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Foreign Favorites this is where John and I share a single story to go with each week's lesson. John, come follow me. This week we're in sections 121, 122 and 123 of the doctrine and Covenants. These are very important, very critical big sections. The story I thought of goes with what the Lord tells Joseph in the very beginning of section 121. He says, My son, peace be to thy soul. Thine adversity and thine affliction, so they are real, shall be but a small moment, but the time. It seems huge and awful, which it really is. Later, the Lord is saying, you'll look back and it will be a small moment. In fact, he says, later, it will be for thy good. It will give you experience. The story comes From General Conference, October 1999. Now, I know you'll remember this story, John, and a lot of our listeners listeners will, but there's got to be a few out there who have never heard it. This is Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, who at the end of a talk called the High Priest of Good Things to Come, says, forgive me for a personal conclusion which does not represent the terrible burdens so many of you carry, but it is meant to be encouraging. 30 years ago last month. So, John, we're now talking. We're talking even earlier than 1999. Yeah, I guess this would be 1969, he said. A little family gotten a card across the United States to go to graduate school. No money, a really old car and everything they own in the smallest U Haul trailer available, bidding their apprehensive parents farewell. They drove exactly 34 miles up the highway, and their car erupted, pulling off the freeway onto a frontage road. The young father surveyed the steam, matched it with some of his own. That's good writing. Left his wife and two children, the youngest just three months old, to wait in the car while he walked three miles or so to the southern Utah metropolis of Canaraville, population, I think, 65. Some water was secured at the edge of town. A very kind citizen offered a drive back to the stranded car. The car was attended to and very slowly driven back the 34 miles miles to St. George. After two hours of checking and rechecking, no problem could really be detected. So once again, the journey begun. This is the best part. In exactly the same amount of elapsed time, at exactly the same location on the highway, with exactly the same pyrotechnics, from under the hood, the car exploded again. It could not have been 15ft from the earlier collapse not even 5ft from it. Can you imagine viewers like, are you kidding? Elder Holland says, obviously the most precise laws of automotive physics were at work. Now, feeling more foolish than angry, the young father once more left his wife and two children and walked to the same guy's house. I'm back. This time, the man providing the water said, either you or that fellow who looks like you ought to get a new radiator for that car. For the second time, a kind neighbor offered a lift back to the same automobile with the same little occupant. He did not know whether to laugh or cry at the plight of this young family. How far have you come? He asked. 34 miles, I answered. How much farther do you have to go? 2,600 miles. Then this man says, well, son, you might make that trip, and your wife and those two little kids might make that trip, but none of you are going to make it in that car. He proved to be prophetic on all counts. Now we're in 1999. Elder Holland speaking. Just two weeks ago this weekend, I drove by that exact spot where the freeway turnoff leads to a frontage road just three miles or so west of Canairville. That same beautiful and loyal wife, my dearest friend and greatest supporter for all these years, curled up asleep in the seat beside me. The automobile we were driving this time was modest but pleasant and safe. In fact, except for me and my lovely Pat situated peacefully at my side, nothing of that moment two weeks ago was even remotely like that distressing circumstance three decades earlier. And then, John, this is beautiful. Yet in my mind's eye, just for an instant, I thought perhaps I saw on that side road an old car with a devoted young wife and two little children making the best of a bad situation. Just ahead of them, I saw a young fellow walking toward Canarville with plenty of distance still ahead of him. His shoulders were slumping, the weight of a young father's fear evident in his pace. His hands did seem to hang down. I couldn't help calling out to him. Isn't this beautiful, John? Here elder Holland is 30 years later, calling out to his younger self. This is something we can all do in our life. Here's what he calls out. Don't give up, boy. Don't quit. You keep walking. You keep trying. There is help and happiness ahead. A lot of it. 30 years of it now and still counting. Keep your chin up. It'll be all right in the end. Trust God and believe in good things to come. Don't you wonder, John, if that Elder Holland from the late 60s kind of. Do you hear that, right? You just wonder, did he hear that the Lord is maybe saying that to Joseph here a little bit. I know it's hard right now. Endure it well. God will exalt thee on high. Good things are coming. Great things are coming. Our guest for this week is actually mentioned in this story. Here is a quote from the story. Elder Holland says this is later on when he's in the car, grown up. He said the two children in the story and the little brother who later joined them have long since grown up and served missions, married perfectly, are now raising children of their own. Well, John, that little brother who later joined them is our guest on Follow Him. His name is Dr. David Holland. Come on over wherever you get your podcasts and listen to Dr. Holland walk through these sections. It is incredible. The things he shows us and the tenderness he brings out of these sections is really touching, really touching. Then come back here next week. We'll do another Follow him favorites.
Hosts: Hank Smith & John Bytheway
Air Date: October 16, 2025
Focus: Doctrine & Covenants Sections 121–123
This “followHIM Favorites” episode features hosts Hank Smith and John Bytheway sharing a personal and inspiring story to complement the week’s Come, Follow Me lesson (Doctrine and Covenants 121–123). The hosts reflect on adversity, faith, and perseverance, drawing from Elder Jeffrey R. Holland’s memorable conference address, while highlighting enduring hope in trying times. The episode serves as a lead-in to a companion interview with Dr. David Holland, providing fresh perspective and personal connection to the scriptural themes.
“Don’t give up, boy. Don’t quit. You keep walking. You keep trying. There is help and happiness ahead. A lot of it. Thirty years of it now and still counting. Keep your chin up. It'll be all right in the end. Trust God and believe in good things to come.” (07:02)
Hank Smith (on adversity):
“Thine adversity and thine affliction, so they are real, shall be but a small moment... Later, it will be for thy good.” (01:10, 01:32)
Elder Holland (via Hank):
“Don’t give up, boy. Don’t quit. You keep walking. You keep trying. There is help and happiness ahead. A lot of it. Thirty years of it now and still counting. Keep your chin up. It'll be all right in the end. Trust God and believe in good things to come.” (07:02)
Narrative Moment:
“I couldn't help calling out to him... just for an instant, I thought perhaps I saw on that side road an old car with a devoted young wife and two little children making the best of a bad situation.” (06:26)
The episode is emotionally rich, warm, and deeply relatable. Hank and John adopt a conversational and personal tone, making spiritual lessons accessible for all ages. The language is empathetic and uplifting, mirroring Elder Holland’s comforting style and the Lord’s own words in the scriptural sections.
This “followHIM Favorites” episode provides a touching narrative demonstrating the real, sometimes lengthy, but ultimately redemptive nature of adversity. By weaving Elder Holland’s story into the week’s scriptural study, Hank and John encourage listeners to hold fast, trust in God’s promises, and anticipate “good things to come.” The invitation to hear more from Dr. David Holland in the extended episode promises further insights grounded in lived experience and scriptural wisdom.