Podcast Summary: Handsome – Pretty Little Episode #28

Episode Information

• Title: Handsome
• Host/Author: Headgum
• Description: "Handsome" is a podcast from comedians Tig Notaro, Fortune Feimster, and Mae Martin. Every week, the handsome hosts field a question from a friend and attempt to answer it together, covering every subject you could think of. Along the way, Tig, Fortune, and Mae tell plenty of stories and just generally have a ridiculous time.
• Episode: Pretty Little Episode #28
• Release Date: February 28, 2025

1. Opening Banter and Episode Introduction (00:39 - 03:10)

The episode begins with the hosts—Fortune Feimster and Tig Notaro—engaging in their signature playful banter. Fortune introduces herself and Tig as co-hosts, quickly diving into a humorous exchange about being "hoes for the day," showcasing their comfortable and comedic rapport.

Notable Quotes:

• Fortune Feimster (00:58): "Welcome to our pretty little episode. I'm your host for today, Fortune Feimster."
• Tig Notaro (01:08): "Oh, my gosh. That is. That is really dirty. Okay. That is some dirty talk."

2. Discussing the Impact of Wildfires on LA Community (03:10 - 07:14)

The conversation shifts to serious topics as the hosts discuss the recent wildfires affecting Los Angeles. They contemplate whether to stay in their home or relocate due to the increasing risks.

Key Points:

• Community Displacement: Tig mentions receiving texts about people moving into their office due to space constraints (02:35).
• Emotional Attachment: Fortune expresses her intention to stay, highlighting her deep connection to the area despite the dangers (02:19).
• Migration Trends: Tig references the trend of people moving from LA to other states like New York and Connecticut, a movement accelerated by the pandemic (03:10).

Notable Quotes:

• Fortune Feimster (02:19): "I'm staying. It's my place."
• Tig Notaro (03:31): "We have moments where we're like, yeah, maybe we'll head out. And then...we have to always be considering many different people."

3. Life in Los Angeles: Pros, Cons, and Personal Reflections (07:14 - 16:46)

The hosts delve into their experiences living in LA, weighing its magical moments against the practical challenges posed by environmental risks.

Key Points:

• Magical Opportunities: Fortune shares her awe at the serendipitous connections and experiences unique to LA, such as meeting admired industry figures (06:24).
• Personal Growth: Tig discusses her journey from moving to LA with friends to building a family, highlighting how her perspective on the city evolved over time (04:04).
• Balancing Act: Both hosts reflect on balancing career aspirations with personal life, especially regarding their children's happiness and stability (03:32).

Notable Quotes:

• Fortune Feimster (06:24): "There is something magical about LA...you end up having these kind of magical nights here and there."
• Tig Notaro (04:37): "But, yeah, we have our kids who are so happy in their school. They love our house."

4. Transitioning from Previous Careers to Comedy (16:46 - 21:07)

Fortune and Tig share their pre-podcast careers, detailing how their previous jobs and experiences paved the way for their success in comedy.

Fortune Feimster: Journalism to Comedy

• Entertainment Journalist: Fortune recounts her seven-year stint in entertainment journalism, covering major events like the Oscars and interviewing celebrities (08:18).
• Career Shift: The decline of print media in 2010 led her to pursue comedy full-time, supported by her former employers (10:54).

Tig Notaro: Music Promotion to Stand-Up Comedy

• Music Manager: Tig describes her early days managing and promoting bands, which honed her organizational skills and work ethic (12:23).
• Stand-Up Beginnings: Balancing music promotion with stand-up comedy allowed her to focus on developing her comedic craft before committing fully (14:08).

Notable Quotes:

• Fortune Feimster (10:51): "I just knew it wasn't what I wanted full time. I was pursuing comedy at night."
• Tig Notaro (14:08): "I just put my head down for the longest time. I didn't like to worry about reps or, you know, managers, agents, anything like that."

5. Listener Q&A: Fun Past Experiences and Language Mishaps (21:07 - 23:58)

The hosts respond to listener-submitted questions, sharing humorous and relatable stories from their past and discussing common language confusions.

Listener Question #1: Tori's Fun Pre-Success Stories (07:51 - 17:39)

• Question: What is the craziest, silliest, most fun thing you ever did before becoming successful?
• Responses:
  • Fortune Feimster (08:18): Shares her experience as an entertainment journalist attending movie premieres at 23.
  • Tig Notaro (12:23): Recounts managing bands and promoting music as a lead-up to her comedy career.
  • Listener Response: Tori humorously mentions dressing up as a hot dog to host children's parties (17:07).

Listener Question #2: Kathy's Language Mishaps (18:06 - 23:03)

• Question: Do you have a specific phrase or word that you realized as an adult you have been saying wrong?
• Responses:
  • Fortune Feimster (19:01): Discusses common phrases like "I couldn't care less" versus "I could care less."
  • Tig Notaro (21:07): Shares her misuse of the word "tump" instead of "knock over" and other linguistic quirks.
  • Listener Response: Kathy humorously confesses mistaking "sucker punch" for "soccer punch" (22:43).

Notable Quotes:

• Fortune Feimster (19:23): "I couldn't care less. Right? Because you're at the bottom. There's no room to care more."
• Tig Notaro (21:58): "What about you? Did you grow up saying tump?"

6. Closing Remarks and Episode Wrap-Up (23:58 - 24:46)

The hosts express their gratitude towards listeners for their questions, encourage submissions for future episodes, and share ways to stay connected.

Key Points:

• Listener Appreciation: Both hosts thank their audience for engaging with the podcast through questions and support (23:03).
• Call to Action: Encouragement to submit more questions via email and visit their websites for updates and merchandise (23:17).
• Final Banter: Light-hearted jokes continue as they sign off, maintaining the episode's friendly and humorous tone (23:42).

Notable Quotes:

• Fortune Feimster (23:07): "You sure do. Get us thinking."
• Tig Notaro (23:44): "That's right. And always check out my website if you want to see what I'm up to or where I'm out and about."

Conclusion

In "Pretty Little Episode #28," Fortune Feimster and Tig Notaro navigate a blend of serious discussions about their community's challenges and lighthearted exchanges about their past and linguistic quirks. The episode offers listeners an intimate glimpse into the hosts' lives, balancing humor with heartfelt reflections. Engaging with listener questions adds an interactive layer, making the podcast relatable and entertaining for both longtime fans and newcomers alike.

Highlighted Quotes with Timestamps:

• Fortune Feimster (00:58): "Welcome to our pretty little episode. I'm your host for today, Fortune Feimster."
• Tig Notaro (01:08): "Oh, my gosh. That is. That is really dirty. Okay. That is some dirty talk."
• Fortune Feimster (02:19): "I'm staying. It's my place."
• Tig Notaro (06:24): "There is something magical about LA...you end up having these kind of magical nights here and there."
• Fortune Feimster (19:23): "I couldn't care less. Right? Because you're at the bottom. There's no room to care more."
• Tig Notaro (21:58): "What about you? Did you grow up saying tump?"

Additional Information

• Production: Recorded and edited by Thomas Wuellette.
• Contact: listeners are encouraged to email questions to us@handsomepodmail.com.
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