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Girl and Her Bible
Hosted by Pastor Amber · EN
Girl & Her Bible Podcast is where faith gets real and healing turns into movement. Hosted by Pastor Amber, this show confronts emotional cycles, control, and fear with truth that transforms. Every episode calls women out of survival into surrender. It teaches them how to rebuild identity, break toxic attachments, and live anchored in peace, purpose, and obedience.
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Do You Want God or Just Relief? Breaking Trauma Bonds and Abiding in Jesus| Girl & Her Bible
Feb 2600:17:30Tap to summarizeWhat do you really want?Do you want God… or do you just want the pain to stop?In this episode, Pastor Amber breaks down the uncomfortable truth most people avoid. Many of us say we want God, but what we really want is relief. Relief from loneliness. Relief from waiting. Relief from heartbreak. Relief from rejection.That is why we repeat the same relationship cycles.That is why after a breakup we run back to church, only to fall back into the same patterns months later.That is why trauma bonds feel like destiny.This message exposes: • The difference between wanting God and wanting escape • How trauma bonds are formed through shared pain • Why asking “why” before giving people access to your heart will protect your future • What John 1 teaches about motive and spiritual maturity • The true meaning of abiding in Jesus • Why God cares more about who you are becoming than your timelineIf you are over 30 and tired of trial and error…If you are tired of wasting years on relationships, jobs, or friendships that had no foundation…If you feel planted but buried…If you are waiting on God and wondering why nothing is moving…This episode is for you.Coming to God does not make your life easier.It makes you stable.You will learn how to: • Stop manipulating outcomes • Stop bonding over pain • Stop chasing relief • Start abiding • Develop emotional stability that cannot be shaken by people or circumstancesJesus asked, “What do you want?”It is a simple question. But your answer determines everything.If this message blesses you, share it with someone who keeps repeating cycles.Girl & Her Bible is for the woman who is done pretending, done performing, and ready to be transformed from the inside out.
Transcribe →February Reset: Why Your Goals Are Failing Without Alignment
Feb 1500:16:58Tap to summarizeIt’s February 14. By now that “get it done, hustle and grind” energy you had on January 1 has either faded, cracked, or completely worn off. And if your goals were anchored in projection instead of identity, they were never built to last.In this episode, we walk through Esther and what it really means to prepare. Preparation is not hype. Preparation is alignment. There is the life you think you want, and then there is the life God has divinely orchestrated and designed for you. Alignment requires surrender. It requires you to give up control and stop forcing outcomes that were never authentic to who you are.We break down:• Why New Year motivation fades when it is not rooted in identity• What alignment with God actually looks like in real life• The middle season where character is built and distractions are cut off• The strategy of the Amalekites and how spiritual warfare targets your identity• Why chaos hits when you finally get disciplined• How Esther fasted, waited, and built strategy instead of reacting emotionally• How God works behind your back while you are preparingIf you feel like all hell broke loose the moment you got focused, this episode is for you. The attack is not random. The timing is strategic. And so is your response.This is your February reset.
Transcribe →The Well Is Deep: When You’re Tired of Drawing From Empty Places| Girl & Her Bible
Jan 1800:13:42Tap to summarizeIn this first Girl & Her Bible episode of 2026, Pastor Amber opens the year with honesty, restraint, and spiritual clarity.After taking the first fourteen days of the year to sit with God, she shares the story of the Samaritan woman in John chapter 4 and reveals why this encounter hits differently when you are tired, guarded, and emotionally spent.This episode is for the woman who still believes in God but quietly stopped believing things would work out for her.For the woman who has learned how to survive disappointment, manage pain, and get through life without hoping too much.For the woman who keeps drawing from places that leave her empty and does not know how to reach the deeper layers underneath.Through the story of the well, Pastor Amber confronts emotional survival mode, dependence on people and systems, and the cost of drawing from temporary sources instead of God. She explains why Jesus tells the Samaritan woman to go get her husband and how that question exposes what we rely on to numb pain, find worth, and feel safe.This episode is about emotional healing, spiritual alignment, and why clarity before movement matters more than rushing into another year on autopilot.If you are entering 2026 tired, cautious, and unsure how to move forward, this conversation will help you pause, realign, and stop laboring in vain.
Transcribe →What Looks Like Failure Is Actually Foundation Pt3 | Girl & Her Bible with Pastor Amber
Jan 100:18:16Tap to summarizeWhat Looks Like Failure Is Actually Foundation | Girl & Her Bible with Pastor AmberIn this powerful 2025 year end finale, Pastor Amber shares Lesson #3: What looks like failure is actually foundation. After launching a podcast, designing T-shirts, creating courses, and building websites without selling a single product, she discovered the real question isn’t “Did I waste my time?” but “Who did I become?” This raw, vulnerable episode reveals how God measures success differently than the world, why delay isn’t denial but preparation, and how your greatest growth happens in the gap between hoping and having. Learn why your 10 year season might be building generational capacity, how to shift from ambition to strategy, and why 2026 requires you to scale instead of stay comfortable. Perfect for entrepreneurs, creatives, and women who gave their all in 2025 but didn’t see the results they expected. Includes a prophetic prayer for breakthrough in 2026.
Transcribe →Don’t Carry What God Didn’t Assign PT2 | Girl in Her Bible with Pastor Amber
Jan 100:13:38Tap to summarizeIn this powerful New Year’s Eve episode, Pastor Amber shares Lesson #2 from her 2025 journey: Don’t carry what God didn’t assign to you. Drawing from her transformative trip to New York, she reveals how fear is just a feeling, but when God speaks, you must move. Learn the difference between being a “good person” and a “God person,” discover how emotional leverage keeps you in bondage, and understand why doubts are emotions, not reality. This episode will challenge you to examine: Are you living based on what God assigned or what you think you need to prove? Perfect for anyone entering 2026 seeking clarity, freedom from people pleasing, and alignment with God’s true purpose for their life.
Transcribe →Stop Betraying Yourself for People Who Just Show Up: What 2025 Taught Me| Girl & Her Bible
Dec 2900:13:03Tap to summarizeEnding 2025 feeling drained by relationships? Pastor Amber gets real about the biggest lesson she learned this year: presence doesn’t equal value. In this raw, reflective episode, she breaks down why most relationships are transactional, how to spot people’s true motives in 4-5 months, and why she stopped betraying herself to keep people around. If you’ve been confusing loyalty with proximity, giving too much to people who just show up, or staying too long in situations that don’t serve you, this episode will give you permission to pivot. Learn the boundaries that expose people’s motives, why divine timing never looks like you expect, and how to trust God’s promises even when your year didn’t go as planned.You’ll walk away with: The 4-month pattern recognition rule | How to pivot without the sunk cost fallacy | Why God answers prayers differently than you think | Permission to value yourself more than people’s presencePerfect for: Anyone ending the year feeling stuck, drained, or questioning relationships that aren’t adding real value to their life.
Transcribe →Why You Keep Getting Hurt in Relationships: The Danger of Mislabeling People
Dec 900:07:44Tap to summarizeMost of the pain you keep running into is not betrayal. It is misjudgment. You gave the wrong people access to your emotions. You trusted roles their behavior never proved they could hold. You expected consistency from people who have shown you, over and over, that they will not show up for you.This episode shows you why the cycle keeps repeating and what to do about it.In this episode you will learn:Why you keep expecting loyalty from inconsistent peopleHow to spot relationships that drain youHow chemistry blinds you to real patternsHow to separate emotional attachment from actual reliabilityHow to protect your peace by trusting behavior, not wordsDownload the Relationship Audit and categorize every person in your life by patterns, not potential.Get it at PastorAmber.comIf this brought clarity, share it with someone who needs it.New episodes every week on Girl and Her Bible.
Transcribe →The Strong Woman Lie: The Agreements That Keep You Stuck in Survival| Girl & Her Bible
Nov 2600:13:56Tap to summarizeThere’s a version of you the world calls strong, but she’s not the real you.She’s the version you built when fear, disappointment, and abandonment made you believe you had to perform to be chosen, stay in control to stay safe, and look strong to be worthy.These fear-based agreements shaped your identity.They built the “strong woman” mask you wear today.And they are the reason you keep repeating cycles you’re tired of living through.In this teaching, we expose the truth:• why you cling to chaos even while praying for clarity• how self-sabotage is rooted in “I don’t deserve real love”• the agreements that keep you overgiving, overworking, and overstaying• how pride and image hide the parts of you that feel unworthy• how survival scripts keep you small, afraid, and double minded• how to break the lies you made peace with for yearsIf you’re done performing strength and ready to confront the lie that built your identity, start here.And if you want help uncovering the lies you’ve been repeating for years, go to PastorAmber.com and download "It Was a Lie".It will help you expose the beliefs that shaped your false identity so you can finally rebuild from truth.
Transcribe →The Next 10 Years: Build Legacy On Purpose| Girl & Her Bible
Nov 700:20:57Tap to summarizeLife doesn’t just happen...it happens because of you. In this episode, Amber guides you through a 10-year audit so you can stop living reactively and start building legacy on purpose. From generational inheritance (spiritual, emotional, financial) to reverse-engineering your vision into daily routines, you’ll learn how to design the next decade with discipline, faith, and emotional endurance.You’ll hear Amber share her own journey. Raising Kaiden, moving to Atlanta, choosing boundaries and truth. And why “vision doesn’t fail… people quit.” If you’re ready to trade numb survival for intentional strategy, this is your blueprint.You’ll learn: • Reactive vs proactive living: design or default • The legacy lens: inheritance beyond money (wisdom, wholeness, stewardship) • The 10-Year Audit: lessons, patterns, people, and non-negotiables • Reverse-engineering: decade → year → quarter → month → daily habits • Character over circumstance: bending without breaking • Emotional endurance: why transformation hurts and how to keep going
Transcribe →How to Let Go of Someone You Love but Can’t Stay With| Girl & Her Bible
Oct 3000:17:56Tap to summarizeLetting go isn’t about not caring anymore. It’s about choosing peace over patterns.In this powerful episode of Girl & Her Bible, Amber digs deep into what it really means to release someone you still love. When your heart still remembers, but your spirit knows it’s time to move on.You’ll learn: • Why love and obedience sometimes can’t coexist • How to recognize when familiarity is disguised as safety • The truth about emotional attachments and childhood wounds • How to rebuild self-trust after toxic or inconsistent relationships • Why real healing requires structure, not just emotionThis is your permission to stop performing strength and start practicing surrender.Take the next step:✨ Text MOVE to 470-256-1199 to take the Validation Detox Quiz and get your free workbook.✨ Ready to go deeper? Enroll in Good Girl Gone Numb. This course helps high-functioning women heal from performance-based love and emotional burnout.
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