Podcast Summary: Good Guys – "WE'RE HAVING A BABY!"
Release Date: November 21, 2024 | Hosts: Josh Peck and Ben Soffer
1. Exciting Announcement: Ben is Expecting
The episode kicks off with Ben Soffer sharing thrilling news: he and his wife, Claudia, are expecting their first child. Ben expresses a mix of overwhelming joy and nervous anticipation about fatherhood.
Ben Soffer [00:28]: "I'm going to be a father. It is like a dream come true."
2. Navigating the Journey to Parenthood
Josh Peck and Ben delve into the journey that led them to this exciting stage. They discuss the deliberate decision-making process, emphasizing the importance of timing and readiness.
Ben Soffer [02:14]: "We've taken our time. It's when it felt right."
3. Emotions: Excitement vs. Fear
Ben candidly shares his emotions, highlighting both his excitement and the fears that come with impending parenthood. The hosts discuss the emotional rollercoaster that many expectant parents experience.
Ben Soffer [02:55]: "I'm so unbelievably scared."
Josh Peck [03:46]: "I was scared, yeah. The Jews, we are wild with the amount of nerves."
4. Cultural Traditions and Personal Preferences
The conversation touches on Jewish traditions surrounding pregnancy, such as refraining from baby showers and gift-giving until after the baby’s arrival. Ben and Josh humorously critique these customs, expressing their personal choices to embrace openness.
Ben Soffer [04:20]: "We don't want to receive anything until we're much further along or the baby is here."
5. Transforming from Good Guys to Good Dads
Ben reflects on the transformation from being the "Good Guys" to becoming responsible and loving fathers. The hosts discuss the evolution of their identities as they step into parenthood.
Ben Soffer [00:28]: "We are the good ones... we're going to transform from the good guys to the good dads."
6. Parenting Perspectives and Growth
Josh and Ben explore their philosophies on parenting, emphasizing support, encouragement, and allowing children to discover their passions without imposing expectations.
Josh Peck [19:53]: "I truly believe that we as parents, it's our job to react to what they show to us."
Ben Soffer [16:02]: "The best advice I ever got... 'It's going to be so great.'"
7. Pregnancy Quiz: Busting Myths and Sharing Facts
To add a fun element, the hosts engage in a light-hearted pregnancy quiz, addressing common myths and sharing factual information about fetal development and baby behaviors.
Josh Peck [29:31]: "They begin to pee. A, B, or C?"
Ben Soffer [34:31]: "They begin to pee. A."
8. Handling Parenting Challenges with Humor
Ben and Josh discuss everyday parenting challenges, such as burping techniques and diaper changes, infused with their signature humor. They offer practical tips while keeping the conversation entertaining.
Ben Soffer [30:08]: "What are you nuts? You're going to break his back."
Josh Peck [31:22]: "I'm excited. I need to learn how to swaddle."
9. Listener Questions: Real-Life Parenting Scenarios
The hosts address listener-submitted questions, providing advice on sensitive topics like relationships and substance abuse in the context of parenting.
Anonymous Caller [40:20]: "My boyfriend really wants to have a baby, but he's addicted to Xanax and cocaine. What should I do?"
Ben Soffer [41:32]: "Xanax or coke? It's too much for your heart."
10. Moments of the Week: Gripes and Giggles
In their recurring segment, "Moment of the Week," Josh and Ben share their recent pet peeves and humorous frustrations, offering a glimpse into their everyday lives and maintaining a relatable connection with listeners.
Josh Peck [50:26]: "Enough with the jokes. Give me a clean picture. What are you, nuts?"
Ben Soffer [51:55]: "Take it and run. You're going to have to throw away the pants."
11. Closing Remarks: Embracing the Future
The episode concludes with heartfelt thanks to their listeners for the support and well-wishes. Ben reiterates his excitement for the new chapter ahead, while Josh encourages the audience to stay connected through various platforms.
Ben Soffer [53:19]: "I'm just thankful to everybody for really some of the nicest messages ever. This baby is already so loved."
Josh Peck [54:17]: "We love you and appreciate you all."
Notable Quotes with Timestamps:
- Ben Soffer [00:28]: "We are the good ones... we're going to transform from the good guys to the good dads."
- Ben Soffer [02:55]: "I'm so unbelievably scared."
- Josh Peck [03:46]: "I was scared, yeah."
- Ben Soffer [04:20]: "We don't want to receive anything until we're much further along or the baby is here."
- Josh Peck [19:53]: "I truly believe that we as parents, it's our job to react to what they show to us."
- Ben Soffer [16:02]: "The best advice I ever got... 'It's going to be so great.'"
Conclusion:
In this heartfelt and humorous episode, Josh Peck and Ben Soffer open up about Ben’s upcoming fatherhood, sharing their emotions, cultural insights, and parenting philosophies. They engage listeners with relatable anecdotes, interactive quizzes, and thoughtful advice, all while maintaining their signature comedic flair. Whether you're a new parent or prospective one, this episode offers both laughs and valuable perspectives on the journey to parenthood.