mean, my quick response is, really, is that true? I mean, it almost seems glib to say it, but I try to weave it in with some other things. But the point I'm making is this is obviously false, but people think this all over the place.

[Jim Daly]

Well, you gotta slow down a minute there. Cause people need to hear what you said when somebody said there is no truth. And that's the truth.

[Greg Koukl]

Yes.

[Jim Daly]

They're claiming a truth claim.

[Greg Koukl]

So last weekend I was giving a talk in a church in Denver and a woman came up to me and she said her daughter went to university. And the professor told the class that there is no truth. Okay? Now, I said she should ask for her money back, you know, kind of thing. But think of this. When somebody says that to you, I ask them, what am I supposed to take away from this? I think you want me to believe you. I think you want me to affirm it. I think you want me to think you're right in what you say. But the minute I try to do that, I'm being told by you that I can't do that. I can't believe what you said is true because there is none of that stuff. Now, the point I'm making here is this is a. That a lot of people talk. People should know better. And it's obviously false. But they don't see it, right? Why don't they see it? Because they have been blinded by the devil. All right, you talk about the gender issue right now, the gender issue. It's hard to believe what's happening in our country on the gender issue. Yet. Why can't people see reality in this regard? Okay? And the reason is, is because there is a scheme that blinds the world to what is obviously, so Christians can see it. Okay? The world doesn't. So our job then is to go in graciously understanding. The enemy is up there or out there. He's the devil. The schemes. We see the schemes and then we maneuver graciously with questions. This is what I found to be the most effective. And in the book, I have lots of examples of specific questions for specific issues in order to help them to see trusting that God will take the truth that we're communicating to them and open. Open their eyes.

[Jim Daly]

Yeah. And that is so good. And I think that's one of the difficulties we're in right now in our country particularly, is that the truth divide is getting bigger. You cannot say, this is a hand. Well, you may say it's a hand, but I think it's a foot.

[Greg Koukl]

That's right.

[Jim Daly]

Right. And that's going to create great difficulty or bigger challenges for us to talk to nonbelievers. That's right, because it's going to be harder to.

[Greg Koukl]

And you can't parody this stuff. You just gave a little parody down the line. Six weeks from now, somebody's going to be doing that, and they're going to have a website all about it. That's what's so crazy.

[Jim Daly]

And followers.

[Greg Koukl]

And followers.

[Jim Daly]

So in that context, right at the end here, one of the obvious questions is, as a Christian, trying to equip him or herself to be able to do these things, what if they're consistently feeling defeated? Even when you say, remember, it's not your battle, it's God's battle, but it feels like you're on the arena floor spiritually. And so you walk away from a confrontation feeling like the score was 2114 and I lost the game. How do we get away from that scoreboard mentality and just trust that God will use what you've done? Your little mustard seed is sufficient?

[Greg Koukl]

Well, there's a couple thoughts that come quickly to mind. One of them is you read through scripture and you find these small things that people did ended up being used for great effect in other people's lives. Okay. And I've seen that myself. But part of the difficulty is, look, everybody starts at the beginning. Everybody starts at the beginning. You want to start an engaging culture? Okay, we have the truth. How do we communicate that in a way that makes sense to the people that we're talking to? Well, there's a learning process here. This is why in Street Smarts, I start out with a few chapters that kind of gets people going, and then we talk about specific topics to give insight in the problems. And then once you have insight in the problems, having some dialogue, kind of cues, asking questions to move forward, and then you start to do that. Okay. Now, what I tell people, though, and I did this last weekend at the end of a talk, I said, look, this is a great way to engage, and it's really, really productive. But if you don't do it, it don't work. Okay. What I've tried to do is provide a way of allowing Christians to stay in the shallow end of the pool and still make a difference. But the key is the way we use questions. So. So if Christians want to make a bigger impact, they need to get a little bit more education about the issues themselves and about some method. I offer one, some method that's effective to move forward. And when they do that, they are going to see things change. I promise you they will see things change and they won't feel so defeated, especially when they realize that their viewpoint, their view of reality is actually true. And this is one of the greatest things about Christians apologetics. It helps Christians to face the toughest critic they'll ever face, and that's themselves.

[Jim Daly]

That's good, Greg. This has been so good and there's more to cover. Next time I want to come back and get real specific on the topic of abortion and some of the big cultural topics. Maybe do a little banter with you playing the opposition and we can go through that discussion just to equip people again on how to answer these questions and be engaged. But boy, for the listener, for the viewer, this is a must read. I mean, these, I don't know, maybe it's just me. I think I'm an evangelist at heart. So I get excited about this kind of equipping. It doesn't intimidate me. I'm hungry for it. And if you're in that spot, or maybe you're thinking maybe I could be in that spot, give us a call, go to the website, get a copy of Greg's book. If you can join us in ministry and help us monthly, we'll send you a copy of the book as our way of saying thank you for being in and helping other families. If you can only make a one time gift, we'll send you the book to say thank you. The bottom line is get a copy of this book and begin that great challenge. And I like to think of it that way of being equipped to ask the questions and answering some questions that people that don't know the Lord are going to deeply benefit with.

[John Fuller]

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[Jim Daly]

Live your truth. A lot of people say that, don't they? But truth isn't something we decide. God has decided it for us, and it's our job as believers to share his truth with a world in need. I'll encourage you to do that through my podcast, Refocus with Jim Daly. I visit with fascinating guests about important topics like gender confusion, cancel culture, and more, while helping you share God's love with others. [e-mail].