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Grieving Insomniacs, a grief podcast.
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Grieving Insomniacs, where every tear shed is a testament to the love we carry in our hearts. Our mission is simple yet profound: to provide grieving mothers everywhere with a safe, sacred space where their pain is acknowledged, their grief is accepted, and their voices are amplified. Through the power of podcasting, we're dismantling the culture of silence that surrounds the grief of mothers, replacing it with a culture of support, empathy, and understanding. We envision a world where no mother suffers in silence.
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“I Saw My Son After He Died”
Apr 2900:07:45Tap to summarizeIn this episode, I share something I’ve never fully put into words—the moment I saw my son after he died.It didn’t come in a dream that felt distant or symbolic. It came in a way that felt immediate, real, and unmistakably present. A moment that stopped everything and cracked open the way I understand love, grief, and connection beyond what I can explain.This isn’t a story about answers. It’s a story about experience. About what it’s like to stand in the aftermath of loss and still encounter love that feels alive. About how grief doesn’t always stay in memory—it sometimes shows up in the space around us, uninvited and undeniable.I also talk about the lake, the water, and how I’ve tried to hold this experience alongside everyday life—without losing my footing in either world.If you’ve ever questioned what’s real in grief, what’s imagined, or what might exist in between, you’re not alone in that question. I don’t claim to have answers. I only know what I saw, what I felt, and what it changed in me.This is a story about love that didn’t end.https://www.instagram.com/grievinginsomniacs/https://www.facebook.com/grievinginsomniacshttps://ahealingplaceforgrief.com/home/grieving-insomniacs-podcast/
Transcribe →Grieving Out Loud (Because Silence Didn’t Work)”
Apr 1800:26:58Tap to summarizeGrief / podcast /grieving insomnaics From the outside, it can look like someone is doing grief “the right way.”Holding it together. Saying the right things. Moving forward.But grief doesn’t follow rules—and it doesn’t always show its deepest truths where others can see.In this episode, I share the impact of losing a high school classmate to suicide—after she had already lost her son the same way. It made me question everything we think we know about grief, healing, and what it means to be “okay.”For a long time, I pulled back.I stopped sharing.I quieted my voice—because I was afraid of showing up as the grieving one.Afraid of being seen in the mess of it.But silence didn’t make the grief easier. It just made it lonelier.This episode is about what happens when we stop trying to perform grief…and start allowing it to be seen.Now, I’m choosing something different.I’m grieving out loud. Everywhere.In this episode, I talk about:The illusion of “doing grief right”How comparison can quietly isolate usThe fear of being seen in our painWhat happened when I stopped sharing—and why it didn’t helpChoosing authenticity over silenceIf you’ve ever felt like you had to hide your grief to be acceptable…this conversation is for you.You don’t have to do this quietly.You don’t have to do this perfectly.You just have to be real.
Transcribe →When the Holidays Hurt: Living Honestly with Loss
Nov 2500:18:28Tap to summarizeIn this episode of Grieving Insomniacs, host Christy Habermann delves into the complexities of grief, particularly during the holiday season. She emphasizes the importance of authenticity in discussing grief, the pain of moving on after a loss, and the challenges faced during family gatherings. Christy shares personal experiences and coping mechanisms, advocating for self-care and emotional acknowledgment as essential parts of the grieving process. The conversation highlights the reality of living with grief and the need for understanding and compassion from others. https://ahealingplaceforgrief.com/https://www.facebook.com/grievinginsomniacs/https://www.instagram.com/grievinginsomniacs/Grief is often discussed in cliches, which can be unhelpful.The pain of moving on after a loss is profound.Holidays can trigger intense feelings of grief.Isolation can be a coping mechanism for many.It's important to honor your own needs during grief.Wearing comfortable clothing can provide emotional support.Acknowledging feelings of sadness is crucial for healing.Grief is a daily reality for those who have lost loved ones.It's okay to not feel thankful during Thanksgiving.Finding peace in grief is a journey, not a destination.Navigating Grief During the HolidaysThe Authenticity of Grief"Isolation is better""Wear comfortable clothing""It's okay to be sad"
Transcribe →The summer of changes.
Oct 2700:18:09Tap to summarizeIn this episode, Cristi Habermann shares her personal journey of grief and healing after the loss of her son. She reflects on her experiences during a transformative trip, the challenges of navigating life as a grieving mother, and the importance of redefining her identity beyond grief. Cristi emphasizes the need for community and shared experiences in the grieving process, and she discusses her desire to create a space for others to share their stories and find support.https://www.instagram.com/grievinginsomniacs/https://www.facebook.com/grievinginsomniacshttps://ahealingplaceforgrief.com/#grief, #healing, #self-discovery, #travel, #community, #identity, #loss,# personal journey, #mental health, #emotional support
Transcribe →You’re Not Alone: Choosing the Best Kind of Grief Support for You
May 2, 202500:27:07Tap to summarizeIn this episode, Cristi Habermann discusses the complexities of grief and the various forms of therapy available to those who are grieving. She emphasizes the importance of understanding what kind of help is needed, the differences between individual therapy and support groups, and the role of licensed therapists in the healing process. Cristi shares her personal experiences and insights on navigating emotions, the challenges of grief, and the importance of vulnerability in seeking support. She also contrasts life coaching with therapy, highlighting the need for professional guidance in the grieving process.TakewaysGrief therapy options include support groups and individual therapy2.Individual therapy can help address personal grief narratives.Support groups provide community and shared experiences.Choosing the right support depends on personal preferences and needs.Vulnerability is essential in the healing process.Grief can trigger lifelong emotional issues.There is no quick fix for grief; it is a journey.Time and support are crucial in navigating grief.https://ahealingplaceforgrief.com/https://www.instagram.com/grievinginsomniacs/https://www.facebook.com/grievinginsomniacs
Transcribe →Journey Through Grief: A Road Trip of Healing
Apr 9, 202500:05:12Tap to summarize#grief, #cancer, #road trip, #personal journey, #podcasting, #mental health, #storytelling, #community, #healing, #self-discoveryIn this episode, host Cristi Habermann shares her personal journey of grief following the loss of her son, Christopher, who passed away after battling cancer. She discusses her plans for a road trip to honor his memory and explore places he wished to visit. Cristi also reflects on her health challenges and the impact of her job on her well-being, expressing a desire to reorganize her life. She shares her intentions to continue the podcast by telling stories of grief and answering questions from listeners, emphasizing the importance of community and support in the healing process.takeawaysCristi is planning a road trip to honor her son.She aims to explore places her son wanted to visit.Health challenges have prompted her to leave her job.The podcast will include storytelling about grief.Cristi is open to sharing listener stories and questions.She acknowledges the support from her podcast audience.The journey is both a personal and healing experience.Cristi is adapting to being on camera for the podcast.She hopes to inspire others through her experiences.The podcast will continue to evolve with new content.
Transcribe →Grief in the Body: Healing Through Somatic Therapy"
Jan 26, 202500:49:36Tap to summarizeIn this episode of Grieving Insomniacs, host Cristi Habermann reflects on the profound impact of loss, particularly the loss of her son, on both emotional and physical health. She discusses the importance of recognizing how grief manifests in the body and introduces somatic therapy as a means to address these physical responses. Cristi emphasizes the need for a holistic approach to grief that includes understanding the connection between emotional pain and physical symptoms, and she explores various somatic techniques and Eastern medicine practices that can aid in the healing process. In this conversation, Cristi Habermann delves into the intricate relationship between grief and the body's energy centers, known as chakras. She discusses how emotional states can manifest physically, particularly in relation to grief and loss. The conversation covers various techniques for processing grief, including somatic therapy, mindful breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, grounding exercises, and the importance of movement and dance. Cristi emphasizes the significance of meditation in calming the mind to facilitate healing and encourages listeners to explore their emotional states through body scanning and yoga. Ultimately, she highlights that grief is a lifelong journey that requires patience and self-compassion.takeaways Grief affects not only emotions but also physical health. Somatic therapy helps in managing emotional pain through the body. Parts therapy suggests that trauma can fragment parts of the self. There is no single way to navigate grief; each person's journey is unique. Understanding where grief resides in the body can aid healing. Chronic illnesses can arise as a result of grief and trauma. Eastern medicine offers valuable insights into body awareness and healing. The chakra system connects emotional issues to physical health. Energy work can help in processing grief and emotional pain. It's important to find personal coping mechanisms that resonate with you. The heart chakra is associated with love and hatred. Grief can lead to physical issues, particularly lung disorders. The throat chakra is crucial for communication and personal expression. The third eye chakra supports intuition and self-evaluation. The crown chakra represents spiritual connections and trust. Somatic grief therapy helps process emotions stored in the body. Mindful breathing reduces anxiety and promotes presence. Progressive muscle relaxation can release stored emotions. Grounding techniques help maintain emotional stability. Movement and dance are effective for processing grief. Healing Through Grief: The Body's Response Understanding Grief: A Journey Through the Body Somatic Therapy: Healing the Body and Mind The Connection Between Grief and Physical Health Navigating Loss: A Holistic Approach to Healing Exploring the Body's Memory of Grief "It's one of the best things I did." "Loss affects our physical body." "Parts of yourself break off." "There's only one way through it." "Where does that feeling live in your body?" "I want to provide tools that you can use." "I can feel who's sad, who they're angry at." "The chakras connect us to our emotional areas." "Mindful breathing can help reduce anxiety." "Stored up emotion becomes disease." "Meditation is a skill like anything else." "Grief is like an onion; we peel one layer." "Grief is a complex, multi-faceted experience." #grief, # loss, #somatic therapy, #emotional health, #physical health, #child loss, #healing, # mental health, #energy work, #coping mechanisms, #heart chakra, #grief, #lung health, #throat chakra, #third eye, #crown chakra, #somatic therapy, #mindful breathing, #progressive muscle #relaxation, #grounding techniques, # movement, #dance, #body scanning, #yoga, #meditation https://ahealingplaceforgrief.com/ https://www.instagram.com/grievinginsomniacs/
Transcribe →Grief Ghosting: Tips for not ghosting and coping with ghosting.
Jan 13, 202500:39:58Tap to summarize#grief, #ghosting, #grieving insomniacs, #mental health, #coping mechanisms, #support, #loss, #emotional health, #podcast, #healing In this episode of Grieving Insomniacs, host Cristi Habermann shares her personal journey through grief after the loss of her son. She discusses the importance of communication and connection during the grieving process, highlighting the phenomenon of 'ghosting'—when friends and family withdraw support during a time of loss. Cristi emphasizes the emotional turmoil that ghosting can cause and offers insights into coping mechanisms for those who are grieving. The conversation aims to normalize the experience of grief and provide support for listeners who may feel isolated in their sorrow. takeaways Talking about grief is essential for healing. Ghosting can be a painful experience for grievers. Grief is a complex and individual journey. Support from friends and family is crucial during grief. It's important to understand that feelings of grief are valid. People often ghost due to their discomfort with grief. Grief can lead to feelings of abandonment and depression. Coping mechanisms are vital for managing grief. Words can have a profound impact on those who are grieving. Finding a supportive community can aid in the grieving process. Navigating Grief: The Impact of Ghosting Understanding Grief Ghosting and Its Effects "Don't avoid the person." "Be kind to yourself." "Find your people."
Transcribe →Navigating Grief Through the Holidays
Dec 14, 202400:26:53Tap to summarizeIn this heartfelt episode of Grieving Insomniacs, host Cristi Habermann shares her personal journey of grief following the loss of her son, Christopher. She reflects on the challenges of navigating life and holidays without him, the impact of grief on family dynamics, and the ongoing struggle with health issues. Cristi emphasizes the importance of acknowledging grief, the complexities of healing, and the need for support during difficult times, especially around the holidays. She also discusses her desire to honor Christopher's memory through her podcast and the significance of sharing stories of loss. Takeaways Grief is a personal journey that varies for everyone. The impact of losing a child extends beyond the individual to family dynamics. Holidays can amplify feelings of loss and absence. It's important to acknowledge and validate feelings of sadness during the holidays. Grief does not have a set timeline; it evolves over time. Sharing stories of loss can foster connection and understanding. Health challenges can bring back memories of lost loved ones. Reflecting on life choices can lead to feelings of regret. Carrying grief means keeping the memory of loved ones alive. Support from others is crucial in navigating grief. Navigating Grief During the Holidays The Unending Journey of Grief "Each year brings different struggles." "I want to do over." "I miss his sarcastic sense of humor." https://www.instagram.com/grievinginsomniacs/ https://www.facebook.com/grievinginsomniacs https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HRKjHcMsu1w Christmas Blues https://youtu.be/t0wvBbBijVY Journal with me series episode 2: A Christmas letter to my child.
Transcribe →Empty Chairs, Broken Hearts: Navigating Grief at Thanksgiving"
Nov 26, 202400:24:15Tap to summarizeIn this episode of Grieving Insomniacs, host Cristi Habermann shares her personal journey through grief, particularly focusing on the challenges of moving on after the loss of her child, Christopher. She emphasizes the importance of being real about grief, discussing the emotional struggles that come with the holidays, and offering coping strategies for those who are grieving. Cristi highlights the pain of seeing others move on while feeling stuck in grief, and she provides insights on how to navigate the complexities of holiday gatherings while honoring one's own needs and emotions Takeaways Grief is a unique journey that requires honesty. The pain of moving on can be overwhelming. Holidays can trigger deep emotional pain for grievers. It's important to honor your own needs during grief. Isolation can be a coping mechanism for some. Coping strategies include wearing comforting clothing and staying hydrated. It's okay to not feel thankful during Thanksgiving. Grief can manifest in unexpected ways, including physical symptoms. People often minimize the experiences of those who are grieving. Acknowledging sadness is a vital part of the healing process.
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