Podcast Summary: Handsome – Episode #44: Pretty Little

Release Date: June 20, 2025
Host: Headgum
Co-Hosts: Tig Notaro, Fortune Feimster, May Martin
Episode Title: Pretty Little Episode #44

Introduction

In Episode #44 of the Handsome podcast titled "Pretty Little", co-hosts Tig Notaro, Fortune Feimster, and May Martin delve into engaging conversations fueled by listener questions. The episode is a blend of humor, personal anecdotes, and heartfelt stories, showcasing the chemistry among the hosts as they navigate various topics with their signature wit and charm.

Listener Question 1: Bachelor/Bachelorette Party Experiences

Timestamp: [09:47] – [19:08]

The first listener, Megan from Sherman Oaks, posed the question: "Have you ever planned a bachelor or bachelorette party? If so, what did you plan? If not, what was the most memorable party you've been to?"

Tig Notaro's Story

Tig shares a memorable bachelorette party experience involving actress Lake Bell in Palm Springs. Tig recounts the chaotic yet hilarious events aboard a party bus filled with famous actresses, complete with stripper poles and an unexpected breakdown that led to the bus filling with smoke from exhaust fumes.

Tig Notaro (10:17): "We were flying down the road… everyone was dancing around stripper poles, and then the party bus breaks down because of the black smoke."

The situation escalates as the group, adorned with humorous "penis hats" and using penis-shaped straws, finds themselves stranded by the roadside. Tig lightheartedly laments that her sons, Max and Finn, witnessed her recounting this story for the first time at a vegan benefit, leading to a playful family dynamic.

Tig Notaro (12:37): "Max has no filter. He has embarrassment. He's just like, yeah, right."

May Martin's Experience

May reminisces about a bachelor party featuring her friend Camille, which took an unexpected turn when they played an X-rated game in the presence of Camille's unsuspecting mother. The game led to awkward and humorous revelations about Camille's past escapades, highlighting the fine line between fun and discomfort in such gatherings.

May Martin (15:12): "We just forgot that it was so X-rated. And her mom didn't know any of these things about her daughter."

Megan's Unique Party Idea

Megan shares her innovative approach to planning her best friend Britney's bachelorette party. She orchestrated a beekeeping experience, where the group donned bee suits and harvested honey, followed by a night out at a gay bar and Jumbo's Clown Room. This unconventional choice provided both educational and entertaining facets to the celebration.

Megan (16:03): "We did a beekeeping experience where we put on bee suits and harvested honey… but bees were the highlight."

Listener Question 2: Items You Can't Throw Away

Timestamp: [19:32] – [24:36]

The second listener, Carrie, asked: "What's the one thing, or few things maybe, that you have moved with you all of your adult life from place to place? It could be total crap. It's not an heirloom, just something that you have moved with you that you can't seem to throw away."

May Martin's Treasures

May discusses her collection of trinkets and antique items, including a magical small brass box and a Victorian feng shui compass adorned with I Ching symbols. These items hold sentimental and mystical value for her, representing memories and a connection to the past.

May Martin (20:39): "It's a Victorian feng shui compass. I don't know how to use it, but it's got the I Ching symbols… they have a sort of power to them."

Tig Notaro's Rock Magazine Collection

Tig reveals his passion for collecting rock magazines like Rolling Stone and Spin Cream Magazine. Unfortunately, his collection suffered damage when his garage flooded, leading to mold formation. Tig reflects on the nostalgic value of these magazines, particularly iconic covers that have stood the test of time.

Tig Notaro (22:27): "I have collected rock magazines over the years… but our garage flooded and those got wet and molded."

Personal Anecdotes and Interactions

Beyond the listener questions, the episode is peppered with humorous interactions and personal stories that highlight the hosts' personalities and camaraderie. Notably, Tig shares a touching moment about receiving a life-saving offer from actress Cameron Diaz, who provided Tig with a vacation home by the ocean during a challenging period in 2012. This gesture underscores the supportive network within their community.

Tig Notaro (17:35): "Cameron Diaz… she said, I have a house right on the ocean… I would love it if you would go stay there and have your vacation right on the water. I did."

Additionally, the hosts engage in playful banter about names, parenting challenges, and the intricacies of balancing multiple performances, such as May preparing for both music and stand-up shows in a single evening.

Conclusion

Episode #44 of the Handsome podcast is a testament to the engaging dynamics between Tig Notaro, Fortune Feimster, and May Martin. Through sharing personal experiences and responding to listener inquiries, the hosts offer a blend of humor, sincerity, and relatability. Whether recounting wild party stories or discussing cherished possessions, the episode provides listeners with both laughs and heartfelt moments, encapsulating the essence of what makes Handsome a beloved podcast in the Headgum network.

Notable Quotes

• Tig Notaro (10:17): "We were flying down the road… everyone was dancing around stripper poles, and then the party bus breaks down because of the black smoke."

• May Martin (15:12): "We just forgot that it was so X-rated. And her mom didn't know any of these things about her daughter."

• Megan (16:03): "We did a beekeeping experience where we put on bee suits and harvested honey… but bees were the highlight."

• Tig Notaro (22:27): "I have collected rock magazines over the years… but our garage flooded and those got wet and molded."

• Tig Notaro (17:35): "Cameron Diaz… she said, I have a house right on the ocean… I would love it if you would go stay there and have your vacation right on the water. I did."

Stay Connected

For more insights and to join the Handsome community, listeners are encouraged to visit the hosts' websites and social media channels:

• May Martin: maymartinmusic.com | Instagram: @maymartinmusic
• Tig Notaro: tignotaro.com | Instagram: @tignotaro
• Handsome Podcast: speakpipe.com/handsomepodcast

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