
Hosted by Jeanine Amapola · EN

If you've ever been nervous, resistant or even are currently dating a man younger than you, this one is for you. I share the full story of how I met Kaleb, the fears and expectations I had to surrender, and all the ways I truly believe God guided our relationship from the beginning. From prophetic words and dreams to wrestling with fear of what people would think, this episode is all about trusting God’s plan over your own checklist. I also talk about practical things to look for when dating someone younger, why character matters more than status, and how God completely changed my perspective on love, marriage, and expectations. If you’re single, dating, confused, or waiting on God in this season, I really hope this episode encourages you to trust that His plans are always better than ours. 💛 In This Episode 00:00 — Opening Up & Why I’m Sharing This Story 04:00 — Meeting Kaleb After a Breakup 08:00 — The First Date & Realizing He Was Different 12:00 — My Biggest Fear About Dating Someone Younger 16:00 — The Dream God Used to Change My Perspective 24:00 — Why Character Matters More Than Status 28:00 — Prophetic Words About My Future Husband 33:00 — The “Heart of David” Revelation 39:00 — Practical Advice for Dating Someone Younger 44:00 — Releasing Expectations & Trusting God’s Plan Mentioned Resources Heart of Dating Podcast Bible passages mentioned: 1 Samuel 16 1 Timothy 4 Thanks to Our Sponsors Casper: Get 30% off the mattress you deserve at casper.com Shopify: Learn more at Shopify.com Wayfair: Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less. Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. Grand Canyon University: Visit GCU.edu to learn more. If you’d like to partner with Jeanine as a sponsor for the Happy & Healthy podcast, fill out our Advertise With Us form! Follow us on Instagram! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Jeanine and Kaleb Follow us on TikTok! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You've graduated college, now what?! This is my best advice for post grad life and how to navigate the real world!!! HOPE THIS HELPS :) Buy my book Becoming Happy and Healthy <3 TONS more advice here for navigating your 20's and 30's God's way! If you’d like to partner with Jeanine as a sponsor for the Happy & Healthy podcast, fill out our Advertise With Us form! Follow us on Instagram! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Follow us on TikTok! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I’m getting super real and vulnerable with you guys about the things I often quietly struggle with behind the scenes as a Christian, wife, mom, and influencer. From insecurities and fear of man to mom guilt, marriage struggles, and feeling unqualified in my faith sometimes, I wanted to remind you that no one has it all together. Social media can make us believe everyone else is perfect, but the truth is—we’re all fighting battles. I share honestly about comparison, performative Christianity, balancing motherhood with work, and how God meets us even in our weakness. My prayer is that this episode helps you feel less alone and reminds you that vulnerability, testimony, and bringing things into the light are where true freedom begins. ORDER MY BOOK! This book is for the person looking for a practical guide on how to navigate life’s most common challenges. from lack of confidence and making difficult decisions to healing yourself from the inside and out and dating wiser, becoming healthy and healthy is your one stop shop to learning how to heal and thrive in life, God’s way. In This Episode 02:15 – Christians Don’t Have It All Together 04:15 – Fear of Man & Wanting People’s Approval 07:00 – Insecurities, Body Image & Social Media Comparison 12:05 – Struggling With Quiet Time & Faith as a Mom 17:00 – Mom Guilt, Career Pressure & Motherhood Balance 24:15 – Performative Christianity & Posting Faith Online 28:15 – Online Criticism, Hate & Finding Identity in Christ 35:00 – Marriage Expectations vs Reality Online 41:15 – Vulnerability, Testimony & Freedom Through Honesty 45:00 – Reading Your Real-Life Struggles & Encouragement 47:00 – Final Thoughts: Letting Go of Fear & Shame Thanks to Our Sponsors BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com/HAPPYHEALTHY Shopify: Learn more at Shopify.com Wayfair: Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less. Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. Grand Canyon University: Visit GCU.edu to learn more. Ritual: Get 40% off your first month at ritual.com/healthy If you’d like to partner with Jeanine as a sponsor for the Happy & Healthy podcast, fill out our Advertise With Us form! Follow us on Instagram! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Jeanine and Kaleb Follow us on TikTok! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is just me, Kaleb, answering your questions in the middle of one of the busiest seasons I’ve ever been in—finals week, being away from my wife and son, and feeling stretched in every direction. I talk honestly about how much I’ve grown through law school, how I used to believe lies about myself, and how that’s completely changed. I open up about what it’s like stepping into Jeanine’s world, dealing with social media, criticism, and learning how to stay grounded in who I actually am. I also share what I do for work, and why I believe you can turn your passions into a career if you’re willing to step out of your comfort zone. At the end of the day, this episode is really just me being honest about where I’m at, what I’m learning, and hopefully encouraging you to go after the things you feel called to—even if you don’t feel ready. In this Episode 05:30 – Marrying into Jeanine’s platform & staying true to myself10:00 – What I actually do for work (social media explained)13:00 – Rant: why people misunderstand content creators19:15 – My future: law, business & big dreams23:30 – Summer plans & launching my consulting company24:30 – How much money lawyers really make27:00 – Routine, time management & staying connected in marriage28:50 – Confidence, growth & doing hard things33:00 – Comparison & imposter syndrome37:30 – Faith, loneliness & depending on God49:30 – Future plans, handling hate & final encouragement Thanks to Our Sponsors BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com/HAPPYHEALTHY Shopify: Learn more at Shopify.com Wayfair: Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less. Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. Grand Canyon University: Visit GCU.edu to learn more. If you’d like to partner with Jeanine as a sponsor for the Happy & Healthy podcast, fill out our Advertise With Us form! Follow us on Instagram! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Jeanine and Kaleb Follow us on TikTok! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Decision making is something we all have to face. But how do we make wise ones? I’ll give my best biblical tips! Hope this helps! Buy my book Becoming Happy and Healthy <3 If you’d like to partner with Jeanine as a sponsor for the Happy & Healthy podcast, fill out our Advertise With Us form! Follow us on Instagram! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Jeanine and Kaleb Follow us on TikTok! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we’re sharing the full story behind "pool-gate" Maybe the most controversial decision we've posted about in a LONG time. While it might have seemed unexpected, it really came down to thinking through safety, costs, and what makes the most sense for our family right now. We walk through how we processed that decision together, the conversations we had, and why we ultimately felt peace moving forward—even though not everyone agreed. It also led into a bigger conversation about how to make wise choices in marriage, especially when there are a lot of outside opinions coming in. We also touch on what it’s like sharing your life online and navigating both encouragement and criticism, and why it’s so important to lead with grace instead of quick judgment. We talk a little about Justin Bieber and the conversations around his Coachella performance, and how easy it is to form opinions without really knowing someone’s heart. And of course, we mix in some lighter moments—sharing embarrassing audition stories and talking about overcoming fears like public speaking. Overall, it’s a real, honest conversation about making decisions you feel confident in, even when they don’t make sense to everyone else. In This Episode 01:00 – Life Update: Law School, Marriage & Duke Turning One03:00 – The Pool Problem: Stress, Cost & Safety Fears07:00 – The 3AM Decision That Changed Everything09:00 – Why This Sparked So Much Internet Backlash11:00 – The Real Math: Finances, Liability & Long-Term Thinking13:00 – Marriage Wisdom: Making Hard Decisions Together17:00 – Dealing With Hate, Opinions & Online Judgment23:30 – Closing the Chapter on the Pool (Final Thoughts)25:00 – Justin Bieber, Faith & Coachella Debate30:00 – Public Speaking Fears & Embarrassing Stories40:00 – Audition Fails, Rejection & Overcoming Fear There is a giveaway for those who see this or stayed to the end of the episode!! Share my podcast on your Instagram stories encouraging people to check out the podcast, tag me and @ happyandhealthypodcast instagram, and I'll pick a winner in 2 weeks :) You will win my book and a piece of merch!! yay! Thanks to Our Sponsors Wayfair: Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less. Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. NIV Application Bible: You can save an extra 10% on any NIV Application Bible or NIV Application Commentary resource by visiting faithgateway.com/NIVAB and using code HEALTHY at checkout. Grand Canyon University: Visit GCU.edu to learn more. Casper: Get 30% off the mattress you deserve at casper.com If you’d like to partner with Jeanine as a sponsor for the Happy & Healthy podcast, fill out our Advertise With Us form! Follow us on Instagram! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Jeanine and Kaleb Follow us on TikTok! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to faith Fridays! Today's episode gets into it.... Should you date and be friends with non-christians? I am going to give you what the Bible says and the dangers of not following God's best for us! I hope this episode encourages you and challenges you! Buy my book Becoming Happy and Healthy <3 If you’d like to partner with Jeanine as a sponsor for the Happy & Healthy podcast, fill out our Advertise With Us form! Follow us on Instagram! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Jeanine and Kaleb Follow us on TikTok! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is me answering some of your most real-life girlhood questions 👀 From “Am I being a naggy wife?” to “Where’s the line between dressing cute vs. sexy?” to “How do I know if I’ve actually forgiven someone who hurt me?”. We’re talking marriage struggles, identity crises in your 20s, toxic in-laws, college drinking, and learning how to actually stand firm in your faith when it’s hard. Basically: your questions, my honest answers, and a whole lot of Jesus in the middle of it 💛 In This Episode 03:00 – Nagging in Marriage 11:30 – Pregnancy Fears 15:45 – Finding Yourself in Your 20s 21:00 – Dressing Feminine vs Sexy 27:00 – Forgiveness 29:45 – Marriage Advice 31:45 – In-Laws & Boundaries 37:00 – College & Drinking 47:00 – Final Encouragement There is a giveaway for those who see this or stayed to the end of the episode!! Share my podcast on your Instagram stories encouraging people to check out the podcast, tag me and @ happyandhealthypodcast instagram, and I'll pick a winner in 2 weeks :) You will win my book and a piece of merch!! yay! Thanks to Our Sponsors Wayfair: Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less. Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. NIV Application Bible: You can save an extra 10% on any NIV Application Bible or NIV Application Commentary resource by visiting faithgateway.com/NIVAB and using code HEALTHY at checkout. Grand Canyon University: Visit GCU.edu to learn more. If you’d like to partner with Jeanine as a sponsor for the Happy & Healthy podcast, fill out our Advertise With Us form! Follow us on Instagram! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Jeanine and Kaleb Follow us on TikTok! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kaleb and I basically turned the podcast into a full-on debate stage! We’re going head-to-head on some pretty spicy takes — from whether sports betting is actually “investing” (??), to if sports are lowkey an idol, to the most RANDOM arguments like dogs wearing shoes and cats being wild animals 😭 But underneath all the laughs and roasting each other, we actually get into some deeper conversations about balance, addiction, priorities, and what really matters in life and relationships. We talk about how anything — even good things — can become unhealthy if we’re not careful. And yes… you guys are voting on who wins each debate 👀 In This Episode 02:00 – Explaining the Rules 06:16 – Sports Betting as an Investment 08:00 – Gambling & Addiction Concerns 09:30 – Budgeting & Entertainment Debate 15:15 – Are Sports a Waste of Time? 18:40 – Do Sports Build Community? 27:05 – Movie Tangent & Oppenheimer Story 29:54 – Dogs Should Wear Shoes 32:45 – Cleanliness & Discipline 39:00 – Cats vs Dogs Debate 44:30 – Why Everyone Should Travel Thanks to Our Sponsors BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/HAPPYHEALTHY and get on your way to being your best self. Wayfair: Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less. Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. NIV Application Bible: You can save an extra 10% on any NIV Application Bible or NIV Application Commentary resource by visiting faithgateway.com/NIVAB and using code HEALTHY at checkout. Ritual: Visit Ritual.com/healthy to Get 40% off your first month. Grand Canyon University: Visit GCU.edu to learn more. If you’d like to partner with Jeanine as a sponsor for the Happy & Healthy podcast, fill out our Advertise With Us form! Follow us on Instagram! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Jeanine and Kaleb Follow us on TikTok! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

faith Friday <3 we're talking about what to do when faith feels like a chore, you feel too busy for God and just feel far... I hope this helps you and encourages you! We read Luke 10, Mathew 6, and John 12. See you next week! Buy my book Becoming Happy and Healthy <3 If you’d like to partner with Jeanine as a sponsor for the Happy & Healthy podcast, fill out our Advertise With Us form! Follow us on Instagram! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Jeanine and Kaleb Follow us on TikTok! Happy and Healthy Jeanine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices