Handsome Podcast: "Pretty Little Episode #39" Summary
Release Date: May 16, 2025
Hosts: Fortune Feimster and May Martin
Podcast: Handsome by Headgum
Introduction
In the 39th episode of Handsome, titled "Pretty Little Episode," hosts Fortune Feimster and May Martin engage in their signature blend of humor, personal anecdotes, and thoughtful discussions. Skipping over the initial advertisements, the duo dives into their morning routines, shares experiences from their local surroundings, and answers listener questions, all while maintaining their light-hearted and engaging chemistry.
Morning Routines and Coffee Adventures
Fortune Feimster kicks off the conversation by recounting her ambitious plan to start the day early with coffee and a swim:
"I woke up really early thinking, like, I'm gonna go get a coffee and then I'm gonna go tread my water." [00:20]
However, her coffee run turns into an extended adventure due to traffic and long lines at a preferred coffee spot, resulting in no time for swimming. May Martin mirrors Fortune's effort to embrace the morning by taking a coffee walk to the Silver Lake Reservoir, despite the sweltering heat:
"Today it's bacon hot." [01:29]
Exploring Silver Lake Reservoir and Canine Encounters
Their walks lead to delightful encounters with dogs, sparking a conversation about different breeds and their personalities. May shares poignant observations about two dogs she met:
"I wonder if Zuko resents Lulu for being so people-pleasing. And everyone loves Lulu." [03:06]
Fortune emphasizes the universal charm of golden retrievers:
"Golden retrievers are just full of life. It's hard not to just love all of them immediately." [04:10]
The hosts discuss popular hiking spots like Runyon Canyon and Freeman Canyon, comparing their vibes and challenges. Fortune remarks on the beauty and social aspect of hiking in Los Angeles:
"There's something about being around a bunch of dogs." [05:01]
Listener Questions: Reincarnation as Animals
The episode features listener questions that delve into personal reflections. Katie from Portland asks:
"If you could be reincarnated as any animal, what would you want to come back as and why?" [09:03]
May responds thoughtfully, contemplating the pure, loving nature of dogs, specifically golden retrievers:
"Golden retrievers... take the love they're given and they're thrilled about it." [10:14]
Fortune aligns with choosing a pampered animal, highlighting the well-cared-for life of Pomeranians:
"Pomeranians in general seem to be well taken care of. Their owners are obsessed with them." [10:33]
They discuss the joys and limitations of animal lifespans, with May adding:
"A golden retriever is what, 14 years? Is that not enough?" [11:51]
Katie's choice to be a house cat garners agreement, though Fortune humorously notes her preference for dogs:
"Biggie just saddles up to me and lays in my nook." [14:42]
Listener Questions: Nature vs. Nurture
Lori from New Jersey brings a deeply personal question:
"I was conceived to be a sperm donor... I have this amazing connection with my sister with whom I share half of the DNA from our sperm donor. What are your thoughts about nature versus nurture?" [15:37]
Fortune and May delve into the complexities of nature versus nurture, acknowledging the interplay of genetics and environment:
"I mean, I think there are many characteristics that you share because of DNA, but also how your environment shapes you." [16:01]
"It's a complex combo of the two." [18:31]
They discuss examples like personality traits, resilience, and cultural influences on aspects such as sexuality, emphasizing that both genetic and environmental factors are integral to personal development.
Personal Reflections and Anecdotes
The conversation shifts to lighter topics, including May's birthday celebration:
"It was my first big birthday. It was a real blast." [22:05]
They reminisce about fun activities like foosball and the joy of being surrounded by friends and even some unexpected guests like skunks around bedtime. May humorously contemplates attracting wildlife:
"I want to leave garbage." [22:45]
Fortune playfully discourages the idea, highlighting the balance between welcoming nature and maintaining personal space.
Conclusion and Future Directions
As the episode winds down, Fortune and May encourage listeners to submit more questions and engage with the podcast community:
"Please keep submitting your questions. We're loving these." [23:01]
They reflect on the importance of embracing new opportunities and staying open to fun experiences:
"My motto moving forward is being open and saying yes to fun new opportunities." [21:23]
The hosts wrap up with warm wishes for their audience, reiterating their appreciation and enthusiasm for future interactions.
Notable Quotes
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Fortune Feimster on dog companionship:
"Golden retrievers just full of life there. It's hard not to, like, just love all of them immediately because they also come with that good energy." [04:20] -
May Martin on the nature vs. nurture debate:
"Combo of the two and each quality is probably different. Maybe medical conditions are nature, but personality things are nurture." [17:59] -
Fortune Feimster on personal downtime:
"I'm very time oriented. That's why I know the exact amount of time I need to do everything." [07:32]
Final Thoughts
"Pretty Little Episode #39" of Handsome exemplifies the podcast's charm through its engaging dialogue, relatable stories, and meaningful discussions. Fortune Feimster and May Martin create a welcoming atmosphere that resonates with listeners, offering both laughter and introspection. Whether sharing morning routines, exploring pet behaviors, or tackling profound questions about identity and upbringing, this episode delivers a rich and enjoyable listening experience.