Podcast Summary: Handsome – Episode Featuring Rob Delaney on Eating Food
Release Date: April 29, 2025
Introduction
In this engaging episode of Handsome, hosted by comedians Tig Notaro, Fortune Feimster, and May Martin, the trio delves into the multifaceted topic of food consumption, spurred by a question from comedian Rob Delaney. The hosts share personal anecdotes, discuss their recent live shows, and explore their favorite and most frequently consumed foods, all while maintaining their signature humor and camaraderie.
Recap of Recent Live Shows: Nashville and Austin
Nashville Highlights
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Audience Interaction & Special Guests: The hosts recount their electrifying live shows in Nashville, which drew over 2,400 fans. May Martin shares her experience at the Lipstick Lounge, one of the remaining lesbian bars in the country, where she connected with someone special (03:10). They also performed with country music icons Brad Paisley and Kimberly Williams Paisley, who surprised them with improvised songs tailored to each host (07:05).
Notable Quote:
May Martin (07:00):
"There was something really nice about, like, with everything going on in the world and in the south... to have a country music star come out and be such an ally effortlessly. It felt really nice." -
Fan Gifts: An enthusiastic fan gifted each host a pair of cowboy boots, sparking plans to incorporate them into future shows (07:35).
Austin Highlights
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Performances with Charlie Sexton: In Austin, the hosts performed with legendary Texas rock star Charlie Sexton, known for his collaborations with Bob Dylan and Elvis Costello. A memorable moment was a tap dancing lesson arranged by Tig Notaro on stage, leading to humorous attempts by May Martin and Fortune Feimster to master the steps (08:34).
Notable Quote:
May Martin (09:26):
"I kept trying to catch her eye, the teacher, and be like, I'm listening, even if the other two aren't." -
Technical Glitches & Show Dynamics: The Austin show experienced technical challenges, leading to improvisations by the hosts to keep the performance lively and spontaneous (12:55).
Overall Experience
Both shows were lauded for their vibrant energy, engaging interactions with the audience, and the seamless blend of humor and heartfelt moments. The hosts expressed eagerness to embark on future tours, particularly in smaller markets that show immense appreciation for their presence (21:54).
Behind-the-Scenes Anecdotes
Hosting the Podcast Awards
Tig Notaro shares a bizarre encounter while hosting the Podcast Awards, where an unidentified individual intruded into her green room with the intent to dispose of her contracted spread of food. The situation led to confusion and Tig's assertive response to protect her space and belongings (22:40).
Notable Quote:
Tig Notaro (24:03):
"It was so crazy. And I called my assistant, and I was like, hey, some guy. I told her the whole story. And I said, I don't trust that he's not gonna just walk into the green room and throw my food out or go through my thing."
Pet Stories
May Martin introduces her foster puppies, Burton and Ernie, sharing humorous and adorable moments about their early days and the challenges of caring for them (27:56).
Notable Quote:
May Martin (28:33):
"They sleep so much like babies and they just want to be loved and then they'll suddenly have a burst of energy and I'm in love with them."
Environmental Segment: An Hour for Earth
The hosts discuss the importance of environmental conservation during Earth Month, encouraging listeners to participate in WWF's "Hour for Earth" initiative. They share personal commitments to reducing food waste and highlight various activities that contribute positively to the environment.
Notable Quote:
May Martin (35:30):
"Go to worldwildlife.org/earth-hour to browse a list of activities, choose your action and spend an hour giving back to nature."
Main Discussion: Favorite and Most Consumed Foods
Rob Delaney's Question:
Rob Delaney asks the hosts: "What food have you eaten more than anybody else in the world? Is there a snack? Maybe a comfort snack? Something from childhood? Something you ate all the time out of desire, out of poverty, whatever it may be?" (37:25)
Host Responses:
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Tig Notaro:
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Broke Food: White rice paired with a can of soup was Tig's staple during financially tight times. She extends this comfort by incorporating broccoli sprouts into her diet for their health benefits, often blending them into smoothies (43:24).
Notable Quote:
Tig Notaro (43:24):
"My go-to was white rice and a can of soup... I've definitely put in my time with rice shoved into a bowl of soup."
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May Martin:
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Rehab Diet: During her time in rehab in Toronto, May relied heavily on instant noodles and oatmeal packets, often stealing extra cereal from her roommate's supplies. She fondly reminisces about the cinnamon sugar flavor in her oatmeal (45:06).
Notable Quote:
May Martin (45:07):
"The taste of that cinnamon sugar in the oatmeal packet... I have. So I would pay my rent with it and then there'd be barely any leftover and I'd either buy weed or it would go quick."
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Fortune Feimster:
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Peanut Butter & Jelly Sandwiches: Fortune shares her enduring love for peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, considering them her ultimate "broke food." She appreciates their simplicity and the comfort they provide after long, exhausting days (50:06).
Notable Quote:
Fortune Feimster (50:18):
"Peanut butter and jelly sandwich. That was my big broke food... they're so good. They're just simple and like."
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Rob Delaney:
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Honey Nut Cheerios: Rob reveals that Honey Nut Cheerios are the food he's consumed more than any other, tying it back to his childhood and adulthood. He humorously notes his current restrictive diet, relying solely on broccoli and lean chicken (54:52).
Notable Quote:
Rob Delaney (54:52):
"For me, that's Honey Nut Cheerios. I ate many warehouses Honey Nut Cheerios throughout my childhood and well into adulthood."
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Group Agreement on Comfort Foods:
The hosts find common ground in their love for simple, comforting foods, particularly peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, highlighting a unanimous appreciation for their ease and nostalgic value (50:11).
Notable Quote:
Tig Notaro (50:11):
"So we gotta. ... we all passionately agreed and got on the same page."
Merchandising and Fan Interaction
The discussion shifts to the hosts' merchandise offerings and fan interactions. They highlight various products like Biggie-themed merch, exclusive t-shirts, and hats, emphasizing the strong connection and appreciation they have for their fanbase (13:34; 51:03).
Notable Quote:
Tig Notaro (13:34):
"I was about to board my flight and this woman came running up and she was all winded. I don't know how long she'd been chasing me because I'm not a fast walker, but she was like, tig, Tig, here, I wanted to give this to you."
Upcoming Projects and Tours
Tig Notaro:
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Announces that Apple has acquired her documentary "Come See Me in the Good Light," which follows poets Andrea Gibson and Meg Fowley. The film will be available in the fall.
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Lists upcoming live shows in Eureka Springs, Arkansas, and Provincetown, Massachusetts, including a benefit with Emily Saliers from the Indigo Girls (34:53).
Notable Quote:
Tig Notaro (55:35):
"I'm going to be in Eureka Spring, Eureka springs, Arkansas on June 14th... And then go to maymartinmusic.com and you can."
May Martin:
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Promotes her music album "I'm a TV" and encourages listeners to support her by purchasing vinyls or streaming the album.
Notable Quote:
May Martin (35:42):
"Get our merchandise@handsomepod.com we got some great stuff there."
Fortune Feimster:
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Shares details about her ongoing comedy tour, visiting cities like Greensboro, North Carolina, and Asheville, North Carolina, among others.
Notable Quote:
Fortune Feimster (58:57):
"Well, I am on this tour and hitting a lot of cities that... We're just going to announce new ones."
Closing Remarks
The hosts wrap up the episode by encouraging listeners to share their favorite episodes, purchase merchandise, and suggest cities for future shows. They reinforce the sense of community within their fanbase and express gratitude for the continued support.
Notable Quote:
Tig Notaro (61:37):
"For your next trip, treat yourself to the luxe upgrades you deserve from quince. Go to quince.com Handsome for 365 day returns plus free shipping on your order."
Key Takeaways
- Personal Connections: The hosts emphasize the importance of community and personal connections, both with their fans and among themselves.
- Shared Experiences: Their shared experiences from recent live shows highlight the unique dynamics and chemistry that make their podcast engaging.
- Comfort Foods: Each host’s favorite comfort food reflects their personal journeys and offers listeners a glimpse into their lives beyond the microphone.
- Upcoming Ventures: The episode showcases the hosts' diverse talents and upcoming projects, from documentaries to music albums and extensive comedy tours.
- Humor and Heart: Throughout the discussion, the blend of humor with heartfelt stories exemplifies the essence of the Handsome podcast.
This summary captures the essence of the Handsome podcast episode featuring Rob Delaney’s question about frequently consumed foods. It highlights the hosts' anecdotes, personal stories, and the engaging rapport that defines their conversations.