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Have you ever heard a phrase so many times that you just assumed it was in the Bible? 🙋♀️ SAME. In today’s episode, Kaleb and I are breaking down some of the most common sayings Christians repeat that either aren’t actually in Scripture or are often taken wayyy out of context. We’re talking about everything from “God won’t give you more than you can handle” and “everything happens for a reason” to soulmates, money, Halloween, taking God’s name in vain, and more. We are definitely NOT claiming to be biblical scholars, and we’re totally open to being corrected, but our heart behind this conversation is to encourage all of us to actually know what the Word of God says instead of building our theology around something we heard on Instagram, from a friend, or even growing up in church. And as always, if we missed something or you disagree with one of our takes, let us know! We’re learning right alongside you guys. ‼️Check out my collab with Ponyflo‼️ Visit https: ponyflohats.com and use code JEANINE for 15% off!! In This Episode 01:01 Things Christians Say That Aren’t in the Bible 02:00 “God Won’t Give You More Than You Can Handle” 05:03 “Everything Happens for a Reason” 10:38 “God Helps Those Who Help Themselves” 11:24 “Happy Wife, Happy Life” 12:52 “Heaven Gained Another Angel” 14:41 Is Halloween Satanic? 18:00 Is Being Wealthy a Sin? 19:49 What Does Taking God’s Name in Vain Mean? 23:00 Does God Pick Your Soulmate? 25:50 Jesus Hung Out With Sinners 27:07 “Your Body Is a Temple” 28:06 “Ask and You Shall Receive” & Manifestation 29:00 Final Thoughts + Life Updates Thanks to Our Sponsors BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit Betterhelp.com/HappyHealthy to get 10% off your first month. Grand Canyon University: Visit GCU.edu to learn more. Osea: Visit oseamalibu.com and use code HEALTHY for 10% off your first order. Wayfair: Every style. Every Place. Wayfair.com If you’d like to partner with Jeanine as a sponsor for the Happy & Healthy podcast, fill out our Advertise With Us form! Follow us on Instagram! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Jeanine and Kaleb Follow us on TikTok! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You guys asked some tough questions and...we answered. We talk about criticism we've received online that actually helped us grow, our thoughts on nicotine pouches (Zyn), and why we believe anything that controls us deserves an honest look. We also share vulnerable moments from our marriage, including decisions we regret, lessons we've learned, and how God has faithfully met us through every season. We dive into navigating family boundaries after marriage, handling conflict with grace instead of pride, and why protecting your marriage while still honoring your family is so important. We also have an honest conversation about how having a baby changes marriage, intimacy, and priorities—and the practical ways we've tried to keep our relationship healthy while raising Duke. Our hope is that this episode encourages you to pursue humility, healthy communication, and to remember that God can bring healing, growth, and joy even through uncomfortable conversations. ‼️Check out my collab with Ponyflo‼️ Visit https: ponyflohats.com and use code JEANINE for 15% off!! In This Episode 04:03 Answering Your Toughest Questions 04:52 Online Criticism That Was Actually True 06:32 Is Zyn a Red Flag in Dating? 15:36 Living in Your Spouse's Shadow 19:18 Our Biggest Marriage Regrets 25:24 Setting Boundaries with In-Laws 36:44 Marriage After Having a Baby 40:00 How to Keep Your Marriage Strong After Kids Thanks to Our Sponsors BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit Betterhelp.com/HappyHealthy to get 10% off your first month. Grand Canyon University: Visit GCU.edu to learn more. Absorption Company: Visit absorbmore.com and use code HEALTHY for 30% off your first order. Osea: Visit oseamalibu.com and use code HEALTHY for 10% off your first order. Wayfair: Every style. Every Place. Wayfair.com If you’d like to partner with Jeanine as a sponsor for the Happy & Healthy podcast, fill out our Advertise With Us form! Follow us on Instagram! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Jeanine and Kaleb Follow us on TikTok! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What does it actually mean to be faithful to God—especially when you’re waiting, discouraged, or life isn’t going according to plan? In this episode of our Fruit of the Spirit series, we’re talking about faithfulness and what the Bible teaches about trusting God in every season. We’ll unpack God’s faithfulness, how to stay consistent in your Christian faith when your feelings change, and why being faithful in the small things matters more than we realize. If you’ve been struggling to trust God, waiting for an answered prayer, or wanting to grow deeper in your relationship with Jesus, this episode will encourage you to keep showing up, keep obeying, and remember that God is faithful—even when you can’t see what He’s doing yet. Scriptures: Galatians 5:22–23, Lamentations 3:22–23, 2 Timothy 2:13, Romans 4:20–21, Daniel 6:10, Luke 16:10, Matthew 25:21, Galatians 6:9 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Some weeks, we have so much to say... and other weeks, we honestly don't know where to start. 🤍 This episode is one of those conversations where we just hit record and got real. We open up about feeling stuck, uninspired, and honestly just a little "off." Between law school starting back up, parenting, work, comparison, and the pressure to always be "on," we wanted to share what we're actually walking through instead of pretending everything is perfect. We talk about why chasing constant highs leaves us empty, how social media can distort reality, and the importance of checking in with ourselves mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. We also share some of the small habits we're trying to build—putting our phones away before bed, reading more, spending intentional time with God, prioritizing community, and remembering that faithfulness often looks a lot more ordinary than exciting. If you've been feeling numb, discouraged, or like you're just going through the motions lately, we hope this episode reminds you that you're not alone. Sometimes the next right step isn't a huge life change—it's simply choosing faithfulness in the small things and trusting God in every season. ‼️Check out my collab with Ponyflo‼️ Visit https: ponyflohats.com and use code JEANINE for 15% off!! In This Episode 2:55 – Why We've Been Feeling So Stuck 6:00 – The Pressure Behind Social Media & Content Creation 8:30 – Chasing Highs vs. Learning to Be Content 12:20 – Auditing Your Mental, Physical, Emotional & Spiritual Health 17:30 – Breaking Bad Habits & Building Better Routines 22:00 – Small Changes That Actually Make a Difference 27:00 – Loneliness, Community & Emotional Health 31:00 – Comparison, Contentment & Social Media 38:25 – Our Spiritual Reset & Final Encouragement Thanks to Our Sponsors Wayfair: Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less. Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. Grand Canyon University: Visit GCU.edu to learn more. Christian Healthcare Ministries: Visit chministries.org to learn more. If you’d like to partner with Jeanine as a sponsor for the Happy & Healthy podcast, fill out our Advertise With Us form! Follow us on Instagram! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Jeanine and Kaleb Follow us on TikTok! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to our Fruit of the Spirit series! 🌿 Today we're talking about goodness—one of the most misunderstood qualities in the Christian life. Our culture often tells us that being a "good person" means being nice, avoiding major mistakes, or simply being better than those around us. But the Bible paints a much deeper picture. In this episode, we explore what it truly means that God is good, why He alone is the standard of goodness, and how the Holy Spirit produces genuine goodness in the lives of believers. We'll look at how goodness is more than moral behavior—it's holiness in action, flowing from a transformed heart that desires to reflect Christ and bless others. We'll also unpack the difference between being nice and being good, why goodness sometimes requires speaking difficult truth in love, and how spending time with Jesus transforms our hearts to look more like His. If you've ever wondered what biblical goodness really looks like—or if you've struggled to reconcile God's goodness with the brokenness of our world—this episode is for you. Why only God is truly good (Luke 18:19) What God's goodness tells us about His character Why God's plans are always good—even in suffering The goodness of God throughout creation and Scripture Why evil exists if God is good What the Fruit of the Spirit means by "goodness" The Greek word agathosune and why it matters The difference between being nice and being good Practical ways to grow in goodness through the Holy Spirit A challenge to reflect God's goodness in everyday life Buy my book Becoming Happy and Healthy <3 If you’d like to partner with Jeanine as a sponsor for the Happy & Healthy podcast, fill out our Advertise With Us form! Follow us on Instagram! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Jeanine and Kaleb Follow us on TikTok! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Relationships are struggling more than ever, and I honestly believe a lot of what culture tells us about love and marriage is leading us in the wrong direction. In this episode, I'm sharing some of the biggest reasons I think relationships fail today—from comparing ourselves to social media, to expecting marriage to fulfill us, to letting outside voices influence our relationships more than God's Word. I also talk about what the Bible says about marriage, why prayer and community matter so much, how comparison steals joy, and practical ways to build a marriage that actually lasts. Whether you're single, dating, engaged, or married, my hope is that this conversation encourages you to pursue God's design for relationships over the world's. ‼️Check out my collab with Ponyflo! Visit https://www.ponyflohats.com/jeaninexponyflo and use code JEANINE for 15% off your purchase.‼️ In this Episode 03:00 God's Original Design for Relationships05:00 Why Comparing Your Marriage Is Dangerous13:30 Why Modern Relationships Don't Last18:30 Marriage Won't Complete You24:00 Fighting for Your Marriage Instead of Each Other27:00 The Importance of Godly Community & Wise Counsel36:00 Why Your Spouse Must Come Before Your Kids41:00 The Power of Praying Together as a Couple46:00 Final Marriage Advice & Encouragement Thanks to Our Sponsors Wayfair: Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less. Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. Casper: Visit casper.com to save 20% off the mattress you deserve. Grand Canyon University: Visit GCU.edu to learn more. Christian Healthcare Ministries: Visit chministries.org to learn more. Shopify: Start your business today with the industry’s best business partner, Shopify. The Wonder Project: Subscriber support makes more great content like I Gotta Ask with Annie F. Downs possible. The Wonder Project subscription on Prime Video is available in the U.S. for $8.99/month or $89.99/year after a 7-day free trial.Visit tinyurl.com/HAHIGottaAsk to learn more! If you’d like to partner with Jeanine as a sponsor for the Happy & Healthy podcast, fill out our Advertise With Us form! Follow us on Instagram! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Jeanine and Kaleb Follow us on TikTok! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kindness is more than being nice—and it’s definitely not weakness. In this episode of our Fruit of the Spirit series, we’re diving into what biblical kindness really looks like and how the kindness of God should transform the way we treat the people around us. We talk about the difference between kindness and people-pleasing, why kindness sometimes requires telling the truth, how to respond when people are difficult to love, and why the people closest to us should experience our kindness too. We also unpack how Jesus modeled kindness without compromising truth or boundaries—and how small, intentional acts of kindness can have a much bigger impact than we realize. If you want to become more like Jesus in the way you speak, respond, love, and serve others, this episode is for you. In this episode, we talk about: What biblical kindness actually means Why God’s kindness is the foundation for our kindness The difference between being kind and being “nice” Showing kindness when it’s inconvenient or undeserved How our words and tone can reflect Jesus Why kindness doesn’t mean having no boundaries Being kind without expecting anything in return Practical ways to intentionally choose kindness every day Key Scriptures: Galatians 5:22–23, Romans 2:4, Ephesians 4:32, Colossians 3:12, Luke 6:35, Proverbs 31:26 PREORDER MY NEW DEVOTIONAL - The Abiding Way, Out 10.27.26!! Buy my book Becoming Happy and Healthy <3 If you’d like to partner with Jeanine as a sponsor for the Happy & Healthy podcast, fill out our Advertise With Us form! Follow us on Instagram! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Follow us on TikTok! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Kaleb and I are diving into turbulent waters and talking parenting. 😅 We're sharing our current thoughts (emphasis on current!) about homeschooling vs. public school, gentle parenting, discipline, spanking, and all the things we've been learning now that we're parents ourselves. We definitely don't have all the answers, and we're the first to admit that these opinions could change as Duke grows. Our hope isn't to convince anyone that our way is the only way, but to have an honest conversation about what we're wrestling through, what we've learned from our own childhoods, and why we believe parenting starts with grace, communication, and pointing our kids to Jesus. We also chat about my new Ponyflo hat collection (finally!!), screen time, and why parenting has made us apologize to every parent we ever judged. 😂 ‼️Check out my colab with Ponyflo! Visit https://www.ponyflohats.com/jeaninexponyflo and use code JEANINE for 15% off your purchase.‼️ In This Episode 01:15 – Jeanine's Ponyflo Hat Collection Launch 03:40 – Why We're Sharing Our Parenting Hot Takes 06:50 – Homeschool vs. Public School: Our Honest Opinions 22:40 – Gentle Parenting: Does It Actually Work? 31:20 – Would We Spank Our Kids? (A Difficult Conversation) 44:20 – BetterHelp & GCU Sponsor Break 46:35 – iPads, Screen Time & Parenting in Today's World 52:30 – Learning to Parent with Grace (Final Thoughts) 57:30 – Wrapping Up + What We've Learned So Far Thanks to Our Sponsors Betterhelp: This episode is sponsored by Betterhelp. Visit betterhelp.com/HappyHealthy for 10% off your first month. Ritual: Visit Ritual.com/healthy to get 25% off your order. Wayfair: Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less. Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. Grand Canyon University: Visit GCU.edu to learn more. Christian Healthcare Ministries: Visit chministries.org to learn more. Shopify: Start your business today with the industry’s best business partner, Shopify. The Wonder Project: Subscriber support makes more great content like I Gotta Ask with Annie F. Downs possible. The Wonder Project subscription on Prime Video is available in the U.S. for $8.99/month or $89.99/year after a 7-day free trial.Visit tinyurl.com/HAHIGottaAsk to learn more! If you’d like to partner with Jeanine as a sponsor for the Happy & Healthy podcast, fill out our Advertise With Us form! Follow us on Instagram! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Jeanine and Kaleb Follow us on TikTok! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever wondered what God thinks about Botox, fillers, or cosmetic procedures? In today's episode, I'm sharing my personal journey with chin filler, why I ultimately decided to dissolve it, and how God used that experience to challenge my heart. We'll talk through the pros, the cons, and what Scripture says about beauty, identity, comparison, and contentment. This isn't an episode meant to shame anyone. Instead, my hope is that we learn how to bring every decision—even cosmetic ones—before the Lord and ask the deeper questions about our motives and where we're finding our worth. Whether you've had Botox, are considering cosmetic procedures, or simply wrestle with comparison and beauty standards, I hope this conversation encourages you to root your identity in Christ above all else. In This Episode 02:00 My audience's opinions on Botox & fillers04:00 Why I got chin filler09:00 Dissolving my filler11:00 My experience with Botox15:00 What Scripture says17:30 The "gray area"22:00 Confidence vs. vanity27:00 The dangers of cosmetic procedures30:00 Identity in Christ35:00 Beauty that lasts38:00 Culture vs. God's standards42:00 Judgment, conviction & grace47:00 Questions to ask yourself50:00 Final thoughts Scriptures Mentioned• Romans 12:2• 1 Corinthians 6:12• 1 Samuel 16:7• 1 Peter 3:3–4• Philippians 4:11–13• Matthew 6:21• Matthew 7:1–5• John 7:24• Romans 14• Luke 3:22 Thanks to Our Sponsors Betterhelp: This episode is sponsored by Betterhelp. Visit betterhelp.com/HappyHealthy for 10% off your first month. Wayfair: Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less. Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. Grand Canyon University: Visit GCU.edu to learn more. Casper: Get 30% off your next mattress at Casper.com The Absorption Company: Visit absorbmore.com and use code HEALTHY for 30% off your first order. Christian Healthcare Ministries: Visit chministries.org to learn more. Shopify: Start your business today with the industry’s best business partner, Shopify. The Wonder Project: Subscriber support makes more great content like I Gotta Ask with Annie F. Downs possible. The Wonder Project subscription on Prime Video is available in the U.S. for $8.99/month or $89.99/year after a 7-day free trial.Visit tinyurl.com/HAHIGottaAsk to learn more! If you’d like to partner with Jeanine as a sponsor for the Happy & Healthy podcast, fill out our Advertise With Us form! Follow us on Instagram! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Jeanine and Kaleb Follow us on TikTok! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's episode is basically us sitting down and shooting the sheesh 😂 We’re talking all about the FIFA World Cup, why it unexpectedly gave us so much hope, and how meeting people from all over the world reminded us that we probably have way more in common than we think. We also dive into our recent Toy Story marathon (yes... Kaleb might officially be becoming a Disney adult 😂), why movies don't feel the same anymore, and this strange feeling that our generation is constantly chasing nostalgia. From malls and movie theaters to VHS tapes and Saturday morning cartoons—we're unpacking why those memories still hit so deeply. We also share our thoughts on today's media, reality TV, Love Island, social media, and how what we consume really does shape our hearts, minds, and relationships. As Christians, we want to be intentional about protecting our peace, raising our future kids well, and remembering that even when we disagree with people, we're still called to love our neighbors. Whether you're here for World Cup stories, Toy Story nostalgia, or just a fun conversation about culture and faith, we're so glad you're hanging out with us today. 🤍 PRE-ORDER MY BOOK ABIDING WAY NOW! Comes out Oct 27th, 2026! Thanks to Our Sponsors Wayfair: Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less. Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. Grand Canyon University: Visit GCU.edu to learn more. Casper: Get 30% off your next mattress at Casper.com Shopify: Start your business today with the industry’s best business partner, Shopify. The Wonder Project: Subscriber support makes more great content like I Gotta Ask with Annie F. Downs possible. The Wonder Project subscription on Prime Video is available in the U.S. for $8.99/month or $89.99/year after a 7-day free trial.Visit tinyurl.com/HAHIGottaAsk to learn more! If you’d like to partner with Jeanine as a sponsor for the Happy & Healthy podcast, fill out our Advertise With Us form! Follow us on Instagram! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Jeanine and Kaleb Follow us on TikTok! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices