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Hello. Welcome to Follow Him. Favorites. This is where John and I are sharing a single story to go with each week's lesson. John, we're in section 45 this week, and I have a story that I think fits really well with verses 34 and 35. The Lord says he's talking about the second coming, and he seems to know that people are going to be scared and nervous and frustrated. He says, this is what I told my disciples, and I'm going to tell it to you, too. Be not troubled, for when these things shall come to pass, you may know that the promises which have been made unto you shall be fulfilled. He says it over and over in the section. Listen to me. Hearken to me. Hearken, O ye people. Over and over, he's saying, just trust me. So here's my story. John, I think you know this, that I grew up the son of a golf professional. I don't know if you've ever forced your hobbies on your kids, but that's all we did, it seemed, was golf growing up. I grew up in St. George. It was quite hot a lot. But my dad still wanted to go golf, and he tried to teach us life's lessons in golf. There's one time it's just him and me, we're playing this par five on the back nine at Southgate Golf Course. I don't even know if the hole is still there. It's this really long hole. But, John, you golf a little bit on a par five. If you can get to the green in three, you have a chance for a birdie.
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Putt to two putt. Yeah.
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No, not to two putt to one putt.
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You can one putt, two putt to par, one putt. Yeah.
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This is a chance to get a birdie on a par 5. The problem is on this green is there's this big hill in the middle of the green, usually the cup, where you're gonna try to putt. The ball was down below, and the one place you didn't wanna be was up above it because there was a hill there. If you land above it, it's impossible to put it into the cup because it's just gonna pass it because it's on this hill, this big hill. So I hit it up on the green in three, and you got to climb up there to see where you landed it. And I landed it right on the edge of the hill. I know what's going to happen is I'm going to put this ball, it's going to hit this downward hill, and Just fly off the front. It does it every single time. I sat there and I looked at it, I thought maybe if I just tap it. It doesn't matter. The hill is so steep, the ball would just pick up speed. I swear it's going like 40 miles an hour by the time it flies down past the hole. And you know, John, you've seen golf balls defy the laws of physics. They go right over the top of the hole. Yeah, I was right on. It just went right over the top, like there was a piece of glass or something over the hole. So I stand up there to putt, and my dad, who's a golf professional, he said, what are you gonna do? And I said, well, I'm gonna tap it down the hill. And he said, well, you know that's not gonna work. And I said, I know, but what else am I gonna do as the golf professional? He said, here, do this. And he looked at the green as if he was studying it for something, studying all this grass. He said, here's what I want you to do. He walked away from the hole, and he put his foot down, and he said, I want you to hit the ball right here, right to my foot. And John, it was away from the hole. I'm like, okay, that'll work. Are you kidding? That's the wrong way. We went back and forth. He said, no, this is better. And I said, dad, at least this way the ball's going towards the hole. And he went, no, no, listen to me. And I'm like, dad, I'm not going to do this. And then he stopped me. John, I still remember this. He stopped me and he said, hey, who do you think knows more about this, me or you?
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Do I have to answer?
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Yeah, I think I was 15 at the time. And I said, well, you know, he had golfed for something like 60 years, as professionally I had been golfing for, never really professionally. And I said, I think we're about equal, right? He laughed and he said, just trust me. I promise you, I know more about this than you do. I said, okay. So I thought, well, what do I got to lose? I looked at his foot, which, again, John was a long ways away from the hole. I putted the ball right towards his foot as it's making its way. It's a long ways. It's a good 15, 20ft to his foot. But I hit it really well. And the ball headed right to his foot. And just about as it was getting to his toe. It didn't touch his toe. It turned John and It turned back towards the hole because of the slope of the ground, which my dad understood because he was the professional. I didn't understand. It's called the lie. I think of the green, anyway, John, it turns all the way around, and it's now going back towards the hole, like in front of me. I'm watching this ball go back in front of me. It's slowing down, it's slowing down and it's turning and it's turning and it gets right to the edge of the hole and sits there for a second and drops in. And John, I went crazy. I threw my hands in the air, I ran around the green, I got the putter above me. Woohoo. And I look over and my dad is running around the back of the green with his hands up. And we on all the way around the green, and we meet right where I had been standing. We hug and we laugh. And my dad says, that is the greatest putt I have ever seen in my life. And I said, well, you're the one that told me to do it. And he said, yeah, but I didn't think you'd make it. We celebrated, and it was really hot outside. There wasn't anybody else playing. So we got to, John, I don't know if you've ever done this, but we got to go over it and over it and over it. And then we did this and we did that. You're gonna have to see it one day in the Tapes of Heaven, because it is going to be in the top 10 golf play.
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I want to see it of all time.
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If Heavenly Father has the top 10 golf plays ever, it's going to be this random little kid in St. George, Utah. John now fast forward to 2021. My father's getting older. He had had a stroke. He had cancer. But we had just been to the doctor on a Monday, and the doctor gave us really good news. He said, hey, you're responding really well to my dad, to the immunotherapy, his treatment. The doctor said, I don't think I'm going to need to see you for at least four months. And we thought, oh, good. John. It was just three days later that I got the phone call that my father had passed away in the night. He had fallen asleep and passed away. He did have cancer, and he was a little older. But I felt really kind of upset that we had gotten all that good news on Monday. John, I know you're not like this, but I said a little bit of a prayer of frustration. I knelt down, I'M starting to take care of everything. The funeral arrangements and trying to help my mom. And I was pretty frustrated. And I knelt down in my bedroom and I told Heavenly Father all the reasons why this was not a good idea. And while the timing was bad, why did I get all this news about this? And I was really not listening very well, but I was doing a lot of talking. You know me well. I am not someone who hears things very often, but I really did hear this, John. In my head. I heard this voice that said, hey, who do you think knows more about this, me or you?
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Wow.
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And I went, well, you know, I do have this big podcast, right? Yeah. And I said, you, of course. Obviously, you know more. The idea was just like my dad on that green. I know more about this. Trust me. I decided to take a deep breath and say, okay. I remember I went into the kitchen and I said to my kids, hey, we need to get ready. We're going to celebrate Grandpa's life this week. And kind of accepted the fact that God knows more about this than I do. It came back to me, John, when I read this verse, section 45, verse 35, be not troubled, for when all these things shall come to pass, you will know that the promises I have made to you have been fulfilled. And I can almost hear at the end of verse 35, so you're gonna have to trust me, John. One day I'm gonna see my dad in the celestial kingdom and we're gonna talk about that golf shot. He'll be so happy to see me. And I'll say, why are you so happy to see me? And I think he's going to say those same things, John, I didn't think you were going to make it right. So.
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That'S good. Oh, ye of little faith.
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Oh, ye of little faith. I made it. I made it. So don't you think, John, we're going to have to trust the Lord?
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Easier said than done. But, yeah, I love that little message. Who do you think knows more about this?
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Episode Title: Best Golf Shot in the World • followHIM Favorites • May 5 - 11 • Come Follow Me
Release Date: May 1, 2025
Hosts: Hank Smith & John Bytheway
In this heartfelt episode of the FollowHIM podcast, hosts Hank Smith and John Bytheway delve into a personal and inspirational story that aligns with the weekly Come, Follow Me lesson. Focusing on Section 45, Verses 34 and 35, the hosts explore themes of trust, divine guidance, and overcoming personal trials through faith.
Hank Smith opens the segment by sharing his upbringing as the son of a golf professional in St. George, Utah. Despite the relentless heat, Hank’s father was dedicated to teaching his children life lessons through golf. This environment set the stage for a memorable experience that Hank recounts in detail.
Hank [01:24]: "I think you know this, that I grew up the son of a golf professional. I don't know if you've ever forced your hobbies on your kids, but that's all we did, it seemed, was golf growing up."
Hank narrates a pivotal moment on a par five hole at Southgate Golf Course. The green featured a significant hill that made putting particularly challenging. Hank explains the difficulty of landing the ball above the hill, as it inevitably rolled past the hole.
Hank [01:28]: "I hit it up on the green in three, and you got to climb up there to see where you landed it. And I landed it right on the edge of the hill."
Despite the odds, Hank’s attempt resulted in the ball miraculously dropping into the hole after defying the expected trajectory.
Hank [03:36]: "It turned all the way around, and it's now going back towards the hole, like in front of me. It's slowing down, and it gets right to the edge of the hole and sits there for a second and drops in."
Confronted with the challenge, Hank considered tapping the ball down the hill but realized it was futile. His father, exhibiting the wisdom of experience, instructed him to aim away from the hole.
Hank’s Father: "Hey, who do you think knows more about this, me or you?"
Hank [03:38]: "I think we're about equal, right?"
Initially hesitant, Hank trusted his father's expertise. This decision led to the incredible outcome where the ball circumnavigated the hill and settled into the hole, a play they later celebrated as one of the greatest putts ever witnessed.
Hank [05:48]: "If Heavenly Father has the top 10 golf plays ever, it's going to be this random little kid in St. George, Utah."
Fast forward to 2021, Hank shares the emotional period following his father's health decline due to a stroke and cancer. After receiving promising news from a doctor, his father tragically passed away three days later. Overwhelmed with frustration and grief, Hank turned to prayer, questioning the timing and reasoning behind the sudden loss.
Hank [07:17]: "Who do you think knows more about this, me or you?"
In this moment of despair, Hank recalled his father's earlier wisdom on the golf course. He internalized the message to trust in a higher plan, recognizing that divine guidance often surpasses human understanding.
Hank [08:26]: "I made it. So don't you think, John, we're going to have to trust the Lord?"
Hank’s story beautifully encapsulates the essence of the Come, Follow Me lesson by illustrating that trusting in divine guidance, even when outcomes are uncertain, leads to profound personal growth and peace. The analogy between the miraculous golf putt and his journey through grief underscores the importance of faith in navigating life's unexpected challenges.
The episode concludes with Hank expressing hope and a belief in eventual reunion with his father in the celestial kingdom, reinforcing the enduring nature of trust and faith. John Bytheway appreciates the depth of the message, acknowledging the difficulty of maintaining trust amidst adversity.
John Bytheway [08:30]: "Easier said than done. But, yeah, I love that little message."
Hank wraps up by inviting listeners to join their full podcast, mentioning upcoming episodes featuring guests like Professor Shima Bachman, who brings her unique perspectives as an Iranian lawyer, further enriching the podcast's diverse and insightful content.
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This episode of FollowHIM serves as a poignant reminder of the power of trust and faith, using a personal story to illuminate spiritual truths that resonate with listeners seeking inspiration and deeper understanding in their studies.