Podcast Summary: Handsome – Pretty Little Episode #10
Episode Details:
- Title: Pretty Little Episode #10
- Release Date: October 25, 2024
- Hosts: Tig Notaro, Fortune Feimster, Mae Martin
- Produced by: Headgum
1. Embracing Change and Personal Stories
Mae Martin kicks off the episode by sharing a personal story about getting her hair trimmed. During the visit, her hairstylist decides to dye her hair salt and pepper to maintain continuity for the show. Mae humorously recounts discovering "12 to 14 fully gray hairs" post-trim (00:32). Initially apprehensive, Mae's perspective shifts as Fortune Feimster reassures her, saying, "It's a very cool look" (01:11). This leads Mae to embrace her changing appearance, reflecting on how stress might have accelerated her graying process.
2. The Light-Hearted Debate on Cosmetic Enhancements
The conversation seamlessly transitions to discussing cosmetic enhancements. Fortune expresses curiosity about procedures like Botox, fillers, and hair dyeing, pondering whether they could become quick fixes in the future. Mae contemplates the implications of these changes on personal expression and performance, questioning if something like Botox might "hinder your performance acting wise" (03:20). The hosts humorously debate the reversibility of such procedures, with Fortune musing, "I think I would imagine you would look good. You're obviously an attractive person." (02:48). This segment highlights their camaraderie and ability to discuss personal topics with humor and openness.
3. The Myth of Nine Lives: Philosophical Musings
Delving into more whimsical territory, Mae and Fortune explore the age-old saying that cats have nine lives. Mae raises a thought-provoking question: "Do you think you'd live differently if you knew you were gonna come back eight more times but you don't know which number you're on?" (07:05). Fortune reflects on how this knowledge might influence their behavior, with Mae agreeing that it could lead to taking more risks or perhaps becoming more detached from daily anxieties. They humorously consider overcoming fears and the potential for reckless adventures, underscoring the fleeting nature of life and the allure of multiple chances.
4. Listener Questions: Exploring Dreams and Fantasies
a. Angela’s Question: Moving to a Foreign Country
The first listener question comes from Angela, who asks: "Would you ever want to move to a foreign country and live out the rest of your life there? And if you would, where would you like to move to and why?" (08:12).
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Mae's Response: Mae expresses a willingness to move for love, sharing her own experience of living in England for twelve years. She muses about urban-centric cities like Amsterdam and Berlin, highlighting her fondness for their vibrant cultures and progressive atmospheres.
"If I was going to move somewhere with, like, a totally different culture and it was for love... I'd want something like Amsterdam or Berlin." (10:17)
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Fortune's Response: Fortune agrees, citing her positive experiences visiting Amsterdam and appreciating its beauty and social progressiveness. She also humorously contemplates working in unique jobs in such cities, like hiring topless housekeepers, sparking laughter and playful banter.
"They look so kind of... it's a joke we played around with." (14:30)
b. Maddie’s Question: If You Were a Dragon, What Would You Hoard?
The second listener question is from Maddie, asking: "If you were a dragon, what would you hoard? Like, most dragons sit on a pile of gold or something." (19:38).
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Mae's Response: Mae reveals her love for vintage cameras, imagining herself as a dragon surrounded by "a bunch of old cameras" (20:08). This personal touch adds depth to her character and showcases her quirky interests.
"I'd be a dragon sitting on a bunch of old cameras, I think." (20:42)
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Fortune's Response: Fortune playfully suggests she would hoard vegan desserts, specifically key lime pie and tiramisu. The humorous twist leads to a lighthearted discussion about the peculiar fetish of sitting on cakes, blending fantasy with everyday quirks.
"I would hoard vegan desserts. I would just sit on a key lime pie." (20:59)
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Maddie’s Answer: Maddie adds her unique spin by declaring she would hoard all the lost socks from dryers, playfully taking ownership of the universal sock disappearance mystery.
"I'm the reason that you only have one of the pair always." (23:22)
5. Anecdotes and Humorous Interludes
Mae Martin shares a memorable incident where she was asked to deliver a message in French during a red carpet event. Struggling with the language, she ended up saying, "c'est lalaween," referencing a childhood song. This moment of vulnerability leads to laughter and solidarity among the hosts.
"It's so insane to think of French Canadian people hearing me be like, of course I have a message. It's Halloween." (16:38)
Fortune Feimster reflects on her performance in an Indigo Girls musical, initially feeling embarrassed but later receiving positive feedback from Amy Ray. This story emphasizes the importance of self-perception versus public reception.
"Amy Ray was laughing at my part. I don't even think she was laughing at me having a bad accent." (17:26)
6. Lighthearted Discussions on Relationships and Pets
The hosts transition to discussing relationships, particularly the dynamics of introducing new elements, akin to adding a fourth cat to a household already brimming with feline companions. They humorously compare this to introducing polyamory into a relationship, highlighting the delicate balance required to maintain harmony.
"It would be like when you introduce polyamory into a relationship. You're playing with fire." (22:30)
7. Closing Remarks and Community Engagement
As the episode wraps up, Mae and Fortune encourage listeners to continue sending in questions and to share the podcast with friends to help grow their community. They emphasize the value of listener engagement and express their appreciation for the supportive audience.
"Tell your friends about this podcast... continue to grow this really incredible community." (24:16)
Mae concludes with a heartfelt reminder to keep things "pretty," encapsulating the episode's blend of humor, personal storytelling, and philosophical musings.
"Until next time, keep it pretty." (24:34)
Notable Quotes with Timestamps
- Mae Martin: "I was thinking it's fucking cool. You've got it, like, in your sideburn there." (01:11)
- Mae Martin: "I feel like we've talked on the pod about how when I moved to England, I looked into becoming an escort for women..." (10:43)
- Fortune Feimster: "I have fantasies sometimes about just going for it. Like bleaching my teeth." (03:24)
- Fortune Feimster: "What would I hoard? I would hoard... vegan desserts." (20:59)
- Mae Martin: "It's a classic. Yeah. Dragons, they hoard gold and things usually." (20:08)
- Mae Martin: "And it's just so insane to think of French Canadian people hearing me be like, of course I have a message. It's Halloween." (16:38)
Conclusion:
In "Pretty Little Episode #10," Mae Martin, Fortune Feimster, and Tig Notaro deliver a captivating blend of personal anecdotes, humorous exchanges, and engaging discussions prompted by listener questions. Whether contemplating the implications of cosmetic enhancements, imagining life as a multi-lived cat, or exploring the whimsical notion of dragon hoards, the hosts exhibit their trademark wit and warmth. This episode not only entertains but also fosters a sense of community and relatability, making it a must-listen for both regular followers and newcomers alike.