
Loading summary
A
Hello, everyone. Welcome to Follow Him Favorites this is where John and I are sharing a single story to go with each week's lesson. John, we're in Mormon 7, 8 and 9 this week. There's this point where Moroni, who's now writing because Mormon his father is, passed away. He's writing to us and he says something that's a little harsh. He says, you love money, you love your substance, your clothes, more than you love the poor more than you love the needy, the sick and the afflicted. And then he says, you adorn yourselves with that which hath no life. Yet you let the hungry, the needy, the naked, the sick and the afflicted to pass by you, and you don't even notice. I have a story for you, John. I want to hear what you think. Now, I need to give a couple of disclaimers as we go, so watch out for those. A couple of years ago, I won't give the man's name. He was a bishop for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, and he decided to do something really different for Sacrament meeting. Now, I need to say, John, that since that time, the church has said, please don't do things like this. So I don't want anyone out there to go, oh, I want to try that. No, no, don't do that. He wasn't breaking any rules on purpose. The bishop decided to get up early, go to a makeup artist and look like a real homeless person before church. Then he sat right outside the front doors of the church as his ward was coming in. I don't want anyone out there to think, oh, I'm going to do this. But he did learn quite a bit, and I think the ward learned quite a bit. He said, as my ward was coming in, many went out of their way to purposely ignore me. He said, some gave me an apple crackers or a $20 bill. He said, I was most impressed with the children. They definitely were eager to want to reach out and help in some way. He was told by several members of his ward to leave the property. I had one person who went out of his way to tell me this was not a place to ask for charity and that I was not welcome. Now, John, the second counselor in the ward, was in on this. He told him, I'm going to be this person. So after the meeting starts, the bishop, who's the homeless man, he walked to the front of the chapel, sat close to the front and listened. And the counselor, the second counselor is the one giving the talk. He started kind of whispering or talking to the second counselor from the row that he's at, which is kind of out of the ordinary. And he said, can I say something? The second counselor, not realizing that this might give it away. John. He said, brothers and sisters, this homeless man would like to say a few words. There was some odd looks, some silence, and the bishop walked to the stand. He said he wanted to thank the people for all the kindness they showed. He had some money that he had received and he would like to give a portion of it back as a token of appreciation. He asked, where's the bishop? I would like to give the money to him. But no one spoke. And the homeless man started to take off his wig and glasses to show that he was, in fact, the bishop. This is what he said. It had a shock value I did not anticipate. He said, I did not have any idea. The MORD members would gasp as they did. He said some attendees started crying, others said nothing. Many came forward to apologize for their indifference to the bishop, announcing they would do things to atone for their actions. He said, I felt horrible that they felt so horrible. But he said the experiment was more potent than a sermon he could have given. This was the interesting part. This is what he said. There was an unexpected lesson for me. We don't have to give money or food. And John, I know that's kind of discouraged. To give money?
B
Yeah. The principle is commodities over cash, right?
A
Yeah. There's organizations you can give your money to and really help. He said, we don't always have to give money or food, but if we really believe what we say. But we believe, shouldn't we smile, make eye contact, and allow them to have a little bit of human dignity? Now, again, John, please, nobody go do that. It's not something the church would have you do. And he wasn't breaking any rules. It wasn't a rule until then. I just like the lesson. Do we walk by with our AirPods in? Do we walk by people who need us and we don't even notice?
B
That's one of those real stories that causes you to introspect with a what would I do?
A
We hope you'll join us on our full podcast. It's called Follow Him. You can get it wherever you get your podcast. We're with Dr. Sheldon Martin this week. He has some wonderful insights from his background that you're going to love. And then come back here next week we'll do another Follow him favorites.
Release Date: October 31, 2024
Hosts: Hank Smith & John Bytheway
Podcast: followHIM: A Come, Follow Me Podcast
In the episode titled "The Bishop Did What?!", hosts Hank Smith and John Bytheway delve into a poignant and thought-provoking story that underscores the essence of genuine charity and human connection within The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (LDS) community. This episode is part of the "followHIM Favorites" series, where each week a single impactful story is explored in relation to that week's Come, Follow Me lesson.
Hank introduces the episode by referencing Mormon 7, 8, and 9, highlighting Moroni’s stern admonition to the people for their misplaced priorities—valuing money, possessions, and appearances over the poor, needy, and afflicted.
At 00:02, Hank recounts a real-life anecdote involving an LDS bishop who undertook an unconventional approach to teach his ward a meaningful lesson about charity:
Disguise and Observation: The bishop, motivated by a desire to understand and educate, disguised himself as a homeless person. He enlisted the help of a makeup artist to achieve an authentic appearance and positioned himself outside the church as the ward congregated for Sacrament meeting.
Ward’s Response: As the week progressed, Hank observes that many congregants ignored the disguised bishop, while others offered alcoholic beverages or monetary aid, such as an apple, crackers, or a $20 bill. Notably, children were the most eager to help, demonstrating natural empathy and generosity.
Unexpected Reactions: Despite the varying responses, the bishop faced virtual rejection from several members, including a member who explicitly told him, "This is not a place to ask for charity and that I was not welcome."
The Revelation: During the Sacrament meeting, the bishop revealed his true identity in a dramatic fashion by removing his wig and glasses (04:07). His revelation led to mixed reactions—gasps, tears, and moments of silence. Many congregants felt guilt and remorse, coming forward to apologize and pledge to atone for their indifference.
Reflection and Insight: The bishop expressed that this experiment served as a more powerful lesson than any sermon he could have delivered. He emphasized that true charity transcends monetary aid; it encompasses simple acts of kindness such as smiling, making eye contact, and maintaining human dignity for those in need.
1. The Essence of Genuine Charity
Hank and John discuss the difference between material aid and emotional support. The bishop’s experiment highlighted that while financial assistance is valuable, the human connection and recognition of an individual’s dignity are equally, if not more, important.
2. The Impact of Intentional Actions
The deliberate actions of the bishop served as a catalyst for introspection among the ward members. It prompted them to evaluate their daily interactions and perceptions of those less fortunate.
3. Encouraging Personal Responsibility
The episode emphasizes the importance of personal responsibility in charitable actions. It advocates for intentional kindness and awareness over passive or superficial gestures.
Hank Smith [00:02]: "Do you love money, you love your substance, your clothes, more than you love the poor more than you love the needy, the sick and the afflicted."
Hank Smith [04:11]: "Shouldn't we smile, make eye contact, and allow them to have a little bit of human dignity?"
John Bytheway [04:07]: "The principle is commodities over cash, right?"
Hank Smith [04:46]: "Do we walk by with our AirPods in? Do we walk by people who need us and we don't even notice?"
The episode "The Bishop Did What?!" serves as a compelling reminder of the true meaning of charity and the power of empathy within the LDS community. Through the bishop’s unconventional approach, Hank and John shed light on the often-overlooked aspects of kindness and the profound impact that intentional, heartfelt actions can have on both the giver and the recipient.
Listeners are encouraged to introspect on their own actions and consider how they can embody genuine compassion in their daily lives. The hosts tease upcoming content, mentioning an interview with Dr. Sheldon Martin, promising further insights and enriching discussions.
For those seeking to make their LDS study fresh, faithful, and fun, episodes like this offer valuable lessons and reflections that resonate beyond the weekly lessons.
Stay Connected:
Note: The followHIM Podcast is not affiliated with The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The opinions expressed on episodes represent the views of the guest and podcasters alone.