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Colman Domingo
get up.
Amy Poehler
What do you say?
Colman Domingo
All I ever wanted.
Steven Spielberg
Hi, Amy.
Amy Poehler
Hi, Steven.
Steven Spielberg
Oh, my God. I'm on Good Hang. Good lord.
Amy Poehler
We gotta get you into the stewed.
Steven Spielberg
We tried. We weren't. We couldn't schedule it.
Amy Poehler
Dang. Yeah, we were like, we don't have time.
Steven Spielberg
Yeah, I tried. I tried. I gotta make a few more hits before I grade getting on your show.
Amy Poehler
We were like. We were like. We just want to see one or two more things from Stephen before we say this.
Steven Spielberg
Yeah, I know, I know. I love the audition process.
Amy Poehler
Stephen, you are my subconscious. Like the work that you have made made is in my brain. You shaped my entire life. You are a Gen X director through and through.
Steven Spielberg
Oh, thank you. Thank you. I love that I'm in your subconscious and yet you can still be funny. With my plethora of comedies, you know.
Amy Poehler
Well, I mean, I feel like I've gotten a chance to. Been lucky enough to see you at, you know, places and events and shows and stuff. And I got to see you recently at the SNL 50th.
Steven Spielberg
That was great. That was just great. It was hard to believe. I mean, you know, I was there the first show in 1975. I was in the audience.
Amy Poehler
Get out of here. Really?
Steven Spielberg
Yeah, it was the very first show. Yeah, I flew all the way to New York. Cause it was in the air. It was one of those things, you know, where my generation suddenly was being included in something that was going to define, Define us. And it was just. I just somehow knew I had to be there for it. And I just, you know, got a ticket and went in the audience and watched.
Amy Poehler
Where did you sit and watch? Were you on the floor or were you up in the balcony?
Steven Spielberg
No, I didn't know anybody. I just, I was, I was in the stands. Jaws had come out in June. I think the first SNL show is in October or September.
Amy Poehler
Yes, October 11th.
Steven Spielberg
Yeah. And I was there and it was incredibly. It spoke to me. And after it was over, I left with the audience and somebody came running up and grabbed me and dragged me kind of backstage to Belushi. And so John said, you the guy that made the Shark movie? And I said, yeah. He says, you gotta meet Danny. And he dragged me over to Danny and that was the beginning of my first, the first event that I really became a formal groupie because I, I've always, I've always, I've always gravitated toward comedy and stand up and comedians and, and, and I, I go, you know, Robin Williams was one of my dearest, closest friends in my whole life. And Albert Brooks and I sort of started out together and so that sort of. But I'm not the funny guy. I, I'm a good audience for all of you. I'm, I'm, I'm your best audience.
Amy Poehler
Well, you're here today to talk about Colman Domingo. And he's a new friend of mine. I actually met him on a dance floor, which I wanna talk about, because we were kind of. We met just like at a party.
Steven Spielberg
Makes sense. It so makes sense.
Amy Poehler
But when did you first meet Coleman? Where did you guys first meet, I
Steven Spielberg
was going to make a movie about Ira and George Gershwin. And I was gonna make a movie about the process of writing and staging Porgy. And, and I, I had a script and I was excited and I was casting it and I was looking for Todd Duncan who played Porgy. And I met a lot of actors and when Coleman came in to the meeting, that was the first time I, I, I became certain. First time I met Coleman. But I intended after that meeting to cast him as Todd Duncan.
Amy Poehler
Oh, wow. Stephen, people must come in to meet with you and you must feel their nerves. So how do you get people to relax when they're having a meeting with you?
Steven Spielberg
Well, you know, it disadvantages me if somebody comes in and I can't find them in a 15, 20 or 30 minute meeting because of whatever expectations they bring to the meeting, how nervous some of them are. Some of them aren't nervous at all, but a lot of them. And I had this problem only because of success, because success creates a kind of false front. It's kind of like, you know, I've always seen myself early in my career being successful, but also feeling a little bit like a fake western street on a Hollywood backlot where you walk around behind the facade and there's just a bunch of two by fours holding up the facade. And people, if people only knew how nervous I am and how nervous stressed I get, they wouldn't be so nervous in front of me. And I really was. And I just, I came up with a method which I used for a couple of pictures starting with Raiders of the Lost Ark. And I decided that all the actors that I audition in person, I'm going to meet them in a kitchen and we're going to cook. We're going to, we're going to actually cook. And, and, and so for a couple of movies, starting with Raiders, everybody that came in met me in a kitchen and we were cooking stuff and that's, that was how everybody relaxed around good food.
Amy Poehler
That's so smart because you're also, you're just getting to do something like, it's like what do I do with my hands? Basically is what you're thinking half the time when you're stressed.
Steven Spielberg
Yeah, everybody becomes so real when they're covered, they're covered in flour and you know, and there's, and you're trying to break an egg and the egg spills out on the counter. I mean, everybody becomes the best version of themselves.
Amy Poehler
Although there must have been people like, good news, you have an audition, bad news, you need to Learn how to cook in a week.
Steven Spielberg
Well, the good news is you're gonna be part of a recipe. But the bad news is you're only here for 30 minutes and you're not gonna be able to eat what we made. So all the actors that came into the end of the day were able to actually feast on what we had prepared starting at 9 o' clock in the morning.
Colman Domingo
Right.
Amy Poehler
So you meet Coleman and now you guys are. And did you work together on any other films after that?
Steven Spielberg
What happened was I had actually cast a lot of the movie, and then I had a. Something that doesn't often happen when I'm that far down the line. But I had a kind of second thought about the project and I decided not to continue making it. That's the only reason Coleman and I didn't work together then. But remembering Coleman as well as I did, I cast him in Lincoln playing Private Green.
Amy Poehler
Right.
Steven Spielberg
And that was the first time we actually professionally worked together.
Amy Poehler
And what is it like working with him?
Steven Spielberg
Kind of like riding in a Waymo where you don't have to do anything but sit in the backseat because the car drives very well by itself. And Coleman is. When he graces your set, he brings kindness and he brings collaboration and he brings love and he brings a real sense of, let's have fun while we're working hard. While we're working hard to be serious, can we also have fun? And he makes a director look forward to going to work the next morning.
Amy Poehler
Oh, what a dream. I mean, I'm sure you're at the point in your life and career too, where you can tell, like sometimes, you know, people. People are motivated by a lot of things as, you know, as a director, and you have to kind of find out what motivates them. But when someone has talent and ease. Yeah, it's not always the case.
Steven Spielberg
No, it's not always the case. I've been lucky. I've had actors. I've had a lot of actors who have been such great collaborators, you know, to work with, even on really, you know, trying films projects. But Coleman isn't about himself. He's about the whole, you know, he's. He's about. It's like the play is the thing, as Shakespeare said. He's about the play, he's about the whole. He's. He's as interested in the actors he's playing opposite, even more so than he is about his own role in the. In the whole. And that's rare. That's really, really rare. He is so full of empathy. And because my movie deals, disclosure date, you know, deals a lot with the importance of empathy. Coleman was a very easy choice for me to make, to invite him to be part of this company and part of this ensemble.
Amy Poehler
We cannot wait for this movie. Another hit. Stephen, huge knock on my wooden head. Listen, I'm calling it right now, okay? Now, I don't believe in jinxes, and I call it as I see it. And I'm telling you something. This movie is. Everybody is ready for this movie. It looks so good. I still don't really know what it's about, which is great. I think it has to do with aliens, but you tell me. I don't know.
Steven Spielberg
Well, what can I say? Here's looking at you. Here's looking at you, kid.
Amy Poehler
Do you have a question for me that I could ask him, big or small?
Steven Spielberg
I've been thinking about that. You know, he's. He's such a success, and he's so consistently successful. I'd love you to ask him, was there ever a film he auditioned for that he didn't get and he was desperate to get?
Amy Poehler
Ooh. Oh, yeah. I mean, I bet he has an answer to that, because I know that he. I mean, when I look at his career, he's really done a ton of different types of work. I mean, Colman, talk about empathy. He can play. He has a huge range. He can play, like, just a love bomb of a person. And he can play a really sinister, scary person, too.
Colman Domingo
Yes.
Amy Poehler
Okay. That's a good one. Well, Stephen, thank you so much for your time. It really means a lot. I know Coleman will be thrilled that we talked, and I can't wait to talk to him about what it's like to work with you.
Steven Spielberg
I can't wait. I can't wait to watch this.
Amy Poehler
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Colman Domingo
I bought you a meal. I bought you a. I bought you an egg.
Amy Poehler
Okay. Now I've been starting to get gifts, which is.
Colman Domingo
That's when it becomes. That's. That's when it becomes ridiculous. Right. When someone finds out what she.
Amy Poehler
That you like something, but. Okay, let's discuss this for the listeners. What did you bring me?
Colman Domingo
I bought you a fake egg. This is a cute. It's a keychain. Look at that.
Amy Poehler
Okay, I'm gonna describe this while I show it. It is a fried egg on a keychain.
Colman Domingo
Yes. Do you like fried eggs?
Amy Poehler
I love fried eggs.
Colman Domingo
Oh, good. Me too.
Amy Poehler
Sunny side up.
Colman Domingo
I love a sunny side up because it gets things moving. That's why not to start off there and just go to my bottle. I guess that's where we're going.
Amy Poehler
Let me ask you about your sunny side up. Do you like to. Cause this yolk is very exposed. Do you like to flip it once and get like.
Colman Domingo
I like. I like that in a little crunch.
Amy Poehler
Me too.
Colman Domingo
A little crunch. And then like so you get. Then it bursts with a little hot sauce on there. A little.
Amy Poehler
This is a rubber. Also, Coleman brought me plastic silverware in case I wanted to pretend to eat it. I'm not a crazy person, Coleman. I know this is fake. Okay.
Colman Domingo
Oh, my God. Okay, well, this is. This is now gonna get ridiculous.
Amy Poehler
Well, I don't wanna brag, but we got a couple a list stuff up here. We got some pea pods from Jennifer Lawrence. We have.
Colman Domingo
Where'd the raspberries come from?
Amy Poehler
Oh, the raspberries. Where did they come from? Oh, moma. Moma sent us fake raspberries.
Colman Domingo
Moma's very.
Amy Poehler
Let's put it next to moma's raspberries.
Colman Domingo
I think that's good. Raspberries and eggs.
Amy Poehler
And there's an egg here.
Colman Domingo
There's another egg there.
Amy Poehler
Look at that.
Colman Domingo
Look at that. Oh, my God. Okay, that's too cute. Oh, my God. I made the board. It's so good. This is already a good hang. A good hang with Amy.
Amy Poehler
Paul, you know, Ina Garten gave us that giant chicken that's.
Colman Domingo
That's actually really cool.
Amy Poehler
Isn't that a really good chicken?
Colman Domingo
It's really good. I'm really fascinated by all of this.
Amy Poehler
I know. Isn't it cool? It's very satisfying.
Colman Domingo
It's good.
Amy Poehler
And I.
Colman Domingo
When did. Now. You didn't know I was gonna interview you. When did the fetish start? Tell us about your childhood, Coleman. Yes.
Amy Poehler
I don't know, but it's like good art. I don't know how to explain what I like, but I know it when I see it.
Colman Domingo
Yeah.
Amy Poehler
I love that egg that you brough.
Colman Domingo
You're very welcome.
Amy Poehler
Cause it's realistic. I don't like children's fake food. I'm an adult.
Colman Domingo
Grown people's fake food. Exactly. What are you? You're not nuts. It's so good. It's.
Amy Poehler
Colman Domingo is here. I was really thinking about what to wear. Cause I knew you'd look incredible.
Colman Domingo
Do I look good? I'm fine. I'm wearing a lime green sweater situation.
Amy Poehler
You can wear anything, really. You look incredible in everything. You have the best style.
Colman Domingo
Thank you.
Amy Poehler
And like, the style is bigger than just clothes. Like, you have a. You have a way of moving through the world where you like. I find clothes and fashion be kind of confusing for me. Like, I'm always trying to figure it out. I don't always feel like it's a world that I understand or that I'm a part of. But whenever I see you wearing whatever you're wearing, it's like an invitation.
Colman Domingo
I think it is. I think literally that's what I think it is. It's like, okay. Even like, what I was supposed to wear, there was a jacket with this. And I thought, oh, no, I'm gonna go hang with Amy.
Amy Poehler
She's a gotta show those guns, baby.
Colman Domingo
I gotta show the guns. I gotta sex it up a little bit. No, I shouldn't.
Amy Poehler
That's what I emailed you. I was like, you gotta bring it.
Colman Domingo
Bring that sex. That's what our viewers want. I'm doing what I'm supposed to do. So. But I thought, like, I just wanna feel relaxed with you. Right. The jacket was just all like, you know, button up. It's a very serious business. But I was like, nah, I want to feel a little sexy.
Amy Poehler
But that's exactly the point. Like, the clothes never wear you. Like you. It's always a feeling. How do I get into this feeling? Right. This character? And that is what I have learned about wearing something. Like, figuring out how to dress is like, basically, how do you want to feel?
Colman Domingo
What do you consider your style to be when you wear a suit, I can always tell. You look so sexy and beautiful in yourself.
Amy Poehler
God bless you.
Colman Domingo
Exactly. You didn't know that this was gonna happen today, did you?
Amy Poehler
I mean, I hoped. I hoped.
Colman Domingo
No, but because also, I can tell that you feel very comfortable in your body and stuff.
Amy Poehler
It's comfort.
Colman Domingo
I think you stay. Listen, Diane, Keaton did that. Diane Keaton was like. She perfected her style in a way that was just her own. And she was always cool and chic, and it had these masculine vibes to it, and that was her.
Amy Poehler
Who are you wearing?
Colman Domingo
Oh, Paul Smith today. Paul Smith.
Amy Poehler
Heard of him?
Colman Domingo
Yeah, Paul. You know.
Amy Poehler
Okay. We got. We're kind of new friends. We're getting to know each other. And I feel like I was trying to remember when we first met. And I think we first really met non verbally on a dance floor.
Colman Domingo
That's exact. You do remember it was at a night before party, Right?
Amy Poehler
One of the Emmys.
Colman Domingo
The Emmy night before parties. And we just. I don't know. The DJ was killing it that night. And you and I. And you were wearing a suit, actually.
Amy Poehler
Ooh.
Colman Domingo
You were wearing a suit. And you and I, we just cut it up. And I was like, oh, my God, Amy Poehler can dance her ass off.
Amy Poehler
Oh, my God. Thank you for saying that. Right back at you. I mean, we were killing it. Why do you love to dance? I always love to ask people who love to dance why they love to dance.
Colman Domingo
You know, I grew up, I think my parents used to always throw the best parties. So New Year's Eve was always at our house. And we didn't have. We lived in a row home in Philadelphia. And so the basement had a bar down there.
Amy Poehler
Oh, my God. We had a basement, too, where we
Colman Domingo
did those dark, dank basements.
Amy Poehler
Were your poles carpeted?
Colman Domingo
Oh, absolutely carpeted. We had a black Sheba, a velvet on the wall. Like, you know, she's like some black woman with an Afro and her tits out and a panther. And I would always look at it
Amy Poehler
and just confused, like, remember, like string art?
Colman Domingo
Yes, absolutely. All of that was down there. So everything was down there. Our Christmas toys were in the back, but that's a whole other thing. But it was really. We would have dance parties down there. So we'd go down there and the music was cranked up and we danced to. We just danced. I come from a family that loved to dance. My mother, before she passed. My mother passed in 2006. One of the things that my sister always loves to tell me is, like, just the week before, my mom was dancing in the aisles of Pathmark. Oh, she was dancing like, you know, playing whatever music was playing. She was dancing in the aisles. So the idea that. That's my sister's memory of my mother dancing. So I. Who can dance anywhere? Like, I have zero shame.
Amy Poehler
Me too. And in fact, you know, I Get it actually helps me expel a lot of my social anxiety. Yeah, Like, I'd rather dance than talk. Yes, Same here.
Colman Domingo
We dance like. Do you remember that show Dancing on Air?
Amy Poehler
Oh, well, we had dance. Well, you were from Philly.
Colman Domingo
Dancing on Air was Dance the one. Oh, Dance usa.
Amy Poehler
Dance usa.
Colman Domingo
Yeah, exactly.
Amy Poehler
With Kelly Ripa.
Colman Domingo
With Kelly Ripa, exactly. Yeah, exactly, exactly. But, like, you and I dance, like, from that generation in the astronaut.
Amy Poehler
We're the same age, basically.
Colman Domingo
Same age. So, like, when you. You cut.
Amy Poehler
You tear it down 100%, we really move. And it's like.
Colman Domingo
Cause they don't move like that anymore. We move like we were trying to hurt somebody.
Amy Poehler
There's a whole thing, a trend on TikTok about how, like, showing the difference between how Gen X and Gen Z dance. Because Gen Z barely moves.
Colman Domingo
They barely move.
Amy Poehler
And Gen X, like, clear the dance floor.
Colman Domingo
Oh, we. We.
Amy Poehler
Did you have high school dances and what was playing? What music was playing at those.
Colman Domingo
Listen.
Amy Poehler
Dances.
Steven Spielberg
Listen.
Colman Domingo
They had high school dances. And I went to high school with Will Smith, by the way. They had high school D, but I was.
Amy Poehler
You went to high school with Will Smith?
Colman Domingo
With Will Smith, yeah.
Amy Poehler
Incredible. Same grade.
Colman Domingo
He was one, right above me.
Amy Poehler
Oh, my God. What was he like in high school?
Colman Domingo
You know, he was a cool kid. He was actually a cool kid. He was actually very friendly. Everybody really liked him. And he performed at the Wynn Ballroom in Philadelphia. He and Jazzy Jeff. But I was a bonafide nerd. I didn't do any of that stuff.
Amy Poehler
Coleman.
Colman Domingo
No, no, no. I didn't come. I didn't turn into this until, like, second year of college because I decided I didn't want to be like that anymore. I was very shy and bookish and very awkward.
Amy Poehler
So you weren't, like, tearing up the dance floor in high school?
Colman Domingo
No, no, no. I was dancing at home with my siblings. But in high school, I didn't go to any dances. I know. This is where it gets sad. I didn't go to any dances.
Amy Poehler
You didn't go. You're feeling too shy.
Colman Domingo
I went to my prom, but I got there late because my prom date, Terry Hayes, was very late getting her dress made. So we got there very late. So I didn't even dance at my prom.
Amy Poehler
Okay, okay.
Colman Domingo
This has gotten very tragic. Very tragic.
Amy Poehler
Well, because I feel like. I feel like that this idea of coming into your own and, like, feeling your getting in your sense of power and, like, who you are and all this stuff is, like, the theme of the. For me, your career Your life, your interview. Because I find my experience with you, I feel like you really have worked very hard to know who you are and to like show that person to the world, basically.
Colman Domingo
I mean, I think, listen, that started. I think one of my first jobs was at Barnes and Noble bookstore in Philadelphia. And I would take care of the self help section. This was when I was 18 years old. Self help and travel, those are the sections I took care of. And I would be in the corners and I'd be reading these books on how to become a person, to be very honest. Cause I felt I was awkward. I wasn't gregarious or anything, but I knew I wanted to become something else. And so I went to self help books and I was like, oh, to become a different person, you had to do certain things or adopt certain traits. And I think while I was becoming an actor as well, it was very useful. So I was actually trying on these different things in the way I dress, the way I express myself, the way I walk into a room, the way I spoke, you know what I mean, Where I pitched my voice, all of that stuff. So I feel like all of this was. Has been a bit manufactured, you know, because I didn't have. I was. I didn't have it before.
Amy Poehler
Well, you know, you've talked so much about your mom, who seems so amazing.
Colman Domingo
No, you would have loved her.
Amy Poehler
You would have loved her, I bet. And what would she tell you in those little awkward times? Like, what would she. How would she reassure you? Or. Or just like gently kind of walk by, you know, alongside you while you were feeling awkward? What would she say?
Colman Domingo
I'll tell you this. Well, I have to tell you a story now because of that, because you just made me think of this. When I was a kid, I used to always suffer from, like, really terrible asthma. And one time I was hospitalized and it was right. And I went in right before maybe about like November 1st or something like that. And I was in the hospital and just breathing and stuff like that, getting myself together. And then when I came out, when I was healthier, I came out and my mom picked me up at night and we're driving through the city and there's all these lights up, all the Christmas lights and stuff like that everywhere. And I said, oh my God, look at all the lights. She says, you know, they all put up their lights to welcome you back home.
Amy Poehler
Oh, come on.
Colman Domingo
And so this is the mother that I had. She would make me believe that I was very special and that the world was set up to do Me more good than harm. Constantly. She was constantly going against any narrative of what the world was and telling me that I was special, that I was useful, that I can be whatever I wanted. I can travel. Cause I was always. I always had my head in the book. I was looking at images of ancient Egypt and Rome and she said, when you could grow up, you can go to those places. Go to. So I always had a huge imagination because of my mother.
Amy Poehler
Yeah.
Colman Domingo
So it was in all those moments when she was just like, when I wasn't feeling great about myself or anything, she would tell me how smart I was.
Amy Poehler
Yes.
Colman Domingo
That was the thing. She always told me I was smart.
Amy Poehler
Yeah.
Colman Domingo
She always said, you're so smart and so handsome.
Amy Poehler
That kind of early conditioning it makes. I mean, I'm saying the obvious, but it's like actually a privilege. I'm learning more and more it's a privilege to have had a parent or parents that said that to you.
Colman Domingo
Yeah. Was your parents like that as well?
Amy Poehler
Absolutely. Where they would be like, you can do that. Whisper of, you can do what you want to do. You're smart, you're capable, you're useful,
Colman Domingo
You have purpose.
Amy Poehler
Yes, exactly. There's a reason why you're here. All that stuff, when it's said out loud, it changes the course of your life.
Colman Domingo
I think it does. I've been given so many beautiful moments by people throughout my life who told me something that maybe I didn't see in myself, even how I became an actor. One of my early college teachers, I took an acting class just as an elective. Again, my mother said, take a class for fun. Take something to get you outside of yourself. And so we thought about an acting. And I took this class and then this teacher, Chris Wolf, he said to me, first time I ever heard this from anyone, truly. He said, have you ever thought about acting as a profession? I was like, I don't even know what that is.
Amy Poehler
I don't know how.
Colman Domingo
I'm a kid in West Philly. I don't know. Yeah.
Amy Poehler
What were your parents jobs?
Colman Domingo
No, my mom worked at a bank for a long time. She cleaned houses and then she kept going back to school. Eventually she worked in customer service at like First Pennsylvania Bank. Yeah, my dad sanded hardwood floors. He was my stepfather and he was just a blue collar worker. I would work with him on the summers and make some extra money. So they were very much like, just like just good working class folks and they wanted you to go to college and do better than them. So they were just like really Trying to prepare you for things. But I'd never heard until I got to college that someone said, I would be curious if you followed this path as an actor. He said, because I think you have a gift. And I realized that I'd never heard someone tell me I had a gift at something.
Amy Poehler
Right.
Colman Domingo
And so suddenly I was like, gift. And he said. And then he said this. It was like a challenge. He said, I'd be very curious if you followed that path. That was like mic drop.
Amy Poehler
I mean, because we. I mean, I don't. I want to get into this this early, but Colman and I are both enneagram eights.
Colman Domingo
Yeah, we are. Yeah, we are. Yeah. Yeah, exactly.
Amy Poehler
And we love a challenge.
Colman Domingo
We got that from Tina Fey. Was like, what's that?
Amy Poehler
Tina made Coleman take the test on the set of the Four Seasons. He got an eight. I was thrilled.
Colman Domingo
And please explain that again, what the eight movies are.
Amy Poehler
Oh, God. My audience is gonna be like, but we're the chall. I guess the point is, he challenged you. I'd be so curious what you do with that gift. And that is a motivating factor for us is like, a little bit of a challenge, is exciting for us. Sometimes it's like our way through. Like, we like a little challenge. I mean, we're so easy. Everybody has their ways that, like, we think we're not manipulated, but we respond well to when someone says, I bet you can't do that.
Colman Domingo
Oh, my God.
Amy Poehler
We're like, I bet I can do that.
Colman Domingo
Yes, it's true.
Amy Poehler
It's true. I'm the same way. When someone's like, maybe. Maybe that's not for you. I'm like, no, it's 100% for me for the rest of my life.
Colman Domingo
Oh, my God. Where are you from?
Amy Poehler
From Boston. I'm right. I'm right around the corner.
Colman Domingo
Right on the corner of the show. Exactly. But see, but it's a city of underdogs as well. Like, Tina and I, we always talk about that. We're like, there's something that Philly in us. Like, yeah.
Amy Poehler
You don't see. Philly makes Boston look like London, England. Tina and I always talk about it.
Colman Domingo
It's true. It's true.
Amy Poehler
Philly is wild.
Colman Domingo
It's wild. I mean, look at her, Ma. I mean, it's just like. I mean, Philly's fanatic. I mean, that's insane. I don't even. Still don't even know what that is.
Amy Poehler
It's an insane person.
Colman Domingo
I mean, we have the mummers parade. We have The Mummers is like, just drunk Irish people on New Year's Day.
Amy Poehler
The only time I've ever been called a C word to my face is at the Philadelphia airport.
Colman Domingo
Wait, what?
Amy Poehler
When Tina and I were. When Tina and I were touring, and we wouldn't give a guy one of the weird, like, you know, autograph people there. When they follow you around the airport and it gets really stressful. And we were like, oh, you're stressing us out a little bit. And then he flung the C word. And Tina turned to me, and she goes, welcome to Philly. And I was like, yes.
Colman Domingo
It was like a badge of honor, though. You're like, yes.
Amy Poehler
Yeah, exactly.
Colman Domingo
They like me here.
Amy Poehler
But I want to say, but you getting out of Philly, you go to San Francisco. But I just want to stay with one thing that I love, Coleman, about you is like, also, there's, like, these. There's shy kid trying to find his way. Mom who told him he was special and the Christmas lights were for him. You go from Philly to San Fran. Why San Fran? Why do you move there?
Colman Domingo
Because I had a couple college buddies. It always happens. This is usually the story. I have a couple college buddies, actually three of them, that were living in a studio apartment in the Tenderloin district. They were like, san Francisco is amazing. I was struggling in school. I was working two jobs and trying to matriculate. And I was like. My mom was like, you know, you can take a semester off, and you can always go back to school. And so I have these friends of mine that moved out to San Francisco. They're like, come out. I was like, great. Like, literally come out. Cause I was also there. That's another sidebar. I.
Amy Poehler
You'd also come out.
Colman Domingo
Joke. I was going to come out when I was in San Francisco.
Amy Poehler
You would come out and also just come out everywhere.
Colman Domingo
Sure. So then I moved to San Francisco, and it was four guys living in a studio apartment in the Tenderloin district. And if anyone out there doesn't know the Tenderloin district.
Amy Poehler
Yeah. Tell everybody about that.
Colman Domingo
You know, ladies of the night and, you know.
Amy Poehler
Yeah, it was a really wild, exciting time.
Colman Domingo
Very exciting. But that's when it was, like, crisp.
Amy Poehler
Yeah. What was your rent? Do you remember how much your rent was?
Colman Domingo
Oh, I do remember. My. It was for. That studio was 625. 625.
Amy Poehler
Split four ways.
Colman Domingo
Split four ways. And we're just, like, there to like. And I literally slept. This is also a terrible joke, but I literally slept in a closet every Morning.
Amy Poehler
You come out of the closet because
Colman Domingo
we had a walk in closet. And so I was the third guy, fourth guy moving in there. And I literally slept in a walk in closet.
Amy Poehler
And you're too tall. I mean, for people that don't know or can't or haven't been next to had the pleasure of being next to you, you're six two.
Colman Domingo
Six two. That's right.
Amy Poehler
Congrats.
Colman Domingo
Tall drink of water.
Amy Poehler
That doesn't cause all these teeny tiny actors. There's a lot of actors.
Colman Domingo
There's a lot of little actors.
Amy Poehler
Yeah, there are. And you know, I kind of get it because, like, you know, it's good for camera. I love being in a scene with a six two gentleman.
Colman Domingo
It's kind of hot, right?
Amy Poehler
Also, it's just a great view. Like, it's a great angle. Like, when we turn around, the camera's gonna be up here. Okay, so you go to San Fran. There you're working as a bartender. You're writing. Do you remember the first play that you wrote? What was it about?
Colman Domingo
The first play I wrote was called Up Jump Springtime. And that is the title of a Stan Getz and Abby Lincoln song. And it goes, I was out promenading in high hopes for fading that dreams ever really come true Then up jumped springtime I gotta look at you. And it was a play that I wrote. I adapted a bit of a novel and I sort of embedded my work in there as well. Really was about coming of age as a young queer man. And I had three actors. We played all the roles. We played men, women, lovers, mothers, fathers, sisters, whatever. But it was really about the experience that nobody was writing about at the time.
Amy Poehler
It must have felt so good to be a successful playwright while you were also auditioning and being an actor.
Colman Domingo
I think so. But to be honest, I didn't consider myself a. I considered myself a writer at that time and. And I grew into becoming a playwright.
Amy Poehler
What year was this that you're writing? What year?
Colman Domingo
I started writing about 1997, the last play. I've written plays and musicals. I've written the Donna Summer musical. Oh, I wanna talk about it on Broadway. I wrote a musical.
Amy Poehler
Broadway. You wrote the book for the Donna Summer musical?
Colman Domingo
Yeah. No, right.
Amy Poehler
I mean, again, in that high school world of like the dances we were at or we weren't at Donna Summer. Her music was so important to our generation and to every generation. But I feel like Donna Summer doesn't quot get spoken about.
Colman Domingo
She doesn't. And she was one of the greatest Singers, I think, that has ever walked this planet.
Amy Poehler
I agree.
Colman Domingo
Because also her voice, she could do anything with her voice. Yeah, she could sing opera, she could sing country, she could sing disco. I think that her voice. I mean, she even famously talked about her voice, which is like, no, I make music and you just never know where I'm gonna be angled in that way.
Amy Poehler
And then before we move on to you, like the career stuff, I just wanna pause to talk about. Cause it is around this time that you meet your husband?
Colman Domingo
Oh, no, I met my husband 21 years ago. So in 2005.
Amy Poehler
Okay. So not in San. You met him in.
Colman Domingo
No. Funny. It's a weird thing. Cause I lived in San Francisco for 10 years, moved to New York. I go back to San Francisco to do a show at Berkeley Rep. Yeah. I go to Berkeley, California. I'm crossing paths, going into a Walgreens with the most beautiful person I think I've ever seen. Not even just beautiful aesthetically, but, like, just energetically. We never speak. Three days later, I'm trying to buy a used computer on Craigslist. I couldn't stop thinking about him. And I thought about posting one of the Craigslist Miss Connections ads.
Amy Poehler
Oh, it's so analogous.
Colman Domingo
It's so analog.
Steven Spielberg
Right.
Colman Domingo
I used to read them like crazy.
Amy Poehler
Yeah.
Colman Domingo
And I get to the second page and third one down. I remember exactly the placement. And it said, saw you outside of Walgreens, Berkeley. He placed it just an hour before I looked. So we were looking for each other, and then we met, and I'm so uncool. We met three days later, had our first date, and I literally was like, I think I love you. You're gonna change my life. That's how uncool I am, though.
Amy Poehler
But that's so good. That's so direct. Also, everyone that took a look at Raul, like, everyone would be like, I love you immediately.
Colman Domingo
Maybe he got that a lot. Like, I love you immediately.
Amy Poehler
I get it. You gotta lock that down fast.
Colman Domingo
Yeah, that was like.
Amy Poehler
But that's. You, like, you're very. I mean, what I'm learning about you, you're in the moment. And also, you've. One of the many, many things that I love about getting to know you is you. There's not a lot of like. Like, you people know how you feel.
Colman Domingo
Yeah. There's no question.
Amy Poehler
That's a. But that's a love language. Like, I'm going to just tell you how I feel now. I'm going to take that risk. I'm like, that's. That's what vulnerability is like. I'm just going to tell you right now, I love you. Like, that's amazing.
Colman Domingo
And I'm always telling people too, like, don't play any games.
Amy Poehler
Me too.
Colman Domingo
Just be straight up.
Amy Poehler
Just be straight. If you don't like it. You don't like me.
Colman Domingo
Exactly. Then that takes time away from, you know, just move away. Get out the way then.
Amy Poehler
Yes.
Colman Domingo
Because the people who will receive that, they're gonna be right there with me.
Amy Poehler
And so you guys have been together 22 years? 21 years.
Colman Domingo
22 years, yeah.
Amy Poehler
You know, here at Good Hang, we only allow a few spouses to come because, you know, you don't want to have everybody's wife and husband around.
Colman Domingo
That's true.
Amy Poehler
And we've had the most amazing group of people. We' Raul's here today?
Colman Domingo
Yeah, he is.
Amy Poehler
We've got. He's in the green room. Hi, Raul.
Steven Spielberg
Hey, Raul.
Colman Domingo
Hey. Hi.
Amy Poehler
I love you. Raul's here today. We had Carol Burnett bring her husband Brian. And we've had Viola Davis's husband Julius.
Colman Domingo
Oh, that's great.
Amy Poehler
And that's it.
Colman Domingo
That's it. That's it for the Good Hang. That's it.
Amy Poehler
That's it. No more spouses. No.
Colman Domingo
Raul's like a cat. He's sort of like, you know, you barely even know he's here.
Amy Poehler
Well, and the cheekbones.
Colman Domingo
What?
Amy Poehler
On both cheekbones.
Colman Domingo
We bought him for the cheekbones.
Amy Poehler
I mean, both of you guys are like, cheekbone. You guys could open up a cheekbone shot.
Colman Domingo
That's our next adventure.
Amy Poehler
It is true.
Colman Domingo
And it's funny because sometimes when we're with other people, they can't even tell that we're. I guess it's a compliment. They can't tell that we've been together for so long.
Amy Poehler
Yes, that is a compliment.
Colman Domingo
They can't tell because we're still like, very in love with each other.
Amy Poehler
Yes.
Colman Domingo
And we have fun and we're touchy feely. But also then even when we're in groups of people, they're like, oh, my God, how do you guys know each other? Oh, that's my husband. They're like, oh, my gosh, that's my bro. But that's also my husband. He's like a lot of fun. Yeah.
Amy Poehler
And I wish you two could have children together. And I know just. But just the two of you.
Colman Domingo
Wait for the science to happen. Many things can happen.
Amy Poehler
Faces alone.
Colman Domingo
Do you just want those cheekbones on a baby?
Amy Poehler
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Colman Domingo
actor if you were in Law and Order. Exactly.
Amy Poehler
Exactly what you were on. What did you play? Do you remember your character?
Colman Domingo
I was on, like, I'd love to ask three or four Law and Orders.
Amy Poehler
I was on different characters.
Colman Domingo
Oh, yeah, yeah, exactly. Remember the Law and Order? Criminal Intent, of course. And I played a schizophrenic heroin addict.
Amy Poehler
Okay.
Colman Domingo
I played an attorney.
Amy Poehler
Perfect.
Colman Domingo
I played an attorney on one of them with Dennis Bucateras.
Amy Poehler
You went from the schizophrenic heroin addict to an attorney.
Colman Domingo
Yeah, exactly.
Amy Poehler
That's acting now.
Colman Domingo
That's acting. I also was a bartender at a leather. At a gay leather bar. Exactly.
Amy Poehler
Like unpacking the various ball gags as you were telling them about.
Colman Domingo
Cause you know what I love about Law and Order is that they're so busy. They're so busy when the cops are talking to them. They're just like, New Yorkers. Didn't have time for anybody. They're like, I'm sorry, I gotta pack these bags while you're talking to me, Officer. What?
Amy Poehler
I gotta get the fruit off this truck. I don't have time for that dead girl. It's incredible.
Colman Domingo
I love watching in particular for that. I'm like, the walking tuck. We're too busy for these officers to talk to us. I love it.
Amy Poehler
Totally.
Colman Domingo
A very busy bartender. Yes, exactly.
Amy Poehler
And was exciting to get those parts at the time. That was a big gig.
Colman Domingo
Because if you didn't get Law and Order, you felt like you were garbage. You were like, I know. I got you.
Amy Poehler
I never got in Law and Order and I. Is my dream. If I could go back in the time machine. If I could back to the future of my life, the one thing I would do differently, and maybe it would change my whole. Maybe it would change.
Colman Domingo
Book a Law and Order.
Amy Poehler
I would. Book a Law and Order. I would.
Colman Domingo
That was my goal. But listen, when I lived in San Francisco, the gig was to get booked on Nash Bridge. Cause that was. That was.
Amy Poehler
Yeah, I played one of them with John Johnson.
Colman Domingo
Every dumb criminal on that show, I played one of them. Exactly. And yes. And I literally. Wait. There's one episode, and people can watch it. It's my favorite episode of me. I kidnapped Don Johnson's daughter, and then he found me. And I happened to be wearing a coogee sweater while I was working out.
Amy Poehler
Okay, sure.
Colman Domingo
I was wearing, like, you know, that Bill Cosby Coogee sweater? I was wearing a Coogee sweater, like, while I was working. And he busts through the door, and I'm like, oh. And I throw the weights off and I'm running. Then he kicks me in the ass through the window. And then he picks me up. He slaps me around. He's like, where is she? Where is she? It's my favorite episode. It's so crazy and rabid. And you're like, what is happening? You're wearing a Coogee sweater while I'm working out. I'm bench pressing. I was like. But also, I was a young actress. I didn't question it. I'm like, of course.
Amy Poehler
Yeah.
Colman Domingo
No more than I do.
Amy Poehler
That's what we're wearing.
Colman Domingo
And at the time, I didn't work out, so I don't know. I thought people worked out in coogee sweaters.
Amy Poehler
Acting is so embarrassing. I love it so much. I love it. Okay, then you go to New York. You're doing a million plays on Broadway and the West End. And I do have some important theater questions because I have such respect for people who do that grind. It is such a grind. It is the hardest job. I mean, to have the hardest part of your day be at the end of your day, to have to show up every day and do the same thing, and you're not getting paid a lot of money when you're doing theater and. And you are, you know, you're, like, being asked to do a lot. But I. I'm always curious about a couple things. I'm like, oh, Coleman will tell me the truth. Okay.
Colman Domingo
Yeah.
Amy Poehler
Have you ever thrown up on stage? Okay. No, I haven't, because these are some of my stage theaters, like, my anxieties. Have you? What do you do if you have to, in the middle of a scene, go to the bathroom. You just. You just hold it.
Colman Domingo
You hold it. You. You hold it. Although I did. There was a situation where your character went the bathroom. You just have to. You know what, listen, I like, I make sure before I go out. It's a practice. Yeah, you have to go. You have to make that happen.
Amy Poehler
Yes.
Colman Domingo
Whatever.
Amy Poehler
Number one.
Colman Domingo
Number two, it's gotta happen right now.
Amy Poehler
It's gotta happen. You gotta have a egg over easy.
Colman Domingo
You gotta make it happen.
Amy Poehler
You gotta make it happen. Have you ever forgotten lines on stage?
Colman Domingo
No, no. But I've had to work with some people who sometimes would flub some things and you'd have to, you have to help support it, make it better.
Amy Poehler
My biggest nightmare, which is like someone skips ahead.
Colman Domingo
Oh yeah.
Amy Poehler
When you're in a session. Oh, I have that.
Colman Domingo
Oh, I fully have that. And they skipped ahead of my. Oh, wait, wait. Exactly.
Amy Poehler
It's a living stress dream.
Colman Domingo
Yeah, exactly. Oh no, it's true. And it happens. But I think that's the joy of it too.
Amy Poehler
For sure.
Colman Domingo
So you're like, that makes you wily. And you're like, I gotta work on my feet. I gotta get that storyline back in there or I gotta make that cue happen.
Amy Poehler
Challenger, I love it. You're such a challenger. Have you ever forgotten a prop, like been like gone in a scene to see.
Colman Domingo
Oh yeah, I forgot the props.
Amy Poehler
And you reach in your pocket for the.
Colman Domingo
I think I forgot a gun. I forgot a gun. And I was like.
Amy Poehler
And you were like, I just had
Colman Domingo
to hold it like this. Like I was real strong. They're looking at me like, where's the gun? And I'm like, it's right here. Tough.
Amy Poehler
You didn't just point your finger?
Colman Domingo
I didn't point the finger. I was smart enough to not do that, so. But I just was strong and I was threat. But there was no gun. Exactly.
Amy Poehler
Have you ever had to say, is there a doctor in the house?
Colman Domingo
No, but somebody said that on my flight the other day and I was like, they did. And I literally thought, well, I played a doctor before and I thought, that's not what they want. They're like, I'm sorry, if someone needs a medical emergency, is there a doctor on board? And I was like, literally, for a second I thought what? I literally thought I was a doctor
Steven Spielberg
for a second because I played.
Colman Domingo
I swear to God, I really thought about it. I'm like, I can't do it. I wouldn't do anything.
Amy Poehler
When did you play a doctor?
Colman Domingo
I played a doctor on the Nick.
Amy Poehler
Oh, yeah. That show is great.
Colman Domingo
Exactly. Yeah.
Amy Poehler
I mean, it must be to be a doctor. And when you hear. This is why you know you're not a doctor. Because when you hear, is there a doctor on board? And you're like, ooh, but a real. A regular doctor must be like, oh,
Colman Domingo
God, they must be.
Amy Poehler
They must be.
Colman Domingo
But also, you start thinking, like, doctors do different things. There's not one. Right. So you think like, well, I have a doctorate, but you really do. Yes, I have a doctorate. I have a doctor. You have a doctorate.
Amy Poehler
I mean, I do not have a
Colman Domingo
doctorate yet I have a doctorate.
Amy Poehler
Not to like, but it just must be like, oh, God, can I pretend I'm not a doctor?
Colman Domingo
They're like, I'm just watching.
Amy Poehler
Yeah.
Colman Domingo
I want to finish this movie. I want to finish this. Yeah.
Amy Poehler
I'm almost done with this season of Summer House. Like, wait, you have a doctorate?
Colman Domingo
I do. I just got two in a month. Isn't that crazy? Oh, my God.
Amy Poehler
Congratulations.
Colman Domingo
It's kind of greedy, though, too, I think. I just got one from Swarthmore College. I'm a Doctor of Arts as of four days ago.
Amy Poehler
Fantastic.
Colman Domingo
And I got one from my alma mater, Temple University.
Amy Poehler
That must have been really something.
Colman Domingo
It was really wonderful.
Amy Poehler
You went back and did you have to give a speech?
Colman Domingo
I gave the commencement address at Temple, and I gave a little acceptance speech at Swarthmore, and I think. But what I loved about it, especially right now, I feel like something about being with young people and students and just like. Cause I feel like they really need to hear some words out here, like, how's it gonna be? And they need to be inspired.
Amy Poehler
What was your kind of. What was your organizing principle for your temple Talk?
Colman Domingo
Love.
Amy Poehler
Yeah.
Colman Domingo
I really feel like the more that I distill things of what I care about right now, what I inspire people to do is to love more and whatever that means. I feel like that encompasses a lot if I'm talking about love and service and if people can attach themselves to that in whatever way it is for them. So I feel like I'm talking a lot about that, because I feel like that's what we need to hear. I don't want to, oh, you know, make this world your. And do this, and I don't need to do all that. But if you do it with love, whatever you're doing, just participate and feel like that, you know, you have a voice, and you can be the change. You know, there's. And don't. Be afraid of what's out there. There's probably jobs out there that aren't even. Don't even have a name yet that you're gonna create. So I feel like I just wanna inspire that with their imagination as well, you know?
Amy Poehler
Well, I mean, the word that I've heard described, a word that is used to describe you a lot, is empathy. Is the empathetic way in which you not only work with people because you learn a lot by somebody, about somebody, by how they work. But that makes perfect sense that that's what you would be talking about. Because, I mean, in all the characters that you've played, you have even characters that feel like they're really the villain of the story, there is. You are always approaching them with that basically, that they're a human being.
Colman Domingo
I think so. I think I have to love every character that I play. And I feel like even though the villainous ones or, like whether I'm playing a pimp or a. In the Color Purple or Joe Jackson, I feel like I never try to take the lens of what everyone else says about the person. I do my study and my research, and I find out who that person is and find my way in. Usually that person's connected to some part of me in some way.
Amy Poehler
You're working Color Purple, you're working in Michael. The work you've done, the work you've done on stage. Rustin, how did that change? I mean, that portrayal was so beautiful and also just like a part that met you at the time when you were ready for it.
Colman Domingo
Yes.
Amy Poehler
Did it feel like that?
Colman Domingo
It did. It felt like we were meeting each other when we needed each other. Like this role, this moment to pull Bayer Rustin out of the.
Amy Poehler
For people who don't know Baya Rustin
Colman Domingo
was the organizer of the march on Washington. He was an openly gay man at a time, of course, when it was not cool to himself or his body or him having momentum in this world. And he defied all that. And he was brilliant. No one could deny that he was. He was brilliant and he was smart, but he was always on the sidelines of history. And I felt like. And I can maybe I'll say it in this way too. I felt that my career was very similar in that way. I would show up, I would do the work. I was a practitioner, but I was always sort of a bit marginalized. And then in a way, just like, oh, yeah, that's great. But that serves that purpose. But it's never the engine or something. But I knew I Could be the ender. And so when I finally got this opportunity, it felt like we were meeting each other. We're like, oh, I know this guy. I've lived with him. He's a part of me as well.
Amy Poehler
And then also, I just have to talk to you about Sing Sing.
Colman Domingo
Okay.
Amy Poehler
Colman. Colman. I watched that on an airplane, and I love to cry on an airplane. Me too.
Colman Domingo
Me too. It's the best thing I love.
Amy Poehler
I bet we're similar. I like to cry by myself on an airplane.
Colman Domingo
Yeah.
Amy Poehler
And hopefully under a blanket.
Colman Domingo
Exactly. Yeah, exactly. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Ye.
Amy Poehler
That must have felt like such a work of talking about love. Like, it must have felt like, what was it like to make that film?
Colman Domingo
I think that's exactly what it felt like. It felt like I knew that I had the opportunity to help tell the story of these men in a really complex way.
Amy Poehler
Incarcerated men.
Colman Domingo
Yeah, these men were incarcerated, you know, with this beautiful arts program in the center of it. And they hung onto it like it was their. It was a new path for them to exhibit empathy and joy and dance and art and all this other stuff. So it was really like healing them in many ways. And I worked with a group of formerly incarcerated men who went through the program, and I really led this film and we produced it as well. But I knew it was something that, like, I think I got paid, like $150 a day, and we had a very tight schedule.
Amy Poehler
Yeah, it looks like a labor hour.
Colman Domingo
And this is the kind of work that you're like, oh, this why I can do that other high profile work. And I can put my attention on work like this. That's very necessary. And so we created with, like, we locked arms together, and that's what it felt like, locking arms. And it was a great, beautiful challenge for me because these men have the lived experience of being incarcerated and going through this program. And it was the first time that I think I was challenged with actually giving even more of myself of, like, putting myself in those circumstances. Like, yeah, I could be wrongfully accused of something. I could be in the wrong place at the wrong time. A lot of people in prison or not, they don't belong in prison, you know, so I can find that part of myself. So I think it was a bit more bearing of my own soul and that work. And I think that's what the difference is for me. I can see it, which is why I feel like I haven't watched the movie that often, because I feel like when I watch it, I feel, you know, when you watch something, you're like, oh, it takes you right back to the scene. Yeah.
Amy Poehler
It's basically what I always. I have, like, a somatic experience. If I'm watching something, I've done much more than remembering, like, even the plot or story or, like, I just remember the feeling I had making it.
Colman Domingo
Yeah. That's interesting. Yeah.
Amy Poehler
That must have been an intense feeling.
Colman Domingo
It was pretty intense, yeah.
Amy Poehler
I mean, it's so. You're so good in it. You're such a natural leader. And you can tell in that film that you're leading people through the film while being in the moment, in the character.
Colman Domingo
Well, the funny thing is, I did that movie after Rustin.
Amy Poehler
Yeah.
Colman Domingo
And I really felt like.
Amy Poehler
Were you doing them at the same time? Basically.
Colman Domingo
A little bit. A little bit. Because I had to do pickups for Rustin right after. And then I started the Color Purple. But I literally felt like sort of that trio of. Of films really ignited that true leader in me on sets. You know, I feel like. And as a leading actor, too, I sort of. I literally moved into my leading actor phase in a way, like, sort of. But I feel like I needed all those years of supporting and being sort of that utilitarian actor in plays and things like that. I needed all of that. But I was always. Even when I was doing work on stage, I was always the Equity deputy, so I was always the one that everyone came to right the wrongs or, you know, advocate for actors or practices or something like that. So I was, like, always the one saying, being willing. But now I really have the role and the opportunity. And so then I took that into my leadership of Sing Sing, and it just kept going.
Amy Poehler
It's such incredible work. I loved it so much. I wish we were friends then, because I would have texted the shit out of you. Okay, so as we're wrapping up, and we're gonna talk about your new movie, Disclosure Day, which is gonna be a gigantic hit. Holy shit. And Four Seasons, which I love you on let to the fact that you've worked with and have been influenced by and shaped by amazing women.
Colman Domingo
Yes. Truly.
Amy Poehler
Your mother being the first Edith, who I just. Everything I read about her, I just love. I love her face and I love. I just. She just seems like a wonderful person.
Colman Domingo
Thank you.
Amy Poehler
And I love the story of Edith writing letters to Oprah Winfrey, who, of course, was a producer in the Color Purple version that you did. And can you just tell that story about how your mom wrote letters when you.
Colman Domingo
Oh, my God. Okay, get this. My mom would she would. When I was starting out as an actor in San FRANCISCO in the 90s, I would call my mom. We would talk a couple times a week. And, you know, I would have my struggles as an actor. And she's like. She would always say, well, you know, I wrote Oprah today. I was like, why? And she said, well, you know, she can help you. I was like, what's she gonna do? You know, she helps people. You know, just write a letter. She can help you.
Amy Poehler
She's the lady that helps you.
Colman Domingo
Yeah, I want you to. You're. So. If Oprah found out how good you were, she could help you. And I was like, okay, whatever. So anyway, so then, like, over and over again, this was like, maybe. I would say eight times, my mom wrote Oprah. And I was. And I remember so frustrated. Oh, my God, will you please stop writing Oprah? I'm like, that's. It feels crazy. So, anyway, cut to. Years later, I just have to sidebar say this. My mother always. She was like. She was so hopeful, and she was. She would say, oh, my gosh, I just need. I just want Spike Lee to know you and Steven Spielberg. And they should. They would love you. They would just love you. And I'm about to cry. I think about this. But she always had that much faith that people. Even if I didn't see it, she thought these people, if they just got to know you, they would love you the way I love you.
Amy Poehler
Oof. Yeah. That's hard.
Colman Domingo
And literally, I'm like. Because I look at my life now, and all these people are in my life.
Amy Poehler
Yeah. Amazing.
Colman Domingo
I do believe that sometimes people have dreams for you. You don't, even for yourself. And at some point, they meet.
Amy Poehler
Yeah.
Colman Domingo
And so I had this moment. I was in Maui with Oprah, walking on her beautiful mountain, and we're hiking, and suddenly I said, oh, my God. It just occurred to me. I said, my mother used to write to you over and over again. And she says, really? I said, yeah. And she. She sort of stops and she says, I want. I don't know if I got the letters, but I know I got the message. And then we just continued to walk hand in hand. And I really do believe. It's like, I know that. Like, how can I say it? I think that I know that, like, when I lost my mom in 2006 and I lost my mom and my stepfather in the same year, I just. I knew that, like my friend Melissa said when I was very bereft, and I said, what am I going to do? With all this love, I know that I was a good son. If I wasn't anything else, I was good son. And she said, we're gonna put the love into everything you do.
Amy Poehler
Yeah, yeah.
Colman Domingo
And. And let. And that will be. You'll do it in dedication to your mom. And so literally, I feel like. Because I've been leading that way, I've been meeting every person. It's like my mother's own wizard of Oz. I've been meeting every person that she laid out for me.
Amy Poehler
Yes.
Colman Domingo
And that they've loved me the way that she loves me.
Amy Poehler
Yes.
Colman Domingo
And so the reason, like, with Disclosure Day is like, she wanted me. She wanted Steven Spielberg to know me. She didn't know Steven Spielberg would love me. But we love each other now, and he's my family, you know, I love that.
Amy Poehler
I love Edith so much. Beautiful.
Colman Domingo
And when I tell you, and I don't say this lightly, you would love her. She was fun and sweet and liked to dance. I think I'm a lot like her, to be honest. And she talked to everybody. She would really. When I was a kid, it was annoying. I was like, mom, can we just go in and out the bank? And she's like, how are you? How are you doing? She flirted with everybody, too. Look at your legs. You are so cute, Amy.
Steven Spielberg
Oh, my God.
Colman Domingo
She would do that.
Amy Poehler
Well, you know what's kind of fun? When you. When you're a woman of a certain age. I just realized it the other day. I was like, watch it, Amy. Like, you get to a certain age where you start going, you're beautiful.
Colman Domingo
You.
Amy Poehler
Look at your butt. Wow, he's got nice arms.
Colman Domingo
Exactly.
Amy Poehler
And everyone's like, oh, that little old lady is so nice.
Colman Domingo
That was my mother.
Amy Poehler
But you got to be careful.
Colman Domingo
You got to be careful. Exactly.
Amy Poehler
You just go, wow, look at her face.
Colman Domingo
But also, my mother was old school, so she would reach out and touch her, too. She would jump.
Amy Poehler
Oh, yeah. My grandmother used to be like, oh, look at the chest on him. And I'd be like, nana, you can't touch.
Colman Domingo
So now you're becoming that, and I'm becoming that good.
Amy Poehler
And how's it like working with my wife for life, Tina Fey?
Colman Domingo
We have such a good time together. The wildest thing is, it's funny. When I first met Tina, she's shy, too. She's very shy. But I thought. I didn't know what to think of her when I first met. Cause I thought she. I thought she's very. She's like a scientist. Especially when it comes to comedy and being very thoughtful. But she's also very. I find her to be very tender and very sweet.
Amy Poehler
She's very sweet.
Colman Domingo
She's very sweet, and she's more touchy feely than I knew. And I love that we've sort of become. I feel like she's becoming one of my good friends.
Amy Poehler
Yeah.
Colman Domingo
Cause I love. I text, she texts right back. She's always in my corner. She's just. Once I found out she's a Taurus, too. She's a Taurus? What are you, Sagittarius? Oh, yeah, Taurus. Once she says, I found out she's a Taurus, I'm like, I got you figured out. I lived with one for 21 years, so I got you.
Amy Poehler
She wanted me to ask you, what peptides are you on.
Colman Domingo
That's right. I'm not on anybody, but I feel like I want to.
Amy Poehler
I feel like she's like. She's in the writer's room right now. And she said, ask Coleman. The writers want to know, where does he get his energy blood?
Colman Domingo
Peptides all think I'm on something because they're like, how are you possibly doing all this stuff? But it's just. It's like, we got to get pept.
Amy Poehler
I mean, my dream is that while we're. While I'm recording these podcasts, we're all getting peptides at the same time.
Colman Domingo
I feel like we should, because I think peptides, like, whatever Peptides is doing, I don't know, people are looking good.
Amy Poehler
You know what I love about peptides is people are like, I'm getting all these peptides, and it's like, what's in it? And they're like, I don't know.
Colman Domingo
Yes, that's everyone.
Amy Poehler
Everyone's like, you're just shooting it in.
Colman Domingo
And they're like, hope for the best.
Amy Poehler
Hope for the best.
Steven Spielberg
I don't know.
Amy Poehler
Okay. You get them every day. And it's what's in it. It's called B1.
Colman Domingo
Yeah, but you're right. No one can describe what it is.
Amy Poehler
No. No one knows what it is.
Colman Domingo
No.
Amy Poehler
In fact, it's better not to know. Just like, let's just go. Let's just peptide it up.
Colman Domingo
Let's do it. Peptide it up. You and I. Let's do it. Peptide this shit up.
Amy Poehler
Okay. You're in the big movie of the summer. It's. I mean, let's. Steven Spielberg. So we have this thing where we talk to people before our podcast and we find out more about them. We talk well behind their Back and we talk to Steven Spielberg.
Colman Domingo
Oh, you know, you didn't.
Amy Poehler
Y.
Colman Domingo
Did what?
Amy Poehler
Yes, we talked to Steven Spielberg. I was very nervous.
Colman Domingo
Wow.
Amy Poehler
I actually. I realized as I was talking to him, I was like. I almost was like, Mr. Spielberg, you know? And I said to him, like, your. Your. Your work is in. In the. In my body. Like, you're. You're. I. Your work is in my subconscious forever. You've shaped our childhood every single summer, every version of, like, an unknown world you brought us into. He's just so.
Colman Domingo
He's singular.
Amy Poehler
He is. And you've worked with him a couple of times.
Colman Domingo
Yeah.
Amy Poehler
So before we get to the great stuff he said about you, what is so great working about working with him? What's it like to work with him?
Colman Domingo
He's just lovely. He's funny and warm. He's got a sparkle in his eye that make you believe that you can do anything, even if he's giving you the wildest task of saying these lines while going through an explosion. And there's the camera work is all intense. He looks at you and believes you can do it. And so you have that belief. You're like, oh, great. We're gonna make something together. We're taking a leap of faith together. He's really just lovely, and he's kind, and he's right there with you. He likes his portable monitor, and he's right in the action with you.
Amy Poehler
He's not at Chairs. He's not at Video Village.
Colman Domingo
There's no ego about the work. And he's also just like, what do you think about this? Or, you know, you can bring your ideas. You're like, oh, let's think about that. So he's very collaborative, and that's what I enjoy about him. It'. Kindness. And also, he feels like. How can I say it? He feels like he's just starting out. Like, he's that excited. He's like, oh, let's try that. I have an idea, Coleman. I have an idea. Okay, great. And he's like, okay, let's try it. So it feels like he's a kid assembling his favorite craftsman around, and he's playing with you. You're all playing together, you know, I
Amy Poehler
mean, this is like a big. It's gonna be a big summer movie, like a blockbuster.
Colman Domingo
But also, I think it's a movie we all need right now.
Amy Poehler
For sure.
Colman Domingo
It is a movie after I. I've seen it twice now, and I've cried both times. That'll just tell you. And I won't Tell you why I cried. But it really did feel like it's a movie that's trying to connect us again, all of us, especially the idea of inviting. The idea that there's something bigger than all of us that we're a part of. So I think that's why I cried. I called him right after and I said, you really care about us. You really care about humanity, you know, and what we're wrestling it with right now in our times.
Amy Poehler
Yeah.
Colman Domingo
And then what can unite us?
Amy Poehler
Well, he said the same thing about you. He basically was like, yeah, let me tell you. Okay, you know what? Forget about Stephen. Let me tell you what he said.
Colman Domingo
What did he say about me?
Amy Poehler
What did he say about you? Well, first of all, he said that
Colman Domingo
no Real Housewives episode.
Amy Poehler
Now it's like, okay, that would be really funny. This is the first podcast where I'm like, he actually said some. Some. He was saying that working with you is like working with a self driving car. Like, you know that you're going to, like, you have it. You're. You're in the zone. Like, there's very little that he has to do because he has such faith in you. But what you lead with as a person on set in an ensemble is empathy and love and respect. So, like, what you get is this act, this very skilled actor, but also a really wonderful person. And I think the privilege of when you get to a certain age and you work, you get to want to surround yourself with those kind of people. Like, that's important and it's not always the case. I think when you're younger, you're kind of like, maybe complicated, difficult. People are there to challenge me in different ways and I'll learn something from them. And I know for me, anyway, like, as I get older, I'm like, also, I want to be around people.
Colman Domingo
That's it.
Amy Poehler
Good people.
Colman Domingo
Life is short.
Amy Poehler
Yeah, life is short. This should be fun. How lucky are we?
Colman Domingo
Truly?
Amy Poehler
So. And his question was kind of like a. Cause we were talking about auditioning and I was asking him, like, how do people not get nervous around him? Like, how does he deal with people's nerves? Cause he must have people coming in being like, nice to meet you. And he wanted me to ask you, did you ever not get a part that you tried hard to get? And like, what did you. What did you do with it when you. Like, what did you do with the feeling when you didn't get it? So many.
Colman Domingo
Oh, my God. That was a. Most of my career, I was booking a lot. I really felt like I was like. Even things you felt like you really wanted or you really were skilled for, at some point, you had to divorce yourself from the idea of getting the role. You're like, okay, I'm prepared for this, but it's not up to me. It's like, someone. And maybe that's the thing I pride myself on. I'm like, when they want me, they want all of me.
Amy Poehler
Yeah.
Colman Domingo
So that means they want. It's okay if they want someone else. So for me, it became a practice of being very sober about it and saying, you know, it's okay if they didn't want me, because, like, what I give is very different than that other guy.
Amy Poehler
Yeah.
Colman Domingo
It's not that he was better than me or booked. No. He was useful to them and all that he was gonna bring to it. And that's cool. So for me, it was like. And maybe that was a healthy thing that I needed to give myself so I can give myself grace and, like, and continue to be a practitioner of this art form and not let it be about my ego.
Amy Poehler
But doesn't it feel like it's a learned skill that's hard to do in your life?
Colman Domingo
It is learned because also when you're young, but also there are times when you're. I mean, listen, I've had moments where there were things that I thought I was perfect for and I didn't get, and it shattered me. But to be honest, I'll be very honest, Amy. I'd never really imagined the place that I'm in right now in this industry. I just wanted to be a working actor.
Amy Poehler
And also, you're so famous and successful, too.
Colman Domingo
I got so famous. Amy.
Amy Poehler
Amy. But you're right. And also the contentment part, that's the goal.
Colman Domingo
Yeah.
Amy Poehler
Like satisfaction and contaminant. It's the hardest thing to find, you know, it doesn't matter what you do.
Colman Domingo
Yeah.
Amy Poehler
Hell is wanting more. It's like, hell that's suffering, man.
Colman Domingo
It is suffering, I think. V, listen, I got a beautiful, beautiful message from this guy. When I was turning 50, this guy was driving me in a car in Toronto, and he was 70 years old. And I said, do you have any words of wisdom for my 50th? He said, Listen, I wish I knew this years ago. He said, it's important to you. Want to hope for everything, but want for nothing. And I was like, to eliminate want, you know, So I know that, like, when I walk into a room, like you say, I walk into these rooms or in sets, I don't really want anything.
Amy Poehler
Yeah.
Colman Domingo
I hope that it can be. There's other things that I hope that it can be. But I'm not coming to get something.
Amy Poehler
Oh, yeah.
Colman Domingo
You know what I mean? I'm coming to hopefully be in service and also to. To give something.
Amy Poehler
Yeah.
Colman Domingo
And I think that's the best we all can be. So if everyone's coming from that place, we all win.
Amy Poehler
Yeah.
Colman Domingo
You know, the problem is only when somebody's coming in just like to want to take shit, and that's ego in the room. And then that's some dark forces, and you try to just protect yourself against that.
Amy Poehler
You know, we gotta talk about those egos offline.
Colman Domingo
Exactly.
Amy Poehler
Those dark forces. Okay. I love that you're. We're the same age, by the way, because I've said this before.
Colman Domingo
We look good, don't we?
Amy Poehler
We look great.
Colman Domingo
You look great. You look great.
Amy Poehler
Thank you. But we're making 50 look 55. We're doing good. 56 look pret. Good. I'm turning 55 very soon.
Colman Domingo
I'm older than you.
Amy Poehler
You're 56, right? Yeah.
Steven Spielberg
And.
Amy Poehler
And I like. What's your favorite part about your 50s? I love my 50s.
Colman Domingo
You know what's funny to me lately? It feels like things are moving faster. Like, I just turned 56, but I'm like, I'm not going to be 57 this year. Doesn't make any sense.
Amy Poehler
And. And I. Once you get past 55, I don't like the second half of the decade.
Colman Domingo
Because. Because, like, we, like.
Amy Poehler
You don't like
Colman Domingo
to hit 60. Yeah.
Amy Poehler
You're like, you know what? 60, 60, 61, 62, 63, 64, 65, 60.
Colman Domingo
I feel like my 50s are my best.
Amy Poehler
Me too.
Colman Domingo
Yeah. I felt my 40s. I was.
Amy Poehler
It was.
Colman Domingo
It was fine.
Amy Poehler
Yeah.
Colman Domingo
30s were awesome.
Amy Poehler
It's getting better.
Colman Domingo
It's getting better.
Amy Poehler
Yeah. I agree.
Colman Domingo
But also, I feel like we have to. You have to be conscious of. You have to take care of yourself. Right?
Amy Poehler
That's right.
Colman Domingo
And in a different way, show up in a different way for yourself.
Amy Poehler
That's right.
Colman Domingo
Yeah. So I feel like we're getting better.
Amy Poehler
Yeah. I feel like our obsession with youth is. Is like. I think it's changing. I think our generation is helping. I think one of the legacies of Gen X, I've said this before before, is that of which we are proudly proud members of. We are not boomers. We are Gen X.
Colman Domingo
We're Gen X. We rock.
Amy Poehler
Yeah. We don't give a shit.
Colman Domingo
We really don't give a Shit, we're the we don't give a fuck generation. We got a key around our fucking neck. We got a job when we were eight. We got a key. We were like, fuck around, find out generation. Exactly 100%.
Amy Poehler
We are tough.
Colman Domingo
We really are.
Amy Poehler
And we, and we. Nobody remembers us and nobody gives us any respect.
Colman Domingo
Nobody gives us consider respect. It's true. We're the toughest generation of a president.
Amy Poehler
The Gen X president, anyway. But we don't care. We don't care.
Colman Domingo
We don't care.
Amy Poehler
The system is broken. We always knew that.
Colman Domingo
Exactly.
Amy Poehler
But one of the things about it is, like, is that we've. Oh, I've completely lost my train of thought.
Colman Domingo
I'm too old.
Amy Poehler
I forgot what I was talking about. Who cares? You know what? Who cares? Who cares? Who cares? Okay, last question. Last question. Coleman, what has been making you laugh these days? I know you love to laugh. You love comedy.
Colman Domingo
Yes.
Amy Poehler
What are you listening to? Watching. Like, what do you go to when you want to check out? Laugh. Like dumb highbrow. What is the thing?
Colman Domingo
I always go back to watching Melissa McCarthy and Spy.
Amy Poehler
Oh, my God. Okay, let's watch her right now. I got a laptop.
Colman Domingo
Spy is my. Any clip. Spy is. I will watch it.
Amy Poehler
Melissa McCarthy is so funny.
Colman Domingo
She makes me pee on myself.
Amy Poehler
Funny.
Colman Domingo
She's so funny.
Amy Poehler
Have you guys met?
Colman Domingo
I love her. Yeah, we. She came to. I saw. I met her backstage at SNL when she was there for Jack Black. And I just, like. I really. I think we're becoming friends because we exchanged numbers, but I really want to be her friend.
Amy Poehler
Give him a little credit. What do you think I'm going to do? Run over there and be like, hey, I'm a crazy lady. Where's the buffet? I'm from the Midwest. Where's Blue Man Group? Jaluka's here, and I need to get close to.
Colman Domingo
Yeah. Because she's like. She comes across as this mousy woman who works for the CIA, and then you find out she's an agent as well. And then she goes on this whole journey. Like, she was, like, really, like, you know, laying back, and then you find that she's, like, the most wildest one of them all.
Amy Poehler
She's wild.
Colman Domingo
Yeah. She's all these great disguises, which are really. One is funnier after the night. She's out of control.
Amy Poehler
This is a comfort movie for you.
Colman Domingo
I will watch it at any time. That and the Color Purple. I know that's very weird. Very.
Amy Poehler
Ooh, Color Purple.
Colman Domingo
I watch, like, the Whoopi Version of it.
Amy Poehler
Oh, my God.
Colman Domingo
Or this. So either I want to cry hard or I want to laugh harder.
Amy Poehler
Oh, God. I'm with you. I kind of. I'm the same way. I want to cry. You know what? I don't want to be anymore.
Colman Domingo
Bored.
Amy Poehler
Scared.
Colman Domingo
Don't want to be scared.
Amy Poehler
No, I don't want to be scared. No.
Colman Domingo
I don't want to be scared. I don't want to horror or anything. No, no, no.
Amy Poehler
No more. I just saw the other day there was some new thing. I won't even say it. And I was like, you don't want that.
Colman Domingo
I don't want that.
Amy Poehler
I don't. No more movies about being attacked in your own home.
Colman Domingo
No, no, no. That's terrible. Those are terrible movies. I never watched those movies.
Amy Poehler
Me neither. I never. I don't want that.
Colman Domingo
No, no more.
Amy Poehler
We either want to laugh or we want to cry. Laugh or cry, period. The end. That's it. Well, I feel like you should do a movie with Melissa McCarthy.
Colman Domingo
I think I should, too. I would love that.
Amy Poehler
Yeah. God, you'.
Colman Domingo
Oh, thank you.
Amy Poehler
You're so. You can do anything.
Colman Domingo
Thank you.
Amy Poehler
You can wear lime green. You can pull it off. Well, thank you for my egg.
Colman Domingo
Oh, this has been so great.
Amy Poehler
So fun. We've been talking for an hour and a half, and it just went by so fast.
Colman Domingo
That's so good.
Amy Poehler
And I just love being able to call you a new friend.
Colman Domingo
I feel that way, too.
Amy Poehler
Thank you for doing this. Congrats on everything. I'm always excited about whatever you're doing. Thank you. And like, a true, true fan of your work, so thank you.
Colman Domingo
I'm a fan of you in every single way. Thank you.
Amy Poehler
Thank you so much for doing this appre. Colman, thank you so much. It's so fun to be around you. You're just a joy. And thank you. Thank you so much for doing the show. And, you know, Colman and I talked about a lot of things. We have a lot of shared similar experiences, being pretty much the same age, growing up in the East Coast. But we did mention Dance Party usa. And for those of you that haven't seen any clips of that, do yourself a favor and go to YouTube and watch Dance Party USA. It kind of was like a very suburban version of American Bandstand, like Soul Train, you know, the Soul. And it was on in the 80s. Just. There's such incredible hair, such 80s hair, tons of hairspray, incredible outfits. And it's just kids dancing to the hits at the time. And what was so fun about Dance Party USA was of course Kelly Ripa was on there. We that was the first time I saw Kelly. She I think she went by a different name but but also the they just would like talk about the relationships that they were having and that people were dating and breaking up. So it was like a tiny it was like a soap opera with no lines and lots of dancing. Dance Party usa. Check it out. It's a time capsule. Thank you so much everybody for listening to this episode of Good Hang and all the episodes and can't wait to do more for you. Thank you. Bye. See you soon. You've been listening to Good Hang. The executive producers for this show are Bill Simmons, Jenna Weiss Berman and me, Amy Poehler. The show is produced by the Ringer and Paper Kite. For the Ringer production by Jack Wilson, cat Spillane, Kaia McMullen and Alaya Zaneris. For Paper Kite production by Sam Green, Joel Lovell and Jenna Weiss Berman. Original music by Amy Miles. This Father's Day, will you ship UPS Air at the UPS Store? Your items arrive on time or your money back guaranteed at no extra cost. It's like the father of all shipping services. It shows up to the airport way too early just to play it safe. It's overprotective about all the things that truly matter. And it's always prom, especially to be with family. Make it your first choice to celebrate your dad. Ship UPS Air with our money back guarantee exclusively at the UPS Store US retail locations. Visit the upstore.com airshipping for full details, terms and conditions at end the Capture your favorite summer feeling with Pandora Jewelry. Discover a collection inspired by the sunshine, freedom and moments that make the season unforgettable. From sun kissed metals to personalized pieces ready to be engraved with your summer mantra, each design moves with you from beach days to golden nights and every memory in between. Shop Pandora Jewelry's new summer collection in store or online@pandora.net and let your summer unfold.
Podcast: Good Hang with Amy Poehler
Host: Amy Poehler
Guest: Colman Domingo (with appearance by Steven Spielberg)
Air Date: June 9, 2026
Producer: The Ringer
In this heartfelt and hilarious episode, Amy Poehler welcomes acclaimed actor Colman Domingo to the studio. Their wide-ranging conversation covers Colman's journey from a shy Philly kid to leading man, the profound influence of his late mother Edith, his approach to acting, stories of coming out and coming up in theater, and his remarkable collaborations (including with Steven Spielberg, who joins the show to share kind words and backstage stories). Dancing, self-discovery, love, and the joys and absurdities of show business run through the conversation, layered with warmth and plenty of laughter.
(02:24 - 12:42)
Spielberg reminisces about being in the audience at SNL’s first episode in 1975 and his lifelong love of comedy and comedians.
Tells how he first met Colman Domingo during casting for a Gershwin project, immediately knowing he wanted to cast him.
Spielberg shares his unique audition process ("we're going to cook together in a kitchen") as a way to break the ice with actors.
Praises Domingo’s work ethic and spirit:
"Working with Colman is like riding in a Waymo where you just sit in the backseat and everything’s smooth. He brings kindness, collaboration, love…and a sense of: let’s have fun while we’re working hard." (09:11, Steven Spielberg)
Spielberg asks Amy to inquire:
"Ask him: Was there ever a film he auditioned for that he didn’t get and he was desperate to get?"
(11:51, Spielberg)
(13:39 - 18:00)
"The clothes never wear you. It’s always a feeling—how do I get into this feeling? How do I want to feel?" (17:14, Colman Domingo)
(18:05 - 22:13)
"I would be in the corners reading these books on how to become a person, to be honest, because I felt I was awkward… all of this has been a bit manufactured." (22:13, Colman Domingo)
(23:03 - 25:25, 54:33 - 58:54)
"She would say, ‘You know, all these lights—they put them up to welcome you home.’" (24:05, Colman Domingo)
"'If Oprah found out how good you were, she could help you.' My mom would write her over and over." (54:50, Colman Domingo)
(29:04 - 33:59)
(33:19 - 36:33)
"I met him 21 years ago. We met, and I literally said, 'I think I love you. You’re going to change my life.' That’s how uncool I am." (34:01, Colman Domingo)
(40:41 - 43:07)
"Acting is so embarrassing. I love it so much." (43:07, Amy Poehler)
(43:41 - 54:00)
"I moved into my leading actor phase… I always have been someone people come to to right the wrongs or advocate for actors." (53:04, Colman Domingo)
(48:11 - 49:07, 61:46 - 62:57)
Amy notes Colman’s renowned empathy and ability to find humanity in any character, villain or hero.
His own approach:
"I have to love every character I play, even the villainous ones. I find my way in and connect to some part of me." (48:46, Colman Domingo)
On working with Spielberg:
"He looks at you and believes you can do it… there’s no ego about the work. He feels like he’s just starting out, assembling his favorite craftspeople. You’re all playing together." (61:46, Colman Domingo)
(61:03 - 63:40)
"I’ve seen it twice, and I cried both times. It feels like it’s trying to connect us again, inviting the idea that there’s something bigger than all of us." (63:04, Colman Domingo)
(68:04 - 69:59)
"We got a key around our neck. We're the 'fuck around and find out' generation." (69:23, Colman Domingo)
(70:26 - 72:42)
"Melissa McCarthy makes me pee on myself. She’s so funny." (70:51, Colman Domingo)
"Either I want to cry hard or want to laugh harder. I don’t want to be scared—I don’t want to be bored." (71:49, Colman Domingo)
Amy Poehler, on Colman’s singular vibe:
"You have a way of moving through the world where... whatever you’re wearing, it’s like an invitation." (16:42)
Colman, on being shaped by empathy:
"Because my movie deals, Disclosure Date, deals a lot with the importance of empathy, Colman was a very easy choice..." (10:38, Spielberg, paraphrased by Amy)
Colman, on career rejections:
"At some point, you have to divorce yourself from the idea of getting the role… If they want me, they want all of me. What I give is very different than the other guy..." (65:44, Colman Domingo)
Colman, on happiness and hope:
"It’s important to hope for everything, but want for nothing… I’m coming to hopefully be in service and to give something." (67:00, anonymous driver’s advice; 67:41, Colman Domingo)
This episode sparkles with warmth, depth, and genuine friendship-in-progress. Amy’s curiosity, compassion, and humor meet Colman’s openness, wisdom, and glow. Their shared Gen X sensibilities provide camaraderie and nostalgia, while Spielberg’s cameo sets a tone of reverence for Colman’s journey. Stories of family, self-belief, hard-earned contentment, and the joyful weirdness of showbiz give listeners inspiration, plenty of laughs, and a few tears.
If you haven’t heard this episode, expect a rich blend of candor, inspiration, and humor—a deep-dive into how joy, empathy, and a little Philly toughness can shape a remarkable life and career. Whether you're a fan of acting, personal growth, dancing, or just great stories, this "Good Hang" delivers.
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