Ep.10 In this episode, we’re keeping it chaotic (as always) with my longtime bestie Carlie — and trust me, it’s a ride. From fake IDs and bar brawls to potty training and co-parenting, we dive deep into how motherhood flips your entire identity upside down. We laugh through the wildest Uber rides, spill the tea on that one questionable girls trip, and open up about the emotional weight of solo parenting, dating as a single mom, and learning how to set boundaries after heartbreak.

If you're a mom who's evolved from the party scene to preschool pickup — or you're somewhere in between — this episode will have you laughing, nodding, and maybe texting your best friend mid-listen.

We cover:

Girls trip chaos, fake IDs, and why we don’t travel with strangers anymore
The emotional rollercoaster of motherhood after a breakup
Co-parenting wins and real-talk boundaries with your ex
Potty training fails, toddler wakeups, and parenting through exhaustion
Why dating as a single mom is a hard pass (for now)
Teaching our daughters what healthy love looks like

This episode is for you if:

You’re navigating single motherhood and trying to keep your sanity intact
You’ve outgrown your party girl era but still want to laugh about it
You want honest, unfiltered talk about co-parenting, identity shifts, and dating post-baby
You’re figuring out how to protect your peace and raise your daughter with intention
You need a reminder that you’re allowed to change, grow, and set the damn tone

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📍 Episode Chapters & Timestamps

00:00 – Welcome to Kayotic + meet Carlie
02:00 – If the bar bathroom walls could talk…
05:50 – Fake IDs, fights, and blackout stories
10:25 – The wildest Uber ride (and the girl who stole my bed)
16:30 – Motherhood now: potty training, moving, and starting over
23:15 – Dating as a single mom: “who has the time?!”
27:50 – Boundaries, co-parenting, and keeping things respectful
33:00 – Teaching our daughters how to spot healthy love
36:45 – Current obsessions: books, Love Island, and toddlers with DVDs
41:00 – Wrapping it all up: you’re allowed to evolve and protect your peace

From Blackout Nights to Potty Training: How Motherhood Changed Everything