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Episode 514: The Best of Habits & Hustle - Dr Mary Claire Haver (The #1 Menopause Doctor)
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Hi, guys. It's Tony Robbins. You're listening to Habits and Hustle. Crush it.
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B
All right. Well, hi. Nice to meet you.
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A
Same.
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B
It's really nice to meet you. You've been doing very well with this book, I have to say. I've seen you, like, everywhere.
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Yeah, it's kind of overwhelming, but it's great.
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B
I can imagine. I can imagine. I mean, first of all, I think it's the way you describe and explain things in such wonderful layman's terms that people. People can really understand what you're talking about, really, you know, which I think is half the battle. Right.
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So I think it's my superpower that, you know, I've done it for years with patients. It's just one on one in the office. And then I just was able to kind of take that skill and start talking about it on social media. And who knew? You know, I started with no followers like everybody else. So.
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B
Wow. When is you actually. Oh, by the way, I should. We can start and we could talk about this, because we actually haven't. Well, let's actually just. Let's just say we started because it's actually very organic this way. I think it's great. And you pronounce. I wanted to say who you are. The book is called the New Menopause By Mary. By Dr. Mary Clair Haver. It's a wonderful read. Just because you explain things, like I said, exceptionally well, and you explain it in a way that everybody can understand. Very sometimes very scientifical. Scientific things that are quite difficult. So. And you were just. Not to interrupt you, you were saying you started on social media. How long ago have you. When did you actually start?
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I want to say I started on Facebook like everybody else, Right. In our age demographic, really, just for friends and family. And then before there were business pages or anything. And someone asked me a question one day just about gynecology stuff. And I answered it, like, on social media. And then like, that's. And I. There are a lot of people were like, oh, my God. You know, and so I was like, does anybody else have any questions? And it just kind of grew organically from there. And then we had a business page. And then during the pandemic, my kids were like, mom, you should be doing this TikTok thing. And I was like, no, that's for kids and dancing and whatever. But I was like, whatever. And so I just put a toe in the water on TikTok and it exploded. Like. Like, it was crazy how fast it grew. And then, you know, my dopamine's firing every two minutes. And you know, you're like, you're like, oh my God. And you. I grew to a million followers on TikTok within like a few months. And then that conversation just got bigger and bigger and then we really started getting busy on Instagram, which really was where most of our demographic hangs out now.
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B
Wow. So is that, you know, it's true. I think that Instagram became the, the new Facebook, you know, when we would be like, oh, mom, like our moms were on Facebook. And now it's like, actually our grandmas are on like great grandmas are on Facebook. And you know, you're right. Like, I believe, like it's Instagram is for our, our demo and then TikTok, which is for the younger. However, like you were just saying, you thrive on TikTok, which is.
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There's a lot of crossover. There is, but I do tailor my message depending on how I explain things. Knowing that TikTok skews younger and mostly male. Like, well, no, actually 89% of my followers on Tik Tok are female. 98% on Instagram are female. So I'm a little bit broader and trying to talk to a wider audience, you know, so I really do tailor. And Facebook is my age plus, like 55, 65, 70 year olds who still want to learn. And so but I have to really curate that message. So it's. But it's fun, you know, it's like a gang.
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B
It is, it is. But do you still have a practice? You still, you still see patients? How often are you in, like in office? In clinic?
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A
So I am, I'm in clinic about two days a week and I have a team who fill up the rest of the days so that I can work on my other businesses and social media the other three days a week.
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B
Wow. So social media has become like, how much of it would you say is your business now, social media? Like 70%.
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A
What? You know, time spent? 70, 60%, probably. But it's like I'm researching something for the book or for the next book, which we are still kind of playing with. And I'm like, oh, this particular subject would make a great informational video for Instagram, you know, and so then I'll make a long form video for YouTube, which is where we do like long teaching. And then we could cut that down. Like, we've gotten really good about being efficient with the same, with the same message.
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B
Right. You know, it actually, now that we're talking, it makes sense why you would do so well On Instagram. Because if it is the age demo of 40s, 50s, late 30s, let's say that's who would be affected by, you know, perimenopause. Menopause. Right. So you're like, you're like right in that strike zone of information that is completely of interest. And I was going to ask you, and now I kind of just figured out myself, like, is it because I'm in that age demo now and it's possibly like affecting me that all I seem to see now are things about menopause and perimenopause and hormones.
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A
Me too. And I just think, well, that's all I, you know, like, that I'm like, is we're talking about anything else anywhere else? Yeah, you know, I'll see some of my favorite creators on TikTok and they're like, but now you've seen the video about low and the crop top. I hadn't seen it. I had to go dig and find it. Like, like the algorithm is only showing me doctor Menopause stuff. So. So I, you know, but that's my fault.
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B
Well, I also think though, like, in this business, so, like, I talk to a lot of people in like, productivity and health, wellness, fitness, longevity, all the things. Right. And obviously also business mindset. But I will say I have noticed a major uptick and upswing in even people who don't necessarily talk about hormones and menopause are now putting these guests on their shows because it's a very hashtag friendly thing now. Right. So people are. What they're doing is they're gravitating to people who will get them views and what's trendy and popular. And this has become a very trendy, popular area because I guess it was a vacuum.
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There was a dark zone. No one was talking about it. I think I was willing to talk about it before a lot of other people were and before other people had educated themselves. You know, we don't have a great medical training program. You know, part of the medical curriculum for standard, you know, osteopathic, like regular MD or a do does not include a robust menopause curriculum. So you have this whole generation of practitioners who are out practicing who really know like the most cliche minimum about menopause.
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B
Yeah.
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And I went back to school and educated myself. You know, they decided to talk about it and share what I'd learned. Some of it is shocking, you know.
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B
Yeah.
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And so I think that's, you know, and then I found the menopause, which are kind of my, My Social media friend group of other like minded practitioners who are doing the same thing. Some in sexual medicine, some in general medicine, some cardiologists. You know, we've all kind of bonded together. This, this sisterhood and a couple of good men. And it's incredible. And so I'm always like, oh, I'm booked here, here, go talk to my friend Dr. Men, you know. Yeah, yeah, yeah, put her on your podcast. Trust me, she's amazing.
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B
I love that. I love you. Called menopause. That's hilarious, by the way.
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A
And we're in the metaverse, you know.
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B
That'S so great. I feel. Okay, so let's, let's start from the beginning, okay. Because there's a bunch of stuff when I read your book and a couple things really were shocking to me and I'll get to that in a second. But let's first talk about what really is the difference between perimenopause and menopause, because I think there's a lot of confusion and nobody really knows.
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A
Let's start in the middle. We'll go back to the very beginning and then work our way back forward. Okay? Menopause is one day in your life. That's it. One day. Medically, it is one day after or the day that is one year after your last menstrual period, the lnp, the final menstrual period, if it's naturally occurring. Okay, that is a terrible definition. You know, it was designed by people who, what if you don't have a period? What if you've had a hysterectomy? What if you have an iud? What if, you know, you have polycystic ovarian syndrome, like how you can't define your menopause that way. What it represents is the end of your ovarian function, of the ability to create estradiol and progesterone. So let's go way back to the beginning when we were in our mother's uteruses. So you're in your mom's tummy and you're a fetus and you're growing you and you're about five months along. Okay, she's five months pregnant. You have the maximum egg supply of your whole life right then and there before you're even born. And they start deteriorating from that minute. By the time we're born, we have 1 to 2 million eggs in our ovaries that are active, very different than males who have testes that make their genetic material what we call germ cells in medicine. So the eggs are the Female germ cell. The. The sperm are the male germ cells, okay? They make their stuff fresh every day from puberty till death. If they, you know, a healthy man, females, have to live with a set egg supply, and then it. It ages. Our ovaries age twice as fast as the rest of our body. This is the fascinating thing to me. So here we go. We go through puberty, okay? And we start ovulating every month. You lose about 11,000 eggs in the race to have the one ovulate, okay? And the quality of those eggs is deteriorating every single day because they. You were born with them. They get hit by X rays and environmental things, and they're just getting older. They're aging very, very quickly. So by the time we're 30, we're down to 10% of our egg supply. And by the time we're 40, we're down to about 3%. This is why fertility declines as we age, as well as the risk of a chromosomal abnormality like down syndrome and the others, okay? Because that egg quality, the health of that egg is deteriorating with age. Menopause represents. You're done. The eggs are gone. And when that happens, you can no longer ovulate. There's no more eggs left, so there's no more. And in that ovulatory process is where the estradiol is made and then the progesterone after ovulation. What is perimenopause? Okay? So here we are, normal reproductive cycles in a healthy female, okay? Your ovulation every month is a cycle. So we have the hypothalamus is in the brain, right? And then the pituitary sits right below it. Two glands that are part of our endocrine system. The hypothalamus has a little sensor in the blood that is always looking for estrogen. And it's also looking for thyroid hormone and some other stuff, okay? So it's like, all right, estrogen, we're good, we're good, we're good. We're getting low. It sends a signal to the pituitary gland that says, hey, tell the ovaries we need more estrogen. So the pituitary sends out LH and FSH in different pulsatile fashions. I'm simplifying this greatly.
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And says, hey, thank God.
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Says, hey, ovaries, let's get an ovulation going. We need some estrogen. So the ovaries are like, gotcha, boss. They start looking for that one egg to ovulate, and the cells that line that egg are Starting to produce estradiol. More estradiol, more estradiol, more estate. It's pumping water around that egg, and then that makes a cyst that pops. The egg comes out, gets caught up by the fallopian tube, blah, blah, blah, and the whole thing starts over again every single month. Okay? The second half of the cycle, the progesterone, is made in the corpus luteum, that little sac left behind where we ovulated from. And that is a very predictable, repeatable pattern for healthy women. Month after month after month after month after month. And looks like an EKG when you look at the hormone surges every month, which is why we have this phase. We act like this, that phase. We act like that. And we have metabolic changes. We have all kinds of changes throughout the month. Perimenopause. The ovary is starting to not respond to those same signals because it can't. It's harder. It can, but it needs more juice. So the hypothalamus is like, hey, I told you we need more estrogen. And the pituitary is like, I sent the signal. And the hypothalamus like, well, it must not have heard it send more. So we get these bigger surges of LH and fsh. And the ovary is like, okay, it's coming, it's coming. It might be a little delayed. You might. You might skip a period, or it's. It's a few days late, but then all of a sudden, all right, we got it, and the egg comes out. Because you had so much more stimulating hormone to make that happen, we have a bigger surge of estradiol. So what used to be this very predictable ekg, month after month after month, now becomes erratic. You get surges of estradiol much lower drops. Progesterone lags quite a bit. It's often quite low. So now you're in the hormonal zone of chaos in perimenopause, on your way to those final eggs until you're done. And that perimenopause process could take seven to ten years.
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Okay, Yeah. I mean, so that's. That's what's interesting. But I want to go back a second, because I know that you've said that. I've heard you talk about it, about. I'm still on the fact that you are at feedback 30 years old. You only have 10% of your eggs. That is an insane. A number. That's almost like 90%.
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Doesn't it make more sense now? You know, like, why this is happening to you?
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B
Does that mean that at 30 years old, you're. Then you could be technically in perimenopause because you are losing these eggs, like, at such a rapid scale.
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So average age of menopause is 51 in North America. Okay. Normal is still 45 to 55. So 95% of women will have their final menstrual period between 44 and 54 years old. Meaning menopause is 45 to 55. Right. Because it's a year later. Okay. And so that seven to 10 years. Let's back that up. So most women will start seeing some disruption in the force between 35 and 45.
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B
So you follow me? Yeah, I totally am. So why.
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Because 30 is possible, but that's putting you in a different category, either early or premature menopause, but it's possible.
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Okay, so my question. Is there a way. Is there a natural way to keep your eggs healthier and healthy at a younger age?
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Great question. Wouldn't there be a great study on that? But we haven't done it. So now we know that there are things we can do to. To chip away at our eggs. Hysterectomy, you lose four and a half years off the shelf life of your ovaries. Okay. Having one ovary removed, you lose a year and a half. Being African American or, you know, having African cult genetics, you lose two years. You know, you go through younger, your symptoms are more severe. So if you smoke, you lose about two years. If you have chemotherapy, if you have abdominal surgery. There are multiple things we can do to chip away at the natural shelf life of the ovary. But we have yet to discover things that will. You take twins, and they're otherwise healthy. What can one do to push her menopause out? We have no idea. Now, there's studies going on right now looking at medications that can turn off the signaling that causes the. The ovaries to age. But they're all experimental. We're not there yet, but they're looking at it because.
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B
So basically you're saying there's nothing that you know of as of as of yet that could.
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A
I literally have read every study on the subject. Like. Like we know that there's things you can do to mess it up, but there's no pill potion, no matter what anyone says on the Internet, that will extend the life of those ovaries.
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B
And also, what that is interesting. Yes. Which is interesting is because, let's say people who have fertility problems, right. And you look at somebody who you think would have no problems, who are super healthy they appear to look super healthy, they're doing all the right things. They're eating well, they're exercising, they're not smoking, doing drugs and they're unable to have a child, which means there's some disruption in their, in their air quality. But then you see a crack addict on the street and they can have 47 kids.
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So, you know, as a OB GYN resident who was older, who had massive fertility issues and needed lots of drugs and medication and all the things to actually have a baby, I lived that.
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Right.
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Looking at people making all of these incredible choices and able to conceive and I couldn't, you know.
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Right.
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And it was hard and hard to not be resentful or, you know, and then you have your baby and you eventually get pregnant. For me, I was lucky and you know, but yeah, it's, it's almost like menopause symptoms. You can definitely, if you make poorer lifestyle choices, you're not going to have as easy of a menopause. But even people who have the most on point nutrition, exercise, the whole nine yards can still suffer horribly. So it's not 100%.
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Right?
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Right.
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So does it really depend how much of it is genetics then, of what your experience is versus lifestyle?
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Well, we know that the age of menopause is definitely genetic. There's a huge genetic component. So if your mom went through early, especially if she had premature or early menopause, you're much more likely to have that than her. Now, it's not, of course, you get half your DNA from your dad, so that's going to play in a factor too. But we always ask, how old was your mom, if she knows, you know, when did she go through menopause, if she can figure that out. Most ladies don't know in my mom's generation, you know.
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B
Yeah, I know.
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I never talked about never talking about it. They never clocked it.
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B
It was very like. I don't know if it was. It wasn't a shameful thing. It was just something that you just never. Something that was like private or you just kind of dealt with on your own in the back.
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A
My mom was on HRT and she never came off of it until her 70s. And, you know, she did really well. She's not doing well now. In her 80s, she's on a walk. She's been on a Walker for 10 years and she's now demented and dealing with dementia and she's a mess. But I remember her being in a dark room and shutting the door. Now, I was one of Eight kids. So our house was crazy. But I would lock myself in a dark room too if I had that many kids. And yeah, and she would, and she would, my dad would blame menopause. It's menopause. It's menopause. And then she got on hormones and I don't remember that being a thing again.
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B
So I have a lot of questions about hormones. But before I want to first ask you about a couple different things because some of these signs for perimenopause really surprised me. One of them, because I had this last year, people made fun of me, but I had a frozen shoulder. And everyone, you know, my friends are like, oh, that's the old person. That's the old person.
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A
Middle aged woman.
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Middle aged. And so my sports medicine doctor's like, oh yeah. Because a lot of middle aged women get frozen shoulder. I was like, what are you talking about? I thought I got it because I'm a workout fanatic. Overuse, wear and tear.
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Well, that may be a part of it, but I'd like to think so. Capsulitis is directly like, you are much less likely to develop adhesive capsulitis if you're on hrt.
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B
Okay, I'm not on anything. I've never taken anything, I've never done anything because I have something that most people are like. I think a lot of people are, are fearful, which I want to talk to you about. And by the way, HRT is hormone replacement therapy.
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A
Replacement therapy?
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B
Yeah, for people who don't know. But so to me that frozen shoulder symptom was shocking to me that that could be one. So it's because it decreases. So can you explain why?
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So here's what your audience should understand. Estrogen does a lot of fabulous things in our body that we take for granted. It is a hugely powerful anti inflammatory hormone. And when it goes away, we lose resilience to a lot of musculoskeletal inflammation and diseases. So we see more joint pain, we see arthritis, we see arthritis. There's a direct. The collagen is not as healthy without estrogen. The tendon joint, it interact, you know, where those things kind of hook up, is less elastic, we see more stiffness. I mean we. 80% of women will have some form of musculoskeletal syndrome of menopause. And for 20% of us, it's going to be their most severe symptom, their most bothersome of all things. And this correlation was just made in the last few years. So what we learned in modern menopause medicine, which is going to take a whole generation to propagate back down through the ranks is that there are estrogen receptors everywhere in our body, our brains, so cognition issues, mental health changes, our hearts, palpitations, our lungs, asthma, our gut, gut health, you know, the quality of your gut, microbiome, how you absorb glucose, Everything is related when estrogen goes down, the musculoskeletal system, muscles, bones, joints, osteoporosis, the general urinary system, you know, both the bladder, the urethra, the vagina, the vulva, the labia, all of it terribly affected by the loss of estrogen, Our ability to sleep, our ability to process alcohol, our ability to be resilient to stress and mental health changes how our, how our liver hugely affected. Massive increases in cholesterol with no changes in diet and exercise. Through the menopause transition, massive changes in visceral fat for most women. But through the menopause transition, zero changes in nutrition or movement, and we see increasing visceral fat deposits.
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B
So when do we know if a symptom or an ailment we're having is because of a lack of estrogen versus just some other something else?
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A
Yeah, so the thing about perimenopause and menopause is that it's usually a constellation of things. And so we have validated scoring systems that, that were developed, I think in, in Australia, where they look at severity of like 12, 15 different symptoms and then you get a number score. And the higher the score, the more likely it is to be related to your perimenopause. So I have a patient coming in with multiple vague complaints and she's still having regular periods, you know, so I can't use her cycle to kind of judge where she is in the process. I will do blood work to rule out hypothyroidism, autoimmune disease, you know, multiple different things, nutrition deficiencies. I want to make sure I have a good baseline on all of that. But if everything else comes back normal, we're not checking hormones in perimenopause. Why? Because it is the zone of hormonal chaos and depends on the minute of the day as to what your levels could be. So a one time blood test, a one time urine test, a one time saliva test is rarely diagnostic for perimenopause. So we, those of us who do what I do, don't, we don't use hormone levels. They're not helpful. So they'll come back normal 98% of the time. And so even though you are just completely chaotic, remember In a regular, healthy cycle, the estrogen level is peaking mid cycle and dropping off. You know, it's low at the beginning, it peaks mid cycle, it drops off, then you have a second small rise, and then the whole process starts over again. So without predictable timing of when the blood's drawn in relation to your cycle, which goes away because it's so chaotic in perimenopause and it's not helpful. So if your doctor is charging you hundreds of dollars for all these hormone tests, I would save your money and find a different provider.
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B
That's interesting because everything goes through where your hormones are.
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Like, what do you mean?
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B
I'll tell you. So, like, they'll say, oh, you have low testosterone, you have low this, and.
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Then you want to. Testosterone is very stable in a woman. So there is a low level of T. That's different. Estrogen goes crazy, progesterone goes crazy, T is stable or down. So that's. That's a good one to check.
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B
So, but to. So is there some type of correlation with perimenopause and low testosterone? Because I have like zero testosterone and a lot of my friends are.
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A
Absolutely. So the same women have a more steady state decline in testosterone throughout their life, just like men. So men have about. They peak at 19 and it's about. And they kind of drift off a little quicker until like mid-30s, and then it's like a 1% decline until they die, you know, and so if so only about 30% of men have testicular or have testosterone low, meaning dysfunction for women. Once we go through menopause, we lose like half of our testosterone is being produced in the ovary. That drops off 20, you know, 50, 75%. We never go to zero. I mean, it's going to be low, but you still have the adrenal pathway working to produce some testosterone. But not to say you wouldn't benefit from replacement, but it's not surging and falling throughout the cycle. And it's not chaotic in perimenopause. It's usually kind of low. So that's a reasonable one to check. But I just put people on testosterone. I know they're low, they're in perimenopause, especially if they have no libido.
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C
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B
So I wanted to say, so I want to ask you about HRT hormone replacement therapy. Who's a good candidate, who is not? Is it a myth that HRT is something you should stay away from if cancer or breast cancer runs in your family? I, I think there's a lot of fear around it.
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A
So the HRT is, is hormone replacement therapy or menopausal hormone therapy, depending who you read. And basically I look at it as giving your body back the exact same hormones that you used to make when you were your healthiest to allow these critical processes to continue unfettered as well as they could. What's happening is when we lose our estrogen, we have an acceleration of cardiovascular disease, we have an acceleration of neurodementia, we have an acceleration of osteoporosis and frailty, we have, you know, all these things kind of skyrocket. Rather than go with this usual path with aging, we have an acceleration of the chronic diseases associated with aging and the diseases specifically affecting women, including autoimmune disease. And women on hrt, especially starting young in their menopause, like early in their menopause, in perimenopause or in the first 10 years of menopause have lower all cause mortality, 50% decreased risk of cardiovascular disease year for year and a decrease in cancer.
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B
So where did this come from? Like, you know, don't eat soy because it's estrogen producing, right? Oh God.
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Women who have high soy diets have lower breast cancer rates, by the way.
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B
So where did this whole thing, Remember this whole thing about 20 years ago, like I've been staying away from soy my entire life because I thought that that was good.
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That was never been proven, never been proven nothing. And now when I go and look at demographic data on women. Sorry, my lips are on women who have naturally high soy diets, like Asian women who eat edamame all the time. They don't have breast cancer like we do. So here's what happened. There was. We have known for years that women on hormone therapy is.38% of women were on before the WHI. So about 40% of menopausal women were on HRT. 20. Not only for hot flashes and night sweats, but for the protected benefits of decreased osteoporosis, decreased heart disease. We knew that that was the thing, but it was observational data. So there was the healthy woman hypothesis. Meaning, are women on HRT just healthier because they're whiter and more educated and they have more access to healthcare? You know, and we're just seeing an artifact. Or is this real? And the way to prove it is a randomized control trial. So finally we had a female leader of the National Institutes of Health. She puts the study together. It's amazing. I mean, we're like so excited. It's a high quality study. Thousands and thousands of patients and they're like, okay. The end result they were looking for was, is heart disease going to be delayed or stopped with hormone therapy? So they chose the average age of the patient as 63. 63, okay, yeah. Not 50. The average age of the woman starting hormone therapy, 63. Why? Because they can't run the study forever. It's too expensive. So we're going to start it later to see if there's cardiovascular benefit, because these women aren't going to have heart attacks till they're in their 70s or 80s. So to save money, and that made sense, they were also tracking multiple factors. They were looking at frailty scores, all kind of stuff. So here we go with the study. And we have two arms, we have women who have uteruses and women who don't. Two groups, okay? The women with uteruses got estrogen and progestogen or placebo. And then the other group got estrogen only because they don't have a uterus or placebo. Here we go. So remember, average age 63. They see that versus placebo. The rate of breast cancer went from four out of a thousand women per year to five out of a thousand women per year on the medication. So that is a 25% increase in relative risk. Not absolute risk, relative risk. They stop the study, call a press conference. Before the paper was published, before any physician could look at it. It was the number one news story, medical news story. Of 2002, it was on the COVID of every single newspaper. ABC, Good Morning America, Nancy Steinerman got on there was like I took all my patients off. People are throwing their estrogen in the trash. The estrogen only arms showed a 30% decreased risk, you know, of breast cancer. It was the progesterone, which was synthetic. So then. But what did the headlines say? Estrogen causes breast cancer.
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B
So this is so interesting because all.
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A
Of relative risk, which is what is like your individual risk as a patient was 0.8%, less than 1% per year.
- [31:13]
B
So then you're saying that anybody who's in perimenopause who has deficient hormones should be going on hrt.
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A
They should consider it. They deserve the conversation. And that's what's not happening, the conversation. They would not choose it. It is a shared decision between the patient and her provider. They're being denied access in conversations around it. Doctors are just saying they don't believe in it like it's Santa Claus or it's going to kill you. They have it. All of those findings have been redacted.
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B
Okay, and what is the reason behind it? Like this whole it's going to kill you because if you're just supplementing your body with what it had before. Exactly what is like where is the disconnect? How is that something that is dangerous?
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A
Okay, so say you, breast cancer is a healthy cell that has gone through a malignant transformation right through dits to the DNA. And you know, if we look at how we're dividing cells and all that, if your breast cancer cell through the malignant transformation retains its estrogen receptor, which healthy cells have to have to be healthy. Okay, yeah, we need estrogen receptors to make the breast cells do what they do. If it retains its breast cancer, its estrogen cell, it is now estrogen receptor positive and they can use that receptor against the cancer cell to stop the breast cancer from growing. So if you have an estrogen receptor positive cancer that you know that we don't want to feed, then you might be getting tamoxifen or serum or one of the anti estrogens and aromatase inhibitor, you know, to fight your breast cancer. That's totally reasonable. So not everyone is a candidate for hormone therapy. If you have a hormone sensitive cancer anywhere in your body to that particular to estrogen or progesterone, you're not a candidate. If you have severe liver disease, you're not going to process and break down estrogen the appropriate way. You're not a candidate. If you have unexplained vaginal bleeding. You've not had the ultrasound or workup or biopsies. You're not ready for hrt. So there are, you know, patients. All of these are very nuanced conversations. But just because you've had breast cancer does not mean that you are going to be categorically denied hormone therapy.
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B
But what was the first thing you said if you have hormone. Like you said something like, if you're somebody that has a hormone issue, like.
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A
Positive cancer, like if you have cancer.
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B
Not to go on it. Yes, obviously. But the other you said cancer, vaginal bleeding, you said enough. And you said severe liver disease. So other than those things, you think that anybody else are the big ones.
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A
So like family history, no problem. Blood clots. Don't do oral estrogen, do transdermal. You know, again, nuanced conversations. So much misinformation. I, these poor women are crying to me who are absolutely suicidal at the end of their rope. Like they are miserable and they've been told, oh, your grandmother had a blood clot, you can't, you know, I'm like, what? You know, these people don't know, haven't educated themselves. The system is not educated.
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B
I agree.
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A
We have so much work to do.
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B
This is why the truth is, most people I know who are getting hormone therapy, they're not going to the regular ob, GYN or regular.
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A
No, they're going to some back alley.
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B
They're going to a back alley place. If they're going to these like rando doctors, these functional medicine yahoos. And I don't even know who they are who are giving them. I don't know why are these meds. They're going to med spas. Really? They're going, they're going to med spas.
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C
That's the truth.
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A
Dressed up as functional medicine.
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B
You know, that's where they're going and they're going masquerading.
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A
Oh, and you could get your Botox.
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B
And you can get your Botox, you get your filling. I love Botox. Listen, but I'm not, I'm just saying is you're going to these like second rate places that are not even a proper medical facility.
- [34:53]
A
So women have a long history in this world of having to go to alternative or back alley places for needed medical services and they're going to do it. And this is just another example.
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B
So where do people find it? Like, like if I went to my obgyn. Yeah. No, no. Well, she'll say, like, she'll say, oh, here, take this. Like what does it say if you do so are you saying go to your doctor, your regular, normal doctor, try to have an intelligent conversation about hormone therapy that does include not just estrogen, but you're saying hormone therapy is also testosterone, progesterone, everything Right. Now are they those shot like subcutaneous shots that people are putting in or.
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A
Is it like maybe, but you can get safe, efficacious, high quality bioidentical hormone therapy from your local pharmacy with insurance if you have, you know, if that's your jam for $30 a month for all the hormones? No. So testosterone in the US is not FDA approved and I don't know what the same board is in Canada, but you're going to have to pay out of pocket for testosterone because there's no. FDA has not gotten around to improving, approving it for women, even though we have tons of studies to show how helpful it is. So for my patients we can do. I usually do an estradiol patch, an oral micronized progesterone, and we do some topical testosterone in the form of a cream, usually from a compounding pharmacy.
- [36:16]
B
Right. That's what my doctor always recommends, these creams. But the creams, from what I understand, because like I haven't done any of these, but I want to. They don't do anything. Their creams are not very.
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A
So you never want to do a progesterone cream with estrogen. Like if you, if you do a project, remember it's a huge molecule and.
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B
That'S an absolute testosterone.
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A
Yeah, yeah. So I've got a couple of trusted pharmacies. I work very closely with the pharmacist, but still it's not, they're not as regulated. You know, no one's going in to test to see in a compounding pharmacy. It's really what they're putting in there. Were they having a bad day that day and they didn't, you know, so like the things coming from Walgreens and the FDA approved stuff, they go through extensive testing and monitoring.
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B
Yeah.
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A
So we know 98% of the time what they say is that it is in it. So that's my preferred source. I don't have that option for testosterone because there's not an FDA approved option. And it's really hard in Texas where I practice to get them the men's version. There's a gender ban and you. Only if you have gender dysphoria or you're transitioning can you legally get. They'll turn you in. Wow. Yeah.
- [37:21]
B
So what about pellets? Are you putting people, you can't even do that, right?
- [37:25]
A
Absolutely not. No, no. Pellets are just, you know, I don't want to demonize the pellet, okay? It is simply another compounded form of therapy. There's nothing magical about it. It's not better, it's not safer, it might be more convenient, but you can't take it out. Once they put it in, you're stuck for three months. And let me tell you, it is the most profitable for your physician. So here's the red flag. You go into your healthcare provider and they only offer you pellets. All we do is pellets run because you are there to make them money. Because if they're not having a logical discussion and they're making you promises like, girl, you're going to feel so good, you're going to. I don't make those promises. I'm like, listen, we're going to try this, we're going to try this. Nothing's better than your 25 year old ovaries. I can't put those back in you. You know, we are just trying to get you to some level of you can function again and then we'll figure out the rest.
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B
So it's so funny.
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A
And the only pellets are in it for the money and not in it for the patient.
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B
So.
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A
And they're not dealing with the side effects. They're not. I mean it's horrible. So like, but if you're, if your physician is like, look, we got pellets, we got patches, we got rings, you know, my patients can't afford pellets. You know, they're hundreds of dollars a month where they can pay 30 or 40 or 50 maybe and go get what they need.
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B
I'm only laughing in a. Not because it's haha funny, but like I live in LA and everyone's running to these particular doctors that I know here and he's just like doing one. Like, he's basically banking like one, doing like 100 pellets on these people. Poor people.
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A
Here's what. Yeah, guess what about pellets, about Biot, they don't make a woman's version of the testosterone pellet. They just put the men's low dose pellet in the women. And so normal physiologic range of a healthy female, you can Google it right now for Testosterone is about 25 to 70. Okay, picograms per deciliter, don't worry about that. The Biot literature. I went and signed up on Biotech because I wanted to see what they were teaching these people. They say, no, no, no, no one's died yet. Let's run them between 150 and 250. Okay? That is a transitioning level. So basically taking these women and turning them into teenage boys, and sure, their libido goes up, but this is not without side effects and risk. And so, no, thank you. I would just want. I try to get my patients 50, 60 in the high normal range. You know, they're very happy and they're not having the beards and the cholesterol and the side effects and the. In the androgen and the acne and the hair loss and that, you know, because that's what.
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B
I'm scared.
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A
Women are coming to me after getting a pellet. I'm drawing their levels. They're in the three and four hundreds. And I'm like, girl, what are you doing?
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B
That is why I am scared to go on these things. Because it was gonna. The guy says to me, because I went to one of my friends who's like a. You know, this girl's. She's a famous girl. She's like, you have to go see my doctor. He's amazing. He's gonna make you feel amazing. So I go. She's like, yeah, you went, yeah, yeah, but at what cost, right? And he wanted to put. He's like, don't worry. We're gonna start brushing really low. It's going to be at about 100. It's 150. Whatever amount of.
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A
That's double. That is double high normal for me.
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B
And I said to him, I'm like. My doctor told me it was about my. My normal level should be at this place or whatever. He's like, real. He's like. He's like, medical doctors don't have the knowledge. They don't. They're not. They're not. They don't know. Okay. And so.
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A
But then guess who taught him that.
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B
You know, Biote, right? And this is the best.
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A
When the company. Who's in, who's giving you the medicine to put in the patient is teaching you there's a problem.
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B
Well, and also, these pellets are like, to your point, 800 bucks a pellet. But obviously I didn't. I do not have any pellet. But the thing that really kind of was scary for me is all these side effects. Like. Yeah. Does it work for. So It's a really 50, 50 split. If I talk to 50% of my friends or people I know who are on it, they like it. If I talk to another 50%. They gained weight, they got bloated.
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A
It's an anabolic steroid.
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B
Yeah. So, so who the might. This is the question I have for you. Who's a good candidate for. For. For these. For high. For testosterone? I mean women, not men. Why are half the women, you know, just thriving on it and the other half are. Are really just not liking them?
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C
What.
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B
Who's a good candidate for.
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A
So you know, it. Were they not liking it because they were overdosed and they were in super physiologically.
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B
They both had the same doses like these all, let's say out of like.
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A
2, 10, all the pellets. They were overdosed. So they don't like it because they're overdosed?
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B
No, no, no. Like 10 of the women, five of them, let's say, loved it. Five of them did not like it. Now what, how.
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A
What were their levels?
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B
All pretty low. But this is what my. Listen, I'm no doctor, but what I noticed were the friends of mine who liked it. They were naturally very thin already and it wasn't a weight like they didn't gain weight. The ones who didn't like it like gain weight because they didn't have the genetics that was going to take them, that was going to keep them at a baseline of being very thin. The thin friends got thinner and more fit. The friends who are a little bit more like more voluptuous, got more voluptuous and didn't like the.
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A
So higher levels of testosterone. You also convert more estradiol. So it's. So we start really low and slowly, slowly titrate up. Most of my patients. You know, I have three indications to put a patient on it though. The sexual medicine docs think that we have testosterone receptors everywhere in our body as well. And they feel like it's probably helping with cognition, with sleep and lots of different things. I started it for low muscle mass. My whole life I've not, you know, I've just was genetically very low muscle. And I'm super high risk for fracture and frailty as I get older based on my family history. And I'm just fighting that tooth and nail. I lived heavy. I do all the things I was like, I'm going to add some testosterone. So I started, you know, really low dose. I never thought I had a libido issue, which is what I put most of my patients on for, for decreased hypoactive sexual desire disorder. We've ruled out other causes and it's just down to desire. But I definitely have seen an uptick in that area And I think I would miss it if it was gone. So I never complained before, but I'm just having like a little more and I am having gains.
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B
So.
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A
So, but I am working out like a main, you know, I am heavy lifting very consistently, much more than I ever did. And then I'm, I'm eating much more protein than I did before.
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B
So you what, so what number are you taking testosterone? As a doctor, what are you doing?
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A
So I'm doing 10 milligrams a day transdermal.
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B
So that comes up. So your levels would be at what point?
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A
So my level, my last level checked was at 59.
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B
59. So transdermal. Does that mean cream?
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A
Create.
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B
Okay.
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C
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B
Okay, I've got so many other questions. Okay, so let's talk about exercise. We have to talk about exercise. Remember to work. We touched upon it a few times. I'm a big believer in strength training and lifting heavy, especially as you age. I know you talk about that as well in your book. What can you tell us on the research that you've done? Of, of how strength training and menopause or as you age, the importance of those two are together.
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A
So most women peak at their muscle mass at about age 30. And then we have an age related decline in muscle mass. And in order to overcome that natural progression, we have to work harder and harder and harder every single year or we're just going to have to give up that, you know. And so as we're living longer than men, we're becoming more and more frail in those years. And so when you look at long term care homes, 66% are female, 33% are male. And the most likely reasons a woman is going to be admitted is for dementia and then for frailty. She can't get off the toilet, she can't, you know, lift her legs, she can't get off the floor. If she falls, she can't pick herself up. And so this is the end result, or she's fallen and broken, you know, a bone and can't take care of herself. All of this is pretty much avoidable. But you know, my generation, our generation, I was a cardio queen. I ran everything was about to be thin. Like my whole focus for movement was to be skinny, okay? Which I had skinny privilege. I ran marathons, I did all this stuff, you know, super proud of that. But God, if I could go back and talk to that girl, pick up some fricking weight, you know, because I chipped away at my bone and muscle strength to be thin. I never looked at nutrition outside of calories. You know, I tried to eat healthy. I didn't know what that was till I went back to school. They didn't teach us that in medical school. Just, you know, don't eat french fries, okay? So but for movement, two to three days a week of progressive load resistance training, that scares the hell out of women because they've never done it. They don't know how, but it is so important. So when they did studies on elderly women, which is 65 plus, okay, I am eight years away from that, or nine. How old are you? 55.
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B
Oh, you look great though.
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A
So almost 56. So they were looking at vibratory training, putting them, they put them in 10% weighted vests, they had them start lifting. They were doing deadlifts. These women were making major gains in their 70s and 80s for muscle mass and bone strength and osteoporosis. And I'm like, okay, osteoporosis prevention program, let's go. There's great studies on collagen, there's great studies on wearing a Weighted vest. I wear one all the time now when I'm walking the dog, when I'm doing housework, when I'm, you know, walking on my treadmill, which I do a lot of work on my walking desk, but I put the weighted vest on to do it because I'm cheating the system. I'm just, you know, I'm never going to be obese. That is not in my genetics. It would be a lot of hard. I could do it. Yeah. So. But, you know, for me, it's avoiding the frailty card. And I want to be 90 and playing on the floor with my grandkids.
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B
Yeah, I agree.
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A
Grandkids. You know, I want to be climbing a mountain. I don't want to be on a walker like my mother. At 85.
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B
Yeah.
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A
You can barely get around. She can't get in and out of the tub. We're trying to figure out converting her bathroom right now. She sits on the toilet and does a sponge bath. That is the best she can do. Right.
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B
Wow.
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A
You know, and that.
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C
I know.
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B
No.
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A
So I'm. I'm doing squats like nobody's business right now because this is my mother. So these are the things I talk to my patients about. They're not coming in saying, I want a bikini body. We're, you know, those ships have sailed, and it'd be great. I mean, who doesn't want that? But they're like, look, I'm looking at my future. I'm looking at my aunts. I'm looking at my mom's. What plan can I get on right now? What habits can I change? What do I need to focus on so that I can be healthy and vibrant as long as possible and not 10 years of horrible morbidity, not being everything in pain, breaking, hips, breaking, you know, so women. 50% of women will have an osteoporotic fracture before they die.
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B
Yeah.
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A
And men don't do that. Yeah. You know, like, very few men. So it happens, but it's rare. And so I want to be like a man. I want to die like a man. They just die.
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B
Yeah.
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A
They live and die. We have a protracted, horrible last 10 years of our life completely dependent on others. And that doesn't have to be like that. So this is what we talk about when we talk about menopause care.
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B
And this we're talking for street training is being is. Is an essential piece of it. Do you think that cardio. Because cardio is known to break down muscle. Muscle mass. Right.
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A
I think. I think you need to walk A brisk walk. A brisk walk with a weight of vests. I stopped running as I go for my knees. You know, I might do a few sprints just to get my VO2 max going, but. Yeah, yeah, you know, a few sprints here and there, a little bit of tabata. You don't have to go crazy, you know, but, like, if you're on the couch, get up and walk, baby. That's it.
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B
Just walk. The weightedness. I love it.
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A
If you. Okay, all right, you're walking. Good. Grab a weighted vest. Let's get some hand weights. Let's, you know, let's work. You have to meet the patients where they are and, you know, saying, you need to do three days of resistance training or she's going to run out of my office screaming. But, you know, she's like, hey, I'm walking every day. This used to work for me. It's not working anymore. I measure their muscle mass in clinic. I have an embody scanner, so I'm doing visceral fat muscle mass. You know, I really can look at their insides and be like, okay, here's the path you're on right now. Here's what we can do to. To reverse this.
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B
Yeah. I'm a big believer in strength training for your. For your bone density, for. The weight of the weighted vest is amazing.
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A
And now the cardiovascular data. You know, women are much less, much more likely to decrease their risk of cardiovascular disease by 20 to 50% if they strength train.
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B
Yeah, absolutely.
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A
More than men. Like, they can do less strength training and have more benefits than a man.
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B
They can.
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A
They will have more cardiovascular benefits with less work.
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B
Oh, I love that.
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A
Yeah.
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B
Okay, let's talk about semiglutide and the, you know, semiglutide. The GLP one.
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A
Yeah.
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B
Is there a benefit for going on something like that? Like the Ozempics of the world, if you are gaining belly fat from menopause or from perimenopause.
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A
So most of my patients, you know, again, I usually defer to people who have training in obesity medicine. You know, I don't have. Unless my patients are obese and especially patients with lifelong obesity. And they've done everything. They've done every diet. You know, this is a whole mind. You know, it's more than just mindset for so many patients. But I do think that there's a place. I have a handful of patients on it. We monitor them very closely before they leave the office. They know they're coming back every six weeks. We're monitoring their muscle mass. We talk about Acceptable muscle mass loss. We talk about protein intake like going to the long term success of you being on semaglutide, where you're going to end up healthier in the long run is really dependent on the doctor who gives it to you and how they take care of you and monitor you. Weight loss at any cost is rarely sustainable and rarely better for your health long term.
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B
That and the reason why I'm even asking you this question is because we're talking so much about muscle mass, right? And keeping, you know, lean muscle mass on your body. It breaks down your. When you lose weight, you're losing fat and muscle.
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A
If you severely calorically restrict, half of what you lose is muscle, which is why so many people. Yo, yo. Because muscle is what controls our muscle metabolic rate. So you've lost 10 pounds, 5 of its muscle, you immediately put on another 10 pounds, you know, you go back, but you've gained 10 pounds of fat and you could never get that muscle back without eating all the protein and doing all the resistance training. So this semaglutide is a tool in your toolbox to be healthy. You cannot ignore the value of nutrition, of movement and the right, you know, doing the right movement, you know, just getting your shots and not eating is not going to serve you long term.
- [54:03]
B
But also you, when you get, I mean, you're the doctor, I'd like to ask you, once you get off of it, your appetite, I would imagine, rebounds.
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A
If you don't change your habits and you go back to your old habits, you're going to gain the weight back.
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B
How do you change your habits? It's not a, it's not a habit for. It's not about habits, it's about making, it's turning off like your, your hunger.
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A
I'm seeing something different. So my patients are using that food noise going away that time that they now have in their day as a time to. We talk about this, you know, how they're going to. This is a multifactorial disease and we talk about habit changing. Is it successful for everyone? No, but I've seen some beautiful results. And when the patients come in and they've held onto their muscle mass and they see that visceral fat going down, they're watching their cholesterol go down, you know, even. And semaglutide plus HRT, they lose 30% more weight, by the way.
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B
Really?
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A
More fat? Yes.
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B
Wow.
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A
Women menopausal, women on semaglutide lose X amount. Women on semaglutide plus HRT lose 30% more.
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B
Wow. I'm signing up.
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A
And they're more likely to keep it off because you're more likely to maintain your muscle mass if you have your hormones on board, including estrogen.
- [55:15]
B
That's amazing. I thought estrogen again. This is a myth. Doesn't it make you gain weight? Is it more. No, it doesn't. Okay.
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A
No, because.
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B
Because when I have.
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C
Whenever.
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B
When you're menstruating, you. You feel like. Why do you feel so bloated? And water. Water. Progesterone. Okay. Gosh.
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A
It's a. It makes you retain water, which is why we, like, blow up when we're pregnant. Is that why progesterone so high?
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B
Okay. Does that mean semiglutide? I've heard there was a correlation between inflammation and that. Does it help with inflammation?
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A
So talking to the obesity medicine specialist. This is not my jam. Right. They feel like because of the lowered insulin levels, which is pro inflammatory, they don't feel like the semaglutide is in and of itself lowering inflammation. Like it's directly acting on certain receptors that will lower inflammation. They feel like because insulin levels are going down and that means your visceral fats dropping, that those two things combined are lowering inflammation because insulin is a pro inflammatory hormone.
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B
Well, semiglutide is like an old. It's like. It's like the. It's the old version. Now everyone's talking about tirzepatide. What is the difference between. They work on.
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A
My friends call it like iPhone 12 versus iPhone 13.
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B
Yeah, that's exactly.
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A
You know, and so. So patients are having less gastrointestinal side effects, less nausea, less diarrhea, less constipation on the tirzepatide. And now there's so many that are coming out and they're looking at oral versions as well to make it easier to prescribe. I think it's pretty exciting in the next. You know. And you think you spent money on developing Covid vaccines. These people are spending some money because they know people are going to buy it. And so developing the latest and greatest on, you know, decreasing side effects and improving efficacy.
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B
Wow. Okay. And then how about in terms of supplementation, is there any particular supplement that you recommend? Yeah.
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A
So remember, supplements are not a menopause cure. Take that away. Okay. And supplements are meant to supplement a healthy diet. You cannot swallow a handful of pills and expect to have miracles if you don't eat what you're supposed to be eating. Okay. So most women are not getting enough fiber in their diets. And so I really advise try to get your fiber from food. 25 grams per day. Push to 3035 with your supplement. Most of my patients are deficient in vitamin D. Our gut changes are. We're protecting our skin from the sun for good reason. Where, you know, there's lots of reasons why we live in climates. What's sunny today in Texas, but you know, so massive amounts of vitamin D deficiency. So I am recommending a routine vitamin D. I am recommending a certain bioactive collagen for prevention of osteoporosis. Pretty good studies on that. It's called fortebone I. Turmeric is not for everyone, but I sometimes will recommend turmeric, especially if they're having osteoarthritic pain. It does seem to help with visceral effects. Fat. It's a pretty powerful antioxidant, anti inflammatory. So if you're doing teas or supplements, you know, but just be careful because too much turmeric can be liver toxic. Make sure you're staying. Oh, yeah, yeah. So you know, too much of a good thing is not always the best thing. And so, you know, we have some supplements that we take to correct deficiencies. Magnesium is a big one of that. Others we can take in a little bit higher doses. Pass. You know, FDA is to keep you out of a deficiency. Sometimes higher doses of things can be medicinal like magnesium. So magnesium L thernate has been studied in SSRI resistant depression. It crosses the blood brain barrier really well and you know, I allow my patients use it for sleep. So, you know, then we're kind of looking symptom by symptom to see where we can shore up. I'm doing iron studies and all kind of stuff on my patients to see where they're deficient.
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B
Well, what's. Okay, you mentioned magnesium. Which magnesium would you recommend? Because it's very confusing. There's lots of different magnesium forms.
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A
So like no complex of magnesia.
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B
Right.
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A
That gives you diarrhea on purpose. Yeah, it's for constipation. So they're, you know, depending on the formulation, some of it stays in the gut and makes everything move quicker. Some goes into the bloodstream but doesn't get into the brain. So that's like glycinate and taurite, some across the blood brain barrier. Okay. So most of my patients are on mag for the neuroprotection. Neuro and cognitive benefits or sleep or calm. And so we're going with the L serenate is what I'm usually recommending, but probably glycinate is not a bad choice either.
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B
What does that one do? So L Thermalates for your brain, basically.
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A
Okay.
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B
Yeah.
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A
And glycinates crosses pretty well into the brain as well. It's cheaper, too. So if there's only one manufacturer of alphurinate, like, in the world. I know this because I looked into trying to provide it to my patients, and it was just too expensive. And so. And he only farms it out to three or four companies, so. Or I think it's a heat anyway, so that. That one's a little more pricey. Which one is a patent on it? The L Farinate?
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B
No, no, no.
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A
What's.
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B
What company? Like, which brand?
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A
Oh, Mag Teen and Neuromag. So Life Extensions is the brand. I get it.
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B
Oh, Life Extension. Yes, yes, yes. Gotcha. Okay, good to know. Wow. Okay, well, listen, thank you for this. I think this is great information and I love that you like. Like I said, I love that you came on this podcast. You guys, the book is called the new menopause by Dr. Mary Claire Havertz. She is an OBGYN. Are you. Are you accepting patients right now?
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A
Not right now.
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B
I'm full.
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A
I have, you know, we're expanding our clinic, but right now I cannot take up one more patient.
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B
I don't.
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A
I have to take care of the ones I have in my. In my little.
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B
I'm sure. Wow. Well, listen, the book is fantastic. It gives a really good overview of all these things that we spoke about, and it goes more in depth than I. I'm really just. I'm grateful that you came on this podcast. So thank you for being a guest.
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A
You're welcome.
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B
And where could people find more information about you if they.
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A
So we have. Thepauslife.com is our website. We have free guides. We have free, you know, blogs, tons of information, how to talk to your doctor, what tests to ask for, etc. We are all over social media at Dr. Mary Claire or Dr. Mary Claire Haver on every channel you can think of, except for Twitter. I just never got around to that one. And then it. Now it's weird, but so. But I'm on Facebook and Instagram and TikTok and YouTube are the big ones in Pinterest.
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B
All the things. All the things. Thank you. I appreciate you being here and thank you for just some great, very, very pertinent information. I'm going to go tell my. I'm going to send this to all my friends.
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A
Well, thank you.
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B
Thank you. I'll speak to you later and maybe I'll see you when you come to la sometime.
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A
Yeah, I'll be heading out there in May, I think, for. We'll. We'll have our people send you the stuff. I think. May 11th. We'll be out there for a few days.
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B
You are. Oh, my gosh. I wish I would have known. I would have had this in person. I very rarely do these virtuals because it's sometimes very technically challenging, let's put it that way.
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A
Yeah.
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B
Yeah. But I think we're going to make this work. So thank you again and I'll speak with you soon. You're welcome. Okay.
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A
All right, take care.
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B
Bye.