Podcast Summary: Handsome – Pretty Little Episode #43

Release Date: June 13, 2025

In the 43rd episode of Handsome, titled "Pretty Little Episode," hosts Tig Notaro, Fortune Feimster, and Mae Martin delve into a variety of engaging topics, blending humor with heartfelt conversations. This detailed summary captures the essence of their discussion, highlighting key points, insightful exchanges, and memorable quotes from the episode.

1. Welcome and Introductions

The episode kicks off with Fortune Feimster enthusiastically welcoming listeners to the "pretty little episode" of the Handsome podcast.

Fortune Feimster [00:43]: "Pretty little episode. Welcome to the handsome pods. Pre little episode. I'm Fortune."

Tig Notaro [00:50]: "You sure are. And you know what? I'm Tig Notaro."

The camaraderie between the hosts is immediately evident, setting a warm and inviting tone for the episode.

2. Fortune's First NASCAR Race

Fortune shares her recent adventure attending her first NASCAR race in North Carolina, describing the experience and the vibrant atmosphere.

Fortune Feimster [01:04]: "I'm chilling here, and I just got back from visiting North Carolina. I went to my first NASCAR race."

She explains how a chance encounter with Bert Kreischer's wife led her to seize the opportunity, emphasizing her love for people-watching and the festive environment surrounding the event.

Fortune Feimster [01:49]: "I love people watching. That was pretty exciting. It's like a big festival kind of outside before it starts."

Despite enjoying the initial experience, Fortune admits that the length of the race—400 laps—was a bit much for her, although she appreciated the behind-the-scenes access and interaction with drivers.

Fortune Feimster [02:10]: "I don't. I'm not invested enough to stay the whole time, but I got to go down on the track. And that was pretty cool for having never gone."

The hosts discuss the concurrent airing of the Indy 500, with Tig expressing her unfamiliarity with the event.

Tig Notaro [03:15]: "Like, I have never seen the Indy 500 on my TV as an adult or a child."

Fortune highlights the intense nature of the races, mentioning the need for ear protection due to the high-speed cars.

Fortune Feimster [03:58]: "Zoom in around. You cannot watch it without earplugs. I mean, I guess you could, but you shouldn't."

3. The Mustache Conversation

The conversation takes a humorous turn as the hosts engage in a lighthearted debate about mustache styles, blending comedy with genuine curiosity.

Fortune Feimster [08:17]: "I don't know what that's called, but..."

Tig Notaro [09:07]: "What is your kind of mustache called?"

They explore various mustache types, from handlebar to imperial, providing educational tidbits amidst the laughter.

Tig Notaro [10:02]: "Those are both handlebar mustache styles. The curly one is called an imperial mustache. And it seems like this one that goes down might be called a walrus."

The playful banter continues as they discuss potential wrestler names inspired by mustaches, showcasing their creative and comedic chemistry.

4. Listener Question: Wrestling Names

The hosts respond to a listener's question from Casey in North Carolina, who inquires about what their wrestler names would be if they were wrestlers.

Casey [10:39]: "If you were a wrestler, what would your wrestler name be?"

Fortune Feimster reflects on her past role in the TV show Life in Pieces, where her character was a former wrestler named "Tackle Box."

Fortune Feimster [10:57]: "My character's wrestling name was Tackle Box, which is actually a pretty great wrestling day."

Tig Notaro shares a personal anecdote about her childhood nickname, envisioning her wrestler persona as "Tough Tig."

Tig Notaro [11:35]: "I think mine would be what my brother used to call me as a Kid or actually, my mother called me this. Tough Tig."

The trio playfully debates their hypothetical wrestling personas, infusing the segment with humor and personal stories.

5. Listener Question: Compliments Received

Another listener, Abby from New Hampshire, poses a question about the compliments the hosts receive.

Abby [16:26]: "What's a compliment that you receive?"

Fortune Feimster and Tig Notaro engage in a thoughtful discussion about the nature of compliments, sincerity, and personal perception.

Tig Notaro [17:04]: "I get called nice at a friend's house a few nights ago, and I was like, is that true? Am I nice?"

They explore the complexities of receiving compliments, especially those related to appearance versus personal qualities.

Fortune Feimster [19:26]: "I like to take it to be sincere and I just go, thank you."

The conversation delves into the nuances of compliments, highlighting how genuine acknowledgment can differ from superficial praise.

6. Conclusion and Final Thoughts

As the episode winds down, the hosts reflect on their discussions, reinforcing the importance of self-awareness and genuine connections.

Fortune Feimster [22:29]: "I think, too, like, you don't really know how you'd be in a situation, you know, if in a real mess."

Tig Notaro emphasizes the value of taking care of oneself to cherish life's moments.

Tig Notaro [06:50]: "I just wanna see Max and Finn grow up. Absolutely. That's really what I want in life."

The episode concludes with each host promoting their upcoming events and encouraging listeners to stay connected.

Notable Quotes

• Fortune Feimster [07:25]: "You have to solve this crime's goofy voice."

• Tig Notaro [17:57]: "I'm not, like, bubbly, like, sugary."

• Fortune Feimster [19:45]: "I'm sure I have, like, every woman in the world."

• Tig Notaro [21:15]: "How are you? Are you unflapped? You feel unflappable?"

Final Thoughts

"Pretty Little Episode #43" of Handsome successfully blends humor, personal anecdotes, and meaningful conversations, showcasing the dynamic chemistry between Tig Notaro, Fortune Feimster, and Mae Martin. From NASCAR races and mustache debates to wrestling personas and the intricacies of receiving compliments, the hosts offer listeners an engaging and relatable experience. This episode exemplifies the podcast's commitment to covering diverse subjects with authenticity and laughter, making it a must-listen for both regular fans and newcomers.