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Happier with Gretchen Rubin
A Little Happier: Who Has More Power—You or the Banker to Whom You Owe Ten Million Dollars?
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Lemonade.
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I'm Gretchen Rubin, and this is a little happier. I love paradoxes, Cohen's fables, and teaching stories of all kinds. Often a joke can be a very effective teaching story. Here's a joke that's also a teaching story. Or actually, it's not really a joke. It's just a surprising and true statement. It is a line often attributed to legendary economist John Maynard Keynes or to investor J. Paul Getty, and typically it goes something like if you owe your bank $10,000, you have a problem, but if you owe the bank $10 million, the bank has a problem. The general concept behind this maxim is that small debts give power to the lender, who can use legal action against the borrower. However, extremely large debts put the lender at risk because the borrower's potential failure could cause significant financial harm to the lender. This kind of flip happens in everyday life, too. For instance, if you make a small but critical mistake in a work report, you'll be held at fault and maybe lose your job. But if instead you're responsible for a catastrophic company wide system failure. Now, now management has a big problem on its hands and your job may be more secure than ever because the company needs to understand exactly what went wrong. Or say you're working with a contractor on a big kitchen renovation. If you disagree about a small charge early on, you could refuse to pay or replace the contractor easily. But if the contractor has torn out your kitchen, charged you deposits for a bunch of materials, and begun the work, now our power shifts to the contractor because it would be so costly in money, time and energy for you to try to replace that contractor with someone new. It's an observation that's worth keeping in mind whether you're the borrower or the lender. Small debts burden the borrower. Big debts burden the lender. I'm Gretchen Rubin and I hope this makes your week a little happier. From the Onward Project.
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Hi Gretchen, Craig Robinson and my little sister Michelle here. We host a new podcast called IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson. We know you're the queen of giving advice, so we wanted to get a few tips from you. You know Gretchen, a lot of our listeners are going through some major life changes. What advice do you have for folks who are trying to stay grounded in the midst of major life transitions?
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Craig and Michelle, I am so happy to be talking to you. Here are a few questions that might help us gain perspective. So consider questions like this what activities take up my time but are not particularly useful or stimulating for me? Do I spend a lot of time on something that's important to someone else but is not very important to me? If I could magically change one habit in my life, what would I choose? And here's a question. Would I like to have more time in solitude, restorative solitude, or would I like to have more time with friends? You know, just thinking about questions like this can help us start to figure out how we might make our lives happier. With greater self knowledge, we're better able to make hard decisions that reflect ourselves, our own nature, our own interests, our own values. In my own case, I have found that the more my life reflects my nature, the happier I get and the more grounded I feel when I'm going through a period of major change or transition. For more great advice, search for IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson. Wherever your get podcast, you can listen to Issa Rae on letting go of certain friendships Keke Palmer on why Disappointment is actually the key to career success Seth and Lauren Rogan on caring for aging parents and so many more.