Happy Wife Happy Life - Episode 61: "SHOULD You Be Fighting With Your Partner?"
Hosts: Kendahl Landreth & Jordan Myrick
Release Date: April 28, 2025
1. Welcome to the New Studio
Kendahl Landreth and Jordan Myrick kick off Episode 61 by expressing their excitement about recording from a new studio. The enhanced setup includes projecting the lesbian flag colors on the wall and featuring their logo, which they describe as “really incredible” and “something you've never seen before” (01:21). This new environment fosters a more professional atmosphere, adding a fresh dynamic to their discussions.
2. Personal Anecdotes and Updates
The hosts delve into personal stories, starting with Kendall’s recent horseback riding lesson. She shares her exhilarating experience with Montana, the horse, highlighting the emotional and physical joy it brought her:
“I was trotting with Montana and what? I came home and I was happier than I'VE ever been.”
— Kendall Landrelth 02:02
Jordan humorously contrasts this expensive hobby with his own preferences, emphasizing Kendall’s newfound passion and his apprehension about her potentially wanting to buy a horse (02:31).
3. Common Sources of Conflict
The core of the episode revolves around typical disagreements partners face. Kendall and Jordan candidly discuss their recurring arguments, providing relatable insights for listeners.
a. Eating Leftovers
A significant point of contention is their differing attitudes toward leftovers. Jordan humorously admits:
“I will say confidently, Kendall's wrong and I'm right.”
— Jordan Myrick 10:39
Kendall explains her germaphobic tendencies and discomfort with consuming leftovers, leading to friction when Jordan prefers to meal prep while she opts out:
“I feel like I do have the capability to. But I think it would be really easy.”
— Kendall Landrelth 13:43
This disagreement underscores the balance between practicality and personal comfort in household routines.
b. Morning Alarms and Sleep Issues
Their differing sleep habits also spark debates. Kendall’s struggle with early alarms contrasts with Jordan’s preference for a more relaxed wake-up routine:
“Every time you've ever done that, it goes off at 6am it wakes me up. I'm awake.”
— Jordan Myrick 24:14
Kendall acknowledges the difficulty in adjusting her sleeping patterns, highlighting the challenges of synchronizing daily routines in a relationship.
c. Sun Protection and Health Concerns
With Kendall's lupus and heightened sensitivity to sunlight, discussions about sun protection become a frequent topic:
“You wear a little bit of sunscreen on the front of your face.”
— Jordan Myrick 19:05
Their debates on appropriate sun protection measures reflect deeper concerns about health and well-being within the relationship.
4. Listener Questions and Relationship Advice
The episode shifts focus to addressing listener-submitted questions about fighting in relationships, providing practical advice based on the hosts' experiences.
a. Is It Bad If You Never Argue?
The most common question posed is whether a relationship devoid of arguments is problematic. Jordan emphatically responds:
“Yes, it is. It's bad. One of you is keeping something in.”
— Jordan Myrick 32:27
Kendall adds that in their relationship, arguing is essential due to their passionate personalities:
“We are very passionate people. We always have the most intense emotions about it.”
— Kendall Landrelth 33:26
This discussion emphasizes the importance of communication and emotional expression in maintaining a healthy partnership.
b. Gender Differences in Fighting Styles
Addressing whether genders fight differently, the hosts share their observations:
“Men do like to do this thing where they get very internal in a way that feels kind of embarrassing to me.”
— Jordan Myrick 40:38
Kendall reflects on societal expectations placed on women versus men, noting how these pressures influence their respective approaches to conflict.
c. Don't Go to Bed Angry
The hosts debate the common advice of not going to bed angry. Jordan advocates for resolving conflicts promptly:
“I don't believe in going to bed angry because I think it's pointless.”
— Jordan Myrick 46:15
Kendall shares her tendency to cool off and revisit the issue later, acknowledging both the benefits and drawbacks of this approach:
“I do not think going to bed angry is a good thing, but I do think we've...”
— Kendall Landrelth 46:59
5. Navigating Conflict Resolution
Kendall and Jordan outline their personalized methods for resolving disagreements, emphasizing mutual respect and understanding.
Kendall describes strategies inspired by her therapist, such as taking a walk to cool down while assuring her partner of her intention to resolve the issue:
“I just want you to know I very much value this conversation, and I'm looking forward to finishing it in a couple minutes.”
— Kendall Landrelth 26:06
Jordan highlights the importance of not taking battles personally and striving for resolutions without prolonging arguments:
“Let your partner go on the walk... make a plan before you're arguing.”
— Jordan Myrick 50:12
Their collaborative approach underscores the significance of tailored conflict resolution techniques that respect each partner's emotional needs.
6. Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Wrapping up the episode, the hosts reiterate the value of engaging in constructive arguments as a means of growth and understanding within a relationship. They encourage listeners to embrace their unique dynamics and seek balance in their interactions.
Kendall expresses gratitude for their supportive partnership:
“We have such a balance because I think we are two ends of the spectrum.”
— Kendall Landrelth 35:35
Jordan emphasizes the importance of holding each other to high standards while maintaining mutual respect:
“Hold yourself to a high standard. Hold your partner to a high standard, but for both of you.”
— Jordan Myrick 36:53
Notable Quotes
- Jordan Myrick [10:39]: “I will say confidently, Kendall's wrong and I'm right.”
- Kendall Landrelth [02:02]: “I was trotting with Montana and what? I came home and I was happier than I'VE ever been.”
- Jordan Myrick [32:27]: “Yes, it is. It's bad. One of you is keeping something in.”
- Jordan Myrick [46:15]: “I don't believe in going to bed angry because I think it's pointless.”
- Kendall Landrelth [35:35]: “We have such a balance because I think we are two ends of the spectrum.”
Final Remarks
Kendall and Jordan conclude the episode by inviting listeners to engage with them on social media and subscribe to their Patreon for additional content. They express enthusiasm for their new studio and the continued journey of exploring relationship dynamics through their unfiltered and heartfelt conversations.
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