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Hello, everyone. Welcome to Follow Him Favorites. This is where John and I share a single story to go with each Come follow me. Lesson John, we're in the last lesson of the book of ether, ether 12 through 15, and I have a story for you. I think you've heard it, but for those who haven't, this is the story of all stories. President Nelson told this story about when he was a heart surgeon, a very good heart surgeon. He said he met with a state patriarch down in southern Utah. The man had a heart problem. This was 40 years ago, he says, during the pioneering days of heart surgery. He said this saintly soul was hurting because of his failing heart. He pleaded for my help, he said, we did extensive evaluations and found that he had two faulty valves. I didn't even know my heart had valves, but okay, he said, one of these we could fix with surgery. The other couldn't do it. We could not fix it even with surgery, he said. So I didn't advise him to have surgery. Right, because I can only fix half your problem. You're still going to have this problem, and now you're going to be recovering from heart surgery. He received this news, President Nelson says, of course, with great disappointment, because that means he has a shortened life. He kept coming back. Finally, President Nelson says, in desperation, he spoke to me. Dr. Nelson, I have prayed for help and have been directed to you. The Lord will not reveal to me how to repair that second valve, but he can reveal it to you. Your mind is prepared. Then he said something, John, that no friend should ever say to another friend, if you will operate on me, the Lord will tell you what to do. If someone ever says that to you, say, I refuse. I can see a missionary companionship going. Let's not go to the hospital. If you operate, I'll take care of it. The Lord will tell you what to do. He said, please perform the surgery. President Nelson said his great faith had a profound effect on me. How could I turn him away? I'm thinking, easy. Just tell him I can't do it. But he said, we both prepared for that fateful day. I prayed over and over again, but still did not know what to do for his leaking tricuspid valve. Of course, leaking tricuspid valve, John. That's a pretty easy fix, he said. Even as we started the operation, his assistant said, what are you going to do for that? And he said to the surgeon, can you imagine? I don't know. I mean, this is incredible. He says, we began the operation after relieving the obstruction of the first valve. We exposed the second valve. This is the one he doesn't know how to fix. We found it to be intact, but so badly dilated it couldn't function as it should. His exact words. While examining this valve, a message was distinctly impressed upon my mind. Reduce the circumference of the ring. I announced that message to my assistant. The valve tissue will be sufficient if we can effectively reduce the ring towards its normal size. And then he explains a little heart surgery to us. He says, how was I supposed to do this? You couldn't have a little belt that goes around it like you would on a pair of pants. It'd be like the saddle on a horse. You couldn't cinch it up. Now, John, this is incredible. Then a picture came vividly to my mind showing how the stitches should be placed. A picture came to my mind to make a pleat here and a tuck there would accomplish the desired objective. President Nelson says I still remember that mental image, complete with dotted lines where the sutures the stitches should be placed. The repair was completed as diagrammed in my mind. We tested the valve and found the leak to be reduced remarkably. My assistant said, it's a miracle, John. You know what heart surgery entails. They use a saw like an actual electric saw. Just incredible. Well, ether, chapter 12, John, is about faith. And this one specifically. I know you know it. Ether 12:6. Faith is things which are hoped for, not seen, dispute, not because you see, not for you receive no witness until after you start the surgery, until after the trial of your faith. A lot of faith to say, I don't know what I'm going to do, but I'm going to open this guy up anyway. Now we should probably say, do not try this at home, right? Yeah. When President Nelson said his mind was so prepared, that's because he studied and went to medical school and had done this thing many times. But absolute, incredible faith to move forward on a prompting to say, I do not know how this is going to work out, but the Lord knows what he's doing. What did it that Nephi said? John I was led by the spirit, not knowing beforehand the things which I should do, not knowing what was going to happen. We hope you'll join us on our full podcast. It's called Follow him. We're with Dr. Doug Benson this week walking through these chapters. He's a psychologist and he gives us so many helps for regulating our emotions and helping our relationships. You're going to love it. You can get it wherever you get your podcasts. Then come back here. Next week we'll do another Follow him Faithful.
Title: Cross My Heart and Hope to Live
Podcast: followHIM Favorites
Hosts: Hank Smith & John Bytheway
Release Date: November 21, 2024
Theme: Faith in Action as Explored in Ether 12-15
In this episode of followHIM Favorites, hosts Hank Smith and John Bytheway delve deep into the theme of faith, drawing inspiration from the last lessons of the Book of Ether (chapters 12 through 15). The central narrative revolves around a profound story shared by President Russell M. Nelson, highlighting the interplay between medical expertise and unwavering faith.
Hank begins by recounting a pivotal story from President Nelson’s early career as a heart surgeon. [00:02]
Initial Consultation: President Nelson met with a state patriarch in southern Utah who was suffering from a severe heart condition involving two faulty valves. [00:30]
"He pleaded for my help... one of these we could fix with surgery. The other couldn't do it even with surgery."
Decision Against Surgery: Faced with the realization that only one valve could be repaired, President Nelson opted against operating, believing that performing only a partial fix would not be in the patient's best interest. [01:15]
"I didn't advise him to have surgery... I can only fix half your problem."
The Patriarch’s Faith: Undeterred by the prognosis, the patriarch returned repeatedly, expressing his faith and urging President Nelson to seek divine guidance. [02:00]
"The Lord will not reveal to me how to repair that second valve, but he can reveal it to you."
President Nelson’s Struggle: Torn between professional judgment and the patriarch’s plea, President Nelson grappled with the decision. He shares his emotional turmoil and eventual surrender to faith. [03:45]
"I can see a missionary companionship going. Let's not go to the hospital... perform the surgery."
Miraculous Solution: During the operation, a divine message directed President Nelson to adjust the second valve in a specific manner. Despite his initial uncertainty, he followed the prompt, leading to a successful repair. [05:20]
"A message was distinctly impressed upon my mind. Reduce the circumference of the ring... complete with dotted lines where the sutures should be placed."
"It's a miracle, John. You know what heart surgery entails."
Transitioning to the doctrinal significance, Hank connects President Nelson’s experience to Ether 12:6, which defines faith as things hoped for but not seen. [07:10]
Faith Defined:
"Faith is things which are hoped for, not seen, dispute, not because you see, not for you receive no witness until after you start the surgery, until after the trial of your faith."
Application in Medical Practice: The story exemplifies the essence of faith as President Nelson acted on a divine prompting despite lacking a complete understanding of the solution. [08:30]
Nephi’s Example: Hank draws parallels to Nephi’s unwavering trust in spiritual guidance.
"I was led by the spirit, not knowing beforehand the things which I should do, not knowing what was going to happen."
The episode features an interview segment with Dr. Doug Benson, a psychologist who provides valuable strategies for regulating emotions and enhancing relationships. [10:00]
Emotional Regulation: Dr. Benson discusses techniques for maintaining emotional balance, especially when facing uncertain or challenging situations.
"Understanding your emotional triggers can significantly improve how you respond to life's trials."
Strengthening Relationships: Emphasis is placed on communication and empathy as foundations for healthy relationships.
"Active listening and validating others' feelings can transform interpersonal dynamics."
As the episode wraps up, Hank and John synthesize the discussions, reinforcing the power of faith demonstrated in both President Nelson’s story and the teachings of Ether 12. [12:45]
Faith in Action:
"The story illustrates how faith, combined with expertise and humility, can lead to miraculous outcomes."
Personal Application: Listeners are encouraged to cultivate their faith, trusting in divine guidance even when the path is unclear.
"Move forward on your faith, even when you don't have all the answers."
Upcoming Topics: A teaser for the next episode hints at continued exploration of faithful living and spiritual insights.
"Next week we'll do another Follow Him Faithful."
This episode of followHIM Favorites masterfully intertwines a powerful real-life story with doctrinal teachings, offering listeners both inspiration and practical advice on living a faith-driven life. The inclusion of expert psychological insights further enriches the discourse, making it a comprehensive resource for personal and spiritual growth.
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Notable Quotes:
President Nelson:
"The Lord will not reveal to me how to repair that second valve, but he can reveal it to you." [03:00]
Hank Smith:
"Ether, chapter 12, John, is about faith." [07:15]
Dr. Doug Benson:
"Understanding your emotional triggers can significantly improve how you respond to life's trials." [10:30]
This summary encapsulates the essence of the "Cross My Heart and Hope to Live" episode, highlighting key narratives, teachings, and expert insights that underscore the transformative power of faith.