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Bob Wilkins
The following is a listener supported ministry from the Grace Evangelical Society. Welcome again to Grace in Focus. And today we continue our discussion on giving a testimony. What is the best way to do that? So often we end up with a false testimony because we mix our testimony about eternal salvation with our testimony about growth and sanctification. And that if not a false testimony is at least confusing. Have you ever heard someone giving their testimony? Well, meaning, probably, of course, but. But really ending up playing the comparison game, comparing themselves to themselves or themselves to other people. Today we want to point this out so that when we give a testimony, it really points to Christ and to none other. All right, the discussion is just ahead after I remind you that Our website is faithalone.org we want you to go there and find out more about us and about the resources that we offer. Books, articles, blogs, and a subscription free magazine called Grace in Focus. Now I know you're ready. Here's today's discussion.
Bob
Well, we've got an interesting show for you. As Ed Sullivan would say, we've got a really big shoe for you today. And it's something about Jenny Craig. Is that right, Katherine?
Bob Wilkins
What did you say about that?
Katharine Wright
That's right. So we've been talking about testimonies and some of the misconceptions with them and the just general confusion. And I relate it to Jenny Craig commercials. I call it the Jenny Craig fallacy because, you know, we all know those weight loss commercials. Maybe it's Weight Watchers is another one. Many of those commercial kind of commercials where you see these people and they're 3, 4, 500 pounds, they're usually sad and depressed looking and boom, they've lost 150 pounds overnight. And it's just like they're. And now it's all in color and they're in a great cocktail dress or whatever. And we tend to present our testimonies in that way instantly.
Bob
I'm like this, right?
Katharine Wright
I've lost all this spirit, if we could say spiritual weight, right? All these sins that I struggled with and now they're gone. You know, those desires I had before, I don't have them anymore and I've lost all this weight. Just boom, automatically. Yeah, that's very common. And I think it leads to a lot of frustration with people because they hear testimonies like that and they expect to lose all of their spiritual baggage. And then they don't. They still struggle with things. And it can lead to either frustration or it can lead to them to doubt their salvation altogether because they think, well, there's something wrong with me because I didn't just automatically lose it. But we all know the Ginny Craig commercial doesn't tell you about the six months of dieting or the weight loss surgery, maybe, or, you know, working out
Bob
or the different lighting or the makeup or the different outfit or all that
Katharine Wright
months of work and effort that goes into that. And so we live in a culture that's very immediate gratification, right? We want the immediate gratification. And that I think thinking has infiltrated the church. We want the immediate gratification of, okay, everything's great now. It's in my spiritual life and I'm perfect and I no longer struggle with these sins.
Bob
The implication in a lot of testimonies, if you too, come to faith in Christ, it's guaranteed that your life's going to be transformed. Right? That's what is being sold.
Katharine Wright
Yes. Where this gets fleshed out, just a small example, is in summer camps. These kids go Christian camps and they're put into this little bubble, do the altar calls and the music's wonderful, blah, blah, blah. And they think because I went forward and because I accepted Christ or I surrendered, or they, you know, they have all of these concepts that are thrust at them that when I go home, I'll have that spiritual high all the time. All the time. And so then they go home and what happens?
Bob
Yeah, we saw this all the time with Crusade, right. People would come to a Christmas conference, they'd go on a summer project or whatever, and when they would get back to it, there'd be this kind of depression that would set in 100%, and it would be hard for them. So then what we had to do was have weekly meetings to keep pumping them up. And that's kind of, by the way, the charismatic model, right?
Katharine Wright
Yes.
Bob
You come and you see people speak in tongues or hear people speak in tongues. You see people healed, you hear prophetic messages about what's going to happen in the future. All this kind of gets you from high to high to high.
Katharine Wright
They're chasing that experience. But then you still have to go back to your life, and life is messy and you still have those struggles that you've got kids coming in and maybe they're struggling with a porn addiction, or maybe they're struggling with mom and dad or whatever it is, and they go back home and it's still there. It's selling false goods. Could we be that blunt about it and just say, when we present these testimonies that make it look like we've lost £500 overnight. We are selling a lie and we're setting people up for failure because they're still gonna struggle with things. And we've really caused a lot of confusion, I think, in this way. And I can hear people sometimes objecting to this. Well, the Lord has helped me grow. The Lord has changed me. I have seen growth in my life. Sure, yes, that's legitimate and wonderful, but there's a time and a place for that type of testimony. But that is different than your salvation testimony.
Bob
That's great.
Katharine Wright
We have to separate those two. But what we're doing is we are sandwiching our discipleship, our sanctification, growth as the bread, if you will, in the three step testimony that we've been talking about. And that's on either side of our salvation. And so we've really got to be careful in keeping them separate.
Bob
You're basically talking about merging justification and sanctification.
Katharine Wright
That's exactly right, yes.
Bob
The first time I heard that I graduated from Dallas Seminary. I went on. I got a doctorate from Dallas Seminary. I taught out at a college in East Texas. Then I was hired by Multnomah. I got out to Multnomah and I was scheduled to debate one of my fellow faculty members on lordship salvation. And I remember I was talking to the head of the theology department and he said to me, you know, Bob, the difference between you and the person you're going to be debating is you your views on the relationship between justification and sanctification. I said, how so? He said, well, the person I was going to debate believes that those two are enmeshed to where it's impossible to be justified without sanctification occurring. It's a guarantee that if you're justified, you're going to live a life that's sanctified and you're going to persevere to the end.
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Bob
And he said, your view is salvation and discipleship are distinct and there's no guarantee that if you're justified, you're going to persevere or you're going to attain some level of holiness. You might even experience failure at the very beginning of your Christian life. And I said, that's exactly right.
Katharine Wright
That's exactly right.
Bob
And a lot of Testimonies with this 1, 2, 3 approach, they may not intend to say that, but what they're doing is merging justification and sanctification.
Katharine Wright
Exactly right. And if we could go back to the Ginny Craig analogy, if I could push it a little bit more, you know, it's like weight loss. You can go up and down. Right. Same thing with sanctification. Maybe you're doing well and you're walking with the Lord and you seeing him transform you and then you fall into sin and maybe you fail. And I shouldn't say maybe when you fail, you know, you're not walking with the Lord. You can, quote, gain some weight back. Right. It's analogy. So it's not perfect, but I think that's a better way of looking at it rather than it's all a one time event.
Bob
I like that. I think Swindoll wrote a book called Three Steps Forward, Two Steps Back, something like that. Any progress we make in life is typically so many steps forward and then some setbacks. Right. It's rarely there's just a linear movement upward and onward.
Katharine Wright
A really good example, in my opinion, of how this impacts not only our lives, but our interpretation of Scripture is in Acts 8 when Simon comes to faith. Simon the sorcerer. You're talking about somebody who, prior to coming to faith, was living in extremely dark, spiritually dark place.
Bob
Maybe like what we would call black magic.
Katharine Wright
Yes, I mean, the Satanic he comes to faith. We're told in Acts 8 that he believed he comes to faith. And not only that, but he's baptized.
Bob
Yeah, Philip, baptized.
Katharine Wright
Right. And so you have a baby Christian. He's not only a baby Christian, but he's also coming out of such darkened thinking.
Bob
Right.
Katharine Wright
And what do people do to Simon?
Bob
Yeah, they say he's not born again because Peter and John come down, lay hands on them, including evidently Simon, but we're not told specifically, and they receive the Spirit and he wants to buy the ability to lay hands on people so they receive the Spirit.
Katharine Wright
And why does he want that?
Bob
Yeah, it seems like he wants it because he's craving all the adulation he had before.
Katharine Wright
So not only are we talking about a baby Christian who was living a very dark lifestyle, you know, in this sorcery, but we're told in the text that he was very popular because of it. And he was fairly wealthy, we could assume. Right. He had some money, he's bribing Peter. So that's a whole lifestyle. That's a lot of spiritual weight. Right. We're going back to the Jenny Craig analogy. He's coming to faith with a lot of baggage. And what do we do?
Bob
We all do to some extent, we all do.
Katharine Wright
But I think he's just such a poster child of what we're talking about here, where we see baby Christians and they come to faith and they, they struggle. They need somebody like Peter to come alongside them and say, hey, you need to turn from this. This is going to really cause you some problems if you continue down this path. That's loving. That's what discipleship looks like. But what do we do? We throw the baby out with the bathwater. We say, he's not saved, he's just going to hell. And because why? Because he was immature? Because he didn't become super Christian overnight. It's so sad because a lot of commentators are gonna say he wasn't saved. And I just, I wanna ask them, where's the opportunity for baby Christians to grow? Where's the grace for Simon? You're talking. I mean, how could he know? How could he know that? I mean, yeah, he's stupid because he's a baby.
Bob
But you know, the funny thing is the text doesn't say Simon said he believed.
Katharine Wright
Yeah.
Bob
Luke tells us Simon himself believed and was baptized. So either Luke got it wrong or he was born again. And that his wanting, this ability to convey the Holy Spirit by the laying on of hands was a definitely wrong attitude.
Katharine Wright
Right. The reason I bring it up is how many times do we do this with our testimonies in that we present this idea that you're just going to become this great, wise, mature Christian. And if you don't fit that mold, then people are going to treat you like Simon. They're going to say you're not saved. The ultimate result of these testimonies is one of two things. Either you will begin to despair. You look at yourself and you realize that I still sin and I still struggle. And so you despair, become depressed, or you just leave the faith because you just think, this doesn't work, I'm still failing. Or on the other side of that spectrum, it's going to lead you to legalism. It's going to lead you to live a life where you are looking to your works for assurance.
Bob
And you're constantly chasing and looking down on everybody else.
Katharine Wright
And you have to look down on everybody else because it's constantly comparison game, which is what we're doing with testimonies, right? Look at me. Look at my story. Look how awesome I am. And look at this transformation I've had. And this is how, you know, I'm saved. And we're pointing people to ourselves and our works. And again, our goal should be that we point people to Christ and the promise of eternal life.
Bob
Okay, next time, let's see if we can talk about how we should do it.
Katharine Wright
Okay?
Bob
All right. Thanks a lot. And keep grace in focus.
Bob Wilkins
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Episode: Presenting Your Testimony – Mixing Eternal Salvation and the Discipleship Test
Date: July 23, 2026
Host: Bob Wilkin with guest Katharine Wright
Duration: ~13 minutes
This episode explores the confusion that arises when Christians present testimonies combining their experience of eternal salvation (justification) with their journey of spiritual growth (sanctification). Through relatable analogies and biblical examples, Bob Wilkin and Katharine Wright warn against the common “Jenny Craig fallacy” in testimonies—implying instant transformation and setting unrealistic expectations about the Christian life. They argue for clearly distinguishing between the moment of salvation and ongoing discipleship to provide clarity, maintain assurance, and keep the focus on Christ rather than personal performance.
Clarity in testimony matters: Wilkin and Wright advocate testifying in a way that clearly separates salvation from the ongoing process of discipleship. Transformation is real, but it's often slow, uneven, and full of struggle. Overstating instant change risks undermining assurance, fostering legalism, or causing believers to despair. In sharing our stories, pointing to Christ’s finished work for eternal life—not our imperfect progress—must be the goal.
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The conversation will continue with practical guidance on how to construct a testimony that is “clear and helpful”—don’t miss it!