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Jared Blandino
It wasn't what I thought it was going to be. And I thought we were gonna get wings and we got weights. I don't know, knowing all that, if I would have made the same choices that I made. Glam Los Angeles.
Sarah
Hi, Kirby. Hi, Sarah. Welcome to Los Angeles.
Kirby
Does $1.45 billion mean anything to you? Estee Lauder Companies bought too faced in 2016 for this amount, the company's largest acquisition at the time.
Sarah
The massive success of Too Faced is a result of co founder and former chief creative officer Jared Blandino. Jared and Jeremy, his co founder and partner left two faced in 2022, but they couldn't leave the industry forever. They're back with three year old brand Polite Society. And today Jared joins us to talk about what really happens when your brand is acquired and shares details he's never shared before about the reality of giving your brand to a conglomerate. And also his regrets.
Kirby
Oh my gosh. Almost 600 episodes. Seven years. Jared Blandino. You've never been on Los Angeles. Like I said earlier, it's a hate crime.
Jared Blandino
I know it's literally crazy because in my mind I have been.
Sarah
Well, yeah, in my mind you've been on many times.
Jared Blandino
How did this happen?
Kirby
Well, we just talk about you a lot. So you've been here in spirit?
Jared Blandino
Listen, I've had things burning on me, ears and otherwise. So I assume someone's been saying something.
Kirby
Here's another.
Sarah
You've also been very busy, so.
Kirby
Yeah, creating another brand Huge brand.
Jared Blandino
I know, guys. 24 hours after my non compete ended, I didn't even take a day off.
Kirby
Okay, absolutely love to hear some tea like that. Okay, before we get into all of the questions we have for you as a founder, we want to know what are the five most important things you use on a daily basis? And it doesn't have to be beauty related.
Jared Blandino
A sound machine. Because I honestly learned that I live on the ocean, actually, believe it or not. But having a consistent sound helps me because I'm not a good sleeper. I'm one of those people who like can fall asleep and then I wake up immediately and that's not a good thing. So let's say sound machine. My diamond drunk jewelry cleaner that I made for myself because I like to sparkle, but I also like to be clean. And I use that religiously every single day. I can't live without it. And the reason I even brought it to the market is because I want it to exist. Sunscreen. And I know there's a lot of controversy about that right now, but I absolutely believe in sunscreen. Especially when you're pale like I am and you know, it's more dangerous. My sister was diagnosed with four stage melanoma. It was like 22 years ago. She's a miracle. But I learned, you know, how dangerous the sun can be. So I'm religious about that. I floss, so I'm going to say my floss. I'm a flosser.
Kirby
Do you have a favorite?
Jared Blandino
I do. This is so basic, guys. And I've tried everything and it's so gross and basic, but I like the glide.
Kirby
Yeah.
Jared Blandino
You know, it works. It serves totally. Like sometimes you don't need all the fan. I've done it all.
Kirby
It's easy to get.
Jared Blandino
It's easy to get it. It totally delivers. And I'm going to say my French rose milk and. Oh, and my new Love it lip balm. Sorry, attitude. But there are two things that give me hydration, give me a glow, give me healthy skin, and. And of course I. This is my love it lip balm that I have right here. And I use it constantly. So the milk.
Kirby
Can you describe a little bit more about what that is and why you created it?
Jared Blandino
Yeah. Oh, there's other things. Can I. Can I have seven? I. My husband and I, Jeremy. Listen to Jesus calling every single day to get our day started. And we've done it for going on seven years.
Kirby
Wow.
Jared Blandino
Every single day.
Kirby
Why? What got you into that in the first place?
Jared Blandino
You know, I learned very Quickly through my life that I can't do this alone, and it's too heavy. And there are moments where I don't even know how I'm going to move to the next moment. And I learned to start just praying, say, like, God, I don't. I don't understand this, but I trust you. Let's just move to the next spot. Like, that's all I have to do is move to the next spot. It's about trust, and it really does help us set ourselves in the right headspace for the day so that I can also be of service to other people and the people who work for me and the people who buy our products and kind of keep my intention always kind of in focus.
Kirby
Okay. Love that. That was super deep. Now I'm going to ask you about the rose milk.
Jared Blandino
Yes. So French rose milk. So I became obsessed with, like, miss Sprays mist. But, like, five minutes after you put them on, I either felt dry or there was no effect. There was just, like, nothing. And I'm like, I can build a better product. So I went to Korea and really researched what bonds moisture to the skin, what, you know, what ingredients would allow me to get that hit of beautiful hydration, but then get a lasting, beautiful glazed effect. And through, you know, when you break a rose in the milk that comes out of it, nectar throughout. Through reverse engineering that and, you know, pulling out ingredients and biofermentary peptides, we were able to create this beautiful mist that smells like heaven but glazes your face. Almost like you've dipped your face in liquid cellophane gives you a beautiful look all day long. And. And I get compliments on my skin all the time. And that's why.
Sarah
Wow.
Jared Blandino
Yeah.
Sarah
Amazing. Okay, we need to start doing that.
Jared Blandino
You need to use French cellophane.
Sarah
Yes, please.
Podcast Host / Narrator
Yes.
Sarah
Okay. So we mentioned. Obviously, we've been wanting to have you on for a very long time, but I feel like right now is truly the perfect time. When this news came out, Kirby and I were like, we have to have Jared. We've been wanting to have Jared on, but Jared needs to come on now.
Jared Blandino
Yeah.
Sarah
So last week, it was announced that Estee Lauder companies would not be selling too faced and instead skimming down the brand and moving it to New York out of its Orange county headquarters, which, by the way, the most fabulous headquarters of any beauty company ever.
Jared Blandino
Yeah.
Kirby
Amazing.
Sarah
I remember the first time we went,
Kirby
we were, like, running around like candy shops.
Sarah
Yeah. Is this literally a Candyland?
Kirby
Your office was to die for.
Jared Blandino
Thank you. I honestly Believe your surroundings have such a massive effect on you and your team. And to embody the heartbeat of the brand is so important. So thank you for saying that. I so appreciate that.
Sarah
Yeah, it's incredible. So after the news came out, you posted a video sharing your thoughts. Tell us how you're feeling about the situation, guys.
Jared Blandino
So thank you for giving me the opportunity to be here because I haven't honestly talked about this with anyone. Family and friends, of course. But I'm heartbroken. And I'm heartbroken for many reasons. But the most painful part is the incredible people who most of them, or a lot of them, let's say I raised, I worked with and brought up. And to think that in the most I have to find my words, callous, casual way have been minimized and made to believe they are disposable or replaceable and the exact opposite. Truth exists, is real. It really bothers me. And the entire journey of selling to 2. Sorry, selling 2 face to Estee Lauder did not turn it all out like I thought it would. And listen, this is emotional and it's difficult for me to talk. So you'll notice I can talk really well. But when I talk about things that are like, hurtful, I might not be as eloquent but partly responsible for the outcome because had I known, I probably wouldn't have done it. Even though I'm so grateful it happened and it changed my life. And we sold for a record amount. And that all exists. And it's all such a blessing. I don't know, knowing all that, if I would have made the same choices that I made.
Sarah
Wow. Okay.
Jared Blandino
I don't know.
Sarah
So when we had Janine Lobel on who she's from, Yep, she's old Stila. She told us that when she made the decision to sell, it was like not an emotional choice anymore because she was like, it's done. What's done is done. How? Yeah, how? Okay, how different.
Jared Blandino
You're going to get me in trouble.
Kirby
Okay.
Sarah
How different is your situation?
Jared Blandino
My situation is different. I have a husband who is a. Is a business genius. And throughout the 24 and a half years, I had two faced. We sold pieces of it four times over. That journey, which is unheard of and it's studied in private equity rooms across the world. He's a genius. But through those different sales, we got into bed with financial people. A year before we sold, we were courted by Estee Lauder and we went through the process and in a very heated, traumatic moment, I storm out of a Conference room and say, this is not going to happen. And I killed the deal. It was over the way somebody was disrespectfully speaking to somebody on my team. And I won't have that. I have, you know, we all have lines we won't cross and I will not have that. So kill the deal. Get into bed with another financial institution, private equity group, which we were very excited about. And we love the help. I love to learn, I love somebody always brings something new and leveling up, you know, to the point we essentially, there was a deal made without us being involved that had we not gone through with it, would have, could have and would have been devastating to the brand and to me and my family. So let's say reluctantly and with a lot of prayer, we, we followed it.
Kirby
Okay, so there was an impetus to this acquisition.
Jared Blandino
I got a call on a Sunday that this was being done. And if I don't go along with it and Jeremy and I don't go along with it, it will not be a comfortable situation.
Kirby
Interesting. Because the headlines around that acquisition, again, at the time the largest acquisition of her.
Jared Blandino
Because I've never told the story and I don't know if I'm even supposed to tell this story, so I'm nervous.
Kirby
But it's really interesting though, because so much fanfare around that.
Jared Blandino
Yeah. And by the way, I have to tell you, I was thrilled once I leaned into it and you know, I remember I was talking to my dad on the phone at like 10:30 at night and it was going to be released at midnight and we were still in this thing. And I, and I do believe, like God has a plan and it was all meant to happen this way and I'm grateful for it. So please hear that. I'm not like, I'm so grateful that it happened, but it didn't happen the way you thought and I didn't want. That wasn't my plan, Jeremy. I thought I would do 2Face forever. Forever.
Kirby
Oh, okay. This is, this makes more sense, at least to me, because we were telling your team earlier that you were one of the only founders who has had their brand acquired, who has really spoken out in a way that's never been negative or derogatory towards the larger company. Right. You know, you've talked about your love for Leonard Lauder.
Jared Blandino
Yes.
Kirby
But you also haven't been silent. And initially when you left, you know, two faced, you made a video and you were like, things were not what I thought they were. Which anybody that can read between the lines, especially in this Industry was like, huh. Okay. I think there's more to this story. So now I feel like you're telling a little bit more of this story and how this all transpired.
Jared Blandino
Yes.
Kirby
Wow.
Jared Blandino
So, yes, that happened. And for, like a year, it was great. And I remember I was communicating with Bobby Brown and she said, how's it going? And I'm like, it's great. And I remember her reaction to that, like, really? And I felt those little hairs, you know? And I thought, yeah, like, what does she know that I don't know? And very quickly, a wave of influencing the battle for control began.
Kirby
I wanted to ask you about the person that was talking to your employee that you didn't approve of the way that they were speaking. Oh, do you feel like that was a red flag?
Jared Blandino
Yes.
Kirby
Okay.
Jared Blandino
So we built two Faced. My last job was at the mall. Let's just say that I do not come from Fifth Avenue. I do not come from a corporate environment. We are like a garage band who ended out selling out stadiums and traveling the world. So that's who we are. And that's where our magic is, too. Faced was created out of a pure joy of artistic passion and the love and desire to elevate and inspire and instill self esteem into women. So I accidentally fell into the cosmetics department, worked my. I had one and only job at Estee Lauder and loved it. And they. And the ability to be someone's gay best friend for five minutes and give them the perfect foundation to be like, girl, who told you to do that with your blush? Get over here. And in a loving way, empower them. But people were taking makeup way too seriously in the late 90s, and I was like, why? This is so much more fun to be a girl. What do you do? Like, come on. So I kind of created glitter eyeshadow behind the counter and set off to. With. With complete naivety and. And. And just being so unaware of the rule.
Kirby
The rules of the world.
Jared Blandino
Jeremy and I created two Faced. And the rest is history, kind of.
Kirby
So that moment with the basis, the
Jared Blandino
heartbeat of the brand is empowerment, love. Reflecting God's light through the vehicle of beauty and celebrating you through the. Through the way you look at yourself on the outside and how that affects your inside. So when I'm in a conference room with a bunch of suits who I don't trust or appreciate, and one of them leans across the table and almost in the most aggressive way is screaming at someone who works for me in the Italian, rebellious, fuck you, gene pool that is running through this Body. My chair hit, you know, I stood up, the chair hit the wall, and I said, I don't care who the fuck you are, who you think you are. Get out. You'll never speak to me or anyone in my team like that or in the world. Guys, get them out. And so I storm out, and the whole room goes silent. There's like 50 people in this conference room. And 20 minutes later, Jeremy comes in. He goes, honey, like, are you coming back? I go, am I coming back? Get them out. You know, like, get them out. Listen, it was one person. There were a lot of lovely, wonderful people there. Please, just. This is just my story. And so I said, no, we're going to do this. We're going to do this on our own. But to elevate, we need help. Because, you know, Jeremy and I don't come from a corporate background, and every so often we bring help in, and we would learn a lot, and there were opportunities. It was like, how are we going to level up? Well, that didn't end up happening, right? And so a year later, they honestly, they paid over double for it.
Sarah
Did you think that this is where it was going to be? Years later? Like, back then, were you, like, it's going to be okay. They are trust.
Jared Blandino
I had to trust.
Sarah
I trust that they are going to do what's best for the brand. And they gave you these maybe false promises or at the time, this is what they told you.
Jared Blandino
Lauder didn't give me false promises. The people who are going to make a lot of money with us, it was so what I know now. I know that I had more choices than I had then. I didn't know that at the time. We did our best with what we had at the time. Again, it was a number that blew my mind, and there was a lot going on, but I honestly did believe we were going to get all of this amazing help and energy again. Wings to fly us into the. You know, up to the moon. And two of us will be around forever. And it's. I'm going to be, you know, I'm going to be able to go into more countries. And I was. I was excited about that.
Kirby
I have to ask. This.
Sarah
This is.
Kirby
And maybe you've seen this on social media, okay? You've sold the brand. You've moved on. Do you believe in what now some people deem the Estee Lauder curse or the acquisition affliction.
Jared Blandino
Okay. I want to tell you the truth, okay. And I want you to know that the Estee Lauder family are incredible Wonderful people. And Leonard Lauderdale was a gift to this world and one of the best people I ever met. The smart one of the smartest human beings, kindest, the whole family. There is a culture within that corporation that is not led by the Lauder family, that is threatened, in my opinion, by the artistic process. Artists, artists who have control. The heartbeat, the love, the passion for the product and the efficacy for that product and the way it makes someone feel when they hold it, when or when it, when they apply it, and the emotional element of that. There's a layer that I believe is not only threatened by that doesn't understand it or respect it. It was so painful for me because I lead with the artistic part first. I lead with the artists and the creative people. And whether you're a receptionist or you're, you know, you're an artist in the field or I don't care, I'm like,
Sarah
what do you think?
Jared Blandino
Do you like it? You know, what should we do? And everyone has a voice. It starts from love, it starts from creativity, it starts from passion. It starts. And then you have to figure out how you can afford to sell it. There was brought in something called value engineering and, and all of this bullshit that is anti productive to the creative process into the ultimate products that are developed. That I had creative control, which is rare and most people don't get. That's my husband again. So I wasn't behaving. And so when someone told me you can't do that or you can't make any more of those products and whatever that is, I had the ability to say that then we won't launch it at all. Or I can see that threatening, you know, because I'm not behaving, I'm not giving in or giving up. I fought for the customer, for the product, for the, for my team, for the heartbeat, for the brand to be the best it could possibly be and to be everything that you ever dreamt it to be. So when you spend your hard earned money on it and you take it home, it delivers on its promises and you feel great about it in it and it makes you feel something.
Kirby
So then if a brand founder comes to you and says, hey, we're in the market, we're looking to be acquired. Do you think there is an Estee Lauder curse? Is there a l' Oreal curse? Is there a conglomerate curse? This, this acquisition affliction, where you are, your great brand gets scooped up and then in a couple years time, I
Jared Blandino
think it would be a great thing if corporations and cosmetic Giants took a step back and respected the brands that they're hungry for, saw what makes them special, looked at the heartbeat and said, how can we continue that heartbeat and spread it around the world and not diminish it and force it into our arrogant idea of what a company could and should be, but learn from the rebellious creativity and innovation that these young people, these rebels, have created? Maybe there's something we can learn from that, but that can be threatening to people who don't, like artists do not hold value.
Kirby
Looking at P L's.
Sarah
Yeah.
Kirby
Because for them, it's like profit, loss, that's all they really care about.
Jared Blandino
There's an element of, I own you now. I'm going to tell you what to do. And like, you don't fucking know me. You didn't buy me, you bought a pantone and a logo. Sit the fuck down. Do you know what I mean? There's an element of that and that's what a founder feels. I don't care. Unless she builds it to sell it. Maybe there's something else there. But if you're a passionate founder who loves your brand and has been blessed enough to be acquired and change your life and change your family, and if you want to stay, which I did, it should be more of the good. Obviously. You have to learn, you have to adapt. I'm not like Pollyanna here, but you shouldn't go after the heartbeat of the brand. And I became a threat to some people there and it became more.
Sarah
Yeah, but I think too, like, as a consumer and fan of a brand, you can tell quickly when the heartbeat is gone and dead.
Jared Blandino
Yes. And that's why polite society is so important, because I couldn't let that be my last chapter. I was in such a dark place at the end of that. I was waking up at like 4am Clutching my heart, like I. It was a physical, painful, ultimate ending that I am grateful for because it lit a fire under my ass and made me want to do this again. Bring back that everyday glamor, that rebellious creativity, the love for the product and the people wearing it, and give them a home and a space and build a world where they can exist and be free and celebrate the joy of getting ready every day.
Kirby
We joked on this podcast, like, why do founders not go off to an island and just be.
Jared Blandino
I never wanted the island, so I loved what I did. I was so grateful every day that I had this life and I got to affect people all over the world and build products with the most incredible, amazing people that would ultimately spread the love we have for them through the world. We're in a place where everyone's looking for the worst in each other and we're all looking for what divides us. Polite society, two faced. We're homes for people who want to look for the best in each other, who understand that more unites us than separates us. And maybe some of those things that make us different are kind of cool if you let them be or, you know, you look at them a different way or I just think that, you know, people think that beauty can be just this frivolous thing and it's the furthest thing from it because it's the thing that touches your skin. It's the thing that helps you express how you feel on the inside and the outside. It's a part of your soul, your self expression, the way you view yourself in the mirror. And for me, it was a privilege and an honor to do it and I loved it and so I had to continue.
Sarah
Do you have any friends, founders that have sold their brands who have had the opposite experience that you have or are happy with how things are?
Jared Blandino
Not on my level?
Sarah
Yeah.
Kirby
Yeah.
Jared Blandino
And that has a lot to do with it. Guys. Like when we created Too Faced, I. I would have never believed in a billion years. You said it would sell for one and a half billion dollars. That wasn't the goal. I'm not motivated by money. Say that sitting in Chanel. That's a joke. I get it. But what I mean is money does not motivate me. It is not a motivator. I honestly stay away from it. And maybe that's part of my problem because I'll spend money and just, I don't, I don't know how much things, you know, I don't want to know how much money I have. I don't want to how much we're making. Like, I have to sit within the art space because I learned years ago who and what do I bring to the table in this beauty world. I have to think of myself as a rebellious, creative artist and a gay best friend. That is my lane. You know, I'm not the makeup artist who's going to do the Academy. Right. I could have and tried, but I would get really frustrated when I was doing something I loved or creative and the client was like, my brows are too dark or my lip is. I'm like, you look amazing. Shut up. Just shut up and be amazing. You know, So I was like, that's not my life. Yeah, I'm not good in a service oriented environment. So I like, what could I bring to the table? Oh, I could dream up products that have never been there. You know, when the peach palette happened, we were talking about the peach party. I had created a little nine well palette. And I remember this song in my head when I was a kid during the summers, and it was like, summer, summer, peach. It wouldn't be summer. And it was all about, like, fruits. And it was a grocery store commercial. And I remember looking at these peaches when I was a kid. I'm like, ooh, they're, like, pink and they're burgundy, and they're orange and they're yellow, and peaches are so pretty. And I just got this idea in my head, I'm going to make a palette based on that peach. And it was little, and I'm like, oh, I want it to smell. It should smell, you know? And I had this whole idea. I go in and I'm presenting it to my team, and people are like, whispering. They're like, no one's gonna want to, like, have their eyeshadow smell. No one's gonna want to look like that peach isn't. And everyone's, like, doubting me. And I was like, oh, no. Like, you don't always have to get or believe in the idea, but you have to believe in me. So now it's gonna be 18 colors. I'm gonna make it bigger. And those are blessings because I need something to push up against sometimes. And it became one of the, like, best selling makeup items in the world.
Kirby
Yeah.
Sarah
Yeah. My favorite. My favorite eyeshadow palette.
Kirby
Ever have our originals we do in our little makeup library.
Jared Blandino
Yeah.
Kirby
We can't get rid of stuff like that.
Podcast Host / Narrator
Yeah.
Sarah
Still smells delicious.
Kirby
Okay. Jared, I. I'm really fascinated about life after acquisition.
Jared Blandino
Okay.
Kirby
Like, I talk to Sarah about this stuff all the time.
Jared Blandino
I'm like, let's talk.
Kirby
They just wake up and like, yeah, things have changed. Their life is completely changed. I am fascinated by, like, the, you know, anthropology of that. So let's go inside. The actual handoff. You sign the deal.
Jared Blandino
Yeah.
Kirby
Money exchanges hands. The brand has a new owner. What happens the next day? I don't want to hear about the emotional stuff because we've been through that. I want to know logistically, like, are you given a therapist?
Jared Blandino
No.
Kirby
Money manager.
Jared Blandino
We did nothing. And throughout Jeremy's and my career, when really large, life changing things had happened, we went in it in a quiet way and didn't do anything. We didn't talk about it. It's this weird understanding we had of sit Quietly. And let's figure out what this means, because again, understand, when the big. When the billion and a half dollar deal happened, there was a lot of uncomfortableness, there was a lot of fear, there was a lot of pain behind it, and also a lot of excitement and opportunity. So there was this kind of like, am I happy, Am I scared, am I sad, am I thrilled? Like, you know what I mean? What does it mean? What does that, What. What's that kind of money mean? That was never my goal. And so we sat quietly and then the next thing I did for Christmas was buy everyone in my family a house.
Kirby
Yes, that's the right way to do
Jared Blandino
this and decorate it. I asked them during this time, if you could live anywhere, where would you live? Hey, I did a casual, silly. What would it look like? What would you like? What decor would you want? And I set about buying, remodeling and decorating houses for my whole family.
Sarah
Oh, my gosh, love. That's what I think. That's right.
Jared Blandino
We did. That's what we did.
Kirby
That's. That's how you do this, right? In my opinion, Take care of your people.
Jared Blandino
Honestly, for me, like, being an Italian kid, my dad was first generation. He just passed away three years ago. And he's. He's like a driving force in me. Like, family is everything. And if you can't share it, if you can't make someone else's life better through it, it's meaningless. I know billionaires who are miserable, miserable, you know, And I learned this from some of my friends. Madonna is one of my dearest friends. And what she's done with her service to AIDS activism, Malawi and orphans, and what she's been able to do with her success and not just internalize it. Not just, oh, she has a beautiful life. I do too. But what are you going to do with it that will make this world, other people, happier, healthier, safer, better. Money is just options, honey. And it's a magnifying glass. Money will magnify cruel, mean, selfish people or magnified, loving, generous, happy. You know, it's a magnifying glass and it allows you for opportunity. That is it. Better doctors, better zip codes. That's what is. That's money. Right? It's not going to make you happy. It sounds so corny, but you only stare that reality in the face when you're sitting in it and you're like, there are misery. It doesn't stop you from feeling sad, lonely. It creates other issues that are. Not everyone's happy for you. And you Think all your friends are going to be thrilled and happy for you? Maybe they're not. And, you know, it's. It's a trip. It's just a trip. And it, like, I just think, like, every phase of life, from not having money to having money and everything in between, there's lessons that you just learn and navigate through to realize people are the most important thing.
Kirby
Wait, can I ask a Madonna question?
Sarah
Yes. By the way, she looked.
Kirby
Well, actually.
Sarah
Good.
Kirby
Yeah, she looks amazing. And it's not even a question. I went to her tour two, three years ago, and I picked up both of the glosses. Oh, yeah. I created her.
Jared Blandino
So we were sitting on her sofa eating popcorn, and she was telling me about the tour, and it was the first tour she did that. She did Greatest Hits. She had never done that before. And we were like, yes, we've all been wanting it forever. So I'm like, ooh, girl, you need to bring that red lip back from Blonde Ambition. Oh, you need to bring that highlight. And I was telling her, like, different periods of her life and what she should bring back and the looks and the makeup, and she goes, you do it. And I was like, really? Okay. So we, together, we created this line, this makeup line for her tour. So, yeah, thank you for saying that. And you know when you buy something at a concert and they don't give you a bag, So I created these crucifix boxes, necklaces that held the lip plumper and the lipstick that you could wear.
Kirby
So I have them.
Jared Blandino
Yeah.
Kirby
And literally I was wearing them at the concert.
Jared Blandino
Yeah, you have to hold it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. But she's amazing.
Kirby
Dancing to Borderline with my.
Jared Blandino
I know. Living. Living the whole fantasy, honey. I know.
Kirby
So good.
Sarah
So freaking incredible. So I asked about, you know, if you have any founder friends who you communicate with, but are there any newly acquired brand founders that you have spoken with, with, that have offered advice, sort of maybe like how Bobby Brown did for you?
Jared Blandino
No, no. And I would be happy to.
Sarah
What advice would you give them if they were to come to you?
Jared Blandino
I would say, don't say if you don't have control and you. Or you don't have a really planned out purpose and like, vision for the brand. You know, Bobby Brown told me, like, don't look back, it's going to be painful. They're going to do things you would never do. And. And the. Some things that I saw that were incredibly frustrating for me. And so I learned that's. That's something. Don't look back. Like you have to release it with love and move forward. And also get great lawyers, great lawyers and insulate your vision for the, for the transaction and protect you and the brand in the best way you can. If that is your goal.
Kirby
Is there anything that you wouldn't have done after that? You saw 2 face do after you left?
Jared Blandino
Oh, there's too many. And I don't say that in a shitty way. I say that in a way that it actually angers me because I left a lot of people there. I raised a lot of them. They knew better. They knew what was right for the brand. It isn't about me. It's not about my vision. It's not about I'm right. It is not. The brand has a heartbeat. It's alive. It was. And there were things I left. I left a bible of do nots and, and can you give us a do not, do not change the pantom. Don't change the logo. Don't feed into the idea that you're. You're for 12 year olds because I know the corporate machine might see you that way. Keep the integrity into the product, into the packaging. Stay on course. And there was just a list and very quickly popcorn and purple cloud showed up at a red logo and. But it's okay. But it's kind of like your kid get marries someone that you end up not liking and he cuts her hair and he changes her clothes and starts talking different. You're just like what happened to my baby? But also you don't. Your baby's an adult and your baby left. So there's a part of just having to just deal with it and move on. But some of the people that knew better and created this environment with some people that I were, the people that I love and honor and respect are now left sheltering and shouldering the majority of the disappointment and pain and those people knew better.
Sarah
Can I ask how long your non compete was?
Jared Blandino
Five years.
Sarah
Okay. And during that period were you already dreaming up polite society or were you even allowed to be dreaming up polite society?
Jared Blandino
I could do anything I want. First of all in my brain.
Kirby
Yeah. We've learned.
Sarah
Could you have like if you hired anyone to help you.
Jared Blandino
I didn't do a thing until midnight on June was it 30th, it was over. And so the very next day began the pulling the things out of my head into reality.
Sarah
Okay.
Jared Blandino
So no, I could not do anything, talk to anyone. Was I dreaming? Were the last two years so frustrating and so, so just creatively frustrating and you know, fueled by hurt and Disappointment that I began to dream of a world that would allow people like me and the people who grew up with us and the people who love a little bit of glamor for every day that relax California luxury, love getting, you know, like standing out a little more than their friends and just like being just a little bit extra but with formulas that deliver on their promises and packaging. That is inspiring. Yes, I did started when I couldn't do it, when I was told you can't do that, no more of that. Even though I had the best selling, one of the best selling products in the world, you can't make any more of those because some lawyer decided it fueled that, that need to express myself through creativity and through hopefully the goal of empowering and enlightening the world and people to feel their best selves and with the absolute best products I can create.
Kirby
So you've talked about the evolution of yourself as a founder. You leave and then you come up with all these ideas of like what you want to do next.
Jared Blandino
Yeah.
Kirby
And it's color cosmetics.
Jared Blandino
Yeah.
Kirby
So how do you ensure this is not just too faced 2.0?
Jared Blandino
So that's a very interesting question. For the first year of development, in the first year in the marketplace, I was kind of running from myself because I was told by people who love me, by friends, by people in the industry, people who care, people who, who have a stake, don't be too two faced, don't make it to two faced. And I was very two faced is me, by the way. So the funny thing about it is it's me and my, my perspective of the world. I want you to look your best, I want you to be the sexiest version. I want you to get the job you want and dump the loser boyfriend that doesn't deserve you. That's my perspective. And so I was kind of running from myself. But as two faced became less and less and less me when they started doing things that I would never do and it stopped being the version of me that it was, it freed me up to be more of myself. And when that happens and you get to step into yourself and stop being afraid of yourself and say if I were going to do this today, if I were going to build two faced today, what would it look like? It would not look like that. What would it look like? And you're seeing that develop in polite society and, and you're going to see more embellishment, you're going to see a little more creativity, a little more fun, a little more flair, a little more glam. That's my perspective. I wear diamonds to breakfast. I'm like, I don't care. I like to celebrate life. I want to feel my best. I want to be a little extra. And you're going to start seeing that show up. And our new mascara Misbehave is a perfect example of that. And also, what didn't I do then? How can I make this experience better? I had the number one selling mascara in the world. How can I elevate? I know how to create a mascara. I know, right? But in a clean, modern way. How do I make the most thick, voluminous mascara possible? I was eating Cheetos, and there were cheese puffs there. Why? Actually, let's. Let's be real. I wasn't eating them, but we were at work at an office party, and there were bowls of them. And I saw the Cheetos being dense and thick. And then I saw the cheese puffs being big and puffy even. They were the same thing, but one was puffy. So I went about trying to create a pigment that would puff so you could get the volume and the thickness without the weight. Okay, great. We're working on that. How could I make the experience of applying mascara better? I wrapped a tube of. A basic tube of mascara in clay. I crunched it with my fingers to get the best position, the best contour of control. Then I went about designing a brush that had different bristles on the top, bottom, and center so I could control the load, the pull through the volume. And so in the new mascara, it is held a certain way. It's contoured to your thumb. You hold it in a certain way. I can control quicker load, cleaner lashes, and f build through the science and innovation of just taking it a step further.
Kirby
I haven't tried it yet, but I'm
Jared Blandino
a master, so it's here. So if you see, there's also a little gold ring in the center.
Kirby
Yes.
Jared Blandino
My grandmother, my blessed grandmother, who's so chic and fabulous, and she would take me to Rodeo Drive, and my first wallet was from Gucci. She was glam. And I had another scrappy Italian side, so. So I got these two sides. But she was always so just lovely and beautiful. And she always wore silk blouses and she wore a Tiffany bone cuff. And I love her, and I get so much of my appreciate. Appreciation for style and femininity women from her. And that is a nod to my grandmother. It's a version of my brain, of. Of her bracelet.
Kirby
And it's ergonomic.
Jared Blandino
And the ring Is not, but the handle is. Do you see how there's, like a gold ring in the center?
Kirby
Yes.
Jared Blandino
That's nod to my grandmother to classic glamour. And then see, the handle perfectly molds to your thumb. And now I can control what bristles are where. Because in a round mascara, I can't control. They have to be the same all the way around.
Kirby
Oh, my gosh. I can't wait to try this. I know.
Sarah
I can't wait.
Jared Blandino
Faster volume, thick, crazy, lush lashes. It's like sex in a tube.
Kirby
Sex.
Sarah
Better than sex in a tube.
Kirby
Better than sex in a tube.
Jared Blandino
Oh, did I say that?
Kirby
Oh, no, we said that.
Jared Blandino
That's Freudian.
Sarah
We said that.
Jared Blandino
Sorry.
Sarah
Yeah, Sarah said it, I said it.
Kirby
Way to go.
Sarah
Come after me.
Jared Blandino
Oh, no.
Sarah
I can't wait to see the before and afters. Speaking of. Yes, Jared, you have said that every product needs a tik tok.
Podcast Host / Narrator
Wow.
Jared Blandino
Yeah.
Sarah
So how much does the ability to create this dramatic before and after influence what actually gets developed?
Jared Blandino
It has everything to do with it. Because you need to see a demonstrative before and after. Now it is the road that I and others help pave in the cosmetic world is the same road. It's just so much more crowded now. So how do you break through the noise? You have less time to hook someone, inspire them, to get them excited. Things must react quick. So like my rose milk. Bam. You get a glazed face. My highlighter that has no glitter, no frost. It's like a light sponge. Bam. You see it immediately. The lashes. Our lip plumper, which is our number one selling product. The number one lip plumper at Ulta. Hey, Big mouth. Big mouth xl. Number one lips like that. Bam. Faster.
Kirby
Do not kiss your baby.
Jared Blandino
No, don't kiss your baby with it, honey or a dog. Go ahead, kiss your man. That's fine.
Kirby
Kiss your man.
Jared Blandino
Like it.
Kirby
Set him on fire.
Jared Blandino
Set him on fire. But it is about quicker, faster results. Products that deliver on their promises with efficacious, clean ingredients that deliver on their promises on a level that you're never even going to expect them to. That's polite society.
Kirby
Okay. I think.
Sarah
I think we should go into this rapid fire.
Kirby
I agree. Yeah. This has been such a fun combo, unfortunately.
Jared Blandino
I want to thank you for the opportunity to talk to you. You are the most incredible women who have done the most incredible thing with this podcast. Congratulations.
Kirby
Thank you.
Jared Blandino
It's not easy. And you just such positive, wonderful lights in this world. And I appreciate you and thank you for letting me be here.
Kirby
We appreciate you. Thank you. For coming on Long overdue, our friend.
Sarah
And thank you for all the gifts that you have given us over the years.
Jared Blandino
Yeah, my pleasure.
Kirby
Okay, let's do this rapid fire. Okay. You can also plead the fifth on some of these. I got a little spicy. I got a little spicy.
Jared Blandino
I'm getting nervous. Okay. Okay.
Kirby
Jared, how much money do you actually see from a $1.45 billion acquisition?
Jared Blandino
A lot.
Kirby
Okay.
Sarah
The fact that he was able to buy his whole family houses and decorate
Jared Blandino
them, and it's generational wealth that I want to make sure lasts for generations and does good for a lot of people. And I have causes that are near and dear to my heart, and I. I want to make this world a better place.
Sarah
What's one thing you can never do again? Once you sell a brand for that
Jared Blandino
much money, what's the one thing you can never do again? Not have people Google how much money you have. Having neighbors come up, having people talk about it. It's not only kind of, like, embarrassing, but it's dangerous.
Kirby
Did Too Faced create glitter eyeshadow?
Jared Blandino
I did. I am too faced. So say what you want to say. I don't care how you define that.
Kirby
I'm asking because Aaron Parsons, I'm sure you maybe have seen a video.
Jared Blandino
No.
Kirby
Oh, okay. The claim is, is that there was another brand that created glitter eyeshadow before Too Faced.
Jared Blandino
Well, guys, listen. In a world where creativity popping, just because I. I never saw it, and I chopped glitter into it, and. And I thought, I. I don't have proof. I don't know. Who's Aaron Parsons? I mean, it's possible.
Kirby
She is an amazing makeup artist. I think you would love her.
Sarah
Historian.
Jared Blandino
Like, I don't know, like, again, my last job was at the mall. I'd never seen it. Yeah, it came from. There was a club in Hollywood called Club 70s 1970s. And I got this black shirt at Aardvarks on Melrose and had silver thread running through it. And so when I was in the lab creating our first collection, I said, oh, can we make a shadow like this? And the lab studies lady said, no, you can't. And across the department, across the lab were there were jars of glitter, because that's where they did lip gloss. And I went over and I grabbed a big jar of silver glitter and I brought it back, and I go, can't you put this in the black matte shadow? And she said, no. And I said, why? And it was something about binders. And I said, put more binder in it. And so, like, three tries it worked.
Kirby
I can't remember what, who it was, who she said it was, like which brand. But she's a historian.
Jared Blandino
I don't think there was a brand in retail that had it because otherwise
Sarah
you would have have known or purchased it.
Jared Blandino
I do. I did this in 97.
Kirby
Okay.
Jared Blandino
Okay, so. But if there is, I relinquished the crown and bravo. Like I don't have proof of that.
Sarah
We'll have to, we'll have to follow up. We'll have to follow up. Let me know.
Jared Blandino
Let me know if I've been a fraud.
Sarah
No, you're not a friend. Okay. What is something founders need to stop doing, in your opinion?
Jared Blandino
Talking about other people's products in a negative way. You don't need to pull somebody down to lift yourself up. No one needs to lose for you to win. Be a fan of other brands. I saw recently another brand who's going to be launching a product comparing her new product to other people's best selling products. You don't need to do that. All you do is you're opening yourself up for direct comparison. And obviously more people like that than like yours. That's just not smart. But it's not the right way to approach this industry, this world. Again, let's lift each other up. Love each other. You know, when there was an artist who maybe copied another artist and there was a bit of controversy recently, I don't think that founder meant to copy necessarily something that inspired him. But you have to be so careful of giving credit to the people who deserve the credit and simply just saying this I saw over here and it delighted and it excited me and this is my twist on it. Pull each other up. Give her or him an opportunity to have their name said in a room of people who would never heard their name. It doesn't diminish you or what you created. It's my spin on what I saw and what I created. But isn't that wonderful? And I kind of made it easier to achieve or whatever. That's all you have to do.
Kirby
Okay. Alternatively, what do conglomerates need to stop doing?
Jared Blandino
Killing the heartbeats of the brand and over dominating the people they acquire as though they're threats and that their artists, artists must disrupt the piece. That's why they're here. That's why they're successful. If you could do what they did, you wouldn't be spending a billion and a half dollars on their shit. So respect it, appreciate it, protect it and love it.
Sarah
If you could own any other brand besides your own, what would it be?
Jared Blandino
If I Can own any other brand. What I want to own. I don't want to own any other brand. But I'm a huge fan of so, so many. And I love that there is a lot of opportunity for new brands. But what I don't love is how quickly they are edited and killed, which thus requires huge amounts of money to launch a brand. Because what I achieved in 10 years, I had to achie and two with polite society because the world won't wait. And so I think we have to allow for space of growth for a creative, amazing young people to create brands that are going to take five years to pop, protect and incubate them and give them space to do so. Because although there's more room for more people now because it's like more is more. There's. It's harder to do on a budget.
Kirby
Okay, can you name a brand or two that you love and want to uplift right now?
Jared Blandino
Oh, my gosh. There's so many. Oh, my gosh. Now you're putting me on the spot
Kirby
as our, like, makeup forefather. Like, listen, I don't want to hurt
Jared Blandino
anyone's feelings by not mentioning them, but I want to say, I see you, I believe in you. Goliath does not. More than Davey. Does not know more than Davey. Fifth Avenue addresses and pedigrees and big, huge resumes cannot overpower or replace your artistic vision. Stay true to your vision. It cannot all be about making money. It has to be about how can I improve the world, improve her life, his life. How can I make the world better, prettier, more colorful? Money will come. Stay true to that vision. Stay true to the purpose, why you're doing it. And don't believe the lie of you can't. It's too impossible. I broke the odds. I'm here to tell you you can break the odds. Odds aren't for you. They're for other people. You be the one who makes it through and get it done.
Kirby
Why don't you want to say a name of another brand?
Jared Blandino
I will. Okay. I will.
Kirby
Okay.
Jared Blandino
Okay. Do you want me to.
Kirby
Yeah, just go.
Jared Blandino
I just. Because for me, sometimes this will come back at me like, okay, okay. I think merit is a fabulous reinterpretation of an authentic human being. And look and category that I think is so fresh. I think medicine by Dr. Diamond is creative and efficacious and kind of cool in this weird way. Their packaging is cool and weird. There are. There literally are so many that I would never want anyone to feel bad that I didn't mention you or I don't support you, I don't love you, or I don't see you.
Kirby
I don't think anybody thinks that. That's just like brands that you are a fan of.
Jared Blandino
Okay, fine.
Sarah
Love that.
Kirby
Love that. Okay, this is the last one. This is like, just personal for me. Like, I want to be as fabulous as you when I go to somebody's home. What's the best gift to give a host or hostess?
Jared Blandino
Oh, okay, two things. Diamond drunk. Because everyone needs it and they all need it on their counter and they all have. If they have fabulous jewelry. I love a great candle that you have fallen in love with that you use in your own home. Like a kind of a piece of you. It's an easy way that, that someone can easily use or something edible from either your culture or brand you love. Like if I'm Italian, I love a certain pasta or a certain. Certain tomato sauce or a certain salt. I think that's a really fun gift, especially for someone who's got a lot and they don't need, you know, another. Bringing flowers makes them feel like they have to display. Bringing wine or champagne, they have to serve it. Give them something that's kind of for them to discover and that it's for them to.
Sarah
Yeah, for them. Yeah. I love.
Kirby
Awesome. Jared, thank you.
Sarah
We love you so much.
Kirby
You're the absolute best. We really appreciate you coming on and just sharing your story with us.
Jared Blandino
Thank you so much. This was fun. Let's do it again.
Sarah
Come back when the book is out.
Jared Blandino
Let's don't wait 600 episodes, okay?
Sarah
No, please, no.
Kirby
We're not doing that. We're not waiting that long again.
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Hosts: Kirbie Johnson & Sara Tan
Guest: Jerrod Blandino (Co-founder, Too Faced & Polite Society)
Date: July 31, 2026
This episode delves into the emotional and practical realities behind the $1.45 billion acquisition of Too Faced by Estée Lauder Companies—an acquisition that was, as co-founder Jerrod Blandino reveals, never part of his plan. Jerrod discusses the bittersweet aftermath of selling his beloved brand, the “acquisition affliction” observed in the beauty industry, and why he and partner Jeremy started their new venture, Polite Society. Drawing from candid anecdotes, Jerrod offers unfiltered advice for founders, lessons learned, and a behind-the-scenes look at what really happens when a beloved brand is absorbed by a global conglomerate.
Throughout, Jerrod is candid, warm, feisty, and passionate about artistry and the power of beauty to uplift and connect. He cautions that while acquisitions can bring fortune and opportunity, they often risk diluting the heart and soul of what made a brand beloved in the first place. Ultimately, his story is a cautionary (but inspiring) tale on retaining creative control, the value of artistic vision, and always putting people—and passion—above profit.
Endnote:
The hosts close by expressing gratitude for Jerrod’s honesty and legacy in beauty, with a promise to have him back (and for listeners to watch for his forthcoming book).
For practical lessons, beauty business truths, and a masterclass in resilience and reinvention—this episode is a must-listen for anyone aiming to turn their creative vision into a lasting legacy.