Podcast Summary: "Handsome" Episode #37 - "Pretty Little"
Release Date: May 2, 2025
Hosts: Tig Notaro, Fortune Feimster, Mae Martin
Produced by: Headgum
1. Introduction and Welcome
The episode kicks off with Tig Notaro, Fortune Feimster, and Mae Martin greeting their listeners and setting a lighthearted tone. They briefly touch upon their recent activities, hinting at personal anecdotes that will unfold throughout the episode.
2. Touring Highlights: Nashville and Austin
Discussion on Live Shows: The hosts delve into their recent tour experiences, sharing insights and reflections from performing live in Nashville and Austin.
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Fortune Feimster shares her excitement:
“Our live shows are just life affirming to me. It's just magical.” [03:05] -
Tig Notaro echoes the sentiment, highlighting the passion driving the podcast:
“The passion for the podcast is still a year and a half, Finn. Really mind blowing to me.” [04:14]
They discuss the unique energy of live audiences compared to audio recordings, emphasizing the spontaneity and unpredictability that make live performances special.
Engaging with Friends and Family: The conversation shifts to interactions with friends and family during the tour.
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Fortune mentions reconnecting with mutual friends:
“Jamie Babbitt listens to us. You know, do you have those moments where somebody is like, oh, yeah, you were saying that on Handsome. I'm like, you listen to this show?” [04:46] -
Tig reflects on the challenges of balancing tour life with personal connections:
“When I'm in the thick of the tour, like six months, it's so hard to find that extra energy.” [07:17]
3. Managing Tour Fatigue and Personal Well-being
The hosts candidly discuss the toll that extensive touring can take on their energy and well-being.
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Fortune Feimster shares her experience with fatigue:
“I can't get up and do anything. It gets so hard.” [07:53] -
Tig Notaro acknowledges the high energy demands:
“It's a lot of energy output on a tour and traveling.” [08:07]
They explore strategies for maintaining personal health and managing the intense schedule, highlighting the importance of self-care amidst a busy touring life.
4. Listener Interaction: Audience Questions
The core of the episode revolves around answering listener-submitted questions. This segment is structured around three main inquiries, each fostering engaging and humorous discussions among the hosts.
A. What Creatures or Things Creep You Out?
Question from Natalie and Lily:
Natalie asks:
"Something weird that creeps or grosses you out." [09:29]
Hosts' Responses:
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Tig Notaro candidly admits her aversion to spiders:
“I hate spiders so much. They gross me out.” [10:00]
She shares a humorous anecdote about encountering a large huntsman spider in Australia:
“It's the size of a bat, like, basketball. And I would die if I saw that.” [10:10] -
Fortune Feimster discusses her disdain for blood and medical emergencies:
“I get lightheaded. I get faint. I cannot do it.” [12:53]
She humorously reassures listeners:
“If there was a murder, I didn't do it. I can promise you I did not do it.” [13:09] -
Natalie and Tig add their quirky dislikes, including baby corn and bounce houses, enriching the conversation with laughter and relatable content.
B. What Are Your Top Three Favorite Nuts?
Question from Izzy: “What are your top three favorite nuts to eat?” [15:55]
Hosts' Responses:
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Tig Notaro lists her favorites:
- Cashews
- Peanuts
- Pine Nuts
She elaborates on her preference for seared pine nuts on salads:
“I like it a little seared on a salad.” [16:52]
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Fortune Feimster shares hers, influenced by the "How Not to Die" diet:
- Peanuts
- Pistachios
- Walnuts
She mentions her daily nut intake:
“One handful of mixed nuts per day.” [17:08]
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Balin from Alaska contributes her favorites:
- Almonds
- Pistachios
- Cashews
This response adds diversity to the discussion and highlights regional preferences. [18:22]
C. What’s Something Silly or Ridiculous You Bought or Received as a Gift but Now Love?
Question from Balin: “Do you have something in your life you felt kind of silly buying? Or maybe it was a gift, and you thought it was just, like, kind of ridiculous, but now you're obsessed with it?” [18:52]
Hosts' Responses:
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Fortune Feimster humorously recounts her transformation from skepticism to reliance on a fanny pack:
“A lot of people make fun of fanny packs, and now we have a handsome fanny pack. You know, I do know, but I'm not gonna wear a handsome fanny pack.” [20:14] -
Tig Notaro shares her quirky attachment to a bright yellow lamp:
“It's really bright and bold and doesn't fit any of the decorations anywhere in my house, but it sits here on my desk and I love it.” [20:32]
She also mentions her favorite sweatpants as an essential purchase:
“I would go through the airport with our sweatpants on all the time. They’re the most comfortable sweatpants I own.” [20:21] -
Balin from Maine shares his appreciation for an instant espresso machine:
“It's a top favorite now, and I use it every day.” [21:44]
The hosts laugh and bond over their initial doubts and eventual adoration of these seemingly ridiculous items, illustrating how practical utility can turn absurd purchases into beloved essentials.
5. Conclusion and Final Thoughts
As the episode wraps up, the hosts encourage listeners to submit their questions and engage with the podcast community. They playfully mention their merchandise, such as fanny packs and sweatpants, tying back to earlier discussions.
- Fortune Feimster concludes with enthusiasm:
“Head on over to our website, get you some and tell your friends. Share an episode and until next time. What do you say? Keep it pretty.” [22:43]
Note: The ending segment includes promotional content and advertisements, which are skipped in this summary per the user’s instructions.
Notable Quotes with Timestamps
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Fortune Feimster on Live Shows:
“It's just magical.” [03:31] -
Tig Notaro on Tour Passion:
“The passion for the podcast is still a year and a half, Finn. Really mind blowing to me.” [04:14] -
Fortune on Reconnecting with Listeners:
“Jamie Babbitt listens to us. You know, do you have those moments where somebody is like, oh, yeah, you were saying that on Handsome. I'm like, you listen to this show?” [04:46] -
Fortune on Tour Fatigue:
“I can't get up and do anything. It gets so hard.” [07:53] -
Tig on Favorite Nuts:
“I like it a little seared on a salad.” [16:52] -
Fortune on Fanny Packs:
“A lot of people make fun of fanny packs, and now we have a handsome fanny pack.” [20:14] -
Tig on Yellow Lamp:
“It's really bright and bold and doesn't fit any of the decorations anywhere in my house, but it sits here on my desk and I love it.” [20:32]
Final Thoughts
"Handsome" Episode #37, titled "Pretty Little," offers a vibrant blend of humor, personal anecdotes, and engaging discussions. Through shared experiences of touring, candid conversations about personal dislikes, favorite treats, and quirky possessions, Tig Notaro, Fortune Feimster, and Mae Martin create an inviting and relatable atmosphere. The inclusion of listener questions further personalizes the episode, fostering a sense of community and connection with their audience. This episode exemplifies the hosts' dynamic chemistry and their ability to turn everyday topics into entertaining and meaningful conversations.